biggish data

I would suggest the fastest thing is to answer the RFE with a request to cancel your application due to not meeting within two years. I am not sure if you have to wait for a reply or whether you can immediately (after meeting) send in your new application. Please copy your above post, click on NEW TOPIC button below, and paste in what you wrote and post that new thread. Others will give you advice. Not many people read this long RFE Master List topic. Good luck!

ELW

Female

India

2009-04-21 22:56:00

QUOTE (chibihorsewoman @ Apr 25 2009, 12:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Hey I'm new to the site. My fiance is Canadian and in college right now and I'm an American citizen. He's heard some things from his mom's friend who used to live in the states before moving back up to Canada. But I'm still confused for most part on the forms and the whole deal with him not being able to even visit Canada for a year (I live in a boarder state at the most 1.5hrs from the Canadian boarder) what exactly are the rules and regulations to everything?

This flo chart will give you a general idea on how the process works. Once you petition your Canadian fiance he can still visit but will likely need to bring ties to prove he will be going back to Canada. You will want to visit the Canadian regional forums here on VJ to learn from other CAN/US couples. Because the K-1 is a one time entrance visa, after he is here on his K-1 visa he will need to marry you within 90 days and then wait for AP (filed with AOS after marriage) before travelling outside of the US again. The problem is that he will not have a valid visa to return to the US without AP or green card. It's a matter of months at best.

KimandRuss

Female

New Zealand

2009-05-25 11:56:00

Uh oh...
for my DS230, in the employment section, they ask for jobs had in the past 10 years. I have my main part time job, for 3 years but I have two jobs that I have had for about 6-8 years that I have at the same time. I work full time and then I have a parttime job and I freelance.

SO, for my job stuff, the ten years is covered but there are 3 'presents' listed. AS I do have three jobs going at the same time.

is this going to be a problem?

lgg

Not Telling

Canada

2009-07-29 14:07:00

Actually, what I just did was write an addendum to question 32, explaining that I have 2 part time jobs as well as a full time job. at least this way they'll know, right?

LGG

lgg

Not Telling

Canada

2009-07-29 14:24:00

great thread, members can get infos. ideas on this thread... who had an rfe...

but thanked God no rfe on us... but not completely done with the process hope God will guide us on this visa process....

marklovetina

Female

Philippines

2009-09-26 05:38:00

The Intent to Marry document is required. Please immediately get it ready NOW (one you write and one your fiance writes) because it is very possible you will get an RFE for that. If you have it ready, you can return it immediately when you get the RFE. Good luck!

ELW

Female

India

2009-10-06 23:12:00

I sent the original they sent and I kept a copy for myself. They instruct us to send back that page so I did!

ELW

Female

India

2009-11-10 09:16:00

I put my photos in envelopes (not sealed) rather than plastic bags.. could I get an RFE for that?

don't worry, it doesn't matter. BTW RFE means Request for Further Evidence.

dakay ?

Female

Colombia

2010-11-21 14:50:00

The short form birth certificate is the wallet sized one that lists name, place of birth, other basic details.

The long form birth certificate includes the names of parents and their birthplace as well.

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2010-12-29 18:42:00

Just thought i'd share:

I was fully expecting an RFE as we:

didnt send in passport sized photos,
didnt write/sign/send intents to marry,
got my father's birth place wrong,
all we sent for proof of meeting was photos, no boarding passes/passport stamps etc

just got my NOA2 today, no RFE.

California Service Centre

Wow, maybe this is why CSC is moving so quickly! :lol:

They aren't even reviewing petitions!

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2011-01-21 23:29:00

I got an RFE and I tell you these form letters are a bit confusing. Do they all start out with the comment about "If the petitioner is, My Name, was born in the U.S. and will be submitting a birth certificate as proof of US citizenship, such must be a civilly registered long-form certificate". I'm wondering if they are questioning my birth certificate here. I sent a copy of the only birth certificate you can currently get in my state. You used to get them at the county level, but now the state handles them all.

Intent to Marry:
We sent one from both of us signed and dated. But either they lost them of didn't like them.

Requirement That Petitioner and Beneficiary have met in person:
Under this are multiple parts
- Circumstances of Meeting
- Last Personal Meeting

Does this mean they want a letter of how we originally met?
And more evidence to prove out meeting within the last two years?

Personally it looks like they just copy and pasted from forms. But its not all that clear to me what they want. Is it the bold and capitalized parts? A little help from those who have gone through this could help a lot.

Thanks

Caryh

Male

Philippines

2011-06-12 20:29:00

I'm new on this site but so glad I have found it, it was so helpful to start that long process ! Now the waiting game is on for at least 5 months according to the USCIS Vermont Center ! I thought being a Canadian citizen would help to ease the process but it seems not !

Nope, doesn't help at all. We tend to take advantage of the relationship we Canadians have with the US, but when it comes to immigration, we wait the same as everyone else.

Good luck with your process.

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2012-02-04 21:11:00

No, don't take it From them, let then do it. The lawyers know d best.

While it would be wonderful is this statement were always true, sadly, it isn't. VJ is full of people who have been delayed by lawyers not knowing the procedures.

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2012-03-20 10:12:00

Immigration Attorney did not know the difference form divorce agreement and decree. and submitted to USCIS.

Edited by bigdog, 02 April 2012 - 07:19 PM.

bigdog

Male

China

2012-04-02 19:19:00

hello ladies
we got rfe too regarding personal meeting 2 years prior to petition

is writing a waiver effective???

Have you, or have you not met in person in the last two years? If you have not, you will be denied.

A waiver is only effective if you have solid proof that meeting in person is absolutely impossible. It's very rare to say the least.

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2012-05-07 11:32:00

*If you read the profile of 'ronzkie', they have a LONG history & a child*

Then why ask about the waiver? :blink:

Penny Lane

Female

Canada

2012-05-07 14:33:00

Oh wait, you're talking about putting down more than one job? I had two jobs last year, so my employment part on the 325a does show that I had both at the same time. I just quit the main job (to look for better employment in my field) and am only working the second job. So it reflects that I only have one at the moment, but would it be a problem that I did have two at the same time?

You are responding to a posting from over seven (7) years ago?..???

A&B

Male

China

2013-08-05 12:16:00

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Ontarkie

Female

Canada

2014-03-13 15:41:00

from the guides as well...

no name

Male

2007-05-10 16:51:00

My visits have gone like this:

Adam lives in Derby, England. I, Michele, live in Detroit MI. We filed our I-129F April 12, 2007.

November 3, 2006 - November 13, 2006:
Adam visits me for the first time. He entered at the Detroit Metropolitan Airport, and was asked simply his reason for visit (visit a friend), where he was staying (hotel), length of visit (ten days), and to see his itinerary showing his flight back home. No proof of ties to England requested. Welcome to America.

January 3, 2007 - January 22, 2007
Adam visits for second time, entering again at Detroit, MI. Asked same questions, answered 'reason for visit' this time as 'to be with my girlfriend' and was told he can't marry me while he's here, that would be a violation. Adam assures officer he won't. Asked how he could afford to visit again so soon, replied 'using student loan money'. No proof of ties to England requested. Welcome to America.

February 13, 2007 - February 20, 2007.
Michele goes to England. Depart Detroit, arrive at Gatwick, UK. Asked reason for visit (visit boyfriend), length of visit (one week), and where I'd be staying (hotel). I too was told sternly I couldn't marry Adam while I was there. Promised I wouldn't. No proof of anything requested. Welcome to England!

February 21, 2007 - Current (Adam will leave May 20, 2007)
Adam arrives at Detroit MI. Was asked usual 'reason for visit, length of visit' questions. Answered 'to see girlfriend, 3 months'. Was asked about his employment and housing in England, answered that he left his job but it was being held for when he gets back, and that he lives with his mother. Officer apparently thinks something fishy, converses with several other officers, Adam ends up in 'interview room'. Was asked same questions, answered same truthfully. Was asked to describe Michele, how we met, what Michele does for a living. Customs calls Michele at work and asks if Michele knows Adam, what is relationship to him, etc. Answered yes, he's my boyfriend. Call ends. Luggage searched, and laptop plugged in to read emails we've sent back and forth. Officers satisifed we knew each other. Passport stamped, approved for full three month visit. Was advised again not to get married while here (yeah, we know!) Side note, as Adam was leaving, one guard asked the other "so that guy is okay?" Other guard answers, "yeah, he's just in love." No "proof" of ties was requested. Questions were asked, but no paper produced. Welcome to America.

THanks Michelle

JODO

Not Telling

2007-05-10 17:26:00

A friend of mine successfully visited her fiance in California last month. She had no problems. (She's waiting for her NOA2).
But to CYA she brought proof that she is in medical school in Brazil among other documents she said.

bora bora

Female

Brazil

2007-05-10 19:45:00

from the guides as well...

The guides here are great, BUT they don't give personal experiences, which is what I believe the OP was striving for in creating this thread. I, for one, think its a great idea! :thumbs:

*julez*

Female

England

2007-05-10 20:11:00

Went to the states recently and didn't have a problem either.
Was just asked why I was coming to the states. My answer: "I'm going to my boyfriend's brother's fiance's bachelorette in philadelphia, and from there, my boyfriend picking me up and spending the week in virginia with him."

Easy Breezy.

I did take proof though just in case.

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-05-11 15:39:00

Great thread and input Michele but...

I am very concerned with what officers had told you on two occasions. DO NOT GET MARRIED THERE. IT IS A VIOLATION.

I recently started a new thread here and was advised by many members here that is perfectly ok and legal to get married in the US as long as the person leaves afterwards, and then files for a K-3. I know the officers are concerned that people get married, hang around and then adjust status.

I would love to get something in writing that tell me a visitor to the US can marry as long as they LEAVE the US after the marriage.

I would like to hear opinons and mostly REAL experiences from folks here on VJ.

thanks.

was told he can't marry me while he's here, that would be a violation. Adam assures officer he won't.

Was advised again not to get married while here (yeah, we know!)

I personally don't believe that Michele and Adam's experience wasn't real! Why make stuff up? Sheesh!

Edited by julezabelle, 11 May 2007 - 10:27 PM.

*julez*

Female

England

2007-05-11 22:24:00

Well, all I can tell you is that is what was told to Adam each time he visited and said he was visiting his girlfriend (and also what I was told when I went to England). I can't really speak to why the officer would lie to us, if they did. I'm sure the intention of the warning was to not marry and try to stay, but that was not expressely said to either of us.

Here's the info straight from the customer guide from the USCIS web site, "I am a US Citizen, how do I...help my fiance(e) become a permanent resident?" http://www.uscis.gov.../article/A2.pdf

"What if my fiancé(e) uses a different kind of visa, or
enters as a visitor without visa, to come here so we
can get married?"

There could be serious consequences. Attempting to get a visa or
enter the U.S. by saying one thing when you intend another may
be considered immigration fraud, for which there are severe
penalties. Those penalties include restricting a person’s ability to
get immigration benefits, including permanent residence, as well as
a possible fine of up to $10,000 and imprisonment of up to five
years. It is not appropriate for your fiancé(e) to enter the U.S. as
a visitor with the intent to marry you and remain to try to become
a permanent resident. It is appropriate, however, to enter as a
visitor to have the wedding in the U.S. and then return to a foreign
residence for further processing for U.S. immigration as a spouse.
You should come prepared with proof of your clear intentions in
this regard.

So yes, it certainly appears that you are allowed to get married while you're here as long as you do leave, but you'd in effect be abandoning your K-1 application to start a K-3, right? (well, assuming you're not yet married and doing the K-1 route...)

Again, I am just reporting what our experiences were, I can't tell you why we were told that. Wish I could!

Thanks so much for your detailed response. I really appreciate the USCIS quote above. It make me feel much better about my plan being all legitimate. You are right about abonding the K1 and going the K3 route. I decided to do this so i can have a religious wedding in Canada in October and not have to worry about it confliting with the K1 process (just playing it safe at the expense of an extra month wait).

Cheers!

Great thread and input Michele but...

I am very concerned with what officers had told you on two occasions. DO NOT GET MARRIED THERE. IT IS A VIOLATION.

I recently started a new thread here and was advised by many members here that is perfectly ok and legal to get married in the US as long as the person leaves afterwards, and then files for a K-3. I know the officers are concerned that people get married, hang around and then adjust status.

I would love to get something in writing that tell me a visitor to the US can marry as long as they LEAVE the US after the marriage.

I would like to hear opinons and mostly REAL experiences from folks here on VJ.

thanks.

was told he can't marry me while he's here, that would be a violation. Adam assures officer he won't.

Was advised again not to get married while here (yeah, we know!)

I personally don't believe that Michele and Adam's experience wasn't real! Why make stuff up? Sheesh!

Huh? Who said anything about making stuff up?

Sorry if I misintepreted you! Above you stated that you wanted to hear about *REAL* experiences, which made gave me the impression that you doubted the POE experience quoted above. I do apologize. I think with all the bashing that has been taking place on VJ in recent weeks, I'm just a bit sensitive!

*julez*

Female

England

2007-05-15 08:37:00

I have a crazy idea for you. You go to Canada first and then get a round trip ticket to the US. Since you clear US customs on the Canadian border, you do not have to deal with flying back if turned down. You go back to a hotel room in Canada and have your fiance fly up for a few days.

On the bright side, you might get in otherwise you still get to see him in Canada and then fly back with your regular return ticket to Germany.

i know the planning is bit more complicated but just wanted to mention the thought.

Yeah that is an idea,but also involves alot of money,but thank you for bringing it up. I really think I will just wait,I am currently waiting for NOA2 and I am guessing right now that I should be back like September or October.

Besides, coming through via Canada seems to put you under greater scrutiny. They wonder why you don't come in directly to the US from your own country! Last summer, my fiance (then boyfriend) flew in to Toronto and we drove via the Peace Bridge to Buffalo, where I live. At the Peace Bridge, we were grilled terribly, and lied to by the border agent! He tried to tell us that the VWP allows people from foreign coutries that participate to come into the US for a total of 90 days in a 12 month period. Thank God I was well versed on the law, cos once I challenged (politely) what he said, he backed off and issued the I94 - otherwise we might have had a different outcome! He'll never fly in via Toronto again (despite the huge $ savings and time savings on the flight). Seems like the agents have the Peace Bridge have lots of time to hassel potential visitors to the US!

*julez*

Female

England

2007-05-15 08:49:00

Went last week again for my SO's brother's wedding..

Took my whole file with me and it was a good thing I did...
The first agent (immigration agent) asked if I had applied for a K1 visa and then showed him the NOA1.. Also asked when I planned to move to the States and get married and I told the Officer that I had no plans yet because we're not sure when our visa will get approved. I did have to show him my return ticket and all that jazz..

He stamped my bus ticket - who knows why cuz you just end up giving that ticket to greyhound on the trip back! (I took the greyhound to buffalo and flew from there) and I asked him if he wanted to stamp my passport too.. "Do you want me to stamp your passport?" , "naw, it's alright"

The second (customs agent) saw my engagement and asked me again about the visa.. he then looked through my luggage, x-rayed the wedding gift I had packed and sent me on my way.. It was a bit longer than usual but not too bad b/c I had all my documents.

They weren't rude or anything though.. just thorough.

Edited by liz_legend, 22 May 2007 - 05:48 PM.

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-05-22 17:44:00

I don't think the frequent visits go against you but a two month visit has got to be well documented that you're going back... Just see him being given a hard time at customs but should work out fine if he's well loaded with paper =)

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-05-22 23:47:00

Do you think so many visits is a bad thing? On one hand, they seemed to be concerned the past two times how he could afford to come so much and stay so long, etc. On the other hand, that's three times now that he came and left exactly when he said he would, and within the allotted amount of time on the visa.

Hmm...

We're just trying to decide if we should chance a two month visit around August, and that's the main thing we're concerned about. That'll be around six months he'll have stayed in the US in about 11 months.
The part about 6 months in the US over 11 months could be a problem. My last visit was my second 2-month visit in 6 months. The customs officer totalled up the time I'd been and would be in the US within the year including that trip (1 week + 8 weeks + 8 weeks = 17 weeks), and he said that it was almost like being a resident of the US, or something like that. When I said that I was planning to attend a conference in the US in July and extend that trip beyond the conference, he advised me to keep it to 2-3 weeks.

I don't think the number of visits is a problem. Canadians living near the border sometimes go back and forth a lot. But in my case at least, they did look at the amount of time I was spending in the US.

A shorter visit might be safer in terms of getting into the US. But I'm going only on my experience.

Good luck, whatever you decide.

My fiance arrived in the US on 17 May from the UK. This is his 3rd long visit since last July. Last July he was given a hard time coming in through Canada, but was eventually allowed in. He stayed from 9 July through 30 Sept. Flew in the next time to Philly and stayed from 22 Nov through 10 Feb. No questions asked. When he flew into Philly last Thursday he was taken into secondary and grilled for a very long time. The big issue is not that they think he is going to stay (he's always left before the 90 VWP allowance) but they believe that by visiting here so frequently that is actually constitutes his living here. They didn't even look at his evidence. The agent advised him to get a tourist visa if he plans to come again as next time he might not be so lucky to be granted entry to the US on the VWP. **Please note we have not yet filed our I129F**

So, who knows, you can keep tempting fate, just be prepared that it might not have a positive outcome! We're filing the I129F while he's here and plan for this to be his last visit until the K1 is issued. Sigh.

Anyway, good luck to all during these trying times!!!

*julez*

Female

England

2007-05-23 08:17:00

oh my god.

speechless.

Posted Image

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-05-25 17:47:00

I went through the Buffalo Peace Bridge & Lester B Pearson Airport (YYZ) in Toronto

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-06-10 14:03:00

For instance, it never occurred to Adam or I that Border Patrol would question whether Adam actually knew the person he was claiming to be coming here to see. So, from that experience, I'm going to give Adam a short letter from me w/ photo of us together attached to show to customs saying yes, Adam is my fiance, I know him!
Good idea. Has anyone done it? I'd be interested in reading experiences.

To expand on that idea, I'm wondering if I should ask my fiance to write a letter stating that we are engaged, that I'll be staying with him, and that we plan to get married after our K-1 is approved and only then. Would having the USC put that in writing help show that we aren't trying to do anything illegal?

I'm concerned because as a self-employed person, I can't get a letter from an employer, and because I live in a suite in a house, I don't have a lease or a mortgage. I'll bring a letter from my landlady for my next trip (for 3 weeks in July), and I'll bring all the K-1 paperwork I have so far. I did get through with this evidence in March, but barely, and I need as much as I can to help. The next border guard might be less understanding.

This next trip is actually a sort of business trip that a company is paying for (which I extended into a 3-week trip because my fiance doesn't live far from where I'm going), so I have to get into the US for them as well as for myself. (And no, the timing of this trip can't be changed.)

So all these replies kind of begs the question.... What were the Points of Entry that everyone went through?
When I went to the US in March, the POE was the Blaine border crossing near Vancouver, Canada. So much for the theory that land crossings are easier than airport POEs, at least for me. This time, I'll be flying out of Vancouver.

Thanks everyone for sharing your stories. If those who were planning trips to the US earlier in this thread could post about their experiences if they've entered the US by now, those stories would be useful for the rest of us.

For the business aspect of your trip, I'd suggest that you try to get the company funding the trip to write a letter on your behalf, detailing the trip. Then you could just tell them that you're adding on a bit of holiday for yourself.

I agree with you completely that the land borders from Canada into the US are really tough. My fiance had a rough go at the Peace Bridge last July, and when we popped over to Niagara on the Lake last week for a spot of lunch we were hassled at the Queenston-Lewiston bridge, despite the fact that he had a vaild I94 in his passport. They keep accusing him of living here! We've made the decision to make no more trips to Canada until after we're married and he has his greencard!

Good luck with your trip! Hopefully, since you're flying in, it won't be as difficult.

*julez*

Female

England

2007-06-22 08:54:00

Just when I thought I had everything covered I discover this thread and there goes my heart sinking again!

My fiance and I are just about to file for our K-1, in order to beat the July 30th deadline.

I also plan to visit him during August for about a month. I have just resigned from a permanent job and given up my home so that I can move in with my Mum and save some money whilst the K-1 is processing. As a teacher, I am signing up for supply work when I return from my trip to the US.

As a result, I now do not have a lease agreement on a home or a permanent job as proof of ties to the UK. I really don't want to be denied entry to the US. I am simply visiting my fiance for a holiday and will have only *just* filed for the K-1. Does anyone have any advice on what I can do under these circumstances to prevent being denied on POE?

Get a letter from your enw job saying you will return to work on XX/XX/XXXX. Printout bank statements. Bring your K1 NOA if you have it. Good luck.

no name

Male

2007-07-05 21:01:00

I think her problem is that she doesn't have a job now as she has just resigned her position. She hopes to get some work when she gets back from visiting her fiance in August.

Like Devilette, I suggest bank statements, but I'd also suggest credit card bills and a letter from your mother, saying that you are living with her and will be returning to the UK after your August visit. Make sure you put in dates aswell.

Your fiance will have the NOA1, so it might not be possible to get it over to you in time for your trip. So, have the case number handy incase they ask for it (probably won't happen, but it's a good idea to be safe).

Edited by mags, 05 July 2007 - 09:09 PM.

Mags

Female

United Kingdom

2007-07-05 21:08:00

Carl,

Thank you for posting this. So many people think that 'ties to the home country' is the quintessential requirement for entering the USA as a visitor. They overlook completely the equally important issue that is illustrated by the typical POE interview you report - why are you here and how long will you be staying.

'Show me your evidence of ties to home' is never among the first questions asked of a visitor, which should tell people something. If the questioning reaches the point of wanting to see evidence of ties, it's already too late - the immigration officer has already made up his mind and is just covering all the bases.

People need to concentrate more on the questions that they are going to be asked, and should plan to have a purpose for their visit which, having accomplished, they have no reason to remain in the USA. And a planned duration of stay that is consistent with the stated purpose.

Yodrak

Hi, just registered so I could relay my recent experience. Myself and my Fiancée are awaiting our NAO2 but I decided to risk a trip across to visit her. I flew out on the 2nd July from Manchester to Philadelphia and after reading this thread was quite hopeful of getting into the country, even so I took an envelope full of evidence with me just in case. I needn't have worried. The agent only asked me the following 3 questions;

1. The purpose of my visit? Business or pleasure.................pleasure.
2. Who I would be staying with in the USA?...................My Fiancée.
3. How long would I be staying for?....................A week.

The only other words he said where............"Have a nice trip"

I must admit I was prepared for a much tougher grilling but the guy and the one in the next line where great, they were laughing and joking with everybody waiting, even leaving their booths to share a joke.

I hope this helps ease the worries of anybody else thinking of taking a trip!

Carl

Yodrak

Not Telling

2007-07-09 14:02:00

same as usual..
just show ties.

L_n_O

Female

Canada

2007-07-09 15:39:00

QUOTE (toshtishtash @ Aug 29 2007, 08:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Just been reading through this thread again, it is extremely helpful. Thanks everyone for sharing their experiences

I am flying into Washington DC (Dulles) on September 13th for a week. Has anyone had any experiences of flying here whilst the K1 is pending?

I have a letter from my employer, it also states on there that where I work is my permenant address and I pay weekly rent etc etc... Should I get my fiance to write a letter too do you think? Saying that I am going to be staying with him and what dates to and from? And I should probably print out some bank statements showing that I have regular money going into my account too huh? And I will have my return flight details.

I dont have a copy of the I-129F package as Chris has all of that in America! Should I ask him to send me a copy of the NOA1 or could I just print off the case status online?

I have never had any problems flying in before, but I haven't actually flown since we filed the K1... Before I used to say that I was visiting my Dad and some friends etc... Will this matter?

Am getting worried! Probably shouldn't be.... But I can't help it!

Thanks again!

I think you'll be fine. You could now say that you are visiting your fiance and your Dad. AS long as you haven't been spending lots of time in the US you shouldn't have any difficulty whatsoever.

Good luck!! (And, of course, have a wonderful trip!!)

*julez*

Female

England

2007-08-29 08:48:00

QUOTE (toshtishtash @ Aug 29 2007, 11:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Thank you.

I haven't spent an awful lot of time over there this year

Just a week over New Year and a week in April. Sooo not enough. Last year was a different story though, I think I spent a total of just over 6 months there. But I don't think that will come into it though.. Hope not anyway.

They have let me through with no problems everytime but one. (When I flew last year into Philly, I was stopped and made to go to secondary inspection as I was back so soon after spending 3 months, but even that was only for half an hour tops.. Forgot about that one!)

Ok, so i'm beginning to ramble now! lol Just thinking outloud.

I should be ok this time.

Since your visits have been shorter and further apart I don't think you'll have a problem. Just be honest when answering questions. Just relax! Take a feng shui approach, or do yoga. They're bound to let you in!

Incidentally, my fiance was grilled horribly in May at Philly airport. Told him to get a Visa if he wants to visit again. Though we have finally started the K1 route, he still toys with trying to get a tourist Visa. I hate all this long distance stuff!!

*julez*

Female

England

2007-08-29 12:27:00

QUOTE (toshtishtash @ Sep 21 2007, 10:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

Just thought I would come in and share my experience

Turns out I was worrying about nothing!

I arrived at Washington Dulles airport, the immigration line was extremely short (for the first time ever!) A cheerful looking guy (Again for the first time ever!!! :lol:

) called me forward and asked why I was visiting America. I said that I was here to visit my fiance and my Dad and family. He asked what my fiance was doing in America, and I said that he was infact American... He looked at me with great sympathy and said 'Oooooh... The long distance thing must be difficult huh?' Which I replied 'Yes sir, it certainly is...' He then asked me if my fiance had talked me into moving over yet and I said 'Yes actually we are in the middle of the K1 visa process' he looked at me again with great sympathy and said 'Ooooooooh, I feel for ya, that must be tough, that's a loooooong and drawn out process' Again, I nodded in agreement. He took my fingerprints, stamped my passport, told me to enjoy my stay, wished me good luck and off I went!

We had an AWESOME week together

I am now back in England though and I just so don't want to be here anymore

I think someone should take the word 'soon' out of the English dictionary, it is starting to really get on my nerves.. lol

Thanks for sharing your experience. I'm flying into Boston next Saturday to visit my OH and I'm already getting nervous about going through immigration.

I'm sure everything will be fine but it's just nice to hear that it's been painless for someone else. Thanks again.

English Muffin

Female

England

2007-09-22 13:37:00