Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	K1 Interview today	CONGRATS! The wait is over. We're approved!!!!!!!!!	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2006-09-27 07:16:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	VISA CANCELLATION	let's say she didn't cheat and just made it all up just to see how you would respond. Just to test you. Rather juvenile but a test none the less. Then your goal should be to fail the test. KICK HER BUTT TO THE CURB! What is the next test going to be? She will always be testing you to see if you love her. Been there done that! I followed the no call, no contact method and then began receiving hang up calls and email pleas. NO RESPONSE! Hard as heck to do but to this day I refuse to play her game and I am happier for it. Now I have a WOMAN who loves me! No tests, just lovin! Just let it go! handle your business with the embasy/consulate and move on! If you have to go to Mother Russia again...do not put yourself in a position where you will see her. Just don't go if it can be avoided. Go to Brazill instead! LOL The women over there just want to be loved! I know there are bad eggs everywhere. Just get out there and travel man! When you find a good woman marry her and the two of you go discover the cure for the common cold and be successful! That will kill her! Let her read about or see you on Oprah! That is how you win! sorry to hear the bad news friend.don't you wanna give her another chance? did you shout her or treat her badly over the phone? how sure you are that she was really cheating on you???!!! i'm just trying to be rational a bit but you know best of course.in case you have no intention to rethink your decision.i suggest you should send a written letter/email to the NVC and the Consulate where ur fiance was going to have the interview informing them of this change of plans/cancellation. good luck to you!	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2006-11-26 20:49:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	VISA CANCELLATION	Slow down chief! Slow down and take the emotion out of it. You should move slowy, cautiously and with a purpose. At least you found out prior to the skank coming here. You should consider informing the consulate without emotion. Just matter of factly state she had chosen to see someone else while i was not in town and now she has an std. "How did you know?" A: she told me. Rather unapologetically at that. I just want to cancel everything and move on! End of story! This is the hard part.... she should never hear from you again. No email, phone calls, letters, morse code...NADA! This type of person is looking for you to respond and call all the time. Make a pact with yourself to suffer silently if you must but never show her your pain! If you allow her to see your pain you lose! Be strong! Kevin HELLO,, WELL , I FOUND OUT FRIDAY THE WORST NEWS OF MY LIFE,, ELENA WAS TO HAVE HER INTERVIEW IN MOSCOW ON DECEMBER 6TH, EVERYTHING WAS DONE,, FINALLY,, I FOUND OUT FRIDAY THAT SHE HAS BEEN CHEATING ON ME, AND THAT SHE GAVE ME "STD", I JUST GOT OF PHONE WITH HER,, AND SHE IS NOT SORRY AND SAID SHE IS GLAD FOR HER ACTIONS... AS IM WRITING THIS, I AM STILL IN TOTAL SHOCK,, MY QUESTION IS"WHAT WILL BE THE BEST WAY TO CANCEL EVERYTHING, VISA, INTERVIEW ETC...OUR GOVERMENT (USA) REALLY NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT THIS WOMAN, IN CASE SHE DOES THIS AGAIN,, BRIAN	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2006-11-26 20:26:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	Packet from Manila Embassy	Hey "BUUUUDDD"! My sweetheart is in Brazil but FYI, it took approx 4 wks from the NVC to get packet 3 after it was sent from the NVC. Happy trails my friend. Kevin	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2007-01-04 19:36:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	New free tool for studying the 100 questions	I am glad you all like the quiz tool! Broma25, I have now updated the quiz page which should make it work on more browsers (and versions) I think. Try again and see if it helped. GREAT TOOL! Thanks!	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2010-03-10 17:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Texas NOA1 over 4 weeks!	well we sent it via usps and got notice it was received in texas on the 17th at the service center. paid by cheque and so far its not been cashed.... one couple sent theirs in the day before us and got theirs monday, so i was really hoping ours would follow soon im patient, but my partner is already down as i wont be here for most of her pregnancy i wish i could comfort her by just saying we are on our way etc.. oh well Have you gone to the website and set up auto notification? It might work and send an email to you once you register with your SSN. Just a thought!	ikbrooks	Male	Brazil	2006-09-14 18:53:00