ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusFailing relationships
Hey Guys,

We always write when things are awesome,but never really when they suck...
Recently I have heard many sad stories from my girlfriends that moved here same way( through K1-K3)...
And I should say my own relationship is not at the top of the mountain nowadays"in spite my maid outfits,SLim"...
What is going with American Men?Is it the crisis that makes you guys so insecure or whats up?
Or after 2 years interest is just gone for no reason?
I am not saying I am extra perfect,but I have been there for my husband 1000%,supporting through everything,loving and doing everything possible...However I think now that could be the reason...Maybe when you give it all to Men don't want it anymore?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-05-06 15:30:00
Russia, Ukraine and Belaruswhere did every respectively 'pop the question'
My husband proposed to me in Hayat hotel(in California) very unexpected:)
We had a dinner in the restaurant inside hotel,because i liked food there and then he said he is taking me on the roof to show me the view.On the way to the roof he pulled out the key and opened the room,I was like what are you doing?!
but then i saw all room in roses and candles and him on his knee with a ring:)Love him!

Edited by Kotenochek, 04 April 2009 - 11:54 PM.

KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-04-04 23:54:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusThe revived gender differences/roles thread
P>S> actually i never asked to lock my thread.whats up?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-05-21 13:21:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusDid you consider living in Russia?
I moved to the Usa because at that moment my husband was making very good income...
If I could turn things back I would make us both move to 3rd country.The reason why,is because then both people are in a same position and will understand and support each other better...
Usa has its positive side and then a lot of negative..there is no community support we have in Russia and its hard to live without it,once you have tasted what it is like...
Right now economy in USA sucks and it is very hard to get a job,which makes it extra hard to adjust to a new country...In Moscow situation is way better..People still are switching their jobs to a better ones...
KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-06-01 02:51:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusWell...
Congratulations!wish you a very fast visa journey!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-09-11 00:19:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusHow to find a school
I do not think i can afford a private school at this economy..Especially in Northern California area..The problem is that i would need school to give me an invitation ,so i apply for her student visa...Or another option is a tourist visa,but then she can stay here only for 3 months right?
Thank you guys for trying to help!

Edited by Kotenochek, 05 October 2009 - 01:10 PM.

KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-10-05 13:09:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusHow to find a school
Hey Guys,

I have a question,which probably is not for this forum,but maybe you can help me.
I want to bring here for a few months my niece from Georgia-country,not a state!!!She is 11 years old and is not very good at english.The whole point is to get her into an american school ,so she learns english.
Do you have any experience with getting kids into school without green card or citizenship,but with a student visa?
Also how fast kids get used to english speaking community?
Please,share any knowledge you have about this topic...


Thank you!!! helpsmilie.gif
KotenochekFemaleRussia2009-09-24 16:18:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusSuperstitions
QUOTE (GiGii @ Dec 9 2008, 10:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've heard you can't buy shoes as a present, that it brings bad luck to the receiver. Also heard that if at family dinner a fork falls to the floor, and unexpected guest will arrive hungry.



I think the bad luck are home shoes"tapochki"cause you wear white ones when you die...shoes are fine to give or recieve:)))at least i am open to that:)))I dont believe in any of them,except for broken mirror,since i have experienced bad consequences myself...
KotenochekFemaleRussia2008-12-16 12:16:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusGreen Cards in mail last Saturday
congratulations:) :dance:
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:15:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusAhh! Cultural Sensitivity
Out of topic:)))Krasnodar has so many pretty ladies:)))
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:47:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusAnother pre interview question (financial affidavit)
Either way write a cover letter with explanation and your story,in my case they read the cover letter and they liked it:)))Good luck to you! B-) :dance:
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:12:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusArticle on Russian marriage fraud:
I love my American husbandy better than any other men in the whole universe other than my DAd,haha but thats different:))))
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:45:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusShe's here!
She is pretty:)))Lucky guy:)Enjoy each other:)))
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:19:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusTied the knot
Happy for you guys:)Congratulations:)))
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-30 12:47:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusTime to file for removing conditions
Ok,so we applied a week ago and I already received my extension for another year!Wow that was fast! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-30 12:45:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusTime to file for removing conditions

Welcome back!

Sounds like you've been super busy! I hope you'll share some of your stories and adventures when you get the time.

For removal of conditions, as Gary said, just download the form, print it out, and that's about it. Not too much of a process. The Guides section on here can help too. Make sure you come back if you have any questions or anything.

Have been super busy,but in a good way.I am now as independent as I used to be back home so i am happy:)))Still not crazy about the states but at least can enjoy it now:)))It takes 3 years I guess to get used to it.Then I have not been in Russia since last summer,so probably if i went back i would change my mind:)
Working here is not fun:)))People are mean and jealous lol
Maybe I did not have the best experience and hopefully I will also change my mind about this topic..
It all started making sense though after a while:)I kind of figured out the"culture" in some ways started liking it..for example"personal space"one and not discussing personal stuff at work...but still miss my family badly...And nobody wants to move here they have it pretty good back home...
anyway thank you so much for the info i will start filing papers and promise to come back and share more details:)))
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-05 18:36:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusTime to file for removing conditions
Hello Everybody:)))

Time has come for removing conditions...Need some help and advice on it:)))
It is 3 month prior to my 1st one"s expiration.
It has been some interesting adjustment:)Came to husband when he was doing great,crisis hit,we lost our house,he lost his job..I found a job,raised a champion..Eventually we moved to LA husbandy found job again,I went back to school.Life is good:)))We still love each other more than ever and treasure every moment together:)

Ok now let me know how to file papers:)))lol
Thanks! :D :help: :help: :help: :help: :help: :help: :help:
KotenochekFemaleRussia2010-08-03 16:26:00
Russia, Ukraine and Belarushow have your RUB wifes changed if any since coming here

Hello Everyone, I am amazed you guys are all still here 7 years later:)))

 Glad to see you are still happily married! 

 

Things my husband always points out, why he loves me:

 

-I have no problem admiting if I am wrong and apologizing for it.

-I never give him shitt for working late hours or weekends(Why would I?He is trying to provide for his family).

-I never talk shitt behind his back (Why would I?I chose him!)

-I thank him for his hard work all the time, I really do appreciate it a lot.

-He says I am a great mother, because I refuse to hire a nany and do it all by myself.(btw we had a baby just 5 months ago)

-I cook, but so does he(I am a lucky girl)

 

 

Things he complains about:

 

-I time him in a bathroom lol He takes forever hahaha

-I watch his health and dont let him eat fat italian food

-I ask too many questions at the same time 

- I always know when he lies

 

That being said, in last years we had ups and downs, but i feel very much home now.

 

I notice more and more, what is wrong with Russians.

 

For example:Its common to ask personal questions like:"How much does your husband makes?"

My answer:More than yours:D

 

Hope I didnt make too many typos, sleep deprivation...


KotenochekFemaleRussia2014-01-30 23:51:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusRussia Specific FAQ

I have a question do i need new letter of intent?the thing is he mailed me all documents and ill have them 2 days before interview.Interview is on 17th so its late he sends me by dhl again.or is it ok if i just shoe email?


I emailed the letter of intent and it was fine.



did you email your fiancee or to the embassy?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-12 13:44:00
Russia, Ukraine and BelarusRussia Specific FAQ

Great page!



thanks for the info i wish i had found it earlier!
I have a question do i need new letter of intent?the thing is he mailed me all documents and ill have them 2 days before interview.Interview is on 17th so its late he sends me by dhl again.or is it ok if i just shoe email?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-12 10:27:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
So at the end I made it but if you ask how...
My plane to Paris was delayed 35 minutezs moreover instead of terminal 2C it landed in 2b which means my way to the 2E was even longer.I had to get a shuttle bus then elevator and run then train and again run.anyways boarding was over when i ran and how i get on the plane?short skirt saved me:)i asked and they called car for me to take me to the plane and delayed whole plane for me!!!By the way plane was empty and i had 3 seats to sleep on:)
But My man got call from air France telling i was rejected for the transit visa-which i did not even need by the way..And he had problems meeting me.anyways people air france sucks...I will next time go big time for Aeroflot!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-31 15:54:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
QUOTE (profit1230 @ Aug 28 2007, 03:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hola,

This year I went from Atlanta to Prague and I had 1.5 hours to made the change at CDG (Charles de Gaulle), the Airport was in Construction and it was a mess.. also, my plane was delayed and I actually had just 55 minutes to made the connection.. that was in May this year and I lost my connection... I was lucky enough to have a seat 3.5 hours later the same day... but hopefully the construction is over... I really wish you good luck... Take care.. Luis & Irina

Scary story!OMG!Hope that wont happen i have y flight tomorrow:)
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-28 10:45:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
QUOTE (novotul @ Aug 25 2007, 04:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Are you connecting through Orly or DeGaulle? In the 1990s, last time I was there, Orly was tougher to navigate when connections were tight.



I bet in a previous centuries situation was even more complicated.lol
Anyways thanks for trying:)
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-25 09:05:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
QUOTE (gabby4ever @ Aug 24 2007, 03:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
you can make it in one hour with one condition - if the plane doesnt have any delays.....we made it in one hour from 2C to 2E with smoking a cig, carrying heavy luggage and a cat smile.gif , but our plane didnt have any delays...
Good Luck !

hehe sounds fun:)my flight from moscow is at 7am so dont think should be delayed..Well hope so:)
Thank You!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-24 15:38:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
Sounds like a nightmare:)
I hope they give me board pass for both flights in Moscow since i am flying same airline.I am still nervous though about timing..thanks for the information:)
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-24 06:54:00
Europe & Eurasia (except the UK and Russia)Air France from Moscow to San Francisco
I decided to post in European thread since Here people May respond my post better:)
I have flight from Moscow to Paris and then SAn Francisco.
The thing is the lay over in Paris is only one hour and I stress about it,because I need to change my terminal from 2C to 2E in that timing.

Anyone ever done it?Any suggestions to make it easier and be in time on the board?

And another question:

I read that I can have 2 bags each 23 kilos with me,do I have to Paty for that another suitcase with 23 kilos?Or both ones are included in flight?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-24 06:36:00
National Visa Center (Dept of State)pppppppp
He should recieve a yellow packet with all informations forms and lists of docs including invitation.
Tell him to call the post office because in my case it was there for a month while i was freaking out!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-26 06:50:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresI am going crazy..

Maekai

Lvivlovers has right.(I hope so too!!)

Our timeline similar.We have not approved yet .We as nervous and frustrated as you,but you must hang in there .
We never had any touches,except in beginning when they received our forms.Nothing since then.
All I can say,hang in there.You must stay strong.

". When I check visajourney, most of people are being approved for 3 or 4 months, but ours is in 5th months already.."


Most of peoples,really,but not the late march filers.So,you are not alone.

Regards;

Z .- :thumbs:



I know embassy is killing all!We also have argument occasionally but thanks god still loving each other crazy!
Girl i met in medical centre got interview in 8 months since filing.another one was waiting 2 years to go to alaska to husband!Insane,hope you get approved sooner!My best wishes!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-12 10:14:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionInterview for K1

they never ask me for a original papers. except 1 thing!!!! they ask me for my sopuse original Divorce papers. and the consul says i will not take any copy or fax i need they original divorce papers, that was it for all my journey for sure so far !!!!

good luck with ur interview and dont get nervous u will be fine,



Thanks so much for your info:)I will keep updating info:)
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 04:57:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionInterview for K1
Hi Everyone!

Unfortunately I just discovered this web page even though my interview is going to happen on 17th of august in Moscow.
Still We already found out here that our Lawyer made bunch of mistakes and now trying to fix them.
PLease,Be kind and share with knowledge You do have about all documents i should have and which ones must be originals.Also if You already went through interview in Moscow please inform me what i should be ready for.

This process is very stressful and we are going crazy,so please if You know something that might be important ,share with Us!

Thank you All in Advance.

Alex and Iya
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-10 16:18:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMedical Exam Question

The only way being on her period will affect the medical exam is if a vaginal exam is required. If not she'll be fine. Go ahead and confirm this with your doctor. Good luck. :thumbs:


Is there anyway a clear list of what is actually required and what not? Could you please post some links with more about what is going to be required, and how they decide on that kind of particularities.

I don't think I've seen anywhere in written statement that they should have a look there.



I did test this week and never been asked if i had periods or not.I dont think it somehow effects since they do only blood check up from vein.and they check only for Hiv and sifilis!
But so you dont stress just call the clinique and ask them if it is ok.also you have whole 2 month time after you recieve and envalope to do the test so whats a problem at all to choose time when is better for her.I just posted my experience from medical exam you can read it i put all details.
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 05:55:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionWhat paperwork for Interview in Moscow will we get back?

Hello,
My fiance just went through Moscow last month.
They did not ask for all the evidence, but asked to see some of it. They kept a couple of the documents, but not all of them.
I have made copies of everything just in case.
The best of luck
David

I have my interview k1 in moscow on 17th of august.lets check up together if we did all right.
We figured some mistakes that lawyer missed and now he sent me whole new package.Affidavit of support must be notarised!and also she will need original of ur birth certificate and if there was a devorce then that paper notarised.
I heard they take original of affidavit and all papers.maybe u can leave there notarised copies of birth certificate and devorce..i also have bank letter in a copy i want to give them copy because alex might need original.Same with a letter from work,since it might be needed later for Cv.
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 12:49:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussioninterview

iF YOU FILED k1 , you will need the original birth certificate to get married in the states
and divorce certificate ( if you have one ) , hope you didnt send those , or I hope for you they will exchange it for the copies at the interview



If you have copies you should notarise it for interview anyway.But they ask for original of the birth certificate but if you submitted it at first place should not be a problem since original is called original to be one and only.
I am taking copy of devorce decrease of my man notarised.also you will need forms DS230 part one and 2
You need ds 156 to fill out online and then print it out. and 156K filled out in native language
Medical test in a sealed envelope and vaccination form.
Birth certificate of fiancee original and copy,
copy of a passport
2 pictures 3X4 for medical test and 5X5 for interview all colour ones
100usd at interview
you still need to understand paperwork because it is explaining where and how you can arrange your medical test.good luck!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 16:18:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionTAX FORMS AT EMBASSY INTERVIEW

Thank you so much, guys!

Another question--does it cost anything to expedite these forms?

Also--how long would it take to get them if I expedited the process? I'm asking because I need to DHL these forms to my fiance two weeks from now.


Also, the local IRS office i looked up online said that it can send out tax transcripts but only in hardship cases. It said: (Verifiable hardship cases; hurricane damage, medical emergencies, etc)

Would my situation, if explained to them, fall under the hardship criteria? :-s




Dhl takes around 4 days.But i think they also have urgent delievery just costs more.
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 06:17:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!

For her K1, the male MOM doctor made her take it all off, and was quite degrading about it.

That's so terrible. I hate when doctors abuse their power. You would think after so many years of school they would have learned decent behavior.



I must say he did not do anything rude and acted just like any doctor..In Russia is common since the best ginecologysts are male...so women kind of used to it..Hope i was not the only one he made take top off though...lol
Maybe i am so special...lol
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-14 02:30:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!
You don't need the extra vaccinations to enter on the K-1, but it will make life easier when it comes to adjustment of status. I instructed my then fiance to ask the copy at her medical at MOM and it was no problem to get it. We used that document for our AOS and didn't need to visit a civil surgeon here for the vaccination supplement.

DS-3025 is the Vaccination Documentation Worksheet that says for use with DS-2053.
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You were right i figured out i had that paper issued. The thing was the copy was not done proper and it would not show the number of the form:)
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-13 16:32:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!

There is a statement at the bottom of DS-3025 instructing the examining physician to give a copy of that form to the applicant. If MOM didn't give you a copy, then their practice has not yet improved enough!


I don't think it has anything to do with MOM. People from many other clinics (Russia and other countries) did not know to ask for it and did not receive it.

You don't need the extra vaccinations to enter on the K-1, but it will make life easier when it comes to adjustment of status. I instructed my then fiance to ask the copy at her medical at MOM and it was no problem to get it. We used that document for our AOS and didn't need to visit a civil surgeon here for the vaccination supplement.

DS-3025 is the Vaccination Documentation Worksheet that says for use with DS-2053.


Oh thanks so much i will call mom and ask if they can still issue it.If so i will definitely go and pick it up.thanks so much!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 15:30:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!

There is a statement at the bottom of DS-3025 instructing the examining physician to give a copy of that form to the applicant. If MOM didn't give you a copy, then their practice has not yet improved enough!



what form is ds-3025?Hope i did not miss something i got one paper vaccination documentation worksheet for use with ds-2053.
the other ones are in a sealed envalope.am i missing something i will need at interview?
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 10:11:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!

Did you get a second copy of all vaccinations to keep for yourself? (DS-3025 form) You will need that when you adjust status (apply for green card) in the US. Again, read the good suggestions in the Russia regional section.



I been told i dont need vaccinations for K1 i did it in case.do You think they could still ask a copy?I will make in case,better to have it than not.thanks for advice so much appreciated!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 09:34:00
US Embassy and Consulate DiscussionMy Medical Exam Experience in Moscow!

There is a lot of information about the interviews in Moscow in the Russia Regional section in the lower part of the forum. There is also a sticky that covers some of the questions about the Moscow embassy. I am sure you will find that to be a good spot to get your questions answered and to share your experiences.



I will check them now thanks for advicing i have not seen that before!
KotenochekFemaleRussia2007-08-11 09:32:00