Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Vietnam	how do i send my wife back to vietnam	QUOTE (ScottThuy @ Jul 9 2009, 07:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Based on what you posted here and the other info about the gambling and $$$ I have to say... 1. focus on the divorce.. 2. look at it as a bad experience and put it behind you.. 3. Get an HIV test ASAP. I'm not trying to be a #######, just a realist... we all make mistakes and she was your mistake.. let it go and enjoy the rest of your life... Imagine how much pain you would still be going through if you had not taken that step to part ways.. she's out making a mess of someone elses life now not yours....Things can only get better from here... Life is a mission... you got wounded in a battle but are not out of the fight.... you know what to avoid next time.... u hit the nail on the head! i totally agree with u. i made my mistakes in the past, i moved on and now i have the best person every!	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-07-10 05:04:00
United Kingdom	why dont people get how stressful this is	QUOTE (prima and jay @ Jun 14 2009, 03:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> this is a bit of a gripe, but does anyone else just get tired of explaining how stressful this is to people???? I know that I have just stop explaining why I'm tired or why I just dont want to socialise that much. I mean, i'm immigrating, moving and getting married. there are times when you just want to break down in floods of tears or other times when you just zone out and go quiet, stare into space. I have weeks and months of restless sleep because my mind wont stop working even though my body is tired. I stood in Safeway/Somerfields on Thursday night completley confused and wanting to cry because I couldnt find the Turkey Kabanos!!lol seriously. I often try to break down how it feels to folk to be leaving here to go there, but they dont get it. Either they think I will miss England ( which in all honesty I wont) or they think its a financial issue, or wonder if i'm making the right decision considering that I havent spent 10 years dating the guy before marrying him. It all just makes me wanna go ....AAAAAAAAAArgh. I understand how this process is hard to understand if you have never done it, but seriously if they knew how difficult this was do they think we would do this on a whim. I'm a strong person, I can handle all of this, its just a little frustrating. Can anyone share what they have experienced when telling friends about the process, or have you just given up???? Anyone got a solution to it? Please take time to share it could help someone. well 1st yes it is very stressful if u want it to be ,2nd do u think that ppl that r questioning u really care , the ones that care r close to u and understand u and will support u, u need to lean on your mate cause he know what u r going threw, ppl at work want to know all the time but i just say we r working on it and he will get as soon as they say so, lastly i was looking at ur timeline it says u got ur interveiw in april did u get your visa and if so r u on the way to usa? thanks primaandjay	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-06-14 19:16:00
United Kingdom	UK police transcript..."NO LIVE TRACE"	wow! mmm,,,,, maybe there something he's not tell you and this could hold up his via mmm makes you wonder	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-30 11:53:00
United Kingdom	visa	hello everyone! hope all is doing well! so here's my ? My fiances had his interview on feb fourth and at the time of when he had to pay the delivery service he only brought cash and they told him they needed a credit card so he ask what to do and they said they will text him and or call him to get a credit number over the phone cause they wouldnt take cash> so he been calling and they said they havent recieved the visa yet to try to mail it to him> as of today we havent gotten a call nor do the carrier have the visa yet < he called the embassy and all they say is its in process> did anyone else have this problem or have any way you can help us thank you for your time> also how long has it been taking you all to get your visa from the interview terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2010-02-23 20:58:00
Philippines	Thank you GOD...is finally OVER !!!!!!	QUOTE (ErosandSally @ Sep 27 2009, 06:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Lancelotte25 @ Sep 27 2009, 05:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> With your words I can tell that you found something about your fiance. This might be a personal thing and we don't have the right to ask about this thing. I hope everything will be alright.. Yes.....lancelotte It a personal thing and it cannot be shared.....unfortunately. If it was not PERSONAL, i would have shared it already..... I am trying to find some humor here and joke about it.....so please understand my current state of mind....below. All I can tell you that the next person.... she will be investigated and PROBED..... in places she don't even know she had...LOL wow u r a bitter old man! guess what u arent the only person in the world who been lied to! married once ended in less than a year cause he lied! then i moved a few years later meant my daughter father who beat me for 5 years cause he was cheating on me, but i didnt know that until later , so he lied to me too but i moved forward cause i know im am better than that, then i was with someone 11years and guess what that was all lies from him, so i knew it was done, but i knew none of this were true love i think they were lust never love, all i wanted was friends to chat with so i went on a friendly chat room, then i found my soul mate, yes that what i said now we r engaged, for the past 20 years i never thought of marrying anyone again, i never knew i would ever have true love, a strong trusting love yes lots of trust between both of us, so i wasnt looking for love , god knew it was my time to fall in love and this is the next best gift i ever got from my lord. the 1st is my daugthers. keep ur chin up and beleive in our lord cause he holds our future in his hands.	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-27 07:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Frustrations of LDR and the Visa Process	QUOTE (evanscholly @ May 26 2009, 03:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think you need to give him some time to really think things through and see if he is ready to make that change. I almost made the same mistake when i was dating my ex fiance who was from Germany, everytime we had conversations about his move to the US he always complains about leaving everything behind in Germany and starting all over again here in the US. It got so bad that the relationship suffered and we had no choice but to go our separate ways as friends. Believe me if he is complaining now, it's going to continue when he eventually gets here especially those few months he will be home waiting for his Work Authorization and when he goes out to search for a job and he can't find any immediately. My advice give him some time if need be, a few weeks to let him think things through, this is an expensive venture and both parties must be in agreement before things can work out. Two cannot work together except they agree. Think things through. hello, i too have my fiance' from the uk. he came and stayed w/me for 3months andwe knew we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. he went back too uk at the end of april not by our choose and he has no job too but is helping his mom take care of the farm and his step father that is ill. he too has a son. we talk about it and if his son ever wanted too move here he is more than welcome too. now for your fiance feeling scare and down that is normal. i go threw the same thing,but i want to. i want to be the one he turns too, take his worries out on me. i know its hard sometime but i know at the end we'll be happy and knowing it was worth all this wait. it hard being away from our man cause we love them. put ourself in their feet, let say its us moving to uk that would be scarey but i know i would make it cause i would have his support. god didnt say life would be easy.all i can say is keep postive if this is what both of u want. tell him everyday u love him and we r one day closer being together for the rest of your lives. terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-26 20:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Approved!!	way to go girl! we r happy for u!! when is it my turn	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-06-12 16:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Visa in hand!!!Glory to God...	QUOTE (tiger_lily @ Jun 23 2009, 04:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Finally i got my visa today. I'm really happy and excited and i will be flying on thursday. Thank you Lord and Mother Mary =) To vj family thank you so much for the support and prayers. God speed. let's all of us do the happy dance congrats!!!!!1	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-06-23 04:36:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Visa granted	QUOTE (Bobby_Umit @ Jul 8 2009, 12:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Umit went for her visa tis morning, 0830. They made her wait for 90 mins before doing the interview, then she was called into the interview room. Woman CO, Umit started to speak Turkish, but the woman asked if they could speak in English, which Umit switched over to. Questions asked: 1. How did you meet? 2. How did you get engaged? 3. Petitioners work and age? 4. How many times have we met in person? 5. When will beneficiary go to America? Then the woman looked at our chat logs (MSN), pictures, and petitioners passport copies (all pages ) - and said, "congratulations, you will be getting your visa in 3-5 days" (they send them UPS) Interview was about 30 mins. No AP (I didn't expect any since Umit has a 10 year visitors visa and she is a woman). bobby, i so happy for you and umit. congratation and good luck with the rest of your journey. let me know how poe goes, is she coming in threw cleveland if so let me know how it goes cause thats the one jay will fly into . again congrats!! Thanks to this site, had all my ducks in a row - no issues at all with the paperwork (RFE) or any other time wasting issues ! Now on to the travel to the US and marriage...	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-07-08 19:16:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	NOA2!!!	QUOTE (V-G-1 @ Jul 18 2009, 10:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> NOA2 was sent on July 15th!!!--Just on time.... congrats!!!! good luck w/the next leg of ur wonderful journey!	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-07-19 08:28:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	Fiance received a surprise call from the Embassy!	QUOTE (cdn_gewels @ Jun 2 2009, 09:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good things come to those who wait! I'm happy for ya! omg! that great news!! i jealous but my day will come as your did. i wish you all a happy life.	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-06-02 20:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	APPROVED	QUOTE (Rhiann @ Sep 9 2009, 09:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Grats! You and I had ours approved in the same amount of days thank you so much and now we need to get starlight to get her noa2 i hope and pray she get theirs next, we can undrstand this long wait and ppl's cases past us up, again thank you	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-09 20:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	APPROVED	QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Sep 9 2009, 07:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ Sep 9 2009, 04:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'M SO HAPPY YEAH!!!!!! good luck to every one else on this long waited journey terri YAY TERRI!!! thank you that was a long time waiting, so how is yours going? let me know so i know what to expect, take care and i hope to here from u soon terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-09 20:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	APPROVED	QUOTE (forchika @ Sep 9 2009, 07:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> CONGRATS thank you	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-09 18:15:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	APPROVED	hello everyone on vj, i got a called from my fiancee this afternoon, and by the sounds of it he sounded upset, i was so worry something was wrong, he said well baby uuuuuuhhhhh mmmmm "we are approved", i was shock, i said what , what did u say , now in a happy voice he said it again "we are approved" , it worked , all my hard work these past few weeks of calling and email ppl, uscis and my congressman, it paid off and it was worth it, after he told me and i hung up the phone i started to cry knowing my baby will be coming home soon, thank you everyone for your support, kind words, and your prayers , u know who i'm talking about cause u ppl keep emailing me giving your encouragement thank you! *** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: WAC********** Application Type: I129F , PETITION FOR FIANCE(E) Current Status: Approval notice sent. On September 8, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service. If you have questions or concerns about your application or the case status results listed above, or if you have not received a decision from USCIS within the current processing time listed*, please contact USCIS Customer Service at (800) 375-5283. *Current processing times can be found on the USCIS website at www.uscis.gov under Case Status and Processing Dates.*** Please do not respond to this e-mail message. Sincerely, The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) I'M SO HAPPY YEAH!!!!!! good luck to every one else on this long waited journey terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-09 18:06:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	January '09 I-129 filers at CSC	QUOTE (minnew @ May 25 2009, 05:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks guys! Sitting here waiting for my connecting flight to Vancouver as we speak and the more its hitting me its TOMORROW!! *deep breath* Ill update as soon as I can tomorrow! omg i bet u r jumping out of ur skin!!! that gave me goose bumps knowing ur day is here i cant wait until our is here! good luck	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-25 17:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	January '09 I-129 filers at CSC	QUOTE (laura819 @ May 25 2009, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> good luck andrea!!!! im so happy for u this gives me hope for myself and my fiance' we just started ours in may	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-25 16:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 VSC K-1 Fillers	QUOTE (Tina&Roland @ May 26 2009, 03:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Tina&Roland @ May 26 2009, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (2big @ May 26 2009, 09:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (ThaitoUSA @ May 25 2009, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> October filer checking in. Wish everyone a safe and speedy journey! Be prepared for delays and if they don't happen, all the better! We received NOA2 at the end of February and we are still awaiting an interview; though it appears to be a Bangkok specific issue, suprises can pop up at any point along the way. What will carry you through is the love between you and your fiancé(e). This process has made my fiancée and myself even closer and for that I am grateful. Hello Guys, I,m yet to receive my NOA 1..Any news for May 12th or later FILERS?. WISH you good luck as i wish myself Hi 2big, i just got my noa1 today i sign up on uscis and i was able to check my status . make sure u read everything how to sign up. after i did it i closed it and re open it to make sure it work and it did. good luck We filed on May 13. We received our NOA1 in the mail on May 23. Did you check to see that your check cashed? Good luck! Tina Hey, Has anyone who has received the NOA1 receipt number in May been lucky to see their status on the USCIS website? We have not been able to access ours online yet, and our receipt was dated May 18. Thanks. Tina	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-26 23:01:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	hi everyone, we got our packet 3 on saturday 9-26. we r mailing it tomorrow or wed depends if he gets off work to do it, he been working way to much. starlight i hope urs comes soon, i've been thinking about u, i have u in my prayers, take care terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-28 21:34:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Sep 26 2009, 01:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ Sep 26 2009, 02:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hello every one, jay just called me to tell me that he just recieved his packet 3!!! yeah i'm so happy i'm jumping out of my skin, well we will be working on it tomorrow, why not today cause he just got off of working 24 hours at work and my poor baby is sleeply, so i want him to have a clear head so i told him to get a good nite sleep and we'll take care of this tomorrow and before we know it he'll be back home in my arms again, i cant wait til that day cause i miss him so much, good luck to everyone else terri That is great news!!! You will be with him very soon. thank you! How is your case going? Last thing i heard is u went to india and came back and mail in what u needed to, let me know whats going on terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-26 14:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	hello every one, jay just called me to tell me that he just recieved his packet 3!!! yeah i'm so happy i'm jumping out of my skin, well we will be working on it tomorrow, why not today cause he just got off of working 24 hours at work and my poor baby is sleeply, so i want him to have a clear head so i told him to get a good nite sleep and we'll take care of this tomorrow and before we know it he'll be back home in my arms again, i cant wait til that day cause i miss him so much, good luck to everyone else terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-26 13:51:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Sep 24 2009, 04:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I got another touch today . Yay!! But, still no approval yet. hello starlight, my comp was down for a little bit, and just got back on today, and i just saw that u got touch, lets hope this is good news, ill be praying for u. cause we need u to join our group of approvel, maybe tomorrow will be the day, good luck terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-24 16:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	hello every one i just wanted u all to know today we got that happy email, yes we were approved yesterday, thank you every one for your prayers and your support , yeah we finally got our noa2!!!! terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-09 18:11:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (terri and jay @ Sep 6 2009, 11:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Sep 6 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> THIS IS THE BEST SLOW EMAIL EVER! QUOTE *** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: WAC************ Application Type: I129F , PETITION FOR FIANCE(E) Current Status: Approval notice sent. On September 4, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service. If you have questions or concerns about your application or the case status results listed above, or if you have not received a decision from USCIS within the current processing time listed*, please contact USCIS Customer Service at (800) 375-5283. *Current processing times can be found on the USCIS website at www.uscis.gov under Case Status and Processing Dates. *** Please do not respond to this e-mail message. Sincerely, The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) I wonder what took it 2 days to get to my inbox? omg congrats and good luck on the next leg of ur journey, starlight, i think you and i r the only one left from may filerslol, i cant stand it no more, we were touch on sept 2nd and them sept 3 but nothing else, we r at a stand still plus its now a holiday weekend so theres go another week, i just called my congressman and they r going to see what they can do this week, im happy for all the ppl here that didnt have to go threw what we r going threw , good luck to all of us waiting still	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-06 11:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Rhiann @ Sep 6 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> THIS IS THE BEST SLOW EMAIL EVER! QUOTE *** DO NOT RESPOND TO THIS E-MAIL *** The last processing action taken on your case Receipt Number: WAC************ Application Type: I129F , PETITION FOR FIANCE(E) Current Status: Approval notice sent. On September 4, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E). Please follow any instructions on the notice. If you move before you receive the notice, call customer service. If you have questions or concerns about your application or the case status results listed above, or if you have not received a decision from USCIS within the current processing time listed*, please contact USCIS Customer Service at (800) 375-5283. *Current processing times can be found on the USCIS website at www.uscis.gov under Case Status and Processing Dates. *** Please do not respond to this e-mail message. Sincerely, The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) I wonder what took it 2 days to get to my inbox? omg congrats and good luck on the next leg of ur journey, starlight, i think you and i r the only one left from may filerslol, i cant stand it no more, we were touch on sept 2nd and them sept 3 but nothing else, we r at a stand still plus its now a holiday weekend so theres go another week, i just called my congressman and they r going to see what they can do this week, im happy for all the ppl here that didnt have to go threw what we r going threw , good luck to all of us waiting still	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-06 10:29:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	well yesterday we got touch and we looked today and we got touch again, i hope this mean something good , you know what i mean!!!!!!	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-09-03 21:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Aug 28 2009, 10:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ Aug 28 2009, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Aug 28 2009, 10:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 28 2009, 09:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ Aug 28 2009, 09:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 28 2009, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Don't worry, we all need to let it out from time to time. I hope you get something soon. It's not a good feeling to be left hanging. u have no idea of what i've been threw, letting it out isnt the beginning of it, at less u got an rfe, our file has never been touch, i call uscis and they were useless,all i wanted to know if they still had our file or was it misplace but all they coud tell me is to call back after 5 months, unbeliveable ,its getting to a point that i'm getting to need some help of how upset i'm getting, its not right that i finally found my soul mate and we cant be together, we have been threw so much in our life and then we found each other and being together lots has happened to us, i really cant stand it any more and if i see one more june person gets their im going to scream My file was never touched before my RFE. I'm not even happy to get the RFE. I'm quite pissed about it, since my fiance paid 200 dollars for a "professional" to do it and they messed it up. Nothing happened to mine until 3 months and 11 days later. That's approx 101 (give or take) some days. Trust me, I was getting irritated with the CSC too. I get irritated seeing people approved in less than 90 days, but I know *I can't do anything*. The CSC works in weird ways, and they don't want it disturbed. There's no use fighting the government, sadly. I think they are just doing random checks, and I am sure just like our fellow filers with RFE's they might ask something we may already have submitted. I am sure once we submit what they want we will be approved. Look on the bright side there are fellow May 09 filers who have not even gotten touched. At least our file is being reviewed, and I am glad I got a RFE in 3 months rather than 4 months later. My fiance has been so patient through this whole process. I make it a point not to let him know my frustration because he has been so understanding about the whole process. I updated him that we got an RFE and that means we will be getting an approval shortly once we submit what they need. I did not think we would hear something until October so this is definitely good that I got this RFE now rather than later. well good for u and if u read back to what i wrote earlier i havent got any thing no touch no rfe and no help from uscis i'm just hanging over a cliff waiting for uscis to catch me , if u get my drift, well i guess i'll cry myself to sleep like i have been for the past week, i try to be strong and when i talk to my guy i'm strong with him but i know me and i know i'm going to lose it soon and he will see it soon, if i had more vacation time i've be visiting him now but i dont so i cant, and FYI i'm a government employee and i have background check done all the time so i cant see why they r taking so long with my case Have you considered just calling your local congressman? Just write a letter and let them know if they can at least follow up and let you know where your case is at. I am sure most here will tell you this is too early in the stage, but you have proof on VJ that everybody is getting approved with the same timeline. I would consider this point in my lettter. This is time to take action and don't wait when its like 4 months. This is my two cents because it would be just peace of mind to know that my case is in someones hand. Let me know if you need help drafting a letter or something. I can give you ideas. yes ty i was going to write my congressman this weekend and any tips u can give me will help, i'm mad cause i told myself on sunday i would wait to friday to get my noa2 and if i didnt iwas going to write him a letter to help me out, i'm just fustated cause there's not to many more of may filers who hasnt gotten their noa2,and yes i do know u all r trying to make me feel better but its very hard when finally in my life i'm doing something that i know will better me and i dont have control over it , yes i like to be in control of whatever i do, i like to take charge of situation but here i dont have any control, i really need to go talk to a consultor to get this off my chest oh well good nite u all	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 21:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Aug 28 2009, 10:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 28 2009, 09:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ Aug 28 2009, 09:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 28 2009, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Don't worry, we all need to let it out from time to time. I hope you get something soon. It's not a good feeling to be left hanging. u have no idea of what i've been threw, letting it out isnt the beginning of it, at less u got an rfe, our file has never been touch, i call uscis and they were useless,all i wanted to know if they still had our file or was it misplace but all they coud tell me is to call back after 5 months, unbeliveable ,its getting to a point that i'm getting to need some help of how upset i'm getting, its not right that i finally found my soul mate and we cant be together, we have been threw so much in our life and then we found each other and being together lots has happened to us, i really cant stand it any more and if i see one more june person gets their im going to scream My file was never touched before my RFE. I'm not even happy to get the RFE. I'm quite pissed about it, since my fiance paid 200 dollars for a "professional" to do it and they messed it up. Nothing happened to mine until 3 months and 11 days later. That's approx 101 (give or take) some days. Trust me, I was getting irritated with the CSC too. I get irritated seeing people approved in less than 90 days, but I know *I can't do anything*. The CSC works in weird ways, and they don't want it disturbed. There's no use fighting the government, sadly. I think they are just doing random checks, and I am sure just like our fellow filers with RFE's they might ask something we may already have submitted. I am sure once we submit what they want we will be approved. Look on the bright side there are fellow May 09 filers who have not even gotten touched. At least our file is being reviewed, and I am glad I got a RFE in 3 months rather than 4 months later. My fiance has been so patient through this whole process. I make it a point not to let him know my frustration because he has been so understanding about the whole process. I updated him that we got an RFE and that means we will be getting an approval shortly once we submit what they need. I did not think we would hear something until October so this is definitely good that I got this RFE now rather than later. well good for u and if u read back to what i wrote earlier i havent got any thing no touch no rfe and no help from uscis i'm just hanging over a cliff waiting for uscis to catch me , if u get my drift, well i guess i'll cry myself to sleep like i have been for the past week, i try to be strong and when i talk to my guy i'm strong with him but i know me and i know i'm going to lose it soon and he will see it soon, if i had more vacation time i've be visiting him now but i dont so i cant, and FYI i'm a government employee and i have background check done all the time so i cant see why they r taking so long with my case	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 21:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (terri and jay @ Aug 28 2009, 09:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Arbind.Ariadne @ Aug 28 2009, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 29 2009, 09:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow, only 85 days? You guys on the east side of the world seem to be blessed with fast NOA2s Initially, I was even quite apprehensive because when I was new here at VJ, I have noticed that people from the UK and Canada get approved really fast. When I found our touch with the date 08/25/09 and days passed by without any e-mail, I told my fiance hours ago what if they are still investigating how he reached the States. His family moved from India to the U.S. when he was three years old. I was whining like what if they prioritize those who were born in the U.S. with American parents. So silly of me! That touch on 08/25/09 was actually the date when the hard copy was mailed to my precious baby. Time to take a break from thinking about all these matters. Give it more faith. I prayed a lot, too, even when I started to lose confidence due to no change in status after the touch. It's good to be wrong once in a while. FAE i have stop thinking about it for awhile, my daughter got married last saturday and for the past month i was busy w/that and that kept me from thinking about it, i pray every day, i go to church, i'm always helping ppl cause thats who i am but i feel like i'm being punish, we our both good hard working ppl and all i want is jay home cause i'm even a better person when he is here, he brings the best out of me oh well life goes on, i just know i;m being hated for doing something in my past	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 20:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Arbind.Ariadne @ Aug 28 2009, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 29 2009, 09:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow, only 85 days? You guys on the east side of the world seem to be blessed with fast NOA2s Initially, I was even quite apprehensive because when I was new here at VJ, I have noticed that people from the UK and Canada get approved really fast. When I found our touch with the date 08/25/09 and days passed by without any e-mail, I told my fiance hours ago what if they are still investigating how he reached the States. His family moved from India to the U.S. when he was three years old. I was whining like what if they prioritize those who were born in the U.S. with American parents. So silly of me! That touch on 08/25/09 was actually the date when the hard copy was mailed to my precious baby. Time to take a break from thinking about all these matters. Give it more faith. I prayed a lot, too, even when I started to lose confidence due to no change in status after the touch. It's good to be wrong once in a while. FAE i have stop thinking about it for awhile, my daughter got married last saturday and for the past month i was busy w/that and that kept me from thinking about it, i pray every day, i go to church, i'm always helping ppl cause thats who i am but i feel like i'm being punish, we our both good hard working ppl and all i want is jay home cause i'm even a better person when he is here, he brings the best out of me	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 20:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Rhiann @ Aug 28 2009, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Don't worry, we all need to let it out from time to time. I hope you get something soon. It's not a good feeling to be left hanging. u have no idea of what i've been threw, letting it out isnt the beginning of it, at less u got an rfe, our file has never been touch, i call uscis and they were useless,all i wanted to know if they still had our file or was it misplace but all they coud tell me is to call back after 5 months, unbeliveable ,its getting to a point that i'm getting to need some help of how upset i'm getting, its not right that i finally found my soul mate and we cant be together, we have been threw so much in our life and then we found each other and being together lots has happened to us, i really cant stand it any more and if i see one more june person gets their im going to scream	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 20:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	i happy for all of u may filers got ur noa2 or rfe but im so mad that nothing has happen to ours , i'm burning up inside when because of all of u getting something, i tell u what this isnt fair and i thought i was living in america and things our done fairly, but i'm losing my faith, i would do anything to get our noa2 so i can start my life with the love of my life, i read on here how ppl r fighting and leave each other or they r mad at their future spouse or plain just using then, but our love is real and al i want is my fiancee home with me and my girls, so for all of u who r fight or not getting along, think about us ppl who want to be together but cant cause they (csc) cant get their axxes moving, sorry if it seem i'm pissed, well i am and i cant stand it any more. i know theres nothing any of u can do about this but i need to get it off my chest,	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-28 20:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (Starlight95 @ Aug 24 2009, 09:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I wish I could even get an RFE at this point. Even a "touch" on my file would mean so much. I wish I even knew what it felt like to even be in AP well how do think i feel!! everyone around us got their noa2 but nothing for me! so i call uscis and all they can say is wait 5 months, this is so hard to handle!! i wish we got a touch or even a rfe then i would know they have our file, i feel like they lost ours. i really don't understand csc system. uscis just told me that some cases are harder than other, but i think my case is easy, i make very good money, i have a government job so they are always doing a background check and neither him or i have any kind of crimmal background( the last time i got a speed ticket it was 15years ago), so how can so many ppl after us gets their noa2, all i do is cry about this or i just want to go outside and scream!!! well thanks for listening to me.	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-08-26 19:30:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (mamitasalsita @ Jul 18 2009, 12:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm so excited. Our NOA2 notice was sent July 17!! congrats! i'm so happy for u, good luck w/the next part	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-07-19 08:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	hello i have a ? i see on ppl time line they have touch. what does touch mean? help explain it to me thank you	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-26 22:27:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (JAPrincess @ May 26 2009, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (terri and jay @ May 25 2009, 04:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hey u i see u got ur check cashed,and now im jealous i didnt get my noa1. did they email it to u or did they mail it to u? u got that right away its been 4 days since my check was cashed i think they dont like us ohioian!!!!!! awww... (((hugs))) Don't be jealous On the back of the check I found my WAC# which is the case number given on the physical NOA1. I went to the USCIS website and signed up to check the status on-line... I have not gotten the physical NOA1 yet either guess what i got in the mail today ?!!! yes i got my noa-1 !!!!!! we were so happy ! that was going to be my next step and look at the back of my check but i got it now . my noa was back dated for the 19th of may. i now have to sigh up on the uscis to check our status. thanks for ur help terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-26 20:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (JAPrincess @ May 21 2009, 06:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Alexandra_v @ May 20 2009, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hello May!! Just making a stop to wish each one of you Good luck on your journey!!! I was May 2008 filler, it’s a long road but there is a light by the end of the tunnel!! Good luck Thank you for coming to say hello, your timeline gives hope hey u i see u got ur check cashed,and now im jealous i didnt get my noa1. did they email it to u or did they mail it to u? u got that right away its been 4 days since my check was cashed i think they dont like us ohioian!!!!!!	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-25 18:34:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	QUOTE (saravj @ May 25 2009, 12:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> My fiance and I mailed our package to the Vermont Service Center this past Friday. He then went back to England yesterday and I am beyond sad...Being seperated again! At least we are on the road to being able to be together...My heart goes out to all of you that are seperated from your significant other...I am very thankful for this website. It has been a life saver for us. Good luck to all of you! i know how u feel my man left on april 27 2009 wasnt our chose but now we r on the road to seeing each other. i think its harder for him over there than its for me . i so miss him so much , my phone bill will show that lol.	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-25 17:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	May 2009 filers -- post here!!!	hey im a newbie here i mailed on may 13 and i will join the may group . terri	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-05-25 17:56:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	QUOTE (Nill @ Jun 14 2009, 12:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> outlook on Nan getting her passport... next to nill Her mother is the only thing standing in the way. She is an evil women who only wants money. She would rather have money than her own daughter. She told me she wanted 500,000.00 baht from me to give Nan the papers she needs. That is roughly $15,750.00 US Dollars. Nan does not know that I spoke with her mom yet... I was hoping to appeal to her sensibly. Guess not. So now we are stuck. Her dad offered to help me any way he could, but he really can't do anything for us because her mother is the one with the required documents (parents are divorced.) I am lost now... What more can I do. If I wasn't in the military I would have no problem moving to be with her, but unless I want to throw away my future AWOL is not a valid option (yet.) I have been trying to take everything in stride these last couple weeks, trying to be optimistic, but I am losing hope now. I have no more funds available to bribe her mother with, and not having a vehicle is starting to get me aggravated as well. Good thing work is only 2 miles from my place. Riding the bike to work has started to really get me back in shape anyway. I guess I got that going for me, what do they say?, at least you have your health... haha oh geesh enough of my pity party. Hope everyone else is having a good weekend. I'm out. Playing the waiting game. if u say u get along with the father in law why cant he get a copy of his divorced papers? wasn't he the ex-husband to ur mother in law? he should be able to get if for u. we r going threw something like this that we need a copy of his father birth cert. but no one knows where his father is. on my fiancee birth cert has the wrong fathers name and the place where he was born. so my fiancee went to record place and they are helping him get this straighten out with out his father help . if she does a little leg work i bet she can get one too .	terri and jay	Female	United Kingdom	2009-06-14 06:44:00