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Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)Islamabad Embassy AP list 2013
Thank you for all ur advice n comments
My husband saw my posts and called me horrible names..i guess thats the end of thos marrriage and answers all my questions about him using me.
I now will move on in my life.

.without him




maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-17 16:46:00
Waivers (I-601 and I-212) and Administrative Processes (221g)Islamabad Embassy AP list 2013

 

 

Agreed , but as far as my understanding goes , no doubt mix couple marriage is "Red Flag" , Age difference , first marriage , 2nd marriage etc , kids involved , i mean there are list of things  and  proving that ur intentions is not solely getting immigration benefits is not easy ,  Pakistan comes in top fraud countries , so for them every one is suspect , that also includes desi couple some time too , its like this ,"Guilty until proven innocent ".if the couple is strong eventually they will get it , if they are not , there marriage eventually devastated .Embassy purposely use delay tactics to check the couple , if all back ground checks come positive , they keep cases for years just to check the marriage is bonafide or not .

 

if that was not the case there wouldn't be long  Aps for us.

 

Good luck to every one and remember every one in prayers

 

 

 

So Pakistan is among one of the top fraud countries? How can you tell if you are victim of fraud ? My "husband" and I are 15 years apart in age, and I have children from a previous marriage, while this is his first.I am of Romanian Gypsy descent, althiough I was born here in the United States. I am by no means rich, but I have a decent job and can support Paki husband. Which I do. As he is currently unemployed. is this a "red flag" as you say? I do feel used quite a bit, and my husband does not appreciate how hard I work for what I have. It's my understanding of Islam, that the husband provides for the wife, not the other way around. Don't get me wrong, I don't want or need support, I just want him to support himself and ease some of the burden from my shoulders.

I guess this is all a moot point, as we left each other today after only 9 months of marriage.

I just wonder a Pakistanis point of view...is this fraud ? Was he really just using me ?


maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-17 02:55:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportsguy best suggestion from me ..
Omg..calm down sweetheart. You must be patient.
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 13:20:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan

Sorry...I'm struggling to see how any of this has to do with the "Visa Journey".  



I started this post thinking to help my husband..only to find out that our marriage was not real. Sometimes in a journey..the outcome is not as we expect and we are lead to a comclusion that we are not happy with. That being said i will no longer be posting here, as there is mo need . I do wish all your legitimate relationships all the best and that your journey results in happiness.
 

Edited by Ryan H, 17 November 2013 - 05:44 PM.

maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-17 16:58:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
He had a job when i met him. Not a good one but i was in love. I know the struggle in Pakistan and i appreciate that it may be hard to get a job. It seems like he doesnt try at all. If he truly wanted to he would take any job at all. I gave up freelancing for a steady 9to 5 for him to show i can support him for the petition. I hate my job but i would do anything for him. I cant handle his demands weekly. If i dont send a certain amount he gets angry. I am not supposed to talk to men despite i m innocent of flirting. If i don't answer his phone he says i m cheating. I wish the best for him and will send money til he gets work as i feel responsible for his welfare until divorce. Thank you for all the feedback. Allah Hafiz
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-17 00:05:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
Yes. He is. From my understanding of Islam, a husband should support his wife. I have been told by Muslim friends that he is just using me. I dont expect suppirt for me but i do want him to support himself.
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 21:30:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
Its more than just patience. I am patient. But im also supporting him financially. I have two children and i m paying for everything including his food n such. I feel stressed and anxious, not about the petition but life with a man like him. I have a 16 yo daughter threatening suicide n a husband that won't even get a job. Its too much for me and my daughter must come first.
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 21:03:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
The distance proved to be too much. Me and my husband left each other today.
I wish you all the best of luck. I hope your visa approvals work out. Allah Hafiz.
Thank you all for your kind words. Good luck

maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 18:08:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
Idk..but long distance is difficult ..we fight about silly things. I m trying to b patient but its hard being separate. :(
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 14:48:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
Love is blind...sweetheart..just answer me on google..not here. To all..love is blind is my husband:)
maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 13:01:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
Well I submitted to Chicago lockbox. I think it's Vermont, not 100% sure. My husband knows more than me, as I have been working so many hours to meet income requirments to show financial support ability. I joined this site for support as none of my family or friends understands what i am going through. I am thinking to return to Pakistan for few weeks as i am lonely without husband:(
Is there anything else to do but wait?

maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 12:56:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsPakistan
So i filed my I 130 for my Pakistani husband back in April. So far i have only received acceptance and NOA1. Why is this taking so long?
I miss my husband terribly and want to know if there is anything else i should be doing?

maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-16 12:38:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresUnemployed, low assets, want to bring wife to USA

Since your mother meets the requirements in regards to the 5 times the poverty levell in the form of assets, why confuse it and add your father ? I would simply add her as a co sponsor. Wish you the best:)


maryamwesseemFemalePakistan2013-11-17 01:24:00