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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies that are filing to Remove Conditions
QUOTE (Minfay @ Apr 17 2008, 09:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Apr 16 2008, 09:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mindy did an excellent job!


Thanks Gill!!

BUT -- I can't take all the credit. I copied my cover letter from Julie (Sbys) -- I found it here on VJ in one of the "guides" I sent it to her (and because she filed two weeks before I did) I took her final letter and changed it with my info. Would love to say that was my brillance but it wasn't.

Jonesie: I started collecting things the moment Roy got here. We kept a folder in the kitchen and would drop mail and other things in there so it was all in one place. It does say in the "instructions" 'from the time of the marriage' so we included photos from our wedding shower and from the wedding too. It was over 200 pages of utter ####### but it made me feel better wacko.gif


heart.gif MINDY!! heart.gif Hey my girl smile.gif good to see you around yes.gif
I'm a packrat when it comes to bills so I know somewhere around this place I have old bills, but your idea was very smart (for all those that have yet to file AOS/Removing Conditions - take notes!) to drop proof in the folder yes.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-17 12:08:00
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QUOTE (sjb1221 @ Apr 17 2008, 08:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
They also want to see evidence from the entire marriage not from the time you recieved the GC.


I was wondering about that. I was going to do a photo section starting from when we got married (a month after he arrived to US) up to recent, and gather a few documents that go back to 2006 up to now (I think we can get copies of our joint credit card statement).
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-17 11:13:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Apr 17 2008, 08:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jonsie.....dont' you have to list ALL addresses on you've lived together on the I-751? I don't have it in front of me at work; but I think you do. If so, I would not worry about the bank statements saying anything different as far as the address goes. 2 years is a long time. People move all the time.

Oh, yah, I keep forgetting to mention the card thing the 2 year GC came on. Mindy forgot it too till I reminded her. I found ours in our car just about a month ago. I was so shocked. It was under the seat and someone must've spilled soda on it or something. (Shrug) It's going in with the package no matter how it looks!


I was going to mention the previous address because we lived there until Jan. 2007. I'm just ready to get this whole process over with wacko.gif the good thing is that with the exception of the government paperwork, gathering proof seems to be very similar to AOS. We better not have to interview again :mad:
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-17 10:52:00
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QUOTE (sjb1221 @ Apr 16 2008, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Don't forget the paper the 2 year green card came in...it said something similiar to: include this letter if you are extending your CG or you requesting a replacement to expedite the process...something crazy like that. Not sure that means anything but it won't hurt to include it.


Thank you so much for mentioning this, as I completely forgot about it. I was on the hunt looking for that paper yesterday. We still have unpacked boxes in our spare room so I was tearing through them gathering all the documents and papers for previous filings. I found that sheet (thank the Lord I kept everything they sent us), and since we interviewed for AOS and they didn't take any evidence from the binder, I found some things in there that I can use for this step of the process yes.gif

I printed out our gas/electric bills, 2006 and 2007 joint tax returns, found our health coverage statements from his work, and will be going to the bank probably early next month for a letter stating when our joint account was opened and that it is still active. We have checks from the account but they bear our previous address...I guess we can explain that if need be. I will be doing more printing today so that I can start to assemble this binder.

QUOTE (sjb1221 @ Apr 16 2008, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The yardies waiting for LOC approval I know of:

Rhonda
myself
Sbys (Julie)
JamaicaDiva
Brownskinn
Mindy

A short list compared to the many couples who married 2005-2006 sad.gif

Doodle has been approved already kicking.gif


Congrats Doodle kicking.gif
and good luck to everyone else who have already filed to remove conditions yes.gif

Unfortunately you're right - this is a short list, I joined VJ in 2005 and there are so many relationships that didn't make it this far.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-17 10:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies that are filing to Remove Conditions
QUOTE (Jomo @ Apr 16 2008, 09:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
A copy of one of her affidavits....again, XX'd....

BEFORE THE UNITED STATES CITIZENSHIP AND IMMIGRATION SERVICES
UNITED STATES DEPARTMENT OF HOMELAND SECURITY


IN RE: Joint Petition of )
XXXX and XXXXX to ) A# XXXXX
Remove Conditions on Residence )
of XXXXX )
AFFIDAVIT OF: XXXXX

BEFORE ME, the undersigned authority, personally appeared XXXXXXX who, after being first duly sworn and cautioned upon her oath, deposes and states:

1. My name is XXXXX. I live at XXXXX, USA. I was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, USA on November 11, 1963. I have personal knowledge of the facts set forth herein.

2. I have known XXXXX since April 1986. We met while working together at Dragonette, Inc.

3. My husband, XXXXX, and I regularly socialize with Mindy and Vincent. We enjoy meeting them for lunch or dinner in Chicago’s western suburbs. It is always a treat to watch Vincent try new foods and learn about other cultures via some of the ethnic restaurants we’ve visited. I admire Mindy for her efforts to acclimate Vincent to his new life in the United States. She explains foods and customs that are unfamiliar to him, and reminds him to slow down when he speaks. Vincent’s enthusiasm for his life with Mindy is delightful, but the more excited he gets, the faster he speaks.

4. Vincent enjoys talking about his job experiences. It is obvious when talking to him that he is a proud man and a hard worker. He takes his work seriously and wants to continue to make a good life for himself and his wife.

5. Mindy told me about her relationship with Vincent four years ago. I’ve know her for a long time and it was apparent that Vincent was very special to her. In 22 years, I’ve socialized with Mindy a lot, but our best time together was at her engagement party. I was thrilled that my good friend had found the love of her life in Vincent. He was just as excited about their pending marriage as she was. The complement each other and together make a great team.

FURTHER AFFIANT SAYETH NAUGHT


XXXXXX

STATE OF ILLINOIS )
) ss:
COUNTY OF ………….. )

Sworn to and subscribed before me this ______ day of ………..2008, by XXXXXX, who personally appeared before me, is personally known to me or produced ………………as identification, and did take an oath.


Notary:
Print Name:
Notary Public, State of:
My commission expires:


and one for a family member........

BEFORE THE UNITED STATES CITIZENSHIP AND IMMIGRATION SERVICES
UNITED STATES DEPARTMENT OF HOMELAND SECURITY


IN RE: Joint Petition of )
XXX and XXX to ) A# XXXX
Remove Conditions on Residence )
of XXXXX )

AFFIDAVIT OF: LYNDA J. NICHOLAS

BEFORE ME, the undersigned authority, personally appeared XXXXX who, after being first duly sworn and cautioned upon her oath, deposes and states:

1. My name is XXXXX. I live at XXXXXXX, USA. I was born in Chicago, Illinois, USA on February 27, 1967. I have personal knowledge of the facts set forth herein.

2. Since my birth, I have been the sister of XXXXXXXX.

3. I have entertained Mindy and Vincent in my home in San Diego and have also spent time with them together on my trips to Chicago.

4. Mindy has confided in me about her relationship with Vincent since the beginning. She has shared with me all the wonderful aspects of their relationship and I am happy she and Vincent have such a great marriage.

5. Mindy and Vincent have spent time with me and my husband and our four children while visiting us here in California and while we visited family in Chicago. My husband and my children are all very fond of Vincent. He treats my sister with love and respect. My children think he is funny, entertaining and they love the way he speaks. Vincent has taken my children fishing and played games with them and shared stories of his country with them. He is truly a wonderful addition to our family.

FURTHER AFFIANT SAYETH NAUGHT


XXXXXXXX

STATE OF CALIFORNIA )
) ss:
COUNTY OF ………….. )

Sworn to and subscribed before me this ______ day of ………..2008, by XXXXXXXXX, who personally appeared before me, is personally known to me or produced ………………as identification, and did take an oath.


Notary:
Print Name:
Notary Public, State of:
My commission expires:


My family wrote letters of support for my fiance visa, I am gonna do the same for the removal of conditions also. This is a great template. Thanks yes.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-16 11:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies that are filing to Remove Conditions
QUOTE (Jomo @ Apr 16 2008, 09:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm filing August 2nd.

Mindy filed a few weeks ago and got her NOA over the weekend.

This is the letter she sent in with it........( I XX'd out full names for board purposes)

April 1, 2008



USCIS Nebraska Service Center
P.O. Box 87751
Lincoln, NE 68501-7751

Re: I-751 Joint Petition to Remove Conditions of Status On:
XXXXXXXXXX – A# ...-...-...

Dear USCIS Examiner:

Please find enclosed a JOINT I-751 Petition to Remove Conditions of Status regarding my husband, XXXXXX.

My husband entered the U.S. on a K-1 Visa on January 13, 2006 and we married on March 3, 2006. His Adjustment of Status petition was approved on June 28, 2006. We have established a happy life together and request that this petition be accepted for removal of conditions on the residence of my husband, XXXXXX.

Please Note: My husbands “given” name is Vincent. He uses this name for all “official” business. His “nickname” which our friends and family routinely address him as is, Roy.

As requested, enclosed please find a copy of his Permanent Resident Card, front and back, along with the insert that came with the card and a personal check (#2034) payable to the United States Department of Homeland Security in the amount of $545.00 to satisfy the $465.00 filing fee and the $80.00 biometric fee.

In addition to the above, we are providing the following documents as evidence to verify the status of our marriage:

Sworn Affidavits
• Sworn Affidavits from XXXX, XXXXX, XXXX, XXXXX, XXXXX and XXXXX

Tax Records
• Copy of Our Joint 2006 and 2007 Tax Returns and Official Transcripts for each year

Banking/Financial Records
• Copy of Both of Our Driver’s Licenses Showing the Same Address
• Copy of our Joint Washington Mutual Checking and Savings Accounts and Debit Cards
• Copy of our Joint TCF Bank Checking and Savings Accounts
• Copy of our Joint Credit/Debit Cards – United Mileage Plus, Sam’s Club, TCF Bank and Cabela’s Visa (w/statements)
• Copy of Mindy’s IRA showing Vincent as beneficiary
• Copy of Mindy’s Last Will and Testament showing Vincent as beneficiary
• Copy of Vincent’s pay stubs showing marital residence address

Residential/Utilities
• Copies of utility and residence invoices: AT&T, Homewood Disposal, DirecTV, Nicor Gas, Village of Homewood Alarm, Chicago Tribune, Southtown Star, Caribbean Pools, Flossmoor Animal Hospital, A Better Door, CTT Electric, Cancer Support Center

Insurance Records
• Copy of MetLife Homeowners Insurance showing Vincent and Mindy as Insured
• Copy of our Joint Auto Insurance for Mindy’s 2002 Hyundai Santa Fe and Vincent’s 1988 Buick Regal.
• Copy of Joint Title and Tax Records to Vincent’s 1988 Buick Regal
• Copy of our Joint Aetna Health Insurance Cards and statement showing use
• Copy of HCR-ManorCare Benefits Link for Vincent showing benefit information for Health, Dental and Spouse Life Insurance for Mindy as his “dependent”

Other Records/Misc. Documents
• United Airlines itinerary and boarding passes from June, 2006 trip to San Diego
• Air Jamaica itinerary and hotel information for upcoming trip to Jamaica, August, 2008
• Miscellaneous cards and letters

Photographs
• THESE ARE IN THE CAR….NEED TO PUT THIS IN TOMORROW

You may feel free to inquire at any of the sources of enclosed documentation for validity of their statements, and you are always welcome to visit our home should you ever desire to do so. Please advise me if you have any further questions or problems related to this petition.



Husband’s signature Wife’s signature


Wow...tell Mindy her cover letter is excellent! It's an all in one table of contents so the officer knows exactly what they are to look for. Thanks for posting this Jomo. I gotta start getting our financial docs together. About how far back is recommended? Dumb me, I didn't save our joint bank statements from 2006-2007 and to get them from the bank they charge...maybe I can get a letter from the bank stating when our joint account was opened and that it is still active?

Edited by Jonesie, 16 April 2008 - 11:50 AM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-16 11:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies that are filing to Remove Conditions
Can we get together to post of our progress? I am preparing to do so in June (May, Lord willing) and need all the help I can get so hopefully we do not have to interview this time around.

What did/are you planning to submit as proof? And is there another employment letter/2 years of tax returns required with this as it was with AOS?

Edited by Jonesie, 16 April 2008 - 11:38 AM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-04-16 11:37:00
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CONGRATS QUANA! I rarely come on the board but I'm glad I did to see this. File for him while he's here whistling.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-08-18 13:17:00
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I'm finally done with work kicking.gif see you all later. Have a great weekend!

Edited by Jonesie, 29 May 2009 - 04:20 PM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-29 16:19:00
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Congrats Ells and Heavensent - two different causes but reason to celebrate kicking.gif
Welcome back Sus
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-29 10:43:00
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QUOTE (Sbys @ May 28 2009, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi All! It has been a long time since I posted on here and a long time since I got my K1 - but I know someone going through the process now and she needs some help.

So she talked to the NVC in March and they said her case was sent to Kingston on Feb. 16th. She has heard nothing since then. Is this normal? What is the process now after it leaves the NVC?

I would really appreciate any help wacko.gif


Hey chica!! Looooooonnnnnggg time since you been here. Your son is adorable wub.gif hope you and yours are doing well yes.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-29 10:39:00
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QUOTE (wakeywakeup @ May 24 2009, 12:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ May 24 2009, 03:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wait..isn't she about to raise a aby by herself? the baby fat her will be in the country out of status..o what is she going to do?



That's exactly what I told her! He will be back in Ja and she will be raising this kid. She said she has connections in Ja and will have someone find him and believes she can get child support while he is here or there.... I laughed good and hard on that one


rofl.gif how will the Jamaican court system make him pay child support when:
1. Neither D nor Jezebel were living in Jamaica when the baby was conceived
2. There is no DNA proof that the baby is his

She can keep dreaming.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-24 14:22:00
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More pics from Jezebel






JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-24 13:36:00
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QUOTE (wakeywakeup @ May 23 2009, 03:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning ya'll! Congrats on all the recent approvals and inteview dates. All I can say is look at GOD! He is mighty and awesome!!!

Does anyone out there no the laws on whose income is considered for child support recovery?

The "adulterer" aka "adulteress, fornicatress, hussy, loose woman, strumpet, trollop, #######, jade" is back at it. She has contacted me saying she is indeed pregnant and wants money. She is saying she will keep her baby and embarass me with photos of ultrasound on this site. She is also treating to go after my current and future monies (my pending lawsuit).

I've informed her that under no uncertain terms will she get a dime from me. We will be divorced by the time she has the baby. I think she is wacko.gif wacko.gif in the head. I told her I didn't take any issue with her in the beginning but now you want to threaten ME!!!! Bring it!!


It seems to me as if this adulteress/jezebel feels like she can threaten you with posting on Visajourney because she has the "safety" of being an unknown...mek mi buss har secret...
username: Shes_loved21 (aka lovesucks21)


This chick messed up by adding you as a friend and putting up profile pictures that were recognizable. She should have stayed a lurker or anonymous. Now regarding these ultrasound photos, let all of us VJ mommies put our ultrasound photos up laughing.gif and go from there. You already have two kids (I saw their pictures in your profile, and they are cute btw) so you could easily be posting one of their old ultrasound photos.

You need to grow the f*** up. Your issue is not with Carmita - she was in the picture first and met D before you. If D don't want you (pregnant or not) you deal with him. Take your a** back to California.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-24 13:01:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Apr 28 2009, 05:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jonesie @ Apr 28 2009, 07:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (DaDa @ Apr 28 2009, 12:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL!!!! Girl you knowI have to be careful I don't want to keep offending people...


Offend? Please. You claim you've been lurking here for over two years now, so have you not learned anything since reading here? During the time you've been "lurking" enough drama has gone down with ppl who chat their business - you never know who is reading here or who knows your man. Women would post here only to have their words taken back to JA to their man via some random or anonymous boardie. I've been here a lot longer than you have. You had his picture in your signature so any woman can go down and with his pic printed from your profile to try to test him. You say he's around Mobay right? Jamaica is a small island...Don't think that hasn't happened before? I'm not the only person that can validate that it has.

What you post is here forever and this is an open board; I would think that you would be more cautious. There are more ppl who lurk here (like you did) than who actually post. Just a few week ago yu chat bout quickie before you reach Sangster right? Mi nuh give a rass bout wha yu an him do inna di bed, mi a try warn yu. And when I said "unnu" I wasn't speaking to just you. Take it as you wish, but I would think that you have enough to deal with in your LDR, so you wouldn't want this to be added to your list. Unnu tek dis intanet ting fi wan joke, see a who laugh when di fowl come home fi roost.


No its been less than two years that I have been lurking and that is exactly what I have been doing lurking not reading but from what you write maybe I should have been paying closer attention on here and been reading every little thing seems like at times VJ can be really interesting. But like you said you know you have been here wayyyy longer than mi. Calm down chica anent nobody tryna take your shine so you do you.. I had no BIG interest in it because we were and still is not at that stage yet where we’re ready to be a committed couple.

Furthermore I was going to go back and fourth with you but why bother? I don’t have time and if a woman is so malicious to take what I say to JA and try them things with him well then I consider that a favor I'll know what type of man he truly is. Oh yeah I feel so honored you remembered what me say that means you do find me stories interesting.. Thanks for the compliment but re-read our quickie wasn’t on the way to Sangster. Try again.....


I don't argue, I'm stating facts
A wha dis:
QUOTE (DaDa)
Good Morning Ladies....

As always I have been lurking on the site for what Quana like two years now. I'm very good friends with Quana and she has asked me to post but mi neva do but I'm always on here reading so most of you, I feel like I already knoa


Just like I said earlier, everything you post here can be traced back.

Mi naah no time fi argue wid you an mi naah need VJ fi "shine", try mi a try fi tip you off but nobody waan hear di trut. And a no you "quickie" story - a mi fault but nuff posts under yu profile fi back up wha mi seh. Ready fi commit or not, watch what you post. A wan rass shame - yuh get vex wid me but mi ongly point out wha you type. Wooooiiieeee laughing.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-28 19:26:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Apr 28 2009, 12:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL!!!! Girl you knowI have to be careful I don't want to keep offending people...


Offend? Please. You claim you've been lurking here for over two years now, so have you not learned anything since reading here? During the time you've been "lurking" enough drama has gone down with ppl who chat their business - you never know who is reading here or who knows your man. Women would post here only to have their words taken back to JA to their man via some random or anonymous boardie. I've been here a lot longer than you have. You had his picture in your signature so any woman can go down and with his pic printed from your profile to try to test him. You say he's around Mobay right? Jamaica is a small island...Don't think that hasn't happened before? I'm not the only person that can validate that it has.

What you post is here forever and this is an open board; I would think that you would be more cautious. There are more ppl who lurk here (like you did) than who actually post. Just a few week ago yu chat bout quickie before you reach Sangster right? Mi nuh give a rass bout wha yu an him do inna di bed, mi a try warn yu. And when I said "unnu" I wasn't speaking to just you. Take it as you wish, but I would think that you have enough to deal with in your LDR, so you wouldn't want this to be added to your list. Unnu tek dis intanet ting fi wan joke, see a who laugh when di fowl come home fi roost.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-28 18:24:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Apr 28 2009, 08:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (KKHoliday @ Apr 28 2009, 11:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (DaDa @ Apr 28 2009, 11:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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Happy Birthday Nat!!!!! And because I'm Dada I'm going to give you a tip for the day.. Did you know that if you eat an Altoid right before (fill in the blank) wow.gif it give you the sensation of a peppermint patty..... rofl.gif tongue_ss.gif

wow.gif helpsmilie.gif headbonk.gif You don't give tips in those emails do you?


No I don't give tips!!! We just talk about different experiences.. But don’t let Quana act all innocent she’s on our e-mail chain to and after talking to this girl I am taking notes trying to keep up. Because of her I have a list of things I want to try but then again she is no where as fluffy as I am so I’m not sure if can umm umm stretch or bend like her... star_smile.gif


Unnu need fi keep bedroom bizniz inna di bedroom an off VJ - never know who a read. Unnu chat bout bow... headbonk.gif

Happy birthday Nat, and congrats Gill and Lovesponge

Edited by Jonesie, 28 April 2009 - 10:38 AM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-28 10:38:00
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Carmita I give you credit because you know how to pick your battles. I'm glad you put him out instead of putting the blame on the girl that contacted you. I get so tired of seeing women blame the other woman instead of the man that they are involved with.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-27 16:14:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Apr 27 2009, 11:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jonesie @ Apr 27 2009, 02:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Apr 27 2009, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Apr 27 2009, 02:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Apr 27 2009, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Get in line with my sister, brother, and mom.. Me I just feel like a zombie.. I need to take action but right now all I can do is cry.. I say the signs and confronted him about stuff and of course he denied always to the end.. no babe oonu mi wife mi neva hurt or cheat pon ya.. rah rah.. and here this woman is pregnant with the baby I was trying to hard to conceive. There is a reason the Lord wouldn't let me conceive.


There was a reason the Lord wouldn't let you conceive WITH HIM!!

When did you find out? Has he moved out?


Yes I kicked him out yesterday and he is calling saying he would never have thrown me in the street like a dog even i did do what he had done.. I do worry about what will happen to him..he doesn't make much money. My family tells me I'm a fool for still caring. I'm not going back to him but I feel sorry for him. I know he will find his way though just like he found a way to cheat and lie.


Of course you care because you love him, but don't let him take you for a fool. If Dwayne cared enough about you and his marriage commitment this would have never happened, more or less in your home. You know I love you like family and only want the best for you. Thank you Lord for this coming to light now - He has a purpose in everything.



I totally agree and love you right back. Thanks for the encouragment..


You did nothing wrong, no matter how things seem. Di ol dutty gyal a breed fi two men arready - wan big skettel dat. Let Dwayne deal with her. Just be sure to contact INS and put a stop on his petition.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-27 13:53:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Apr 27 2009, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Apr 27 2009, 02:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Apr 27 2009, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Get in line with my sister, brother, and mom.. Me I just feel like a zombie.. I need to take action but right now all I can do is cry.. I say the signs and confronted him about stuff and of course he denied always to the end.. no babe oonu mi wife mi neva hurt or cheat pon ya.. rah rah.. and here this woman is pregnant with the baby I was trying to hard to conceive. There is a reason the Lord wouldn't let me conceive.


There was a reason the Lord wouldn't let you conceive WITH HIM!!

When did you find out? Has he moved out?


Yes I kicked him out yesterday and he is calling saying he would never have thrown me in the street like a dog even i did do what he had done.. I do worry about what will happen to him..he doesn't make much money. My family tells me I'm a fool for still caring. I'm not going back to him but I feel sorry for him. I know he will find his way though just like he found a way to cheat and lie.


Of course you care because you love him, but don't let him take you for a fool. If Dwayne cared enough about you and his marriage commitment this would have never happened, more or less in your home. You know I love you like family and only want the best for you. Thank you Lord for this coming to light now - He has a purpose in everything.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-04-27 13:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaWhat are your plans for 2009
1. Finish school
2. Buy 2nd car
3. Move
4. Take up Spanish language course again (I stopped in HS and forgot almost everything)
5. Lose 15-20 pounds
Not particularly in the above listed order...
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 15:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
QUOTE (Yaads @ Nov 24 2008, 09:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
All wonderful ideas biggrin.gif I am an avid reader and would love to do a reading program type of thing. I also think that buying school books/fees is a great idea as well. We should probably start small and hopefully get bigger as time passes.

I am up for helping in anyway that I am needed.

Noon EST? So that would be 9am on the west coast...I will be at work but it shouldn't be a problem. I know Jonesie won't be able to make it though.


Thanks Yaads - I won't be able to make it. Please someone sum everything up for me so I can check in during my lunch (11:30 pacific/2:30 eastern) to see what I missed.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-24 12:41:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 21 2008, 10:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OK, where are my ladies? I'm trying to get everyone logged on at the same time so we can try and iron out some of the issues with out charity.

we need to figure who will hold officer positions
how will we meet..(do we schedule monthly "meetings")
What will we name our charity...and the frequency of our gift
what are some ways we can raise funds


come ladies lets do it


I'd love to hold a title position but my schedule is so crazy right now - put me down as an assistant (if anyone needs help I can step up)/floater.

My schedule is tight Mon-Thurs so for me the best time to meet would be Fri (after 4pm pacific time) and on weekends. I think meetings twice a month while in the planning phase would be good (every other week) - we all have our various commitments and families.

Name of charity...good one. Still thinking about that.

Raising funds...another one to think about. I know that in regard to donations such as books, the libraries here donate all the time and hold mini-sales where the cost of books are as low as .10 per copy. Once we decide what we're going to do then I think it'll be easier to figure out how to raise donations and such.

Edited by Jonesie, 23 November 2008 - 02:12 PM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-23 14:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
I like the idea of a reading program too. Would the books be sent to local libraries in each parish/town, or would they be sent to schools?

I wish I had the money and resources to do it all.

One thing I've been thinking about for a while is paying school and book fees for a child per school year. It's hard enough to get the money to come up with uniforms, let alone the cost of books. For my niece it cost $19,000JA for the books. She still had to have other supplies (backpack/paper and pencil/uniform and shoes/etc).

I'm torn on making a decision because if we do something like a reading program then the whole community benefits, but I know there are so many families who need the financial help to send their children to school too sad.gif.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-23 14:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
Starting our own charity or organization would be great, I know it will take work but that way we could expand for membership/contributions/volunteers. I'll check back in later when I get home.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-21 17:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
Back to topic...

Here is the link for the Jamaica Child Development Agency
http://www.cda.gov.jm/
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 19:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
QUOTE (Yaads @ Nov 19 2008, 02:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So who has links/connections to a charity we could consider supporting? I know Sus and Rox had some ideas...


What about childrens homes/orphanages? I'll see if I can find the link to it (came across it while looking up the adoption paperwork).
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 17:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Charity
Put me down for St. Ann (Lime Hall represent!)
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 17:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies filing for K-1 Visas
QUOTE (jawi876 @ May 21 2009, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jonesie @ May 21 2009, 08:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Who Jah bless no man curse!

A your time sis - I've been through every step with you and it is definitely your time heart.gif


See you went and did it! I've been doing a good job holding back the water works. You have been with me and us through our entire journey...from the first moment we said hello to each other. Remember we thought he was so MEAN and stand-offish? LOL...

I'm crying...but they are tears of joy and relief...my baby is finally coming home. It feels so surreal...but I know that it is God because I stood still when I wanted to run forward. I walked away when all I wanted to do was clutch tighter. I listened to God before listening to my own heart. Thank you for keeping me walking in faith when my faith was being challenged...thank you for being my sister and best friend. I love you girl.


I remember rofl.gif we thought he had a major attitude. You were there when I met my husband and you supported me even when I didn't think I could go on from the stress of doing a ldr. I wish you two nothing but the best - but with the Lord by your side you'll get nothing less. Thank you Jesus for the blessings you rain down upon us every day. I love you too and enjoy this moment. We both know the interview is just a minor technicality. You have enough proof to fill the local yellow pages laughing.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-21 19:53:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies filing for K-1 Visas
Who Jah bless no man curse!

A your time sis - I've been through every step with you and it is definitely your time heart.gif

JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-05-21 19:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaJamaican Tourist Visa
Hey JG
There has been a delay with our filing (started a new job, relocated) so our filing has been put on hold until we get situated. Check your PM.

Edited by Jonesie, 22 December 2009 - 10:53 PM.

JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-12-22 22:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaJamaican Tourist Visa
Jomo - they own their home and a few others + some land.

Thanks everyone for the replies. All we can do is fill out the app and leave it in the Lord's hands. I'll keep you posted on the progress.
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-19 12:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaJamaican Tourist Visa
Hello yardies,

I remember some vet yardies did this process a while back - I'm gonna need some help with filing a tourist visa for my MIL. My FIL owns his own business and their bank records have the information needed to back this up. What else should I send to increase our chances of getting approved?
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-18 17:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaKingston Jamaica Housing/Hotels
QUOTE (Marlita @ Sep 18 2008, 11:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oh thanks Jonesie. Those are exactly what we are looking for. So much more our style. good lookin!

Tripadvisor.com (Jamaica forum) may be another good resource. Good luck!
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-09-18 13:53:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaKingston Jamaica Housing/Hotels
Congrats on the interview date good.gif I'll see if hubby can make some recommedations on smaller guest houses.

Found this at Sangsters Realty:
http://sangstersreal...es/prop7436.htm

Here is the link to all rentals in Kingston:
http://sangstersreal...os.htm#KINGSTON
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-09-18 13:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaMy Name Ain't Stella Part Tree(3)
Screaming like a school girl

kicking.gif kicking.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-08-11 17:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaOKAY GUYANESE! GET OUT HERE!
Good luck to all of you! good.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-10-28 10:35:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanApproved and livin' it up at home
Congrats and may the Lord continue to keep blessing you two!
JonesieFemaleJamaica2007-02-28 18:49:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionThe story of my wife's oath ceremony
Congrats - and thanks for posting! We will be taking this part of our journey next year yes.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2008-11-05 15:30:00
US Citizenship General DiscussionInterview in Sacramento Today
Congrats good.gif
JonesieFemaleJamaica2009-11-24 11:49:00