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Removing Conditions on Residency General DiscussionCAN I USE STALKING AS EVIDENCE OF ABUSE MY HUSBAND FOLLOWED ME I HAVE I 360 PENDING

Hi
i need some help .
i have married my husbund in april 2007 and i divorce july 2008
i have moved with him in january 2007 and i left the house in nov 2007 .he abused me many times in all ways but i ve never called the police and i never went to talk to the police or doctors . i lost the green card interview and after one year i ve received deportation .
I have filed for an I 360 ON DEC 2008 GOT THE PRIMA FACIE FOR 180 DAYS AND I VE NEVER EXTEND IT
ON FEB 2009 I GOT MY WORK AUTORIZATION ALSO FOR A YEAR .
I ALSO SUBMIT THE PAPERS FOR GREEN CARD I485 AND I GOT ALL THE RECEIPTS.
nOW AFTER A YEAR THEY ASKING ME FOR MORE EVIDENCE ( FEB 7 2010) AND THEY SAID THAT MY ISSUES ARE MARITAL PROBLEMS NOT ABUSE . I HAVE AFFID. FROM ALL MY FRIEND WHAT I TOLD THEM AND 1 FRIEND WITNESS BUT NOT EYE WITNESS SOME THINGS THAT HAPPEND BETWEEN ME AND HIM .
AT THIS POINT I M DESPERATE AND THE ONLY THING THAT I HAVE IS A VIDEO WITCH I FOUND AND COPY WHEN I WAS IN HIS HOUSE AND ITS A VIDEO WITH ME I WAS FOLLOWED AND THERE IS A DATE AND TIME ON IT AND DURING THE VIDEO .
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO !!!! SHOULD I SUMBIT THAT VIDEO ??
PLEASE I NEED ANY TYPE OF HELP .
I HAVENT SEEN ANY SHELTER ANY POLICE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW I M STILL SCARED OF HIM AND I STILL CANNOT BE WITH ANYONE .



hi there..

glad to see your post..

i will share mine, maybe it can help you...

on oct of 2008, i arrived here in US and got married with my soon to be xhusband of dec 2008, same yr i flew here in US..

on may of last year, he was arrested of domestic violence and imprisonment..

he did abused me in so many ways too...

it was my friend called the police, I got most help..

I live in the shelter for 3mons before i was able to start get back my feet..

I got my AED June of 2009 and right away found a job..

he did withdraw the petition somewhere last year when he found out that I am working..

I got probono's atty's and on the proccess of working both my immigration papers and my divorce..

but it sucks for nothing happend yet!

I am super duper stressed out right now due to my AED will expires May of this year and with that, I am out of status again and can't work anymore!

I am totally lost by now..

I have all the evidence(my immigration atty has it now) and all the pics and my soon to be ex-husband pledid guilty of the case against him..

I would suggest, go to court and ask a protection order..

my soon to be ex-husband can't go near me for if he does, he will be back in jail..

find WIC or other shelters that can help you, the best way for you is to be in the shelter as of the moment and they can help you out with your case...

I did get help from those institution and am under VAWA..

you can also ask help from CATHOLIC CHARITIES in your area... they can help you find a probono immigration atty..

google it so that you can find where is it in your area.. also WIC shelter, or other agencies.. they are much connected to one another to the other..


PM me for more help..

hope you can find ways as I did..

GOOD LUCK TO BOTH OF US...
cutie_nauthyFemalePhilippines2010-01-14 03:58:00
Removing Conditions on Residency General DiscussionCAN I USE STALKING AS EVIDENCE OF ABUSE MY HUSBAND FOLLOWED ME I HAVE I 360 PENDING

Hi
i need some help .
i have married my husbund in april 2007 and i divorce july 2008
i have moved with him in january 2007 and i left the house in nov 2007 .he abused me many times in all ways but i ve never called the police and i never went to talk to the police or doctors . i lost the green card interview and after one year i ve received deportation .
I have filed for an I 360 ON DEC 2008 GOT THE PRIMA FACIE FOR 180 DAYS AND I VE NEVER EXTEND IT
ON FEB 2009 I GOT MY WORK AUTORIZATION ALSO FOR A YEAR .
I ALSO SUBMIT THE PAPERS FOR GREEN CARD I485 AND I GOT ALL THE RECEIPTS.
nOW AFTER A YEAR THEY ASKING ME FOR MORE EVIDENCE ( FEB 7 2010) AND THEY SAID THAT MY ISSUES ARE MARITAL PROBLEMS NOT ABUSE . I HAVE AFFID. FROM ALL MY FRIEND WHAT I TOLD THEM AND 1 FRIEND WITNESS BUT NOT EYE WITNESS SOME THINGS THAT HAPPEND BETWEEN ME AND HIM .
AT THIS POINT I M DESPERATE AND THE ONLY THING THAT I HAVE IS A VIDEO WITCH I FOUND AND COPY WHEN I WAS IN HIS HOUSE AND ITS A VIDEO WITH ME I WAS FOLLOWED AND THERE IS A DATE AND TIME ON IT AND DURING THE VIDEO .
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO !!!! SHOULD I SUMBIT THAT VIDEO ??
PLEASE I NEED ANY TYPE OF HELP .
I HAVENT SEEN ANY SHELTER ANY POLICE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW I M STILL SCARED OF HIM AND I STILL CANNOT BE WITH ANYONE .



hi there..

glad to see your post..

i will share mine, maybe it can help you...

on oct of 2008, i arrived here in US and got married with my soon to be xhusband of dec 2008, same yr i flew here in US..

on may of last year, he was arrested of domestic violence and imprisonment..

he did abused me in so many ways too...

it was my friend called the police, I got most help..

I live in the shelter for 3mons before i was able to start get back my feet..

I got my AED June of 2009 and right away found a job..

he did withdraw the petition somewhere last year when he found out that I am working..

I got probono's atty's and on the proccess of working both my immigration papers and my divorce..

but it sucks for nothing happend yet!

I am super duper stressed out right now due to my AED will expires May of this year and with that, I am out of status again and can't work anymore!

I am totally lost by now..

I have all the evidence(my immigration atty has it now) and all the pics and my soon to be ex-husband pledid guilty of the case against him..

I would suggest, go to court and ask a protection order..

my soon to be ex-husband can't go near me for if he does, he will be back in jail..

find WIC or other shelters that can help you, the best way for you is to be in the shelter as of the moment and they can help you out with your case...

I did get help from those institution and am under VAWA..

you can also ask help from CATHOLIC CHARITIES in your area... they can help you find a probono immigration atty..

google it so that you can find where is it in your area.. also WIC shelter, or other agencies.. they are much connected to one another to the other..


PM me for more help..

hope you can find ways as I did..

GOOD LUCK TO BOTH OF US...
cutie_nauthyFemalePhilippines2010-01-14 02:58:00