ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Middle East and North AfricaLinks between Islam and Terrorism
I really didnt realize or care about the amount of ingnorance and propaganda on both sides, as we living well the american/muslim etc life, It struck me hard recently when my best gori friend( I had enc her to seek religion any for her son to socialize and etc.. know the basics of the books) well she was weak enough to feed ino the machine blaming and pointing they are bad. She told me of a story of man and family escaping Iran getting robbed, people getting finger cut off yada yada, muslim are antichrist theme. this former muslim man had found the true blood of christ and salvation and now selling books. ( to hungry people like her.)I first basically was appaled she didnt really know me, that i have interest and exposed to Islam since young age, believe in its true doctrines. its Men who vile a religion. Not once in our Mosque are they downing christians. Usual theme is how to improve self and take care of others. However, this is alot of what i hear from my christian friends, they need to" save me. from the evils of islam .Ha.inturn they are spreading hate and this is not what the youth of our society wants and or needs. Many a talk like this starts and or propergtes wars, when a country or religion is blamed for the faults of a pack of evil doers. The man rom Iran has many problems with people who done him wrong, he found a scapegoat in Islam, got his precious Asylum and is making money off of it. So be it. Pain and revenge that extreme will only burn up the self..wise word to the OP and all. The tongue is mightier than the sword and this is v true. IMO Christianity in my dealing has never been a peaceful religion. but thats a whole other topic. Just like this concept of Islam being the "antichrist" well hello even i know that this persona or thing will be loved and fooled by the greater whole. NOt hated.

Im just interested in the banter withing the desi community, like Chicago where the neighborhoods, video stores, restaurants, clothing stores are shared.
Hopefully it all will die down and business as usual soon.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 13:18:00
Middle East and North AfricaIbrahim's K3 interview results
Alhamdullilah. good news again Jackie
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 15:43:00
Middle East and North AfricaAsking for Prayers again!
Dont mention it, prayer is @ hand . duas

Abruptio is much more severe than previa. Inshallah she be ok with relaxation. Hi risk antepartum was my specialty for 8 yrs until 2000. ive seen more good outcomes than bad !! Even if she make it 24-26 weeks the pregnancy will be viable.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 13:27:00
Middle East and North AfricaEID AND XMAS
He getting a santa gift along with the kids..LOL . thats funny , but cool. In turn dont forget and aknowledgement, respect likewise and eidy gifts.around the 9th i believe
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 14:47:00
Middle East and North AfricaEID AND XMAS
and if you afraid of what hubby might say tell him to bite it he married and came to america go marry jasmina. All we can do is try to understand and learn from each other and mesh. Not one become something we are not and dont believe in. first year is little rough for us now things are ok @ holidays, its a time where space and understanding is needed.He now goes as far as delivering gifts with me to the little poor kids andfor a very good christian based orginazation ie sal army.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 13:56:00
Middle East and North AfricaEID AND XMAS
Yup I partake in both, bcause i have a blended american family and society. If one gives up thier whole persona and background and basis then they will set themselves up for disenchantment. look up for spiritual guidance and need. not to your side. Not going to any christain candle light services though.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 13:43:00
Middle East and North AfricaHookah - Haram or Halal?
Common practice with the SUFI Mystics of Islam..hash esp with Qalandar day and the dance. Natural and brings them closer to Allah while meditating and prayer.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-05 19:21:00
Middle East and North AfricaWTH to get them for Christmas
Blackberry, leather jacket and a Camry. Not for xmas though.needed for job Lol..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-05 19:33:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhat to give MENA women
a shiny new burka??
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-08 16:55:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhat Normal Is Now
I KNow it sucks, two babies and brother lost. when working in Hi risk antepartum have to live through it every week. Easy for the husband to move on and get on with living life. Not afun time I feel for ya. duas be strong muslimah and take good carfe of the living as well as you can. get help if you cant.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-08 16:52:00
Middle East and North AfricaWe've all been good
Santa is a fat judgemental baxtard...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 16:02:00
Middle East and North Africalong lay
Depends on what part of the world you are talking about. You dont want to be stuck somewhere where you are put to work to do it all during the lay. Might even have to put your own luggage on the plane before take off!!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-15 14:11:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
and if you want exclusive privacy. go to yahoo messenger, there is no secret password for this thread or any threads here..entitlement. hmmph
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-16 12:53:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
Well if we were true Muslims and living the Islam life right wouldnt be any problems, would be respect and acceptance. Grief but a brief problem because death is will of ALLAH. So we can blame culture, ami and all things that were present and seen when you met. We can plot revenge, what is this guilt for marrying non=american. WE can do all these things. Deny major depressive ideations. You come up with everything but a plan. in this respects of hurting yourself and others. Those who worry about you and try to help get condemned. Take more downers and play victim and Martry some more. Im betting husband will be glad to see you. Maybe he is complete azzhole. thats his problem and these things he will have to live with and answer for. Or he feeling disconnected and out of place. so he needs to learn how to mesh and survive successfully in society. Time to make a good plan on d move on and get out of that hole which maybe you didnt dig, but you are making it deeper. And hell bent on dragging others into it with you. And this doesnt affect your kids ha! Get another therapist and clue in the NP (diadde your med suggestions right on) . And yah being kind might make him worse. Heck yah i hit hubby here with the quran and discussions ie arguments, not openly though in quiet behind closed doors with family/friend involvement as necessary.And life is alot better when there is limit, boundries and understanding. If you dont have this constructive way to handle differences then ALLAH help pyou to find right path, this doesnt fall in lap from heaven. You have to do your part to succeed. Next post I want to read is you doing better with wha tyou described as inner Jihad struggle. and Inshallah the outer will be no problem for you..Qhudda Hafiz
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-16 12:49:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
Uh whats wrong with online chatting (choke prison) ..seems extreme there?? each thier own if you BOTH agree and stick
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-13 18:22:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
Go on woith life family and friends , have your big brothers kick his azz
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 18:14:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
Well you know your man better than i us. we jsut know the code thya have been taught to live by. this applies to all over the world not just in native country ie universal. If you feel like he has betrayed it then sure turn him into immigration. and let Alah handle it. Not suppose to use widwos divorcess etc those with kids or esp Allah talk to get gain in this material world. V haram..//and his punshment will be twice in the end...

again i dont know your situation and we dont hear from him. Could be that you did not get to know him or respect and love him for who he is. ... so all these questions are up for you to decide what is right in your situation. Even accepting blame for what you are repsonsible for. and grow and learn.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 17:38:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
On the other han if a person does not realize or see the light and learn from mistakes, how are we to protect him from hurting another woman?? We have grown plenty of selfish monsters in this world. because its sociall accepted to do. no real punishment.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 17:16:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
Yes but then there is Justice and then there is Revenge.. ie war in Iraq or Aghanistan there is no punishment for cheating spouse, so how will he learn??..define what means to you. is the morality..discuss amongst yourselves ill be back later Salaams
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 16:32:00
Middle East and North Africafeelings about revenge and deportation when things dont work out
No would slap him to his muslim senses with the Imam and family help. He dont change and show remorse.then let ALLAH be his judge. And be totally free of him.If he does show remorese and change and everyone in agreement . then the subject is OVEr and married life moves on peacefully. either way no grudges to anyone for what test in life was given per ALLAH..ie live learn and move onto higher purposes.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-12 16:25:00
Middle East and North AfricaNo visa for us
Id well i have called embassy in pk and seoul told them i pay taxes and Yada what rubbish is this demand explaination and that you can provide what they need within the week. and yes get senator to CALL as well as email..say Unless he is threat to national security and or already married, then they better provide some reasonings or do the right thing. Keeping husband and wie seperated clearly is very wrong. Shame on them!!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-16 18:15:00
Middle East and North AfricaAlhamdolilah Got our Visa!!
congrats and happy holidays!!

and why do they all play that trick++?? after two yrs of immigration craps
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-16 18:42:00
Middle East and North AfricaWomen arrested for wearing Hijab in traffic court!
One doesnt have to remove for passport pictures,all judges/ countie should follow DHS codes and protocols. hmmph
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-17 13:46:00
Middle East and North AfricaWomen arrested for wearing Hijab in traffic court!
I was told once that dupatta was not prof. not a part of dress code yada. Well it is @ the University hospitals hmm. was wearing it during Ramadan. One of local redneck family complained. So i told them ohh you gonna let them harass me by proxy. Why this email only come to me and not others. THen the email about religous right to wear came out. Once again another instance where there are places in america not so tolerant..Judges should check the codes b4 they make thier decisions. Last time I checked personal preferences/opinions are against legal ethics codes. Toss him off the bench I say.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-17 12:27:00
Middle East and North AfricaIsrael vows to keep up Gaza attacks
Thatswhy diplomacy and talks are better. people think wars end and begin @ country borders, this isnt true in mid east or even asia. buy them books never learn!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-29 18:46:00
Middle East and North AfricaIsrael vows to keep up Gaza attacks
Charles you a good little christian, father , son holy ghost and all them . your atom bomb
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-29 15:41:00
Middle East and North AfricaIsrael vows to keep up Gaza attacks
A GOVT ARMY shouldnt be allowed to attack the civilians, send in the spec forces intelligence not the BLOODY bombs to go after terrorists.. THERE is a difference!!!!!!! Who the terrorists here. hmmmphhhhh oh yah it ok though bcoz your know ..blah blah brainwashed peeoples have too many Gods for me to make sense of and easy to bend the rules that way to suit justification. yada. Im glad im muslim.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-29 15:18:00
Middle East and North AfricaIsrael vows to keep up Gaza attacks
why is it Gods "chosen" people can get to do all the blood shed they want and its ok??

Wow turkey young couple you look like abecrombie models.!!


bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-29 15:11:00
Middle East and North AfricaIts Wednesday !!!!!!!
I thought Jesus was living in Albequerqe with his brother Jose?? wow our economy is going bad when they up and moved to Egypt for work.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-07 11:18:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhat Rumors/Stereotypes Did your MENA SO hear about American Spouses from MENA Friends, Family, etc?
thye also tell them our azzzes get so big that we gonna kill them by crushing them during sexy time arrrghhh
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-06 20:08:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhat Rumors/Stereotypes Did your MENA SO hear about American Spouses from MENA Friends, Family, etc?
The homies tell them that america is sex oriented society, women here cant get enough want it all the time, and perversions that thier women do not provide Ie oral and vibrators and all that oil monkey slapping sex time. They tell them to laugh and to scare him. and He usually say Im the man i will tame her ..whatever. lol
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-05 21:25:00
Middle East and North AfricaHappy Caturday MENA
If the husband is out, is it ok to drink the wine??? and smoke his pipe?? Esp if it is his stash???
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 02:04:00
Middle East and North AfricaHappy Caturday MENA
How you Mena sisters smuggling cats in the house??? I dont have to wear Hijab , but the cat now that is forbidden. He dont want puzzy of any kind touching his hand.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 01:02:00
Middle East and North AfricaI'm back and have more questions..
Oh for petes sake, everyone know it that egypt men get ugly fat with age, and women well we get better looking than them, so it balbances out, and who need kids when they get sister , brother and their kids running around here on visa.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 02:06:00
Middle East and North AfricaI'm back and have more questions..
WOW idle minds and time really a devils playground. jeesh mix in the internet and there you go. Im going to go now and do something constructive. husband doing inventory, me on call and no one calling. I often get ignored and whateva in here. DO I care Nahhh . jeez let these Mena sisters have thier place of support and fun. WOW. no one want to hear from a hater.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 01:48:00
Middle East and North AfricaI'm back and have more questions..
AHh come one now. we all know character is inner. Thiefs of all society are predators. if you find a diamond in the rough then You have it ALL. dont be bitter its not your fault you run in to a jerk.. I hang out here, my msulim sisters in pakistani land are boring. and the pedophile types over in the hmmm mens section try to get me banned (truth hurts them they dont want to hear it) These ladies over here are proud of thier MENA studs if it lasts 3, 5 10, yr or forever. ALLAH is the final judge. No more this disparaging talk make everyone depressed , Im hungry for somosas.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 01:40:00
Middle East and North AfricaHow Muslims are treated in the USA
We get treated well. people inquire. If we go towards the bible thumpers some of them are nose up in the air and whisper. they do that to alot of peoples though not just the only two msulims in the county.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-12 02:04:00
Middle East and North AfricaMy mother in law's tourist visa
Alhamdulillah.. lolz how many months sister Turia. Let the momma drama begin!!!! no really Im hoping my MIL will come over and take care of her baby for me for awhile as well.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 00:59:00
Middle East and North AfricaGot Orfy? Urfy? Orfi? Urfi?
Can you be married to a catholic and a muslim @ one time? if catholic marriage is invalid/ islamic sharia?? Are mormons muslims? Native americans seem to be. discuss amongst yourselves. If you born muslim will you automatically be entered in to jennah....eventuallyy therefore making most sins permissible.???

why is Christain marriage the ending of companionship with many womens and commitment to one, while Islamic marriage is the ending of commitment to one and the beginning of companionship with many womens? I have 2 catholic brothers and 2 muslim brothers which i grew up with in my home. many questions and discussions. Not a big difference in religious dedicatgion and practice except that death do us part thing. in catholicism you stuck with all by yourself eternally, Islam you get to pass him around. ine with me I got songs of praise to sing etc..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-12 01:53:00
Middle East and North AfricaGot Orfy? Urfy? Orfi? Urfi?
I was watching on the history channel last week , they were doing specials on the seven deadly sins. Pride was the worst, it mad Shaytan fall and all other sins can fall under pride (I can do anyting coz im important) they even showed the Amish on how they do away with things and belongings that make them more boastful and prideful, however they easily fall into competing on who is the most humblest, thereofore making them guilty of the sin of pride. (ie God loves me more because my buggy is more primitive than your buggy)...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-01-11 04:27:00