ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesFilipina Fiancee Freaking Out

I met my fiancee last year between May and July in the Philippines. I did not go to Pinas to just meet her.

At first she thought I was a playboy because I told her that I wanted to date other filipinas to see which one I liked, you know filter them out.

I was married to a filipina before so I was very careful about seeing the signs of a good or bad filipina.

Well me and my fiance got together and it was great until my ex-wife's sister found her on Facebook and started to harass her.

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*ause of the doubts and harassment, she broke up with me and didn't talk to me for 4 months, but then she finally came to her senses that I wasn't "that guy!"

Because she just recently wanted to get back together, I had filed the K-1 when we were still together but then we broke up. I thought she didn't want to come be with me anymore
so I didn't save up all the crazy fees that the embassy needs for her to get a K-1.

Now she is freaking out because I can't give her money on demand to get her the medical or pay for other small feels like police clearance right at this moment.

I told her that I just had a big bill for my school, I had big bill for insurance and then I just sent almost $400 dollars to pay for the visa application.

then now I have to save up for a plane ticket, for medical and to send documents to you. She doesn't understand that money doesn't a+ppear magically
Told her that if you didn't believe the other girl and we were still together then those months we lost, then I would have had all the money needed.

$950 for one way ticket, $350 for Visa App, $250 for Medical, $160 for DHL shipment. Stuff adds up, money doesn't grow on trees.

I had to make her understand that because of your decision, you have to suffer the consequences.

Now she is coming after me because I don't have a job and I am still going to school full time even though I have VA disability.
I am trying to explain to her that my mom is helping and it takes a few months or her to start working so YES!
family does have to help a little, that is what they are there for.

Ironically explaining this to a filipina. They are the ones with the big family. You know 8 generations of family living in a 2 bedroom house.
Just that American families are a little different than the Filipino ones.

But she is trying to tell me that we must live on our own, we are both adults, yada yada. I told her! I know about being an adult, I have bee one for almost 10 years now.

I think she is doing this becuase she is afraid of leaving her "known" life in the Philippines and coming to a whole new country which is getting her all worked up.

Any way to calm her down?



ANd you have to add, when she arrives another 1,070 for AOS...explain to her when she is in good mood, am sure she will understand that life here in US is not easy. good luck!
ALABANGGIRLMalePhilippines2012-02-07 01:27:00
PhilippinesPinay marrying US chat buddy ends up dead

Just read it today

http://www.abs-cbnne...buddy-ends-dead

Pinay marrying US chat buddy ends up dead
02/04/2012 1:49 AM

Trahedya rin ang sinapit ng isa pa nating kababayan sa Amerika. Bangkay na nang iuwi sa Pilipinas si Christine Bolor matapos pumunta sa Amerika kasama ng kasintahang Amerikano na nakilala niya sa internet chat. Pinaiimbestigahan ngayon ng pamilya sa embahada ng Pilipinas sa Amerika ang nangyari sa kanilang kaanak. Magba-Bandila si Cris Zuñiga. Bandila, Pebrero 3, 2012, Biyernes



so sad :( i watched this news and felt sad of what happened to one of our kababayan, for those pinay who are staying here in US and no GMA pinoy and kapamilya channels...do watch at www.kaibigantv.com u can watch abs-cbn, gma and tv5...so useful esp like me na nagtitipid :) its not 1 day late and no commercials!
ALABANGGIRLMalePhilippines2012-02-04 03:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresCan a Benefiary Apply for k1 visa Interview

sorry but that is incorrect. you have to pay first or else your passport number (which is your receipt number) will be invalid.



I received my NOA2 last August only...my fiancee (now my hubby) called for my interview date which was set last Oct 10th 2011 without paying first the visa. I pay my visa at BPI when I went to Manila for my medical and a week after was my interview date.
ALABANGGIRLMalePhilippines2012-02-11 19:17:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresIs this a denial or approval?

My fiancé got this in her email this morning. I'm just wondering if it's been approved or denied?

Dear

Your document(s) have been collected from the US Embassy/Consulate.

The passport number being returned is XXXXXXXX and the AWB for tracking is XXXXXXXX.

You have chosen to have your documents delivered to the following location:
2GO Pampanga, Betterdays bldg,, San Fernando, Pampanga 2000

If you have any issues or concerns, please contact us at www.ustraveldocs.com/ph.



during the medical, st. lukes asked ur passport and deliver to embassy along with the medical result...now, that they approved your fiance, they returned back to your fiance her passport and to be sure that its the correct pp, they have to write the pp number. Nothing to worry about, 3-4 days, she will receive the visa, pls tell her not to open it, take out the pp only, because the envelope has 2 opener, special one for the passport and another one for the immigration that will be opened only by I.O at the POE...Congrats!

Edited by ALABANGGIRL, 05 July 2012 - 08:48 PM.

ALABANGGIRLMalePhilippines2012-07-05 20:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresdivorced in US but marriage not annuled in Philippines

hi! my bf wants to file for a fiance visa for me. he just got divorced and it's finalized already...that means their marriage in US is divorced but their marriage in Philippines is not annuled yet. what happened is that they first got married in Phils few years ago, then my bf got back to US then petitioned his then wife. can he file for a fiance visa for me or he still has to annul their marriage in phils? please please help


The first marriage of my friend husband was held in Phil 20 yrs ago, both of them are USC, (guy is pinoy and girl is white) after 15 yrs, got divorced because of incompatibility and culture differences. My friend met his husband in 2003 and petitioned her a year after. They are here now in US...only problem is, they cant get married in Phil because his husband first marriage was not yet annuled until now...
ALABANGGIRLMalePhilippines2012-06-17 01:31:00