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Asia: SouthMedical Exam Report at the POE

Thank you all for your input. What about Adjustment of Status? Would we not need it at that time? If so, I will contact the doctor's office to get another copy.

You will need a medical exam for the AOS anyway, which will have to be done by USCIS-approved doctor on US soil; so fuggedaboudaCD.
Saddle BroncMale07/3/2010 19:44
Asia: SouthGoing to Pakistan for marriage!

Is DCF possible anyway if we do not live over there?

You posted earlier that you were willing to "move over to him"--so I would say "yes".
Saddle BroncMale06/22/2010 16:00
Asia: SouthGoing to Pakistan for marriage!

yes she will be wife as per Pakistan law. Anyways, I am leaning towards K3 or CR1.
Does anyone know what is the time line for CR1 or K3 for Pakistan? If someone going thru process now (recent) can give timings here..
Appreciate all your help...

Go for CR-1 (rather than shambolically-designed K-3), or even the slightly-more-difficult version DCF.
Saddle BroncMale06/21/2010 22:33
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Woohoo! Congratulations!

Could you put up a detailed review/list of interview questions?

I'm interested since I'll be interviewing there as well in a few months time.
sachinkyFemaleIndia11/17/2009 3:47
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It's 4:05 AM here in India and I'm still awake. When's your fiance's interview?

Good luck. I'm positive it'll go well.
sachinkyFemaleIndia11/16/2009 17:35
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Keep the faith, sister. Two more days to go for you!

I think you can choose which language your interview is going to be conducted in. I am gonna have to go with English -- my Hindi is quite abominable.

Edited by sachinky, 15 November 2009 - 06:02 PM.

sachinkyFemaleIndia11/15/2009 18:01
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Oh no, why do you think he won't pass this interview? Don't worry, I'm sure it'll be fine.
sachinkyFemaleIndia11/15/2009 14:33
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I slept all of today after lunch at an awfully overpriced restaurant with terrible food. My stomach hurts.
sachinkyFemaleIndia11/14/2009 16:06
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Ohmygoodness, Sachin Tendulkar!

The 3 run loss just.broke.my.heart.
sachinkyFemaleIndia11/5/2009 12:33
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QUOTE (Third @ Nov 16 2009, 09:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Guys, we got the visa. kicking.gif kicking.gif Thank you so much for the good wishes and your prayers. rose.gif rose.gif
Anyone who has interview question can e-mail me. I think I won't be able to sleep tonight with joy. biggrin.gif



kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif congratulations

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/17/2009 3:53
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QUOTE (Third @ Nov 15 2009, 12:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (sachinky @ Nov 15 2009, 02:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh no, why do you think he won't pass this interview? Don't worry, I'm sure it'll be fine.

He gets too confident, gives wrong answer because he doesn't listen to the question that is being asked. Do they ask if you want to be interviewed in Hindi or english? :-s If they do when do they ask?



its going to be ok.......just think tomorrow at this time u might have the great news u have been waiting to hear for so long
im excited for you and praying for you as well
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/16/2009 1:24
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my day horrible.....today i found out perviz did not get his pcc because someone told him when he tried in kashmir that he didnt need it.......sooooooooooo he flew back to kashmir today to go to where his passport was issued in jammu and is positive that he can receive it and be back to delhi in time for his interview ........ i swear muslim men never listen!!!!!!!!

sara

sara.....FemaleEgypt11/13/2009 18:53
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i have a had a wonderful day....talked to perviz today on chat....no rain so far thats a big plus.....and i feel some what better from the flu....so all in all pretty good day

sara

sara.....FemaleEgypt11/10/2009 18:49
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Nov 4 2009, 09:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oh that would be perfect. so, what date have you decided on the wedding?




u know we have been so caught up in this that i have not set a date ........i was thinking court house wedding right away but my family explained its easy in the years to come to say oh i wish i had opted for the court house wedding but wishing u had had a wedding with family and friends present is a lot harder to deal with............so im thinking about three weeks after he is here im sure we can put together a decent small wedding at home in that time frame........i have already talked to the women that will do the cake she came a while back right after the noa2 and we finalized the cake design and colors.......here i set calmly talking about all of this .........lol who am i kidding i will be a mess and family will prolly have to deal with all the things that need done...........
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/5/2009 0:03
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Nov 4 2009, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so is he planning on staying in delhi until he flies to the usa then? or is he going back home before heading back to the airport.



if he receives his visa he will fly out as soon as he can get on a flight to the usa after receiving the passport with visa in it............i have been checking flights and cost most of the day today.......one way is not too bad its less than a thousand dollars .......so i hope i pray everything goes smooth with no ap

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/4/2009 23:50
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QUOTE (ELW @ Nov 4 2009, 08:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sara, take care of yourself and get well soon! With all your talk about the interview I am working myself into a nervous state too, it is like our interview all over again. wacko.gif We all are coming together with good thoughts and prayers for the approval this time! star_smile.gif luv.gif



thanks ELW.......i am so sure that all of the prayers and good wishes we are receiving are what has helped us thru all of this and im positive that all of the prayers and good wishes will help us thru the interview as well.........

i think im kind of jealous of those that i have seen sail right thru this with out ever saying out loud they were worried or stressed over the outcome lol.

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/4/2009 22:51
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QUOTE (k.loveh @ Nov 4 2009, 07:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (estadia @ Nov 4 2009, 09:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanks but u know this flu might have been God sent the last week the days kind of blurred into each other lol so was not so nervous........perviz is leaving for delhi on the 10th so that he can get his medical done and wait out the interview he is scheduled to fly back to srinager on the 29th just in case he does not get the visa

so yesterday we were talking on the phone and i have a list of things i dont want him to forget when he comes home to me.......one of them a sweat shirt that was my favorite that he wanted me to leave two years go when i was there and he starts well i need this this and that but what if i pack all of this stuff and i dont get the visa and have to return home with it..........he is a mess his nerves are shot lol

sara


2 more weeks to go, Sara!!! Can't wait to 'imagine' (since I can't see you) that beautiful smile on your face when you get your long awaited and very much deserved good news!!!



biggrin.gif lol i will post pics ..............right now i have started walking the floors lol i just dont know what to do with myself u know we have fought a long battle .......and now there is nothing left to do but wait....... wish they had a smiling for bitting nails cuz i have none left.........

sara

sara.....FemaleEgypt11/4/2009 21:04
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Nov 4 2009, 07:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanks ELW and Sara smile.gif

Sara, you have to get better soon so you can keep us updated on Perviz's interview kicking.gif countin' down the days good.gif



thanks but u know this flu might have been God sent the last week the days kind of blurred into each other lol so was not so nervous........perviz is leaving for delhi on the 10th so that he can get his medical done and wait out the interview he is scheduled to fly back to srinager on the 29th just in case he does not get the visa

so yesterday we were talking on the phone and i have a list of things i dont want him to forget when he comes home to me.......one of them a sweat shirt that was my favorite that he wanted me to leave two years go when i was there and he starts well i need this this and that but what if i pack all of this stuff and i dont get the visa and have to return home with it..........he is a mess his nerves are shot lol

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/4/2009 9:38
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QUOTE (ELW @ Nov 4 2009, 07:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ahhhh that's so sweet of your fiance, fransha! luv.gif

Good luck Kaushalia, hope you get the interview date soon! good.gif

It's so nice having such nice weather these last couple of days - nearly 80 degrees in November! Whoohoo! dancin5hr.gif



wow we are in oregon and we are waking up to frost on the windows of the car and rain......

Kaushalia you already know ur in our prayers i hope ur interview can be expedited...........

as for me i feel like maybe i have the flu on the run i feel better today than i have in a week yay

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/4/2009 9:27
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QUOTE (Nina Ballerina @ Nov 3 2009, 08:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So I have been having a lot of knee problems lately and I finally went and saw an orthopedic. It turns out that I need to have some viscous supplement injected under my kneecap... ouch ouch ouch sad.gif




oh my gosh sounds painful but maybe it will help u so that u dont have knee pain?
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/3/2009 10:29
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QUOTE (ONN @ Nov 2 2009, 12:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Kathy, thanks. How I wish this process wasn't so toll-taking... emotionally, physically, mentally, financially. Sigh.

Thanks, Third. It just feels horrible to post such negative things when you see others celebrating and so full of hope. And then at the same time you feel so left out... keep wondering "why me?"

ELW, Nina, Sara, thanks for the support & prayers. I'm trying to find meaningful things to do now to keep myself busy and not drive myself even crazier.

k.loveh, thank you. My congrats to you and your SO.

Starlight, thanks.

You all are so kind. I wish you all happiness and love. God bless.



dont feel bad about posting what is going on......after all we are all here for each other regardless of what some idiot has done to ruin his own chance at happiness....... rose.gif
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt11/2/2009 19:35
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QUOTE (ONN @ Oct 29 2009, 10:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (estadia @ Oct 28 2009, 08:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rose.gif im sorry......what happened?
sara


Sara,
It was a perfect match because we felt so and everyone agreed. We did everything together for eight months - laughed, cried, loved and understood each other. We also filed out our I-129F, got NOA1, then after 4 months got our NOA2... then in another two months while waiting eagerly for packet 3 and 4 and sending stuff back to consulate, we found out our interview date was yet another two months away. We got sad but were happy now we had a 60 day count down and then we will be together forever. Yea right!

Two weeks before the interview, he went for medical (passed it), submitted all the docs to VFS the next day and came home and said to me he doesn't want to come to America any more. Our interview would have been two days back but he didn't go to it. He said he didn't feel like coming any more... :'(

I withdrew our file and canceled the petition.

I don't want to ruin other people's day because they have good things happening. It's nice to see couples who stick together... for years. My hands are trembling seeing what is love and what I saw in my life.




Im so sorry this has happened to you......all men are not bad and its hard to know what one is good and what one is not until push comes to shove......plz dont give up on happiness....i dont know the reason that this happened i mean maybe God safe you from an abusive situation we just dont know........ur in my prayers and any time u want to talk i can listen i dont have a lot of advise but i can listen sometimes just that can help......... heart.gif rose.gif
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/30/2009 10:30
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 09:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Amen, Miss Sara biggrin.gif They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance kicking.gif



yessss i was on chat with her this morning!!!!!!!!!!! Im so happy for them!!!!!!!!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif

I got to see both of them on web cam i wish i had taken a snap of it they both had the biggest smiles i have ever seen on anyone.......... their happiness was contagious...... biggrin.gif
sara

QUOTE (just for u @ Oct 28 2009, 09:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 11:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Amen, Miss Sara biggrin.gif They seem to have been doing better than they were in 2008. I don't know if you saw it, but "Catknit" is coming home in a couple of weeks with her fiance kicking.gif



Thanks Sara and Kaushalia!! this makes me feel better..while I sit here and bit my nails off! lol

smile.gif




biggrin.gif dont bite them off too short......have to have pretty nails for the wedding
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 23:25
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 08:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 10:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
laughing.gif i am sure he will do fine. he should know everything about you after all this time wink.gif will be praying yes.gif


Yes he does knows everything..but it just scares me it's New Delhi and there CO's find stupidest reasons to give 221g/AP sad.gif

QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 10:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
just for u, i know the nerve wracking feeling. i pray it all goes well for you. can't wait to hear your good news in the morning. i would stay up with you, but i work at 5am, and it is almost 11 wink.gif


aww.. Thanks smile.gif I will definitely let you now the great news ASAP!!!


i can't help but to agree with the bolded statement. been there, done that.



Well here is hoping that Delhi has had a change of staff for the BETTER........
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 23:08
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QUOTE (just for u @ Oct 28 2009, 08:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 10:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 10:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
good luck good.gif rootin' for u!!!


Thanks Kaushalia smile.gif



you are welcome. what time does he go in? will you stay up all night?


He is in RIGHT NOW!!!!!!! content.gif I will probably be up all night! lol I'm soo nervous right now.. and trying to think positive and clam myself down....


QUOTE (estadia @ Oct 28 2009, 10:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rose.gif for ONN.

Sister Sara, does he know about the interview yet?



YESSSSSSSSSSSS biggrin.gif he is a mess lol i think we have very thing prepared now we pray.

sara

QUOTE (just for u @ Oct 28 2009, 08:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
BIGGEST DAY OF MY LIFE IS TODAY!!! I will find out SOON...if my fiance got the approval for our VISA!!! Can't WAIT!!!!!! ClockWatch2.gif



He WILL get it!!!!!

cant wait to hear the news...ur in our prayers and thoughts

sara



Thanks Sara! Good luck for your up coming interview as well smile.gif



wellllllllllll i will be here waiting to hear the news lol biggrin.gif
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 22:50
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QUOTE (kaushalia @ Oct 28 2009, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rose.gif for ONN.

Sister Sara, does he know about the interview yet?



YESSSSSSSSSSSS biggrin.gif he is a mess lol i think we have very thing prepared now we pray.

sara

QUOTE (just for u @ Oct 28 2009, 08:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
BIGGEST DAY OF MY LIFE IS TODAY!!! I will find out SOON...if my fiance got the approval for our VISA!!! Can't WAIT!!!!!! ClockWatch2.gif



He WILL get it!!!!!

cant wait to hear the news...ur in our prayers and thoughts

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 22:46
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QUOTE (ONN @ Oct 28 2009, 05:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't even know where to begin... living one day at a time and realizing each moment the harsh reality of life and the bitter truth that it's over.

Reading stories on VJ about couples waiting and being patient and getting excited about things in life makes me happy. At least they stick to each other in good times and bad compared to some that just give up after making promises and giving false hopes. May be it is all for good, but it just doesn't seem so right now. Life sucks.



rose.gif im sorry......what happened?
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 22:03
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QUOTE (k.loveh @ Oct 27 2009, 10:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ELW @ Oct 27 2009, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congrats on helping your friends keep the peace, k.loveh! Will be sending good thoughts and prayers for a successful approved interview on Friday! luv.gif


Aww, thats sweet of you ELW. smile.gif Thank you for the prayers, they do help so very much!

The interview is this thursday. But thats ok, I know you didn't intentionally want me to wait another day. innocent.gif smile.gif



how are u holding up? sending lots of prayers and happy thoughts ur way
sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/28/2009 8:24
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i woke up wondering why i was so so cold then found out it snowed about 60 miles from us so i guess any warm weather we might have had is gone.......its raining and cold........but talked to perviz for about an hour so that helped my mood biggrin.gif
im going to curl up with a book and just relax

sara
sara.....FemaleEgypt10/27/2009 15:13
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in a way, you are. you two are one biggrin.gif
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/16/2009 19:56
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waiting for your good news, Third yes.gif i am sure he will do fine.
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/16/2009 19:46
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Good luck, sister Sara, this is your week kicking.gif
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/16/2009 8:48
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Hi Nina! yeah, i am loving the sunshine smile.gif i am happy that NVC finally acknowledges our RFE that we sent last wednesday. hoping for a case complete soon so we can get our interview date.
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/10/2009 13:41
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laughing.gif i hear ya. we are still planning a wedding here for my family and friends when he comes. but we will wait until he has a job so we can save up some money.
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/5/2009 0:06
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oh that would be perfect. so, what date have you decided on the wedding?
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/4/2009 23:54
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so is he planning on staying in delhi until he flies to the usa then? or is he going back home before heading back to the airport.
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/4/2009 23:38
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thanks ELW and Sara smile.gif

Sara, you have to get better soon so you can keep us updated on Perviz's interview kicking.gif countin' down the days good.gif
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/4/2009 9:33
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congrats smile.gif

my day is good, filled with nerves. i returned the rfe for my husband overnight last night. should be there by noon today. just hoping our case will be completed in time for a december interview. if not, i guess we will be in for january.
Twisted KFemaleIndia11/4/2009 6:27
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my day is going all right. glad to set the clocks back an hour biggrin.gif husband has to go to the passport office to get his pcc on tuesday. the only thing standing in our way between us and his interview date. i don't know if he will make it in time for the december interview, but january is coming yes.gif
Twisted KFemaleIndia10/31/2009 23:10
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i would feel hurt and betrayed. so sorry you are going through this rose.gif. i am just a pm away if u need to talk. i have been in this immigration process for a long time, working on my 19th month.
Twisted KFemaleIndia10/29/2009 13:41