Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Good vibes to an immediate visa approval on Friday, Madhuandnatalia!	ELW	Female	India	5/21/2008 8:25
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Best wishes for a peaceful meeting on that day!	ELW	Female	India	5/12/2008 21:00
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Maybe you can contact VJ member maya62 for advice, she has experience with Nepal. I would say have him download Packet 3 forms from the Consulate website, fill them out then go to the Consulate in person and present them. I would think if you have the NVC number, they would let him into the Consulate. They might even give him the interview date right then and there; Nepal is VERY fast with interviews! Good luck!	ELW	Female	India	4/28/2008 19:37
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Happy New Year and may everyone waiting be reunited FAST with their loved ones! Happy trip to Nepal next month Pattu Rani!!	ELW	Female	India	4/13/2008 22:13
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	I am waiting for the day when your hubby will say, "Tell Nagu I am now enjoying my wife's cooking every day - SO THERE!"	ELW	Female	India	1/5/2008 8:15
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Pattu Rani, your mulako achaar was a hit even with my South Indian village guy - and that's saying A LOT! And a big WELCOME to Rajan and CONGRATS to both of you Putali! Edited by ELW, 01 January 2008 - 10:30 PM.	ELW	Female	India	1/1/2008 22:28
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	Daniel is the USC and he has a 10 year valid tourist visa that he has used 2 times before to come see me in India. Does he need to get a different visa now? What kind of visa would our son need?	DanielParul	Not Telling	0	7/7/2010 10:06
Asia: South	Slightly over one year after BWI travesty, desire fulfilled	I love mangoes, Dussehri is my favorite. I want Daniel and Adi to try some authentic Indian mangoes but it seems they will have to wait till we go to India during summers someday so they can taste a real mango. Ohhh I so long to taste Indian mangoes.... I hesitantly bought a few at an Indian grocery store, but they turned out to be so sour and un-ripe. Now here I am searching for recipes for aam-papad/mango fruit leather, so I can at least put them to some use Make some cilantro chutney, add a mango or 2 for extra zest..	DanielParul	Not Telling	0	7/8/2010 14:08
Asia: South	original document	Send everything original to your fiancee and tell her to make 2 copies of each document just in case.	DanielParul	Not Telling	0	7/8/2010 14:10
Asia: South	Just an update	I agree woth ELW. Get married and apply for CR1. Don't waste anymore time trying to get any help on this one. Good Luck!	DanielParul	Not Telling	0	7/10/2010 17:23
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	What exactly is an entry visa? Do we need to do anything for it prior to leaving US? My understanding is that it is applied for just like a tourist visa.	bszoom42	Female	India	7/6/2010 16:01
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Things are mighty quiet at the chautara! Just thought I'd post, bump it up, and ask if anyone has heard any recent info about dual citizenship. The Nepali govt rumbles about it every now and then, but so far I think it is not allowed. So if a Nepali becomes a USC, what rights does he/she lose? I'm thinking right to vote, right to own property, but I don't know what else. Is the Nepali passport no longer valid? Pheri betaunla mero satthiharu! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	7/12/2010 12:14
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	I think her best shot (perhaps her only shot) would be a tourist visa. I don't think you can sponsor her, and I think Madhu won't be able to until he is a citizen. But I would ask your question on the forum about Bringing Family Members to America (or even in Off Topic). South Asia just doesn't get much traffic, and it's not a region-specific question, at least not at the outset... And you could also ask what other forms of proof she might be able to show the Consulate that indicate she is likely to return to Nepal after her visit to the US... I believe their primary concern will be that she is not intending to use a tourist visa to immigrate. A letter from you and Madhu may be helpful, from what I've read. And with the baby due in 2 months, I'd hustle... I don't know how long it takes to get a tourist visa, but as you probably know, very few things in Nepal move quickly... Good luck, and let us know how it goes! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	1/30/2009 9:03
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Namaste mero satthi-haru! I thought I would revive the Chautara in honor of another approval from Nepal... Congrats to xochitl (Angie and Deepak) on a successful interview, and wishing Deepak a safe journey to the US and a smooth POE experience! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	1/27/2009 10:57
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	CONGRATULATIONS MADHU & NATALIA !!! Wow, that is so exciting! I bet he/she will be the cutest baby EVER! I am partial to the name Surja myself. Glad to hear things are going well for you, and best wishes as you go through the pregnancy... Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	9/23/2008 15:13
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	QUOTE (Pattu Rani @ Jul 22 2008, 10:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Interesting - I hope Prachanda isn't going to make himself look (more like) a horse's pachaadi and threaten Jana Andolan III - this is how a modern democracy works - sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. We did make it to Muktinath, Maya-didi - check out my photos. I saw them! I responded on another thread about religion, but I should've responded here... They're great! It looks like it was a really good trek... you flew into Jomsom? Did you do the teahouse thing? I'm so glad you had a nice trip, PR!! Someday I hope we will get to Muktinath and Tatopani. S has been there many times, but I never have. S talked to his bhaini in Ktm last night and apparently there is some family drama going on... and between the airline ticket prices and the fact that we just HAVE to add on to the house, I don't know when we'll get back. I was hoping December, but it may be next June. Ack. So I'll just keep watching youtube videos of Nepal (have you seen the paragliding one???? It's AWESOME... I'll see if I can find a link... and there are a few of landing in Lukla that are good, too), and living vicariously. Welcome back and may VSC hear your prayers so you can be with your mutu soon and for good... Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	7/23/2008 7:40
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Well, well, well... full of surprises they are... http://www.asianage....-president.aspx Check out Nepal's first Prez! What next???	maya62	Female	Nepal	7/22/2008 8:23
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Namaste Dolma & Govinda! Good to hear from you! That looks strange... "The Republic of Nepal". But I can almost taste the yak cheese pizza... Did you get up as far as Muktinath? That's one place I'd love to go. And Kagbeni... well, the whole circuit really... Like Eileen said, we'll look forward to some photos and stories! Yeah, things still look so uncertain there. I hope the bandh doesn't last long and you guys have a wonderful visit. Hugs, Maya & family	maya62	Female	Nepal	6/23/2008 16:45
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	QUOTE (Madhuandnatalia @ May 24 2008, 10:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Pattu Rani @ May 24 2008, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow, in all the all the rush to get ready (I leave TOMORROW) I missed this great news1!!!! Badai chha!!!! I hope you will give details as to what questions they asked at the embassy - hopefully I will be next, though looking at how slowly VSC is moving it may not be until a year from now..... Yeah!! Eat some Dahl Bhat for me!!! I could give you a whole list of things to eat! Sigh..... He said the interview was very short and he asked very basic questions. Where did you meet? What were the circumstances of your meeting? He went over the photos and asked him where they were taken. He wanted to know the details of who was in the photos, where, when etc... He also asked him what makes me laugh. He told him that I always laugh when he dances! It's true! The interviewer had quite a chuckle at that. He also wanted to know when we spoke last and what we talked about. Madhu told him that I told him not to be nervous and just tell the truth. He really liked that answer and he told him that he was approved!!! He is getting his visa Thursday. He is going to be here in 2 weeks!!! My family and roller derby team are sooo excited to meet him. He is even going to see me in a game! I hope the derby girls don't scare him! Sweet story about the interview, MadhuandNatalia... made me chuckle, too. Madhu is in for a suprise when he sees what life is like for women in the US. My husband is still sometimes surprised after almost 3 years. And PR... I think you are in KTM now... I hope you had a smooth flight and a joyful reunion with Govi. Have a lovely time and eat some yak cheese pizza for me, please! Bon voyage! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	5/27/2008 8:03
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	FANTASTIC!! Congratulations!! It's so exciting! It brings back a great memory of a similar early morning phone call in Sept 2005... Tell him to check the visa carefully for errors (our son's visa said he was a girl!) when he gets it, and have a safe journey "home" to the US of A. Suggest writing a review of the Embassy when you have the details and some time. Best wishes! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	5/23/2008 8:12
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Oooohhh!! How exciting! Best wishes for a successful interview! Please do come back and tell us how it went! Fingers and toes crossed, and good vibes on the way.... Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	5/21/2008 7:59
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	QUOTE (Pattu Rani @ May 14 2008, 09:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Dhanyavaad Mayaharu, Exactly 12 days from now I will be leaving... I already have most of my stuff packed. I am just curious, when you have gone to Nepal how did you handle the H2O situation? I have drank bottled water in the past but I feel so guilty doing so - have also used purification tablets but they seem expensive. Govi's family has a water filter but I dunno if it gets all of the nasties. I came down with Giardia last year and don't want to repeat it... There is a website by a doctor who has practiced in Nepal and specializes in high altitude medicine - rather than any fancy commercial filters he recommends using iodine - 10% solution, 4 drops per liter. For additional protection he says you can use coffee filters. Especially if we go to Manang/Mustang I want to keep waste to a minimum. The website is http://www.high-altitude-medicine.com. And yes of course I will post updates as soon as I can - you might not hear from me for a few days though. Oooooh... I'm really happy for you (and a little jealous, too ) Totally understand, you will have lots of laundry to do upon arrival! I feel guilty drinking bottled water, too, especially outside of Ktm (I think some of the plastic does actually get recycled in the Ktm Valley). Last time we went, we took SIGG water bottles and Katadyn Micropur tablets (1 tab/liter, 30 tabs $13.95 here: http://www.campmor.c...Product___81896 ) It does get giardia and crypto and doesn't taste too bad. Haven't tried iodine. Check this out: http://www.ncbi.nlm....pubmed/11990150 If you do decide to go with iodine, I've heard that you can add vitamin C (ascorbic acid) to the water after treatment to help remove the taste of the iodine. I've had good luck with Katadyn, and the SIGG bottles are Swiss made specifically to avoid the leaching properties of plastic water bottles... they're lined metal and well-tested from what I've read. And as light as any Nalgene bottle, BUT you can NOT put boiled (hot) water in them without letting it cool first. We've used boiled water in a pinch in the village. And we drink a fair amount of tea and/or hot lemon on trek. Good luck and I look forward to living vicariously through you on this trip!! Maya	maya62	Female	Nepal	5/14/2008 12:34
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Very exciting PR!! I have had that feeling too (of witnessing history being made) each time I've gone to Nepal. It is a very exciting time to be there. I second Eileen's wish for a peaceful first meeting of the CA. And a happy reunion with tapaaiko mutu! Looks like you're leaving in a week... lucky duck! Please do send update(s) from Ktm if/when time allows... we'd love to hear how you're getting on and what the general mood is, too. Best wishes for a safe journey... Maya and family	maya62	Female	Nepal	5/13/2008 7:40
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Just thought I'd bump this up to welcome a new member since Putali's sweetie will be arriving in the US tomorrow!!! It is so exciting... please tell us the story, Putali, when you have a minute and can step down from Cloud 9! Welcome to America, Rajan!!	maya62	Female	Nepal	12/20/2007 13:43
Asia: South	Just an update	I am all for, go back and get married. It is not worth it to follow and waste money on a rejected case.	Deep2009	Not Telling	India	7/9/2010 12:48
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	intersting subject...	Amit-N-Melody	Female	India	7/7/2010 12:16
Asia: South	Just an update	Well, without trying to air all my struggles this year..... I absolutely think it's worth it if you can have your spouse with you. But how can I get him here? As it stands my income is down to $800 a month to raise my 3 kids on and I can't get public assistance because on paper they think I make significantly more. I understand your struggles, I was trying to tell you that I was also a mother of three... Not that it really matters but the job that I had when I married my husband.. well they fired me about 3 months after that, because I was married to an indian... So, I know how terrifing it is to have to start over at square one. As for my job they only allow personal leave for 30 days at a time and after that you have to resign and reapply. The company contracts for clients where information and the job change daily so they even tell you that they don't expect you to be capable of doing your job if gone longer than that and they send you back to square one (training) when and if they rehire you. I'm not making excuses, this is unfortunately my reality. I have no money, I have nothing left to sell because I've already sold it all. That's also why I've said that I'm tempted to just say screw all of this and move to India with him and just be done. I'm definitely going to check into the getting married then registering that you mentioned because I had been previously advised here and he had a lawyer there tell him that I needed to be in the country with an address to provide the registrar there for 31 days while our information was posted on a board for anyone to be able to dispute. Maybe I read it wrong when it was written on here to me by an Indian citizen, which I'm gladly hoping I did because maybe then I can find a way through this.Yea check into it, I am telling you that I flew to India last July 12 and we were married on July 25th and we had our marriage registered with our local marriage registar and the certificate was picked up on the July 29th... I used this marriage certificate at USCIS, NVC and at the interview and I did NOT have any issues with it. And the only reason it even took that long was because we were preoccuppied in other things This is not an issue of his worth at all - it's about trying to balance life with funds I don't have. I've invested quite a bit of money into this relationship already, it's just that the money has run, out. I have no problem sacrificing. But facing all this and trying to think about starting over with $1200 plane tickets, $700 for a wedding, $500 for filing fees (or more with the new fee schedule coming out) and not knowing when I will even be able to start all of that is worse than holding onto the shred of hope that this may still go through.I totally agree with you, it seems unreasonable.. this is why I pointed out to you that I used my income tax return, I know that with 3 kids I recieved a little over $8,000... and even if yours was half that amount then there you go, what you would have to do is start planning now, Maybe for March... get everything arranged verbally, plan on going then... your job should of rolled over to a new year then, plan to stay for 2 weeks, Marry him come home, file again <you can do this because you would alotted the money from the income tax return> and then vola You can spend Christmas 2011 together Please don't judge me and my intentions without knowing what I'm going through. I'm just trying not to post all my personal information here for the world to slam me harder than I'm already getting slammed. I am considering all the options and I just can't find a way to make any of them work.I am sorry if you feel I was not being conscious of your feelings, but you have asked for help and ppl are trying to help you with solutions. It seems you can knock every solution that is thrown your way.My intention was not to slam you... but maybe to wake you up... which might of been more harsh than intended, We have all gone threw #######.. hell I can make enough lemonade to last me a life time... I have worked two jobs for the last 6 months so that I would have enough money to attend my Husbands interview with him.. All I am saying to you is this... If there is a will ther is a way...	Amit-N-Melody	Female	India	7/11/2010 23:45
Asia: South	Just an update	I can't afford to refile right now and getting to India is also going to pose a major challenge sine I'm dealing with my son's medical issues. As a single mother of 3 girls I can understand the finacial strain that kids put on you, but dont you think having your spouse with you is worth the sacrifice? I'm just missing too much work to save enough money to go and keep all the expenses paid here while I'm gone. I totally agree that it is hard to save money <when you have kids and only 1 income> but you know how I was able to manage, I used my income tax return to by my plane ticket and to pay my bills while I was gone. I stayed with his family and cooked at home while there so it didnt cost me any out of pocket money. If there is a will dear ther IS A WAY! I'm not quite sure how I could stay there the required 31 days to get married either because that would pretty much mean quitting my job.\Ppl take off for there marriage all the time, I am sure if you went to your employer and told them that you needed some time to get married that they would allow you, and if not then you use the law on them and file a Family leave It's hard enough to get a week off much less 5 weeks (counting travel). This is not true.. I am not sure who you have been talking too. You do not have to stay there 5 weeks. The only way you would have to do this is if you were going to have a court marriage.. But in my opinion that would be stupid because you would miss out on the wonderful rich culture and so would he. You can have a religious ceremony and then file your marriage with your local marriage registar and have a certificate within a week. My husband arranged the whole wedding.. he was sooo adorable at this time... Your man could do everything before you came <really it would be his mom and sis's if he has anything> and then you could plan on spending like 1 week.. I personally would say try for 2 weeks, but 1 week can do it if you arrange everything before you go... My HUGE wedding only cost around $700.. I was totally shocked!! Ugh...I'm still hoping that this will get reapproved and then I will do whatever it takes to be at that Embassy this time. And the lawyer is more about filing for consular misconduct because there isn't much else she can help us with. I am going to say something here and my intention is not to offend you, It sounds like you are making excuses. I have read several of your post and there has been some excellent advice from alot of different ppl. This is spelled out in black and white and what you have to decided is.. Is it worth it to you to sacrifice your time and money?How bad do you want him? How can you breathe without him... I unfortunately cannot without my husband.. he if worth EVERY sacrifice Edited by Amit-N-Melody, 11 July 2010 - 07:35 AM.	Amit-N-Melody	Female	India	7/11/2010 7:30
Asia: South	Just an update	Thanks for the update... I totally agree with ELW, I would go there and get married and then file again, if you choose to not come back home that would be ok, you could do the DCF if you live there more than 6 months, it isnt suppose to take as long... I am not really sure on the process though... My Husband and I are also planning on only living here in the states for about 10 years and then permantely living in India... Goodluck in what ever you decide is the best for you	Amit-N-Melody	Female	India	7/8/2010 22:16
Asia: South	Visiting Pakistan	u can also visit my Pakistan embassy website....	ARMANI KHAN	Male	Pakistan	7/11/2010 7:29
Asia: South	Calling all Nepal K-1/K-3/AOS filers	Congratz!!!	ROZA	Not Telling	India	5/23/2008 9:23
Asia: South	Just an update	I hear you. It must be very upsetting. But there is light at the end of the tunnel. I hope you will get your approval soon.	RyannTanya	Not Telling	0	7/8/2010 21:22
Asia: South	Going to Pakistan for marriage!	here's a guide, make ur self familiar with couple of things before you file, K3 doesn't exist anymore coz the normal case processing (spousal visa) takes the same amt of time which is 6-8 months. go through the forums, read guides, make sure to create a timeline of urself so ppl here can guide u b8r. good luck!!!! http://www.visajourn...tent/i130guide2 http://www.visajourn...he_NVC_ShortCut	muskan4eva	Female	Pakistan	6/4/2010 22:36
Asia: South	Slightly over one year after BWI travesty, desire fulfilled	For reference, http://www.visajourn...-trip-to-india/ On May 29, we went to one of the desi grocers around DC--to buy some toor (last time at that store, we were able to get an 8-lb packet--but this time no packets over 4-lb), curry leaves and a box of "Marathon Brand" mangoes (not really that nice, product of Mexico), which runs about $9 there. On the counter, I noticed boxes of "Royal Mangoes" which were imported from India (which gave these a leg-up on the Marathon--we didn't yet know the price of it). When we asked, it was $35 for the box (3.5 kg/7.7 lb)--and we found out by further looking on the side the mangoes within to be...Banganapallis (with the fruit-count written on the side). Well, we took a 9-count box home with us--and have so far consumed 6! Having lived in the Philippines...I can sympathize on the longing for good mango! We can get the most fantastic mango in the PI for about 90cents a kilo! Glad you are enjoying them God Bless!	idaho_and_surigao	Male	Philippines	6/2/2010 9:06
Asia: South	Just an update	Well, without trying to air all my struggles this year..... I absolutely think it's worth it if you can have your spouse with you. But how can I get him here? As it stands my income is down to $800 a month to raise my 3 kids on and I can't get public assistance because on paper they think I make significantly more. As for my job they only allow personal leave for 30 days at a time and after that you have to resign and reapply. The company contracts for clients where information and the job change daily so they even tell you that they don't expect you to be capable of doing your job if gone longer than that and they send you back to square one (training) when and if they rehire you. I'm not making excuses, this is unfortunately my reality. I have no money, I have nothing left to sell because I've already sold it all. That's also why I've said that I'm tempted to just say screw all of this and move to India with him and just be done. I'm definitely going to check into the getting married then registering that you mentioned because I had been previously advised here and he had a lawyer there tell him that I needed to be in the country with an address to provide the registrar there for 31 days while our information was posted on a board for anyone to be able to dispute. Maybe I read it wrong when it was written on here to me by an Indian citizen, which I'm gladly hoping I did because maybe then I can find a way through this. This is not an issue of his worth at all - it's about trying to balance life with funds I don't have. I've invested quite a bit of money into this relationship already, it's just that the money has run out. I have no problem sacrificing. But facing all this and trying to think about starting over with $1200 plane tickets, $700 for a wedding, $500 for filing fees (or more with the new fee schedule coming out) and not knowing when I will even be able to start all of that is worse than holding onto the shred of hope that this may still go through. Please don't judge me and my intentions without knowing what I'm going through. I'm just trying not to post all my personal information here for the world to slam me harder than I'm already getting slammed. I am considering all the options and I just can't find a way to make any of them work.	ms_jinga_lala	Female	India	7/11/2010 15:54
Asia: South	Just an update	I can't afford to refile right now and getting to India is also going to pose a major challenge sine I'm dealing with my son's medical issues. I'm just missing too much work to save enough money to go and keep all the expenses paid here while I'm gone. I'm not quite sure how I could stay there the required 31 days to get married either because that would pretty much mean quitting my job. It's hard enough to get a week off much less 5 weeks (counting travel). Ugh...I'm still hoping that this will get reapproved and then I will do whatever it takes to be at that Embassy this time. And the lawyer is more about filing for consular misconduct because there isn't much else she can help us with.	ms_jinga_lala	Female	India	7/10/2010 21:45
Asia: South	Just an update	Well things have been stressful to say the least. Today marks 120 days since the USCIS finally decided to log my case into the computer. I called them and requested them to notify me of action and status of the case only to find that I have to allow them 45 days to get back to me. WTH. Relationship wise things have been a bit strained due to other things getting in our way in addition to the visa. I'm about ready to throw in the towel, sell all my ####### and move to India because this is all just bs lol....I'm really tired of it at this point. I know we all have felt this way at more than one point in the process. I've decided to contact a lawyer. I got her number from some Indian friends here who have used her and say she is really good. I will see. So far I don't think she deals with K-1's too often because she already suggested I go get married and then reapply. But the thing is, that would set me back even farther. If I go over there to get married I'm just not coming home lol. Ugh....when will it end	ms_jinga_lala	Female	India	7/8/2010 20:51
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	intersting subject... glad everyone's having fun	fabulous02	Female	India	7/7/2010 13:55
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	I believe so. I remember reading about it on the Indian Consulate, Chicago website. http://www.indiacgny....php?linkid=183 Hmmmm.... I see that requirement. I'm planning on calling the Chicago office today to get some clarity around the PIO and entry visa requirements. If I'm able to get a hold of someone, I'll post an update here. Edited by fabulous02, 07 July 2010 - 10:38 AM.	fabulous02	Female	India	7/7/2010 10:35
Asia: South	Does US spouse of Indian passport holder need visa?	So from the sound of it, it's best to just have my husband, the USC, apply for a PIO. We'll be married one year this August and I think he'll be eligible for it then. Thanks for this 'entry visa' tip--had no idea! Is there a clause that you have to be married for at least a year for your husband to be eligible for a PIO card? If yes, then my husband won't be eligible right now, since we got married in February this year. My head is spinning	fabulous02	Female	India	7/7/2010 10:28