ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Philippinesluggage
QUOTE (Jose Rizal @ Oct 15 2008, 08:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do note that there is a weight limit of 50lbs (23KG) per bag. At hindi ang isa 30 lbs at yung isa 70lbs. You will still be charged overweight charges for the extra 20Lbs from the 70lb bag.



Robinson 50% sale
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-15 20:08:00
PhilippinesWhat's your favorite fast food restaurant?
my fiancee love TGI IN ROBENSON
i love it also yummy
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-15 00:08:00
Philippinesmedical / embassy interview
QUOTE (brianmarie @ Oct 20 2008, 02:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Guys I want to know if the medical and embassy interview of CRI-IR visa will fall on same week then no need for me to go to manila twice. Who schedule our interview the embassy or we can schedule on our own convenience. Thanks for the answer.....



from your medical exam 2 days before your interview fine you trying to save money
one trip just pray that everything the result your medical is no problem
good luck and god bless
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-20 04:21:00
Philippinesmedical / embassy interview
QUOTE (tedjen @ Oct 20 2008, 02:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How about if I will do the medical a month or more before the interview? Is this ok?




medical exam one month before your interview yes!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-20 04:17:00
PhilippinesK1/K2 MEDICAL EXPERIENCE
QUOTE (myOnlylove @ Oct 18 2008, 11:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
SIs,,,MAria,,

i want to Make HAbol... Basta ikaw and our others carebears ,,, hindi ako pahuhuli .Anyways ,,,, i can remmber now how you and your Kids was in pain during that day ,, eheheh . Parang kayung Robot na hindi maka galaw ang cute nyo tinggan ,, Si portia nangka stiff neck panga ,pero sulit sis ang pagod, and time and effort natin,,

COngraTS talaga saInyo sis ,,, good.gif good.gif good.gif

lav you all



congrats you made it!!!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-20 04:27:00
PhilippinesWE GOT our VISAS!!!!!! YIpppeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!
QUOTE (honeybadger @ Oct 10 2008, 09:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congratulations to TOGA (david and linda) and honeybadger kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif

Finally after 48 years of waiting we got our VISAS today!!!!!! yeeeehhhheeeyyyyy!!! kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif


Thank you VJ family!!!! kicking.gif

Wishing YOU all a smooth visa journey!!!!!

GOd Bless!!!!


Wonderful!!!! Congrats...for Receiving your VISA...VISA VISA...
Good Luck both of you and God Bless
energy.gif energy.gif energy.gif
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-10 09:58:00
PhilippinesMEDICAL PASSED! Thanks GOD.
QUOTE (natassja_keisha @ Oct 21 2008, 08:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sis congrats! Goodluck on ur interview. good.gif


congrats!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-21 21:24:00
PhilippinesVisa on Hand (finally!)
QUOTE (pauLjeN @ Oct 20 2008, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
YAY!!! CONGRATULATIONS ping!!! kicking.gif i'll be having mine soon too... smile.gif




wonderful congrats!!!!!! and god bless your triep
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-20 20:23:00
Philippinesyaahoo! visa on hand
QUOTE (vsmtghdy @ Oct 22 2008, 03:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Great news! good.gif kicking.gif


wonderful news good.gif good.gif good.gif
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 04:07:00
Philippinesleaving philippines
QUOTE (stevent @ Oct 13 2008, 08:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
WELCOME TO USA!!! have a safe trip wink.gif



god luck and god bless
have a sip trip
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-13 20:54:00
PhilippinesEMBASSY IS KILLING ME!!!
QUOTE (ManilaIdaho @ Oct 20 2008, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kungakoikaw @ Oct 21 2008, 10:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
its been a while im just taking relax my mind about this ******** embassy!!!!!!
now i feel like im crying, not getting any good news at all!!! its more than 2 weeks already since my CO review my case, coz of that ******** DOCUMENT VERIFICATION, and now still nothing happen!!!!!!
**** NSO
**** EMBASSY
IM SORRY!!!!!!! I FEEL BAD TODAY!!!!


Hey girl,dont be sad,i know yours will be delivered next and you'll be with MR.M soon wink.gif

see yah around! luv yah!



i understand what you fell we are they same
i fell very bad its really prostrating process this
NSO GRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-20 22:17:00
PhilippinesYatta!!! Delbros texted me.
QUOTE (jasman0717 @ Oct 22 2008, 04:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congratulations good.gif


fabulous news congrats!!!!
good news for everyone who
still withing for visa including myself
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 22:16:00
PhilippinesVisa pick up
QUOTE (Jaminzel @ Oct 10 2008, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi VJ community,

I'm the male half of Jaminzel and I was wondering if anyone could tell me if it's possible to pick up your visa right after the interview? if so we could then proceed on to the CFO seminar and then fly home to her devoted hubby, me. This would save us some us a trip since she doesn't live in Manila. It's very difficult to get advice from the USEM, what a complete blessing this site is, any help would be appreciated.

Thanks,
jamin


Welcome TO VJ

she need to go back home and wait for VISA its take 4 to 6 week
before visa delivered it case to case if she pay her dv one month before interview
she wait short period of time may be 8 to 5 days.
CFO case she attend the seminar ok
buy the time she receive her VISA she going back again to stamp her VISA
GOD LUCK TO HER UPCOMING INTERVIEW...
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-10 23:05:00
Philippinesi got my visa yeheyyyyy!!!
QUOTE (Rodge & Ninfa @ Oct 23 2008, 09:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>




fabulous congrats and god bless
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-23 21:34:00
PhilippinesCONSOL 29 AND 44 IS OVER NICE!!!
QUOTE (jom @ Oct 22 2008, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Don't get frustrated. Just hang in there and you will get your visa soon.

Goodluck!


THANK YOU JOM
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 20:55:00
PhilippinesCONSOL 29 AND 44 IS OVER NICE!!!
hello mga SIS,
i think consul 29 and 44 is still hang over in Columbus holiday grrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!
nice during the interview but very slow when it come to the papers works
i am really prostrated this process between the nso and usem my papers in nso one
month and now in usem 3 week this Friday no update yet!!!! god bless America.i think our
papers sleeping in usem lorine told my honey last week it take only 8 days for working days
but look what happen 3 week no update yet!!!!!!!!!!!!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 20:35:00
PhilippinesTHANK YOU!
QUOTE (joynateforever @ Oct 22 2008, 11:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (chox @ Oct 22 2008, 11:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (joynateforever @ Oct 22 2008, 11:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif THANK YOU GUYS AND TO RUBY JADE,

MY DAUGTHER CRBA IS APPROVED TODAY! THE CONSUL IS VERY2X NICE! THANKS GOD.

GOD IS GOOD ALL THE TIME! good.gif




THANK YOU SO MUCH...


great news congrats
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 23:45:00
PhilippinesThanks God! I received text from Delbros last night...
QUOTE (joel_palo @ Oct 23 2008, 09:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LennifelShawn @ Oct 24 2008, 09:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello VJ Members,
Thanks for all the advice and some informations you posted here.....my timeline goes these way....

PAID DV.....8/8 :
MEDICAL EXAM SEPT.3 AND 4....THANKS GOD I PASSED
INTERVIEW SEPT.11 (PINK SLIP AND WHITE SLIP) THANKS GOD I AM APPROVED
EMBASSY SENT DV TO NSO SEPT. 5
EMBASSY RECIEVED DV BACK OCT.10
DELBROS TEXT FOR VISA DELIVERY OCT. 23
VISA ON HAND XXXXXXXXX
FLIGHT TO USA OCT.31 OR NOV.1
P.O.E. DETROIT
HOME-----OHIO


Thanks for all the advice and support from VJ members
God is so great and He is so good to all of us here....to all vj members who are still waiting for their visa......good luck...i know God has planned for the right time for all of us......God Bless to all.....
...Trust in God and be patient because the day will come sooner than later.

good morning, congrats your wait is over. God bless you in america. i am joel may i ask you? how come delbros texted you that your visa is for delivery on oct 23? it is automatic that delbros will text the applicant or we should text delbros from time to time to know if the visa is with them and for delivery. i appreciate it very much if i would read from you regarding this inquiry. thanks in advance.



fabulous news congrats and god bless
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-23 21:47:00
PhilippinesNO MORE DOCUMENT VERIFICATION
QUOTE (MJ3lasvegas @ Oct 9 2008, 07:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey guys, i just hangged up after talking to grace coz i was doing a follow-up on my visa and she did say these exact words:

"MA'AM, WE USED TO DO DOCUMENT VERIFICATION BUT RIGHT NOW SINCE THERE HAS BEEN A LOT OF BACKLOGS, WE ARE NOW ASKING FOR THE ORIGINALS DIRECTLY FROM THE APPLICANT, THIS NOW INCLUDES THE MARRIAGE INDEX FROM IR1, CR1, K3 APPLICANTS"

dang..i guess some got lucky.. good.gif

wow.gif wow.gif wow.gif wonderful news i am K1
waiting my Visa problem is DV
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-09 20:36:00
PhilippinesAre you really ready to be married, seriously?
QUOTE (HoneySkin @ Oct 10 2008, 02:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey K1 guys. This may sound serious and i hate drama sometimes, but are you guys really ready to be married as in seriously? How can you say that you are ready to be married? This will be my first time to be married and honestly, i am scared and nervous to death..do you feel the same?



Hello Honey Skin,
Marriage is lifetime a commitment before you say the big YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS.....
You need to think about it a million times if you are really serious and committed to him for better or worse and if you see your self spending the rest of your life with him and growing older together and you are willing to accept all the responsibility of having a family. Well you are not nervous because true love is that you accept him and love him without doubt the culture doesn't matter and marriage other side of the planet if your love is real.........
The married is life is not bed of rose's its take two people to tango and working together as one team and support to each other if one of you are fire it must be they other one is water....
Married relationship is give and take..........
IF YOU ARE READY EMOTIONALLY AND MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND LOOKING FORWARD THE RESPONSIBILITY AS A WIFE AND MOTHER WELL YOU ARE NOT NERVOUS BECAUSE YOU LOVE THE PERSON THAT YOU WELL MARRIED AND LIVING WITH HIM 7 DAYS IN 24 HOURS UNTIL THE GOLDEN YEARS OF YOUR LIFE
NO REGRETS AT ALL BECAUSE OF THE POWER OF LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-10 08:08:00
Philippinesquick questions for cfo
QUOTE (iloveyou16 @ Nov 2 2008, 10:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ned po ba sa prism muna pumunta bago cfo? ty po




first prism second cfo
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-02 23:00:00
Philippinesmy last week in PINAS
QUOTE (Completely @ Nov 3 2008, 04:59 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (andrew&evelyn @ Nov 2 2008, 02:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (iamincognito @ Nov 2 2008, 12:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
be leaving pinas in a week.. crying.gif huh.gif kicking.gif wacko.gif
still packing. i'm beginning to get homesick already while i am still here!
and i still haven't found anyone who has the same flight to LA on nov 11.
headbonk.gif


is you visa good only for 3 months?



Yes, as they need to get married and apply for AOS and EAD.



well just think your fiancee how much you love him
call your family have fun bonding your family
have a wonderful life to your husband soon
be safe and good luck
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-03 05:43:00
PhilippinesFly to california with me NOV 10-13 NOV 17 days 625.00 fare
QUOTE (Freddy007 @ Nov 2 2008, 03:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Fly to california with me NOV 10-13 NOV 17 days only 625.00 fare one way fair.

Hawaiian Airlines to SFO or California locations for about 625.00 looking for someone to fly with my fiancee.



wow!!!! congrats have a wonderful safe triep
i wish i have visa on my hand.
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-02 03:12:00
PhilippinesGot our NOA2 HardCopy (Nov 1, 2008 )
QUOTE (bevs @ Nov 2 2008, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (rheanick @ Nov 2 2008, 09:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just want to share:

My fiance informed me this morning, he received the hardcopy of our NOA2 (Nov 1 -US time).

This is an answered prayer. innocent.gif kicking.gif innocent.gif


thats a nice new. good luck.


wonderful news congrats and good luck the rest of your journey
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-02 18:40:00
PhilippinesDo I need to keep the atm receipt?
QUOTE (stevent @ Nov 2 2008, 09:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
we did the same too with my fiance (my husband now). he opened an account here in the US and send the card to the Phils. for me.

Keep the receipt of the western union and your fiance can ask a bank statement that shows how much money he send you to the Phils. and it will show the location of the bank which you withdraw the money in Phils. In short it will show that, the account/ATM was opened in the US, the money was deposited in the US and the money was withdrawed in the Philippines.

goodluck good.gif


keep the western union and atm receipt for your interview
may be the pray scanner ask you?but on my case she ask only picture
email and i give phone bills every month more than 1,000$ a month i bring tons of evidence but only ask few proof on going relationship its better to be ready than sorry
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-03 02:05:00
PhilippinesINTERVIEW
QUOTE (ManilaIdaho @ Nov 4 2008, 07:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congratulations kicking.gif and good luck on your interview in Dec good.gif



GOOD LUCK!!!!
TO YOUR UPCOMING
INTERVIEW IN DEC.
CONGRATS!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-04 19:48:00
PhilippinesIntroducing New Members
QUOTE (sunandmoon @ Nov 3 2008, 01:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
welcome to VJ and the Philippine forum...




welcome to vj it was nice love story god bless
and good luck to the rest of your journey
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-03 01:33:00
PhilippinesWhat happen to the PHIL forum?????
QUOTE (Eros_the_Plumber @ Nov 2 2008, 07:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am just wondering what happen to this forum, it was so full of life and vibrant few months ago when I joined. kicking.gif


Now what happen? unsure.gif

Did everyone got their VISA and we are the only ones left behind..... blush.gif


Please we need some OXYGEN in the room....anything to cheer us up a little.... jest.gif


some members got the visa
like me still craving my visa
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-02 19:06:00
Philippineswaiting for visa
QUOTE (pie @ Oct 22 2008, 04:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Oct 22 2008, 04:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
CO-29 Chubby she is nice pretty nice but
i think she is very slow to print my visa interview sept.19
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


ladyinpink...we hve d same date of interview & same Window dat day...W29..wat a coincidence,huh?!! so,any news wd ur case?did u submit cenomar???...(this cenomar thing is driving me nuts.. headbonk.gif )...


HELLO PIE.
wow nice i hoping to here something cross my finger grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
during my interview my pray scanner i have my cenomar,authenticated Bert certificate
my papers one month in nso forward to usem sept.10 3week this week i call the usem lorine told me
only 8 days for working days but untill now no news grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!! during my interview its take ony
2 minutes she told everything my papers is ok only dv i need to waith but untill still waithing consul 29 is lazy.
GOD BLESS AMERICA.
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 20:19:00
Philippineswaiting for visa
CO-29 Chubby she is nice pretty nice but
i think she is very slow to print my visa interview sept.19
grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-10-22 04:04:00
Philippinesdelbros confuse pls help
QUOTE (marshanetexas @ Nov 2 2008, 12:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (chadherm @ Nov 2 2008, 12:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My fiance is from forth worth texas, but working in dallas. Houston he said is kind of far from us hehehhe but would love to meet you someday.When is your upcoming interview?

hi i have my interview on nov 14. im so nervous,,,yes i would love to see u and met you in person. where are u in philippines?



GOOD LUCK!!!!!! YOUR UPCOMING INTERVIEW GURL
JUST RELAXED MAKE IT SURE YOUR DC IS ORGANIZE
IF YOU WANT TO PAY DV GO AHEAD IT COST 650 ONLY
ITS BETTER TO BE READY THAN TO BE SORRY IN THE END
ANYWAY IF THE USEM REQUIRE FOR DV
YOU CANT PAY THAT IN USEM DURING YOUR INTERVIEW

I AM SENDING YOU A MILLION PRAYER

BILLION OF VIBES AND ENERGY THINK ALWAYS POSITIVE
BE CONFIDENT TO YOUR SELF I NO YOU CANT DO IT!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-06 06:09:00
PhilippinesDocument asks during interview.....
QUOTE (pinkmint @ Nov 5 2008, 05:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Goodluck


GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!!!!!! TO YOUR COMING INTERVIEW

organize all your documents more evidence on going relationship
relaxed!!!! and be confident to your self i no you cant do it!!!!!!
i am sending you a million vibes and energy
a billion prayer pls pray
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-05 05:55:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (DARUMA07 @ Nov 9 2008, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 05:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!
very happy but behind my happiness
other side of my family is very sad!!!!!
specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom
she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high
blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my
mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner
in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body
the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now
my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that
her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family
my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family
but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now
my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad
what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet
but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much
he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life
my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????
do you think guy i am selfish????
do you think i am self center???????
i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome
so i have other side point of view
in this matter


Let me say that your mother will be ok! She will have these emotions that she is having right now. That is what a mother is suppose to do. Behind all the tears, she is very Happy for you!

This is Danny writing this and I would like to share a story with you about my wife Ruchie and her mother. Ruchie is over in the Philippines right now. Sadly, she buried her mother yesterday. Her mother was stricken with Pancreatic Cancer and was gone within 2 months after learning that she had it.
Her mother wanted her daughter to find a man that would love and take care of her and her son Mathew. That was her mothers dream! Her mother knew that there would be 8600 miles beteen them, but the love for her daughter and grandson made that distance very short. I can remember the first time I met Ruchies mother. She was very proud and Happy that Ruchie found someone who would love her and would accept her son as his own. I promised her mother that I would love and take care of them. I will keep that promise until the day that I die.
It was hard on Ruchie to leave the Philippines to come here, but Ruchie knew that she had to start a life for herself and Mathew. She kept in close contact with her family and shared with them about her life with me and life in the USA....

None of us know what tomorrow brings! We just have to live for today.. Cherish the love you have toward your mother and family, but don't feel guilty about leaving them. You and your fiance are starting your own life and journey. Your family will understand that and they know that the love they have toward you out weighs any sadness of you leaving them. Your family will always be in your heart. No matter what!

Cherish these last few days you have in the Philippines and remember that distance will not fade the Love that you and your family have. You will miss them, but you will be ok! Your fiance will take care of you and he will make sure you have that contact with your family. Good luck to you and may your Journey be as special as mine and Ruchies. good.gif



to danny and ritchie i understand very much how it feel when i lost my dad it was really difficult
and hard life i hope she is doing ok now and god bless thank you so much to your kind heart and inspirational advice
that why in my case to my mom i am freaking out you are wonderful person and very kind heart.
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-09 19:58:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (DARUMA07 @ Nov 9 2008, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 05:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!
very happy but behind my happiness
other side of my family is very sad!!!!!
specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom
she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high
blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my
mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner
in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body
the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now
my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that
her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family
my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family
but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now
my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad
what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet
but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much
he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life
my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????
do you think guy i am selfish????
do you think i am self center???????
i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome
so i have other side point of view
in this matter


Let me say that your mother will be ok! She will have these emotions that she is having right now. That is what a mother is suppose to do. Behind all the tears, she is very Happy for you!

This is Danny writing this and I would like to share a story with you about my wife Ruchie and her mother. Ruchie is over in the Philippines right now. Sadly, she buried her mother yesterday. Her mother was stricken with Pancreatic Cancer and was gone within 2 months after learning that she had it.
Her mother wanted her daughter to find a man that would love and take care of her and her son Mathew. That was her mothers dream! Her mother knew that there would be 8600 miles beteen them, but the love for her daughter and grandson made that distance very short. I can remember the first time I met Ruchies mother. She was very proud and Happy that Ruchie found someone who would love her and would accept her son as his own. I promised her mother that I would love and take care of them. I will keep that promise until the day that I die.
It was hard on Ruchie to leave the Philippines to come here, but Ruchie knew that she had to start a life for herself and Mathew. She kept in close contact with her family and shared with them about her life with me and life in the USA....

None of us know what tomorrow brings! We just have to live for today.. Cherish the love you have toward your mother and family, but don't feel guilty about leaving them. You and your fiance are starting your own life and journey. Your family will understand that and they know that the love they have toward you out weighs any sadness of you leaving them. Your family will always be in your heart. No matter what!

Cherish these last few days you have in the Philippines and remember that distance will not fade the Love that you and your family have. You will miss them, but you will be ok! Your fiance will take care of you and he will make sure you have that contact with your family. Good luck to you and may your Journey be as special as mine and Ruchies. good.gif


TO LOVING VJ FAMILY....


to my fellow vj thank you so much!!!! specially who understand my situation and concerned about my mom condensation and giving me support and great advice it help me a lots and make me more stronger.
i just want you to now guys that i am happy every time i read the wonderful advice and concerned with love and care.happy and blessed knowing that lots of vj family showing their love concerned.i highly respects to all of guys who helping me to handle this family crisis matter.

regarding my mom condensation she is still medication my mom she is happy that before she die i found the man who taking care on me and loving me the rest of my life before she die but mentally,emotionally prepared not yet
but we are having family counseling emotionally mentallly ready that i am leaving very soon and she is happy for me now... and support my new journey in my new life i have wonderful life in the Philippines.

my fellow vj;
i share little story about my mom and i... we have car accident she save my life.......
she is in ICU almost one month and stay in hospital almost 7 month its miracle that she still alive on car accident
now she is 76 yrs old i love you mom.........we become more closer to god...i lost my father in early age due to cancer liver.

i fell better and happy and peace of mind because my mom she is ok now.. i am very excited and looking forward
my responsibility ask a wife and mother soon..and start my new my own family.....

WONDERFUL VJ FAMILY,GREAT ATTITUDE,WITH GOLDEN HEART, THANK YOU SO MUCH TO ALL YOUR SUPPORT AND DEFERENCE ADVICE YOU ARE THE BEST FOR ME GUYS

CHUSAN,MYPANACEAGREA,KAVE,DANIELPARUL,RUNJIE,NICKOFTIME,RUNNIEKRIS,DARUMA07,
JACKANIS,XYLIDESJ,CHERREDO4,SINERGY,STINKEY MONKEY,BLUKISS24,TEXPAM,SONOMACOUNTRYGAL,
WEMISSEDDADDY,ABBYNORM THANK YOU SO MUCH GUY FROM THE BUTTON OF MY HEART GOD BLESS YOU
YOU ALL!!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-09 18:43:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 11:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (RickMj @ Nov 7 2008, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do what ever you think is best for you......Yawning!



to;jhon,jean, comments....i don't know of a medical for the lack of respect


to;allright reserved, comments no medical intervention would be effective below the 6ft below the ground

i agree with allright reserved............. ignorance is very expensive!!!!!!!!!!!!


to!!!!!! all my loving Filipino vj who was family oriented and devoted to our family
thank you so much!!!! for all the support i fell better because of your support and wonderful comments
and spend time to read my post from the button of my heart i really appreciated it very much!!!!this site
i consider it my extension family thank you so much guys and god bless....
cherryred-o4,xylide,my panaceagrea,blukiss20,abbynormm1
allringhtsreserved,sonomocountygal,rickmi,5j
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-08 00:07:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (RickMj @ Nov 7 2008, 11:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do what ever you think is best for you......Yawning!



to;jhon,jean, comments....i don't know of a medical for the lack of respect


to;allright reserved, comments no medical intervention would be effective below the 6ft below the ground

i agree with allright reserved............. ignorance is very expensive!!!!!!!!!!!!
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-07 23:44:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (wemissedbigdaddy @ Nov 7 2008, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 06:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!
very happy but behind my happiness
other side of my family is very sad!!!!!
specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom
she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high
blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my
mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner
in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body
the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now
my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that
her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family
my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family
but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now
my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad
what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet
but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much
he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life
my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????
do you think guy i am selfish????
do you think i am self center???????
i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome
so i have other side point of view
in this matter

I und every detail ladyinpink is trying to tell us,it touches me.I too have a mother who were deeply sad when me and my 2 children who grow up with the care of my mother had to leave to be with my husband here in America.A person like ladyinpink is one of the most honest and real true Filipina i've known here on VJ...



THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!! WEMISSDBIGDDAY.........THAT YOU RELATE ABOUT MY FEELING AND CONCERNED
IT DO SENT MEAN WE HAVE OUR OWN FAMILY IN THE USE WE FORGET OUR FAMILY IN THE PHILIPPINES AND DO SENT CARE ABOUT THEIR FEELING..WHAT EVER LONG PROCESSION WE ENDING IN THE CHURCH. MY MOM IS MY HERO SHE BROUGHT MY LIFE IN THIS WORLDS WITH FULL OF LOVE.
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-07 21:33:00
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QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 08:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (sonomacountygal @ Nov 7 2008, 08:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 04:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!
very happy but behind my happiness
other side of my family is very sad!!!!!
specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom
she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high
blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my
mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner
in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body
the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now
my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that
her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family
my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family
but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now
my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad
what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet
but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much
he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life
my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????
do you think guy i am selfish????
do you think i am self center???????
i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome
so i have other side point of view
in this matter


Huwag ka na mag-worry Lady in Pink. Kung saan ka masaya, go girl! Nasanay lang mommy mo magkasama kayo palagi kaya nahihirapan siya mag-adjust dahil iiwanan mo na siya. Ikaw lang makakasagot ang tanong kung guilty ka o hindi, selfish, self-centered, etcetera. Ikaw lang makakasagot ng mga tanong na yan girl!





TO MJLASVEGAS SHE IS VERY HAPPY WHEN HER MOM DIE!!!!!! OR HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!!!!! RUD!!!! PILIPINA WOMAN GURLS YOU ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD IF YOU DON'T HAVE MOTHER!!!!!! I AM BORN WITH FULL OF LOVE AND ATTENTION OF MY FAMILY
DO SENT CARE HER MOTHER OR HER FAMILY HUH?



TO ALL MY FELLOW FILIPINA
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BEING NICE ON ME AND RELATE MY FEELING AND CONCERNED
NOT BEING RUDE!!!!!! COMMENTS
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-07 21:02:00
Philippinesremeaning days in pinas is being deffecult!!!!!!
QUOTE (sonomacountygal @ Nov 7 2008, 08:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ladyinpink @ Nov 7 2008, 04:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i receive my visa it really wonderful!!!!
very happy but behind my happiness
other side of my family is very sad!!!!!
specially my mom!!!!!

i am really concerned the condensation of my be loving mom
she almost hurt attack and now she is under medication on high
blood and heart problem she is crying lady every time i see my
mom!!!!! it breaking my heart and my whole family is very sad every corner
in my house is sad and crying very hard to see my whole family is very sad

i am the youngest of my family sweetheart to every body
the only single of my family never expect that i was full in love other side of the planet

i feel very guilty!!!!! because of condensation of my mom now
my mom she is happy and understand but i think in her heart she cant accept that
her little girl now become a lady and ready to start my own life and my own family
my fiancee he promise my mom in one yrs she well be coming to usa to see me and my new family
but i really don't know if my mom she well make it she is 76 yrs now
my whole life i never be part of my family very hard!!!!

my feeling is mixed emotion happy to be my honey but other side of my heart is sad
what if i lost mom?????? because of me? loving some one that living in other side of the planet
but i fallow my heart i love my honey so much
he is my everything in my life that make me happy the rest of my life
my body in the Philippines but my heart and mind my honey bring my heart when is back home in usa

i feel guilty????
do you think guy i am selfish????
do you think i am self center???????
i just fallow my heart

any comments and ic welcome
so i have other side point of view
in this matter


Huwag ka na mag-worry Lady in Pink. Kung saan ka masaya, go girl! Nasanay lang mommy mo magkasama kayo palagi kaya nahihirapan siya mag-adjust dahil iiwanan mo na siya. Ikaw lang makakasagot ang tanong kung guilty ka o hindi, selfish, self-centered, etcetera. Ikaw lang makakasagot ng mga tanong na yan girl!





TO MJLASVEGAS SHE IS VERY HAPPY WHEN HER MOM DIE!!!!!! OR HAVING A HEART ATTACK!!!!!! RUD!!!! PILIPINA WOMAN GURLS YOU ARE NOT IN THIS WORLD IF YOU DON'T HAVE MOTHER!!!!!! I AM BORN WITH FULL OF LOVE AND ATTENTION OF MY FAMILY
DO SENT CARE HER MOTHER OR HER FAMILY HUH?
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-07 20:56:00
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TO STINKY MONKEY;
yes very hard decisions guiltiness in my heart i am very sad
but in other side i am more excited and happy to be with my honey but my mom
almost lost her life because of me!!!!!!!! living very soon!!!!!!!but i chose my lifetime happiness.

i post this!!!!! so i have deference idea and point of view regards this matter
thank you so much stinky
ladyinpinkFemalePhilippines2008-11-07 18:36:00