Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	MY WIFE GOT HER VISA TODAY!!!!!	WHEWWWWWWW WHOOOOOOOOOOOOO God bless your life together!	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-03-05 10:10:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	FEES FOR CR1 VISA AT TIME OF INTERVIEW	Can anyone please tell me how much money is needed for my husband when he goes to the CR1 interview, May 15, 2008?? The amount was NOT listed on our paperwork. AND why did I receive the interview packet and not him?? ANY INFO IS GREATLY NEEDED	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-15 06:04:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	MEDICAL DOCUMENTATION FOR CR1 INTERVIEW	My husband just had his medical exam for the K3 Visa. Now the same day he has K3 in hand, he gets interview for CR1 Does anyone know what exact papers you need to take with you for the CR1 interview? All he has is the vaccination record. I read somewhere that you need to bring a SEALED envelope from the doctor with vaccination record and Xrays to the CR1 interview. Can anyone verify this? I cant imagine him having to go thru his examination all over again when he just had it, xrays and all.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-15 06:07:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	should i really file 129f?	So if my husband has his interview May 15th for CR1...how long does it take? Why does he have to wait longer? I need some infor here pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee You mean he doesnt just get his visa there is some wait and for what? He already has K3, can I cancel his interview for CR1 in his country and file again for him when he is here?	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-15 21:30:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Moroccan cases please respond	My case is CR1 My husband in Morocco for his interview May 15th. Of course I paid the application processing fee $380 in the beginning. I am just need to know how much he needs the day of the interview. Some say just the $20 balance...is this true? Because at K3 interview he had to pay $131.00 dollars..so I just dont want to be surprised by any additional fees. Also, will he get fingerprinted, if so, does he need to pay for that?	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-15 21:12:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	MAJOR DILEMMA...PLEASE HELP!	How is it possible that on the day my husband receives his K3 visa from consulate in Morocco that he then receives his interview for CR1 THE SAME DAY??? My attorney advises him to STAY THERE, he says it is best to finish it now, cheaper, smarter...BUT I am desperate to get him here, as we all are to be reunited with our loved ones. I dont know #1...can I cancel the interview there..fly him here and finish things here #2...let him stay and RISK him staying much longer due to additional processing (let's face it, it is likely) #3...I am worried that cancelling this appointment may "look bad" and make things harder once he comes I really need some input Thank you	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-15 21:17:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	K3 and I-130 processing simultaneously	QUOTE (ed_and_sue @ Apr 25 2008, 07:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi guys! i called the nvc last wednesday. our i-129 was finally forwarded to the embassy... while for i-130, the 3230 and aos were generated. as per nvc staff, it's okay to process the two petitions at the same time, since they will generate different visas. personally, i'd be happy to receive whichever visa so i can be with my hubby soon... i'm not really picky! he he he... never mind if it'll cost me an additional 1k for aos! oh well, things happen for a reason.... let's see what will happen next. Here's a kicker! K3 approved first..interview came...got visa...same day CR1 interview package came.. so my husband could literally come here but now has to stay back until May 15th interview..UNBELIEVABLE! Attorney advised he stay there and get it all finished up, it will save time, aggravation and money...I just hope CR1 goes as smooth as K3 Edited by sandrila, 27 April 2008 - 07:41 PM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-04-27 19:41:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	INTERVIEW TOMORROW	It has taken 11 months, since petitioning for my husband, for him to get his interview in Casablanca. Both our petitions were filed one month apart and the interviews have also been one month apart. As I had stated a month ago, we were ELATED for him to receive the K3 visa on April 10th BUT that very same day, he received his interview packet for the CR1...we waited it out the month and now the day is here...yep hubby will be interviewing again for the 2nd time in Casa in less than 6 hours. I have seen so many people blessed with being reunited with their loved ones. PLEASE GOD WE ARE READY...I MISS YOU BABY.....GOOD LUCK...ALL IS GOING TO COME GOOD.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-05-14 21:19:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Medical info for Morocco	# just make sure you bring good money # it can take anywhere from 3-6 hours # bloodwork, basic exam, vaccinations, paperwork, xrays is all standard # bring all your necessary documentation. appointment letter, passport, passport photos (2), money # you can go to the link listed above too everybody's story here helps another my only advice is to ask ?s always, about everything and anything especially get YOUR own copy of vaccination and whatever other records you can get a hold of are you responsible for taking the paperwork to the Consulate or does the examining doctor send it ? good luck	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-06-25 22:06:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	~~Big News~~	CONGRATS.....many happy years together	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-07-30 13:26:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	VISA APPROVED !!!		Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-09-15 15:19:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	We need your Prayers!!!	GOOD LUCK! I hope the outcome is an approval and the wait is minimal.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-08-13 08:25:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	so mad about hubby	Aren't we always the ones to take on the load? If he doesn't care about his own case....then? Yes give him a deadline SOONER than you really need it, that way if he delays you will still have time. I am sorry to hear of your frustrations but you will quickly learn you are not alone in having to deal with them. Good Luck QUOTE (sinad @ Sep 28 2009, 06:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> thank alot !!!!! brnidokiegurl we met online , and hubby said no dont tell them , tell them that we were family friends !!!!! but no i disagree i prefer to say the truth no ? he thinks meeting online will make a problem for the process !! no don't lie about it. I was sketchy about it at first and like how credible we would look saying that but it happens so much now adays and there is nothing wrong or unusual about it.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-09-28 10:07:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Let's support Paris Heart	Good Luck to you and your sweetie on the big day	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-10-28 09:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Ideas on Proof of Relationship?	I also heard that they do not have the time to watch video or hear recordings. Hard copies are what they want to see, if they even look at them.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-05-11 22:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Divorce decree translation	TRANSLATE	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-08-25 14:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Worried!! K-1 Problem with divorce decree.	QUOTE (djnickcj @ Nov 3 2008, 12:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (sandrila @ Nov 3 2008, 10:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good that you received 221g stating exactly what you need! I think you will be fine...you responded quickly, now lets hope they issue that VISA She got it issued today. omgosh what a coininkadink!! my husband should be getting his visa issued as we speak be glad you only had to wait a week, we have been in AP nightmare for 5 1/2 months Edited by sandrila, 03 November 2008 - 11:55 AM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-11-03 11:55:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Worried!! K-1 Problem with divorce decree.	Good that you received 221g stating exactly what you need! I think you will be fine...you responded quickly, now lets hope they issue that VISA well my above response was just posted BEFORE I read your FOLLOW UP CONGRATULATIONS!!! nice when the consulate actually DOES their job and QUICK!! Edited by sandrila, 03 November 2008 - 11:51 AM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-11-03 11:50:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Worried about my lawyer's handing of K-1 visa application	There a couple comments I would like to make #1 I have an attorney and he isnt worth a damn #2 if you want something done and done correct without having any regrets and big hole in your stomach DO IT YOURSELF....I have seen most people do it coming from the most difficult consulates and honestly ALL AROUND THIS WHOLE PROCESS IS ENOUGH TO KILL SOMEONE	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2008-11-03 11:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	i'm lost and stresses out.	it seems that you are doing all you can do it is just a process of waiting there is no specific time they will contact you there is no specific time you will get that visa just hang in there it will happen we had AP for a K3....12 days and AP for CR1......nearly 6 months it sucks but you have to resign to the fact that you really have no control you can rush the government	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-02-05 10:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Death of Fiancee		Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-02-05 15:42:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	OMMGGGGG I GOT APPROVALLLLL	Yeah!!!!!!!!!! Approval!!! I think you just wait and they will send you information as to what comes next. Like an interview date.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-09-11 13:36:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures	Troubles with Potential Co-sponsors	Our co sponsor was not a family either. All they want to see is that they can add the support and credibility that is needed to vouche for the SO. It is a difficult position to be in. I worried so much about that too because my family would have never considered helping for the same reasons alot are leary of. I just thank GOD I was blessed with our co sponsor's understanding, willingness, support and well wishes. It wouldn't have been possible without her. IMO I don't think it is a decision to be taken lightly (and I knew that going in) and from what I understand they (co sponsor) are just as responsible and liable as the petitioner is. Although signing is free, there is always a risk that things could go sour, in which case, the dishonesty or lack of sincerity on part of the SO, would reflect back on the sponsor/co sponsor.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-09-16 09:41:00
Middle East and North Africa	Tanya and Mohamed no more!	QUOTE (Jenn! @ Nov 15 2009, 07:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Forget Arab. Compared to women, aren't ALL men pretty lazy? /generalization Anyway, sorry to hear about that, Tanya. Take care of yourself. RIGHT ON JENN! btw Adam is so precious	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-11-16 16:37:00
Middle East and North Africa	Tanya and Mohamed no more!	QUOTE (visa4habibi?? @ Nov 15 2009, 05:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Nagishkaw @ Nov 15 2009, 06:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow, Sister! I am so sorry things did not work out for you. I wish you well and I sincerely mean this. Thank you so much! I just found out from my uncle that it's common knowledge back where I'm from that Arab men are lazy. I didn't know that! I thought it was just my husband! Is that true? Sorry to hear that you are going through this. I would have to say that there are plenty of lazy, selfish men who have preyed on women. I would have to say as far as us being women, we are going to bear the brunt of alot of responsibilities that men never bother to assist with and/or they think it's not their duty. I wouldn't say that I know "Arab men are lazy". I think it goes without saying that you feel very hurt and bitter. I think it is logical to say there are differences in our relationships with foreign men as opposed to American men, BUT there are good men out there. Not all Arabs can be lumped in the same category. I have seen just as many disfunctional leeches as I have heard about those men who are loving, respectful, supportive and treat their women with dignity and equality. I think one of the main things is giving yourself time to get to know your spouse/fiancee. It really does take a lot of time and the differences in culture and lifestyles really can impact that dynamic of our relationship with "Arab" men, however, people are people no matter where they are from and right is right/wrong is wrong. You just cannot prepare or predict what the outcome will be once your SO gets here and you actually live together in real life/real time. You are not alone either. Plenty of women have been taken for a ride, have made sacrifices and have been greatly wronged by these men, who they have done everything for. We have to be the strong women we are and identify the problems, try to resolve them and if they are not going to get resolved or another is unyielding, as far as changing for the sake of the marriage, well you need to be strong enough to walk away from it. Some men are just jerks. Some have just been babied and pampered by their mothers. Some don't have any experience with any sort of relationship at all before marrying the American SO. One thing that boggles my mind about these "using" men is that in their country they NEED to be able to provide for their wife, prior to marriage. I was under the impression that before a family gives their daughter to a man they have to bring something to the table. In their own country they are required to take care of their wife and family, then some come here and just withhold their money, refuse to contribute or just put their own needs in front of their family's it just blows my mind how the standards they are "supposed" to live up to back home, just get swept under the rug when they come here. Maybe it is because they don't have any accountability. I.E. Back home they would have their own parents, family members and society to pass judgement on them when they see what they may or may not be doing. Despite most of the bad outcomes I have heard, I do still believe there are some really good "Arab" men and husbands who do the right thing by their wives. Edited by Sandrila, 16 November 2009 - 11:10 AM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-11-16 11:05:00
Middle East and North Africa	CASABLANCA	In general I would say...save each and every document...anything and everything (phone records and emails) you can "paperwise" "picture wise" as proof that you were together, communicate regularly and are planning a future. HAVE FAITH IN GOD. IF IT IS MEANT TO BE IT WILL BE. PRAYING DOES WONDERS. Follow all instructions given by USCIS/Consulate to the LETTER! Make copies of everything for yourself...2 is very smart....you will find you use the same documents over and over people fret over actual originals (which some are required) but most suffice as copies. Be honest....think of any and every question that has to do with each of you, your families, your past and background. Quite honestly this happens as part of the "getting to know you" phase of your relationship anyhow. We made a game out of it and I would very often quiz him just to make sure he knew and wouldnt forget. We stressed about the interrogation too much and honestly after 2 interviews, one for K3 the other CR1, they asked maybe 5 pertinent questions. Nothing tricky or complicated in the least. Be straight foward and confident! Utilitizing your congressman or state rep....like senator definitely will help. If you can remember this when road blocks arise or the wait is getting long....you need documentation and a letter of consent to proceed but it is so worth it and I still feel that their involvement with us helped expediate if not draw attention to our case. Prepare yourself that there are no guarantees. Everyone's situation is completely different and the time frame is totally unpredictable. Just be prepared to wait and also prepare for the dreaded, 221 g, some are very lucky to escape this ungodly form but even in the midst of your darkness, remember, things will come to fruition and under normal circumstances and even some seemingly complicated, you will get that visa! Stay positive, keep busy and try not to sweat the small stuff. I know easier said than done GOOD LUCK AGAIN TO ALL THE PEEPS WAITING... Edited by sandrila, 23 March 2009 - 01:59 PM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-03-23 13:57:00
Middle East and North Africa	It's Monday!!	QUOTE (charles! @ Dec 28 2009, 11:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> and why can't i have egg nog at work!?!??!?!?? what you mixin wit dat? lemme know the measurements too i wanna make some QUOTE (ZaidsMommy @ Dec 28 2009, 01:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Tasha, we have tons of snow here!!! Cant believe it hasnt hit u guys til now! I went shopping this morning and had to come home early. Its SUPER cold out here today! 2 feet of snow accumlated in time for Christmas 2 feet of snow washed away exactly one week later	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-28 15:43:00
Middle East and North Africa	It's Monday!!	checkin in miss y'all peace and God's blessings always be abundant with all of you and your families QUOTE (Aymsgirl @ Dec 28 2009, 11:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Mornin'. We got our first accumulation of snow. I'm a nervous wreck because my husband fishtailed the car last night. He didn't hit anything but it makes me sick thinking of him driving in this muck! Tasha! Hey girl PM me sometime miss ya!	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-28 15:06:00
Middle East and North Africa	Happy third Anniversary!	Sorry I am late Many more happy blessings to you and Waleed Livvie! QUOTE (Cipriana @ Dec 27 2009, 05:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I doubt that they are together.... why would you even say such a thing?	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-28 15:03:00
Middle East and North Africa	Losing friends because of marriage choice	yes and my response is ** em!	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-28 15:04:00
Middle East and North Africa	Introduction	QUOTE (UmmSqueakster @ Jun 1 2009, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm UmmSqueakster, fka rahma. Squeakster is the squishy and fat feline love of my life. I'm married to AbuSqueakster, the ** sapien love of my life, who has been in the US for more than 3 and a half years now. *looks at join date* zomgosh, I my 4 year VJ anniversary was a few weeks ago Where has the time gone? [public service announcement] Honestly, looking back at the journey, it was long and hard, and it's still hard. The visa process is nothing compared to the adjustment once the MENA man gets here, at least in my experience. Make sure you love each other lots and are very patient, because that love will be tested and your patience will be stretched thin. [/public service announcement] well put and you didnt add that you are our guru as well. I hope I don't offend by saying so but if you need any thorough expertise on the teachings of Islam, Squeaky is one of your gals GOOD NITE FOLKS Edited by Sandrila, 01 June 2009 - 03:54 PM.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-06-01 15:53:00
Middle East and North Africa	Introduction	Welcome and you certainly have stumbled upon a wonderful group of unique and intelligent women (and Charles ) here at VJ. My name is Lisa aka Sandrila and my husband of 2 years name is Tarik He is from Rabat and I am from Philadelphia. We have 3 children from my previous marriage. Tarik arrived in mid Nov '08. There is just a wide range of support, encouragement, information and experience to be had on this site. I thank GOD for guiding me too it and it helped us tremendously. Not only with the actual immigration journey but even now that we are living together. The waiting is the worst. There is never anything conclusive up and until the visa is in hand but with GOD'S help, patience and determination your time will come. add me to the VJ addicts	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-06-01 15:38:00
Middle East and North Africa	Happy New Year MENA !	To All My MENA Peeps Happy New Year May God bring us together, bring us peace, much happiness and prosperity in 2010!! It certainly has been one heck of a year for me and glad to see it go. It went so fast! Enjoy your plans....whatever they may be. I am getting out of work in about an hour. Got some laundry (of all things) to do and have to pick up something to bring to the New Year's gathering we are headed to. Nice my hubby has off today and tomorrow. We woke to snow this morning..about 3-4 inches no biggie after the 2' we got 2 weeks ago! I am out.....see ya in the New Year God Bless us all	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-31 10:14:00
Middle East and North Africa	Tuesday	Can't believe it... had to check the forum about 50 times... but I'm starting the thread! Good Morning Mena! we are a scarce few these days HAPPY NEW YEAR to all my pals here. Hope your Christmas was wonderful and peaceful and Santa brought you a few things on your list! I have been out of the loop here for a while but just wanted to say HI hope we get some good news coming thru to start this NEW YEAR off right God Bless us, all of us	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-05 15:59:00
Middle East and North Africa	New MENA Arrival	OH JOY!!!! Now we have a bunch of new menaweeds!!!!!! Congratulations Mommy and family. God Bless the new babe. What a sweet precious gift GOD has given you! When was he born? Hope a speedy and well adjusted post pregnancy.	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2009-12-16 16:10:00
Middle East and North Africa	Wednesday!	Good morning! Happy Wednesday to all! Nice partly cloudy day today with a slight chance of RAIN!! Going to be a beautiful 73 degrees! Wael will begin classes next week. He's loves studying! It's going to be another 18-20 units he will be taking plus working 40 hrs. That man has such control! His classes include 2 Astronomy classes, Calculus and another math (hasn't decided yet), History 2 and Anthropology 2. That's the schedule so far. Will have a doubledegree once he finishes! Jackie I'm so happy you finally have a date!!! What excitement!!! Lisa nice to see you again! How are you doing? Hope everyone will have a bright and beautiful day! Take care, stay warm and safe. I'm hangin in Jeanne always a pleasure dear! just been busy with life, ya know sometimes throws us some curve balls Just chiming in to say good morning to all from a new(er) face in these parts. Not part of any regular discussion groups, but am enjoying getting to know other Morocco/MENA folks one by one. Coming up on our interview in 2 weeks and can use all the positive vibes that we can get! Some bad news coming out of Casa these last few weeks so I am really edgy. Hope everyone is having a happy happy hump day! Take care all, ~Beth welcome! Happy Hump Day everyone! JACKIE!! wow! I cant believe its less than two weeks - will you even have time to paint the whole house or anything ? Kelly - we went to one of those last week and its hard to say who had more fun - the little girl or the big boys (my son and husband). They went crazy on the giant waterslides. sending you positive interview vibes, Beth HEY HEY LADY SARA! Looks like baby girl has quite the head of hair growing these days My how time flies	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-13 14:17:00
Middle East and North Africa	Wednesday!	I ammmm soooooooo exxxcccciiitedd!!! Hubby, myself, and Zaid are going to an indoor waterpark for the weekend and we booked the King Spa Jacuzzi Suite! Wooohooo! Its only for a weekend, and only an hour from home, but its the closest thing Ill have to a vacation since 4 years ago when I was in Jordan...Im excited to get away, even if its only fr 48 hours. I really think Zaid is gonna LOVE the waterpark. I just need to go get him some swimming trunks bc we defintly dont have any for his size. lol. Happy Hump Day everyone! Today is my Thursday bc Im off Friday. Unfortunately, I am working a 12-8 so its gonna be a long day someone I know went to one of those it sounds like alot of fun!	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-13 10:40:00
Middle East and North Africa	Wednesday!	Here ya go darlin! Today I am singin a new tune and dancin around da room Jackie oh Jackie I am just seeing your siggy now with Ibrahim's arrival date I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! You must be so delighted! I wish you both the best and you getting everything you need to get in order before hand you gotta be a busy (and happy) bee!!	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-13 10:29:00
Middle East and North Africa	Friday!	Good morning! TGIF!!!! Wael has a 3 day weekend but we have no plans but relaxing! I'm pampering myself today with a hair appt, manicure and pedi. Hope you have a great Friday! Be careful and stay safe. Jeanne that sounds nice....enjoy Jen good to see you again...hope juggling work and parenthood is off to a smooth start nothin doing for us this weekend either just a nice chance to unwind after all the holiday hoopla and get stuff done around the apt we renewed our vows too when he got here. i just never felt right about the way they did things there. it was more of a contract signing then a wedding. I hear ya on that Donna...how are things dear	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-15 14:03:00
Middle East and North Africa	Just wondering....	3 years February 2, 2010	Sandrila	Female	Morocco	2010-01-11 15:54:00