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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
QUOTE (Mon @ Sep 23 2009, 12:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If this question is for me! I didn't dump him! He dumped me!! He went back to his girlfriend in JA!! His Loss!!


What are you serious?? And you didn't PM or text me??? Wow!!! Yes his lost.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 14:17:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 23 2009, 10:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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oh lawd!! dis too much. who ave a new topic? new day, new topic

we been talking bout food our men eat, moni or rick ross came back and said hi, chat bout young and the restless..

plenty of ting ta reply tuh star.. if ya nah wan chat bout dis.. cool.gif



Quana, I'm back to stay! I miss my VJ sisteren! I talk with you all on FB but that is not enough! I thought that I shouldn't be on here seeing that I was no longer applying a visa!


Are you crazy?? Shoot you see I never left and i don't plan too... Well unless I join the Latino board.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 13:29:00
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QUOTE (Mon @ Sep 23 2009, 10:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (sus @ Sep 22 2009, 06:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL, Moni - I saw your posts on FB and was wondering when you would piece it together -



Sus!! A little birdie clued me in!! Whenk I read this I was like WOW!! It really hit home. My husband cheated on me with someone I considered to be a close friend! The girl was in my wedding! She lived with us when she had no where to stay! Came to family functions and all! Well needless to say when I found out about the affair I ended my marriage and ended the friendship with her as well! I tried to approach her like a woman but she would not talk to me and started spreading rumors around town about me! Saying that the reason why my husband and I broke up was because I CHEATED!! WTH?? Needless to say we ran into each other a year later and she got the much needed beating that she deserved!
Some might say that I was wrong but I don't!! I think my actions were justified!! This was my HUSBAND!! My children's FATHER!!

SOME THINGS YOU JUST DON'T DO!!


Finally someone just like me. Whoo I think we gone get along just perfect!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 13:22:00
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QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Sep 22 2009, 07:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Sep 22 2009, 04:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (sus @ Sep 22 2009, 07:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL, Moni - I saw your posts on FB and was wondering when you would piece it together -



Finesse alwats sey mek it plain...dem nah get no more plain dan dat...mi see it wid my own eyes.... blink.gif ...My momma always said you cyaan trust no man wit dem "funny colored eyes" anyway! laughing.gif laughing.gif She's country...mi no pay har no mine...til now...



DWL...my grandmother says the same ting...u see dem yey deh...a GINAL dat!

ohmy.gif unsure.gif blink.gif unsure.gif My guy has those funny colored eyes!


I was just thinking that. rofl.gif O.k. Ells I think you better put your girl in her place zeen.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 09:42:00
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QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Sep 22 2009, 07:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Man...todays drama was ALMOST as good as the drama that's going on on the Young & the Restless! laughing.gif I'm tellin you--if they kill Victor Newman off this show I'm going the eff off in the Yardie thread! laughing.gif laughing.gif protest6wz.gif protest6wz.gif


Ha this brings back memories. I have watched Y&R for yearsssssss but back in the day I think it was when Jack shot him I didn’t know if he was going to make it or not. I swore to anyone that would listen that if they killed Victor I was no longer watching the show and I meant that My mom teased me like oh no let me call Y&R and tell them my daughter wont watch no more if they kill Victor. Then she told me to get a life the story would still go on but I didn’t care I meant it no Victor now Dada to watch anymore. Well I guess someone heard me and knew I was too valuable to lose cause I see Victor is still on there.

LOL

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 09:40:00
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QUOTE (Mon @ Sep 22 2009, 07:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Ladies.. it's me Rick Ross.. I thought that I would change my name on here since Him and I are no longer together but still am a Yardie!

I can't believe Renee!! All that I am going to say is that these are grounds for an old fashioned #### whoopin!! Don't get me wrong I like Renee but after this it's like WOW!!


Hey lady long time no talk too!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-23 09:33:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Sep 22 2009, 06:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 05:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
the fact that so many of your ladies are getting these calls must mean there are ppl in the hotels who are selling these ppl your personal info


I don't think it's the hotels - although there are definite spots in Negril that I know people have used their card and then had false charges - I really think it's linked to Western Union, and it's people working there selling your name and number -


Me too. I have never used my CC at a hotel I think it did happen after I sent Roc money for the calling plan b4 my yardies told me I could do it myself on line.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 17:29:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Sep 22 2009, 04:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Sep 22 2009, 03:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree...But the point I guess I am trying to make is that there are some things that should NEVER be done. You don't date a friend's ex man, or a co-worker's ex man or a relative's ex man etc etc......

There are TOO MANY darn fish in the pool!!


hmmm.. i never done it, but im thinking?? what if u didn't know it was their man when u met him.. (NOT THIS SITUTAION) but what if??? do u stop the relationship??


If your not in to deep yes but I'm thinking if they are a close friend wouldn't you know that was their man.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 17:09:00
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QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Sep 22 2009, 04:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
[quote name='*SunRay*' post='3334945'
I agree...But the point I guess I am trying to make is that there are some things that should NEVER be done. You don't date a friend's ex man, or a co-worker's ex man or a relative's ex man etc etc......

There are TOO MANY darn fish in the pool!!


My point EXACTLY!!! Those are just don't do's.... I love my friends even more now for never having to go through this.

Edited by DaDa, 22 September 2009 - 05:03 PM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 17:03:00
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QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Sep 22 2009, 04:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
On another topic (maybe this will lighten the mood a little?), I now know how it feels to be a parent (or wife) & having to hide presents from someone. Never had to do that before. While mister was playing socc....ahem, football, Sunday morning, I snuck off to Target to get him the Spongebob cuddle pillow he eyeballed a couple months ago. I also got him a remote-controlled helicopter. He never had toys as a kid so I'm spoiling him a little. Those 'toys' & the Beenie Man show will be his b-day presents. Of course, now I have to hide these things in the car until I get a chance to sneak them into our tiny apartment where it's nearly impossible to hide anything! He never looks in the overhead storage in the bathroom though. whistling.gif yes.gif laughing.gif



aww so cute! I have never been good at keeping gifts till the day I am supposed to give... I have to buy them like the day before and even then its hard.

I am LMAO rofl.gif at Irie trying her best to change the topic!!!

Sorry mi gyal its not working.

Edited by DaDa, 22 September 2009 - 05:00 PM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 17:00:00
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QUOTE (*JG* @ Sep 22 2009, 03:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Sep 22 2009, 02:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If I found out MY friend was dating an ex much less an ex HUSBAND of mine, I would set out to destroy her fricking life....
MEN I would expect ###### from, but a FRIEND and a WOMAN hell naw.....

How would I deal with it??
If I had PROOF, I would be making BILLBOARDS calling her all the names under the sun, would find EVERY and ANY way to make his life a living hell....

I wonder what she is saying in this?



I wouldn't. I would walk away. But, that's me maybe. I have no patience for confrontation.


We know that is why you won't punch your stalker in the face or run her over with your car.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 16:50:00
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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
never tek it anyway irie
its all good

i hear that sus, this is a shame, a real shame

it's gonna look a way if i send a freind request
nuh true?

U better not!!! LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 16:41:00
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O.k. I don’t know how to take this. This is what I mean when I say I have the BEST best friends ever. Me and my friends have never and I mean EVER messed with each others men in no way shape or form.

I know that we are strangers to one another on this site but call me crazy but I feel like we have a bond a sisterhood. I mean some of us share things with one another that no one else has known. Once again call me crazy because we really don’t know each other but I feel hurt when you all hurt I can cry when you cry and I feel joy for you feel joy so to disrespect another Yardie and date her man just leaves me speechless and angry. I would think even if I met your men years after you all were done I couldn’t mess with them because u used to and well there just OFF limits.

Like when I joke with you all about your men being fine because some of you have some fine AZZ men. I would never overstep my boundaries and try to get with them because that is what they are YOUR men.

Luv you have to feel so hurt from your husband and Classy because I would be so hurt if I found out one of my Vj sisters would do something so cold. As women we can really be so sneaky and conniving. I used to see Classy on here I’m trying to think if she was on VJ doesn’t that mean she had a man? What happened to him? See I’m scared of jail but times like this makes me want to punch someone in the FACE!!!

I am so speechless!!!

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 16:33:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Sep 22 2009, 02:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (*JG* @ Sep 22 2009, 01:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You feel like the dude, why? Cause you are agressive? I find guys like it when you tell them exactly what you want. Leaves the guessing to a minimum.


i am usually the one that wants to do special things, but Roger is always coming up w/ something..
"lets go to the lake, , he's getting flowers, cards, calling to say he love me.." i am getting the treatment ive prayed for.. but i feel like i need to step up my game LOL.. cyaan let him be outdoing me!! mad.gif rofl.gif
his bday is coming up.. i gotta BRING IT!!!!
no its not a comptetition whistling.gif i just wanna show him how much i apprciate his appreciation whistling.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif

QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 12:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i don't understand how this lottery scam is so out of control
there has to be somethign bigger behind it


i agree.. i can't believe ppl keep falling for stuff like that CRAZY!!!


I know I got a call saying I won the lottery and i needed to send money to pay for the taxes. I just told him GREAT take the money I owe out of my winnigns and send me the rest. He told me he couldn't cash the check it was made out to me. SO I told him to send me the check I'll cash it and send him the money. He hung up.

What he didn't trust me? unsure.gif
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 16:12:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Sep 22 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sus, talking about wrong spelling, when I was taking care of some legal things for my grandmother and looking for attorney, we stopped at a place in Ochi and on the wall behind the "FAKE" attorney I saw is degree from Huwered University, Washington, D.C. so I asked him where he got his law degree he said in the states and a university in Washington, DC...so, I asked is it a HBC and he said yes, I got up and was about to walk out, then I said...you need to learn how to spell...it's H.O.W.A.R.D. University


rofl.gif
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 16:03:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Sep 22 2009, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
does anyone know about Vonage. I just saw a commercial for unlimited calls around the world for 24.99 a month!!
I wonder what the small print is.

Nope its a joke. I tried it. Of course JA is not included and its .50 cents a minute which adds up. The reception is the worst. My calls either didn't go through or had static. Roc used to complain about it all the time.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:56:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Sep 22 2009, 01:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sounds like a nice time...i am just itching to go out with hubby. can't ever seem to find a sitter or someone to watch the kids. they kids are getting along great...just like they have been brother and sister forever.


Awww dat's great!!! I'm sure that makes your nights easier!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:52:00
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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 01:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DaDa yuh nuh want me fi rent?


Girl you know I would rent yuh wid de quickness if I came to Kingston!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:49:00
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Sep 22 2009, 01:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Sep 22 2009, 12:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Joel got his CG, within 3 weeks time. Since he already had a SS from his previous work stay here in 2007. This did make getting everything within this week time easier. We got GC, State ID, Bank Acct and Credit Card, cell phone account all within this time period. We are waiting on Driver Lic, he will have to take a 3 week, class, so no need to rush.

Now we have job applications out, just waiting for a call back.


that's great!
how hard is it to get a cell phone plan?



Sprint has a plan with a credit limit associated with it, so when he goes over 350.00 they shut his phone off, until he pays them to no be over the 350.00 credit limit. This helps with the JA calls....


I used to have that plan and with callin JA I used to hit the credit limit all the time. This was before I learned about Ringyard. Whoo Sprint made so much money off of me I'm sure I paid alot of peoples salaries.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:42:00
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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 12:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
wow princess you're gonna be here for a while
when u come to kgn we should link up
i'll be your kgn tour guide




for a small fee star_smile.gif

as a matter of fact anyone coming to kingston
pay me a smalls and i'll be your renta yardie
we can pose and act like we're cousins and i'll take you all over


Gotta make that money for them fees somehow huh? LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:33:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Sep 22 2009, 11:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Sep 22 2009, 11:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (IrieCat @ Sep 22 2009, 11:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Sep 22 2009, 11:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My cousin let me use her bullett (that sounds gross) but I hated it! It had no power, was sorta awkward/messy.
I have a little "oscar" that my mom gave me a million years ago and it is perfect. Its small but great for doing little things.


rofl.gif rofl.gif rofl.gif My mind went straight to the gutter



LOL Me too... as I wrote it.



eewwwww... Get your minds outta the gutter.



I am the only one who is excused and free to leave my mind in the gutter - you all have your hubbies, I have my bullet whistling.gif


Sus I beat you at least you have a boyfriend I dont even have one of those. (As I push Sus) so move over while I take first place on this.

Edited by DaDa, 22 September 2009 - 12:29 PM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:29:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 22 2009, 10:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 09:07 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
where the hell were you all yesterday?


LOL @ that smiley.

I'm kicking.gif today. Not only is Steven cooking for the third day in a row, but my supervisor just informed me that starting in October, I'm getting a raise!

Also in good news, Steven has connected with many of his family members (including his sister in New York) and friends. He is ALWAYS in a good mood after talking to people in the Yard.

On another note, this is HARD.

Food's done. Gotta go!


Huh?? How you going to say this is hard and then leave us hanging.. What's hard??

Whoo hoo Congrats on the raise part kicking.gif !!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:24:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 22 2009, 10:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 22 2009, 09:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
as to di one finesse! i missed you!



awww, thanks! i had a terrible day yesterday. some little focker broke into my garage and smashed the back window of my car and stole some cd's and a pack of gum. the worst part of it was that the front door of the car was open so they could have just nicely taken the cd's and left......

at least my hubby was off work yesterday so we were home together...even tho it cost us $300!!!


R u serious? They broke in for some damn CDs and gum? Wow times must really be bad.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 12:22:00
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QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Sep 22 2009, 09:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Yardies rose.gif


I stayed home yesterday, these migraines are kicking my rass crying.gif


On a good note my package came yesterday biggrin.gif It was USPS that the tracking number was for, but it did not say anything other than JA had notified them of a shipment until it came and I signed for it. Then I got an e-mail saying it had been delivered wacko.gif laughing.gif


It was so great to see new pictures of him wub.gif I been staring at the same ones for months now...

Pictures of the new baby and beautiful sunsets star_smile.gif

Is it November yet?? blush.gif


Did he send you a picture of some goodies to get you through till Nov?? rofl.gif

Don't answer that!!! I was just dying to say that.... LOL

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 09:26:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 22 2009, 09:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning, All!

QUOTE (sus @ Sep 22 2009, 07:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There are some things you just have to suck up and deal - When my sister first got married, her inlaws kept sending her Catholic Digest subscriptions (we're Protestant) - She simply filled out the change of address card and had it sent to their house - Eventually, they got the hint and stopped.


That's funny.

Isn't it .. I thought the same thing.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-22 09:23:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Sep 21 2009, 10:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes I would!! I think I enjoyed it because it was more serious than funny. We all know Tyler is funny but I was ready to see his talent and that is what he showed me talent. I think Why Did I Get Married was good too but yes this was the best by far. Umm I thought I was head over hills for Jamaicans but I might have to give Latino's or is he Hispanics a try because the guy in there was FINE....


Dada - you should give em a try.... devil.gif whistling.gif


Persuade me more do tell do tell.. LOL

Nope Dada don't do it!


LOL.....
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 20:53:00
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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Sep 21 2009, 05:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Ladies, looks like I have some catching up to do. I have been sick all day and working from home whistling.gif

Dada and Q get ready to check your PM

No ur not tricking me again. I heard all this before.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 17:38:00
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QUOTE (Bunzarelli @ Sep 21 2009, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I figure since I am one of the few ppl on the other side of the visa process (recipient as opposed to petitioner) i'd share some of the feelings going through my head these past couple weeks

up until the time i got my approval i had tunnel vision on the initial part of the process and i was kind of agonizing over the approval. i just wanted to get that part over with. i kept hearing ppl talk about how fast it goes after that but it didn't register with me until we actually got the approval notice. even though its still taking a while, when i think about it, i'm gonna be sending off packages sooner than i think

now all of a sudden i am feeling anxiety and i am not sure about what. it is as if, i'm unsure of what i was so anxious for all along. i don't know how to explain it but i can identify with all your stories about your men having a hard time adjusting because in a sense, i am already having a hard time adjusting. it's very conflicting because i miss and so badly want to be with my hubby but it's hitting me that this is gonna be a drastic change. for one, i don't know how i'm gonna manage without a job for a while. i'm kinda envious of some of you ladies whose men get their visas today and by next week they're gone. i have bills that will continue to be incurred even after i leave and i'm pretty much responsible for them. hubby is in a transition mode right now too. there are so many things taking place and i'm not quite sure how they will end up.

i'm trying to put more faith in God and leave it to Him to work out. sometimes i think as long as i am with hubby i'll be ok but then other times i am soooo scared of the uncertain.

i say all of this to say, seriously i know sometimes dealing with your spouses can be a pain in the a$$ because it may seem like they are ungrateful or just whining but be patient. maybe i am just emotionally drained right now. i think that's a big part of it.

anyway, umm let me shut up now


No you don’t have to shut up. If you want to keep talking, rambling what ever you call it go ahead. That is what we are here for. Shoot as much as you listen to us complain and groan. If anything I think what you are doing is great. U can give the ladies some insight on what there SO’s are going through and I’m sure its helping out. I always wondered what you thought being on the opposite end.

But Bunz I can understand you feeling nervous and anxious hell your leaving home but the good thing is that you have already been ova here so you kind of know what to expect.

I think ur doing right by putting your faith in god he will not steer you wrong. Change is always scary but it can be exciting too. Stay stong chica and keep venting.

Ha yuhseeit me using chica now I’m telling u I’m about to go find the Latin section of this board.. LOL

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 17:31:00
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QUOTE (MsSheka @ Sep 21 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey y'all help!! R on my phone saying he's sorry what do i do??? helpsmilie.gif i don't know what to say (i'm just quiet blush.gif )


All I have to say is remember that is your HUSBAND NOT boyfriend!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 16:18:00
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Sep 21 2009, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DaDa, we use Lotus Notes & Sametime, too. We are supposed to stay logged in, mostly because we're all over the world. Sending an instant message saves the time & money of making international phone calls. There used to be a guy on the team (before he quit/was let go) that refused to log into it, I think for the reason you're saying: he felt it was just a tracking device.

Fortunately, my job doesn't block all Internet sites; just some.


Yeah Nat its a tracking device. We have had Lotus Notes for months and now all of a sudden bcuz I'm working form home she wants me to sign on to it. Whatever!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 16:13:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Sep 21 2009, 11:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
bye guys, guess its gonna be quiet today.. man da..u working at home??.. COOOOOOL.
i wouldn't get NO work done, if they was crazy enough to let me do that..

Yes I am and actually it’s not bad. The only bad thing is while I’m on my work site it blocks the internet so every time I want to come and check on you girls I have to log off.

I know my manager is pissing me off. She keeps e-mailing dumb stuff like making sure I’m on line. #######!!! The group I support works form home ALL the time and she NEVER does this to them. We have Lotus notes and I think it has a feature called Sametime (I so miss Outlook). For those that don’t know Sametime is like a instant messenger her message will pop up on my screen and well it shows when you are logged on and doff. She sent me an e-mail she wants me to activate my same time but I don’t think she wants me to activate it just cause I think its so she cant stop sending me e-mails and know when I’m on and off. I told her I don’t have time to do it today I’ll try 2morrow. She gets on my nerves so freaking bad!!!


DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 12:42:00
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Yes I would!! I think I enjoyed it because it was more serious than funny. We all know Tyler is funny but I was ready to see his talent and that is what he showed me talent. I think Why Did I Get Married was good too but yes this was the best by far. Umm I thought I was head over hills for Jamaicans but I might have to give Latino's or is he Hispanics a try because the guy in there was FINE....


Dada - you should give em a try.... devil.gif whistling.gif


Persuade me more do tell do tell.. LOL


DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 10:01:00
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Hey Irie...

Maybe you can help. People are on my back to plan next years Spring Break trip with the kids crying.gif We would be travling the end of March. Not sure if I want to do an Island or a five day cruise. I'm trying to find something reasonable but so far no suck luck. Help or else we all know where our trip will be.

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Thanks ladies...I know it could be worse...and I don't want to sound like a whiny brat. unsure.gif


Girl if I was in your shoes I would be whinning too. U sound like you got it going on and and well from the pics you do so I can totally feel your pain. I'm just hoping we can get your mind off of it. Hey is this a good time to finish Stella? U know I had to try right??? LOL


good.gif , she should have had plenty of inspiration these few weeks..
dyam.. today is the 21st?? seems like she just got married.. time is FLYING ya'll


Yes it is in a scary way.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 09:45:00
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I think I have everything set for the wedding. Although My2 reminded me the other day about the marriage license which I had forgotten about. Nov. 8th is our big day. When are you getting married Nat? Jawi I can't believe you are already married. You looked beautiful! Aren't you a little sad you don't have anywhere else to wear that gorgeous dress?

How early can you get the marriage license in your state? In Texas, once you get it, you have to get married in 3-30 days. We plan to get married sometime in November, depending on the availability of my church pastors.

Regarding wearing a wedding dress again, that's something that always got to me a bit... paying all that $$ for a dress and only getting to wear it once or twice. Such a beautiful dress... Someone should start some sort of event where the dress code is: wedding dress, to give people a chance to wear them again. Were I getting an expensive wedding dress, I see myself just putting it on every now & then & looking in the mirror. laughing.gif

DaDa, I have to go see that movie. Every single person who has seen it has spoken highly of it. My aunt, just yesterday, was saying that it's Tyler Perry's best movie so far. Would you say that?


Yes I would!! I think I enjoyed it because it was more serious than funny. We all know Tyler is funny but I was ready to see his talent and that is what he showed me talent. I think Why Did I Get Married was good too but yes this was the best by far. Umm I thought I was head over hills for Jamaicans but I might have to give Latino's or is he Hispanics a try because the guy in there was FINE....

Nat will you be shopping for a wedding dress. How was it leaving Steven today?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 09:38:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Sep 21 2009, 09:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks ladies...I know it could be worse...and I don't want to sound like a whiny brat. unsure.gif


Girl if I was in your shoes I would be whinning too. U sound like you got it going on and and well from the pics you do so I can totally feel your pain. I'm just hoping we can get your mind off of it. Hey is this a good time to finish Stella? U know I had to try right??? LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 09:31:00
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Good Morning All...

Guess I'm the first one to post. I have no idea why I'm up I guess I’m excited to be working from home today.

Jawi why were you up at 1:00 a.m. in the morning?? Girl you know you need your rest.

Went to see I Can Do Bad All By Myself yesterday with my oldest son and I loved it!!!

I also listened to Trey Songz CD and I love it too but Philly you did your sexy dance to Your Side of the Bed? I'm surprised you didn't do it to number 2 Neighbors Know My Name. Whoo that song is HOT devil.gif !!!!


DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-21 05:50:00
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Congrats Nat and welcome to the US Steven!!!!! good.gif

I like the resume Shaunsgal...wish mine read so well! good.gif

A got to NY safely...he just got there and he is eating fish and rice and peas...real Jamaican cooking. I said "Well, I'm not Jamaican but you haven't lost any weight since getting here...if anything you have gained." He laughed and said "For real man"...LOL He just doesn't know that I'm going to tell his sister to bring his butt in the kitchen to gain some skills.

I cried hard when I got home from work today...it hurt so bad to see the empty bed and house. I put one of his shirts on his pillow so I could have him next to me...makes me a wacko huh?

I don't know how I'm going to manage this... crying.gif crying.gif



I was afraid this would happen. I kind of new when you hit that door reality would hit. Can you feel the hug I'm sending you? I know you don't want it right now you rather hug ur hubby but soon come mi dear. I think the first couple of days might be hard but after that it will get easier. U read my story I sleep with his hat on my pillow and we were just friends. I say whatever helps to get you through do it.

Edited by DaDa, 20 September 2009 - 08:24 PM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-20 20:23:00
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He's here... and sick. All my plans for a nice dinner out are canceled. Pizza Hut it is!

Stories coming later.


Y am I screaming through the house HE'S HERE!!!!! HE'S HERE. My kids are like blink.gif Aww Nat so they did get it to you and you were able to come back with your sweetie. I'm glad cuz for some reason I felt like that saying goodbye at the airport was going to be tuff for you.

So u took our advice ey? Was it a heartbreaking goodbye? I can't wait for your update.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 21:11:00
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yep, i agree with quana

girl been there.. roger would get upset w/ me over things that were going on in his life and i would be like, where the heck did that come from??? blink.gif but i knew it wasn't me so sometimes i was the whipping boy, sitting there like unsure.gif men can't handle pressure like us good.gif .. thankfully the few times he did that,he would always apologize cuz he knew how wacko.gif he was..

okay back to work..



you said it all quana trust me good.gif i decided i was not going to call him again ever! i'll just talk to his mom cause we are kinda close



Yeah Yeah u say that now but soon you'll start to miss him and you 'll want to hear his voice so you'll call him all shy like (in my best Wendy Williams voice) "How you doing??"
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 14:20:00
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I called DHL. The customer service lady (Kerri-Ann or Terri-Ann) told me that the package is in the head office in Kingston. blink.gif I told her the website says that it's in Montegy Bay and went out for delivery last night, which seemed strange since we opted for pick-up. She said that the Montego Bay location is closed on weekends, but it will be available for pick up Monday morning.

I asked if there is anything we can do, because we need the visa in that package in order to fly out today. We're willing to pay extra. She said she'll call the manager and see if he will extend the service. They wouldn't charge extra for that, she said; give her an hour.

So the waiting is extended.

I feel like we should be driving to Mo Bay now, but 1) we don't know if Steven needs to say goodbye to his family/friends and 2) we don't know if we need to bring all of his luggage or not.


I say grab his SHITZ say goodbye and be on your way. If he doesn’t get it then he’ll be back but for now kisses smooches deuces AUDIOS(sp) !!!!! Get ur rass in that car and be out Nat.. Now!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-09-19 09:18:00