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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies... I have a question for you
Wow congrats and best of luck to you. I too wanted to do this and I seen a lcoation to that caught my eye to sell wedding dresses but it in Mobay. I have gave it much thought so its nice to see someone else doing it. I pray your business venture is of much success. Big ups ta you!!!!! good.gif
DaDaFemaleJamaica2009-05-04 10:07:00
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Hey Nat. Clipping coupons and saving money on groceries is definitely my area. Its time-consuming, but well worth it. When I shopped at the regular grocery store (kroger) if I don't save over $30 on my $100 grocery bill, I was a little upset.

Grocery Saving 101
1.) Clipping coupons is essential. Buy at least two newspapers every Sunday to clip your coupons
2.) Find a good coupon organizer to organize your coupons
3.) Take advantage of savings cards i.e. (Kroger cards)
4.) Make a shoping list, but ensure that it is very specific by creating a daily menu of what you plan to eat over the following weeks
5.) Also take a look at the weekly mailer for each grocery store to see what is on sale (some stores will price match)
6.) Compare your coupons to what is needed on your list. Try to use coupons for items that are already on sale. If you have non-essential items that are not on sale, wait until the next grocery trip.
7.) Try not to make purchases outside of your list
8. Try not to be brand specific, some store brands are just as good.
8.) Watch the sales monitors to ensure that all coupons are counted. If they say it doesn't work, tell them to figure it out!!
9.) Watch your savings grow!!!

You guys will have to excuse me. I write manuals at work....I hope this helps!!


Umm excuse me how could you forget my b-day Feb 21st!!!!!! (kissteet)
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-07 09:20:00
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umm not MY problem, my son's problem. If she keeps it and we do a DNA and its his, Steve and I will help but er ummm... not to be mean but they are both adults....I taught my son right from wrong. According to him the condom broke...This chick is extra special too. One time she posted on myspace that she committed suicide :blink: had everyone but me and my son believing her. I don't interfere with the women my son dates... but I tried to tell him...

DO YALL SEE WHY RASHIDA COMES OUT?????? :wacko:


Dang if she is that special you might really want to help her out!!!! Just think if its your grandchild she'll be in your life for the rest of your life.....
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 18:45:00
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Yes, to my son and no - that was just part of the foul moods.. So much has gone on in the last 2 weeks you wouldn't believe. I think Rashida came out and never left...but Im good now...the girl called me and told me she was going to have an abortion if she could get up the rest of the money, I was thinking I hope she don't ask me cause I don't play that ish. She said she was gonna keep it if she didn't come up with the money...*sigh*


Well Ms Tee I know you don’t agree with her decision but really give it some thought. If she really wants tot do this you might have to bend a likkle. If she doesn’t have enough money to come up with the fee then we know she surely won’t have enough money to take care of the child. How is her living situation? It might not be the best for a baby right now unless you plan on giving a little EXTRA help to help her raise the child.

I was heart broken this weekend too. My god daughter who is only 16 informed us she was pregnant. I darn near raised her and I was just a child myself but her mother was the worst. It crushed me to hear she was preggo and then she wanted to abort on top of that but I figured its her life and I don’t want to stand in her way because I know I cant give her the extra support she needs so we all pitched in and came up with the money.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 17:05:00
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WTH say it aint so!!!!!!!


Goodness gracious batman are you serious :blink: ??? By who your son??? So this is where the foul moods were coming frum huh?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 15:50:00
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You can do it Dada.. remember the donut episode! Focussssss Focccccccusssssssss!



Umm I guess I should have read this before I went to get that piece of cake.....

I remembered!



For how many people?


I was just about to say how rude you forgot about me....

Gurl that is just for my line alone.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 15:47:00
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awww dada.. i can imagine the kids disappointment, but if ur ex can talk with them and help them feel better bout the situation, i bet they will be okay.. lots of times along with missing him, the kids feel sorry for the other parent..
thats considering he is on the ball with all of this??

im so excited for you my dear


He is believe it or not. I talked it over with him and he wants us to make the move. He said he will come visit all the time. Umm no I will send the kids to come and visit you all the time..LOL

He started bringing up the would of could of should ofs Q and I just changed the channel.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:57:00
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Girl yes, I was spending too much a month on cell phone. I've been pleased with Boost so far. It's no contract so if I ever decide to go back to another carrier then I'm free to do that!


I agree I pay 95.12 a month for T-mobile and I ony have unlimited phone and text.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:53:00
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Dont feel bad Q. My mom (rest her soul) was NEVER on time for anything and my sister is just like her. My grandma (her mom) used to say she was going to be late for her own funeral lol.. Some people just don't feel the need to stress it as much as others. My problem with lateness is that I hate getting dressed for anything. If I could go places nekkid in flip flops, I would lol I hate being the first one dressed and have to wait. I make it a point to be the last.


CTFU!!!!! U did not say nekkid in flip flops… Whoo yuh got me rolling…

Oh yeah I memba yuh was the one flashing people on the balcony at the hotel.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:51:00
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philly is when yuh touching down?
my frank leaves saturday morning and i am DREADING it!


Yeah Bunz but just think you’ll be right behind him this time!!!! By the time you realize you really miss him it will be time for you to get your butt on the plane. When he leaves don’t say bye, say see yuh soon!!!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:45:00
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I made myself a small salad with some pork chops cut up in it.. why am I STILL hungry??? :blink: Be right back, gonna make some soup lmao


Ms Tee I had a piece of baked chicken with some broccoli and cauliflower. I am hungry as if I ate nothing. I’m trying so hard not to go next door and grab a piece of cake.



Hey Dada, girl I feel the same way you do, I love February but it marks another year and that # keeps going up but girl I keep on telling my Hollywood age haaa I'll be 30 forever :devil:

Sis you know I so wish you could be in JA the same time as me and we could link but if you have an opportunity to move to NC and prosper you better do it! I know all about anxiety of the unknown and take it from me DO NOT LET IT HOLD YOU BACK FROM YOUR FUTURE! Just think its not only you but the pickney too. If this is a chance for a better life I say DO IT without hesitation. Pray on it Sis but I am excited for you :star:


Tonks Philly me knew yuh lubbed me!!!!! (L)
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:42:00
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Dada...I understand the scared feeling but I also always say you don't want to look back on life and say....I should have moved to NC...wonder what that would have been like...I wonder if it would have worked. I say try it...if it doesn't work you can always move back to Pittsburgh. I have done this myself...more than once and let me tell you it has always worked out. You are going to miss your family and friends just prepare yourself for that. You have to give yourself at least a year to make it work...if you don't like it after that start making plans to move home. Life is short and you have always said you don't want to be stuck in Pittsburgh.


Thanks Dills!!!! That is so true.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:38:00
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That's what I did. I was with Verizon for years...I recently switched to Boost for $50 a month for everything unlimited and they are now offering the Blackberry Curve for $60/month...I'm so excited about that! As soon as I can get into a store I'm getting it! :dance:


I might look into this.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:34:00
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Love this...I might have to use this one of some of my friends...I got one that is constantly late everywhere for everthing.


(As I put my head down in shame) That be me.....
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:33:00
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Dada I was scared to move too! and I only moved out of philly to the suburbs of Philly and guess what? I LOVE it. What you need to do is compile a list of pros and cons. You need to talk to your children about it to because their imput means alot. If the pros outweigh the cons, DO IT! You only live once and if this is a chance to do better for your family, why not? Keep us posted...


Well I talked to the kids this past weekend and my oldest is all for it. He is looking forward to moving. He said he hates Pittsburgh too. Now he is in the eight grade so I thought that was weird because he has many friends and two of them are his best friends. They act like they are joined at the hip. I asked him wasn’t he going to miss his friends. He said yes but I can always come and visit or they can visit me. I was shocked.

Now my youngest three they don’t want to leave because of there dad. They love their dad to pieces and we will be kind of far from him. My girl twin told me she anent leaving she is going to live with her dad. I was like well excuse me.

I know it will be hard for them to be so far. They look so forward to seeing there dad and with us moving their visits wile be far and in between but I’m hoping since they are so young they will adapt. Who knows.

My mom told me to make a pros and cons list too Tee. So I will give that a try.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 13:32:00
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pray on it dada
i know that feeling all two well
my faith is my only crutch most times
besides if you hate Pittsburgh so much then what do you have to lose
no sense being unhappy when u have an opportunity to step up and i hear NC is VERY nice


Thanks Bunz and Dens… I am praying about it, chanting about it shoot I have even been doing Indian tribal dances about it… LOL

Its now or never it’s like ####### or get off the pot will you…

Philly don’t be pulling your hair out you need it to look fabulous in a few days just keep thinking to your self soon I’ll be far far away from her on a sunny beach while she freezes her rass off here in Philly.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 10:25:00
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Hello Ladies (((waving)))

It’s February!!!!!!!! The best month of the year to me…. I’m so happy now but I’m sure once mi bwaan day gets closer I’ll be crying about how old I’m getting….

Philly I know your excited your vacation soon come. Not sure what I’m doing. I have my girlfriend on my back begging me to book but I might have a chance to move to NC. I have always wanted to move to NC but its funny now that the offer is here I’m scared as all get up. I hate Pittsburgh but for some reason I so scared of failure. Scared I won’t like it, scared I’ll miss my family and friends just scared scared scared. I’m giving it a lot of thought and I have been praying on it heavily so I guess only time will tell.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-01 09:28:00
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ok :ot: Why did I have 67 :help: Farmville, Petville, Fishville, and Cafe World Requests ???? Sorry but my finger accidentally hit the ignore button :oops: :jest: :ot2:


I do that too....
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 14:53:00
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Quana did you see my e-mail I sent today?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 14:52:00
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lol.. thats funny...
well i guess roger does have a bit of an unfair advantage, he's lived here in the states before with fam and had to do chores, but he got his own issues.. lol
we had to go to the bank the other day cuz his atm card kept saying insufficient funds, when he had JUST deposited $300 2 days before.. he told the teller, "i need to find out whats going on, my card keeps saying insuffcient funds"
i waited for him to finish the story but thats ALL he says.. i whispered, "tell her you just put some money in ur account friday"
he said OH, and told her..
so the lady says he had -5 in the account and he starts looking confused, i was like SERIOUSLY???
i asked her, do you show the 300 deposit.. she said NO. (heffa how you gonna just FORGET we just told you that)
and starts asking him did he have the receipt and what time he did it...

i was tripping, cuz i throw away all small pieces of paper, BUT thankfully this one was in my purse..

as she's looking, roger says.. why is it -5, thats not right..
i told him they should credit it back becuz its prolly atm transaction fees when we attempted to use the card..

so the lady comes back and gives no explanantion, just that he has 295 now..WHATEVER.. i WAIT for him to mention the credit.. HE DOESNT!!! so i did..

i told him later.. babes, what happened in there, i don't like to speak on ur behalf, but you were speechless in there???.. him say.. baby..they have cameras, SOMEBODY know i gave $300, mi nuh stress bout such tings..
:wacko: :wacko: and what bout the $5?????
dat small tings babes, small tings. i could let that slide
:bonk: :bonk:


Ok so wait, what they the heck was the reason for the money not being in there? It doesn’t sound like she was apologetic or gave any explanation??? I mean I know it wasn’t her fault but darn can you act like you care???
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 09:09:00
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Thanks, girl I'm over here working on my welcome to America routine! :devil:



Thanks girl! :dance:


Yeah but I bet somebody didn’t follow our advice to get things ready in advance so I bet somebody will be hauling azz this weekend to get things in order :whistle: LOL…..
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 09:04:00
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They sure are! Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way.

Sometimes I want to kick Lehi's things across the room! I don't but I want to....especially when I almost trip over them in the middle of the night going to the bathroom in the dark. :lol:


That is the worst!!!! To be half woke trying to get to the bathroom and back in a record amount of time and tripping or stumbling over shoes on your way and the darn things aren’t even yours! That is enough to make you want to wake them up by throwing the item at them :angry: …

Wait wives please don’t try this at home :blush: ….
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 08:58:00
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yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay :dance: :dance: :dance: *doing cartwheels and backflips*


Now who needs a wheelchair??? :whistle:

Congrats Dens!!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-27 08:49:00
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Well... in High school I died my hair hot pink... the green car would have gone nicely!! ahahahahaha!
I actually didnt get my lisence until I was 19 and in college... so no HS ride for me.


Ha I didn’t get my license until I was 26.Of course I drove way before that though and I never got pulled over. I bought my first car when I turned 30. 2004 Gran Am.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 14:48:00
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A Ford Tempo I got it right out of HS but it was like a 80 something and one day on the Turnpike on the way back from college the damn thing caught fire while I was driving! I had to do my Steven Segal moves and jump out the car hot mess! All I can remember about that car other than it was a piece of ####### was the guys I bought it from down North Philly had speakers installed instead of seats LMAO I wish I had a pic of that. My Mom was like ####### :blink: but I begged her to keep them :rofl:


Philly :rofl: u are :rofl: NO longer :rofl: allowed to talk for the rest of the day :bonk: !!!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 14:45:00
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It's not really that pretty of a picture, Dada, to think of some of them running around in their boxes......(OMG I think I may be blind now thinking about that)......and um, what kind of firehouse has all the guys running around in their underwear?????? Oh, that's just not right. Chi chi.


:rofl:

I know gurl I was dreaming and the ones I seen running around in boxers had bodies to die for!!! LOL

Edited by DaDa, 26 January 2010 - 02:42 PM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 14:42:00
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JG I thought of you this morning I was driving by the the fire station I pass everyday while taking my son to school, and the guys were getting ready for a call and they jumped into their boots and pulled up the uniform. CLUTCH THE PEARLS if that wasn't the sexiest move ever! :devil:

My son was like you are staring too hard LOL and I was waving at them too :jest:


Pulling up their uniforms? So does that mean they were in boxers??? Please I beg of you to give me details!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 14:26:00
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Dada I remember the story as well -- a free pass im a look


Uh oh dat don’t sound good…. I wanna ask what? But something is telling me maybe I shouldn’t??
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:26:00
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i think i am having a wedding planning overload ....


Relax relate release. I’m here!!! What’s wrong???
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:23:00
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So do you think he is in the US?
Private number = shady man! That is so annoying!
Glad you kept your cool... and I would have wanted to say a million things that would have occurred to me after I hung up.
I really don't see the point in him, or anyone, lying... if you don't like me ... just say so!


Irie I don’t know…. He might be.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:20:00
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Girlie, if you lived the life right now, you would know I need specifics. I've seen people who fake more things then you can even imagine being faked.

If you are talking orgasims....then, no. If I have to fake it, wth am I with that person? I don't care what anyone says, there is more to life then sex; but if the sex sucks.....and I mean all the way around, well rounded, you better be ALL about me sex.......if the sex sucks, he has to go. It's important to me.


Do you watch American Teenager? The story yesterday was on ME sex.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:18:00
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did any of you watch fantasia's show last night?

her speaking voice .............. :blink: i just can't!


I agree especially when she talks real soft. Who would think a voice so soft is so powerful. What cracks me up is how she takes her shoes off as soon as she gets on stage. At least Patty waited until she was into the song and then kicked them off.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:09:00
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Yuh new PC soon come Sis, when are you filing? I was waiting for a few supporting docs then its on like Pop corn!


Gurl I filed Saturday!!!!

I’ll be hood rich next week!!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:06:00
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What was wrong with it? They keep talking about the stupid pool. My first time in Vegas and I'm going to be lounging around the pool? :angry: Have you met me????? I never sit for long. I want to see EVERYTHING...........do EVERYTHING.............


I thought it was too old fashioned for me. The lobby was nice but then when I got upstairs to my lumpy bed with a old dingy looking bed spread and a toilet the refused to stop running with warn out carpet and the oldest looking TV you ever did see I thought for sure the Rat Pack with Sammy Davis Jr. and them were going to come walking through my door.

I stayed at the Westin for a few nights. It’s a little off the strip but a very nice hotel and it was cheap. I loved it and if I go back more than likely I’ll stay there again.

I did two timeshares. One we scored coupons for a free buffet at umm I forget the name but its the 30 buffet that offers all kinds of sea food and what not and we also scored 75.00 bucks in casino credit. We just told them we wanted the cash to play at the tables so they cashed it out and off we went out the door.


I always take mine to my tax guy. I like his personal service and that fact that he knows me every year. You know? Plus, I worked with him and all it costs me is dinner when they are done. :whistle:

Seriously, though, if you think you can do your own taxes, why not do them? Lots of people do. I just prefer someone who does it every year to keep up with the tax laws for me and stuff.


I can’t do H&R. to me they want to darn much….

They have a free service here that does taxes so I just continue to go to them every year.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 12:03:00
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damn girl i'm late as hell
i haven't been following up
rock called you?!
*gasp!


Bunz (L) !!! Yuh memba!!!!! Oh and you too Philly (L) . I thought you all forgot all about me. Yes gurl he called can you believe that after all these months. When I hung up the phone I was just dumb. I sat still for the longest time. All I can do is shack my head :no: .
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:55:00
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What are we faking? Please be a little more specific cause I'm thinking a few things here. And, haven't heard the song.

I don't care what the Rock plays.........eye candy is good. Arch them eyebrows.....wrinkle up that forehead, flex those arms.....and OMG please SMILE.


JG :bonk: !!!! Are you serious :blink: ??
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:43:00
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Thanks girl , this morning I did my first Brazilian Capoiera workout to my favorite Brazilian instructor( I LUV her LOL )

Hubby woke up like Wha deh raas yuh kick the pus inna deh odda room yuh a mad ooman :rofl: Poor African Storm was walking by and I did a drop kick and she was inthe way and she went flying :luv: :blink: the funny thing is she loved it and came back for more LOL Lawd there is never a dull moment in our house :no:


Philly u are no longer allowed to tell us what your hubby says. He be having me DYING!!!!! No you didn’t drop kick the pus??? OMG I have tears in my eyes picturing it…
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:30:00
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OK DADA... I am going to be nosey.... so the phone call... what did he have to say???? :)


A whole bunch of foolishness. When I first got the private call I thought it was my soon to be ex so I answered it with attitude. When I heard his voice my heart almost stopped. You could tell he was nervous too. I acted as if I had no clue who it was when I did. I kept asking him who dis while he was talking. He tried to sound hurt I didn’t recognize his voice. When he finally said his name I was dry like yeah what’s up. He was like nothing. He was just calling to see how I was doing. I told him I’m good and its good to know he is alive. I asked him was he here in the states and he said no. I was like oh if you say so. He told me he couldn’t talk long he just wanted to check on me. I asked him was he going to say sorry. He told me he would say sorry when he explained everything. I told him no need to explain a sorry will do. He said he was truly sorry. I told him cool and hung up.

He called right back and told me I hung up too fast. He wanted to wish me Merry Xmas and Happy New Years. Umm its only two months later but thanks. I didn’t scream or bite his head off I didn’t ask him the zillion questions I wanted to like why??? There was no need to because honestly at the end of the day I don’t think he would have told me the truth. For once I wished I was Sus or Jawi. They always think of something slick to say but nothing would come out. He did end up explaining what happened which is some phockery to say the least. His story had so many holes in it, it looked like Swiss cheese but I didn’t throw the holes in his face why bother. I wanted him to think I didn’t care. He did ask me if I ever thought of him. I told him months ago I did. He kept talking but I knew I had to end the call I was becoming too comfortable holding the phone so I told him I needed to get back to work thanks for calling and hung up.

Even though I don’t know the truth I still feel some closure and its like I’m cool now. I know he isn’t dead. It’s the weirdest feeling but I’m cool.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:28:00
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me too...i didn't even really watch it...ended up watching wwe raw with hubby...can't believe he likes that ####### but whatevr. do you watch the fantasia show?


Yes. I wanted to tell Teeny to shut the freak up but that is how me an my bother are too.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:11:00
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Remind me what your first sentence means. I can't keep up with everyone and this crazy life of mine.


I’m hurt you don’t remember??? :crying:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-26 11:10:00