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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

I have a CONFESSION to make and it's been bothering me all morning -- I really don't know where to start, so here we go............

brb....


Oh no she didn't :angry: !!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:28:00
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1Luv- how long was the process to get your hubby to you? My husband's friend is married to a Canadian citizen and he's still waiting in JA to go and they filed Dec. 2008.


2008 :blink: ??? Dang!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-25 12:20:00
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lets see what else i can sell around here....think anyone would buy a 12 year old?


LOL if so send them my way so I can sell my 13 yr old.

Girl I hope you didn’t end up selling the whole house.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-25 12:13:00
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Reminds me of my first trip anywhere & landing in Morocco. We spent our layover exploring Casablanca & it was the first time I'd ever seen a family of FOUR on a moped! Dad, Mom, 1 kid gripping tight in back & one in front of Dad....who needs a car? :lol:


My only question is how the heck did he get the bull on the bike? I can’t believe its staying put.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-25 12:05:00
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I scored 5.

I know I have tendencies to be controlling, so I have to ACTIVELY guard my tongue. For example, yesterday I saw something Steven charged on the credit card and was HEATED. But I waited until an appropriate time, smiled at him, took both of his hands in mine, told him I loved him. Then I calmly stated what I saw on my daily check of the credit card charges and asked him why he made the purchase. Then I told him how much "we" as a "household" spent on that item in only 20 days of the month, and how if we continue spending at that pace, we won't be able to afford our family goals.

I never raised my voice & didn't prolong the conversation. I didn't bring in the other 100000 things I thought to say to make my point. Afterward, I told him I loved him & we moved on to some other activity. That took some serious restraint.



Nat for some strange reason I pictured you step by step doing this and I am rolling. I know it’s not funny to you but I can see you smiling saying I love you through clenched teeth. Honestly I think the I love you was more for yourself then Steven to keep YOU calm…

But all in all good job :thumbs: !

Edited by DaDa, 25 January 2010 - 11:56 AM.

DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-25 11:56:00
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That sounds so nice I love that place! I have a date with my oldest son the 2nd of NEVRUARY!

:rofl:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 16:50:00
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I'm going to try to learn to be more 'persuasive' rather than forceful.


Ells you said what I wanted to hear. That you were going to try and be more persuasive instead of being forceful. I told you I agree with what you want 100% its just your approach is all I was concerned about. It sounds like at the end of the day you and Lehi see eye to eye so that is all that matters.

But umm the chick is letting him stay and eat for free in exchange for sexual favors? Wow is it really that hard to find someone to you? Man what does she look like?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:46:00
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Dada, We rarely agree, lol - But you hit the nail on the head with this post.

I know someone that came up on a K1 - his wife did EVERYTHING for him, told him what to do, where to go, who to be friends with, what to eat - almost to the point of when to take a shyt. It wasn't a partnership, it was a dictatorship - He had had enough and left her - But the scariest thing was, he didn't know how to function in the US - how to open a bank account, balance a checkbook, find a job, take classes - nothing - she had dictated to him for 4 years and not worked with him to help him learn.


What??? :blink: Does my eyes deceive me??? :blink: Sus agrees with me?? :blink: Well I be got darn. I would do some more dances :dance: but hell I can’t think of anymore..lol

I agree I did the same thing. My soon to be X is so clueless and he is from the states. Lol Know where he is living? Back with his momma because he has no clue on how to stand on his own too feet. That is what I should have did, I should have worked WITH him not FOR him. He didn’t leave me I left him I couldn’t take it no more but in the end I know there are a lot of things I could have done different. But like they say you Live, Learn Apply and Move on. Next time I‘ll know better.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:31:00
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You gave me hope too JG along with some other ladies! It's good to have a good support system :)


Agree!!!! :thumbs:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:22:00
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Well Im not sure what is going to happen because I have the awful task of meeting up with my daughter's family. They haven't seen her in 5 years and she wants to see them. I have NO interest whatsoever in seeing them, but Im doing it for her. We could go early and then go out with them later.....Let me talk to Steve.

On another note, she had the audacity to ask for her phone back.. I said a firm "NO" you don't deserve it back right now. (3 wks as of Monday) She is walking around like she lost her best friend. She blames me for moving to Del. County as to the reason she has no friends. I said "Excuse the hell out of me for wanting a better life for you." Turned over in my bed and drowned her lil behind out with my MP3 player in my ears... hmph!


You too MsTee?? My oldest son’s family hasn’t seen him in I don’t know how many years but all of a sudden they have taken a sudden interest in him and they call now and even sent him a Xmas card this year. Well now they want him to come and stay with them in Orlando? Umm noo I don’t know you people. Of course my son sees me as the bad mother.. I’m 13 I’ll be o.k…He wants to get to know this side of his family blah blah blah. I told him but Da I don’t know these people. They could be child molesters for all I know. He told me to fly down with him and stay for a week then I can leave him for the rest of the summer. Wow nothing like getting to now people in a week ey? I wish it was that easy. I told him when he is 16 he possibly can go. At that age I MIGHT and I use the word loosely feel more comfortable with him being older.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:14:00
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hello everyone hope everyone has a blessed day..


Hey My2 how’s the wedding planning coming along?

Has your mom learned to share you yet? LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:06:00
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Silly question...

Tierra is home again with me today. She didnt sleep well and has a sore throat, runny nose and a little cough.
She has energy now and no fever...

Is it terrible of me to go to the mall with her??? LOL!!!


I think its funny how Tierra is always sick UNTIL after you decide she doesn’t need to go to school….

Ur not letting her play you are you :whistle: ?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 14:02:00
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Well... hubby goes away and the wife plays....

My weekend just got busy! LOL

Tierra and I are going on a "date" tonight. If she is feeling ok. She has a bit of a sore throat, runny/stuffy nose.
We are going to get all dressed up in fancy dresses and go for Pizza! :)
Tomorrow morning, girls breakfast and going to help paint a kitchen while our daughters play in all the snow.
Saturday night Motor Booty again... gotta love disco!
Sunday my brother is taking T to the movies and she is bringing me to BINGO... now get this... if you win, you get sex toys! Its sex toy party bingo! HAHAHA!


I have a date night with my oldest daughter tonight too. We’re doing Build a Bear and then Cheesecake Factory.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 13:56:00
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I JUST TALKED TO BUNZ AND SHE WAS APPROVED!!!!!WOOOOHHOOOOO!! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:


Go Bunz!!! Go Bunz!!! (Doing the running man) :dance: It’s your birthday!!! It’s your birthday!!!(Doing the Cabbage Patch) :dance: Get Stupid!!! Get Stupid!!!(Doing the Snake) :dance: Go out and drink!!! Go out and Drink!!! (Doing the Stanky Leg) :dance:

Well wait maybe don’t get stupid we came too far to have something go wrong but still Party Like Its 1999 :thumbs: !!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 13:54:00
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:no: That's just a shame. In Norman, Oklahoma (Boomer Sooner!), my friends shared a 2 bedroom for about $500.


The meeting with my manager went well, except for the phone connection. I called her cell phone, since she's in Brazil & it was 8pm at the time of our call, but there was so much background noise (wind & whatever) that I struggled to hear every word & had to have her repeat things a lot.


That's about how much it is here in Pittsburgh.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 13:47:00
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I agree to a point. I'm sorry; but I have been there. You can talk till you are blue in the face; but when you see your life flash before your eyes cause you think God we worked so long and hard for this and you are going to throw it all away..........well, you might think differently.


I agree JG sometimes you do talk till your blue in the face. See I have a demanding personality so with my soon to be X I tried my best to clam it down but after a while it felt like I was his mother instead of his partner.

Part of me blames myself. I think what I did wrong was I stepped into the situation trying to be Ms. fix it. If there was a problem I fixed it I never gave him a chance to try and solve situations himself or stand on his own tow feet. So then after a while I got tired of being the “ man “ and when he couldn’t step up to take charge I got upset and wanted out. Well part of me thinks I created the monster so that is what I get. I know going forward to let a man think for himself!!! If he can’t do it that is a signal to keep it moving.

Our biggest disagreement were he was making a decent living at his job but he was a custodian. I’m not knocking him being a custodian I just wanted him to want more for our himself and our children. He worked for a college so he was able to go to school for free and so many times different postings came up where he could apply to be the supervisor or manager of the department and he never gave any of it a shot. It was hell trying to put fire under his rass. Then he drank on top of that. Oh hell naw!!! I put so much energy into trying to get him to do better that hell I lost the fire to make myself do better.

You can’t make a person change they have to want to change. Some men with a push will do it and others won’t if there set in there ways. Lehi sounds like a decent dude so I’m hoping with some pushing from Ells she’ll get him to move but I think if he’s being told what to do he’ll rebel. I think she is on the right path she just has to watch her approach. I want her to be his wife/partner not his momma.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 13:22:00
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Good morning Lady C! Awww I know you going to miss your daughter when she goes back to college. Is this her freshmen year? How old is your step-son that will be coming in April?

Nothing much going on with me this weekend. I need to purchase a new bed so I will be shopping for that and just preparing for Den's arrival in a few, yay!!!! :dance:


What’s wrong the old bed has too many miles on it?? :rofl: :rofl:

Come on you have to admit you walked right into that one :yes: :lol: :yes: …
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 13:04:00
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Hey girl I feel so special .....u missed me! All is good with me. I just don't get a chance to check in until late night cause of school. There r so many things I want to comment about but by the time I catch up the topic of conversation is long gone. I do update my facebook throughout the day though.


Oh so FB is more important then us now??? (insert taps foot smiley)



goooood morning and happy Friday!

Louis calls me at 5:50am and says " I Lost my wallett!!".... OMG ... HOLY $HIT.... #######..... I am freaking out! His GC is in there.

So then as I am freaking out his friend walks in and says "hey Louis, Wayne found your wallet on his couch"....Thank GOD!!!

What a way to wake up!! I could smack him!!!!


Did he have to carry his green card with him?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 12:57:00
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She doesn't go by her real name on there (unless her parents were very unorthodox with names).

I was thinking the same thing when I saw her name.

I think she took a break from us on VJ. With the interview being postponed she might be kind of upset right now.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 10:31:00
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Oh God thats horrible!


Oh not so fast missy!!!! You can't possibly leave us hanging like this!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 10:24:00
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Ells…

I think why Lehi is so upset is because his friends are exactly that. HIS FRIENDS. I think being over here and not really knowing anyone he finally met some people that he feels cool with to call friends and maybe around them he doest feel so lonely are like he doesn’t belong. See your friends are your friends he met them through you but these misfits are his.

I totally see your point. Now that he has the opportunity you want him to push forward and want more for his life. I think you are so on the right path it’s just your delivery. You want to push him without shoving him. Its little things us woman can do like bringing ut the subject at the oddest times. I think you should have laid it all down on the line and told him what you desire, want and expect. Signing him up without his consent was kind of mean. I think that is why he is upset one your are pulling him away from his crew and two you just signed him up without letting him have a say so. Tell him there is nothing wrong with taking these classes he can still hang out with his buddies after school hours or on the weekends. And then just make sure on the weekends or after school hours you keep him busy :thumbs: …LOL

Steve Harvey just made a good point. He said the bible says a man without a dream or goal shall parish...
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-22 10:00:00
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Evening Yardies :star:
OK so DHL is a hot mess!! :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: how the hell my package missed the flight and my hubby sent it waaaaay before the deadline? "maam we are so sorry about that you will get it in the morning" :angry: and here goes NVC "we need proof of citizenship or residence of your co-sponsor" :angry: :angry: i asked them that before they said "no MRS __thats not needed for your case" :angry: :angry: ok so i have been cussing people out all day long and i really just want to pick someone's toenail out with tweezersPosted Image ok woooosaaaaaah Posted Image


Sheka I love your next to last smiley. LOL

I can see your frustration your like come on people I’m so close just work with me not against me. I hope everything works itself out but memba to relax relate release before your pressure goes through the roof and back…
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 16:28:00
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and the last, we had talked for a long time (1 year) yanno one of those over the net thing (young and dumb) so we met because he was gonna move to where I was.. nah bro stay where you at!


And I bet he was a big ish talker to. Those are the worst they talk all that smack and can’t come close to backing it up!!!!
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 16:25:00
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:angry: mi wah tump im...I decided not to go down the end of the month...and he's dying to come back mi tell im fi tan deh...but I have to be nice I told him to bring back 20lbs a ackee


Oops :blush: I see you already answered my question....



Hey yall, Not sure if I have been on here at all in 2010 so Happy New Year!!! This is my crazy busy time at work trying to get all Merit and Incentive done and plan a wedding! So I won't be able to long on much, I am logging on to FB since I got my IPhone, so if you every need to ask a question can alway link me on there.

Congrats to all New Approvals, NOA2s, and everyone that have there sweetheart home!!!


Portland are you renewing your vows?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 16:23:00
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LMFAO :rofl: :rofl:

do those things really work though :blush:

I find the infomercials so fake :blush:


So do I but lately a lot of guys are asking the question does size really matter? I guess it has them thinking… :whistle:

:crying:

hubby just called to telling me he's having a ball at the beach and the weather is perfect just right with a touch of breeze waiting on his steam fish


Oh and you just had to share the torture with us :angry: …..

Sigh…

What I wouldn’t do to trade places with him right now.

Tre did you decide if your going to join him or not?
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 16:16:00
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Hey Philly yuh see it?




Yup I finally got it!!!!!! :star:


LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 15:43:00
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:o :o What is he using this for!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Did I miss something!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :o :o


Ur not missing something his uncle is.... :rofl:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 15:41:00
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I would do it again. Damien is already planning for next year :help: . I had some issues with women flirting with Damien...young and old. I'm far from a jealous woman but there was a huge male shortage on the cruise. He is way more friendlier and social able than myself.


I know a lot of woman go on their to meet guys but I’m like come on how many guys hook up with buddies and go? To me most single men will hit a city up or maybe go out of town but I don’t think many of them say hey lets go on a cruise….

I have a GF whose hubby went on a cruise and he told her he was going with his buddies for a week. I always thought that sounded fishy but yuh neva know I guess.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 15:31:00
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I try for the most part to keep the two separate as well...I can attest I gots some old nosy folks on my page anyway...so I try to keep them out of my business! As a matter of fact, I discuss more with you guys than folks I been knowing for years! A lot of things they can't relate to. :whistle:


(Raises hand) I think a lot of us do….
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 15:24:00
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I need one too who is Tia? :blink:


That's my side kick Newly....
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 15:22:00
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Cuz you need to Posted Image or this Posted Image or damn girl maybe even this Posted Imageby yourself :rofl:


You starting first today I see…..LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 12:25:00
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Uh huh......and so you could claim SEE HE HAD IT ON when he...um..."fell" overboard. Good thinking!

:rofl: I have been LOL for a good two minutes now!!!! :rofl:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 12:23:00
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Yep! :lol: I'm a country girl as well. I'm from Climax, Georgia and I grew up basically on a farm...to this day the roads remain unpaved...so I'm about as country as anyone else, but its all good!


I can tell the way you always say “Poe thang”….LOL
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 12:19:00
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Look at this mess we still dealing with in 2010 in the great ole state of Georgia!!! :angry:

[b]By Mike Morris
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution






"There's nothing hatred about what we're doing," Lewis told the paper. "I don't hate anyone of color."


And he says he has no problem with people of color? Sounds like the reasons why he doesn’t want people of color on his team is stereotyped to things about people of color. WOW!!!!

Ur right Dens I thought it was 2010……
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 12:16:00
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Yeaaah :dance:. I'm so happy for you and Den, Finally you'll be together.
I'm in the heart of hot Kingston. You should come to Kingston on one of your trips. If you like partying it's the place to be.


That is what I heard and that is why I so want to visit there. :dance:
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 12:10:00
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Always, I'm claiming it for you as well. I had one of those days on Monday...actually its been one of those weeks for me! We'll get through it though! :star:


Yuh too ey??
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 11:57:00
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Cabo was okay - I liked Tulem better - My cousin is married to a Mexican, they lived in Tijuana - they took us to some great places.


O.k. my excitement about going to Cabo just went down a few notches :unsure: ….
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 11:45:00
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Thus far, I have refrained.....I've read and seen too much about Titanic. Guy I'm dating swears he will change that one day...he's in water rescue for the fire department. I told him, may----be. But, I'm going all through the boat looking at the rivets, life jackets, and row boats first. I'm taking no chances.


Girl you won’t have to worry about looking for that stuff they bring it to you. The first thing you do on a cruise after locating your room is the safety drill. They show you in the event of an emergency where you are to go and how to put your life jacket on and how to get in the boat. They don’t play. They also have the life jackets in your room for easy access. I took a pic of my soon to be X in his. He looked too funny. He looked as if someone stuffed him in it.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 11:04:00
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Ive been to Jamaica 10 times and to Mexico 2x's I would go to Jamaica 20 more times first :0) my input!!!!


Aww man I can’t see the pics. I‘ll have to wait until I get home.

I hear you JQ. Since my brother started my traveling earlier than my friends I have some places I have been that they haven’t been to yet. They are just now getting the travel bug and lately all the trips they go to I have missed because I was busy going back to JA while they were traveling. I’m a little hurt they won’t go to JA with me. One girl in our crew doesn’t want to visit JA so the rest tend to follow along. I love hanging out with these girls so when they picked Cabo I figured maybe I would bite the bullet and go.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 10:54:00
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Ive never been on a cruise, Im going on one in july for 3 days to the Bahamas


I went on a seven day cruise out of Miami to Mobay, Grand Cayman (so far I think this is the prettiest island) and Cozumel. I loved it and I can’t wait to go again.
DaDaFemaleJamaica2010-01-21 10:48:00