Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Good Morning Yardies....Its HUMP two days left day O.k. ladies you know your ghetto when your whole office is at a meeting so you decide to take out your kinky twist because you have a hair appt at 7:00 p.m. today. Yup dat be me.... Edited by DaDa, 14 April 2010 - 11:12 AM.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Okay I know no one is in here right now but I just need to share this with someone. I am sitting outside on the patio and my neighbor just came home and does not know I am up here. She just let out the BIGGEST fart I have ever heard...hope the smell doesn't come up my way. You should have screamded out Good Nite and watch the horror come over her face...lol	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 11:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	207 DaDa, is the cover letter MrsTee helped with for a job in the south? Yes mam mi trying ta get a job down NC....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 09:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	There were so many lines I wanted to bold here but then I could've just bolded this whole thing. Thanks Dada for the advice! I agree on every point here! After some reflection, I'm not set to throw in the towel yet but I'm bracing myself for anything that might come up. It's tough....he's a good, sweet guy for the most part but all of this mess is a serious problem & I spent a lot of time yesterday asking what I was getting out of this marriage. I couldn't come up with much & can't even after we talked last night. Maybe my 'payoff' (not that that was my intention in going through all this) will come later but right now, it's a burden on me & I'm not benefiting much from it. I hate to admit this but, I've spent a lot of hours recently thinking about life before this relationship & as hard as it was at times to be lonely, I've begun to think I didn't know how good I had it! I'm not even talking about the freedom to be with whoever you want romantically, just the freedom to do what you want, when, where, with whoever, etc.! If this doesn't work out, I may be one of the biggest advocates on the planet to tell folks to STAY SINGLE! It's not so bad! From reading your post Ells I’m going to say this. If you truly and I mean truly love this man and really can’t picture yourself without him (now granted life goes on but you know what I mean ) If you don’t feel it in the core of your soul that he is the one for you I think you know what to do. Don’t stay with anyone just so you won’t hear the “I told you so’s” or all the hog wash that comes with it stay with this man because you truly love him and want him. The love that you have for him is what will help you make it through. That and the Lord above. I feel every relationship needs a strong foundation and without it well it might be a long hard difficult road ahead.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 08:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Thanks mi fren! Yeah, I'm about to get really involved! I've been feeling awkward being a bit older than him & not wanting to be the 'fuddy duddy' wife but you know what? I'm a pretty frikkin cool person & I'm about to show him & his friends what's up! Why should I be afraid to stand up for myself & our marriage?? This is no small thing so I need to just suck it up & get bold! I feel you on the 'childish' thing....sometimes I really feel like I have a toddler or teenager but I think I'm repeating myself here. I'm pretty proud of myself though...when we talked yesterday evening, I kept things real calm & fairly unemotional & just told him he had a few options. By the end of this school semester (which I'm urging him to finish), if things haven't changed for the better, he can (1) try to survive here on his own (not living with me) by getting a job, etc., (2) go back to Jamaica or (3) go to St. Maarten where his Mom is. Now I just have to see if he takes this seriously. Ells you should never feel funny about yourself. Yeah you may be older but you sure don’t look like it. I look at you and Lehi’s pictures and I see no age difference. Your a good looking woman momma and he needs to be proud of it. I would march my behind up there looking causal and cute and be cheering him on like whoo hoo go baby go so the players can look at you like ….. LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-14 08:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	She could make up an itinerary and post on the fridge like so: 4/12 - Lesheka going out with friends to celebrate 4/13 - Lesheka starts packing Lehi's clothes 4/14 - While at work Lesheka tells boss she needs a day off 4/15 - Lesheka gasses up the whip 4/16 - Lesheka has to make it to the airport by 7:45 am so Lehi don't miss his flight 4/17 - Lesheka treats herself to a day at the spa and puts it on the credit card that would have been Lehi's if he had "act right" in him Later on Lesheka meets back up with friends to celebrate the success of shipping Lehi's bummaclot azz back to the JA... She also books her next vacation to St. Thomas on Lehi's credit card and meets Dexter St. Jacque hahahahahaha K maybe I need... Yup its official you need help... And I thought I was a donut short of a dozen... Dillion/Niq don't listen to har !!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 14:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Start looking for prices for airline tickets in his presence and ask him which day he'd like to fly back to JA for good... Mabye that will wake him up! I am rrrrrooooooollllliiiiiinnnnnn!!!! Tee	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 13:25:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Great! Oh ok. On another note I'm so P'D OFF! I'm sure I told y'all I'm not sure if I'm preggo, anyhow I had an appt today and he knew. So I woke up, got dressed and left. At the doc office he called and said he's coming so I said fine. Waiting and looking out for him, waitng and looking out for him Then he calls to say he's drinking tea he'll be there in a minute so I said ok. The receptionist came out and told us the doc is gonna be late so we can leave or wait so I left without calling him, I walk in the door to see him sitting on the computer on FACEFRIGGGINBOOK!! His response "you couldn't call and tell me you left the doc, what if I had walked up there?" So I slapped the ###### outta his azz (shouldn't have) and grabbed my laptop and walked away. Now tell me, if you don't wanna come to the doctor's office just fcuking say so, but don't have me sitting there looking out for you and here fcuking rapping on facebook. Rant Over. I'm trying my best not to put my hands on him because I'd stab his azz if he dare try to hit me back but I was pissed KJ!!!! Girl you know you were so wrong for hitting that man. You have to learn to control your anger and I need to listen to my own advice but we’re not talking about me we’re talking about you right now. Anyway I know you were pissed I would have been to but you hit em? Tsk Tsk Tsk. So what time do you have to go back.?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 10:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Dada I agree with your advice goven but sometimes you sit down and have a serious talk and think that everything is all gravy then a few weeks later they're at it again so it's as if you're at your wits end with talking and it's extremely frustrating because you see no progress. As you said, if he's not willing to work on it then she shouldn't be willing either because you can't get help if you don't admit that you need help. Don't feel bad about being an investigator, you gotta do what you have to do to protect yourself and your feelings because when men/women are cheating they don't think about their SO and I know this because I've cheated and have been cheated on. Me too. I’ve been there and I've done it. Only did it to show the person what it felt like and boy they didn’t like it AT ALL. Damn near lost der mind. But you know what was crazy? While I was doing it I felt so darn GUILTY. Not sure how others can keep doing it over and over again. I guess to each its own. I know what you mean about the talks. I had these talks with my hubby but only mines were more well mannered. He kept saying things would be different and they never were. He necessarily didn’t cheat it was more of the lying, drinking and not taking responsibility I could go on and on but I always turned the other cheek because I wanted my marriage to work. It finally got to the point where I had the final talk I told him that I would take no more. I’m not having this talk again. This was after we did the counseling and what not. I guess he thought I was joking. He was good for a minute and then he said yeah she'll take me back. O.k. sweetie that is why your my X.. I said what I mean and meant what I said. With Ells though I feel like not all hope is lost just yet so with Always prayer, God and some determination I’m really hoping things turn around.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 10:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Morning, everyone! I need to catch up from Saturday, but I did want to drop some good news: Steven got an A on his Business class test! So far, he has a B in the class, but I hope he gets A's on the next 2 tests to get an A overall. I didn't know Steven was in class. Great job....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 10:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	True dat! And I'd have to add to be extremely scrutinizing before they get here so you aren't sorry once they are. Don't be in such a hurry to get them here that you ignore signs. One thing I can say for myself though is that it's very difficult to distinguish between what are real signs & what is you just being paranoid from past experiences. Ells dat is so true. Why when we move on from that old relationship cant we leave the hurt and pain with it.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 08:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Afternoon Yardies! I have a bunch to reply to but I'm feeling some urgency that I just need to put some business out here first. I may need to be talked down off the ledge so to speak today. I'm gonna preface by stating that I'm not distraught, not very upset, nothing....just sort of matter-of-fact about what I'm feeling right now. I'm not going to jump to any conclusions or decisions but I'm definitely mulling things over. So here it is: Girl Girl Girl I almost dropped out my seat reading this. Whoo if dis don’t bring back memories. My husband well X lied about everything and I mean everything it was stupid shyt he lied about to the point where you looked at him like dawg serious stop it. I think he had a condition to be honest because there was no need fi it all. Imma keep it real with you Ells I’m not sure if he will stop. Mines didn’t. Hopefully with prayer and some real attitude he can change but it just bites me in de butt why a grown rass man has to lie. I used to tell mi hubby all de tem. I can’t beat you so why do you have to lie to me what you think you gwaan get jumped on or something. The phone calls jeez dats another thing. I swear these cell phones can be your best and worst friends. God gave us the best and worst gift woman intuition. When it surfaces its normally not wrong. You get that feeling in the pit of your stomach that something isn’t right and its up to you rather to ignore it or act on it. I tell you when it kicks in full drive its no joke. I used to play detective. Some of the things I did I am not proud of and I would have you all ladies on the ground rolling but I think I’m almost the best there ever was. I always found out the truth rather I wanted to or not and I vow that I will never live that way again. What used to hurt my feelings was my hubby had so called friends that he called over twenty times a day. It used to burn me up like what is der to talk about you don’t even call me that much. I told him you’re probably a pain in her rass. Anywho I feel you on how do you expect me to trust you if you never tell me the truth. I also don’t blame you for making your presence known. I really hope this all works its way out. I don’t think you need to consider divorce just yet. See if you can get him to go to the counseling and put Lasheka away and talk to him for minute. Let him know you’re at the edge and about to let this marriage go. If he is not willing to work on it then neither are you. Its too early in the marriage for all this nonsense already. You r are supposed to be his best friend and he shouldn’t have to lie to you about anything. Rather it will hurt you or not just tell you the truth. Let him know Ells. Give him a serious look at let him know you will not be having this conversation again. This is it. Tell him your going to give it your all and try to get things back on track but if he isn’t in agreement let you know now or forever hold your peace.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 08:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Your very welcomed and I typed it all over again, lol .. I just needed that to take my mind off shyt.. so it was my pleasure.. good luck and please keep me posted ((((((hugs)))))))) You typed it over ?? Wow that was fast... Well I prayed over it and then started to submit it so we shall see what happens. Help! Interview is May 5th - how does this medical thing work again? Do we have enuff time to get it done prior to the interview? See lookie der first you were complaining and now yuh scared... LOL	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-13 06:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hi All, Congratulations Dillon and Mikel! Just checking in to say hi to all and Happy Opening Day to JG. GO CARDS! Miss you all! Dag girlie weh yuh been?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 13:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Im having issues with my feelings period! could use a drink so damn bad right now. It’s taking everything in me and I mean everything not to hit the closest bar!!! On a brighter note THANK YOU Tee it look fabulous darling. It really put a smile on my face and I so needed that today.... I was feeling a little defeated but now you gave me some energy to keep on trying …	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 13:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I'm here...got in late because I took Hubby to do his driving test. HE PASSED!!!! Yayyyyy that's great!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 13:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hello ladies Honey wah gwaan gurl.... Ur sprits any better?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 11:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	atsleumas: Good Luck on the interview. I'm sure you guys will be just fine. DaDa: Don't take those chest pains lightly. I know its stress. I'm trying girl....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 10:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	sleeping.....up all night and sleep all day..how am i ever gonna go back to work??? picha soon come U’ll manage. I know right now your like how but it till get better. Your body will adjust and you and hubby will have to take turns. I think my twins didn’t start sleeping until 3 months.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 10:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hi all, thanks for the encouragement.. things would be much better if I was on a little island in seclusion... Dada - check your email sis Can you send it to my work e-mail. I have it on der too. I can't chk my personal from here. I'll PM you it.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 10:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Mawnin Yardies! Hope everyone have a wonderful weekend. MrsTee, I hope you feel better sis... DaDa: Then there was 3, 4 ? what? lol Dens: a few more days before you take the keys girl. Finesse, what dem babies up to? Give us some more pics of those cuties. 4 girl but I can’t even be happy cuz so much shyt is happening with me here. I’m not sure if this is a sign to not go cuz things are too hectic or to go and chill out.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 10:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I am checking now.. I will reply to things just not talking about my shyt today. Oh o.k. got you.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 10:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Morning Yardies: Not having the best of days and no I don't want to talk about it. Going to listen more today. Maybe something someone says will help me. I hope everyone has a blessed day though Umm Tee sweetie you always say that and end up replying more than anyone else So does this mean you won't help me with my cover letter today I hear you on the mood I'm feeling the same way too like at any given moment I'm going to snap. I have been having chess pain and I think its stress so I'm trying to chill out but its not easy. Morning All! Hope everyone had a great weekend. Den and I had a nice weekend overall. We linked up with Char & Ivan yesterday. Had a blast! Thanks again, CharandIvan! :0) I am trying to get a lot accomplished today...but I will do what I can. We on track with closing on this upcoming Thursday. Please keep us in your prayers! Almost there...so ready! lol So everything went good with the house inspection…. Thank you, glad you had a good weekend. dada do you still need assistance? Ha I just asked if you were helping me... Yes I sent it you didn't get it??	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 09:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Thats a really good thing... G (lol) and I been attendin church together since we started dating- its wonderful to include God in your relationships and decisions. I've realized this; we have been praying every night together for about 2 years and if/when we are busy or forget, thats when we start arguing and having problems. Try your very best, religious or not, to put God in your marriage and it will work out; I had this experience many times and on Saturday had another. Of course everyone knew hubby and I had been in an argument and although we worked it out, was still tension there. We didnt end up attending church on saturday so we stayed home; I decided to spend the day talking to God; trying to see what I was doing wrong in our marriage. As I did this, out of nowhere Jito comes and starts apologizing and admitting his error in the way things were dealt with. It shocked the mess out of me. I know I asked God to fix it, I just didnt expect a same-day answer (need to heighten my expectations of Him). It was the most amazing thing ever to watch hubby pour out in front of me. Now, we're great like Frosted Flakes... This made me smile.. I'm so glad in the end it all worked out.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 09:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Hey!! I'm all alone on here. I just read a few pages to catch up. Thanks for the condolensces. It was my grand uncle who past away. He was 93. He lived his life to the fullest as determined by the creator. Of course family is sad but Uncle lived to see 93 which is a true blessing. In regards to some of our issues on here, he wouldve said " nuh worry urself. Everything criss." Congrats Charandivan on receiving the AP & EAD in the mail. MzMorgan, you two heading to JA already?! Go on w/your bad self heading back to yard so soon. I too am guilty of the "big foot" club. I however describe my feet as being long. No fatness @ all on it. Just narrow & bony. Dens, it will continue to get better. Try don't make telephone thing mash up unnu good thing. It irritates me when bill is ran up but I believe we deh pon d same level now. Now to my big issue. Today while @ work I received a phone call from PayPal about some transactions. Purchases she spoke about had me like huh?!? Or better yet #######! She immediately put in an investigation & assured me $$ shall be returned. It was like $60 or a little more in purchases. Now I was annoyed but knew I myself would look into it further when home. Called bank & noticed checking acct is in neg status. #######! Not my style. Now I'm even more pissed & have plans to be first one @ bank to look into this. Long story short, later that night my bank calls me. They just as PayPal see some weird activity. Some a*% made over $700 worth purchases on my damn bank card!! They even had audacity to go to apple.com & buy stuff. I'm so pissed. But I'm glad they have ppl @ the banks who look out for red flags like this. Lady cancelled my card which unlinks it from acct. Have you ever!?! So 2mmrw I have to go fill out some papers about all these erroneous purchases. I'm telling you these thiefs are really something else & dem ah tek it too far espclly since they robbing poor little old me. I'm glad it was noticed though. But I write down every deposit, withdrawal, purchase. Name it. I writes it down!!! So Mr. Techy wouldn't have depleted my acct w/o me knowing. Some damn nerves. I just hope every $$ is returned in a timely fashion b/c I need my $$$. OK. I'm done venting. Talk to every1 2mmrw, that's only if I accomplish everything @ bank as I'm intending to. I know exactly wht papers you have to sign. It basically you saying that these charges are fraud and were not authorized by you. Its a sad thing to happen but if your bank is like my bank all the money will be returned along with any fees you accured. It may take up to five business days though depending on how your bank works. I'm glad they caught it in time though.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 05:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Sure mama mstee918@gmail.com of all things ive said why you remember that? just playing girl send it! i love a challenge Cuz I need help dats why you know folks always remember something when they need you..lol	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-12 05:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Tee!!!!! Help!!! I can't seem to write this cover letter. Can I e-mail it to you so you can look it over for me? You said you were good with writing If so can you PM mi yuh e-mail address?	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-11 09:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	ooooooooh hell no! she got fresh with you? i am with you 101%, i agree that many many many people have no clue how to behave - re manners she knows she's wrong! ** that! Another thing ladies woman/ men don't respect a marriage that is why there are so many problems. Memba how back in the day a woman/man would see a wedding ring and wouldn't go near you because they \knew that person was off limits but no adays folk don't care. They be like I'm married and the next response it so?? ####### you mean so..I never wanted to date anyone who wasn't fully mine and I still don't. She knew she was dead azz wrong why would you text someone at that time of morning. Whatever the issue was would still be there in a few hours knowing dis man is hugged up with em wife. Ooh dat makes mad!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-11 07:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I do see your point but to clarify- he doesnt consider a friend nor were they talking throughout our relationship- so I do believe I had a reason to be mad. I tries to stay out and mind my own business but I do think you had a reason to be mad. I was in the same boat with my ex and I was hotter than fish grease at certain times. I also disagree and think when you get married certain things do need to change. Some of the friends you had before no you can longer have as married folk or lets say maybe your relationship needs to be toned down. To me alot of things change when you get married before you said I do you could walk away and not look back but when married its not that easy or it shouldn't be that easy. Matter of fact I could go on and on but I won't...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-10 19:53:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Wow no one is pon VJ dis morning... I guess everyone is snuggled in beds with der hubby...Hmmm guess I'll go find somehing ta do then....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-10 08:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	So what do you wear in the winter Are you serious Dada? @Tee I was thinking the same thing like dang what does she wear in the winter... Yup mi dead serious Roc was the thinnest thing I dated and even he had muscles under em shirt and a six pack out this world... Whoooooo	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 20:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Aint she brutal?? But so on point! lol.... Listen we all have insecurities, but we can't let them play on our emotions.. girl what's that old addage...When you go looking for something you might not like what you find? (somethin like that) So don't drive yourself nuts by making somethin outta nuthin...You will understand fully as your marriage progresses. I am doing MUCH better now since I pick and choose my battles.. Lawd knows, the only problem I have is when he raises his voice, which he don't really mean to do nor does he see it like that but baaaaaaaaaby I git hotta than fish grease, but then I remember he aint raising his voice, thats just how he is It's hard but we a work in progress! Dat's my problem I have to learn to control my voice because it gets loud real quick. I have to sometimes remember to keep it leveled.	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 19:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	I don't do big men...my ex was like the biggest I ever dated...chile two bellys not do need to be trying to smack together...oh no! Not a good look at all! Maybe its me but I love a big man… Not big and sloppy but just big enuff he can handle me….	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 14:30:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Tee & Dills, I appreciate the honesty!!! Yes, I saw how hurt Den was last night...its like he was broken. He told me that he feels like that phone is a way for me to be like that's my phone, I gave this to you, etc...and its honestly not like that but he feels funny about it anyways since he has been on his own since he was 16 and if he didn't have his son he probably would just tough it out until he was working and able to spurge on a phone. I never want to see how my husband looked last night again...when I said the "D" word...I said it to hurt him and then I realized I was being a little controlling and I didn't like it at all, so I prayed on it and said I was sorry. I'm going to just give him his space/privacy and trust him with the phone... You’re not perfect you live and you learn. Now that you saw your mistake your were woman enough to accept it, apologize for it, and now move on for it. Today is a new day. But don’t say dat word again !!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 13:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	These men aint breathing JA air...lol.. They losing their minds.. sheesh....it was easier rasing my kids Niq dont start!lol I am so bad right now... Im looking at the web sites KJ posted and looking for sneakers for myself Supposed to be looking for my daughter lol. Maybe cause I haven't owned a pair of sneakers in about 5 years I am SUCH a flip flop girl! She posted web sites? Dang how I miss those...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 13:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	You know what they say about tall skinny men too... Nope cuz I never dated one. I don’t do skinny men cause they mek me look bigger…	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 13:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Okay Yardies...I have a confession....so here goes... I was feeling a little some kinda way about my husband and the cell phone that he has here...well let's call it what it is...insecure...and I don't really know why. He's never given me a reason to feel funny. I know he checks on his son at least once a week and I know the BM calls...sometimes more than I think she should but that's on Den to let her know to cool it down!!! Anyways we got into a heated battle last night because he said that he was going to give me the phone back since it is causing problems for us...so it was an intense argument and he definitely does not like to argue...so it was a bit much for me the word divorce came out of my mouth...anyways we worked through it but I had to put on my big girl's boy shorts and say to myself...I have got to let go of these insecurities because its not a good look. If he gives me a reason then I need to but since he has been upfront and you have to have trust in a marriage/relationship so I decided that I need to just give him his privacy and space on the phone. Dens what your doing is carrying some baggage from an old relationship into this one which we as woman tend to do. I’m sure someone hurt your feelings and in the back of your mind you’re like hmph wonder if this nucca will try it to. I think as woman it may cross our minds. Some of us it just crosses it too much. You have a right to feel that way you do you figure he just moved over here so if you see him on the phone your like umm who is he talking too. I like that Dens said you can have the phone back if its that big of deal that means he is not trying to hide anything. Going forward I think you just have to remember your own words. He hasn’t given you a reason to suspect anything so let it go. Remove the past from your heart and focus on your future. It will be hard at first but after a while I think you will see you have nothing to worry about. Oh and another thing unless it is serious don’t use or threaten him with divorce. You don’t want him thinking that if the going gets tough you’ll get going. Remember you are a married woman and not everything is going to be preachy king. You will have good times and bad but as long as the good outweighs the bad then everything is criss. Don’t claim divorce by even mentioning it even out of anger. Those words should never be spoken. Well that is how I feel about it. You’re a couple and your going to handle your ups and down as a COUPLE Thanks for sharing….	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 13:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	Okay, okay Im done with the sex talkin cause SOME of yall chuch goin folk can't handle it... so.... See Tee told you.... LMFAO!!!!! I just text my hubby too!!! I hope you said something naughty that has him like I'm right here with you on the long feet...I wear a 11 and sometimes 12...girl these are some bug killers!!!! As I raise my hand yup I'm in the 10 club... Can someone with "long feet" take my baby with them? She is 14 but she too wears and 11 nat youre safe now we are talking about shoes Tee yuhseeit she did dash away LOL. Watch now that the topic has changed alot of dem will come out to play...	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 13:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	U better not mention your weight and start up Dada! Tell her Jenkins mi about ta jump pon har!!!	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 11:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin, Part 25!	omg.. u gotta try that one..i always wondered why the ladies would wiggle their legs in the air when doing the "hot wuk" dance..tried it, and i found out.. SELL OFF!!! another quicker finisher upper fa dem lAANNNNNGGG nights LOL Yes mi memab now!!! I think I never tried that once cuz mi legs are so big dats is a lot to wiggle. I might try it an wiggle em off of me. Instead of pumping he might have to grab me and hold on .....	DaDa	Female	Jamaica	2010-04-09 11:41:00