ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Middle East and North AfricaWhy you got Married/engaged to your spouse/fiance?!!!
strong character, fair, takes care of family,able to have fun,very loving, and a good cook.

do it again it still getting better!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2007-10-31 16:26:00
Middle East and North AfricaPets and middle eastern spouses
Rocketta, good luck on telling the MENA how he going to have to live with pet and so on in his own home..let us know how this oppositional defiant stance works for y ou in the long rung......
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-04-13 18:46:00
Middle East and North AfricaPets and middle eastern spouses
Not in the house Ickk hairs in carpet , food and so on. I dont like eiather, and we basically live on a small farm..Thier is alos in the revelation where it says that near the end of times people will put more value on animals than they would fireinds, family , kids and humans. seems like this is happening more and more..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-04-13 18:42:00
Middle East and North AfricaFRUSTERATED AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
Why he get married if he not able to support a wife????
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-18 00:27:00
Middle East and North AfricaFRUSTERATED AND DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO
Who is the foreigner to usa . im confused??
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-15 00:11:00
Middle East and North AfricaHow is your spouse adjusting
Muslim men are sinners too, and need thier azz kicked back into shape. Its easier to straighten them up though because you can remind them who they are and where thier morals are...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-17 21:54:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhy do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?
You all smellin like garlic and guacamole

and lay off all that mens cologne splash everywhere, it doesnt cover it up!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-20 18:27:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhy do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?
well they wernt and now they are again??

Better get a grip on the libido, Ramadan is a coming!! respecto!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-20 16:19:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhy do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?
Are you naughty ol ladies treating your muslim husbands like sex objects again??? the shame!!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-20 16:13:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhy do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?
Schizophrenia with hallucinations and delusions of granduer??
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-19 17:34:00
Middle East and North AfricaWhy do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?
delusions, paranoia, and multiple personality disorders?????
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-07-19 17:28:00
Middle East and North AfricaQuestion for all EGYPTION'S
oh sure its ok, as long as you keep walking like and egyption!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-08-30 01:49:00
Middle East and North AfricaSo what if Obama were an Arab?
Why would it be derogatory..like in same respect as you love an Arab ..thats not derogatory
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-16 18:01:00
Middle East and North AfricaSo what if Obama were an Arab?
and he sure goes out of his way to deny any affiliation with Islam ...hmphhh
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-15 19:04:00
Middle East and North AfricaFrom The Iraq War, A Troubled Romance In America
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They both sound like wing nuts..ptsd peoples shouldnt really be having babies...



I think that is going too far. That would be saying all people effected by war shouldn't have babies. The point is to treat them so they can safely have children. Many people who have PTSD already have children so that wouldn't work anyway.



Yes but thiers was most recent PTSD...the kids are in good hands now. They will have to get over it..maybe she wont. He has home support advantage..and better frame of mind. and in his part of country is very very family oriented..maybe there is help..soundsl ike she has lost it truely!! and is prob not indicative of all immigrant women. as readers might assume.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-18 15:48:00
Middle East and North AfricaFrom The Iraq War, A Troubled Romance In America
They both sound like wing nuts..ptsd peoples shouldnt really be having babies...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-18 15:34:00
Middle East and North AfricaCalling MENA....need your prayers and encouragement
Sorry yvetter it just burns me when they put hard working tax paying american women through this so easily ..and they let the americqn men roam free country to country getting visas for foreign girls.. Keep fighting the fight. sounds like son and daughter need the good role models you and hubby provide..bless you
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-18 18:23:00
Middle East and North AfricaIs your spouse the jealous type????
Uh dont play around nicey with ex then tell your new hubby about it esp when he is acros the ocean..HELLLO..he prob upset enough the kids arent his biologically..and you playing happy family. choose and respect your mate!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-19 18:39:00
Middle East and North AfricaThings rough for me too!
Iranian wives??? uhh why he bring that up when you are american??? His responsibility is to respect that and mesh cultures as a learning adventure/..not conform you to his ideal or if that was his ideal why didnt he marry Iranian/ what a mean thing to say or even compare..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-24 00:49:00
Middle East and North AfricaThings rough for me too!
He should hsve put the computer down and held you close.. Ur right family may not be able to help with this. but do keep them in the know. k
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-18 15:23:00
Middle East and North AfricaThings rough for me too!
nice posts/advices from strong realistic sisters!!! keep hanging with them op if marriage, things doesnt work out you still have good support here!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-18 15:17:00
Middle East and North AfricaThings rough for me too!
good point bridenogirl....more than culture it could be his annoying personality quirks and his brothers and cousins know him well help kick some butt and straighten him up.. family does come in handy only uses sparingly though..2 times a yr this would be a good time or you to use this option.. If they not on the understanding bandwagon then let them have thier wayward black sheep backk
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-16 22:08:00
Middle East and North AfricaThings rough for me too!
Well throw the koran @ him Ie wife is for husband and husband is for wife...You are not his servant slave..you are suppose to be his companion..and he yours..tell him to straighten up and do the right things.. quit his quiet whining.. thatgs what he is doing.. silently sulking . BS prayers for you..tell him he living in America.. nobody likes azzholes here esp wives who live with them
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-16 19:22:00
Middle East and North AfricaNeed clarification on something, regarding...PORK!
Pork has parasites in the meat. the excess hormones in pork will contributes to tumors, cysts, fibroids and man boobies
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-24 00:43:00
Middle East and North Africawhat's wrong with getting married during the first trip?
Wat does it matter, vacation trips for wedding arent real..expectations in marriage is both parties are mature peaceful and responsible, respectful in thier roles once when realitY of married life(after the cultural shock) is assumed. getting to know or see them is not really getting to know and see them, this is why so many arranged marriages work out so well.. In other words CASA can shove thier assumptions and requirements if this is one.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-10-25 18:52:00
Middle East and North AfricaHow is your spouse adjusting to live here now?
cable and internet bill there $10, lights and gas bill there combined $12, water there free and what the heck is insurance???? ohhh soo many questions and answers to why we get paid ohhh soo much more here...lolzz First time in a grocery store, walmart, drive up windows...so many amusing things we look back on now and laugh..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-11 21:20:00
Middle East and North AfricaSerious Doubts
YOu are who you are.. so if he dont love you for that well then.. what the problem after marriage..he should have known these things before.. how people going to understand and like Islam if it cont to be "scary" when in all actuality its not
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-15 22:18:00
Middle East and North AfricaSerious Doubts
Yah Hijab is not required. ??? and its entirely up to the woman if she wants to wear, In my neighborhood would call more attention to self then the intended purpose in otherplaces..
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-15 22:12:00
Middle East and North AfricaYou know you're in a MENA relationship when....
I guess I'll see ya'all in houston. This is all soo funny.. Do you all get the Hi honey how is your work call everyday and then BTW whats plan about dinner, and then get the request how about this fish and that bean or what vegetable sounds good for dinner.

I like the tears during movies...living for the moment.

Momma is number one woman in life

talk to his family overseas more than you talk to your own in the states..even they live in the same town
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-15 22:10:00
Middle East and North AfricaIs the romance gone?
What?? love the wife ,but spoil the mistress??
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-11 21:55:00
Middle East and North AfricaIs the romance gone?
Muslim wife=momma substitute, congratulations on the adoption!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-11 21:15:00
Middle East and North AfricaHe's driving me crazy
oh why s end in about 8 months here..lets move comes up less and less.. LOL Houston hahaha same same!!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-15 00:06:00
Middle East and North AfricaLinks between Islam and Terrorism
Pakistani nationality and of course muslims. given India and Pakistans sordid history highs and lows, its another hot button. Esp if Indian officials blaming the country of Pakistan and not the attackers. Like typical ameican thought Pakistan protects Bin Laden, when Pakistan the govt hard to control who goes in and out of tribal mountain regions. Its easy to get xtians majority on board with the game by blaming a religion (coz its easier to control something if it has a name and face), gets support of thier majority and so on . This world political stuff is all big game, hopefull the new adminstration (Obama) wont try to control the people using hate and fear..and really its the terrorists who win when a whole world is up in arms over 12 or so terrorists take over a few hotels. WOW.. start throwing mud @ the other 1 billion Msulims in the world, and more screwed up youths get bigger ideas to get together and attack something elses or bigger...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-12-01 13:38:00
IMBRA Special TopicsViolating restraining order question
say, "That was such a long time ago, during an early relationship, ive forgotten about it as it was a trivial matter "etc..has nothing to do with present. Dont stir the ####### pot any more than have to. when we went in for interview we just stuck with facts and gave what they wanted and no further talking or information.
bhajishahFemalePakistan2006-11-20 09:02:00
IMBRA Special Topicscancelled 2 K1's
Whoa cowboy, take a break and GTFU!!!!! Real love not palay love cant be turned on and off like a faucet. try again when you realize it or INS is not going to take you seriously!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-09-09 20:18:00
IMBRA Special Topics2 DUI convictions
Id be more worried if you had wife and kids in car. Ie child endangerment. Keep ur etoh busing butt from going behind a wheel off the sidewalks and streets.!!
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-06-14 12:14:00
IMBRA Special TopicsFilipina in love with a canadian with legal permanent status and working in the US
This is immigration to Usa website sista
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-09-01 20:41:00
IMBRA Special TopicsThird K1 Visa
good luck on that, hope you find a youngin to really bind with on a intellectual level, after the kids are grown, you plan on her talking and rocking on the porch with you, or will she be your nurse?? what an indentured life for her...
bhajishahFemalePakistan2009-08-17 18:41:00
IMBRA Special TopicsThird K1 Visa
Tax payers money pay for DHS and immigration for peoples frivilous habits, whims and desires. IMO, should only be once unless woman is widowed and the cousin want to marry her or something like this need. not lustful needs
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-21 16:20:00
IMBRA Special TopicsSex Offender Applying for K1
Thats why they call it Jail Bait..where do we draw the line??
bhajishahFemalePakistan2008-11-15 21:42:00