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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Welcome to the efficiency of the US government - they'll gladly take your money for anything!

Honestly, I think that you might have gotten flagged for a stokes interview because of the age difference - It seems to be an indicator, from what I have seen, of marriages where they think it's fraud - Because they seem to find it impossible to believe that a young man could fall in love with an older woman - especially a man coming from Jamaica, a known fraud country -

Just go in there, hold your heads high, and make them look like fools by showing them the strength of your bond.


And if that came out wrong, I am sorry, not in any way trying to judge or infer anything, I just think that might be why you got an interview scheduled, as ridiculous as it is - but I am in the FOULEST mood today that I have been in in a long time, and am having a hard time with wording things -


No worries.. it came out just the way I needed to hear it. What kills me is that they already held us up in the NVC period for this I believe, I never really heard of anyone having an interview after it was transferred to CSC..... I m going to write a letter. I just think because their system wouldn't allow them to put a service request in, they just screamed interview.

If in fact we do have an interview best believe Im going with all barrels loaded. We have TONS of evidence proving the validity of our marriage!!! They need to be worried about me..not the other way around :angry:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 12:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

WTH???? I'm pissed for you guys as well. What is really going on? We never received Den's card... :bonk:



But why now? Why an interview this late in the game.. Im not comprehending this at all...Im disgusted :angry: It amazes me how they have no problem cashing my dyam check but can't give me what the hell I paid for..

Sus, any imput on this?
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 09:50:00
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I am SUPER pissed right now. We just got off the phone with USCIS. We filed our AOS 3/26. It got transferred to CSC on 4/10. Got a response from our senator 30 days ago stating they were still working on our case. Now the #$%^&* are telling me that we are going to be scheduled for an interview! #######????????????????????? and to wait 30 to 60 days for a notice scheduling us for an interview... What kinda ####### is this?

Im calling again tomorrow to see if I get the same response and Im writing another letter to the senator telling them what I was told.... ughhhhhhhhhh all this for a fluckin GC! Im annoyed as hell. Steve, who never loses his cool is REALLY pissed!:angry: :angry: :angry:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 09:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Best wishes for a safe surgery and speedy healthy recovery miss! :star:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-21 22:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Hello everyone >>how is everyone doing

Im great just sleepy:help:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-21 14:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Finesse, how are the babies.

MrsTee, I like those shoes you got for your bday. I need some cuter shoes.

I want some fish & coco bread too!



Thanks Nat, I fell in love with them too and said to myself, If I rub my feet down real good with the Arnica gel and pop some motrins, I can work these shoes :rofl:


My co-worker just gave me this website for coupons Nat and you know I thought of you.. gonna pass it to you in case you can use it :thumbs: www.livefabuless.com

Miss, Im glad you are coming along betta mi sista..

Q Cabo huh.. I hope you find what you're looking for :) Thank you, he sure did :) Im still smiling today

DW at least now you have an "idea" about your GC we still don't even know where ours is :angry:



MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-21 14:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Of course I did.. It was my favorite gift.... but sssssssssssh don't tell Steve LOL You betta take it easy missy.. we need a healthy JQ Boom and lil boom boom too!

Dills what did you bring? I made seafood salad.. it was pretty dayum good if I might say so.. Want some? LOL

Edited by MRStee, 20 September 2010 - 11:34 AM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-20 11:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Sounds like a fabulous day! Go hubby!!!

Happy belated birthday MsTee!



Yes it was Finesse.. he did the dayum thing :) Im still smiling (L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-20 10:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Good evening, everyone.

Missus, sorry to hear about the health struggles. As Dillon said, it's great that you have an option to get the care you need for a much lower price.

JQ, glad to hear that your husband has seen the light.

Thanks to MrsThompson posting what she did a week or two ago, I got some balloons, cake, card, and gift to celebrate Steven being here for 1 year. I'm not even gonna lie, I got the cake cause I LOVE it (red velvet with cream cheese frosting and white chocolate shavings on the outside - we had it for our wedding). He would've preferred alcohol to sweets. But he was surprised and happy.

I'm even more happy that I got to surprise him with these items when he returned home from WORK. The new Jamaican restaurant (where he was hired in APRIL) only just celebrated its Grand Opening from Thursday to today, after several months' delay. I went yesterday with some family & we all enjoyed the atmosphere and food. So now, at long last, he's working full time. Plus, when you factor in the tips, he's getting paid more than we thought.

I'm also excited that my mother just booked a trip to Jamaica. We'll be there for 8 days over Thanksgiving week & she'll be there 4 of those 8 days. I have a feeling Steven will be going out a lot with his friends, and while I'm welcome, I like that I'll have at least one of my own relatives to hang with and give him his man time without me. We have a bit of a full line-up, though. Anniversary party on Wednesday, trip to Alligator Pond on Thursday, trip to Ocho Rios Friday & continue to Kingston Friday night, as my mother flies into Montego Bay but out of Kingston. We decided to make it an island adventure since I've never hung out in Ocho Rios and my mother hasn't been outside of Mo Bay/Negril. Next is to look for a hotel in Kingston. Can't do Prestige/Sandhurst again, lol.

My laptop is on its last leg, so today I got a new one. Thanks to our new financial strategy, I was able to pay with cash already saved. That felt good.

Anyways... let me get back to setting everything up on this new laptop. Enjoy your week, everyone!



Nat, it really sound like you have fun things in store.. happy for you!:star:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-19 21:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

I don't blame you for being frustrated and going back to England to get you foot taken care of. It is nice that you have that option. I hope everything is okay with you and hubby though. Have you guys ever thought of just moving to England?



you gotta do what makes you happy and if returning to the UK is it, then do what you must..please keep in touch with us sis!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-19 21:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

ok well had a hard week. hubbs lost his job, i ruiptured my achillles tendon. with the cost of the surgery being a ********* mortgage, i'm planning on going back to the Uk because sh*t is free there and I dont have to put up with this bullsh*t. I'm very stressed, also found out i have a blood pressure in the range of 186 - 215 over 106. I could freaking keel over from a heart attack at this rate. I'm out of here.


Im sorry that you are going through all this. I hope things work out for you (F)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-19 09:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Good morning family.., What a wonderful day Im having.... hubby really pulled out all the stops.. he is cooking breakfast for me right now, but I have 2 cakes, he had my best friend make one (strawberry shortcake my favorite!) and his coworker made the other cake(vanilla) and decorated it too, flowers were delivered this morning. He bought me shoes, a bracelet, a necklace, a watch, a bottle of champange and wine. He got my nails done for me, dinner and a show later! Im so happy and feel so blessed. Not for the material things but because of what he went through to do all this for me to make this day special and memorable, especially since he doesn't drive.....

Everyone have a nice day :star:

Edited by MRStee, 18 September 2010 - 09:14 AM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-18 09:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

If you ever bump yourself hard enough that you know it's going to bruise, use Arnica...will stop any bruise from forming...

Thank you...

Hey lady C


MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-17 13:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Jess, I see dillon rubbin off on you :angry: :rofl:
Thank you for the birthday wish Dillsy :)
JQ!!!! This is the BEST gift Ive gotten so far! :yes:

Good morning everyone!

First I have to thank Sus cause that gel worked! I feel sooooooooooooo good today like I can do cartwheels!!!
Second my hubby for the awesome massage he gave me while applying the gel! yippppppppppppeeeeeeee

Well tomorrow makes 40 years on this earth! I made it! Thank God :) Hubby has things planned for me. So far he got my nails did and my eyebrows. He wanted me to get my toes done :no: I passed. I know he has other things planned cause him and my daughter keep whispering :rofl: I will post a full report (if Im able to lol) on Sunday. I hope everyone has a good weekend :)

Edited by MRStee, 17 September 2010 - 10:41 AM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-17 10:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Hey everyone how are you all ..had a wonderful day off had a link up with jewrica and I had a blast



Did yall change the location of the meeting cause I went all the way to VA and couldn't find yall :rofl:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 12:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Hope the gel works for you MrsTee!!!!


Me too girlie....thank you!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 10:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Hey JQ Boom Boom.....(L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 09:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
My Arnica gel came today! wooooooooo hoooooooooo! Gonna ask hubby to massage my back and use the gel. I hope it works *fingas crossed* Thanks again Sus.
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 09:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Hey Tee,

I hope they don't make me scream. He never got back a paper when he was leaving the office...The only gave him the sealed medical enevlope.
He did however get his shots and they did however update his immunzation yellow record book.
I hope I dont really need it and that the i693 medical sheet filled out by the civil surgeon is good.



If you want a copy of the DS-3025, I suggest you email the place that did his medical. Like if it was MoBay Hope, they will email you a copy. Both Lady C and I did this. I really didn't need ours but I did it anyway, because Steve had a copy. You have to write letter and have hubby sign it requesting a copy because they wont release it to you. (even though they think they dont). Let me see if I still have mine so you can see what it looks like. Hope this helps you.

Edited by MRStee, 16 September 2010 - 09:12 AM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 09:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

i know...so how you feeling being pregnant and all?



Dillon!!! Go sit down somewhere LOL
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 09:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

But u know mrstee if you read the fine print any procedure like tube being tied are only guarenteed for 7 years


Well when you don't have a uterus and a right ovary, you can't have any right? I had a hysterectomy for 8 years now.... Like I said.... THE FACTORY IS CONDEMNED!!!!!! :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Oh yeah... good morning :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-16 09:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

First and foremost Thanks God he has seen the light JQ!!!!!!! This light will get brighter as time goes by.

Ok now on a AOS note I am getting ready to send in our form next week. For the medical He is going to the doctor on Friday I get the he is to fill out part 1 and part 2 vaccination and the part 5 by the doctor. We have his Immunization records the yellow one he had from birth with all his vaccations even the ones done in JA just before he got here. So what is this DS 3025 form has I do not have this form. Pleased simplify this part for me with this DS3025.




Hey sugar.. if you look on the paper that your hubby got from the medical with the vaccinations.. THAT is the DS-3025
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-15 10:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

MrsTee-- Dont hurt Dills, she only playing...... :whistle:

Lady C-- Eric received same notice and like a few weeks later the GC was in the mail. So hopefully that is what that statement is meaning.

JQ--I am glad your prayers were answered. Sometimes you have to know when to take a stand and when to walk away. You did excellent with standing firm and believing in what is right. Blessings. Like I say to my soldiers. "break em' down like a ShotGun" meaning. you got take a piece by piece until it is completely apart and then put it back together.

tell Moy Moy happy belated birthday from her family in VA :star:

Dills--So glad you left me off that list of rumors :dance: Lawd knows what it would've said.

hey Jess....I see ya girl



You see it don't you mama *sharpening my blade* :rofl:

Hello VJ Family;

How is everyone here. I have been missing alot of things on the VJ site, but I have been working very hard to take very good care of my wife. She has adapted to Birmingham (Southern Lfe) well. Jobs are hard to find so I tell her that as long as hussie is bringing the $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ that she she has nothing to worry. It has been 92 days that my Step child is in California Service Center and we are praying for an approval soon.



Good luck, we are praying right along with you! Glad to see you checking in from time to time :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-15 10:03:00
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:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:



:angry: :angry: :angry:

:rofl:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-15 09:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

:whistle: see I told you you were pregnant!



Dillon!!!! YOU betta stop spreading rumors, I got folks emailing me asking me if Im really pregnant!!! LOL :blink: You know the factory is condemned. If I am pregnant im going to pull my old OB/GYN outta retirement and whoop his #######! LOL
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-15 09:57:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

just admit the arthritis is from being old.

Really I am just playing..hope the gel works and you get some relief.


no you didn't!!! *rollin my eyes* LMAO

I want to know who called my hubby and told him he was being a as!#$$ole, because this week has sure been different for us! He has started doing everything on my list. Posted ImagePosted ImagePosted Image :dance: :dance: :dance:

And yesterday I woke up at 6:30am to go to church, Posted Imagesolo I needed that blessing and didnt want anything to stand in my way so I left the kids at home with him.

He asked me when I was getting dressed (where you going) I said (Church) he said well let me talk to you before you go


he apologized like never before and said he understands that all this started because of him :crying:

He gets it...he finally gets it!!!! I am so happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It really worked to stand my ground.

Thank you Jesus for answering my prayers and hearing my calls Posted Image

Thank you girls also for the best wishes and I pray it just gets better from here.Posted Image ((hugggggs))


BTW today is Moy Moy Posted Image and we are having a party for her this weekend. Pictures to come.



thank you jesus!!!

happy birthday moy moy! another sept baby! :)

I hope everyone is doing good. im home today with a stomach ache ugggggggggh
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-14 09:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
I just ordered the gel, hope it works Q I was in several car accidents and Ive just been diagnosed with having arthritis in my lower back :(
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-13 15:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Arnica gel or cream

http://www.drugstore...fromsrch=arnica


Thank you. I appreciate it :star:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-13 13:57:00
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Dang not one post all day...alright then I will break the news down on everyone then.

MrsTee is PREGNANT! :thumbs: CONGRATS!!!!!

Sus is relocating to Jamaica :no:

JQ won the lottery and is filthy rich :no:

finesse got locked up for indecent exposure :no:

Quanna got written up for texting during the day :no:

Jamerican bout to go postal on USCIS :no:

my3rmylife is PREGNANT :no:

I know I missed a few people but I will be back with another update.



DONT MAKE ME CUT YOU :angry: YALL KNOW THE FACTORY IS CONDEMNED DON'T PLAY DILLSY! :rofl:

How adorable are marley and jazz. I love their pictures! :)

Sus, when you read this could you please tell me the name of the cream that you said was good for muscle pain? Thanks! :thumbs:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-13 12:32:00
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we are still waiting too... seems they slowed down



You know and our letter to the senator was of no use...ugh!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-11 09:27:00
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I meant to tell yall our I-485 was "touched on 9/9 so hopefully we will get it soon :unsure:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 15:14:00
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Quana the kids are great with Ricky . he spent time with them but mainly when he was at mt house was when my kids weren't home and he didn't tell them much .>now he is dad full force and at first he would tell them something and they would look at me like what do i do and i would say do as he says now they don't question just do... My daughter had a rough patch for a minute but now its all good. Thank god their dad had my back on they are supposed to do as he says




well can you be here wed



I wish!!! and Q stop laffin LOL
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 15:01:00
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Ok jewrica it a link. Now these damn people gonna make me lose my religion bus stop sign out and they are riding past ... Girl tthen had the nerve to flip me off whenshe left cause I saod something



A link up without tee just breaks mi heart :crying:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 13:32:00
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omg.. sumfest will be the BOMB.. so many parties, so lil time LOL.. i can't wait to go back for it.. maybe we will see ya'll tee!!
yeah im w/ steve, sooner rather than later!!!



That would be fun so you could show me some dancehall moves LOL:rofl:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 13:29:00
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:thumbs:Hey Vj sistas!! How yall doing?



Hey mama.. im good, how are things coming along with you...
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 10:49:00
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We are hopint for february if all goes well...



We were originally going for Christmas next year, but I think Steve really wants to go when his vacation time starts which is in July. Maybe we can plan it around the sumfest. That would be cool since Ive never been...
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 10:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

I am Full time National Guard (AGR). I don't have to move around as much as active duty. I work for the state of Virginia and get all the same wonderful benefits as Active duty Army folks. Gravy Gravy Gravy.....(anybody got a big biscuit)?

Yes, my family is all spread out. My mom and dad live about 15 min from me tho. They will be a big help. I also have aunts and uncles and brothers and sisters not too far away.

I am a homebody as well, I wanted to go to college (still in) that is why I took the National Guard route. They pay for books and classes and I get to be home. Then decided to make it a full time thing.



That's nice! I don't like crowds either and prefer to shop on line too! :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 10:34:00
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mi head itch..and mi jus wash and oil it..what the heck??

okay, i am so excited.. we having a reggae boat ride here nxt weekend.. on the boat in the moonlight dancing to some wicked tunes.. i could do that every weekend



I know you are going to have a blast! I can see you rippin up the dancefloor!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 10:30:00
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what it do tbaby!!



It do what it do mama! How are the "young ladies" doing?
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 10:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Morning Y'all!!! Well one more day and we are out of here and back to Jamaica! I'm still not finished packing!!!! :whistle: I will get it done tonight though...

JAP, congratulations again Mama! You are glowing on your FB profile pic.

Quana, that's great on mista's second job...he is doing his thang! I know you must be so proud.

Mrs Tee, I hope you have a wonderful and Happy Birthday!!!! :dance: :dance: :dance:

Thompson2, MY3, Dills, and MrsTee: Keep me in the loop about the possible link up in November now? :unsure:

I better get my rass to work...I have so much work to do before I leave out of here today at 4:30!!!

I'm going to miss you guys!


Good morning DW! Im so jealous.. Have a great time in JA
Yes, the link up is tenatively changed because I want to give everyone who wants to come a opportunity. I will keep you posted.

Awww mama jew we will be thinking of you :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-10 08:33:00