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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

good morning he is doing good. How is everything with you?

yeah does anyone know what form I have to file to get back our documents?



Hi Bajan, I can hear the calmness in your posts now that he is here:blush:
Maybe its not a form, maybe you just need to write them a letter/email.
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-11 09:42:00
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I found my shoes ladies I actually found two and order both which ever I love the most I will keep and return the other lol check um out vote on which one you guys like the best


http://www.6pm.com/rsvp-catya-ivory

http://www.6pm.com/rsvp-vicky-white




Wow, I love both of them..... *remembering it took me sooooooooooooooo long to find shoes and I only had them on for the ceremony and took them bad boys off ten minutes after I was married LOL*

Im going to go with shoe #2.. they look more dressy :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-11 09:39:00
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Always up for a party...

wow another thread..
ok well i got a little bit of a job, a part time one, macys. so i'm happy with that, it will tide us over until i get a fully perm job with a salary. not looking to park there. as for baby, still having to do the baby rhumba.. this week its on!.. mrs tee, dillon jq, bajan, bess,,, omg who am i forgetting.. well i just wanna say thank all of you for your support. much appreciated. now if god blesses me with a baba, you all are gonna be in it with me.
muahhh::



Thats great Miss.. I am the Vj babysitter so bring it! lol
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-11 09:36:00
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You sure got that right. Why not utilize Corys Fedex discount!!


Dats whats up MO!!!! :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-10 14:54:00
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finesse I was asking the SAME THING! They need a memory cards now and wipes and a ton of ish we didn't even have to consider getting. And then get this Marley's teacher doesn't supply a list she wants all the parents to fork over $25 and she will get the supplies. I think she is going to make some money on that deal.

Anyway I am just searching the internet for a little ride for the Mr. :wacko:



Good luck and leave that teacher alone!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-10 13:23:00
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nope, just the usual sexy party kind :D we might have a party later this month...back to school jam or labor day thing....mi nuh knoa yet. things been pretty low key lately...bunch a family stuff. my son is costing me a fortune right about now....between football registration fee, gear/shoes to play football, school supplies, school shoes/clothes....omg somebody get this boy a job!! and what the frick happened to the days of pencil and paper for school supplies???




just so long as you're not :D



No Finesse I am not :bonk: :rofl:

just dropping by to see the new thread... Hubby's surgery went well but he's in a lot of pain so was with him yesterday (my day off) Work sucks but whatever lol (L) much love guys



Hola Besa we miss you. Tell hubby I hope he feels betta!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-10 12:11:00
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Good morning.. my computer is on crack today.. trying to clean it up a bit....
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-10 09:25:00
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YAY!!! That's GREAT news Tee!! Florida here you come (in 4 yrs).



Wow sounds like you had a great weekend! Can't believe school started already.







Dillz this is ME too! My hubby said the same thing one night when I was going over 50 possible scenerios all because of one little thing..."why didn't you just become a lawyer". I can so relate even about the chicken. It doesn't even have to be something big or important. How can we get our mind to stop? (sigh)

Hello all!

We got T Mobile phones after getting no service in our house from Metro PCS. If anyone is thinking of switching to T Mobile and wants to be super nice and refer us then we would get $25 so I'm putting it out there. Ok enough trying to get my bill down.

Hope everyone had a great weekend!



We have Tmobile dang it we shouldve referred you! :bonk:


Not you too Brooke :blink: Say it isnt so.....

Edited by MRStee, 09 August 2010 - 07:30 PM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-09 19:29:00
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Tee, everything happens for a reason...It is good that you are going after what you are passionate abt... A lot of people would be afraid to leave a job after so long but you are doing it before the one day get up and slap u in your face after 30 years and say sorry but we have to let you go!!


Go Tee after your dream, you going to make.


Q what a gwaan ?




Thanks Sugar, Ive secretly been miserable for years but starting school and actually finishing it has been a long time coming... thank you.. I really wanted to push myself so I can maybe attempt to open a school in JA.. thats my ultimate goal.

Hi Ladies

I hope all is well with each of your Journeys. Know that nothin in Life that is "Worth It" is easy. So stay strong and it will work out if it is ment to be. Just wanted to stop by and show you all some love!!



Thank you Journee, its nice to see you!

Hello there. I couldnt help but notice the sams24-7.com link. Sams is located right near me here in NY. Hubby loves that store. Not to mention the little "Chiny" store a.k.a miss chin also near by. Sams will get me in trouble b/c im always buying the little round spice buns. Its so good.


So mo can shop for me and ship me some stuff LOL
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-08-09 19:27:00
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Sigh...

Sooooooo...this morning me and the guy I work with had a meeting in our Virgina office.

They decided that our office wasn't bringing in enough, so they let us both go.

Had 3 jobs this year and it's only October...sigh.



Sorry to hear that.. but I am confident you will find employment soon.. you did it before! :thumbs: I still credit you for helping me get hubby his job (indirectly). Just reading you posts about how much you kept pushing it and handwritting you resume was enough for me and motivate me :)

WOW ! sorry to hear this!! Chin up it will be ok, remember you have a wonderful husband to support you.


Hey KK, sorry no step children on my side. hope someone else can help you.

What is up all?



I think I called you by accident this morning? :unsure:

Good morning KJ you ready for this link up? I can't wait. I want to pack now LOL. We are going to NYC this weekend. Steve's cousin is getting married. This is going to be fun for us. He is going to see family he hasn't seen in a very long time and Im excited for him :yes: I just bought a new camera so prayerfully I will get some good pics!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-04 10:26:00
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nice picture tara!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-03 11:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Good morning everyone, I woke up with a killer headache.. off to take the car to the shop for brakes and minor repairs. :wacko: Hope everyone has a great weekend.

Good to see you DW (cousin) :star:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-02 06:59:00
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Posted Image here it come, brush some of it off, because it will give you twins or tripelets :rofl:

Posted Image


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Okay so do you have her room ready?



I heart you too! :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-01 14:58:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Hey guys,
Just had the 3d sonogram done and here is our baby girl!



She has strong features... adorable!

Beautiful pics Matt

JQ where my baby dust


She just forgetting us bajan! :crying: mi off the list and no baby dust for you.... smdh!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-01 07:27:00
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http://www.rei.com/product/750871



Even the accessories to it expensive...
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-10-01 07:23:00
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I'll be your friend Finesse! :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 13:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

What mi a do? :innocent:



I didn't see my name on your list :crying:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 12:58:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

I guess you all don't see me huh :angry: (Giving JQ the evil eye) Im sick as a dog and need to go home. I have class tonight too:angry:

Dillon its Oct 22nd to the 25th.



I been finished it
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 12:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
I guess you all don't see me huh :angry: (Giving JQ the evil eye) Im sick as a dog and need to go home. I have class tonight too:angry:

Dillon its Oct 22nd to the 25th.

Edited by MRStee, 30 September 2010 - 12:34 PM.

MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 12:33:00
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Morning all!!! It's such a wet, gloomy, & dreary day in NY. Yesterday was the only dry day this week. Hope everyone is doing well overall. Hubby & I are doing fine. We actually are trying to pack a barrel to ship in Nov so we have it for Dec when we are down there. My son is doing well & doing much better w/hubby. I want to believe it's b/c his father & hubby were formally introduced over the summer. My sons father, after I spoke to him, manned up as I would say and spoke to hubby. So they "hail up" each other. With that said my son must believe they are "friends" & knows Cory may tell his dad plus his dad reinforced the respecting Cory all the time. So I'm happy.
Last night I attended a viewing for a long time family friend. Very sad. I feel it for the family. I don't think it hit home for her husband of thirty years. But it will this morning. They were such a loving & jovial couple. Husband was American & lady was Guyanese. Real sad!
Overall, as Jamaican artist Ding Dong said, "if you have somebdy that you love, don't wait until them gone, tell them you love them while they are here." Those words are more likely appreciated now when they can hear.
On a brighter note, enjoy your day
Now I know US ladies use it very regular but I just wanted to say it still.


Im glad lil man is coming along well now that he sees its a united front!!!!

Just to shed light on the children situations, because mine are older. My son has a brother who is 6 months older than him (yes, we were pregnant at the same time!!!) My son's brother's mother never liked me. Which suited me just fine. However, I did let her know that one day, these boys will get to know one another and there is nothing she can do to stop it from happening. Yes, its a shame they didn't have the opportunity to grow up together but now the two of them are close. Sometimes my daughter and step-son act more like real brothers and sisters than my son. My SON (stepson) even calls me mom. I love him to death.

For those of you going through the struggle with children, it won't be for long. You do eventually see the light at the end of the tunnel :)

Where is my manners...mawnin people

Matt & Kaci CONGRATS and both beautiful people. Matt I, swear you remind me of a good friend of mine. Every time I see your name. Well, all the best to you and wife...many blessings my friend.



Mornin Tre Day whaaa gwaan?
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 09:46:00
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Of course it is very important for "us" time but considering his son is here, "us" time become minimal. Maybe you needed that time before he came. It's just like when you have a baby yourself. YOUR time becomes the baby's time because they need that. As for the child's mother, she isn't going to change. Especially since you now have something she once had and her child. Reality is, she is probably trying to brag because truth be told, you are doing a job she couldn't. Maybe hubby has to intervene on this one and get the mother to step up and take the son so that you two can have some alone time.

I know it has to be overwhelming and stressful for you. Just pray on it sis, you will be fine and we are here for you...
Just my opinion. I hope I didn't offend you.


HI mrs tee,

I dont think you really understand the situation. His mother left him with his dad almost two years ago. it was supposed to be termporary. like i said she is trifling. she has done it many times before.this time however she is at a loss because he is gettting custody. she lies alot, the only time she sees him is when they go to court. she goes to the judge and tries to act like she is trying to see her son and that we are stopping her. The judge isnt stupid though, and he has her number. there has never been an Us time. because essentially as i have found out she has abandoned him. she just doesnt want him.
I think regardless of whether he is here or not every relationship takes time, he is not my biological son and as such it will take time to really build that. its naive to assume that you are going to go from expecting time alone with your husband, to come and find that there will be none and then expect that person to be cool with it. Its an adjustment one that I struggle with, resentment is something that I just have to deal with.
why woud I be offended unless you were trying to offend me, its not like that.
xx



Im glad you clarified things for me.. but I have to say that im a BIG advocate for the children. If his own mother can't seem to show him love then what woman will? I understand your resentment and I am not in your shoes, but I feel for the child because it seems like the adults have made decisions that are affecting him. What we do is what we do, but the little one?

I hope you and hubby, however find time for yourselves and soon (F)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 09:41:00
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LOL...sorry. Thank you very much, we are so very happy. Thanks to everyone.



Absolutely BEAUTIFUL pictures Matt.. You guys looked a little nervous :) How cute. One of my favorites was Kaci feeding you cake... She cried too... so beautiful
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 08:56:00
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Congrats Kjenkins! That is wonderful news. Hopefully I will be aboard w/the rest of the pregnant ones SOON as well.


Okay MsMo I hear you! :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 08:34:00
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Good morning ladies, sorry about my absence but I was overwhelmed with everything the last couple of weeks. Hope everyone is doing well. Anyone interested in looking at the wqedding pictures you can see all of them at:

website: www.collages.net

username: Kacianne

password: 29671

Hope all the ladies are doing well... :D



What do you mean anyone interested? :bonk: Of course we are Matt! We talked about you so much Im surprised your ears weren't ringing.. We are happy for you and Kaci Congrats! (F)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 08:34:00
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congrats on the baba or baba's kjenkins86. thats great.xx


thanks for the advice, i read it, the day after, but i was in too foul a mood to answer anyone. It was like Vesuvius. As for the child not signing up for it, thats true, but its not one sided here. my focus is really his wotless mother who still wants to get credit for something she isnt doing, when i got married I believed he was going to spend SOME time with her. I think the best place for him is with his dad, I however believe that the most important relationship in this family is the one between my husband and I, because it bring stability, normalcy to his life. Thus this point was made to him yesterday, to which he agreed. He knows this is about the time we have together, that we both need just us time. I know I cant go off like I have been, either. Its not good for the old blood pressure, its not good for us. it gets tiring.

I am not sure how to handle all this stress, all i do know is I'm going to have to find a way. I'm glad all you ladies are here, and just being so freaking nice.



Of course it is very important for "us" time but considering his son is here, "us" time become minimal. Maybe you needed that time before he came. It's just like when you have a baby yourself. YOUR time becomes the baby's time because they need that. As for the child's mother, she isn't going to change. Especially since you now have something she once had and her child. Reality is, she is probably trying to brag because truth be told, you are doing a job she couldn't. Maybe hubby has to intervene on this one and get the mother to step up and take the son so that you two can have some alone time.

I know it has to be overwhelming and stressful for you. Just pray on it sis, you will be fine and we are here for you...
Just my opinion. I hope I didn't offend you.

CONGRATS....CONGRATS im super happy for you guys...

we got that interview in the bag..(me being positive)



Yes yall do Lady! :)

KJ--How you nah gonna tell me in the texts??? I was all planning on getting you some passion fruit barcardi (or whatever you said you liked) but now it looks like you will be eating for 2 and hubby drinking for 2.. lol. CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sooo happy for you. When are you do? Twins??? Wow what is it with these yardie men? I wouldn't mind twins though. Congrats again!!!!!

Hey everyone!! Getting ready to celebrate hubby's birthday! I have to say although there are a lot of downsides to working the worst is being away from him. Hope this "honeymoon phase" never ends.


Oh and LMAO at Finesse! Happy Humping got you those beautiful likkle girls.



Happy Birthday Vaughn Kinsley! (L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 08:32:00
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Hi everyone, it's been a looong time since I been up in here and I'm excited to be back.I really had to take some time off and take care of myself and I guess the de-stressing techniques worked perfectfly because me and hubby are expecting our first baby and we are super excited!! :dance: :dance: :dance: :yes: :yes: :yes:
I have to say I love the new name, very welcoming!
C, sorry that you have an interview, but you'll do great!!
Lata y'all and take care.
Plz don't say anything on facebook, I', waiting for the perfect time to tell someone.


I KNEW IT!!!!! I JUST FELT IT!!! Yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy Congrats.. umm, I wanna come to the baby shower, be the Godmother and all that good stuff! I will babysit too! LOL :yes:

JQ DON'T jinx me! It's funny you say that because that's exactly what the doctor thinks, that I'm having twins. But as the weeks go by she'll be doing some testing to find out.



Two for one... dayum these yardie men got some strong swimmers LOL... Hubby said to me the other day, I swear I got you pregnant :no: I said "oh no you didn't" LOL
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-30 08:20:00
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Hi everyone whats up!!!

I read back a bit...I will be staying tune for Always DNA also, lol .. But another note I agree with the advice that you got.

Tee, well thank God you dont have to an interview, but to their error you had to take time out of your day to go in on info pass and get the correct info.

Well we still have not put in for our AOS, we trying to hustle the money together, and the date on his i94 done pass..hmmmppppp so that is my only stress right now all other bills can wait.

What else up with you guys.



Anyone pictures form matt and kaci yet ??


Gurl you are okay with the AOS. Just try to do it as soon as you can though. The up side of taking time off was being able to have lunch with hubby so it was nice just the same! Thank you :)

HI JQ!!!! Hope you are staying cool out there in that heat!


Dillon I miss you so much. You are next on my link up list :)

Always mi gyal hope you are doing good mi sista!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-28 13:39:00
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Good morning.. I hope everyone had a good weekend and an even better week!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-27 09:26:00
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Miss, all I can say is talk this over calmly with husband and let him know how you feel. It is important that you find peace so you can heal properly. Im sorry you are going through all this. (F)

Also prayers go out all my visa journey families who may be going through their own trials and tribulations. This is not easy at all. We have made choices we have to live with. For those of you who need a "time-out" I say take it because you need to maintain some sanity so that you can be productive in your marriages and relationships, even those with the children. We have to keep in mind the children most importantly didn't sign up for any of this, so we have to be responsible nurturing adults. (Can you tell Im an advocate for the chilrens? lol) Anyway, take care of yourselves honestly!

Sometimes, I step outside of my marriage, in thought. I think about where Im at, where I could be and where I am going, hen it comes to my marriage. I realize how blessed I am to have minor problems, not major ones. Truly, my husband has been a God-send. I could be worse off. I am humbled by my marriage honestly.

Hubby (L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-26 12:09:00
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We sure are having our Orlando October Yardie Link Up. You coming? have all your friends meet in Orlando. There are lots of fun things going on like Halloween Horror nights or Mickey's Not So Scary Party at Disney. People drive from all of the state to come to those so maybe your friends would too. Don't you just love how I'm trying to get EVERYONE to Orlando.




Tee- #######..I'm glad you're back on the right track, but what fool told you that you had to have an interview? This system is sooo messed up. For the money they charge us you would think they could hire people to run things smoothly. It really likes like something is going on that all of you guys are having to wait. I wonder if they are changing to a new system, laid people off, or what? Either way I didn't see them offering any discounts so they need to get on it. Atleast you know you are still at CSC and an interview isn't scheduled. I have know you guys would breeze through the interview, but it's just a hassle of getting your paperwork together and having to convince a stranger that you are in a real love mariage.

ALWAYS- I wanted to comment earlier but I couldn't log in. I agree with a lot of what the ladies said and am soo thankful we have each other on here. I just wanted to add that Odean needs to realzie how very important it is that he always answer to you, with you being so pregnant. What if God forbid you were calling because you were at the hospital. I'm not trying to scare you and I'm sure you will have a smooth healthy pregnancy, but not answering to your pregnant wife is unacceptable. Should always answer to your spouse any ways, but especially when they are pregnant. If he is indeed telling the truth about the job interview then I can see how maybe he wanted to just surprise you. Maybe he felt pressure if he told you and then had to say he didn't get it. Still he needed to have said some reason he wouldn't be able to answer during that time so you aren't just left wondering what he is up to. Not knowing is the wrost, which brings me to your DNA decision. I can totally see the viewpoint of those who think you shouldn't have gone behind his back, but to be honest I would have to know too. I'm not saying it's right, but I can understand how you need to know for your own mental sanity. When you do have to approach him with it I would just tell him that you needed to know for the baby because if this other child is his then it's always good down the road to know who is a relative , again for medical reasons that hopefully would never come up, but just incase. If it is his are you just going to keep your mouth shut? Or are you going to tell him either way? If it's his then I don't see the point in admitting to him that you went behind his back, but thats just me and you may have a very good reason to want to tell hime wither way. No matter what take it easy!! Hope to see you next month!

Well, I'm getting ready to go and check out some hotels for KJ. Sooo excited!!

HAPPY WEDDING DAY TO MATT AND KACI!!! I know they both must be sooooo excited!!

Have a great weekend!!


You know Brooke ughhhhhhhhhhh - I will be booking ours this week :)

Happy Wedding Day to Matt and Kaci (L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-25 21:09:00
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Good morning...

We went to our infopass appointment and the officer said they gave us the wrong information and she apologize profusely. She said that since our case is still at CSC and has NOT been transferred to the local office, we will NOT have an interview. She advise us to continue to wait. She said it could take up to one year to receive the card. Because our case was last touched on 9/9 they are actively working on the case.

So I guess we will just continue to wait :(

Good luck to those of us still waiting....(F)


MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-25 07:10:00
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MrsTee- I hear you and I know what you are saying I agree to but this has been a hard pregnancy for me as I been sick for the first 6mnths of it and I know my hormones are out of wack and I just feel like I am second to everything in his life lately, I by no means will tolerate that as I do not deserve it nor does anyone else. I told him from the time we met I do not tolerate nonsense and as of late he is full of it. This man became my best friend we talked about everything and anything time after time,and now he is just being foolish at times. I love myself too much to sit back and take the #######. I understand he is home sick as I can imagine how I would feel if I left eveything behind as well and moved elsewhere, I also bend over backwards for this man and in return I feel like he does not have his priority straight his first priority seems to be friends(so called)

The Dna well I have mixed feelings about it as well as I also agree about a man wanting to take responsibilty but I also see the way this child mother has disrespected just about everyone that is in contact with him and constantly disrespects Odean as well. Once again I am not tolerating that. I also know 110% that I am carrying his child and I want to know (maybe my own selfishness) if this is truly my daughter's brother and if he is going to be supporting this child that indeed it is his and not being taken for a fool.`

Yes mam we will talk .. :)



I hear you and I just want you to have a healthy happy pregnancy :)

I am glad you didn't take that the wrong way, Always - it's a hard thing to write and not offend, when it's such a sensitive topic - Plus, I am still in complete claaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaat mode today, lol so my sensitivity skills are numb!

I understand your frustration, and hope things work out for the best -

On another note, I just want to say how much I appreciate the friendships that have been founded here - I had a situation yesterday with DJ where I got a call from a random person that he was in the hospital, I couldn't get in touch with family or trusted people that I know, didn't know what was going on - And I had yardies pouring out of the woodwork offering to send family, friends, or themselves to the hospital to find out for me. It was overwhelming, and made me truly appreciate the gift that this journey has given all of us - in addition to our spouses / SO (although at the moment, I am wondering if mine is a gift or a curse, lol!)



I agree with you... You guys are truly amazing :) Well said Sus!
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-24 21:05:00
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Oh and JAP-Congrats cute picture


Gosh! C, TEE and DW I am so sorry to hear of the nosense this stupid Gov. is putting you all through my God they took the money fast but dont want to act fast they all need a Fin slap



:angry: Exactly my point. He got everything else but that... what the ????? :angry:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-24 10:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

First, I want say good morning and Happy Friday to everyone hope you all have a exciting safe weekend planned.
Second,I need to vent! Ok I do not know if its my hormones or if I am just tired of Fuckery! However, last night I about exploded on Odean, I even threw divorce papers at him and told him to sign them cause I am done! Here is what happened. I work from 8Am -4Pm Monday thru Friday currently his #### is not working (fine we are dealing with that) I am seven months pregnant and feel like I have the world on my shoulders. I have too Disabled parents that live in Northern Florida and are having their own issues. More then anything I needed my husband yesterday just to listen to me, hear me cry get his advise whatever. However this was not the case. I called several time yesterday and his dumb behind did not answer the phone each time I called. He calls me back at one point to tell me he is going up the road to his friend and he will call me back shortly (that didn't happen) so next I called around 2:30 no answer again around 3 no answer around 4 no answer now when I was calling at these time I wanted to discuss some things and find out if he cooked cause if he hadn't I was stopping to pick up food. Finally about 4:45 I get a call back after I texted him and said what happen you dont know how to work a cell phone or is it just as I am calling? He starts running his mouth at me how dare I send him a text like that blah blah blah he was in a job interview (well that would have been a good thing to tell me don't you all think? and who has a interview that last over 3hrs Bullshit) Anyway I stopped prior to get food and I even got his dumb #### a plate. 5:55 he calls I am just checking on you (I am taking a nap at this point) I said ok I soon come I am just going up the street with Gulla(his friend) 8:30 comes he still not home , I call no answer of course 8:45 He calls back me soon come baby. 9:30 still not there I call hallejeuh he answered the phone first time for the day I said you plann on coming home this evening??? HEHEHE yes baby me soon come. I said where you coming from I said me soon come, I heard you where are you coming from ME SAY ME SOON COME! I said FU and hung up on him. Then I decided I am going to Walmart and changing the locks if he wasnt home by 10. He pulls up in the car with his boy and I said since you are so important to my husband why dont you take him with you cause I currently am not that important this evening . His friend say calm down WAIT he has some good news look at the paper in his hand I said FU and the papers in his hand and walked away. This point Odean come in the house, I am so pissed I want to cut him up and send him back to Jamaica. He wont say a word to me and I keep running off at the mouth, finally that is where I told him to sign the papers and go on his merry little way let his boys support him since they are the ones that always help him out so much and checked for him while he was in JA and all. He refused to sign and left them there. (thank God in a way cause I do love the hell out of this man) but anyway He choose to sleep on the coach and since I couldnt sleep i made so much noise and was turning lights off and on just to get under his skin (yes I know its childish but I wanted to do much more)Anyway about 1:30 he came in the room and came to bed . This morning I get up and get ready for work low and behold guess who gets up not much later after WOW! I almost fell over cause mister sleeps until 11:00 or 12:00 (must be nice right)he asked me for the direction for this place he had to take a test for his job. I politely responded the direction however I had it in me to tell him to call his friend since he was much more important. (I was a good girl and kept my mouth closed for a change).

So that is one. Now the next fight I am sure will come in a few more days. As some of you know he has a so called baby momma that I do not believe the child is his and frankly STUPID is the only one that thinks it is his child. So last week I had about enough of the foolishness from the idiot of a mother the kid has (to be polite) and decided I am doing a DNA at home so I took Odeans tooth brush and I swabbed the kids mouth and I sent it off I should be getting the results next week sometime. I had asked him to do the DNA prior he told me no then I asked again and still told me no, I told him dont be suprise cause I will. He told my mom he would and then he told me no so I did what I had to do. If it is his kid I shut my mouth from this point on if its not well then he has a decision to make.

Ok done for now. Maybe this will bring a little more conversation to the board

Miss-Glad to hear it the surgery went well praying for a fast recovery for you.
MrsTEE- dont worry yourself about the interview it will be fine



Always, first and foremost, please take it easy. You are carrying a life inside you and we want you and the baby to both be healthy. I pray that your parents are okay too and can find relief.

Secondly, I understand where you are coming from with the phone calling. Just try to understand that he is still trying to adjust too and get used to the fact that he is going to be a fadda again. Im going to call you and we will talk mi sista.

Not too sure if you did the right thing with the DNA thing sis. If he kept saying no, im sure his reasoning was valid. Some men don't care if the child is not biologically theirs. They just want to take care of the child, which I find admirable. I see your point of view too why should he keep taking care of a child who may not be his...

Just try to stay calm no matter how much things tick you off. We will talk sis. (L)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-24 10:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Morning all...

Im feeling like MrsTee today. We called USCIS yesterday and was being told that I cant do a service request until we are 30 days outside of normal processing time. I have to call them back after October 15. #######. She also mentioned that "All Family Based AOS requires and Interview". We were transferred to CSC on 3/9, Then on 9/14 we wer transefferd to NBC then 2 damn days later we were "Sent to a USCIS office for processing". I just want this to be over. I will be sending a letter to my Senator today and I will also put in for an infopass. Can you say SUPER PISSED OFF



Well today is the day.. I will post our findings when we get back from the infopass appointment... See how they tell you one thing and me something different? :angry: And poor DW's was even worse..they basically calling her a liar and saying that they mailed her freakin card and she never did a change of address....
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-24 10:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

i nearly fell on the floor laughing when you said the letter would be full of claht's. lmao . Seriously my husband and I had an interview and it was because the doc hadnt put on the forms he filled out something i had mentioned in my first medical, even though i told him. sometimes its just an adminstrative box to tick. Dont go Jamiban (jamaican+taliban) on them. lol.

thanks for every one of your well wishes and prayers, I thought it was so sweet. apparently my achilles tendon was completley shredded and it was an injury that had cumulated over years, so when i do start walking again i might find that side a bit short. just call me peg leg P. lol

the pain lasted most of last night and early today, its seems to have gone, so i'm real happy about that.I got the vicodin right hurr however. got my first bill from the hospital yesterday.. guess how much for>>>>>>>>>?????>>>>>>> $25 dollars!! I know more is coming but God is good huh.

xx

Yes God is good and Im glad you are healing....
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-24 10:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Im going to schedule an infopass appt.



Done Friday @ 2:30 fukkas ugggh
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 14:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1
Im going to schedule an infopass appt.


MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 14:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Glad it came out that way - and I would offer to help you with the letter, but right now it would come out full of rassclaaat suck yuh mudda batti boi......... probably not helpful!

That attitude is exactly the one to have -



Gurl LOL its okay thats how Im feeling too but Imma do it right... keep my feelings in check...

I hope your day gets better though... You just don't feel like folks bothering you when you are mad at the world. Everything everyone says to you is gonna sound wrong to you.... Cheer up!!!(F)

Thanks for the advice too :)
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 13:16:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardie Party!!! Come as you are - Part 1

Welcome to the efficiency of the US government - they'll gladly take your money for anything!

Honestly, I think that you might have gotten flagged for a stokes interview because of the age difference - It seems to be an indicator, from what I have seen, of marriages where they think it's fraud - Because they seem to find it impossible to believe that a young man could fall in love with an older woman - especially a man coming from Jamaica, a known fraud country -

Just go in there, hold your heads high, and make them look like fools by showing them the strength of your bond.


And if that came out wrong, I am sorry, not in any way trying to judge or infer anything, I just think that might be why you got an interview scheduled, as ridiculous as it is - but I am in the FOULEST mood today that I have been in in a long time, and am having a hard time with wording things -


No worries.. it came out just the way I needed to hear it. What kills me is that they already held us up in the NVC period for this I believe, I never really heard of anyone having an interview after it was transferred to CSC..... I m going to write a letter. I just think because their system wouldn't allow them to put a service request in, they just screamed interview.

If in fact we do have an interview best believe Im going with all barrels loaded. We have TONS of evidence proving the validity of our marriage!!! They need to be worried about me..not the other way around :angry:
MRSteeFemaleJamaica2010-09-22 12:48:00