Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Visitor visa for mother/mother-in-law	It is possible out of the 6 nigerian citizens I invited to my wedding 4 were approved 1 did not keep appointment at embassy and 1 was denied. They all showed strong ties to the country (meaning job or land) and I also filled out I-864 support documents for all (knowing it was not required). So be prepared tp fully except responsibility in every way and make sure she / they have strong ties and a valid reason for visiting and clearly identified plan / rational to return home.. Edited by We_Destiny, 17 June 2009 - 09:31 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-06-17 21:27:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Freetown Embassy, K-1 Visa Approved !!	Congrats	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-07-01 16:29:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Being real about marriage!!!	Just the day to day adjustments are overwhelming and wonderful at the same time, and we have been much to busy to have any outside interference by people. However, I appreciate all of the wisdom / information that is being shared. Thank you all,	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2007-12-21 22:30:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Dealing with family drama	My mother always told me "keep small arguments and disagreements with your spouse away from your family members and close friends", she always says "once you have forgiven, made up and moved on the people that are close to you usually still hold on to the anger". It is like how your friends and family usually can sympathize with their loved ones side of an argument without knowing both sides of the story (loyalty).	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-03-25 12:50:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Traveling to Nigeria	He will be able to travel to Nigeria with his Senegal passport or his ECOWAS passport, persons from 15 West African countries do not need visas to travel between countries. He just needs to keep his Senegal or ECOWAS passport current while in the states. http://www.comm.ecow...i...ber&lang=en Hope this helps?	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-12-08 02:30:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Thank God! Visa approved in Lagos.	congrats	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-12-17 13:24:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Recipes	QUOTE (Bassi and Zainab @ Jan 30 2008, 07:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (We_Destiny @ Jan 29 2008, 11:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am scheduled to travel to Ghana in February, and all I can think about is bringing home Fan-Choco and Digestive biscuits (a case of the 2 packs) from Makola Market. Ohh yeah, my Wedding Dress is being made by Evelyn in Accra. Please give Bassi a kiss for me. Oooh Zainab You have been sulking / crying for about three days now. If you keep it up you're going to make me cry. I know,,,, I know the in-betweens (NVC to the embassy giving a date) is an extremely difficult time period similar to being in limbo . Your mood will change as soon as you guys are assigned an interview date ; you will be able to breathe again , normalize and become your cheerful self again. I am praying everyday for your interview date.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-01-30 15:31:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Recipes	QUOTE (knl @ Jan 29 2008, 09:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (We_Destiny @ Jan 28 2008, 05:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Every time I hear Kenkey, I remeber this little old lady walking pass my office in the Osu, North Labone area, you could hear her echos coming from far "KeeenKeeeey, keeenkeeeey" over and over again. When her voice would get close I would always run out side. Because, I knew the guying with the cooler was on her heals selling my favorite "fan-choco" in the brown and yellow bag. Now I'm about to get upset,,, I'm having fan-choco witdrawls. oh you make me want some milk. i love fan milk!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the chocolate one, yes the one in the brown and yellow bag. Someone needs to sell it here, I love it soooo much. I carry a case in my luggage when I return from Africa. The pitiful thing is the first few weeks I eat them like crazy, but, when I get down to the last few, I act like there gold bullion. I am scheduled to travel to Ghana in February, and all I can think about is bringing home Fan-Choco and Digestive biscuits (a case of the 2 packs) from Makola Market. Ohh yeah, my Wedding Dress is being made by Evelyn in Accra.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-01-29 23:31:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Recipes	Every time I hear Kenkey, I remeber this little old lady walking pass my office in the Osu, North Labone area, you could hear her echos coming from far "KeeenKeeeey, keeenkeeeey" over and over again. When her voice would get close I would always run out side. Because, I knew the guying with the cooler was on her heals selling my favorite "fan-choco" in the brown and yellow bag. Now I'm about to get upset,,, I'm having fan-choco witdrawls.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-01-28 17:28:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	kelly khumalo- qinisela Oliver Mtukudzi - Dzoka Uyamwe	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-21 10:14:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	Sorry I am on some personal skit with the music now. I taught 7th grade at a school named Vulindela, in Empangeni, South Africa. I still remember all of my little babies names the second song is for them. This is my favorite (Nigerian) Igbo song Chief Stephen Osita - Onigbo I wish I could share my music with you, Well I can ..... Brenda Fassie - Vulindela Edited by We_Destiny, 21 March 2008 - 12:57 AM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-21 00:55:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	Omoba bringing back sooo many memories....love this topic Kwadelangezwa, South Africa - University of Zululand all the bashes the music the memories. I will never forget, I was driving at 3am on the dark roads in South Africa with 4 cars following me, all of a sudden I hit this great big pothole and ended up with 2 flat tires and only one spare. We were coming from an outside bash (party) and there was plenty of drink in the boots (trunks). No we did not all pull over stop 3 more cars, ended up being like 30 people pulled over on the side of the road blasting music and having a good time until daylight. Trompies - Zodwa Malaika - Destiny Edited by We_Destiny, 21 March 2008 - 12:11 AM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-21 00:08:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	Omoba we were both doing the same song at the same time WOW, one of my favorites. Sorry for the repeat	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-20 23:48:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	Everytime I hear this song I remember Kings in the middle of the dance floor, dancing for me.. 2 Face - See me so Edited by We_Destiny, 20 March 2008 - 11:43 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-20 23:41:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	2 Face - Ocho is one of our favs.... Edited by We_Destiny, 20 March 2008 - 11:38 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-20 23:35:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Post your favorite Youtube	oops!! Edited by We_Destiny, 20 March 2008 - 11:29 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-03-20 23:25:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Lovin Liberia's Interview	CONGRATS	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2007-08-14 21:22:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Hey Subbies I hope everyone is doing well! Removal of Conditions APPROVED.... No more USCIS for a while......YAY Stay Blessed	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2010-07-22 12:04:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Hello Subbies. I Hope everyone is well Just checking in while preparing documents for removal of conditions. Good luck and best wishes to all. Edited by We_Destiny, 22 February 2010 - 09:32 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2010-02-22 21:30:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Boaz CONGRATS to you and your husband. God is good all of the time.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-12-18 11:49:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	QUOTE (MrsJibowu @ Nov 10 2009, 08:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good mornig Sub. Sorry I have not been around. I wanted to wait until I posted my story. Remember God is good and faithfull. All the time. Read My Story Here Beautiful! You go Charles.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-11-12 18:55:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	CONGRATS April 13 is a great day .... Ben and I have the same birthday QUOTE (charles! @ Apr 14 2009, 12:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> good morning/afternoon. baby arrived yesterday morning, i was at the hospital all day. today i'm at work and involved in training so unable to post much. baby was 7 pounds 11 ounces, 18.5" long. both baby and mom are doing fine. and he's a cutie too!	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-04-15 02:28:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Married filling jointly first time CONGRATS QUOTE (Zee Bee @ Apr 1 2009, 08:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Morning! Sending in my taxes today	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-04-01 17:35:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Mar 31 2009, 10:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I had myself convinced it was Saturday - for about 5 minutes. I thought the same thing when I woke up and pressed the snooze button. Then it dawned on me and I pressed the snooze again Edited by We_Destiny, 31 March 2009 - 02:27 PM.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-03-31 14:25:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	CONGRATS UNO QUOTE (UNO... @ Mar 23 2009, 10:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Whewww , where do I start....okay, lemme say this, GOOD Morning Subberzzzz!!!!!! Now we get down to the good part, my DIVORCE IS FINAL I am so through with that evil, vile, desperately disgusting, irritatingly immature, selfishly leeching, nasty little butt plug of a man!!! I am dancing a backwards jigg with a two step {twerk it UNO, its ya' birthday, get busy}! {c'mon, lemme see you 1,2 step!!} now break it down I have been delivered from the "bowels of hell!" I am no longer in the "lions den!" Pharoah has set his people free! There is a ram in the bush!! Every yolk has been broken! Free at last, thanx Gawd almightee! I'IIs free at last! I am seeing the promised land, there is life after death, ohh, how I taste and see that My God is GOOD!!!!!! Look all y'all, I'm dancing like DAVID did Now for those that don't understand my JOY, you have to walk, {mmmmnope, don't wanna torcher you like that} run through a mile in my shoes and then you will understand MY JOY and MY PEACE and hopefully you can celebrate with me. those of y'all that went through this with me in front and behind the scenes. And God bless the rest. UNO p.s. the sad part of it all is, he don't believe that we are divorced since he did not participate in the process; but its all good. annnnd........... I aint sending him confirmation of NUTHIN!!	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-03-23 11:51:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	I'm so very sorry QUOTE (MrsJibowu @ Mar 20 2009, 05:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good morning! I have bad news to share. I lost the baby two days ago. I have been accepting the situation and working towards getting healthy for the next try.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-03-20 18:00:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Sorry to hear of you grandmothers condition. Just to let you know that my grandfather had a stroke at the age of 97 and the hospital recommeded him for physical therapy. He was never able to walk again on his on, but, he was able to stand and give assistance when they moved him around. So, it is possible for an elderly patient to receive rehab, there goal is usually not full recovery of the limbs but to continue with a better quality of life. My prayers to you and your family. QUOTE (Perseverance @ Mar 10 2009, 11:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I was also very ill this weekend with a lovely stomach virus. I received some more bad news about my Grandmother, the cancer has riddled her body, she was sitting down last night and her femur bone (that is the large bone located in your thigh) snapped as she was sitting. She is in the hospital, she has told my mothers cousin that she does not want any of us to come, not me, not my sister, not my mum, not anyone. She is going to have surgery to stabilize her leg with a rod and some pins, she is talking about rehab for her leg, I do not see that as a reality, she is 88 years old, she has hidden this cancer for quite sometime. My Uncle is in Iraq, he does not know yet, my mum, has been having trouble getting a hold of him. My mum says she wants to die alone. My husband keeps asking why we arent going up to see her.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-03-16 10:49:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	Hey LL I have been lurking trying to catch up on all of the drama. Thanks for the welcome.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-01-19 23:00:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	Sub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3	QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Jan 19 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (boo boo @ Jan 19 2009, 06:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Like I said the committee makes all the decisions Ok if that's what you want to believe that it's your choice. All I have to say, is that your case is pretty sad. If you are trying to start an insightful debate your timing is off. Let people have their moment without trying to step on it . you have atleast 4 years to complain about President Obama You are exhibiting hostility and poor form !!	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2009-01-19 22:35:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan	You know you're Husband is African when.......	You know your husband is African: When he calls a chicken thigh (the lap) and a chicken with (the hand) When he cleans the floor with a rag instead of using the mop	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2012-09-19 15:42:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	FINALLY APPROVED	CONGRATS	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-08-01 13:54:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	Visa In Hand!!!!	Congradulations	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2007-01-19 09:24:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	WE GOT IT!	CONGRATS	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2007-04-13 10:38:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	How does my fiance request a police record from the UK?	My SO signed a power of attorney form and sent me a copy of his ID and I included a copy of his passport, I also included a copy of my ID and had a friend purchase a money order in London for 10 pounds. I sent all the forms and the payment to the Metro Police in the area he last resided inm and I am awaiting the report. We know the mail in Nigeria is much slower than US, and we felt more comfortable with the Police Certificate coming to me	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2007-04-17 23:30:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussion	Yes!!!!!!!!	CONGRATS	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-01-30 07:55:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	Interview Date Scheduled!!	You probably would get more input on Nigeria related issues, if you posted in the sub-Saharan forum. People there will better asist you, as Nigeria has a set of conditions that might not be applicable outside of West Africa. Another thing is they will support you throughout your journey; but, like siblings there will time to time be some small spats and misunderstandings, but we will always get through them. However, they will have your back even through the citizen ship process. For instance this post in the citizenship forum; you have not gotten to this point, your SO recently picked up his interview appointment. He needs to be approved arrive to US apply for AOS and then wait three years for this forum to become applicable. I would advice not to double post but to post embassy specific questions in the applicable forum, they, we can better assist you through your journey, if we don't have to seek out your post (threads). By the way good Luck on your interview, but again sub-Saharan can better assist Nigeria specific issues.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2008-08-08 23:55:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 July 2012 Filers	Thanks We received it the same day about an hour after interview. Congratulations! Btw, did you get your oath letter at the conclusion of the interview? Or was it sent to you in mail later? If later, then how long after the interview did you get one?	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2012-12-06 01:13:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 July 2012 Filers	Please update status to U.S. Citizen We have completed the Process and I am happy to say Goodbye USCIS On another note: I just checked our status online and it still says testing and interview....we have Naturalization in hand. Go figure USCIS is the last to know and or update the online system.	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2012-12-04 00:16:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 July 2012 Filers	Please update Chicago Office Interview 11/28/12 PASSED Oath Ceremony 12/03/12	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2012-11-29 00:45:00
US Citizenship General Discussion	N-400 July 2012 Filers	Please update: Interview Letter Received 10/18/12 Interview Date 11/28/12 Chicago office is finally moving	We_Destiny	Female	Nigeria	2012-10-29 12:58:00