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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Dec 3 2008, 01:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Before I seem all rude and forget,

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ISLANDWOMAN!! Hope it's a great one and new YOU year ahead!


Thank you!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:58:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Dec 3 2008, 01:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
energy.gif Has everyone put of their christmas trees?

I'm still looking for black ornaments. I'm trying to do a black silver and red tree this year.


yes.gif I do, I do. We cut ours down the Saturday after t-day. I'm hoping it isn't dead by x-mas!!

Black and red - pretty. I have no color scheme - just whatever the kids make in school!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:57:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 3 2008, 01:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>


Happy Birthday, Island! I meant to do this this am, but forgot, sorry!



Awww..thanks Sus. heart.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:54:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 3 2008, 01:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I know that for myself - when I was 21 and first went to a step show with my girlfriends - I was very uncomfortable at first - and some women were nasty to me - Why was I uncomfortable? Because there were thousands of people there and I stuck out like Casper the friendly ghost! It wasn't anything to do with being intimidated by the other women, etc... it had to do with feeling out of place - and women were nasty to me that I was there to "steal their men" = Please! I was there because my best friend's bf stepped, and they asked me to come - nothing more. After a while, I was comfortable - because my friends treated me just like they always had - I was the one who had felt different, not them -


Sus - my son LOVES step shows!! I'm always hoping to find one around here to take him. Only one I know of his the competition in April in NC.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:51:00
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QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Dec 3 2008, 01:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Claire!! I have been doing weightwatchers and hitting the gym. I have lost about 16 lbs in 7 weeks. not as much as I want..but not bad at all.

Island- I didnt know it was your bday!!


Congrats Shrewie!! That's good - losing it slowly is the healthy way of doing it.

Yup, it is. I'm 29 - again. laughing.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:48:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 3 2008, 01:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well ladies i just booked a reservation for Silver Seas resort in Ochi, much asi didnt want to!!!! it is as budget as one can get so lets hope i dont leave with MRSA or malaria or dengue......lol

anyone know anything about it, is it a roach motel


I stayed there in '06. It's budget but I loved it!! The view is beautiful, staff was wonderful and friendly, pool and grounds were clean, had good hot water. I'll e-mail you some photos - pm me your address.

But I also sleep in a tent on a air mattress with mosquitos for family vacations so maybe that's just my opinion.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:43:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Dec 3 2008, 01:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just received this from a friend. It brought a smile to my face and hope it will do the same for you

Cherokee Legend...


Nice!!! Thanks for sharing Wakey.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:40:00
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QUOTE (clairern @ Dec 3 2008, 01:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Islandwoman--Happy birthday to you. What plans do you have to celebrate?


Thank you Claire!! As for plans, I'm going to be working on painting my bathroom.... headbonk.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:36:00
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QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Dec 3 2008, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey guys!
All you women of faith and prayer warriors, please keep me in your thoughts.
It is so hard for me to read threads and everyone else that applied at the same time as me have their SO home a long time ago..or they are getting ready for them to come home this month. I am so happy for everyone, but sometimes I get really discouraged!

How is everyone today?



Oh Shrewie...((((((hugs))))) this is a hard time of year to be apart. heart.gif I have decided I'm skipping our office x-mas dinner. I will be the only one there without a spouse/SO (can we saw AWKWARD), so I decided to just bag it and work instead.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 14:34:00
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QUOTE (Ryon4life @ Dec 3 2008, 11:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Awakening - that is funny b/c the same thing happen to me! rofl.gif rofl.gif


Love the new pic Ryon!! Daymn that tv is old - lol.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 11:27:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Dec 3 2008, 10:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I wore some wide leg cuffed pants to work today. I just went outside for a quick second and FELL!! My high heel was caught in the cuff. My knees, hips, and hands are stinging now from the fall.

Enjoy the laugh!


Awww..Wakey, that's not funny....take some Tylenol or Advil cuz your knees are gonna be sore in a bit. (((Hugs)))



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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Dec 3 2008, 10:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I wore some wide leg cuffed pants to work today. I just went outside for a quick second and FELL!! My high heel was caught in the cuff. My knees, hips, and hands are stinging now from the fall.

Enjoy the laugh!



Ouch Wakey!! I can top you and return the favor though - I had on wide leg pants one day that have an elastic waist - I rolled my chair back from my desk and stood up - I had caught the leg of my pants under the wheel and pulled them right down to my ankles!


Now that I laughed at!!!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 11:03:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Dec 3 2008, 10:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LMAO...my question is why would you want to wear a 100 year old belt? Is it even in style now? AND LMAO...why in the H is it giving you a wedgie? LOL at the image. Let go of that stress...stress can kill!


I was thinking about this same thing the other day. I'm good about cleaning out my closet yearly and giving stuff to the mission, but it hit me the other day that I should clean out my belts cuz Lord knows I'm not wearing most of them anymore!!


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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Dec 3 2008, 10:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....


LOL - Once I get through school I am heading down - they make great Christmas gifts! whistling.gif


Let me know when you go - I will meet up with you. Get better deals when you shop in bulk - lol!!


I am thinking about trying to do it the 13th - wanna plan to meet up?


I could do it on the 14th - I'm sure I will have to work on the night of the 13th.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 10:54:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 3 2008, 10:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Dec 3 2008, 10:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....


LOL - Once I get through school I am heading down - they make great Christmas gifts! whistling.gif


Let me know when you go - I will meet up with you. Get better deals when you shop in bulk - lol!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 10:51:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 3 2008, 10:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (momto2 @ Dec 3 2008, 09:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning Ladies! I have a question Im goin to NYC this weekend for one day...does anyone have any suggestion on where I should eat, go or do? Mind u this is a very budget trip. The bus drops u off in time square at 9am and picks u back up at 9pm. It was designed for a shoppin trip but now that I have no job Im not able to do lots of shopping. Thanks

From Times Square you should take the N,Q,R, or W trains downtown to Canal Street. It will be the 3rd stop on the N or Q and the 7th stop on the R or W.

Walk down the street and listen for the men whispering - purses, purses, purses,.... Gucci, Chanel, Prada,......


LMAO!!! Sus - she naw have money to shop for hot purses.....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 10:44:00
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Dec 3 2008, 10:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning ladies, yes I am back in the states. We cried all day yesterday, so today at work I look loke a truck hads hit me. But my co-workers are saying I look great. I just got back last night and today i am sitting here in my office at work.


Welcome back Roxie. Glad you had a good trip and made it back safe. On the upside - I bet it was great to see your daughter.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 10:19:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 3 2008, 09:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island....LMAO


You know i like you, i think your a sweetheart... honeslty i would hope no one would think that i of all people who 95% of the time is being silly, would be that shallow that i would postpone a trip to another country just over SEX... LMAO.. i find that utterly crazy. I have been on VJ for months and everyone should know that i love my SO, the frustration has come from the behind the scenes drama, the things that have been said and the way in which i think things should be handled, but that much i owned up too, is that it isnt my situation to handle and no matter how mad i get i cant control the situation. So yeah i am going, because i miss him and love him.

( still shaking my head at the thought)


and for the record, anyone who has the money to fly to another country solely to have sex, please tell me where you work cause i need an application...LOL


I didn't get worked up over the sex part - that came from others at later posts. I just don't want to see you not go....these trips are so important, no matter how much they kill our budgets and make up eat Ramen noodles....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 09:56:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 3 2008, 09:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning ladies,

Finally got some juice back in my battery, Anyhoo i stand by what i said last night, dont mean that any kind of way, or to be taken out of context. I do intend to go to JA in january cause i know having one of my hissys isnt gonna solve anything, i have nothing against the baby momma dont know her and what was with her was before my time. When i was with my EX, and i tried to date others he acted all kinds of fools and every man that got near me was like dang you need to deal with that. I knew from day one when i talked to D, and asked about his kids that if i was going to be with him that i was accepting all of them. Since i skipped a good chunk of last nights argument/debate/discussion to respond, i might have been missing something directed at me, who knows i dont really feel the need to reply if any of it was negative. I also saw something about stereotypes, dont quite know what that was about, but anyhoo if i wasnt up for the commentary i wouldnt have posted yes.gif

I talked to D, last night and again what i discuss on here is no secret to him, where trying to work on the issues, and that isnt gonna always be easy, but no relationship is.. so yeah i feel im entitled to have my pissy hissy days and my good days and im sure you all will understand. That is what VJ is for right?

Only thing i didnt quite get was were the sex thing came up at ? i remember months ago we could all laugh and joke when off hand comments were made and now they seem to be the basis for spirited debate? who knows, but anyhoo i dont take any of it personally, and i value everyones opinion... sometimes different personalities have a way of making a person see or view things differently.


Morning Honey - Nice to have you back in the computer world again!

I think the sex thing came up because you mentioned that you couldn't get naked and do Mr Nasty in a one room apartment with 3 kids around. The feeling of your post was that you were postponing your trip because D had his kids and you weren't able to be with him freely as you have in the past. Whether that was your intention or not, I think that's how it was read (at least how I took it, which I why I suggested you not cancel cuz you needed the time together - with or without sex).



QUOTE (momto2 @ Dec 3 2008, 09:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning Ladies! I have a question Im goin to NYC this weekend for one day...does anyone have any suggestion on where I should eat, go or do? Mind u this is a very budget trip. The bus drops u off in time square at 9am and picks u back up at 9pm. It was designed for a shoppin trip but now that I have no job Im not able to do lots of shopping. Thanks



I always love to see the shows when I go to NYC. There is a place right in Times Square where you can get discounted tickets or you can go off Broadway and still see fabulous performances.

Other than that, just walking about NYC and poking through the little shops is an experience in itself.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 09:18:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Dec 3 2008, 08:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I can't wait til Christmas....I'm looking forward to the time off.

I'm staying at home this year.



I want Christmas to get here fast and leave. I'm looking forward to 2009.


I'll second that!! I want December over with.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 08:56:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 3 2008, 07:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, my lack of motivation has spread, lol - I have to be at work in 19 minutes, and haven't even showered yet! helpsmilie.gif



Sus - you need a vacation!!

Good luck today to JGAY and hubby!!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 08:32:00
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QUOTE (morantbaygirl @ Dec 2 2008, 11:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Eastbound go to bed!!!!!! Hey MsNelly . I am out see u soon!!!! God bless everyone and may the angels keep u covered while u sleep. Oh Island This is My baby.



Woieee Morant! He is fine, especially when he's smiling blush.gif Shhh....don't tell him I said that.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-03 08:29:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Dec 2 2008, 09:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, today, 3 weeks after the RFE adn we sent in the new passport pictures, we got Andre's new passport. (sigh of relief....) Tomorrow, I am going to start a thread of how we did it for anyone who follows.

He hates it, btw. It's smaller and a maroon color.


Congrats!! Another mountain climbed...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 21:36:00
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QUOTE (jakeswife @ Dec 2 2008, 08:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so i will be home this xmas god willing and i was thinking about being alone at night when my husband is doing the night shift. i usually sleep on the couch when my husband is at work so one night i decided to go to bed and i felt i feel like someone or something was holding me down on the bed. i woke up and felt shills down my spine and went back into to living room. i didn't sleep in the room when my husband did his night shift since. boy i will be living there now so i guess i will have to have the bible or a cross with me when i go to bed. or feel brave like king kong and just take a go at it again. i refuse to not go to my bed because of that 1 experience unsure.gif unsure.gif


I say give it another try.... good.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 21:34:00
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QUOTE (solsoeur @ Dec 2 2008, 08:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I hear you Lita and I know I see plenty of women actin like said stereotype but that has never been me cause my mother raised me right! Therefore I can let the nasty looks and the rude behavior I encounter "roll off me like water down a ducks back" as my mother puts it because I know 1. those people don't know me and 2. that is not who I am. blush.gif


I like that saying....I told A today when something was bothering him to "let it roll off his back quick like me in a cold shower......"
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 21:33:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jawi, your right the funny thing is i read your first post and skipped all the other pages just to respond, your right if D stated what im stating i would totally have an attitude, crazy i know, but the funny thing is im telling him just what im telling you all, i tell him it has nothing to do with the kids and everything to do with not having control of the situation. i have also told him dont apologize to me about the kids being there, my frustration comes purely from the manipulation on BMs part. the other day she managed to get the boys and take them to wherever she was staying but then she dropped them back off and disappeared again for 2 days or she cant watch them but she will send her 16 year old, not by D up to his house to babysit, well where is he the 16 year old staying ???? see its the ####### like that sets me to bytching. So again, i have no issue with you voicing your feelings cause yeah im wrong as hell, i can admit that , just frustrated as hell .

okay gotta find some cables for real or im gonna be sitting in the car on VJ....LOL


Honey, just try to stand back and say "this is not something I can control." Be there to listen to D and support him and his decisions, but don't let it consume you or your relationship. He needs to work this out with BM himself.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:51:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 08:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey ladies, i was just back reading and had to respond, i dont take your posts as harmful or overstepping at all, yeah i know sometimes i can be wrong as hell and i know it and i even tell D that i may be wrong. My issue has never been with the kids at all, just that i feel that right now the issue with the BM is working my nerves, she has resurfaced but only when she wants too. She has made no effort that i am aware of to find someplace to live, and has been from pillar to post, in the mean time D has been taking care of them. I could care less about rooksin hell i was celibate for 2 years, cause i was doing me, not concerned about sexing anyone. i just tend to get frustrated from day to day. Me and D have talked about the kids coming to the States after he is working, i have told him i cannot support a family of 7 or 8 alone, i dont care how they do it in JA. Daycare alone would put me in the poor house. I accept his kids and want to love them like i love my own, i have purchased christmas gifts and the like for all of them. I know im being selfish, selfish as hell, the situation at hand is definitely a test to the relationship. I think whole heartedly that BM knows what she is doing, and hell maybe she just needs a break i mean as a woman we all need that sometime. I guess the issue with me, has been that i get somewhat irritated because he isnt handling the situation like i feel he should that is the controlling side of me, when i have no control over a situation it frustrates the hell outta me. I have had my plane ticket to JA since returning , we had agreed i would stay there, i took the time off from both jobs, no worries Mon. Now here it is around 30 days or so before im to leave, i have no reservations for someplace to stay, cant stay with him and gonna have to pull money out my tail if i want to stay in OChi. I could stay with him but there wouldnt be enough room to fart in the apartment with all of us. He is gonna have to leave for work and im not sure how she is gonna respond to me being there and being with her kids since im farrin and evil. SO believe me, i dont claim to be right, cause i know D has no control over the matter it just pisses me off is all. I know yall love me... SO dont worry sometimes we need to hear things whether we want or not....LOL


Keep in mind that they live different than us - in that you are only inside to sleep. Otherwise you are hanging outside in the yard - so it doesn't matter how big the house is. This will be a big test - but a needed one to see how ya'll mesh for the future. If she thinks you are evil now, there is a good chance that she will put up a fight about the boys coming in the future. (Trust me - we fight that fight at every junction.) This could be the opportunity to build that bridge now.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:45:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 2 2008, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
She is Mummy's boyfriend's Mother in law - he's a widower, but his mother in law still lives with him and he takes care of her.


I had to read that twice to catch that, but what a nice guy he is!! That's the way I am - once you are part of my family, that doesn't change. On ex sister-in-law is still just like my sister (cuz I don't have a real one).
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:36:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Dec 2 2008, 07:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Dec 2 2008, 06:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jaws mi totally agree...so mi nah seh nuttin more


ok..i changed my mind...Honey this is one of the reasons so many women gets pissed at the "farrin" ooman because it just seems as if u only want to have sex and don't give a rats about whatever else that goes on


I have to laugh at you Kimmy. When I read your post bout not saying nuttin, I said "wow, look at Kimmy." But good point.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:31:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 2 2008, 07:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 2 2008, 06:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You or anyone.


I would rather someone write to me what is in their heart and say it in a way that shows that they care - as Jawi did and does - than to bite their tongue and talk about me behind my back. That's what we are here for - to hold each other up when we are down, celebrate together, and kick each other in the azz when we need it - There's a difference between saying something that might seem harsh but is honest and from the heart and saying something to be spiteful and hurtful -


AMEN!!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:28:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Dec 2 2008, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Dec 2 2008, 06:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Jawi...ur a very passionate person...


Honey...u know we are here for you Honeychild...


I'm confused. Is there a hidden message here? True friends tell their friends when they are wrong...they will not always side with their friends just beause...I'm not a hypocrite. If he posted the same thing that Honey posted...half of you would be telling her to get rid of him.

I am true to myself first. People may not like what I have to say...but I believe in being fair and treating everyone with equal respect and truthfulness.


Jawi..I took this as a compliment. I'm glad to have friends like you show me (us) the other side of the coin. Sometimes we get to focused to flip it over ourselves. rose.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:26:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Dec 2 2008, 05:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am doing that this trip - Part of it we are being selfish - the other part is inna yaad - Dealing with an old lady with dementia who walks into the room while we're sleeping, strips naked and takes a sponge bath whistling.gif The things you do for love...


Hey Sus - better when you are sleeping than awake, eh??!! unsure.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 20:22:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Dec 2 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG the first time I tried a thong I didn’t know they come in various sizes and this was the time I did go to VC with the bra incident. My best friend swore by a thong and the attraction you have from men because you feel sexy..yada yada yada.

I wore them things for the first time to work and when I say it felt like someone had a hacksaw cutting me half from the booty up all day! I couldn’t walk by the end of the day.

It took me many years to buy another pair after understanding one size don’t fit all!!



Oh my Wakey!!! That's all I wear - unless I have a micro-mini on. I love them, but the key is getting the right ones. My favs are from Walmart - I buy them in every color.



Me too now.. I love Walmart theirs are soo comfortable you forget you have anything on..



Agree!! Well since I got just about nothing accomplished today...guess I will go home and see what kind of trouble my kids are up to. Lata ladies.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 16:18:00
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QUOTE (Awakening_1 @ Dec 2 2008, 04:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OMG the first time I tried a thong I didn’t know they come in various sizes and this was the time I did go to VC with the bra incident. My best friend swore by a thong and the attraction you have from men because you feel sexy..yada yada yada.

I wore them things for the first time to work and when I say it felt like someone had a hacksaw cutting me half from the booty up all day! I couldn’t walk by the end of the day.

It took me many years to buy another pair after understanding one size don’t fit all!!



Oh my Wakey!!! That's all I wear - unless I have a micro-mini on. I love them, but the key is getting the right ones. My favs are from Walmart - I buy them in every color.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 16:14:00
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QUOTE (morantbaygirl @ Dec 2 2008, 03:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
They didn't HIRE HIM FOR THE GUYS devil.gif .


Yeah - he's that fine???!!! You better post some pics!!

Girl I will post some when I get home tonite!!!! He's a cutie but I won't tell him that his head is as big as A Walmart 24Hr store.



LMAO!!! Sounds like someone told him along the way..... whistling.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:53:00
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QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
alright yall sadly it is time for me to go crying.gif

i have to make my way back to the office and appear to be busy until 5 o clock. I will chat with you all this evening hopefully.

island i will think about it, i really do need the trip but im tired of spending so much, i have never used skyauctions cause im always scared im going to wind up spending more than what i bid for, anyone who has time can you explain it to me, i will be back on later ... LORD willing.


Or you can borrow my tent!! It will fit right inside your suitcase. blush.gif

Seriously, have him hunt down a guest house for you. They are usually around $30-$40. I totally understand about spending the money on a place to stay.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
morant i was in victorias secret the other day with my friend she kept saying they have really cute bras and underwear, i told her Victoria secret cant phock with me i cant fit nothing in here, less i want my circulation cut off or my boobs to look like i have 4 of them at a time. I mean i have had there bras before and every single one the underwire came out so i stick with JC penneys


I had the same problem - they don't like the washing machine. Gotta hand wash those babies.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island i havent seen him since October, how the hell am i gonna run around nekkid with the kids there....LOL

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I feel ya...but if it comes down to not seeing him at all cuz you have to get a hotel, I say go and find the time/place. It's just like every day married life - gotta be creative with the children.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:41:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sus, aint nothing i can do in a one room apartment with him and 3 kids, .....LOL

but stubborn as i am, if i have to spend money on a changing a plane ticket and losing the days from work that i cant change cause they are etched into stone so even if i dont go to JA i would have to either take them off or lose the time.

i dont know what im gonna do, cause lord knows if i dont go in January, D is gonna catch the wrath of my attitude....( i know it aint right but hey its the truth)

or im gonna have to suck it up and get a room and then im still gonna have an attitude


Sure you can Honey.....kids sleep like a log once they go to sleep. I was worried about the same thing when A's cousin stayed with us at the Holiday Inn. I was like we can't do that with her in the room - so he conceded to take me into the bathroom. But then she slept soundly for 3 more hours while I banged around the room getting ready to leave and he had the tv blasting. I was like hmpf.

Don't change your ticket...you guys need this trip. You can do this - it will work out. Maybe you can get a cheap room for a night or two so you get a bit of alone time.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (sus @ Dec 2 2008, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island, that was the plan but when BM decided she wasnt taking care of the kids anymore she dropped all of them off with him, so he is watching the 3 boys they are living with him and there is not enough room for all of us, he is sleeping on the couch as it is.


Honey, you had betta tell that man to push ova on da couch and make room!


I was gonna say go to Walmart and buy those kids an air mattress ($20 for a full size) to sleep on the floor and you guys get the bed back. My kids love it when they "have" to sleep on the floor!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:35:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (morantbaygirl @ Dec 2 2008, 03:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
They didn't HIRE HIM FOR THE GUYS devil.gif .


Yeah - he's that fine???!!! You better post some pics!!

QUOTE (honeychild36 @ Dec 2 2008, 03:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey ladies wha gwaan,


I managed to find a computer to sneak on, i have been sitting around the office since 8 am not doing shyt. They have to replace my work laptop and encrypt it with all this security so i have nothing to do since everything is now electronic. i just happened to find an unattended desktop to use. I am tired as heck, since i havent gotten much sleep lately, im still kind of paranoid, but am planning on getting a home security system installed. I also went and got a tetanus shot from the bite, that i recieved on Thanksgiving, so its been a fun week....LOL


The time is drawing near for me to go to JA in January and still no resolve to where i will stay, im still flat out refusing to stay in a resort, but there seems to be no end to the BM drama...yall pray for me, i dont want to postpone my trip, but i dont want to bite the bullet either and wind up paying to stay somewhere for a week. i have too many other expenses at this present moment.


One thing that i did decide though is that me and d are going to file k3/cr1 (?) we are going to marry in JA. I keep going back and forth with the guides and realized i really really really dont want to do any more paperwork once he gets here for the time being and i want him to have the option to travel back and forth if need be.


Honey - why can't you stay at his house? Is BM staying there too?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 10)
QUOTE (sus @ Dec 2 2008, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So so funny - He must have been trying to Christmas shop! They have some nice lotions there too -


My absolute fav perfume is Heavenly from there. It's like $50 for a bottle. When I went to visit my brother last year I went to the navy store on base and made him buy me a bottle - it was only $20 there!! I told him not to forgot the name of it cuz I would be needing more....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 15:18:00