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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at Home and a Farrin (part 19)
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Sep 25 2009, 08:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sus I need a photo it's one of those days...



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You're on a roll today Sus! kicking.gif rofl.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:34:00
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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Sep 24 2009, 05:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Finesse, I'm putting your questions aside for another day. I have reached my tear allotment for today. Philly's got more Jermaine to post to cheer this thread back up. kicking.gif


Your wish is my command Island Jermaine soon come to sprinkle his Feva pon yuh



Oh boy...Dillon is going to HATE me..

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:31:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Sep 25 2009, 03:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning ladies! Its 3:20am!!! sad.gif my baby is sick AGAIN! This sucks.
She is supposed to go camping tonight with the girlscouts but I cannot send her if she is going to make the other girls sick! Poor kid... she is going to be so mad.

That "Afro Puffs" song - I sang all the time when I was pregnant! I always had dreams that Tierra was going to come out with Afro Puffs (yes poni tail holders and all!! LOL) so that song was Tierra's theme song in my belly !! When she came out so white - I was startled! hahahah!



Ugh again....poor lil babe. On the plus side it's going to be cold for camping tonight!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:28:00
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QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Sep 24 2009, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Shemmy,

You working tomorrow? Maybe you, Lawny and I can do lunch.... Let me know.


Yes, call me tomorrow.

Hope you feel better soon.



Shemmy, we not going near her until she's 100%...even though she sound better...hope she drank the ginger tea



Poor Mich.....just wear your face mask Lawns..
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:27:00
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QUOTE (Mon @ Sep 24 2009, 11:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island Woman Aare you my friend on FB? If not please send me a request.. Monika McMillian


Yes.....talk to you all the time - lol. I sent you a message.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:21:00
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QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Sep 24 2009, 09:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
TL: babes, you knoa mi love yuh long time sista. Having met A made his decision hard for me to swallow. He seemed so sweet and innocent. Sometimes we question why certain things happen in our lives, but the truth of the matter is you did all you could in your relationship. You'll find someone much better simply because you deserve better.


Love you too Mich! luv.gif Feel better soon.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-25 08:19:00
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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Sep 24 2009, 06:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
What's G-20 Da?


Its where 20 Leaders form all over come and meet to discuss world politics are some ish like that. Our city is on lock down because if you want to kill one of the leaders what better way then to hit them now especially when there with others. Our president is hosting it and you know Michelle is looking fierce. That is why I’m off work because police are everywhere we have recruited them from all over because along with the leaders come protestors too. These people are serious child sleeping outdoors and fighting the police.


I saw it on the news after I asked that. That's some shyt!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 19:41:00
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QUOTE (SupportOAFJF @ Sep 24 2009, 09:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I say badger them to get citizenship..God forbid they are in the wrong place at the wrong time and end up i a bad situation...here comes the possibility of deportation..and what are u left with at that point? just think about it guys...


That was always my thought as well Kimmy. I could never understand why they never wanted that extra layer of protection.


Are we still talking about citizenship? laughing.gif


rofl.gif I thought about that after I typed it...but no one said a word.. whistling.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 18:03:00
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QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Sep 24 2009, 06:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
*whew*


I was hoping I was not making things worse!! blush.gif


I love Tanya Stephens too, she really helped me through my last break-up good.gif


And I will survive is an all-time woman's song!! yes.gif


heart.gif Much Love heart.gif


Nah Girl...there is nothing could be worse. Thanks for the love. luv.gif

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This G-20 stuff is crazy. Yesterday we had folks hanging off of bridges and they are all over our little city in the streets, parks, hell some of them are even in the hood. They have broke some windows at our banks and damaged a few ATM's.



WTH?? blink.gif


What's G-20 Da?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 17:15:00
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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Sep 24 2009, 02:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly's got more Jermaine to post to cheer this thread back up. kicking.gif



Does it have to be Jermaine?? crying.gif




Here you go Island good.gif




Thanks Princess - mi love Tanya Stephens!!!

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LOL! This was my ringtone for 2 months...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 17:04:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Sep 24 2009, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Love you Island!!!! heart.gif



Ditto for me!

I think I know how you are feeling. I kept my story to myself and a few select Yardies on here for months. I just wasn't ready to tell it. Not that I cared what anyone else really thought. I just wasn't ready to put myself out there and accept the condolences and pity. When I was ready, and it all came spilling out of me, I really did feel so much better.

You do what you have to do to heal, Island.


Thanks Gals - I love you too. Yes JG I did the same. There are a few gals on here that cried with me the day he left and I was always be grateful and can't express my thanks enough for the love I have gotten from them. Many times I have started writing the post...but couldn't do it. It's been almost 2 1/2 months now, I guess this was my next step of healing. But I knew I wouldn't be able to heal if I talked to him all the time.


Finesse, I'm putting your questions aside for another day. I have reached my tear allotment for today. Philly's got more Jermaine to post to cheer this thread back up. kicking.gif

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evening ladies


Honey!! Yuh feeling betta chica?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 16:44:00
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QUOTE (*JG* @ Sep 24 2009, 04:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Do you still talk to him, Island?


I have chosen not to. He wanted to keep a LDR, but I told him I wouldn't be in one for another second. He called me the day after he got back to JA and I asked him not to call me again. Jr's mom and I were left to mend that boy's broken heart because he loved his new family, and he DIDN'T want to return to Jamaica. The day Jr left in the airport he sobbed in his mother's arms because he thinks he will never see my son again. My facebook photos tell it all...

We do still have a relationship with Jr and spent alot of time with him before he had to return. We talk to him every couple of days - he will always be in our lives. He told his mom that I will always be his stepmom.


Wow....guess I was ready, Bunz.



IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 15:35:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 03:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so he juss woke up one day and say bye? and wha bout di boy?


No...not one day. Flip flopped back and forth about it for a month. Boy had to return...I couldn't keep him cuz we didn't get married.



damn, sorry to hear that...

juss one more question...

do you think that is the REAL reason he left? (US is not for him i mean)


Only he knows the real reason Finesse...... Believe me I have questioned and agonized over every step a million times along with the millions of tears I shed. I do know that he loved his son and he walked away from him the same way as he walked away from me. But I know the struggles he had adjusting and the effort I put into it to help him. Do I think he tried 100% - no I don't, but that was his decision to make not mine. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. Do I think he is happy with his decision, not really. But what's done is done...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 15:26:00
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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Sep 24 2009, 03:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Has anyone seen Second Day Air it was just released on DVD last week. We rented it and Hubby couldn't stop laughing, I love the hood flicks had to burn that one!

This week we rented Ghost Of Girlfriends Past
Street Fighter
and Observe and Report


How was this Philly? I love Matthew!!



Matthew who? McConaHUNK?????



You know the one....woieee...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 15:13:00
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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Sep 24 2009, 03:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Has anyone seen Second Day Air it was just released on DVD last week. We rented it and Hubby couldn't stop laughing, I love the hood flicks had to burn that one!

This week we rented Ghost Of Girlfriends Past
Street Fighter
and Observe and Report


How was this Philly? I love Matthew!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 15:00:00
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mad.gif -- CHO...di man seh fi call him George

blink.gif How you get George out of that??!!! wacko.gif





TL; his first name is longer than the last name I posted, he said he changed his first name after he got his US citizenship


George is a very american name...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 14:56:00
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I'm having a blonde moment



So you are brilliant at the moment? Cause that's what all my moments are! devil.gif


Love it! One of my fav sayings is "if you were blonde you'd be smarter". wink.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 14:56:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 03:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so he juss woke up one day and say bye? and wha bout di boy?


No...not one day. Flip flopped back and forth about it for a month. Boy had to return...I couldn't keep him cuz we didn't get married.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 14:53:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Sep 24 2009, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
mad.gif -- CHO...di man seh fi call him George

blink.gif How you get George out of that??!!! wacko.gif


IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 14:50:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 12:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
yuh relationship mash up? mi miss dis one...


You gotta join Facebook Finesse.


oh, sorry...mi just woulda tink since dis website call visajourney, yuh woulda seh if yuh journey end.....cuz yuh knoa smaddi ago aks (like me)


Considering the circumstances, I took a break from VJ for awhile to deal and heal. But I put it on facebook so most on here already know. It's ok to ask - it didn't mash up per say, his words were "the US is not for him..." so he went back.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 14:24:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Sep 24 2009, 02:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Someone please help me with breaking down this first name...I have a meeting with this person at 3pm and I've been trying since Monday to pronounce it

TEERAKULKITTIPONG


Are you kidding?? I would say ma'am or sir.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 13:38:00
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QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Sep 24 2009, 01:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Not Jamaican - it's the LDR


thanks Island tongue_ss.gif



Thanks Sus! My boss was making me work.....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 13:20:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Sep 24 2009, 01:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Y island? U can’t mess with another Jamaican? To me its just like if a relationship doesn’t work out here in the US we still keep dating right? So if it doesn’t work out with one of them I would say you keep dating. I’m kind of like Mo. I enjoyed dating a Jamaican man and I would date another hell I want to date another just the right one this time. I have got hooked on the accent and the different cultures. US men are boring to me well besides this one I'm friends with now but the others I find myself yawning. Dating a Jamaican was so exciting for me and did I say I love the accent??


I wouldn't go that far to say that...... whistling.gif

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 13:19:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Sep 24 2009, 12:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree - or tryin to tell her where you wanna stop - we missed a dozen purse vendors before we clued her in rofl.gif rofl.gif


Yeah mon - she was on a mission for watches!!! We should've hit 35th street first.



IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 13:03:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 12:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
yuh relationship mash up? mi miss dis one...


You gotta join Facebook Finesse.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 13:01:00
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Island Are you saying that JAMAICAN'S are off limits for you? I don't understand!


I highly doubt that she's saying that............... whistling.gif



Go way Sus....I'm TRYING to stick with my new rules......



RULES are made to be BROKEN yes.gif dancin5hr.gif dancin5hr.gif dancin5hr.gif


Is that what you teach Marley?? whistling.gif innocent.gif

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Island Are you saying that JAMAICAN'S are off limits for you? I don't understand!


I highly doubt that she's saying that............... whistling.gif



Go way Sus....I'm TRYING to stick with my new rules......



i'm confused...island, mi tink yuh was married...



Not me!! no0pb.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 11:07:00
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Moni....you have more strength then me to do that again....


do wah? mi tink she sey he's here?


Even a lil LDR is over the top right now...



Island, We talk everyday without the OUTRAGEOUS phone bills!! We alternate weekends; I go to chicago or he comes here. He is only 2 hours away so it works for me. He's close enough for me to just get up and go see him and yet far enough away to keep me interested and missing him!


Well that's no big deal then Moni!! 2 hrs is just fine - I would take that. I would take 4 hrs even if someone was to relocate to the Bronx... whistling.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 11:04:00
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QUOTE (Mon @ Sep 24 2009, 11:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island Are you saying that JAMAICAN'S are off limits for you? I don't understand!


I highly doubt that she's saying that............... whistling.gif



Go way Sus....I'm TRYING to stick with my new rules......
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:58:00
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Moni....you have more strength then me to do that again....


do wah? mi tink she sey he's here?


Even a lil LDR is over the top right now...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:56:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
moni - tell us bout yuh new fish ya catch...



Finesse My new FISH is 27!! BOAL!! He's a youngin but more mature than most men my age. It's a long distance relationship as he lives in Chicago and I'm in Wisconsin!

The ironic thing is he is Jamaican!!

I can't seem to get them out of my system!!


good.gif


IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:53:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Sep 24 2009, 11:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly you can move in but NO JERMAINE....I'll make sure she doesn't let you in.



LOL - I'd like to see you tell that woman what to do. She would love you Philly, she loves to shop!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:52:00
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QUOTE (finesse @ Sep 24 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
moni - tell us bout yuh new fish ya catch...



Finesse My new FISH is 27!! BOAL!! He's a youngin but more mature than most men my age. It's a long distance relationship as he lives in Chicago and I'm in Wisconsin!

The ironic thing is he is Jamaican!!

I can't seem to get them out of my system!!


Moni....you have more strength then me to do that again....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:51:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Sep 24 2009, 10:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Nat you manage to eat things I didn't even know existed. I guess I'm pretty unadventurous when he comes to my food too. I actually don't even like the taste of food. I have my favorite Jamaican dishes...and I've got to have my crab legs. I have only had small bites and nibbles of food since August. People don't understand why I'm bigger because I don't eat...but I think my metabolism slowed down a lot after having the boys...so it caught up with me. Jonesie and A are always asking me if I ate because I will go days at a time without eating anything.


That's not good Jawi because your body moves into starvation mode and any time you eat food it packs it away thinking it won't get more anytime soon. You need to eat little meals and healthy snacks all day long - you need to stay strong to heal that body back up!


QUOTE (dillon @ Sep 24 2009, 10:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL, you were MIA - We did Canal St, Times Square, Irie Jamboree - with Dillon's MIL!


I just need to take a moment and say I have the greatest MIL in the world....... Off-Topic2.gif


good.gif Sus and I are very glad your parents taught you to share.....

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 10:01:00
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QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Sep 24 2009, 10:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OOOH....YUP AND MI MISS IRIE JAMBOREE TO..mi neva si yuh yuh banner...

wah dat mean Island is..u should use one man's mistake against everyman..basicly


Yeah, you did - maybe we can link for Irie next year. But mi ago bring a chair next time!!

Understand - I don't generalize like that. blush.gif Every situation has to stand on their own.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 09:22:00
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I'm with you Jawi - I believe the ring is a symbolism of your marriage. I would take my wedding ring off when things started going bad with my ex-husband. In this case he might have just forgot - did he have his other jewelry on? My suggestion would be to let it go for this time - he knows you were very upset and it bothers you so he is apt not to do it again.



ppl u cant tek another man's fat and fry every man..it no right


mi nuh tink har do dat Chiney. Mi tink she did try fe mek an hexample out of har situation...and she was the one removing the ring.

Well, he warned me that I will see some other pictures from earlier in the trip later and he wasn't wearing it then either. So it wasn't just one day. He wanted to keep me on the phone last night talking (I guess with the hopes I would get over it)...but I wasn't in the mood for chitchat...and I wanted to be sure I didn't let my temper get the best of me and make me say something I would regret later. I can't even fully enjoy the pictures because he is standing there all smiles and bling sans wedding ring. Cha.


Exactly! Thank you. Jawi. When divorce was on it's way, removing my ring was a symbol to me that the marriage was over.

Again, I would feel the way you do Jawi. But to play devil's advocate, it's a lot colder up here than ATL so if his ring was a bit big to begin with, it's really loose now with cold hands.... As I said, he knows it bothered you and you were upset so I'm sure he will be making a point to always have it on.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 09:19:00
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QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Sep 24 2009, 09:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ppl u cant tek another man's fat and fry every man..it no right


Translation please?

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Bunz you are so right it all happens in God's time and all we can do is have faith! I am prying for a quick interview date for you girl. I would love to see you during the holiday but more than anything I want you to be here in the states wid yuh man! Canal Street here we come good.gif star_smile.gif


Sus and I will meet you there - we were just shopping Canal street on Labor day weekend!



ooo cause oonuh know mi poo and pawpah mek oonuh no invite mi...cause mi mussi live a bush..


Nahh Kimmy...I screamed it out on my fb page for the locals to link me that weekend....but you had just got home from your trip.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 09:03:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Sep 24 2009, 09:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I had a small disagreement with A because his sister posted some pics of them dropping their other sister off at the airport, and I noticed that A didn't have his wedding band on. I didn't agrue or yell at him, but he knew I was upset because he can automatically sense my moods. He told his sister about it because she overheard him talking to me about it. He apologized and told me that he just forgot to put it on that day. Well, his sister sent me a message on FB telling me that she understands my point but not to be mad at him. She said that he is taking me being upset about it very hard...that he can't stop talking about me and he loves me so much. She asked me not to be mad at him because she forgets to put her rings on all the time. Then, she told me that she has my back because she believes in our love 1000%.

I'm upset because A NEVER put his ring on with his ex-wife...and he told me it was because he didn't love her. Am I making too big a deal out of this? He said he will just get in the habit of putting it on before his other jewelry...so he doesn't forget. I'm still upset. On the other hand, I feel like I am sweating the small stuff. The symbolism of the ring is important to me...even though I know it won't stop a man or woman from doing what they want to do. How do you guys feel about the wearing of the wedding band? blush.gif unsure.gif


I'm with you Jawi - I believe the ring is a symbolism of your marriage. I would take my wedding ring off when things started going bad with my ex-husband. In this case he might have just forgot - did he have his other jewelry on? My suggestion would be to let it go for this time - he knows you were very upset and it bothers you so he is apt not to do it again.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 08:56:00
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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Sep 24 2009, 09:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz you are so right it all happens in God's time and all we can do is have faith! I am prying for a quick interview date for you girl. I would love to see you during the holiday but more than anything I want you to be here in the states wid yuh man! Canal Street here we come good.gif star_smile.gif


Sus and I will meet you there - we were just shopping Canal street on Labor day weekend!

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 08:50:00
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QUOTE (SupportOAFJF @ Sep 24 2009, 09:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I say badger them to get citizenship..God forbid they are in the wrong place at the wrong time and end up i a bad situation...here comes the possibility of deportation..and what are u left with at that point? just think about it guys...


That was always my thought as well Kimmy. I could never understand why they never wanted that extra layer of protection.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 08:49:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Sep 24 2009, 08:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Bunz I'm the only one you didn't add as a friend on FB...hhhhmmm.


I haven't seen Bunz on FB......


QUOTE (sus @ Sep 24 2009, 08:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning all!

My condolences, Acrow -

So, yesterday started off good - ended up being DDay in my office - One attorney and the dept. director gone, at least one more to come.



Eeeekkkk....Sus, are you safe?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-09-24 08:45:00