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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaAdjustment to the United States
[quote name='TRELAWNY PARISH' date='Feb 10 2009, 03:35 PM' post='2640138']

I understand. When my mom tried to send me to Walla Walla College in Walla Walla RASS Washington state, I felt completely out of place. Same when I went to a wedding in (let me see if I can get the town right) Beaver Creek, Montana (don't laugh), all eyes were on me, while I felt out of place and uncomfortable, I didn't dwell on it, I was there to support my friends at their wedding.
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Lawns - did your forget to pack your cowboy boots by chance??? whistling.gif

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 21:24:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 10 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Excuse? Give me a break there. Reason for some.

if i understand correctly..ur saying black/white is an issue for some? ..then if they are not comfortable with white ppl..how did he get involved with a white woman...this shouldn't be an issue ifit is somethign is wrong !


I don't think (and JG please clear if I'm wrong) that it is an issue within relationship, but the people surrounding the relationship.

But like I said yesterday, I just keep it moving. This is my choice and I stand tall within my choice. I'm the only one who walks in my shoes so I better be comfortable in my own shoes.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:21:00
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QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Feb 10 2009, 11:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island woman, what Nannygirl posted was very good, you can't isolated anyone and think that they will just fit into your environment.


Totally agree...I wouldn't want it.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:18:00
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QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Feb 10 2009, 10:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Roxie....i think if i had to to it again i would have seeked some councling services for us as a couple and for him. I think I might have also pushed him more to go to school to get his GED and not have waited. Because at least he could have been going there until he got his green card. Maybe also gotten a membership at the YMCA for another place for us to go or for him to go and work out or play b-ball. I really don't know if that would have changed anything.


So what I get from Nanny's post is to make sure they are not isolated in "our" world only.... help them find their own special spot.

I love the idea of the counseling - I remember when Wakey talked about a class that they took through their church before their wedding. I think that is a fabulous idea.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:01:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Feb 9 2009, 11:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Men only do what you allow them to do... my mom would always say when the shoe get to tight you will take if off yes.gif took me a while to figure out whats she was saying but when i did man i said enough is enough.


I agree with this, but want to change the word to people instead of men. People treat us the way we allow them to treat us be it our children, brother/sisters, parents, friends, etc....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 10:48:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 9 2009, 02:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 9 2009, 02:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm really tired of hearing about THE FEELING..like u say ppl just have to keep it moving...Black women get steers too...soo


Whatcha doin with your steers, Kimmy?




rofl.gif Leave it to Sus to find dat picha..... rofl.gif helpsmilie.gif

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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 9 2009, 02:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
sHEM..I BET IF U TELL DEM BOUT DEM RASS ONCE ..U TURN YARDIE..LMAO



You good...a not dat mi tell tell, mi ask dem if a pu**y dem a look!



sarry unuh except mi apaligies mi no wah arfen any badi sorry bout di vulgaritiness of mi typings.


Lawny...your fingers need soap..chatting so dirty...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-09 14:57:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 9 2009, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island, did I say it was? but u sure better have it


Totally agree. My grandfather always told me you have to marry your best friend....

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-09 14:16:00
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QUOTE (luvtravlin @ Feb 9 2009, 01:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
......."inter racial" relationships, so you can never know what it's like be in my shoes, Shauna's, Suzy's, etc etc...... it IS different. The way the women look at us, disrespect us, kiss their teeth, it's just ludicrous nuts !!


I know this exact feeling, but I don't let it bother me... I just keep it moving.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-09 14:15:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 9 2009, 12:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I don't know if i believe how much love was in ur relationship Nanny/Luvtralin...how did love just go out the window over nite..


Love isn't the only thing you need to have to make a relationship work - it is just one of the many components.

Thank you to all who have shared their adjustments in this thread - it gives a valuable insight of what one might expect in this process.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-09 14:12:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Feb 9 2009, 11:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Kelly, thanks for sharing that..

I have several friends in the same situation the "smoking" is a big issue. One of them her husband has not been able to get a job because he has failed all the urine drug screen and all he says to her is "if he was in Jamaica, you jus fling a few dollahs"...well, you not in Jamaica.



Ugh...I'm having trouble with that attitude.... do it right the first time and not worry about cleaning up the mess after....
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-09 11:09:00
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I have a question about money: when you SO got here but didn't yet have a job, how did you work the money? Did you just pay for everything or give him an "allowance" (for lack of a better word) until he started making his own money.

This is the one constant thing we have problems about since the beginning of our relationship - and in a heated discussion on Monday he said money is what is going to break us and sometimes I agree. I'm the conversative one - I work with a budget every week. He gets paid on Friday and it's gone before the weekend is out.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-06 09:22:00
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QUOTE (Marie87 @ Nov 14 2008, 04:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lance and I haven't even filed yet (2 more months!!! kicking.gif ) but I just wanted to say thank you to those who share your experiences. I'm a private person so I know how hard it must be to tell people about your personal life. I've learned alot from any of you and most times I've been exposed to issues and topics that i never even thought about. luv.gif

- Marie


I want to second what Marie said. I'm sorry that there are people who chose to "bash" or judge others - but I'm very thankful that you guys move beyond that and are still willing to share with it. It truly does help us coming along behind you!! rose.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2008-12-02 11:41:00
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QUOTE (Mononoke28 @ Feb 17 2009, 02:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I actually saw a show about this on TV a few months ago and most therapists said that cheating was taking place any time a person hides something from their SO, or spends the majority of the time doing something else by themselves or with other people. Besides the obvious like cheating sexually and emotionally with other people, this also includes, video games, online gambling, chatting online with other people, your job, your hobbies. If they choose to spend all of their free time doing these things while it hurts the other person, that's considered cheating.
It was a total eye opener for me. huh.gif

Diana


Very interesting!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 15:20:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 17 2009, 03:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island...it's the slow ones that respond 1st..smile.gif

Does anyone else think this is "MR.HAWKINS"..now married



Nah....you're mind is too clever...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 15:33:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 17 2009, 03:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No prob Layla...K-1 is the same as fiance visa

If u have any question just ask away...most of us will do our best to help...LOL

http://www.visajourn...?showuser=62014

jest.gif headbonk.gif

do i need to start a new thread?



Kimmy - hugh? unsure.gif

QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Feb 17 2009, 03:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DOOOOH! blink.gif We nah tek no pitchas!


A wha?!?!?! headbonk.gif

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 15:28:00
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QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Feb 17 2009, 02:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Does anybody know what time MrsBuggy's interview was? Isn't it today?


7:30 this morning.

QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Feb 17 2009, 02:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just want to say that I finally met Claire, Portland, Anthony, and Claire's cousin (?) Simone last nite. They are truly nice people and I had a great time at the Red Room! Even though NC isn't all fast, we still managed to have a good time out. I hope that won't be the last time that I see you guys either! good.gif


Aww nice!! Who's going to post the pictas?? whistling.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 15:16:00
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QUOTE (Jonesie @ Feb 17 2009, 02:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island mi nuh knoa - but she need fi secure di wig betta dan dat whistling.gif



I'll say so!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 14:27:00
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QUOTE (Jonesie @ Feb 17 2009, 02:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
When wining goes wrong (click on the link) rofl.gif

Mavado


Jonesie came in with de entertainment!! I had to watch it 2xs to see what happened - eeek!! Ok - here is me being naive - did he pull it off on purpose??



When's Ells coming home?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 14:21:00
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QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Feb 17 2009, 01:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I saw this on the today show this am - I was wondering if that was the situation... why else would you have one for a "pet"?!?!


She has a husband too - the chimp slept between them - she made $$$$$$$$$$ off it - she owned it's mother too - they were TV stars - did commercials and stuff -


Whacked out!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 13:21:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 17 2009, 01:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Anyone see this?



I know this woman - This chimp slept in her bed with her -


I saw this on the today show this am - I was wondering if that was the situation... why else would you have one for a "pet"?!?!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-17 13:18:00
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QUOTE (MrsBuggy @ Feb 16 2009, 07:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, tomorrow is the BIG DAY!!!! Hubby got his medical report back today. He should be on his way to Kingston tonight to stay by his dad. Can't wait til tomorrow is over.


Good luck Mrs Buggy! My prayers are with you and your husband. rose.gif

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-16 21:52:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 14 2009, 10:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ryon, love your posts - you won't see the ezetop thing - it shows in their credit - I sent some to DJ yesterday, he got notice of how much I sent, and the same in bonus credit - but the bonus credit has an expiration date of 10 days or something -


A said it expires in 7 days - but I know he won't have any problem talking it off by then. headbonk.gif



IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-14 16:01:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Feb 13 2009, 11:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks Quana...booked my flight last night. dancin5hr.gif I am so excited it has been almost a year since I have seen him!


1 year?!?! Girl you are strong!! I was bawling before I ever got to the 6 month mark!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-13 12:07:00
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QUOTE (MrsBuggy @ Feb 13 2009, 09:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Feb 13 2009, 08:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (MrsBuggy @ Feb 13 2009, 09:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Yaardies! Hope everyone has a great day!

3 days left... kicking.gif


Almost Mrs Buggy!! And keep in mind that the embassy staff will just be returning from a 3 day weekend!



um... what does that mean?? Will they be so energized and happy they'll approve EVERYONE or will they be mad that their 3 day ended so fast and deny folks?? wacko.gif


I'm always happy when I have a 3 day weekend!! I LOVE short weeks.

QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Feb 13 2009, 09:53 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island Woman....did you SO have to re do the medical? The embassy didn't have it before interview?


There's been a little bump about the medical...so he needs to make an appointment and get a "new" one taken and get it to the embassy. He has already paid the DHL fee and dropped his passport off - they kind of put the cart before the horse.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-13 10:06:00
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QUOTE (MrsBuggy @ Feb 13 2009, 09:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning Yaardies! Hope everyone has a great day!

3 days left... kicking.gif


Almost Mrs Buggy!! And keep in mind that the embassy staff will just be returning from a 3 day weekend!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-13 09:38:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 12 2009, 08:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (dillon @ Feb 12 2009, 08:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your guess is as good as mine. What if your computer has a microphone can you use the camera and just use the microphone from the computer? I am not a technical person.



LOL - Yup, Dillon got it -

But if you had a choice of being able to IM and see your love - or not see him, which would you choose?



Got your point - I'm actually trying to find one that works like video so that my kids and my brother's kids in SC can chat. I know my mother's laptop has a webcam built in with a microphone so I'll see if I can figure it out on her first.

QUOTE (sus @ Feb 12 2009, 08:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
And there's lots you can do on webcam that needs no words whistling.gif


You're naughty Sus!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-13 09:23:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 12 2009, 08:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey ladies, whats up?

Hey Tanya, did your guy pick up his stuff from the Embassy? i know your excited, im excited for you. Cant wait till my day comes.

Hey Renee, whats up? See its back cold again sad.gif

Hey Dillon, didnt see you sorry.


He dropped the police report off on Wednesday - he needs to get a medical to them still though.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-13 09:20:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Feb 12 2009, 03:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA....

what a way to end my week, I won a trip for 4 to http://www.atlantis......RhhnAodLWzjcQ...

mi caan wait.....funny thing I was looking into this for a short vacation for my son and niece

God is good and you get $500 spending CASH!


Congrats Lawns!! You deserve it!

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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 12 2009, 03:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Honey, I had bought this one at Walmart - it's $10 - works okay -
http://www.walmart.c...duct_id=8144836


It has sound Sus? I was chatting with a friend of mine in FL last night but there was no sound - so we had to IM.


No sound on that one - I put it on the house computer - I have a built in one on my laptop


Okay - so what's the point if you can't hear - just to read and watch the person type??? (I'm being serious here....don't laugh at me!)

Edited by Islandwoman, 12 February 2009 - 08:43 PM.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 20:42:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 12 2009, 03:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Honey, I had bought this one at Walmart - it's $10 - works okay -
http://www.walmart.c...duct_id=8144836


It has sound Sus? I was chatting with a friend of mine in FL last night but there was no sound - so we had to IM.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 15:12:00
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QUOTE (Marlita @ Feb 12 2009, 02:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now look what yall bad mouths done did! Got the thread closed down. Ah well. It was getting a little out of control over there. I thought it would be a good topic to discuss, cause I know personally I am interested in how peoples lives have changed once they are done with the visa processing and the traveling to visit stuff. When real life kicks in you realize that this relationship is not all different probably from any of the other ones you have had. So its just interesting to hear how everyone adjusts. it just got to much into name calling and stereotyping for it to go anywhere.



You had good intentions Marlita - it's too bad things need to get out of hand like.

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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 12 2009, 02:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks roxie for the clarification...

back to work i go... im so jealous, tomorrow JA soon come...LOL

im trying to figure out how to sneak in a quick 3 day trip... ( sigh) but i hope you and your husband have a wonderful Valentines day.. thats how its supposed to be shared, with the one you love.



Honey - you can still spend it with the one you love, just on the phone - or have him get to a webcam.

It's funny, when I was talking to DJ last night I told him how excited I am that my friend Nick is coming home and I am meeting him for lunch Sat - haven't seen him in 3 years, and he's shipping out to Iraq soon. DJ got really quiet - then finally admitted he was upset bc I was spending VDay with another guy - I burst out laughing - then finally managed to explain to him that Nick is really just one of the girls (if you get my meaning) - and I totally forgot that it was VDay!

QUOTE (Marlita @ Feb 12 2009, 02:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now look what yall bad mouths done did! Got the thread closed down.


Kimmy's fault whistling.gif


I trying to forget it's Valentine's Day...

Sus you know Kimmy's going to headbonk.gif you.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 14:56:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 12 2009, 12:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sus...doan falla lawny yuh hear..she no ave no sense !!

Sus..dem seh cerasse is blood cleaner..no really a wash out..kinda like bizzy..


LOL - I actually read alot about it - I drank it when I had my sinus infection to see if it would help - Gave me gas!

QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 12 2009, 12:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
they use aloe vera too


DJ uses Aloe vera all the time


ICK! I thought aloe was for a burn.

I'll just stick with my Activa every day...
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 12:53:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Feb 12 2009, 12:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sus...doan falla lawny yuh hear..she no ave no sense !!

Sus..dem seh cerasse is blood cleaner..no really a wash out..kinda like bizzy..


What's for a wash out Kimmy?
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-12 12:43:00
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QUOTE (BELIEVE IT BABY!! @ Feb 11 2009, 10:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
add me as your friends ok


How? Can I find you through Jawi's? She's my friend.

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 22:11:00
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QUOTE (Forever Young @ Feb 11 2009, 06:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Ok... I actually took it one step further and started a new FB group for us! The name of the group in 'Who's who from VJ Yardies@home & Farrin' thread'. It's a private group to protect us from cyber-stalkers and what not. I am the Admin...but I have already sent out invites to my VJ friends that are also on FB! As soon as they decide to join...I will make as many people Admin's as possible. This way it's not just one person that you have to depend upon to get access to our group!


Again....once you sign into your FB page...just do an FB search for the page!
If you still can't find it email me and I'll send you the link!
Bless,
Gill


All right I'm tech challenged - I finally made a Facebook whatever but I can't find the VJ group... headbonk.gif
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 22:07:00
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QUOTE (sus @ Feb 11 2009, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mine either cray5ol.gif

Congrats, Quana, I am happy for you - My friends Mom told me years ago - it doesn't matter how badly you want the divorce, who files for it, whatever - It still hits home that final day in court.


Why Sus?

That is true - for me it was the feeling of failure, even though I knew that I did everything I was capable of.


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QUOTE (dillon @ Feb 11 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
SHORTS!!!! What kind of temps do you have out there?



It's 70 degrees and the FOOLS are out hells and all.

JG -- you know which ones I'm talking about!


We have 50's - the UPS man is wearing his shorts but he's about the only one.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 14:31:00
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QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Feb 11 2009, 12:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hey long time no see ladies, BEEN CRAZY BUSY thursday.. i am on facebook too, just started this week so pm me u guys emails so i can find u (if u want me to)
mine is dancehallquana@yahoo.com

hey ladies, let me tell u GOD is a good God, YES HE IS..

u know the dismissal was set for thursday, well mr was SOOO upset that it was not the actual divorce proceeding that he AGREED to me getting the kids in order to hurry and get it over with!!!! i have sole custody and by GOD's grace they let the judge sign off on it THAT day.. We spent the whole day rewriting the divorce, waiting for clerks, waiting on the judge.. and at the last min they told us they could finish up everything that day.. we both were ECSTATIC!!!! i know it was God cuz they didn't even hear cases at the time they did ours...

when he had to go b4 the judge tho it was bittersweet, i could tell he was having a hard time, fidgeting and stuttering, i tried to pat his back and calm him down.. he told me, what was he gonna do w/out me, while I helped him review what he had to say b4 the judge and pointing when he lost his place.. it was very hard..

we talked the whole time b4, but after he was SILENT, i asked was he ok, and he said yeah..

i feel sorry for him, i remember mrs smith saying something about divorce being so easy for americans and i wonder if i took the easy way out, but i am happy now so that should be proof enough to me that i made the right decision, even people that have no idea what is going on tell me I am glowing. i want a husband not just a partner,, i want time and affection, not just a nice home and my bills taken care of.. I pray I follow God's lead on this next chapter of my life..


thanks u guys for all ur support...


Quana - I'm so happy for you!! God was definitely walking with you.


QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Feb 11 2009, 01:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks Kimmy luv.gif


LOL! KK -- you have me hooked on Redbox!

IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-11 14:27:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 10 2009, 08:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lord, all this running back and forth is tiring me out..LOL


Love the new pic Honey!!
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 21:19:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 10 2009, 11:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Since he is there and im here, im going to pretend its just like any other day and do what i normally do, only i will avoid the restaurants so i dont have to be a hater...

will maybe spend time with my sons..or go visit my mom or something...LOL



I'm with you Honey...I have 2 dates for Valentine's day, one's 11 and one's 7. We are going to a winter carnival and watching fireworks over the lake at 6 pm - probably to bed by 9.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 12:12:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 10 2009, 11:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Island, i need to get out the house, maybe i will sit on the patio, im looking quite scary though...lol


Don't worry bout that.....just get some air and Vitamin D.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 12:09:00
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QUOTE (JaHoney @ Feb 10 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i hate being sick, im pretty close to miserable as i can get right now, and yet i dont feel like laying in bed all day. We are having some freakish weather today, the sun is shining and it is supposed to hit 58 or 60 degrees which in michigan is like a heat wave...


Take your blanket (and your snotties) and sit outside. You need some of that fresh air and sunshine to feel better.
IslandwomanFemaleJamaica2009-02-10 11:13:00