Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	I have been doing the same, painting, drawing... it's a long wait, so somehow I need to keep my mind busy...I did this today... Braiding my hair is also a hobby omg how cute!! haha. art is a really good way of relieving stress, put some relaxing music on and draw or paint or something. recently ive been working on my photoshop skills :/ i love mixing pictures and painting over them, so thats what it came out........ Uploaded with ImageShack.us	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-15 20:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Where did you see that? Well, either way I hope YOU are right hahaha and that VSC starts MOVING! before we got an account on VJ when i had that noa1 problem cause it was so slow, i asked on another forum i knew back then. i told them my petition is in texas and the admins on that forum told me that texas doesnt handle those petitions anymore, so they are all sent to vermont. i was pretty dissapointed back then cause i knew vsc is slow, but i got used to it after a while. now i dont think at noa2 as much. i spend all my day reading and drawing to take my mind off it and it works. i barely check uscis website once 2-3 days. probaby when sam leaves back to america ill start getting desperate for noa2 again	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-15 14:46:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	From what I read, this IS a service center, for real. Only accept petitions from a few states.. here, look: I just really never seen people being approved by them lol... but oh well, VSC has one more service center to catch up! texas doesnt handle k1 petitions anymore. they did until a while ago but now they transfer them to vsc. so it means its starting	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-15 09:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Ugh! Nothing from NVC yet (Monday). I've never been anxious like this when I was still waiting for our NOA2, but this case number from NVC made me. Could you believe it? August are the only available slots for the interview. Gosh! The last time I heard was July. Now, August? Are you kidding me? Dang! Thanks for the information Looky, that sure helps the load a little easier to bear knowing I don't need to worry about the I-134 date. Need to keep my composure and look on a brigther side. Life is awesome and we are blessed, indeed its like this because cali takes longer time for nvc. usually they get the case in 3-4 days from vsc :/ but if they are fast you might still catch a place for august	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-13 09:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	@ TJ01212011: u dont have an add button as for me, amazingly i didnt check uscis website for 3!!!!!! days, and thats a record. i seriously think the goverment should do something about vsc, like get them a bigger building and hire more people to work on petitions..... Edited by DeeDee&Sam, 13 June 2011 - 07:10 AM.	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-13 07:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Hey guys/gals. I am waiting for Carolina to return home from picking up her mother. I felt the desire to post here. I wanted to share something with you guys, possibly help to keep everyone fresh on realizing, while in this waiting, just how important their significant other is to them. I just wanted to share how I view Carolina. For me, I was designed. And part of my design was left for meeting her. I was supposed to have her in my life, and to give her everything she always dreamed of. I live for her. I go to bed at night... my head hits the pillow and I think so much about her. When I wake up in the mornings, she's the first thought... and it continues throughout today. So what is a few months of waiting? Not much at all really. Stay positive everyone, I believe, as much as others here, that we are very close to our time Matt yes matt, thats called soulmate. you feel when you meet your soulmate and you only live for it. i feel the same about sam, thats why the waitting is worth it. its sad ive seen a lot of people here on vj that dont even express their love this way, but a lot on march threat that do so we're in a good place with wonderful people and its easier to go along the process	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-12 09:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	brandon, my fiance just went back to USA this past tuesday. and i aleready miss him so much we spent 3 months together but it's never enough.... and this time he's not coming back so we'll see eachother when i get there. BUUTTT it seems that we'll only gonna get an answer around the end of july, or august. so from now on i won't hope to get an early answer anymore. it's only killing me every day :| i'm planning to get to USA around november,or december... since we still have to schedule the interview at the embassy, which are usually busy! (and i still have to graduate in october or beginning of november!) this is going to be the most horrible summer of my life! i'm looking forward to autumn and winter!! nuff said, back to my chinese translations! i wish u all a nice weekend! :* romanian embassy is way faster than others. you can fix your interview 2-3weeks after you send the packet 3. you're a student at chinese? i'm at japanese..sux big time. you're togh, i dont even bother to graduate anymore :/	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-11 16:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	im starting to hate this summer lol. is the first summer when i actually wait for something to happen and is driving me nuts saw there were 6 approvals yesterday at vermont but all january and february. slow #### vsc people....	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-11 06:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	joined too nema..i think i added the wrong person before u requested me.....LOL. i hope she rejects me because ill feel weird also joined the group!! <3 you guys are lucky with the places you're moving to, i think the closest shop around for me will be 2-3 miles away	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-09 06:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	haha thank god for facebook we could add eachother though. but watch out i play a lot of farmville because of the k1 process )) im stressed lol. i joined that group but we can make our own im moving to a VERY small town in Virginia. nema i added you is deedee misa chu. here's mine http://www.facebook.com/psycho.misa ill make a friend group just for vj fwends <3	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-08 18:06:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	HMmmm so many ''NEW people''... AWESOME!! CONGRATS TO ALL WHO GOT APPROVED!!! bring some luck this way...today I'm not in the best of positivity... so, I'm braiding my hair lol You never know what it could help to get this NOA2 here Anywayyyyy...... I was wondering... thinking thinking... I do think we all should keep in touch I mean after this whole k1 process, when we're finally in the U.S, with our loved ones... what you all think? ? wonderful idea!! we've already been vj friends for couple months already, we'll probably go through aos togheter too after complaining and listening so much to eachother it would be great to keep in touch after all this nightmare is over as well	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-08 12:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	woaaaaaaaah so many people getting approved already!!! its awsome i thought vsc starts approving in 4th month, maybe its because they didnt have so many february filers. im jealous on you guys, grats!!!!	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-08 08:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	wow grats to our 2 march fellows that got approved!! im jealous we're not at csc lol. vermont is slowwww, i wonder why they are so slow well it seems they are like 1 month behind than csc so we'll start dancing middle june and july, aint that right?	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-07 08:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Hey lovely people! how are you all?? Hope weekend was good, mine was but wake up with headache it's not fun... Anyway, going back to braid my hair..This week, I feel some love coming from Vermont... Looky?? Can you predict that too??? fine if you're all braiding your hair ill paint each my finger nail with a different color for luck	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-06 17:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	yeah about the back log i think ill be a lucky one too. as far as i saw the interviews here are pretty fast, when that day will come i think ill get all emo at the embassy and pee my pants. im a really shy and nervous person now rather than waitting for noa2 im planning for july. sam should get here in about 3 weeks and i think we're renting an apartment with jacuzzy LOL. well what can be better than that on a torid july day? hahaha	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-06 08:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	hahah I so want that t shirt, You could wear it and flash it at the appropriate moments I love those dresses too I havent decided on a dress mainly because we haven't really decided on what type of wedding we are having. Did we talk wedding already in this thread? If not what are you all planning? I want (if this is possible at all) kinda low key, married outside wherever with a party and cake but low cost and low stress Even though we have said we could have a big day later on I have a feeling that later on would not sort of happen with everything else we want to do you know. I'm sorry you guys who's partners parents don't like you that's really sad and I've never understood it to be honest, wouldn't you just be happy that your son or daughter is happy? or atleast be 'ok' with it. vampire wedding FTW!!!!	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-05 15:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Good news! Engagement party = Huge success :-) Here's a picture or two so you can all feel included! Hope everyone else had a weekend as wonderful as mine! With more days like these our NOA2's will come in no time! grats!!!!!!!!! you guys look like a bunch of rockers XD *points the second guy from left in the 2nd picture* hahaha his tshirt	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-05 12:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	HA!!! i think i found my perfect wedding dress. *braids hair now*	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-05 09:37:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Yeah, they don't like me because they like another girl for him. I don't know if it's a vietnamese tradition or what but his parents tried to hook him up w/ a vietnamese girl in Vietnam. My bf told me about it and I tried to befriend girl the via ym. I tried to get to know her because I wanted to know what kind of a person my bf will going to marry if ever he decide to follow his parents. I wanted to be sure that she is capable to love my bf more than I do, that if ever she gonna marry him, it is because she love him, not because of the citizenship. I thought I can trust her because she was being nice w/ me, she even called me ban means friend, so I told her everything. I told her that the dude she will going to marry has a gf. and I asked her if she still gonna marry him even after she learn that he has a gf, she answered "I don't know". So I told her, it's okay. if my bf fall in love w/ her and decide to marry her, I asked her to just love my bf more than I do. She was so nice she even said I understand. But dude! after that talked, she went around, telling every member of the family of my bf that I harassed her and I made her cry. She even wrote his parents a letter since his parents don't know how to use pc--telling them that I'm harassing her. Since then, they hated me more because of her. I tried to talk to them but they didn't like to talk to me. They blocked me from their contacts. After they received the letter, they got so mad at my bf. They brought him to Vietnam to meet the girl. My bf went w/ them because he didn't like to disobey them, for 2nd time. Once they were in VN, they wanted him to get engaged w/ the girl. His cousin even brainwashed him about our incompatibility based on our Astrology signs. My bf called me then, he was crying because his cousin's predictions about us were not good. he said I'm gonna die soon if we continue our relationship. My bf got afraid for me. I told my bf, I respect his cousin's ability to see the future but I believe our love is stronger than death. That our future is in our hands. it is us who going to draw it. then I told him, if his faith is not in our relationship anymore, then he is free to go. So, I left him to think. Then the next time we talked, he said he was being disowned because he chose me. Until now, he don't have contacts w/ them. But I'm still telling him and keep telling him to reconcile w/ them because after all they are his family no matter what. Let them hate me, important is him w/ them....It sad but I don't know how else I can get their approval, to accept us We've been fighting against all odd for 8yrs now.... Dude sorry for the long boring story. I just wished right now, NOA2!!!! ) wow.....this is a trully f****d up story . but you know, he chose you, thats what matters. his family will try to contact him after a while i tell you. after rejecting me as daughter and cursing the hell out of me, my mom came back like nothing happened. i didnt forgive her, i never will, but she did come back. and you know, for you the most important thing should be your fiance. family? nah make your own family. the kids have to fly from the nest sooner or later, and his time has come. they raised him but they cant control his life. and if you wanna be happy keep him as close to you as you can. if they dont like you, sh*t happens, you have him and he has you, and theres nothing more powerful in this world than love!! as for that girl, that will be a lesson for you not to be nice with everyone. you shouldnt trust anyone 100%, theres always a chance they will stab you behind your back, especially when it comes about a guy. i never had girl friends, just guy friends, i grew up with guys and its hard for me to trust women cause i know 85% of them are snakes. my best friends is my fiance. let your heart decide who you should trust	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-05 07:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	dammit..i almost fell from bed when i saw an email from USCIS popping up on my yahoo messenger an i was like wth....this is either rfe or approval. and i opened it and saw "your password will expire in 7 days, plese chose a new password" and i was like "this is not april fools day!!!!" grrrrrrrrrrr	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-04 12:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Oh nice! I wish I will gonna wear nice wedding gown but I doubt it, maybe just gonna wear simple dress on our wedding because it might will be just the 2 of us since my family and friends are here in PI and his family don't like me for him and he don't have much friends in his area because he just moved in. well, it's okay I guess... Important is, we finally are together! his family doesnt like you? i couldnt imagine my life in a USA if sam's mom wouldnt like me X_X did you try to talk to them and explain them you really love him and your want to get along with them? i was looking at wedding dresses too and now i dont know if i want red, black, or red and black, or white and black	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-04 10:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	hi there. we mailed our petition in the beginning of march, we received NOA1 march 8th. but it seems that vermont center is slower than california, so i'll just be happy for others for now hey!! welcome abroad! yeah vsc is slower, i have no idea why, but noa2 should come easy since romania is not a big threat for them. people i know got them in 3 months maybe 4, rare 5 and only the ones with RFE. lasa ca trece repede carolina i hope you feel ok dont worry matt too much he might flight to you in a second without warning... @yoyita139 : im such a noob. i seriously didnt heard about this before. why don't you make a threat on the k1 forum? maybe the seniors can help	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-03 18:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	I just had an interview with USCIS Field Office in NYC, they gave me my fiancée Alien Number, does this mean we're a step closer to get a NOA2. I know we're just March filers, but I don't understand why does she has an Alien Number already. Anyone? o.o did you have an interview? did you expedite or something? o.o	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-03 12:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	hehe see? ^^ 1 day is bad the other is good and so on. after you get noa2 you'll be even more anxious for it to get at the embassy. i know i'll be very nervous about it. now i dont even think at my noa2 i want july to come so badddddd X_X	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-03 11:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Today was not a good one for me guys. i was experiencing such bad anxiety, i repeatedly checked the uscis website more times than i can remember. I almost got teary eyed everytime i saw nothing changed. Its getting harder everyday especially when we ar so close to a noa2. Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day for me. calm down there are days when we all are very anxious, and the next day gets better. you'll get it VERY soon, look how good your timeline looks im very positive about it ^__^ @Turkeyluvr: a RFE wont slow you down much. after you reply to it, if everything is ok you'll get noa2 very soon after!!	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-03 09:21:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	im so making sam braid his hair....that way his long hair wont be useless and he could use it for good luck LOL. evil funny images get out of my head	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-02 17:29:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	wow kish gratz!!!!!! you guys from csc are fast hahaha. till the end of june i know a lot of us will be approved. i hope july for vsc cause we've all been good kids right? now im so going and braiding my hair. ill have some butt lenght tails	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-02 07:53:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Oh my god OH MY GOD!!!!! I went on the USCIS site to check my status, which is something I only just started doing like a week ago. The first thing I saw was that the date was 'May 31' so I figured, this is a 'touch'! Then I looked up and saw Post-Decision Activity. THIS IS MY NOA2!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so excited because I REALLY hope this means March filers are going to be hearing back very soon! GRATZ!!!!! i knewwwww june is good. for you guys, cause we got our noa1 later. i wish i could make some black magic to uscis to approve us all this month	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-06-01 07:53:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	about us...we want 2 children or 4 the most.... we both love kids and ohhh i'm so excited being a mom i know its difficult but i will surely enjoy taking care of them March Filers rocks when your only kid will run around you screaming "mommy mommy i want a brother for christmas" you'll do it only cause you'll go crazy from insisting so much XD OOPSSSSSS i wanted to reply that to carolina LOL X_____X Edited by DeeDee&Sam, 31 May 2011 - 01:50 PM.	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-31 13:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Yes, I agree that this is the best month of filers. March filers rocks!! We keep the positive conversations going and continue to uplift each other. Definetly a good look. You guys asked about children? I must say Im not sure. Berry and I are 39 yrs old. We have discussed children in the past, but knowing our age, I dont think so. I want to enjoy my future husband for at least 2 years when he gets here. Besides I have 2 sons (19 and 8) and he has 2 children(15yr old daughter and a 12 yr old son). So long story short, still not sure. So many thing we want to do and enjoy each others company before a baby comes along. Lets just say that if its happen then God blessed us with another angel. If not then oh well..... heh we said we want another kid when the oldest will have 14-15 years old so we can raise a baby again. if i could i would do it even at 50	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-31 06:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	hahaha except for the goth wedding, LOL almost the same here! 1. visa process (we're so positive about it) 2. Wedding plans (I go crazy over it and he has to listen ) 3. Exactly! How often Matt gets hurt at work too! haha 4. kids... we want kids, in the future, maybe 4-5 years after marriage (we still have time) 5. how it'll be when I get there, how I'm gonna adjust etc.. 6. about our customs and traditions, family, friends, stories, worlds, news.. and so on And DeeDee, I saw your post.. I really hope you can get out of that situation very soon and that everything is ok. Hang in there, I'm sure you guys will figure out a way to get out of this. You have my prayers. i said i dont wanna get kids after 23 cause i dont wanna be an old mom lol. i wanna be a young cool mom so i can hang out with them when they grow up, shopping, parties, beach and all that. ps: thank you we're trying but my situation here is unexpected, depends on how crazy grandma gets every hour	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-29 17:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Congrats! Welcome Googled! As to the March thread being so awesome, it's one of the ways I'm passing the time waiting! We keep coming up with more interesting things to share! As to birthdays, Stuart came up to Canada for my birthday this year, and I missed Stuart's but the Cancun trip was his birthday present, so we just celebrated late. We keep missing all kinds of holidays, and keep telling each other that it's the last one ever we'll be apart! This weekend is Memorial Day weekend in the US, so I'm busy learning what that means! I'm also planning on getting a Canadian flag to fly next to his American one, apparently I can get one free from the local MP office, and in time for Canada Day here too! Stuart just learned about the Victoria Day weekend, or the "May 24" as we affectionately call it! I also keep myself busy with silly little 30 day challenges every month, currently I've insanely challenged myself to the Thrive Diet 30 day challenge, so no coffee, meat, dairy, corn, soy, wheat or sugar! THAT'S keeping me counting down smaller chunks of time, and every time I complete a challenge, it's closer to being with him! (this is the ultimate challenge) Next month I plan on running 30 minutes every day for 30 days, the month after, its a 100 mile diet challenge... so yeah... keeps me busy! I was hoping people here could share the things they're talking about now to make sure things go smoothly in the marriage later! There's a ton of lists on the internet that suggest you talk about money, kids and politics before you marry, so I'm just curious how many of you have had these talks already, and what questions you've asked and answered. I'm hoping to make sure we haven't missed any! So far we've talked a little about some of them, but I want to keep bringing up topics with him as we get closer to POE day! So, if you have a list of important topics, please share! One we got out of the way really fast is if we want to have any more kids. He has two over 18, and I have an 11 year old, so we're happy to say no to that one... the topic of how to make sure we DON'T have anymore is still ongoing. (some guys just don't want to talk about vasectomies! ) So, who's next? haha i was talking to sam's mom about memorial day yesterday too, cause i had no idea wth it meant. well...we talk about lots of things, of course our plans being the most frequent now so here it goes 1. visa process (both get crazy) 2. crazy goth wedding 3. how often he gets hurt at work 4. kids...we have none but we want 3-4 we'll see. first a girl then whatever we have and we already have 2 names (awkward...) 5. world happenings, news and how stupid some people are	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-29 15:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Woohoo VSC is unofficially processing January 2011 petitions (per the VJ site). they are doing that since forever	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-29 15:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	hmmmm...i have a feeling june and july will be lucky months huuuuh? so enjoy your last time in your home countries cause we'll all be gone to usa soooooooooon <3 we're awaiting news on our expedite, probably call and see whats going on. is soo frustrating and annoying in the same time	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-29 12:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	Don't do it, don't set yourself up for dissapointment. Every case is different and they also have different people working on them. They also don't have enough people. Just cause some people filing during one month get approved in a certain month does not mean all people that filed in that month will get approved, close to that month. When you go to the US, its likely that you won't go back home and stay there for too long. So I think you should enjoy home the way it is now cause it may never be the same for you again. have you seen the documentary "the secret"? the one that says the universe works on quantic physics (dunno if i spelled that right). if you set yourself for dissapointment you will be. i tried those things on myself many times, if you wish something very strong it will happen. if you say you'll get the visa late you'll get it late. i always tell to myself ill get it faster than i should. there's nothing bad in wanting something very bad	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-27 10:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	when i joined VJ it was showing me october on timeline now its showing august so it seems things move way faster than they did before. still we had to sign up for an expedite. things are very bad for me here in my home country i hope so bad they will approve it	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-26 04:58:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	my k1 is taking me, like sam says, middle of nowhere, virginia XD i have nooooooo idea what ill do there. ive lived all my life in a big crowded city and ill be moving in the country, that will be a bit weird for me. but its good that is quiet and i suppose it will be a bit easier to get used to the change/ ive never been to america before either	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-22 13:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	last night he was reading what you guys posted here and he said you made him realise many things. well he did apologize for few hours yesterday and he definaly refused to touch the visa process. he blames it on the distance and on the fact that he doesnt have enough sleep. still talking to your girl in that way the reasons are a bit stupid. i didnt break up with him im not the type but it still hurts. as for me going back to school is kinda impossible, since university here costs a lot and he's the only one who supports me with money. i agree he's very immature sometimes. still we do have a very good communication, we always had. the only thing i can do is thank you for your kind and smart words and for opening his eyes. honestly, i had no idea he was reading the forums LOL	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-21 06:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	its really nice when i see people convinced they found their soulmates it seems we're the first to give up in here. i hope he will stop the visa process too since i dont think this will work out anymore. when a guy tells his fiancee "#### you, im tired of you" doesnt sound that good to me. maybe is time for me to back off and give him space for some real life. he spent his live enough on internet and probably he wasnt ready for a family. we're 21 after all. i dont really know what to do from now on. im so lost	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-20 13:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	March 2011 Filers..	omg i loveeeeeeeee reading your stories. is so cute that everyone has something similar, yet very different. we're probably the youngest around here so here we go with our weird story too. we met on a site called myyearbook around 2005. we were at the end of middle school in the summer vacation. i "secretly admired" him and he added me and started to send me these weird messages where he was telling me everything, i guess he trusted me from the start. we kept chatting in there and on myspace for like (2 years....lol). we were best friends for years and secretly had a crush on eachother. i had another boyfriend, japanese, he was sooooooo jealous, sam hated him so bad. he was deleting my accounts, changing my passwords so i cant talk to sam cause he knew i loved him. so after a while i just said STOP and ended it, so me and my baby got togheter like it should have been from the start. when he visited me in january it was sooooooo funny. we said we would kiss a lot and hug and everything when he got here. he was supposed to get here around 6:30pm and i got in the airport at 5 because i was so nervous. and when the plane landed.........nothing. i thought he fooled me. i started to cry, called my family, my friend, i was desperate. i stayed in the airport till almost 11pm and surprise.. he arrived with the next bucharest plane cause he lost the first flight...i was so excited and relieved. i went to him to kiss him. he looked at me and he was like "i lost my luggage........". well that wasnt romance at all but when we arrived at the hotel everything turned out sooooooooooo perfect... i took him home and my grandma lovedddddddddd him and stuffed him with food. dad was like "i dont care.......". the weeks we spend togheter were amazing. he's such a loving person. when he left we were both devastated and criend in the airport sooooo bad. it was a pretty hard time since we found out i was pregnant and at a routine check the doctor told me i have an ectopic pregnancy and we had to take it out he was very upset about it but he said everything has a reason..maybe thats true. i cant wait to see him in july again :X:X:X less than 1 month and a half now hope all the march filers here will have luck and get our noa2 fast so we can be with our loved ones at soon as possible and this time FOREVER!!	DeeDee&Sam	Female	Romania	2011-05-19 18:16:00