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IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresLondon Interview Date??
Have you had your medicals yet? The London Embassy will not schedule interviews until they have received the medical results.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-02-28 12:41:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisa expiring but not ready to move!
Think about this: if you were planning to travel to the US to attend a wedding, but were not ready to move, you would have to activate the visa even though you were not moving at that time. Generally, once you have activated the visa you should complete your move within 6 months.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-01 21:00:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisa Approval...I think?
I would say...any day. After ten (business) days have passed I would terrorise the Embassy's phone lines though.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-02 23:50:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresUK girl married US boy within VWP, now less than 180 days overstay, advice!
One of the most important things is to always tell the truth. If you aren't sure what the truthful answer is (eg because of a badly worded question) then ask on here. If you are worried the truth is complicated and will be misunderstood, still tell the truth and ask on here to either be reassured or advised as to whether you should provide an explanation.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-01-25 23:20:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresUK girl married US boy within VWP, now less than 180 days overstay, advice!
The only relationship evidence I sent was the marriage certificate, a boat insurance policy that happened to mention my name alongside my husband's, and three affidavits from in-laws and a friend saying basically "I know X and was present at his marriage to Y." I was approved no problem.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-01-22 20:05:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresg325a (mandatory to provide father details)
If she is a US citizen then surely the US government already know who her father is. The city/country of his residence might be something she could omit, but I don't see why that would be a huge deal to him. The answer "n/a" is not possible as it is clearly untrue: she has a father, so it is not "not applicable". Having said that, there are cases where the father is not known, so obviously it is possible to get by with no father listed. If she was born a US citizen then whatever information about her father appears on her birth certificate he should be happy for her to provide.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-07 00:35:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresGetting a green card without a co-sponsor
Indeed, current income is the important thing. Once you find a job you should just need a few pay stubs and a letter from your employer to prove your current income (and so your expected annual income). Hopefully you will find a job soon. But it is possible to delay the process for quite a while if you are still looking by the time you are asked for the Affidavit of Support. (I think I remember the NVC saying that they needed to hear from you within a year...)
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-13 01:26:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresA Few "Odds and Ends" Questions
Including affidavits is a good idea, in particular when it is a young marriage with no other proof. Ideally get something from a US citizen, one of your family members for example, just briefly stating that they have know of your relationship for a long time and mentioning contact they have had with your fiancee.

Generally, the Embassy keeps the passport then mails it to her Slovakian address with the visa in it. (About a week after the interview.) The she travels to the US and everything HeatDeath said :)

Your questions are region specific, especially the medical question. You either need a Slovakian to reply or you need to look on the website of the US Embassy in Slovakia. Every country has different processes for the medical, and some countries are not good at informing you what to do in a timely manner. So it is a good idea to find out what the case is in Slovakia :-)

OK, here is the information about the medical: http://slovakia.usem...dical-exam.html There is only one physician whom she must go to. She will probably do this between 2.5 and 6 weeks before the interview :-)
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-11 04:28:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduressigned the G form with my maiden name
I'm not even certain that this is something they would pick up on. After all, your signature can be any incomprehensible scrawl you wish, so logically they should not penalise you for a legible signature :lol: Not that USCIS is ever logical.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-13 22:59:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAOS I-864 Property Asset
I agree with pushbrk. If someone is in the situation where they don't qualify based on income, and don't want to consider a co-sponsor, but do have equity in a house then taking out an equity loan is the surest way to meet the requirements. Maybe not necessary if you were the single owner and the visa application was going through an Embassy that had a good recent history of accepting property equity, but otherwise it seems the safest route.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-15 02:54:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresI-1864 for self-employed

Question about your last sentence: "If you are sending in a copy of your tax return, instead of a transcript, you will also need to send every supporting schedule" - is that for the most recent tax year, or for all 3 years?


You have to write your income from the last three years (as shown on your tax returns) on the form. But you only need to send in the tax returns from all 3 years if you feel it would help your case. Any tax return you send in needs to be supported by the schedules. As you haven't filed for 2010 yet I think you should probably send in your 2009 return (and schedules) too. You probably don't need to send in the prior years unless they show that your lower income in 2009 was an anomaly. But if you do send them you will need the schedules and any W2s too.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-15 16:44:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresI-1864 for self-employed
Only your current income needs to be above the requirements. Now, every Embassy is different and some are stricter in how they determine if your income is enough. That is, if you state your current income as much higher than that shown on the tax returns from the previous years, then they will want more explanation as to why, to ensure that your current income will actually continue.

If you are sending in a copy of your tax return, instead of a transcript, you will also need to send every supporting schedule.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-15 03:03:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresWho will be my Petitioner? My husband or his daughter?
Your husband is the petitioner, and he must fill out an I-864. If the daughter lives in his household then she can fill out an I-864A, otherwise she fills out another I-864.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-18 15:53:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAOS Sponsers
Anh map is right. You must sponsor your husband. If you cannot meet the requirements you may have ONE joint sponsor who must be able to fully meet the requirements. If there was MORE THAN ONE immigrant, you could have TWO joint sponsors who could separately sponsor the immigrants: ie one sponsor could sponsor the husband and two kids, and the other sponsor could sponsor the other four children.

You CAN include household members though. So if one of your possible joint sponsors has a spouse or child living in their house who also earns, they may be your best bet.

Hope this information does not disrupt you too much... :-/
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-18 00:09:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisiting the UK for the first time
On some self-check kiosks you will need a staff member to let you override the "passport and ticket don't match oh no" thing. But you can travel. Just be prepared that it's possible you'll meet someone at the airline who needs persuading of that fact ;)

You'll be fine in the UK. If you have the NOA1 that will be great evidence that you are DEFINITELY not planning on moving to the UK!
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-17 23:55:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisiting the US on the VWP while I-130 is pending
Ultimately, you know that visiting is perfectly possible but not guaranteed. I will just list the visits I made :-)

10 days in early April 2009, POE Newark: "visiting boyfriend" Was asked for return ticket, was vaguely interrogated but that was not immigration related it was because the officer wanted to make sure I wasn't going to be murdered by someone I'd never met before!
3 weeks in May 2009, POE Newark: "visiting fiance" Probably had to show return ticket, officer jokingly asked if he could come to the wedding. Might've also asked when wedding was, but I didn't know.
6 weeks in June/July 2009, POE Ottawa: "visiting fiance" Might've been asked for return ticket, don't remember anything else.
3 months August-November, POE Charlotte: "visiting husband" Only female officer and the "worst" experience, which really wasn't that bad. Maybe showed return ticket? She asked what my plans were, I said we were going to apply for a visa, she said that if the visa took a while I should maybe spend longer in the UK between trips else it might cause problems. She didn't specify if she meant problems visiting or problems with the visa, it wasn't clear. I fretted about this for 4 months and made sure my next trip was about the same duration as my stay in the UK.
6 weeks December-January, POE Washington IAD: "visiting husband" Maybe showed return ticket. Officer just sympathised "won't you be glad when this is all over!" so maybe he asked about my plans or maybe he assumed I'd filed.

The immigration process is vague and who knows how long things will take. When I visited in December I thought I might say goodbye to my husband in January and then be apart for months. In fact, I was given an interview date in January (at the beginning when flights are megabucks/non-existent) which I had to postpone till February. Stay strong! And good luck.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-02-08 14:33:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures3rd party affidavits
Rare. How rare I couldn't say. Affidavits from US citizens are generally considered to carry slightly more weight than those from foreign citizens, and I guess it would be even rarer (ie never) for USCIS to contact the US citizens than it would be for the consulate in China to potentially question people.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-26 03:40:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedurespossibility to avoid CR, delay interview?
You can generally delay the interview by up to a year. But it depends exactly where you are in the process (and on the Embassy), and that may also effect the validity of police certificates if you delay too long after getting them!
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-26 03:38:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresI-130 Question
It will not affect filing the I-130, or approval thereof.

She will need to file her taxes before she can submit the I-864 though. Whether she owes taxes or not is irrelevant to that.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-28 15:04:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresTax Returns for I-864
$44,000 is great. With that kind of income there is no need for any evidence other than the most recent tax transcript. Past year tax information is more useful when someone's most recent tax return shows a lower income, but they feel the previous returns will help show that their prediction of income for the coming year is valid.
On the I-864 where it asks you to list the income on the last three tax returns, if the third one was when she was a student then you can always write in parentheses "student" if it makes you feel better.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-28 15:03:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresBest Way To Proceed
She can still be in the UK and file in the US. Basically, anyone who doesn't qualify for DCF has to do SCF. That means sometimes there are people actually living in the UK who have to do SCF as they are on some weird visa and the Embassy doesn't accept them for SCF! So you guys can file as soon as you get your marriage certificate, even if she is still with you in the UK. Just make sure there is someone who can open her mail back in the States in case you get a request for evidence. But other than that possibility, it will be several months before anything else will need doing.
(Although, things change very quickly. I filed my I-130 in August 2009 and was approved in 20 days. So there is no way of saying quite what will be going on a year from now. Never make your plans too concrete lol.)
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-29 21:38:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresBest Way To Proceed
You're right that the K1 visa does involve extra steps. I don't know when it is she turns 18, but the CR1 probably is the way for you to go.

If you want to get married in the UK (which sure does have the benefit of being able to celebrate with all your UK family/friends before moving) then the K1 would not be an option anyway.

Other than getting the permission to enter for marriage, she will also have to be in England for a little while before you marry. I can't remember how long, it may vary between parishes, but you generally have to give public notice of your marriage first so people have a chance to come forward and say you're already married lol. I can't remember if it's 9 day or 3 weeks or what, but it's not that long altogether. If you want to be as speedy as possible, you should fill out the I-130 and accompanying forms before you get married. Make sure she brings her birth certificate and anything else with her. Then as soon as you get your marriage certificate you can send off the I-130, without having to take out too much time from your newly married life :-) Then, you wait. She can stay in the UK for 6 months (if she does then maybe best not to do a honeymoon abroad) and then must return to the US, where you could visit her. But if she is able to stay for that long then you really won't be apart much at all after you marry! If she stays in the UK for a while then that may affect her ability to sponsor you, but if her parents are prepared to be joint sponsors then that is not a problem.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-03-28 20:13:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresnon-citizen as primary earner
Your parents can fulfil the financial support requirement, and your purchase of property in NY should go a long way to helping you prove that your US domicile. (As in, prove that you are intending on moving back to the US when your husband immigrates.) If you haven't been filing taxes whilst in the UK, but were eligible to file, then do so now.

Your main problem is your desire for your husband to have a job ready for when you all move. This is of course possible, and he can certainly try to apply for jobs. I have no idea what his line of work is, but maybe he is someone companies will be willing to hire in anticipation of his arrival :-) On the other hand...this may not be something you can rely on. A lot of families do have to make the huge leap across the Atlantic with no job lined up. Your first few months in America may be very hard, but worth it in the end. If health insurance is a priority, then it could be a very expensive few months too. So in that case you would have to decide if it's worth it or not.

What you could do, is start the visa application process. Your husband can start looking for jobs whenever he wants. Once he has the visa in hand, he can continue looking for jobs. Having the visa should make him a little more attractive than before. What you could do potentially, is all of you fly over to the US to activate the visa, but then return to the UK to "finish up your affairs" as it were. Your husband would then actually have his green card (well, the stamp in his passport, the actual green card would appear in the mail a few weeks later) and he could apply to jobs as a resident of the USA, and be available for interviews and the such. You would all have moved to the US but be settling up stuff in the UK. If your husband then did not find a job you could decide to return/stay in the UK. This may cost you extra money in plane tickets though, and would make moving itself a little more stressful especially if you ended up having to, for example, sell your UK house after you were living in the US.

For most people in your situation, the visa process itself is easy. But they have to make a decision to commit to the move, however hard, knowing that it will be worth it in the long-term. You may have to use up some savings in the first months in the US.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-01 14:01:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresShould I get a co-sponsor?
They will also see that you were studying in Scotland before, so it will be doubly clear why your taxable income was low in the past.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-04 22:41:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresLondon CR1 Processing Times
Yes, it is currently running on the long side.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-07 12:54:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresCanadian trying to get back to US wife and 2 US children.
Could you perhaps edit your comment so all the dates are correct? It is a little confusing :-)

I do understand that I am in a difficult position and that I most probably need a waiver, and that I should have never left the USA in the first place.


No, you should never have moved to the USA in the first place. You need to recognise that, and recognise that your position is a difficult one and made even more difficult potentially because you lied at the border, although I am not sure how much extra difficulty that adds.

You will certainly need a lawyer, and some people on here should be able to give you some recommendations. I think that you can do the very first step without a lawyer though(?), and that is to get your wife to file an I-130 for you.

Processing times vary because USCIS is forever switching its attention and, basically, being annoying. I very much doubt that you would be eligible for an expedite, so do not focus on that: I can almost guarantee that any lawyer who promises to expedite your case is a fraud. (Or well-meaning but ignorant and deluded.) (Unless there your wife is experiencing severe hardship that you have not mentioned.)
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-04 00:36:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresIR-1 : Port of Entry questions at JFK Airport
They shouldn't really ask any questions, because all the information is in the envelope and the job of the people at POE is really just to process her: take fingerprints and shuffle some paperwork. However, there are no guarantees, it's possible she comes up against someone who wants to ask lots of questions. Hopefully you can accompany her up to the window (whether you both go the citizen line or the visitor line) so that she is not alone for most of the time.

Timewise, again impossible to say. It could only take the time it takes to take the fingerprints. Or she could have to wait for an hour because everyone is eating their lunch and the one person working is busy interviewing other people.

What I can say is that (assuming you are not actually secret criminals who have been hiding this the whole time) it is not something to be worried about at all.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-10 00:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresI-864 Question

The 125% guideline needs to be met for all 3 years correct?


No. It is only current income that needs to meet the requirement. It is only if you can't entirely prove that your 2011 income would be enough that the past 3 years might help, or not help. So if your income is borderline then an even lower income in the past 3 years might go against you. But generally, in the UK at least, it is all about your current expected annual income.
JoannaVFemaleUnited Kingdom2011-04-14 20:52:00
Middle East and North AfricaHow long....to all the ladies w/beneficiary hubby
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What kind of class did you find for your husband? My problem is that my fiance is coming from Guatemala and did not graduate high school, he quit school at 16 to start working. He also does not speak hardly any English. Since we are going the K-1 process and will have a few months before receiving EAD, the general plan is to get GED (offered in Spanish!) and to work on learning Spanish so he can at least handle an interview, even if the actual job doesn't require a lot of English. He has only done restaurant work in Guatemala and as he lives in a tourist town, he has picked up his English that way - we always speak in Spanish but if I ask him what he ate for dinner, he almost always responds in English smile.gif He has said he will do anything, sure there are jobs he prefers over others, but he wants to work ASAP. With my income as a teacher we can make it, but we really want to start saving money to have kids within a year or two biggrin.gif Either way, any ideas for jobs for those who don't really speak English yet? BTW, glad you all here in MENA aren't against hearing from those from elsewhere wink.gif


I think it's really interesting hearing about how couples from other backgrounds face the same, and totally different issues... In fact I just came home from eating Mexican food with hubby and wishing he spoke Spanish! Just be careful if you go speaking Spanish in a Mexican restaurant and you are not with your husband because they will eat you up. At least you never have to wait long to get attended to haha!

It's so common these days for employees to speak Spanish, not English... there are so many Spanish speaking workers especially in food service, even our favorite arabic restaurant has Mexicans making falafel in the kitchen! That's the same here, there are a couple of Japanese restaurants with Hispanic cooks!

There's so much out there if you speak Spanish, like the GED course in Spanish you're planning for him... tons of ESL classes for Spanish speaking people, the driver's manual is in Spanish, the test too if you want it. Signs in Spanish, Press 2 for Spanish, you name it! That's a really good idea, getting him to an ESL evening class...hadn't thought of that. I guess since I'm a Spanish teacher, people (including myself lol) often think I can teach English or ESL just as well. Not so easy. I had a student the other day ask me how to explain when to use some words in English - I had no idea! It's not until you get questions like that do you realize how retarded the English language is - there are so many irregulars it's not even funny!!

But not a dang thing in Arabic... and not the most popular language either... I can't count on two hands the shocked look people have on their faces when they discover my Egyptian husband speaks unsure.gif ARABIC ohmy.gif They all think he speaks "Egyptian"... and what a change in their facial expressions when they hear it's "Arabic".... It kind of gets on my nerves... I think I'll let them think it's Egyptian from now on... rolleyes.gif Well I'll be the ignorant one to dare say in the MENA forum that I didn't know that either - but I'll never make that mistake again blush.gif Many of my students think they are in Mexican class or that my fiance and I speak Guatemalan lol wacko.gif

At least if he spoke Spanish he could find a place that hires Spanish speaking employees. His English is fine for me, but I have 30+ years of listening to "Arabish" (Arabic accented English) so I'm not a good judge of his accent, etc. But he can't understand the English of almost anyone who doesn't TRY to make him understand them... They talk to fast, too much slang, or too quietly for him to figure it out... That's the thing too, the whole accent. Fortunately Spanish is a little easier or at least more common around here than Arabic. Of course, I have to remind my fiance to be careful when he says "Shoot!" which he's picked up from me, because if he's not careful it DEFINITELY sounds like sh** lol!! He also likes to say a** which "as" in Spanish which is pronounced the same way as a** means Ace so he has no problem hearing it, whereas I never curse so to hear him say it is kinda weird rofl.gif

Well the fun starts tomorrow... his first day of job hunting... we'll see how it goes... I wish you two the best as although he is searching it is definitely a team effort! Thanks for responding and giving the encouragement - hopefully it won't be so hard as I thought, although any other ideas are more than welcome. We've still got a ways to go but just thinking ahead!


CacerezFemaleGuatemala2009-02-09 07:10:00
Middle East and North AfricaHow long....to all the ladies w/beneficiary hubby
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My husband should be getting his EAD card in the next couple weeks but he is technically authorized to work now based on the stamp on his I-94 card. He got his SSN number about a month ago but I put him in a class first so he could have some kind of US certification. He graduated yesterday from his class and plans to go out tommorow to apply for jobs. I'm not sure what kind of timeline all of this would fall in but I think he is on the right track. The hardest part for my husband is he is a medical school graduate but can't work as a doctor. For now he is willing to take whatever job he can so I thank God for that.

I'm sure each man is different on what works for him. They need at least a few weeks to a month after arrival to adjust and get the hang of things. After that it is a matter of them just trying to find work once they have authorization. The economy definitely makes things hard so what I did is search for what jobs are the most in demand. Though it is well beneath my husband's level, I saw the job with the most openings is nurse's assistant. It isn't glamorous and isn't the greatest pay, but it is a job and a step in the right direction. Try to look for what is available in your area and requires little or no training for your husband. That is my suggestion. Good luck!


What kind of class did you find for your husband? My problem is that my fiance is coming from Guatemala and did not graduate high school, he quit school at 16 to start working. He also does not speak hardly any English. Since we are going the K-1 process and will have a few months before receiving EAD, the general plan is to get GED (offered in Spanish!) and to work on learning Spanish so he can at least handle an interview, even if the actual job doesn't require a lot of English. He has only done restaurant work in Guatemala and as he lives in a tourist town, he has picked up his English that way - we always speak in Spanish but if I ask him what he ate for dinner, he almost always responds in English smile.gif He has said he will do anything, sure there are jobs he prefers over others, but he wants to work ASAP. With my income as a teacher we can make it, but we really want to start saving money to have kids within a year or two biggrin.gif Either way, any ideas for jobs for those who don't really speak English yet? BTW, glad you all here in MENA aren't against hearing from those from elsewhere wink.gif

Edited by DavChels, 08 February 2009 - 08:52 PM.

CacerezFemaleGuatemala2009-02-08 20:50:00
Middle East and North AfricaLadies and Gentlemen
I can't imagine how happy you two must be. Congrats!!! kicking.gif
CacerezFemaleGuatemala2009-02-22 11:37:00
Middle East and North AfricaStaashi's back with baby in tow...
So happy for you! Congrats - he's adorable!
CacerezFemaleGuatemala2009-04-07 21:45:00
Middle East and North AfricaDip sticks Interview March 25
Wow you have had a long wait! Best wishes for your interview, I hope you two are reunited very soon!
CacerezFemaleGuatemala2009-03-24 17:26:00
Middle East and North AfricaCombating the "yo mama don't live here" issue

Ouch! :) I'll have you know I can't function if there are dirty dishes out.. All I do is stew in the next room and think about them.

Neat-nick and proud.


LOL!!! well im sorry then all men I KNOW are like that XD
DeeDee&SamFemaleRomania2011-08-22 08:44:00
Middle East and North AfricaCombating the "yo mama don't live here" issue

This might be true, but even a good mother has to tell her son with all love and compassion to get off his azz and clean his room.


i agree, thats why i said "teach him whats good and bad all over again". lets be serious, when you love someone and dont do sh(i)t about it how do you expect to make him move his lazy a$$? i tried, and it worked. so its not impossible. and my man was (and still is) a spoiled little brat. his room was a mess always, he wouldnt eat his fruits unless they were cut in small pieces. my mom (in law) told me what a spoiled kid he is, and i still managed to change those stupid annoying parts of his behaviour. the kiddo loves me, God knows he does, and i love him the same. and the person who posted this loves her man as she should. if she does that it doesnt mean she has low self esteem. how can people say they love someone and dont do shiit about it, they prefer to divorce saying they tried. when you love someone you dont freakin' change them, but you show them the right way instead. thats not true love thats a childish crush. when you fail, you run away. thats not how life works
DeeDee&SamFemaleRomania2011-08-21 15:21:00
Middle East and North AfricaCombating the "yo mama don't live here" issue
and dont leave him, leave the others say whatever. you love him even if he's lazy, i love my baby to death no matter what. a woman has to be half wife and half mother for her husband. you have to educate him, teach him whats good and bad all over again. guys grow up slower. thats what im doing with my hard headed fiance and after 1 year it seems im going in the right direction. and buy yourself a car LOL. if he ever wants to use it make him clean something to deserve his driving reward
DeeDee&SamFemaleRomania2011-08-21 03:24:00
Middle East and North AfricaCombating the "yo mama don't live here" issue
my babe's a gamer. he's a pain in the a$$ when he wants to be. he's the one who works, but when he doesnt he can be as lazy as a plat growing in the sun. but if i get annoyed and tell him MOVE!!!! , he freaks out and does whatever i say. god knows how much i had to push him to move his a$$ to get papers for the interview and stuff. when he was here, our apartment was litterary FULLLLLLLLL of clothes, and dishes all over the floor. had to tell him 10 times to put them in the sink and it took me 3 days to make him wash the damn dishes. well.....men are like that. sooooooo push him , remind him that he has responsibilities too
DeeDee&SamFemaleRomania2011-08-21 03:17:00
Middle East and North AfricaWell Behaved women never made history
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Good God! I can just imagine that hell broke lose among folks when she came up with her own idea how to lead her life! yes.gif


Reminds me of a Meat Loaf song, called:

"...good girls go to heaven, but the bad girls go everywhere!!!!!" whistling.gif laughing.gif

R.
mnietoMaleGermany2007-11-01 14:15:00
Middle East and North AfricaNEW BABY
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mnietoMaleGermany2007-10-31 16:40:00
Middle East and North AfricaI need your support
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