Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Got I 130 approval today!!!!	Congrats!	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2011-09-30 13:08:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	visa in hand finally!!!!	Pop the Champagne!! Congrats!!	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2011-10-14 15:26:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	visa delay	If u signed up for a matri. site was it paid or free? If paid, you should have a credit card purchase for the monthly invoice. That's is your proof. If free, you should have a welcome email somewhere with your registration number and password. Good luck	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2011-11-06 03:49:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	ISL timeline..	Depends how busy embassy is . My case completed on nov 16 and I got interview date jan31. It took almost 2 weeks to schedule my interview K1 experience. After submitting paperwork to Embassy. My fiancee's interview date was announced 3 wks later.. This is normal from what I hear. embassy has to check police certificates, and submitted paperwork for accuracy, and verify completion. Plus her papers were submitted right before Eid and last week was thanksgiving break at US Embassy.. so i am pretty satisfied w/ response time.	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2011-11-30 22:40:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	CR1 denied, USCIS received it back.... now wating for review	Pavi, Sorry to hear. Was there a reason given for the denial?	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2011-09-23 18:11:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Address change between approval and POE	My wife was approved back in December and will go through POE on February 5th (yay!). On January 20th I will be moving apartments, so that when she goes through POE she will be giving a different destination address than was on her paperwork up to this point. Is there anything we need to do now or be aware of? Or does this have no effect at all? I will be with her at the POE. Check the original application you filled out. There is a section on Change of Address mentioned. Who to contact and when. It's very important to make sure immigration officials know the correct address to avoid delays. Secondly, go online to USPS and do a change of address in your name and her name, and its effective immediately.	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2012-01-14 11:04:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures	Interview Pictures	Why is there more pictures needed at the interview. I understand one may be needed for the visa. Does spouse maintain her country passport or will also the United States issue a blue passport To validate the marriage is real and not a sham.. To USCIS, they need to make sure people are legit in their intentions, and having proof like pictures is one very good example, along with joint bank, credit card, and other forms of joint proof.	Winning23	Male	Pakistan	2012-07-13 09:12:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Y's_habibitk @ Apr 29 2009, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 29 2009, 12:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here I think the wife should see it before the "best friend" sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-29 11:44:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Y's_habibitk @ Apr 29 2009, 12:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 29 2009, 12:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Great adam, but that will just backlash when she see her letter on here I think the wife should see it before the "best friend" sorry its late, i shouldnt be mean I told my wife everything about my X girlfriend, and she told me that I you should of married her.lol, She told me that she was in love with me. And I explain to her everything and why we didn't make it. I honestly told my wife do you get mad when I bring my X in a conversation and she said a little bit, But i'm your wife and I need to listen to you and know everything about you. Sometime I think she just want to get as much information as she can about my past which is ok with me. I got nothing to hide and I'm not scared either what ever is going to happened will happen anyways. Edited by adam1, 29 April 2009 - 11:46 AM.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-29 11:43:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 28 2009, 08:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> LEAVE HER ALONE! You now have a wife for peete sakes! alright sounds like the majority of you want me to live her alone, so I'm not going to wish her a happy birthday, but if she gets mad at me I will blame it on VJ members and I will show her the tread, lol:star:	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-28 23:17:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (baron555 @ Apr 28 2009, 04:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Adam, you really have a lot to learn about women and about life. Posting that letter was very classless. That was your business and should be kept private. Good luck with your new wife. I believe that in a relationship between a man and a woman, one will eventually want to take the relationship further. My belief is that a man and woman CAN NOT be friends unless there is something major preventing them from taking their relationship further, like one is married or one has a different persuasion. What you have experienced is your so called best friend actually wanted, or did in her mind, take your relationship further than you did. I'm trying to do the right thing here, so if you were in my situiation what would you do? or if you were her would you be mad if your best friend didn't wish you a happy birthday?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-28 16:13:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 28 2009, 12:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 28 2009, 11:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 21 2009, 12:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you. her birthday is coming up soon should I send her a card or just leave her a alone!!!! I think you know the answer to that one. I really don't understand girls sometimes, If I do she my get mad if I don't may get upset, so I don't know. Put your self in my situiation and hers too and let me know? thinks	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-28 14:41:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 21 2009, 12:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes as everyone has said she is still not only in love with you, she is obssessed with you and is still hoping the two of you will get back together, despite what her letter says. Please be careful and don't have any contact with her other than what is necessary. Don't reply to any of her long letters like the one you posted. That will only further her "hope" for the two of you. her birthday is coming up soon should I send her a card or just leave her a alone!!!!	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-28 11:11:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (caybee @ Apr 18 2009, 01:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Your ex still loves you and wants you back, in spite of what she says, and she's even willing to take ALL the blame for what went wrong in your relationship in hopes that your feelings toward her will change. She's still hurting over you. Not sure how classy it was to post such raw, heartfelt, and personal sentiments in a public forum for all to see. I'm sure she never intended for anyone but you to read her letter, much less broadcast it to the world. There's no friendship to salvage here. For goodness sake, e-mail her all the pictures she asked for, box up her things, get them back to her as soon as possible, and then cut contact with her so you can move on with a clean and honorable start with your new bride and she can have time to get over you, find herself again, and maybe one day find a man who really loves her. It's the healthiest and most respectful thing you can do for all three of you. QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 18 2009, 11:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> This a letter from MY X Thanks for been honest with me. I did let her come to my house and she got the pictures and all her staff everything she needed. And you right I shouldn't of post something llike this in public, I did it because I wanted to get it out and vent off, I'm sure she won't know about it.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-18 16:36:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	This a letter from MY X Abdelkrim, I have been wanting to write this email for weeks but I wanted to give you your space after what happened between us. I wanted to get the rest of the pictures off of your computer that I didn't get last time I was at your house and I have some of your things to give back to you. I hope you didn't delete them because they are my memories of my life and they are important to me. I wanted to tell you that I understand why we can not be together. I am not mad at you for leaving me. We tried and it just didn't work. I wanted it to be different but it isn't. You are the greatest love of my life. I don't regret any moment we were together. Even though I sent you mean emails before I was just angry and wanted you to hurt as much I as did. You are a wonderful man, I look at other men and think how can I compare them to what we shared. I am just sad that after three years together and knowing that we wanted all the same things, family, children, a home, a great husband and to be happy in life, we couldn't accept our differences and just love each other. That included all of our imperfections as people. I know that I am difficult and stubborn, and I had always hoped that my love for you and all the happy times together would be enough for you, but it wasn't. I am a better person for having been with you. I am going to school and striving to do well. I take better care of myself, working out to be in shape, I am using my crosstrainer and going to my doctors to get healthy. I pay my bills on time and save money. I never cared enough about me or my life before I met you to do all of those things. I was lost before you were in my life but now I appreciate everything and everyone. You gave me the best gift anyone could have given me. I am glad we have spent this time apart, it has given me a chance to clear me head and my heart. I just wanted you to know that I am so sorry that we didn't get make it this last time. I blame myself for not trying harder. I was just so scared all the time that you were going to leave me that I wasn't honest with you about everything. You kept talking about having a second wife and I thought that your family would never accept me not being muslim. Your family is so important to you, I never felt like I was not good enough for you or them. It hurt me everytime we talked about it. It was my fault that we didn't make it. I thought if we were married you wouldn't leave me if I did have cancer or if I couldn't have children or that I wasn't muslim. I just didn't want to be without you that lies were better than the truth. I didn't trust you enough that you would take care of me no matter what happened. I want the man I decide to spend the rest of this life with to want me just as I am, the good and the bad, to know that I am not done growing as a person and I am working on becoming whom I am supposed to be. To believe that we will become better and better as we grow old together. I never want him to question my loyalities to him or us. Even if we are not together my love for you has not faded away, I can't stop caring for you. I will never ask for you to take me back but hope that we can at least be civil and hope to be friends one day. You have been my best friend for so long I just miss talking to you and being with you. I know you well enough to know that you are done with our relationship as it was but hope that we can move past all the bad stuff and still be in each others lives. I don't want to waste all the time we have spent together. Will you forgive me? I want only to try a new part in life with you as friends. If you have decided to have nothing to do with me, I accept that, just please just let me get my photos and mail box key. I will forward anything sent to you by mail. I wouldn't do anything to hurt you. It is just that everyone around me for the past two weeks has been telling me what a good mood I have been in and how happy I have been, they want to know why. I know it is because I am ok with everything that has happened and happy with myself. I just wanted to share it with you too. I will be home saturday if you can let me stop by. I sent you the pictures to remind you of the good times. sandra	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-18 10:22:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (sandrila @ Apr 13 2009, 01:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Astarte @ Apr 13 2009, 11:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm a little p*ssed off that I was so nice to Adam before. I didn't realize he was the OP (who changed his name) and a real doucher. I'll reconsider who I'm nice to in the future. Damn I wasted my niceness!!!! Ok back to being a b*tch. ahhhhhhhh the devil rears its ugly head again To Sandrila and Childress_London, don't listen to Astarte she doesn't like me for some reason, If I share my past with you shouldn't hold it against me. I'm trying to better my self and be good. I got married and I moved on. I don't know why Astrate keep following me in every thread, she reminded me of my X gf. Please Astrate get off my back? I don't post in your threads, I have no use for you, you are always off topic.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-18 10:08:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 10:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 10 2009, 08:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rabat-Souissi and my husband's family is from Rabat-Medina you are from the capital hmmmm. I may go this summer to Morocco to bring my wife, she doesn't want to fligh by her self. Does she speak English? A little bit, she learned it at high school for three years, but she didn't use it for for the last three years at the college, her major is Islamic Studies. she can understand english but she is not comfortable speaking it.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 22:56:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rabat-Souissi and my husband's family is from Rabat-Medina you are from the capital hmmmm. I may go this summer to Morocco to bring my wife, she doesn't want to fligh by her self.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 20:56:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 08:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 10 2009, 05:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Adam, for the sake of everybody-especially your new wife-cut off all relations with Sandra! it seems like she was taking advantage of you...move forward and forget about the past. Look now to go in the way of Allah SWT and take care of your new wife! Quick Q: fin fi Maghreb inta sekin? Ana min Rabat when I came back to the US, the next day she came to my house and pick up some staff from the garage and left, we didn't talk, she was crying the whole time, after she got home she send tons of mean messages... since that day we didn't talk or met. I told my wife everything, and she told me that Sandra was in love with me and ask me why you I didn't marry her. I told her if I did I wouldn't be with you!!! Allah has a reason for everything and u didnt answer my second question-fin sekin fi maghreb? I'm from Casablanca, Bernoussi and you? I mean your grandparents	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 20:00:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 10 2009, 05:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Adam, for the sake of everybody-especially your new wife-cut off all relations with Sandra! it seems like she was taking advantage of you...move forward and forget about the past. Look now to go in the way of Allah SWT and take care of your new wife! Quick Q: fin fi Maghreb inta sekin? Ana min Rabat when I came back to the US, the next day she came to my house and pick up some staff from the garage and left, we didn't talk, she was crying the whole time, after she got home she send tons of mean messages... since that day we didn't talk or met. I told my wife everything, and she told me that Sandra was in love with me and ask me why you I didn't marry her. I told her if I did I wouldn't be with you!!!	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 16:32:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (sandrila @ Apr 10 2009, 10:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (abdelkrim @ Apr 8 2009, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (chemaatah @ Apr 8 2009, 06:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> what were the circumstances of you coming to the united states? how did you come to live here, family? I came here through the Diversity Lottery program http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1322.html . I don't have any family member here, never being married before... I dated on and off while I was in college and non of those girls were what I was looking for, they were just wild and I didn't think they will be good mothers of my children (I'm not here to judge), I may be wrong because.. after I finish school got a job bought a house got my Citizenship decided its time for me to do the right thing and get married. guess what last Christmas I went to Morocco and got married with a girl that I never met before, it was arranged by my family.. My coworkers were lol at me when I got back married they told how can you make a life decision so fast they told me I'm crazy..what ever I told them love will come after.. that's my life story. let me know if you want to know more about me? what was the reason behind your question if you don't mind?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 13:43:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 10 2009, 09:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 10 2009, 08:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 10 2009, 06:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 11:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> childress- you can teach me a few things in farsi Man 3 mahe keh dar madrasse Farsi hastam. Farsi baladnistam. Not much anyway. lol I think it means you are taking classes or learning Farsi. that's what I could pick out of your words. Very good! Yes I said that I have been in Farsi school for three months and I do not know Farsi. see I told you arabic and Farsi are very close	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 08:45:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 10 2009, 06:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 11:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> childress- you can teach me a few things in farsi Man 3 mahe keh dar madrasse Farsi hastam. Farsi baladnistam. Not much anyway. lol I think it means you are taking classes or learning Farsi. that's what I could pick out of your words.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 08:38:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 10 2009, 06:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 11:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> childress- you can teach me a few things in farsi Man 3 mahe keh dar madrasse Farsi hastam. Farsi baladnistam. Not much anyway. lol What that suppose to mean?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-10 06:20:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 9 2009, 08:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> you didn't understand, sorry about that! she just told me that she do speak Moroccan and that she learned it from her grandparents when she goes to Morocco on vacation. If you keep reading our posts I promise you will learn something new everyday.lol U may have some use for Arabic its close to farisi(Iranian language), your husband language.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-09 21:43:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (adam1 @ Apr 9 2009, 12:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 12:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Shukran Adam and inchallah you and your wife will have a great life in the submission of Allah SWT. Do you speak Moroccan very good? Eh. Ana kan khadir Arabiya mazyan walakain ma kan kitibsh mazyan fi l'ordinateur elesh? wach kat fhamni? ah kanfahmak mazyan. chkon 3almak l3arbiya babak ola rajlek ola jadak o jadatek?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-09 11:10:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 9 2009, 12:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Shukran Adam and inchallah you and your wife will have a great life in the submission of Allah SWT. Do you speak Moroccan very good?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 23:41:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	lol...well I visited Morocco every summer to be with my grandparents and my hubby found me alhamdoliallah as I was still young at the time and he was only 19-young for Moroccans. anyways we kept in contact and I visited every year and even though we wanted to get married when I was 16, I had to wait until I was 18 because of my parents. Now alhamdolillah our relationship is stronger than ever! and yes that's one reason he chose me - my old fashion qualities and desires in life [/quote] I'm sure both of u made the right decision, and which u both a happy marriage and life.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 22:53:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Kenza @ Apr 8 2009, 10:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> off topic kind of...my Moroccan dad came here on a sponsorship to go to UC Davis where he met my mom They lived in Morocco for a little bit but then came back to the US and we've been here ever since. Both me and my sis were born here Off topic I didn't know your father was Moroccan. that's why you decided to find a Moroccan Hubby I see how it is . when girls are hunting for a husband they always look for somebody like there fathers... I think that applies for me too my wife has the same qualities that my mom has (old school, never had a job, like to take care of children....)	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 21:56:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (chemaatah @ Apr 8 2009, 06:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> what were the circumstances of you coming to the united states? how did you come to live here, family? I came here through the Diversity Lottery program http://travel.state.gov/visa/immigrants/types/types_1322.html . I don't have any family member here, never being married before... I dated on and off while I was in college and non of those girls were what I was looking for, they were just wild and I didn't think they will be good mothers of my children (I'm not here to judge), I may be wrong because.. after I finish school got a job bought a house got my Citizenship decided its time for me to do the right thing and get married. guess what last Christmas I went to Morocco and got married with a girl that I never met before, it was arranged by my family.. My coworkers were lol at me when I got back married they told how can you make a life decision so fast they told me I'm crazy..what ever I told them love will come after.. that's my life story. let me know if you want to know more about me? what was the reason behind your question if you don't mind?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 21:29:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 8 2009, 01:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> OK well here is a story from my Mom's life. She is from France. My dad is American. When he met her in France, she didn't speak much English and he didn't speak much French. But they ended up married. :-) I asked her how did they communicate and she just smiled and said you don't need to talk to communicate. did you learn French from you mom? I do speak Arabic, Berber and French. I'm from Morocco originally, I came to the US 6 years ago. I don't think I have a culture problem with my wife, But some times I fell like I do have some differences with her when it come to organizing things and thinking ahead of time. she told me I become Americanized... well I may which is a good thing... I asked her last week to get a police certificate and it took me two weeks to convince her to do that witch its just frustrating sometimes to deal with Foreigners. I'm here doing everything I can to make our VJ smood and to make our life easy when she get here and she just don't get it.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 14:42:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	LOL. I'm happy now. I thought I was the only one suffering. but I guess everybody on VJ is.lol	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-08 10:16:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	[quote name='Natashas_eyes' date='Apr 7 2009, 10:03 PM' post='2816680'] I am like you and it is difficult. He is currently working in Rabat and we haven't talked in almost a week. The interview is coming close and I want him to know the packet will be arriving very soon, but his phone is being repaired. Generally, after work, I would speak to him, just the status of everything online, do some things at home, maybe watch a little tv and go to bed. I haven't been able to focus on much of anything. Now I am seeking a new place to live and I think about what I can do to make his arrival here special. I sometimes go with friends, but often times I don't feel like it. I try to keep my mind busy by researching odd facts or learning something new. I hope for the best for you and of course, there is always making and meeting new friends and talking like this ~Natasha I hear u Natashas, Thanks for sharing. I do very much the same thing you do. I want to share this with u there is a cheap way to call Morocco from USA if he can get buy a WANA cell phone. the phone cost about $20 one time price than you pay $5 a week and you can talk 24/7 no additional charge. go to www.kleema.com deema direct. i used it for 4 months so far no problems.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-07 21:37:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (childress_london @ Apr 7 2009, 04:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Sounds like she may be depressed from missing you. Encourage her to stay busy. :-) may be she is depressed from missing me or from the whole situation. she is busy with college. I asked her today if she gets made when we are in the phone and we got nothing to talk about? she said yes I do, and I asked her why? she said I would be woundring if our life will be that booring when we live together. I said of course no we will have 4 kids you will be changing Dypers....taking them to school.. cooking for me...I promised her she won't be boored at all. than she said I don't mind doing all that but I don't want you to forget about me about our love, I want you to stay romantic , I want to be happy. taraaaaaaaaa I want the same thing. finaly I got her to talk for 3 hours, I fall in sleep twise during that conversation then she got mad because I slept she asked me if i was boored? I was like no no not at all, I felt safe and peace while you were talking to me thats why I slept but I was realy tired from work.lol. talking sweet to her made her day, I also told her that it doesn't matter if we got nothing to talk about over the phone everybody got that problem and its ok, I still love you and that wont change!!!! I felt stupid when I finaly got her to talk than fall in sleep while she was talking, tell me that I'm not a D ####!!!	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-07 20:19:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	I call her few munites ago and she didn't sound right!!! I ask her whats wrong are you sick or something? she said no, I'm sleeping, I just got back from school and my mom was trying to wake me up but I didn't want to, but as soon as she heard the phone ringing she jumped of the bed she new it was me.lol, I feel spesial. Her MOM said to her thank god he called because you wouldn't get up today. nice try from her she will learn!!!	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-07 14:49:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	that was so sweet Sandrila. last time I saw my wife was 4 month and 9 days. I have another problem, when we talk in the phone we actualy got nothing to talk about. i would ask her how was her day? how is her family? what did you eat for lunch? I would BS for little bit than thats it. 10 munites latter we got nothing to talk about. I told her her do I need to talk to you ones a week so we will have something to talk about? she said what ever you think, then I decided not to call her for a week. 3 days latter she call me and left me 3 messages she said that she got an important question about her passport... I knew she missed me but she didn't want to say that hahaha. Anyways I don't Know what to do with her, when I call her she doesn't talk much and when I don't she freak out. I have no D she loves me, but she is young (21 years old, I'm 29) and never being in a relationship before. she need to improve her communication skills with her Hubby before I give up.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-07 11:36:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (just_Jackie @ Apr 7 2009, 12:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I play solitaire, drink instant coffee and I have the whitest whites in Illinois jJ I see how it is. I'm in North Carolina, i drink sweet Ice tea and enjoy out doors....But I still get boored some times. I think I need to change my friend and find me some that are going through the VJ so I can vent because the friends that I have now are not wellling to listen to me.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-07 09:48:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (amysaid @ Apr 6 2009, 01:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am in nursing school and i have a five year old little girl, so there is ALWAYS something to do... not to mention all the tv i have dvr'd O my good DVR, why did you have to remind me, my X girl friend was addicted to it. she will wacth a show after show non stop all day, I couldn't get her to do anything. but to be honest i liked Two & Half Men,CSI,C mind,NYPD.....I have the Arabic Dish network satelite not bad , but no shows like DVR. I think I need to find me friends who are going through the same process so I can vent and share idea. that will probably help me little bit.	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-06 23:18:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (Far2Long @ Apr 3 2009, 05:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Pursed a degree and graduated. I'm a graduate student since 2007, and to be honest with I'm sick of school and I cant concentrate. I going to to take a state contractor licence exam on the 24 of april, I havn't open any book yet instead I'm always at VJ or NVC website..... suck I just want to know if its just me or everybody is going through this?	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-03 19:12:00
Middle East and North Africa	For those who are waiting for there lovers to come!!	QUOTE (TamaraLovesAdam @ Apr 3 2009, 04:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well my husband is here now, but.... when I was waiting for him I got a 2nd job to help pay bills, save money and bcz my mind went crazy if I didnt have something productive to do. I definitely got depressed and didnt want to talk to family or friends so I worked 2 jobs 6 days a week. I can't work a second job because every five weeks I go On Call for a week on my actual job and they can call me anytime. its tough	adam1	Male	Morocco	2009-04-03 15:47:00