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How exciting to share the baby with family charles. Have a great time.

Yes I have been on the FB too.

I see lots approvals in Nigeria which is good news for the waiting.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-03-25 12:09:00
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Good morning Subbies~

Spring is arriving. IT's great to have a fresh new look on life.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-03-19 12:07:00
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Good mornign Subbies! Last day of work. TAking Elijah snowboarding tonight. God is good.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-02-18 05:55:00
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Good morning Subs! Got another shorter hair cut and I am loving it.
Lost another couple pounds. Doing the bible study..Anointed , Transformed, and Redeemed whic his amazing.

Hope all is well.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-02-09 08:44:00
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Good morning Subbies. Hope everyone is enjoying the new year. It is my year of revelation. Just when you think I can't be enlighten anymore...I am going higher.

Have a great weekend. All!
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-02-04 08:26:00
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Congrats BOAZ and Joej!

I lost 5lbs last week. And I been working out 5 x a week for an hour. Yahoo. Life is good with God in it.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-01-14 12:25:00
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Look at all the oldies, but goodies.

Boaz how are you feeling!!!!

God is good and faithful.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-01-10 19:17:00
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Hey Subbies new and old. God is good all the time.

Chipsa good to have you on my facebook. Now that is my fbcrack fix. LOL
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2010-01-08 15:32:00
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Great Christmas with Elijah and family. Looking forward to the new year.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-27 09:28:00
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Merry Christmas and what Shefellfromheaven said.

QUOTE (shefellfromheaven @ Dec 23 2009, 05:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Subbies

Have a merry Christmas anda blessed New Year. Let's not forget Jesus in our feasts, may He live in our Hearts forever. Be Blessed .


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-24 08:34:00
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Good morning subbies!

Busy weekend with my nieces. I am soo soo tired. Not even ready for Christmas. got to get the darn stcking Stuffers that soem how cost more then the gifts. LOL

Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-21 10:32:00
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Good mronign subbies. Spent the weekend with my nieces and I am tired. I can't stay up passed 9 pm and not pay for it some how.

Hope everyone is enjoying your blessings.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-20 07:30:00
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It's Friday!

Congratulations again BOAZ! Your story is encouraging.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-18 13:22:00
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Great way to reward yourself Reseese.

I am off to the gym again. WOW i think i am finally addited to something healthy again. ehehehe


Yes, Subbies have been quiet. Its time to get the new folks up and about.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-16 04:39:00
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Good morning Subbie.
Thank you for your note Idocare. I will talk to you soon.

Went to the gym two days in a row with the cold morning. I am thankful.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-15 07:38:00
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Good morning Subbies.

Babynursetobe you are in my prayers. You will have favor.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-14 04:47:00
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Uno.. that song was great. i loved it. I will go to Itunes and download. Thanks for thinking of me.

Hey everyone what a great sunday. Watching football, while my osn makes peanut butter cookies. I am so blessed.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-13 14:48:00
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Good morning subbies. It is very cold in Maine. Everyone is dwindling off.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-12 06:07:00
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Good morning Sub!

Cold this morning and snow yesterday. I bet my ex is happy to be in AZ. *wink

Have a joy filled day.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-10 05:50:00
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BOAZ you never called me back.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-08 12:16:00
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I believe you stated you were out of AP right? You will not be interviewed again unless their were questions they want answered due to the AP. 2nd interview at the Nigerian embassy is usualy just to say Yes or No.
From what I have read regarding changing from one petition to the other is just a technicallity.

Ok call me at work. I am confused.

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Evening all. Hope very one is doing well. Had a busy weekend with church, family and friends.



Hello all....hope everyone's having a good week. Missy I lost your email address and I can't get on facebook at work, but wanted to let u know I got your message and I will let u know about the african food. I'm preparing for the I130 interview and wanted to know what I need to be worried about?? Ademola has already interviewed on the I129 back in April, which ended in AP and I want to try to avoid that. Any hints let me know......Thanks.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-08 12:06:00
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Evening all. Hope very one is doing well. Had a busy weekend with church, family and friends.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-06 18:20:00
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Good morning Sub! Hope everyone is fearing well during the holidays. Knowing that this is a difficult time to be awayfrom you loved ones. What a better way to apprecaite the ones that are near.

Off to the gym this morning. God is such a driving force in my life right now. Got to keep my tabernacle healthy and fit if i want him to reside it there.


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-12-02 04:18:00
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Hey, Pres... I seen that too.

Hey Sub. Hope everyone had a family fun filled Thanksgiving. Mine was wonderful. LIfe is real Good. Went to the gym this morning. I feel great.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-30 14:53:00
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Good morning Sub! I can't even say anything other then Happy Thanksgiving. I have read some concerning things in this forum.

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” ~ Melody Beattie


Edited by Enlighten one :), 25 November 2009 - 06:28 AM.

Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-25 06:27:00
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I wasn't run down, I was pushed. Run down is when you can't get back up. I am up and running. LOL God is good and faithful. I will be redeemed and raised up.

QUOTE (NigeriaorBust @ Nov 20 2009, 11:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My thought was that from your own description of your relationship you may be stepping in front of the immigration for hire train and about to get run down again



Thanks UNO!
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-20 12:52:00
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QUOTE (NigeriaorBust @ Nov 20 2009, 11:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Actually going public when you say that the brother paid you to go there and paid for everything until the process was complete just makes it sound like you were one of those women that marries for a fee. They tend to be pretty good actors about how valid the marriage is during the process and how they were wronged as soon as the contact is done with. Not sure that is the type of thing you might want to have brought up.


Click here for your response

Let's keep this forum for what is meant to be. Light conversation please. If you would like to debate my situation, please join me above. I love anythign to keep my story going so no one misses. it.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-20 11:39:00
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Subbies please accept my oppoligy for getting on the soap box in this form. lets keep this light and airy so people keep comming back. Please accept my oppolog for my use of "there" when it should be "their". LOL

Whydbe, if you would like more friendly debate PM me or post in me thread titled the christian conman. There was a reason I did not type my story here, but for too keep this friendly and light the pure intention of the cafe.

Edited by Enlighten one :), 20 November 2009 - 08:21 AM.

Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-20 08:20:00
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Oh, yeah. Good morning Sub! God is so good and faithful. Another God given day I am thankful for.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-20 06:02:00
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Oprah is going Cable. There is still Dr Phill, Date Line, and a book deal. 419 scammers has nothing to do with Immigration totally different story.

Whidbey, if you read through my post I warned woman that Immigration Scams are prevalent. I stated that there were more woman on Visa Journey Nigerian Portal that came back to tell a story of deceit then that came back to tell the story of Glory. There are very successfully relationships, but there are also very sad stories of lies, using, and abuse.

I have not generalized the Nigerian populations in any of my post. Not one. If I do speak of a Nigerian it is because I am talking about my specific personal experience. I think my focus on him was the fact that he was a Christian and can still be a liar and user for the American dream. Becuase he did live his life upright and all other areas.

If there are just as many stories of immigration fraud from African/3rd world countries, there is obvious a need to tell the story to prevent other American's from getting lied to, used, and abused for the American dream. If it makes just one woman more cautious, then that is my goal. God brought me through for a reason. Not just to run and hide with shame and regret. Not going there.

I already have had 3 woman send me notes about how they were frauded too just last week. That are too ashamed to post there stories as others were when I used to post warning about immigration fraud.

A friend from my office was in line getting coffee just yesterday when she overheard a man talk about his sister getting used by a Nigerian for immigration. My mother's daughter inlaw has a freind who was a devout Christian who married a Nigerian in London who used her for two years until he got his 10GC. I have a freind from years back who married an African who left her in just two years. This is just little ole Maine. We complain about USCIS and EMbassy, but they are doing their difficult job to figure out what they are going to do with this new online dating that is clogging the immigration process with woman marrying someone they chat iwth online and visit with for just a week or two.

I hear what you are saying whidbey, but if you have read my past post you would know that I have warned people of exactly what I am going through. There is a manual in Nigeria just on how to use an American for immigraion. My husband used a play by play. He was coached. Every person I interacted with was involved.




Edited by Enlighten one :), 20 November 2009 - 06:01 AM.

Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-20 05:58:00
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Sounds like good news for you guys, Baby!

Good mornig Subbies. LIfe is great and it's all because of the man above. I am thankful.

Got my hair cut short this week. I love it. My ex did not want me to cut it..well now he is gone, I guess I can do what i want. heheheh
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-19 07:35:00
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Baby that is great news. I think our AP was over about a month after the home vist. It does feel good to know that part.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-18 09:35:00
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Good morning Sub! I think we should get together Pres/Pers and start producing. LOL

Have a great day Subbies. The week is half way through. Car in the shop today.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-18 07:54:00
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Pres we think too much alike. I already been saying that to people. I will be on the next Dr. phill or Operah.

People need to know the story of immigration scam. I wish more woman would speak out so they could stop someoen from making a mistake.

thanks pres!


QUOTE (Perseverance @ Nov 17 2009, 08:20 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Missy,

I was re-reading your posts and I remembered something, way back during a flame war ( I am sure you remember those in this forum blink.gif )

Someone had suggested, ( I doubt in a sincere manor) that the poster (if I remember it was Idocare) to go on Dr Phil.

I was thinking about this, I think that it would be benificial for those who have been scammed to try and get a message out to other single women, to try and get on Dr Phil, or Oprah. If several people went to them, I think that they would listen, they say to send in show ideas.

It was just a thought, to send a message to a lot of people.

If you want me to help with this by contacting them too, send me a message or give me a call, I sent you my number in an email

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Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-17 10:17:00
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I look forward to your call.

Ok didn't make it to the gym today my clock on my stove was set wrong during daylight savings time. So I am using that as an excuce. LOL

Another wonderful God given day is on it's way.

I am thankful for his faithfulness.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-17 07:53:00
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Thanks my sub friends.

Prayer does so much things.

Woke up at 4 and made it to the gym today. I joind a new gym about a week and half ago. Everyday I said i would wake up and go to the gym. Not once did I ask God for help and not once did I get up and go. OK so last night I prayed for God devine intervention so that i would get up and go to the gym. So today it happend. YOu can't do it alone. With God you can do anything.
I feel amazing today.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-16 08:37:00
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Good mornig Sub. Sorry I have not been around. I wanted to wait until I posted my story.

Remember God is good and faithfull. All the time.

Read My Story Here

Beautiful! You go Charles.


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He's ADORABLE Charles!!!!!!!!!!!!

that's my mini me kicking.gif


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-11-10 09:00:00
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Good morning Sub! Hope everyone is doing grand and finding favor.

Presverance: All news is good news. We just do not see the goodness in at first, but God has a plan. I will post soon.


QUOTE (Perseverance @ Oct 24 2009, 09:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We have recieved 10 year green card. Thanks everyone good.gif


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-10-27 05:22:00
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You will have favor.

QUOTE (WhidbeyGirl @ Oct 20 2009, 05:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
WOO HOOO!!!

Job interview for hubby tomorrow afternoon!!! He actually got calls on TWO jobs today!!!! You have to understand there are a whopping 22 jobs listed for this island and he applied for the three he could do!!! The 1st job he got called for is for a farm store - which would be REALLY beneficial for our farm costs and it's 30 to 40 hours a week. The job he got the interview for is a bank teller, it's only 20 hours a week but definitely more something he'd prefer to do so a step in the door.

We'll pray and God will provide the best one!


Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-10-21 04:18:00
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Good morning Sub! Been too shock to post, but I am anxiouse to share my story. When time and presence allows.
Enlighten one :)FemaleNigeria2009-10-19 09:34:00