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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 9)
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 14 2008, 08:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Portland link me when you reach.

1luv -- what's the visa process like in Canada (fiance)? How much and how long does it take?

Lawny we dont have fiance visa over her.

The spousal sponsorship process here is not as bad as the USA. The total for spousal sponsorship is $975.00CDN
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-14 08:32:00
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mawning peeps.
TGIF kicking.gif
I have a question for u guys. I have a cell phone bill I havent paid, well it went to collections and now they are writing stating a settlement for 59% of what I owe. Should I pay it or leave it. I heard that if I pay it, it will still be on my credit. helpsmilie.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-14 06:30:00
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QUOTE (clairern @ Nov 14 2008, 05:46 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning ladies. I know it is early, but I am about to leave for my trip to new York. Keep me in your thoughts and prayers that I will get there and return home safely.

I know when I get back I am going to have about 100 pages to catch up on. I am just on page 309 and you all know I have to read every single dyam post. That way me nuh miss noting and nah haffi ask nobadi fe tell me waa a gwaan...lol

safe travels good.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-14 06:02:00
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nite ladies see u all later star_smile.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 16:00:00
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QUOTE (1luv @ Nov 13 2008, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Kimmy, that is why I am glad that my husbands daughter is coming in the next couple of weeks cause she (baby mama) nuh have nuttin more fi get mad.gif


GIRL..SHE NO WORK..how do u survive..buy ur necessities as a woman..dyam wukliss



u dunno? u an kashi buying dem necessities fi har


a dat mi tell him...but mi no care who waan vex but mi yaad affi get tek care a fuss i tell u dat much dat btch needs to go wuk...mi a kill off fi mi self nealy vomit out mi tripe while preggo and she sidung pon fi har fat rass..mi no tink so..if a $100 wi ave a dat a go get sent..yuh feel mi

I cuss all the rass time. Mi nuh care if im bex. If she did hav ambition fi do a likkle someting den I can give har credit, but she just a do nuttin so. Dat nuh mek it.

Edited by 1luv, 13 November 2008 - 03:58 PM.

1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:57:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 13 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Luv..we send money every 2 wks..other wise she is gonna claim she spent it all and call before the next round..and of course him nah go put no limit pon him girls..if him no send nuttin dem no ave nuttin..sooo sad

So sad fi true blush.gif


BUT U KNOW LUV..MI MEK HIM FEEL BAD MORETIME CAUSE A FI HIM FAULT..WHEN DEM DID DEH SHE NEVA DID GOOD FI NUTTIN BUT( ) WUKLISS..AND HIM USED TO WUK OUT HIM LIFE FI PROVIDE..IF HIM NO SEH HELP DEM WID DEM HW SHE NO AVE A CLUE...MI FEEL SORRY FI HAR

Girl, I wish I was there to shake off your hand. Ah dem spoil di ooman dem. mad.gif We talked abt this same thing on Sunday.
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:42:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Nov 13 2008, 03:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 13 2008, 01:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So i was just outside with hubby..his phone rings (babymodda) me..wah she want while he's on the phone smile.gif him..mi no know yet Kimmy laughing.gif him..start laughing....me..wah dis..oonuh a big fren now??/ mad.gif him..no, mi tell har she no call unless she want something and last time when she call fi no reason mi ask har if it a rain..and gues wah it is raining..dat woman don't call till payday..like she know how him money a mek or she a help him mek it...sh eno affi call fi get the girls money...pisses me off that she does all the freakin time...oonuh blame mi



Ha.....MIL called today. One daughter went to hospital and stayed overnight with flu symptoms. Oldest daughter is moving back to JA with her 2, soon to be 3 kids. Guess what tomorrow is?????????

PAYDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:38:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 13 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Luv..we send money every 2 wks..other wise she is gonna claim she spent it all and call before the next round..and of course him nah go put no limit pon him girls..if him no send nuttin dem no ave nuttin..sooo sad

So sad fi true blush.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:37:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 13 2008, 02:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So i was just outside with hubby..his phone rings (babymodda) me..wah she want while he's on the phone smile.gif him..mi no know yet Kimmy laughing.gif him..start laughing....me..wah dis..oonuh a big fren now??/ mad.gif him..no, mi tell har she no call unless she want something and last time when she call fi no reason mi ask har if it a rain..and gues wah it is raining..dat woman don't call till payday..like she know how him money a mek or she a help him mek it...sh eno affi call fi get the girls money...pisses me off that she does all the freakin time...oonuh blame mi


dis mus be baby modda week den. blink.gif chris finally tells his he is married n new baby...she spew ten thousand questions in two min one of them bein WHAT I LOOK LIKE blink.gif she up there wantin to know my friggin complexion.... what will this news do for her???? help me understand....den ask if Sanaa look like his two girls...

WHAT A BRIGHT AND FEISTY OOMAN mad.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:31:00
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Kimmy, will he file for them later on?
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:19:00
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QUOTE (1luv @ Nov 13 2008, 03:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Kimmy, that is why I am glad that my husbands daughter is coming in the next couple of weeks cause she (baby mama) nuh have nuttin more fi get mad.gif


GIRL..SHE NO WORK..how do u survive..buy ur necessities as a woman..dyam wukliss

Girl, I have stories for u. She is a dutty bloodclaat wukless mumma. She have 3 pickney,wid 3 different puppa and abandon di whole a dem. She just lie dung cook har man food and tek f***mad.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:14:00
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Kimmy, that is why I am glad that my husbands daughter is coming in the next couple of weeks cause she (baby mama) nuh have nuttin more fi get mad.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 15:05:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 13 2008, 11:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Portland...I used to have the same problem with the head scarf. It would never stay on. I'm going natural now...so I don't tie nothing up..I just go to sleep. Husband is soo happy..he hate the scarf. Now I just have to stop sleep with long pants pajamas...He doesn't like that either. I got to work on my sexy sleeping side. content.gif

hubby is like that too. Dont like me to sleep in pjs just sexy nighties



No use...dem afi come aff. Besides can't sleep with satin it's too cold on my skin.

Him nuh even like mi to sleep inna panty. Him say "mi have it on all day, Mek it breathe nuh!" whistling.gif


LOL, That's so funny! no wonder you have another on the way... yu may affi hide it!

u seeit whistling.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 12:17:00
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QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 13 2008, 11:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
SHREW WHY U WRITE LIKE DAT..U CONFUSE MI..MI AFFI GO BACK LIKE 2 TIME FI PUT DI 2 LINES TOGETHER

lawny try silk..(no jokes there)can't sleep in Satin either...by mawnin come di dyam nighti a hang mi...

LOL
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 11:15:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 13 2008, 11:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 13 2008, 11:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Portland...I used to have the same problem with the head scarf. It would never stay on. I'm going natural now...so I don't tie nothing up..I just go to sleep. Husband is soo happy..he hate the scarf. Now I just have to stop sleep with long pants pajamas...He doesn't like that either. I got to work on my sexy sleeping side. content.gif

hubby is like that too. Dont like me to sleep in pjs just sexy nighties



No use...dem afi come aff. Besides can't sleep with satin it's too cold on my skin.

Him nuh even like mi to sleep inna panty. Him say "mi have it on all day, Mek it breathe nuh!" whistling.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 11:11:00
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QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Nov 13 2008, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mawnin Yardies!
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Hey Sunray. How tings, How is Ray ?
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 11:10:00
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QUOTE (kkholiday2006 @ Nov 13 2008, 11:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Portland...I used to have the same problem with the head scarf. It would never stay on. I'm going natural now...so I don't tie nothing up..I just go to sleep. Husband is soo happy..he hate the scarf. Now I just have to stop sleep with long pants pajamas...He doesn't like that either. I got to work on my sexy sleeping side. content.gif

hubby is like that too. Dont like me to sleep in pjs just sexy nighties
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 11:07:00
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Wanted to share. Now, if the link works don't ya'll laugh to hard.

http://www.makemesup...55-063619-f-Mom

I laughed so hard I almost piss up miself. That was funny rofl.gif



1luv;

tap laugh aftah mi crying.gif ...girl did you love my wig...how u think I would look BLOND

it sell off good.gif
I love ur skin......FLAWLESS. What do u use?


Water girl...lots of water. It makes my hair grow too (don't know why). I just need to work on my weight. Mi a try get legs like Kimmy, but it no look dat ago appen

I try to drink alot of water too. I drink too much pop/juice. My skin is not bad, but it can be better star_smile.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 10:33:00
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Wanted to share. Now, if the link works don't ya'll laugh to hard.

http://www.makemesup...55-063619-f-Mom

I laughed so hard I almost piss up miself. That was funny rofl.gif



1luv;

tap laugh aftah mi crying.gif ...girl did you love my wig...how u think I would look BLOND

it sell off good.gif
I love ur skin......FLAWLESS. What do u use?
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 10:17:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 13 2008, 09:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wanted to share. Now, if the link works don't ya'll laugh to hard.

http://www.makemesup...55-063619-f-Mom

I laughed so hard I almost piss up miself. That was funny rofl.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 10:13:00
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QUOTE (Jomo @ Nov 13 2008, 09:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 12 2008, 09:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why mi deh a #1 KK whistling.gif ..JG never got out of the slump smile.gif


I'm not in a race. Busy at work yesterday. Stupid books I've been working on for nearly a year now (and reason for DC trip) finally arrived yesterday. Had/have to figure out how to get them out to all 500 people now. I got a lot of exercise yesterday, that is for sure.

QUOTE (sus @ Nov 13 2008, 07:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL, 1luv - I thought the same!!

So far this is turning out to be a great day - I finally listened to my voicemail at work - (I am really bad with that, lol) I won a Wii!! They had a contest at the conference I was at!

Also - My paper that I totally procrastinated on - I got a 90!



Gold Star star_smile.gif for Sus!

QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 13 2008, 08:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1 luv it was a FRILLY yellow and white dress and I had yellow and white ribbons in my hair, yellow and white bubbles and white socks with the lace around it with back patent shoes

Mawin Kimmy --

Naw no ave nutin fi mi dis mawnin mi belli a bawl



Awwwwww.........did anyone take a picture? I bet you looked adorable.

JG....I was just abt to ask the same ting
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 09:29:00
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QUOTE (JOURNEE1125 @ Nov 12 2008, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Cant the dry cleaner get it back to white and the put it in one of those wedding dress boxes?


It depends on how long its been yellow and the type of material it is.


Lets see. Mommy is 60, she got married when she was 16 and I was born in 1979...it's REAL OLD. It's really not that yellow, more like a tinted yellow. It's beautiful My great aunt from England made the dress for my mommy.

QUOTE (clairern @ Nov 12 2008, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lawny, me still a wait pon de dyam call fram yuh rolleyes.gif



Nuh wurry u'self...when mi start call u all di time u ago block mi numbah like di one Kimmy.



So you are 28? Thought we were the same age whistling.gif


Sus, I'm 38 eight sis...I meant to type 1970. You're memory is better than mine. I came to the states in 1979 (even remember what I wore)

what did u wear?
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 08:50:00
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HELLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. Where is everyone this morning blush.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 08:40:00
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Cant the dry cleaner get it back to white and the put it in one of those wedding dress boxes?


It depends on how long its been yellow and the type of material it is.


Lets see. Mommy is 60, she got married when she was 16 and I was born in 1979...it's REAL OLD. It's really not that yellow, more like a tinted yellow. It's beautiful My great aunt from England made the dress for my mommy.

QUOTE (clairern @ Nov 12 2008, 06:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lawny, me still a wait pon de dyam call fram yuh rolleyes.gif



Nuh wurry u'self...when mi start call u all di time u ago block mi numbah like di one Kimmy.



So you are 28? Thought we were the same age whistling.gif

She probably meant 1969 LOL rofl.gif I certainly know me and are not the same age!
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-13 08:20:00
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mi gone home. lata kicking.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 15:57:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 12 2008, 02:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1luv;

Like my cousin HER name is Jermaine. I also have a friend name Phillipah or the name Sean is pronounced Shawn here, but not in Jamaica...my people dem pronouce it See'an.

we do too!
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 15:02:00
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1luv;

Some a di STOOSH (Kimmy) peoople dem fram town call it GRATER CAKE

Yes thats it. So wat name shammy?



Girl, I luv you u got me over here cracking up I have to call my mom on this one, I think you mean BAMMY rofl.gif ...bout shammy.

That's like my neighbors telling me she ate CHICKEN TOE soup in Jamaica rofl.gif

Girl, I know what bammy is. I will ask Roan tonight.


luv you're hubby spells his name differently, I haven't seen that spelling in a long time. I'm use to Rohan.

When I met him the first time, I wrote him a note I did spell it like Rohan. and im sey its Roan widout di "H"
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 14:50:00
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1luv;

Some a di STOOSH (Kimmy) peoople dem fram town call it GRATER CAKE

Yes thats it. So wat name shammy?



Girl, I luv you u got me over here cracking up I have to call my mom on this one, I think you mean BAMMY rofl.gif ...bout shammy.

That's like my neighbors telling me she ate CHICKEN TOE soup in Jamaica rofl.gif

Girl, I know what bammy is. I will ask Roan tonight.
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 14:44:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 12 2008, 02:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
1luv;

Some a di STOOSH (Kimmy) peoople dem fram town call it GRATER CAKE

Yes thats it. So wat name shammy?
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 14:08:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 12 2008, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
does anyone on here make drops or kutnat cake or dosci

wah name so, Lawny?



it's cocunut shavings with white sugar and u mash it together and put some food coloring on the top (usually PINK)...I think that's how grandmother use to make it. I use to love stealing the WHITE sugar. Got sick of brown sugar. When mommy would bring white sugar or milk powder from the states my brother and cousins would tief it out...then grandmother would ask what we doing and of course we said NOTHING!...while our mouths were covered with white powder from the milk powder (ahhhhh those were the day)

Hubby call it a wan different name. Mi nuh memba now.
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 14:00:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 12 2008, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
does anyone on here make drops or kutnat cake or dosci

wah name so, Lawny?

Edited by 1luv, 12 November 2008 - 01:55 PM.

1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 13:54:00
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QUOTE (1luv @ Nov 12 2008, 01:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Unno doan lef mi out!

Mi dey up inna Canada!


ok! who di heck ago pay fi shippin fi wayyya a Canada rofl.gif

Its not bad at all. U too cheap lol rofl.gif ah joke me ia mek whistling.gif . nuh badda cuss out mi rass
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 13:53:00
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Unno doan lef mi out!

Mi dey up inna Canada!
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 13:09:00
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CONGRAT MARCEL kicking.gif



1luv how u feeling

I am so tired. I too want to wrap up under my covers. Minus the ovaltine/horlicks. star_smile.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 10:56:00
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CONGRAT MARCEL kicking.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 10:41:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Nov 12 2008, 09:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mi change eeh...

I don't want to be here today, I want to be in my bed wrapped up drink a big cup of ovaltine or horlicks.

lol country ooman rofl.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 09:59:00
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QUOTE (jawi876 @ Nov 11 2008, 11:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm late...but I had to chime in. JAEyes...you just happened to bring up a topic that many have skirted around or whispered about in PM. I wrote (actually can't find a way to end) a "fictional" story about these whirlwind romances in Jamaica.

There is NO WAY in HE!L you should even be considering marriage after a two week vacation, and only a month and a half of actual interaction with a STRANGER! I don't care what you say...you don't KNOW anything about him, except that he may have some good sex. He made you feel special, loved, like a woman...ray tay tay...xyz. All BS!

I so SICK and tired of these LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT marriages. I would have been married 20 times over if I listened to all the promises of love and undying devotion that I hear in Jamaica. I have been told that I never have to stay in a hotel again...that I will stay with "My Man" when I come back to Jamaica. I have been asked to come and meet mother, father, brother, friend, pastor. Why in the HE!L would I need to meet them, and I don't know you?

Then, when he talks to you...his rate of speech slows down, and he speaks "Queens English". If you spend any time around his friends/family, he will speak in very fast raw patwah. Do you understand it? Or, are you standing around like a deer caught in headlights, nodding every now and then, probably grinning like an idiot because you want to be accepted by these "important" people to your "new man".

I have seen some questionable relationships on this very site...not my place to judge...but it is hard to stay politically correct. Why would you be ready to marry a man but be afraid to discuss what you need or desire in an intimate relationship with your man? If I step on toes...you may want to move them. Also, you should never determine what steps to make in your relationship by following some cookie cutter plan for marrying a Jamaican man.

The questions from Sus should be taken seriously. I'm not even going to say slow down...because you won't listen if your mind/heart is already made up.

Hold up...hold up. Why in the world would you come a BB full of strangers to ask if you are making the right choice anyway? There is no way we "real strangers" can tell you that your relationship is real.

Some women have even gone as far as to try and classify why their relationship is different. "Well...I know I only knew him for 4 days...but I didn't meet him on the beach or in a resort. He was actually a handcart vendor selling peanuts. So...our love is most definitely real."

I have only seen a very select few that are actually willing to put in the work and wait the long haul for their true love. Big up for that sisters! You all know who you are.

Only time will tell you if you have something real. Even then, marriages and relationships in general are hard as He!L to keep. Over 50% of all US/US marriages end in divorce. Those are staggering odds. Then, you add in bringing a man from a different country that you barely understand...wow.

Best of luck though. good.gif

Well said my Girl good.gif
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 09:02:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 9)
Good morning, Everything is going well so far.
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-12 08:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 9)
I am fulltime, but I can get modified work. EG only sitting down jobs, no filing, lifting etc....
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-11 11:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies at home and farrin (part 9)
QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Nov 11 2008, 11:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LUVE..WHAT IS PIH..PREGNANCY INDUCED HYPERTENTION ?

yes ur right. I had swelling, my bp went up sky high, and headaches.
1luvFemaleJamaica2008-11-11 11:40:00