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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresIs getting pregnant while waiting for K1 visa advisable?
QUOTE (VipulandJamie @ Oct 15 2007, 10:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well, that's your opinion, Lisa. This is a public discussion board, and if she has the right to ask a question then others have the right to respond. wink.gif


But those are not the questions she asked, are they? no0pb.gif

And of course it's my opinion...what else would it be? blink.gif

The OP may very well be in a rush for private & legitimate reasons unknown to the board! Go figure! laughing.gif It's not our place to demand full explanation of private matters simply because she asked a question.

Anyways, good luck to you, OP...I hope you get the answers you were hoping for!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-16 07:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresIs getting pregnant while waiting for K1 visa advisable?
QUOTE (Haole @ Oct 14 2007, 08:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE
when you have visa problems, and it is delayed, and the USC decides to bail, and then the Consulate may decide that he needs some DNA evidence, and you are stuck there with no money,


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The OP did not ask for lifestyle counseling with her life choices, she asked a specific question as to whether or not a pregnancy would harm her K-1 petition/interview.

Correct me if I'm wrong. I would think being denied her petition would harm her petition a bit!!! blink.gif


who said the USC is bailing? blink.gif

The OP asked whether it would harm her petition....I'm not so sure myself, though I'd lean towards 'no', but that's just my gut reaction. The OP did not ask what everyone thought of her getting pregnant & whether or not going it alone would be a great idea.

'what are you in a rush for?' 'the relationship might break up once you get here' etc are IMO quite unnecessary & very speculative and forward in the first place. No one here knows her or her fiance, so these type of warnings should probably be left to friends or family.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-14 19:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresIs getting pregnant while waiting for K1 visa advisable?
The OP did not ask for lifestyle counseling with her life choices, she asked a specific question as to whether or not a pregnancy would harm her K-1 petition/interview.

Whether you feel she's making a mistake or not is not what she originally asked!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-14 19:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresk1 versus k3.....
You will never be approved for a K-1 by Jan so K-3/CR-1 is your best bet!

The K-1 is not a 'probably won't come in time'...it's an 'absolutely will never happen and pigs will fly out of my backside before that happens'

Edited by LisaD, 25 October 2007 - 12:25 PM.

Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 12:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedurescan a job offer from a US company speed up the K visa process?
I've just found out today that certain work visas are dual intent, so I'm going to retract what I've said in this thread in case the H1B is the same.

OP, I'd advise you to check around USCIS.gov and/or talk to an immi atty.

Good luck!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 23:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedurescan a job offer from a US company speed up the K visa process?
QUOTE (Meridien @ Oct 24 2007, 10:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Naomiand Jason @ Oct 24 2007, 08:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey all,

I am a Canadian citizen (living in Toronto) and my partner is an American citizen (living in Chicago). Like everyone else here, we want to be together in one place. Over the last few months we have been researching numerous visa's. We decided on the K visa but the processing time we have been told can take up to 6 months. The downside of this is I have a job offer from a US company (who at this point are looking into visa options, although the only option seems to be the L1-B and i'm not sure if they will move ahead with this, hence why we were strongly considering the K visa). Would anyone know... could the K visa be processed any quicker if I have a job offer from a US company?



The TN visa would probably be the easiest way to go, if your job is on the list of qualifying professions. Have you checked into it?


I'm afraid you're getting into 'wayyy bad advice' territory here cos using any work visa now that the OP technically has immigrant intent would actually constitute visa fraud.

Now that the OP is engaged...any other visa other than a K-1 or K3/CR1/IR1 would actually be used fraudulently because she'd be using them to gain entry into the US knowing full well she wanted to pursue LPR status which is out of the scope of any work visa.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-24 22:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGetting married during the process of a k1
QUOTE (maya62 @ Oct 24 2007, 02:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
This question has to be one of the most frequently asked on visajourney. There should be pinned thread about it.


It is. I wrote it.

1st post of the top stickied thread 'General K-1 Guides and Info'

http://www.visajourn...p?showtopic=300

QUOTE (Captain Ewok @ Jan 29 2006, 07:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
K-1 Visa Holder Starter Kit
compiled by LisaD

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT! You must be so excited! Man, there is so much for you to digest...plan on reading a great deal! No, getting married to a foreign national is not like the movie 'Green Card'. You are gonna be shocked!

Do yourself a favor and read the GUIDES <---click here!

Read the FAQs <----click here!

And if you have a specific question that you're unsure of...hit up the Forum Search <---click here!. Most times, your question has been asked and answered countless times over.

Please refer to these tools that our most gracious and benevolent admin CAPTAIN EWOK has provided. And many members have worked very hard to write all this info.........

And one more thing....BREATHE!!! Yes it seems like a lot of ####### and red tape to go through, but there are countless couples who have gone through this and who have lived to tell the tale.

oh, and no, you cannot file for a K-1 and get married while you're waiting. <---CLICK HERE!

Edited by LisaD, 24 October 2007 - 08:06 PM.

Anita CocktailMale02007-10-24 20:05:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresSent in 1-129F now what?
QUOTE (Mags @ Oct 26 2007, 06:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LisaD @ Oct 25 2007, 08:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
now it's time to involve yourself in some flamewars!

wink.gif


Please don't. Flame wars are not encouraged. smile.gif


they're not? ohmy.gif

JK Mags!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-26 08:06:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresSent in 1-129F now what?
now it's time to involve yourself in some flamewars!

wink.gif
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 19:00:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresWorker H1B visa - any advice
QUOTE (pushbrk @ Oct 25 2007, 02:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (~Laura and Nick~ @ Oct 25 2007, 08:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Rob & Jin @ Oct 25 2007, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Only 2 potential problems I can see;
1. She would have to return once visa expires.
2. If you do H1B then marry in USA, it could be seen as visa fraud, as your intent was/is for her to immigrate here all along.

This is just my opinion.



completely agree...it could be seen as fraud.



No worries. The H1B visa is a dual intent visa. Marrying and adjusting status after arrival is allowed. Just google "H1B visa dual intent" if you have any question.

I think it's a great idea, provided the H1B reasons are legitimate. The limit for 2007 has been surpassed, however, so you'll need to start the process in 2008.

To the OP, if you need information about H1B visas, it won't come from here but google is your friend.


Well if this is correct, disregard my advice as it would be incorrect in this case!

wow, learn summat new everyday!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 14:10:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresWorker H1B visa - any advice
QUOTE (supranatural @ Oct 25 2007, 01:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes that is possible, however this is a legitimate job for which I need the position. I may rethink it however, with the quotas it may not be a great option for me as I don't want to wait a year.


Even if it is a legitimate job, the scope of a work visa is not to provide a path to permanent residency in the US. So if he uses a work visa to come here and marry...even if the work visa is for legitimate reasons....it still is considered fraudulent, and you may have problems with AOS.

Think about it. If you go for an interview for AOS...it's going to come out that his fiance sponsored him...and BOOM! you've just proven a fraudulent use of the work visa. Or then you're faced with lying about your relationship & somehow recreating it after you sponsored him? To me, it's dodgy at best, and you want to make sure that your fiance's claim for a greencard is on the firmest ground it can be. No one wants to rec a deportation order or fight for the right to stay because of trying to cut the waiting time short by a few mos at best.

A better way, imo...is just sponsor him with the K-1 and employ him when he gets here after he gets his work permit!

Good luck!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 12:20:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresWorker H1B visa - any advice
it's not 'could be seen as fraud'...it IS fraud because there is no intent to perm settle in the US on a work visa. I can't see how that wouldn't come out in an AOS interview.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 11:36:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGetting Married while waiting for K1 Visa
QUOTE (studentInLove @ Oct 28 2007, 11:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just for curiosity, how does the embassy know that we actually did get married?


Well, think about that for a second, yeah?

You need to AOS after your fiance arrives on the K1. And you need to produce a MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE. So what are you going to do? Illegally file for a marriage license when you're already married? What will you say at the interview for AOS?

Let alone what your fiance would say at his/her embassy interview. Which would obviously include lying to the CO if you were to get married whilst trying to obtain a K1.

Or even...the embassy might have a procedure of checking public records. Imagine the hassle you'd have if they checked public records and found a marriage for the two of you on record. Then your fiance comes in and waxes lyrical about how he/she can't wait to get married.

I hope this question wasn't asked in hopes of getting married 'behind USCIS/the embassy's back'.

If you want to get married first, do so and file the appropriate petition. Or file the K1 and get married here after arrival. You cannot make up your own rules along the way, I'm afraid.

Edited by LisaD, 28 October 2007 - 10:58 AM.

Anita CocktailMale02007-10-28 10:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGetting Married while waiting for K1 Visa
1st post of the top stickied thread 'General K-1 Guides and Info'

http://www.visajourn...p?showtopic=300

QUOTE (Captain Ewok @ Jan 29 2006, 07:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
K-1 Visa Holder Starter Kit
compiled by LisaD

CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR ENGAGEMENT! You must be so excited! Man, there is so much for you to digest...plan on reading a great deal! No, getting married to a foreign national is not like the movie 'Green Card'. You are gonna be shocked!

Do yourself a favor and read the GUIDES <---click here!

Read the FAQs <----click here!

And if you have a specific question that you're unsure of...hit up the Forum Search <---click here!. Most times, your question has been asked and answered countless times over.

Please refer to these tools that our most gracious and benevolent admin CAPTAIN EWOK has provided. And many members have worked very hard to write all this info.........

And one more thing....BREATHE!!! Yes it seems like a lot of ####### and red tape to go through, but there are countless couples who have gone through this and who have lived to tell the tale.

oh, and no, you cannot file for a K-1 and get married while you're waiting. <---CLICK HERE!

Anita CocktailMale02007-10-27 12:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresTraveling After Visa Is Granted
Hi Meg...I personally don't think it'll be a problem.

Off Topic...your fiance is from England or New Zeland? I'm just curious, lolz
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-29 07:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresk1 expedite
I thought you two broke up?
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-31 09:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresAbout to begin the Journey - I-129F questions
The 17 mos of sending your fiancee Western Union payments could be misconstrued.

I'd leave that out of the pkg.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-29 07:43:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresCan you file a I-129F and marry the person while waiting?
Either Reza isn't married & is complicating his case tenfold because they had a party, or Reza IS married, and is in the midst of putting his wife at risk of deportation, should they even GET approved....and that's with committing visa fraud as well.
Anita CocktailMale02007-07-26 13:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGetting married immediately for AOS
QUOTE (rebeccajo @ Oct 31 2007, 10:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
EAD is supposed to be to you in 90 days. Infopass is permitted after that point.



ty...was just wondering if things changed now with the new filing fees and whatnot.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-31 09:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGetting married immediately for AOS
Maybe he confused 'EAD' with 'AOS'

Barring some sort of problems, those are issued relatively quickly, no?

By 'relatively quickly' I mean < 120 days, heh.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-31 09:25:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresFile for K1 while on Tourist Visa?
QUOTE (eric_and_teresa @ Oct 25 2007, 10:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (LisaD @ Oct 24 2007, 06:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (eric_and_teresa @ Oct 24 2007, 03:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Nutty @ Oct 24 2007, 12:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes go ahead and file. But consider the tourist visa good for the period stipulated on the tourist visa. And as such, you will have to leave the US once your tourist visa expires.


Please note that she can stay in the U.S. until the date that is stamped on the I-94 not on the visa. Tourist visas can be good up to 10 years.. but when a foreign person enters the U.S. they receive the I-94 form that says how long they can stay during their current visit, which most of the times is 6 months.

She'll have to leave the US on the date stamped on the I-94, NOT when the visa expires.


You're wrong.

If she had no immigrant intent upon arrival she can marry now and stay. Any overstay after marriage and before filing for AOS is now is forgiven through the AOS process.


I'm not wrong, we're talking about different things. You're right if we're talking about AOS after getting married on a tourist visa. I'm talking about NOT overstaying if she's just visiting and filing for K-1 during her visit.

You didn't read Nutty's COMPLETE post. He was saying she can stay as long as the tourist visa is good, in the case she FILES FOR K-1 WHILE VISITING. Not if she got married after entering with NO intent to get married and then file for AOS, in that case an overstay would not matter I'm aware of that.

Many people confuse the validity of the TOURIST VISA with the time you are allowed to remain in the US, and is not like that... even if your visa is good for 10 years you're only allowed to stay as long as your I-94 says.


You're absolutely right....we were talking about two different things I completely misread...my bad! blush.gif
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-25 11:34:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresFile for K1 while on Tourist Visa?
QUOTE (eric_and_teresa @ Oct 24 2007, 03:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Nutty @ Oct 24 2007, 12:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
But consider the tourist visa good for the period stipulated on the tourist visa. And as such, you will have to leave the US once your tourist visa expires.


Please note that she can stay in the U.S. until the date that is stamped on the I-94 not on the visa. Tourist visas can be good up to 10 years.. but when a foreign person enters the U.S. they receive the I-94 form that says how long they can stay during their current visit, which most of the times is 6 months.

She'll have to leave the US on the date stamped on the I-94, NOT when the visa expires.


You're wrong.

If she had no immigrant intent upon arrival she can marry now and stay. Any overstay after marriage and before filing for AOS is now is forgiven through the AOS process.

QUOTE (Shub @ Oct 24 2007, 02:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (eric_and_teresa @ Oct 24 2007, 01:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just to clarify the OP is NOT asking if she can get married while she is visitng, she is asking if she can file for K-1 while visiting.


I think everyone understood that, and the posts above reflect that understanding.

I did want to make it known to her that she does not have to go the way of the K-1 as, reading her post, I was under the impression that she might not know that fact.


That's what I inferred as well good.gif

Edited by LisaD, 24 October 2007 - 07:44 PM.

Anita CocktailMale02007-10-24 19:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresFile for K1 while on Tourist Visa?
QUOTE (Shub @ Oct 24 2007, 01:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
If you did not intend to marry when you entered the US, you could consider simply getting married and filing for adjustment of status so you wouldn't have to return to your country. Best wait for advice from people who have more experience than I do on that topic, though.

If you want to go the way of the K-1, yes, you can do what you said and simply go back to HK as necessary to procure the visa.


There is no need to wait; you are correct....but I'm going to be pedantic for a minute for the sake of clarity. Nothing is stopping anyone from coming to the country to marry a USC...it's whether they planned on immigrating right then and there that is the issue.

There are tons of foreign SOs who come here, marry, then leave to file for K-3/CR-1 IR-1.
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-24 12:37:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresFile for K1 while on Tourist Visa?
here's a question for you: Did you have immigrant intent when you entered America?

If the answer is 'no' and that is pretty clear, then there's nothing to stop you from marrying now, and filing for AOS. No visa needed!
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-24 12:30:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresk1 expedite
why is this posted twice? blink.gif

http://www.visajourn...showtopic=94019
Anita CocktailMale02007-10-31 10:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresShould i tell that i am dual citizen?
QUOTE (clod @ Nov 16 2007, 07:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I have dual citizenship because i am Italian/Egyptian.
On the question about dual citizenship i answered no because i am resident in Italy.
Would it add complications at the interview to say that i am dual citizen, would i need an egyptian police certificate also?


Based on your post, this is lying on the form, which I wouldn't reccomend
Anita CocktailMale02007-11-16 19:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresWere Approved!!!
We did too!

Congrats to all the 11/21 approvals laughing.gif

What a GREAT feeling!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Anita CocktailMale02007-11-24 09:42:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresK1 application rejected, I don't know why. please help
QUOTE (pushbrk @ Nov 19 2007, 10:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You did file an I-129F petition, right? Your fiance will later submit a K1 visa application. If you submitted a K1 visa application, then you blew it. Visa applications are indeed submitted at Embassies and Consulates abroad but for K1, only after the I-129F petition is approved and the Consulate contacts the beneficiary/applicant.


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Anita CocktailMale02007-11-20 00:36:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresNOA2 Hard Copy
This is the one E has shown....


I just got my hardcopy which says

'The above petition has been approved and forwarded to the listed consulate. Please contact the consulate with any questions about visa issuances.'

Is mine bypassing the NVC?
Anita CocktailMale02007-11-26 18:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresstill waiting
QUOTE (Ravin_Bliss @ Nov 26 2007, 06:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We really understand your pain, as many of us on here do blink.gif . They CSC service recieved our application on the 26th July and then it was touched on the 6th August, and we haven't had another touch since. We originally thought that we would have our approval by Christmas, but unfortunatley it looks like it isn't going to happen. My partner and I have been together for five years, and this separation is terrible. It is easier if you just take one day at a time! Keep you're spirits up, it is very hard, but there is light at the end of the tunnel, its just a very long tunnel thats all. All I want for Christmas is an approval, but we will just have to keep waiting and praying.

Merry Christmas to all! star_smile.gif

Hang in there,


I sent mine to CSC mid July, and got my NOA2 last week...hard copy arrived today. So I would bet that yours will be anyday now!!!

PS...I had email notifications on, correct email addy, yet not a sausage! I sometimes don't check it...it was approved 21st, I didn't check it until the 24th laughing.gif

woulda made an EXTRA SPECIAL Thanksgiving!
Anita CocktailMale02007-11-26 18:44:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresSad Update
My heart goes out to you both Fiona & Idocare!

...and TracyTN-that guy's a jerk!
Anita CocktailMale02006-02-19 00:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGiving up K1
Listen to Aussiewench, please Karol....Before I knew it was illegal, I thought my fiance and I could go down the same route (and I have yet to file), but the risks are too great.....they could deport him and give him a 10 year ban. Nothing is worth that.

Do you have any gas receipts? CC statements of while you were down there?
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 14:24:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresDeclaration of how you met in person in the last two years.
Dave and I have been together for over 6 years....so in answer to this question, only deal with the past two?
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 12:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresreasons for slow processing??!!!
From what I've read....TSC's cases are also being shipped to CSC. I could be wrong tho, but I could have sworn I read that here.
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 19:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresLittle evidence of having met



I was thinking the evidence was a bit scant also. I was hoping they stamped my passport, but they didn't. I flew in from Spain -- it wasn't international.


Not to be a stickler here, but Spain to the Netherlands seems international to me....am I missing something?


Nonetheless...you should listen to zyggy.....he has all the good answers :yes:



I think that within the EU, they don't stamp anymore. At least, when I traveled within Europe, I only received a passport stamp at my point of entry when I arrived from the US, but not from any of the other countries I flew to within Europe. That would explain why he doesn't have stamps proving that they were in the same place at the same time.


I was only being ####### retentive :P
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-31 23:29:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresLittle evidence of having met

I was thinking the evidence was a bit scant also. I was hoping they stamped my passport, but they didn't. I flew in from Spain -- it wasn't international.


Not to be a stickler here, but Spain to the Netherlands seems international to me....am I missing something?


Nonetheless...you should listen to zyggy.....he has all the good answers :yes:
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-31 22:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresfiance completely clueless???

Hello all
well i was reading this post and iam a usc and my fiance is ethiopian
and she does not understand this process but to be honest with you i really dont care if she does or does not understand it.

Because i have the kind of job where i can live any where in the world i want. so to make it easy on us iam going to rent my house out in the Us
and store all my things and go live over there with her till we are done with all this process. plus i like it over there anyway. but i will be getting married over there. but i feel for the ones where this process is so stressful . i all will be okay in the long run .

Just thought i would share my take on this I just need to be with my baby and i dont like this long space between us .



I'm a little confused by your post...it could be a typo? but I just thought I'd point out that if you're applying for a K1, you need to get married in America.
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 20:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresfiance completely clueless???


My fiancee doesn't know all the terminology, but he's been so damn busy lately it's not even funny! He's in the process of selling off his stuff, selling the house (he'll stay with family until we get accepted), working, etc. His computer's on the fritz at home and he never has time during work to discuss things. Poor thing! If I weren't so busy I'd go over to help him, but that is not possible atm.

He is coming over next month so we can tackle this thing together....we'll both know all the terms by then, hahaha. I still am so confused with everything, it makes my head spin!!!

He is also not grateful for the visa....he'd happily do it the other way around...and it's not an easy thing to give up your whole existance to start somewhere new. I wouldn't want him to be grateful for the visa. What I would want is for him to be grateful for my love & hard work for us as a couple....amongst other things....but they are the very things I am grateful to him for!



I must say. Totally in agreement w/you. Just reminds me what my baby said to me before I proposed to her and Ill paraphrase "I would live and share my life with you in USA, Brasil or anywhere on or off of this planet". She doesnt care if she lives here or there. What matters is that we are together / united.

IT is confusing. Paperwork is a drag and now that my baby has packet 3 she is very nervous about finishing it - it even makes her cry (Anna and Marcela can vouch for me). Good luck!! Dave



That is a beautiful saying...and we all know what she's talking about!

My fiance wouldn't dream of moving country if not for me.

Anyways, best of luck to you with packet 3...you must be so excited!!! :dance:
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 15:40:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Proceduresfiance completely clueless???
My fiancee doesn't know all the terminology, but he's been so damn busy lately it's not even funny! He's in the process of selling off his stuff, selling the house (he'll stay with family until we get accepted), working, etc. His computer's on the fritz at home and he never has time during work to discuss things. Poor thing! If I weren't so busy I'd go over to help him, but that is not possible atm.

He is coming over next month so we can tackle this thing together....we'll both know all the terms by then, hahaha. I still am so confused with everything, it makes my head spin!!!

He is also not grateful for the visa....he'd happily do it the other way around...and it's not an easy thing to give up your whole existance to start somewhere new. I wouldn't want him to be grateful for the visa. What I would want is for him to be grateful for my love & hard work for us as a couple....amongst other things....but they are the very things I am grateful to him for!
Anita CocktailMale02006-03-29 12:09:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresHow do you deal with loneliness?
i work & throw myself into projects to keep my mind occupied.

And then there's VJ.... :thumbs:
Anita CocktailMale02006-04-03 23:31:00