Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	WAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!nku po lalo lumalala usapan tama n yan mga mare ko.....stop n po ang sagutan nyo..nanginginig n ako dto...nan lalamig ang lalamunan at gusto n ng inuman....peace po tayu..kumanta lng...dont hurt each other feeings..ika nga s BIBLE-ibigin ang kaaway or kasagutan gaya ng iyong sarili....peace to all..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 17:53:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	nako po lalo ata lumalala usapan.....tama n yan inuman....hey mare ko itagay mo....lol...knanta lng pero pnalitanlyrics..patawa lng po....ayuss!!!! peace po tau...	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 17:13:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	drawing ng asawa ko nung binata pa xa eto daw ung future wife na kamukha ko -.- ... infairness kamukha ko nga d pa kmi nag meet nito nung ginawa nya. infairness talented c Mr. mo huh...lol.....ok....thanks... Hahahahaha!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 16:26:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	hindi ko minamasa sinabi nya kaso ang taray ako pa masama eh sabi ko malay diba., what if bah. bka nmn akala nya eh nsa pinas parin xa na babae ang hari at lalaki ang reyna lol. she needs to be grown up. ganun b?e ang taray mo kc tignan s pcs mo,,,lol,,teach mo naman ako panu mo gnwa yan at san?	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 16:18:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	eh ayaw nga daw pag trabahuhin eh tpos iniisip nya eh slave na xa ng asawa nya. pano minamasama nya ayaw nya ksing tanggapin ang maybe or if. gusto nya right agad lol. hindi nman natin ala kung anu nsa isip ni heart broken eh,,kung un iniisip nya slave n cya bkit p natin minamasama diba.....haysss....lol..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 16:05:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	I misquoted your statement, you meant maghanap nang trabaho. How can she get a job when she did not AOS yet? Why you say that maybe the girl is the mistress of the husband? We dot know them so we cannot really assume or guess. All we can do is give opinions and advises. Every marriage has it's own ups and downs. Especially if you are just newly married and the worst part is, different cultures. Maybe the husband has his reasons why he did that and the wife has her reasons to be mad and jealous too. Now, the point is, we cannot control the husband. What we should resolve here is on how heartbroken can control herself which will lead to both of them resolving their problem. As I see it, it's a communication problem. We wives should be the one who are more understanding and not nagging, controlling and doubtful. We should think of ways on how the husband can trust and love us to death and not drift away from us. Let us not make our husband see our rebellious ways because that would be a way for them to resent to us. Men needs lambing-lambing, they are soooooo easy to please especially when the wife will be the one to act.We have to work for a marriage to WORK. And I mean, a lot of work. If we are weak and give up so easily, then we will not become winners. In order for us to win, we will work for it. In the end, both husband and wife will meet halfway, if not, it's always the wife will win in the end...hehehehe! yes i agree to your last message...well pwede kang mgpartime kung ang i-94 mo eh di p expired,un ng sbi befor sakin nung kumuha me ssn...ako di p file aos pero my part time work ako......thanks anyway....lol	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 16:02:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	Hay naku, ibang pinay talaga, may problema pa ang tao, ginagatungan pa. How can you say these things when a person is super frustrated of her marriage? Now, you are giving her another reason to doubt or attack her husband. Imbes tulungan natin that they can patch up their marriage and make it work, you ask her to look for another man and told her that the husband is making her a slave. You are contributing more to cloud her mind by adding this "flirting" thing maybe of the stepdaughter and maybe they have a "relationship." We are not here to make things worse kababayan. We are here to guide others resolve their issues. If they cannot make it work, then it's up to them to decide on what is better for them, and not for us to make her jump from the pot to the fire as of the moment. As what I have said, hinay-hinay, listen, pause and analyze. You just said that we should not be judgmental to others, but look at what you just have said, you are judging now the husband of heartbroken and the stepdaughter. Give sound advise as of the moment please and not making the OP's mind be clouded by doubt and maybe she can do something bad to herself or to the husband or to the stepdaughter. wow,.hindi ko cnsabing plitan or iwan ang asawa dahil lng ggwa syan slave...anyway ala naman me point n ganun ang gawn nya eh....tsaka isa hindi me ngjujudge..kumbga opinion ko lng un..kung icpin mo man n mali,,well ok..sorry i accept i was wrong...ika nga nila nobodys perect...laha ngkakamali s gwa at s salita.....peace b with you....	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 15:42:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	our papers are ready except I-864 he dont want me to work coz he dont want i dont have much time w/him..... our papers are ready except I-864 he dont want me to work coz he dont want i dont have much time w/him..... bkit ayaw k nya pgtrabahuin kc bka ala ng mgsilbi s kanya sis..hay nku mghanap k noh...ano sya sineswerte...gawn k lng taong bhay tas cya naman lumalandi s "step daughter" kono..bka naman my relasyon naman clang tnatago hindi lng step and turing bk kabet n sis..hay nku...kung ganyan lng din naan turing ng asawa mo sau bkit kp ngtitiis ng ganyan....my fenkb jan n kapwa mo pinay para matulungAN k din nla....or s phil consulate....sorry to hear your story...GODBLESS	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 15:04:00
Philippines	I want to Divorce my Husband & back to Phils.	wow..grabe lahat ng message dito..alang away dapat or sagutan,,humihingi lng naman ng advice ang tao bkit pnalalaki p ang usapan.....ipagtanggol nyo naman ang kapwa nyo pinay wg husgaan.......peace to all....	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-08-18 14:56:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	I figure she would have to make 3 trips there!!!! 1 for medical then 2nd for interview then the 3rd for after she gets passport back for the CFO .....WOW I almost forgot about the 4th trip !!!!! to get on an airplane to come home to me!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-13 08:37:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	How many days is she staying in Manila? Hotel expense? Taxi expense? her sister works in manila so you will be staying there	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 22:24:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	ok so after reading and writing it all down here it is ( I think)...lol 1) st lukes $213.35 2) Embassy $131.00 3) delivery $20.00 at the most I guess I couldn't find any pricing anywhere 4)CFO & thicker $20 at the most 5) extra money for the bus and food $50.00 total: $413.35 equals to 20,614.57 PHP am i forgetting anything? If I am please let me know	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 20:39:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	so aboput $440.00 toltal does that sound about right with a few thopusand extra pesos to be on the safe side? You thonk 20,600.00 pesos is enough ?	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 20:21:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	and what does she have to pay at bank de oro? is that the visa delivery or for the interview?	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 15:31:00
Philippines	what is the total cost I need to send Pam?	so what is the total cost for the medical interview visa delivery all that good stuff???? I know I will need to send more since it is a 5 hour bus ride for her and food and all that good stuff .	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 14:58:00
Philippines	if you are shopping online for airline tickets, read this	That's why i called the site I was looking at. Actually asaptickets.com you have to call to book tickets. When you get a quote online you need to call to get the total price with taxes. I have used them a coulpe of times and if they cant get u a cheaper airfare they tell you !!! I have this one girl there I call all the time she is great !!!! the last time she told me they couldnt beat the price from expedia so I booked that flight and the previous 2 times she got me on the flight I was looking at for a little more than 100 less each time	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-20 11:47:00
Philippines	got appointment letter	goodluck and get ur pink... thank u..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-20 22:18:00
Philippines	got appointment letter	hello family..charlie and i was very happy now,we got already our appointment letter,thank u for helping us and giving us some advice,and also ur advice to charlie to be patient...now he is very very happy and he cried,,tears of joy...we will be together soon hon....i am so blessed really with this site for being part of our family...godbless us..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-20 21:59:00
Philippines	yES!!!!! WE GOT THE INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!	Thank you all so very much!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-21 12:38:00
Philippines	yES!!!!! WE GOT THE INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!	I just got the phone with the embassy !!!!! February 8th!!!! 7 am Gate 2 !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-20 22:19:00
Philippines	when is best time to go to St Lukes????	thank you all!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-23 21:59:00
Philippines	when is best time to go to St Lukes????	Hello everyone ........now that all my stress is gone I think I gave it all to Pam....HEHEHEEHE.....So she would like to know when is the best time to go to St Luke's she is going Monday but she thinks she read that going in the afternoon is better to go there ....is that good advice???? Also in most cases I have read it is a 2 day process but I have also read some people going through it in 1 day??? Is it possible for her to be there for just one day? If so should she go in the morning just in case??? Either way is ok with me because I know she will be staying with her sister so I know she will be there for 2-3 days since it will be the last time she see's her for a while!!! Any advice on this ?????	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-22 09:19:00
Philippines	Planning to Petition my girlfriend?	well i am just happy she accepted me since I have 2 children from a previous relationship	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-12 13:51:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	Charlie...Save me a cold one. I'll be right over. My wife read my post. It is waiting for you I also have a shot waiting also !!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-24 13:18:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	^ All I will say is that it's a very good idea. If I say anything about teaching my wife to drive, I'll have to borrow Charlie's doghouse. come on in it is pretty lonly in here I need someone to have a few beers with!!!...lol	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-20 11:41:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	just be patient girl, just give them time.. and for sure you will be ok.. 4 months processing thats very short and good for both of you. mostly for K1 visa takes 6 months and so..just be patient, dont stress youself you will be fine. God bless... yes girl..thank u for that,,i am blessed here for encouraging my fiance to be patient on our papers..he is so excited and can't wait to see me..lol..i lve u so much charlie...be patient po,,we will be together...godbles us all here..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-19 21:32:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	...You are going to be in the doghouse when your fiancée sees this ^^^. yeah i got yelled at fir it last night!!! lol....we were online together when I posted it!!!!....hehehehehe Patience grasshopper . I know waiting is frustrating, but you have only been in the visa journey for 4 months. Do you realize how many VJers would be jumping for joy if their petition got to the Embassy in only 4 months? What I did was look at the VJers who had to wait even longer than us. Some have waited years. well the patience virtue was never bestowed on me!!!...lol thank you all for the words of encouragement!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-19 13:14:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	Hey Charlie... Think of all the fun you would have if you moved to the Philippines: > Falling in line and waiting for hours at the bank for a simple transaction. > Falling in line and waiting for hours (or all day) to get a simple document. > Falling in line and waiting for hours to pay bills. > Falling in the long line at the grocery store. > Waiting a half hour at the fast food restaurant to place your order. > and a lot more... Hey bro'...chill...they just got your papers on Friday! You've got to give them a few days to get them into their system. But, don't fall for their scripted call-center answer either. Don't wait two weeks. Call back at least every other day. You will have the interview appointment in no time. Regards... ~ Tahoma I thought that was what the wife was for!!!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-19 00:29:00
Philippines	now stuck for processing at the embassy??????	HI my family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So what is this now I am stuc at the embassy for PROCESSING!!!!!! ####### are they going to screw us all they way through this!!!.....they told me to call in 2 weeks!!!! has anyone been through this ????? What is going on !!!!! please someone calm me down!!!!! I am so pissed that we all try to do this the right way !!!! Give them all the money that they want!!!! And now we have to wait !!!!!....Someone please tell me what is going on!!!!! MY last name is not common it is DeFelice so I know it can't be a false hit again!!!!! so what is the problem !!!! I am getting ready to give up on this process and maybe just move there !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-18 21:01:00
Philippines	Filipino Dishes	hey girl, meron filipino store sa raleigh eh, 1 lng... pero at least meron meron cla mango galing stin, meron p nga haleya eh, bangus, dried fish, etc try mo ......sa may capital boulevard xa,, oriental store -- pero filipino store un pati workers at may-ari filipino. pams family has mangos groves let me know!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-18 20:08:00
Philippines	Visa still not released	dain you always calmed me down now it is my turn to try!!!...lol.....dfeap breath close your eyes and think of all the emotions that you will see when u see her walking out of the terminal...now smile and think what the first thing you will do when u see her !!!!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-22 09:10:00
Philippines	Visa still not released	I think I figured out why I'm so impatient for this step. I keep looking at flights and I'll find a good deal for a certain day, say maybe Friday or Saturday or whatever. I ALMOST buy it... then I think, what if her name is spelled wrong on the visa or it takes too long than I thought it would. Point is, I need to stop looking at flights until she gets her visa in her hand then I will relax more. My friends were also planning a party this weekend, it's a birthday party for my friend from work but we both thought how great if it's also Vicky's arrival party. I'll try to relax more. Thanks as always for helping me keep my head on straight. dain remeber what you would tell me lookhow close u are and she will be with u soon than u know u are at the finish line it is almost over !!!	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-19 15:47:00
Philippines	finished day one of medical	Charlie... Pam will find out tomorrow that she passed her medical. She will know she passed it when they tell her it's time for her vaccinations. Good luck... ~ Tahoma ok great !!!! i know she is fine so if she gets the vacinations everything is ok .....as long as they take her passport right?	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-25 14:34:00
Philippines	finished day one of medical	Pam finished the first day of the medical!!!! I have a question they did the x-ray so if she went home and they told her to come back tomorrow does that mean everything was ok ?	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-25 13:10:00
Philippines	2-10-2010 interview anyone?	7:00 am time.... hello girl...hmm,,sorry my scheduled was 8 @ 7 am,goodluck both of us...take care...godbless	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-26 07:16:00
Philippines	DS 230	hello guys,anyway i am done to my medical now but i just noticed my ds 230 # of my poassport the last # was missing but i filled out complete #,wat will i do?can i go back to st. lukes?how come they missed one of it? thank u guys...	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-26 07:24:00
Philippines	yahOOooo! got the visa in my hand today!	yahooo.... CONGRATULATIONS... Godbless you..	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-22 21:40:00
Philippines	anyone have their POE in San Fran???	Our POE was San Fran. Not any troubles. You will need to gather up your bags and walk down the street about a block then go up a flight of stairs to gain access to the departure side of the domestic terminal. You are not clear on which airport you are going to... Los Angeles or San Fransico.... -Phil well see i was planning on driving to los angeles to get her about 12 hours round trip but I noticed I can fly her right into phoenix for $15 more!!! so I think that would be alot better	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-26 15:57:00
Philippines	anyone have their POE in San Fran???	Hello people I started to look at flights today.....I was going to drive to Los Angeles to meet her but saw for $15.00 more I can fly her to Phoenix.....I have never been to San Fransico airport would it be confusing for her there? How are the terminals set up???	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-26 13:06:00
Philippines	Visa interview APPROVED!	congrats	charlie&pam	Male	Philippines	2010-01-14 08:11:00