Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Middle East and North Africa	Is this discrimination?	Yeah, i agree... Sounds more like the manager maneuvering to get the days he wants off... but not an issue of discrimination.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2009-03-12 14:42:00
Middle East and North Africa	SMOKING CIGARETTES	he smokes and it is an absolute bummer ! (he's trying to quit...inchallah)	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2009-03-12 14:48:00
Middle East and North Africa	problems with muslim spouse?	QUOTE (Nagishkaw @ Dec 27 2008, 03:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-12-27 10:58:00
Middle East and North Africa	Is It Normal...	Thank you everyone, for your support... You all made very good points... i have been trying to be aware of his fears in all this, but i don't think i've been doing a very good job of that... in reality, he must be terrified, and me being all sad lately mustn't help much... he is like a lot of men in that he doesn't show his emotions very well, and especially on the phone in front of family when he can't really talk, i guess i forgot to remind myself how scared he must be! QUOTE (julianna @ Jul 9 2008, 01:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> PS-- there are girls with perfect and big boobs with nice hair ,pretty teeth, big eyelashes and giant lips... and tight pants/shirts at home. They always smell perfect and have a melodic laugh and have pretty nails. If he hasn't left you for them yet, then you're probably good here as well. i'm also feeling bad b/c i don't know if i mentioned it before, but since this all started a year a go, i've lost a lot of my hair... and it was okay for a while and now i'm losing it again and i feel so terribly ugly... and of course, i look around and see all these beautiful ladies dressed in their pretty summer digs! i really need to find a way to snap out of it... but you are right Julianna about the perfect boobs and tight pants!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-09 10:34:00
Middle East and North Africa	Is It Normal...	QUOTE (amal @ Jul 9 2008, 01:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> oh yeah, its very normal. both of you are on edge awaiting the unknown. Best you can do is stay calm and be reassuring when things run amuck. (do i get a star for using the word amuck in a sentence?) take time and just breathe..this is one of the hard phases.. and it will eventually pass ensha'allah	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-09 10:27:00
Middle East and North Africa	Is It Normal...	Thanks, JP, it means a lot! Just wish we were talking more... even though the logical side of me knows that he is just overwhelmed doing family stuff, and hasn't a moment to himself... i just want to be sure that he's sure...	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-08 19:23:00
Middle East and North Africa	Is It Normal...	Salaam Everybody, Hope everybody is well. i haven't been on much b/c my internet is not hooked up at home yet... My habeeb is supposed to come very soon... like in 2 weeks. i've been so excited and really trying to pull everything together, until this week i kinda hit a wall. All of a sudden we aren't talking much (b/c he has been traveling around Morocco visiting family) and it feels weird. i'm afraid i'm making a bad choice by making him come here... what if he can't find a job? what if he hates it? what if he thinks all the girls with big boobs and perfect hair are way prettier than me, and i lose him to some hottie? what if i become the old ball & chain? We've been waiting for this for sooooooooo long, why am i feeling so down lately? Are these feelings normal? hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-08 19:08:00
Middle East and North Africa	i got my visa VJ family	Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy! Congratulations!!! Alhumdulilah	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-11 11:25:00
Middle East and North Africa	My Husband's Father was Deported Yesterday	Wow... this thread really took off in an unexpected direction. Well-said, S and S. i think the emotions are running high because this sort of thing could happen to any one of us or to any one of our families. and it is this constant lack of control and accountability that makes this whole immigration process nerve-wracking. as for being deported or ER or whatever you want to call it, i cannot even begin to imagine how devastating that would be... whether it be because of a technicality or much worse, an unjust/uninformed mistake on DHS's part... and then to be left without immediate information or recourse as to why? Devastating. Anyway, you have a lot of friends here, Allousa, and it sounds like you are doing all the right things in terms of acquiring legal cousel, etc... Inchallah, you will have some insight as to what the heck happened and soon.....	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-13 22:39:00
Middle East and North Africa	My Husband's Father was Deported Yesterday	QUOTE (allousa @ Jul 11 2008, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> The ACLU is definitely not out of the question at this point. Absolutely....	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-11 10:08:00
Middle East and North Africa	My Husband's Father was Deported Yesterday	My goodness, Allousa, i'm so sorry... this story just makes me feel sick to my stomach.... i'm at a loss for words.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-11 09:34:00
Middle East and North Africa	is this really a problem	QUOTE (brnidokiegurl @ Jul 15 2008, 11:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> continue to use what would be the most PERMANENT address for the mail...a person could move anytime they know this, i would get thru the interview, see if there is to be a wait period for checks and if she is in different location for a long time she can then change. If living is ask about in interview you can say yes she is in process of moving into her own place i agree with Brnidokiegurl, Ahmed. in fact the same thing happened with us during the K1. i did not even have an address because i moved every few months and only now do i have a new address. i used my parents' permanent address for everything. just memorize the address used on the documents you sent in with your I-129F, and you should be fine. if they ask any further questions, you can say that your fiancee recently moved and give the new address.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-16 14:25:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (crazyinEgypt @ Jul 17 2008, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (AlHayatZween @ Jul 17 2008, 02:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (crazyinEgypt @ Jul 17 2008, 07:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> As a Christian, Christianity is my way of life just as Islam is my husbands way of life. He'll do things with me at my church and I'll go the EID celebrations (and then get pushed off with all the woman that ignore me) I don't know. Maybe there is a certain religion for every person. I am curious about Islam, don't get me wrong, but the women around here are a big turn off for me. Too bad I don't live closer to Boston. So sorry to hear you are having such a problem with the ladies! That sounds terrible! And you are sure it is their attitude and not the result of some language barrier or something like this? You could maybe go to the mosque and talk to the imam if you are interested in learning more and surely he could put you in touch with some well-meaning women? It's the attitude since the majority of the woman speak english. It's an "I'm better than you" attitude. My husband has even mentioned it. That's too bad... well, they come in all shapes and sizes and backgrounds, i guess... At least your husband seems very supportive!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 15:17:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (crazyinEgypt @ Jul 17 2008, 07:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> As a Christian, Christianity is my way of life just as Islam is my husbands way of life. He'll do things with me at my church and I'll go the EID celebrations (and then get pushed off with all the woman that ignore me) I don't know. Maybe there is a certain religion for every person. I am curious about Islam, don't get me wrong, but the women around here are a big turn off for me. Too bad I don't live closer to Boston. So sorry to hear you are having such a problem with the ladies! That sounds terrible! And you are sure it is their attitude and not the result of some language barrier or something like this? You could maybe go to the mosque and talk to the imam if you are interested in learning more and surely he could put you in touch with some well-meaning women?	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 14:51:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (Purple_Hibiscus @ Jul 17 2008, 05:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ah, context is everything. Interesting, thank you for responding. Now, the big question is, are you the exceptions or the rules? haha ! now that is a good question... let's see what the rest of MENA has to say? i have to do work now, but i'll check back in later.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 13:03:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (Purple_Hibiscus @ Jul 17 2008, 05:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Are you saying personally that you were attracted to the muslim culture anyway and that this is probably why you ended up with a muslim husband in your particular case? Sorry, PH i misread your question again... my head is scattered. No, i think i married my husband because he looked at me with those eyes and i melted.... i was delilghtfully doomed from the beginning!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 12:58:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (Purple_Hibiscus @ Jul 17 2008, 05:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yes, it makes sense, no one would say you definitely would not but I would be surprised if many looked at Islam without this incentive. Are you saying personally that you were attracted to the muslim culture anyway and that this is probably why you ended up with a muslim husband in your particular case? I am just curious about this, feel free to not answer if it bothers you. I don't think people change religion all the time at all, in fact I believe it is quite rare to change. It is not rare to lapse however, not rare at all. Ooops, sorry... were you addressing me? i first became interested in Islam several years ago while living in Senegal. no boyfriends, no men, no husbands, just being around the culture and practice got me interested in the religion and how the culture was influenced by it and vice-versa... that and the beauty of it. Maybe people don't officially "convert" all the time, but i know a lot of people who define themselves as "spirtitual"... and kind of abandon the faith they were raised with and incorporate aspects of new faiths... of course, you are right... that's different from "converting".	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 12:53:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (Purple_Hibiscus @ Jul 17 2008, 05:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That's not what I meant. Can you honstly say you would have looked at the idea of becoming a muslim if you hadn't found love with someone of that faith? Of course it's possible... people change religion all the time, i believe. Look at the growing numbers of people who identify themselves as Buddhists in the US. It happens when people are searching for something, be they influenced by someone close to them, an experience they've had, or because they do a lot of reading and research and find what appeals to them on different levels. Islam isn't so far off the center page. We hear about Islam all the time in the media and on tv, so it's not like it is a religion with limited exposure or exclusivity. And it is also a very welcoming religion, so it is not surprising that it is the fastest-growing religion in the world... People change for all sorts of reasons...	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 12:43:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (morocco4ever @ Jul 11 2008, 07:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE interesting... my hubbie gets all upset if i wear make-up (make-up for me is mascara and fruity lip gloss). and once in Rabat, he flipped out in the street because he saw i was wearing "sexy shoes". i hope he continues to be that way, though, because it would stress me out if i had to worry about make-up and stuff... ! i hope he doesn't get spoiled by the mass-media's version of "pretty" and all that kind of stuff... That is funny. My husband really likes makeup, and so do I, so it works well for us. Looks like I missed some of the drama since they deleted posts. Its okay however, just the same old chit it sounds like. haha...the "sexy shoes" thing still makes me laugh... and i'm such a tomboy that even if i showed up in leopard stilettos and a playboy bunny costume, i still don't think i'd pass for "sexy"!! uh-oh... i missed the deleted posts as well?	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-11 15:01:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (morocco4ever @ Jul 10 2008, 10:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Back to the topic now, many do have hard times adjusting. My husband has compared the US to Morocco many times. I don't let it bug me because he is just homesick. And he has stated many time how much better Moroccan women are than American women. Then the next sentence he tells me that Moroccan women are mean little bioches. It's just his mood and I usually blow it off. Now for telling you that you look average. I can understand how that made you feel. I have always been very good at keeping up my hair and makeup so that I look nice. But last spring we started a major project in our home and this went on for 9 months. I found myself getting up early every weekend to work on the project, not bothering with my hair and makeup. Lets just say I didn't look the same as normal. He did mention that he wish I would put more effort back on my looks, at which I replied "fine, then I will let you finish this yourself while I make myself pretty". Let's just say, point taken. interesting... my hubbie gets all upset if i wear make-up (make-up for me is mascara and fruity lip gloss). and once in Rabat, he flipped out in the street because he saw i was wearing "sexy shoes". i hope he continues to be that way, though, because it would stress me out if i had to worry about make-up and stuff... ! i hope he doesn't get spoiled by the mass-media's version of "pretty" and all that kind of stuff...	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-11 09:00:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	QUOTE (Jenn! @ Jul 10 2008, 11:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We don't exchange gifts and that's just fine by me. If either of us needs something, we will buy it for ourselves or for each other, and we don't have to wait for a specific day. I'm also not a fan of flowers/chocolates/symbolic gifts anyway. I do insist that we budget for birthday and Xmas gifts for my young siblings and cousins. But my personal feeling is that there are just too many adults and too many potential gifts - it can get OTT. We'll get gifts for lots of people if we come back from Morocco, or vice versa for his family. But to do birthdays and Xmas or other holiday gifts for everyone? I don't know how people afford it! Ok, sorry, that was a tangent. oh my! the Grinch! nah, i agree with you about Christmas and big families... it can be a stressor, especially because in my family, everyone already has everything they need!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-10 08:49:00
Middle East and North Africa	How is your spouse adjusting	Dear Nutty, so sorry to hear about your rough patch. as you know, my hubbie is not here yet, so i can only offer you my happy thoughts... just some things to keep in mind, that a lot of time all men are clueless as to what we'd like to hear... and when translation comes into play it's a whole other bag of worms. he might have said, "average" but he might have meant that your as pretty as the prettiest girl out there! or something to that effect! as for your b-day... that is a bummer, but if it is any consolation, a lot of times i have to straight up tell my hubbie what to buy me, because he's a little new at this relationship stuff. he is also terrible at remembering b-days and anniversaries, i think b/c his family doesn't maintain that kind of custom. most of them don't even know when they were born exactly! maybe it is similar where your hubbie is from? this is all to say, hang in there! you are beautiful and you will be alright! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-09 12:56:00
Middle East and North Africa	INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!!!!!	Sounds like a good list, Very Nice. Include anything else you can think of: Post cards, letters, airline tickets, bus tickets, hotel receipts from when you visited Morocco... but sounds like you have a lot of good stuff. Good luck! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-15 14:58:00
Middle East and North Africa	INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!!!!!	QUOTE (very nice @ Jul 14 2008, 05:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (AlHayatZween @ Jul 14 2008, 10:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Casablanca Thread thanks alot everybody special thanks to all of you and i have called Doctor zirari she asked me to come next thursday i hope that not too late ...by the way can i ask how much time would it take me to have all my arabic paperworks translated to english and how much the fees if any of you have an idea,i have never translated a paperwork here . Dear Ahmed, i believe the cost of the translations is different depending on each document. i'm sorry i can't remember what we paid, but it was expensive in Rabat. it took us about 4 or 5 days to get everything translated. bring all of your documents at once because the more you have, the more you can negotiate the price. also, please make sure your translator is asermonte so the translations will be official. what city are you living in? hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-14 13:01:00
Middle East and North Africa	INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!!!!!	Casablanca Thread Edited by AlHayatZween, 14 July 2008 - 09:59 AM.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-14 09:57:00
Middle East and North Africa	INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!!!!!	Salaam Ahmed, Here are some questions that i found from another post: It is good to be prepared. What is your fiancée’s name? Where does she live? Where does she work? When was she born? How did you meet her? When did you meet her? When did you become engaged? What made you decide to use the internet to find her? Is she divorced? What is her ex-husband's name? When did she get divorced? How long were they together? Does she have children? How many? What are their names? How old is she? When was she born? How long has she been working for XYZ? Have you met her parents? Have you talked to them on the phone? Do they approve of your relationship? Does your family approve of your relationship? When was your fiancée party? Who was there? Was any of her family there? Why weren't they there? Where did you have the fiancée party? Why didn't she bring her children? What religion is she? What is your religion? When did she visit you? How long did she stay each visit? What do you do for work? How do you communicate with her? How many times a day do you talk to her on the phone? She asked for the emails. She asked to see the pictures. Why does she only have one dress? Why are all of the pictures with her just in one dress? Where is she from What does she do When is her birthday What did you send her When was she here Did you have an engagement ceremony Where do her parents live Where does her brother live What does he do What is her parents address What does your wife do? What do you do? Who are the people in the pictures? What did you send to your wife? What did she send to you? How many times was your wife married? What are the names of her ex-husbands? When was her last divorce? When did you meet your wife? When were you married? What were the exact dates of your wife’s visit? Does your wife have children? How many and what are their names? Where do your wife's parents live? What did you do when your wife was in Morocco? Where was the wedding? Do you talk to women online? How to you talk to your wife? When did you meet your wife Were you talking to a lot of women on the net What do you and your wife talk about on the phone Do you have family in the US How many times has your fiancée been married How many times has your fiancée been divorced Who has custody of the children Where do your wife’s ex husbands live Will you be a good father to her child(ren)? Also, make sure you know your fiancee's mother's maiden name. (i forget how to say in Arabic!) i've heard some people get asked this question, for some reason. Edited by AlHayatZween, 14 July 2008 - 09:56 AM.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-14 09:55:00
Middle East and North Africa	INTERVIEW DATE!!!!!!!!!	QUOTE (very nice @ Jul 14 2008, 01:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi VJ's , my interview date is 27 July at 8 am ....my fiance did not send me a packet that has our proofs and stuff for my interview is there a very quick way to send the mail please if anyone has an idea let us know ..i also need a list of questions so i can start studying so please if anyone can send me a link to where i can find there that will be greately apperciated ,i want to know again CAN I have my ring on or should i take it off during interview ,i want also to know how am i supposed to set an appointment date with Dr Khadija zirari and should i ask for any copies after we get done with tests and what she is supposed to give me and how much fees is hers and Visa ,i know that i am coming up with bunches of questions but really i am Happy,Nervous,scared excited and what makes it worse i am not so much knowlegable about this process we been through me and my fiance so please please help me get on track , Sincerly Ahmed . Yaaaaaaayy Ahmed! Congratulations... so glad to hear you got your interview date. Alhamdulilah. Things are moving. Please have your fiancee send you all the proofs via FedEx or DHL immediately. (i never used UPS in Morocco, so i don't know about them) You are going to need those documents. And please make the appointment with Dr. Khadija immediately. My husband said the receptionist was very helpful. They do these appointments all the time and the receptionist will ask you the date of your interview and then set up an appointment for your medical. The telephone number should be with the packet. i don't remember how much the appointment cost... i think in total (transportation from Rabat & taxi included) came to 1,000 dirhams or around that. Yes, you ask for a copy of the vaccination record and they also gave my husband a copy of his chest x-ray. The rest gets sent directly to the consulate. The visa cost $131 American dollars, i believe... i'm sorry i don't know the dirham equivalent because the exchange rate keeps changing. You can pay it at the consulate in either dollars or dirhams. My husband (fiance) wore his ring at the interview; however, we were very lucky and our interview went smoothly. i agree with Polarbear that it could raise questions. There is a list of questions to practice here in the forum, i will try to look for the link and find it for you. Good luck! Inchallah tout se passe bien! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-14 09:52:00
Middle East and North Africa	Why do VJ MENA members fight so much with each other?	QUOTE (pcana @ Jul 17 2008, 04:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (zqt3344 @ Jul 17 2008, 11:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Why do MENA VJ members argue and fight so much with each other all the time? Why can't we all get along. I come in peace. Please find something better to do!!!! Don't try to create problems we all know what you're trying to do!! get lost....	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-17 12:29:00
Middle East and North Africa	HOW TO PAY VISA FEES ?	Very Nice, You will be able to pay directly at the consulate in either dirhams or American consulate... Or if you've already done it at the bank, that is okay, too... My fiance paid at the consulate. Good luck to you!! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-22 20:47:00
Middle East and North Africa	Need prayers plz	Inchallah you'll hear some good news You have all our prayers!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-03 11:45:00
Middle East and North Africa	bring on the dancing men	How did i miss this ? Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy!!! Congratulations, Belinda! Alhamdulilah.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-23 22:58:00
Middle East and North Africa	Iraq Banned From Beijing Olympics	What??! That is so unfair! i knew they weren't participating, but i didn't realize they were "banned"	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-25 09:00:00
Middle East and North Africa	Anyone Hear of Problems from Delaying Travel After Visa Rec'd?	yes, i agree. taking the time he needs is ideal... plus Ramadan is really important, and depending on where you live, there might not be much community support for him during that time. it is a good time to spend with family and friends, before he sets sail for his new life and adventure. my husband waited about 2 1/2 months before he used his visa, and he had no problems. but i agree, that the wait was torturous! Congratulations to you!!! and many good things to come! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-25 09:20:00
Middle East and North Africa	Friday's Here!!!	QUOTE (Staashi @ Jul 25 2008, 03:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (AlHayatZween @ Jul 25 2008, 10:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Bringing Habibi to New Jersey tomorrow to meet my extended family... plz wish us luck![/font][/color] Good luck - you all will have a lovely time. Drive safely. Thanks! Should be fun... and it will be his first experience with Jersey Italians. QUOTE (Nutty @ Jul 25 2008, 04:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Congratulations on your third anniversary!!!! My Friday is starting badly. I snapped at my husband for not taking the trash out like he said he would. It's just that I am so exhausted physically and mentally, really and truly. I don't know what is wrong and why I am so tired and not able to handle my schedule. Don't beat yourself up... it happens... ((hug)) i feel like i've been yelling at everyone for months... Maybe aim for a relaxing weekend, if possible?	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-25 13:12:00
Middle East and North Africa	Friday's Here!!!	Happy Friday, everyone. Happy Anniversary, A1 ! Bringing Habibi to New Jersey tomorrow to meet my extended family... plz wish us luck!	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-25 09:34:00
Middle East and North Africa	Travel from Egypt	Uh-oh... now i'm confused... i just called DOS and they said a one-way ticket with a K-1 visa is fine (at least for Moroccans). she said, "As long as he has a K-1 visa, he's fine." any insight? she was really nice on the phone... i can't remember if they were always that nice at DOS. thanks! hz QUOTE (Nagishkaw @ May 22 2008, 08:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You got that right! I did inquire at my travel agency and they said we needed a round trip on a K-1 . Sheesh! My head is spinning. Round trip, one way, round trip, one way, round trip, one way...... Me, too... all this time i thought one-ways were okay? RAM says so... DOS says so... Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm... what to do?	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-05-22 15:57:00
Middle East and North Africa	Travel from Egypt	QUOTE (sunrise17 @ May 22 2008, 04:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> should be a round trip ticket, i know you are talking about traveling from Egypt to USA, but same here they said to me i have to buy a round trip ticket, am using visa K1, so i did because i dont want no problemes, and am leaving sunday Insha Allah to Chicago Salaam Sunrise, Really? You bought a round-trip? What airline are you flying? I called RoyalAir Maroc, and they told me a one-way was fine for a K1 visa? Maybe you heard something different? Please let me know because i need to buy a ticket for my fiance soon, inchallah... and the round-trips are VERY expensive these days. Thanks! hz	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-05-22 15:41:00
Middle East and North Africa	me thinks there are posers in MENA	QUOTE (S and S @ Jul 25 2008, 03:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I know what you mean. One time I was crying to myself during the day when not talking to my husband so he wouldn't know I was so sad. What does he do? Call me and he could hear by my voice that I was upset. Then he yelled at me for crying. I tell him he should comfort me and he doesn't get it. I'm trying to find a way to explain why sometimes we just need to hear "everything will be alright" from our spouses, whether it will be or not. awww... hang in there S and S. i know it's a long wait, and inchallah you'll be together soon... sometimes i just tell Habibi exactly what i need him to say... sure, that may be cheating, if you have to coach them. but he is getting the hang of saying the right thing at the right time now	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-25 09:08:00
Middle East and North Africa	me thinks there are posers in MENA	QUOTE (Ganja_Girl @ Jul 24 2008, 05:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I never get PMed from any males, now I am feeling a little insecure awwwww... never that! maybe your girls with machine guns intimidate them? i love your girls by the way.	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-24 14:23:00
Middle East and North Africa	me thinks there are posers in MENA	Sometimes i get PMs from men in MENA, but they all think i'm a man !! They always start off, "Brother..."	AlHayatZween	Not Telling	Morocco	2008-07-23 22:32:00