Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Get in here and group hug with us, Mal... you cuddly little monkey, you!!!! *squish* QUOTE (Malrothien @ Nov 16 2009, 02:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> AFK, puking.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 15:01:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Oh for gods' sake, are we going to have to group hug again!!! That'll be like twice in the space of a month!	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 14:57:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Gosh... dunno... I've actually not ever had more fulfilling relationship nor one that I have respected so much and all those other goods things. Not because it IS long distance at all -- it's the person of course but, being LD meant that I really had to think about things before i said or did them. It meant that things had to be worked for to be had. It meant that the potential for things to be difficult was always there. It meant that when we won and it all came together, it was the best thing ever... Shhhhh, now don't tell anyone that I'm such a wussy.... @ Danu... Very sweet and said perfectly. Thanks also for being so open with it all. Now I don't have to be a mushy wuss all by myself... QUOTE (Wyatt's Torch @ Nov 16 2009, 02:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think the stigma of an LDR is far lower than it was even five years ago...but it's still there. Most people don't understand how love can exist between two people who are far apart. But frankly? I think that those people who can't comprehend love like that don't deserve love like that. I'm sure we've all been in regular in-town relationships, and I'd venture to guess almost all of you would agree that this LDR you're in is deeper and more fulfilling than those prior ones, largely because of the distance factor. I seem to recall having a very similar PM discussion this morning with another VJer...who could that have been... Edited by lgg, 16 November 2009 - 02:50 PM.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 14:49:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	I know... my husband and I have spent plenty O Christmases apart -- it's just par for the course, especially now that we still both live in different countries. The thing is? I think most people do not understand the complexity involved in a long-distance relationship that turns into a long distance marriage with a visa process thrown in there and then for you, Treble a visa process thrown in and still having your folks and stuff STILL in the other country... Most people don't get it. Most people dont' have relationships like this either so... it just gets under my skin when people say well, why isn't he, why aren't you guys, why, why, why... I hate it. How about giving each us of credit as adults who really dig each other but have things to take care of and are able to do it ourselves? No? Yes??? Balh, blah, blah.... . QUOTE (thetreble @ Nov 16 2009, 01:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Just saw your post, Lgg, and not the ones before it (because I'm too lazy to go back and read it all) But I find the same attitude with me going back and forth to canada for holidays.. "So, you aren't going to spend Christmas together?" "No, I want to see my family...I have time now to go see them.." "But your husband isn't going with you?" "No, he has to work and he wants to see HIS family..." I get to see my husband on daily basis....He understands that my needs to see my family and friends outweigh the needs of us spending something like Christmas together. When we have children, that will obviously change a bit.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 13:52:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	@ minnew and ashen... I also find that one of the hardest/weirdest things that people do as they're so unfamiliar with this whole process as well as conducting a LDR, is that they're so quick to condemn the person not coming to help. I've had friends say, "Well, why ISN'T he coming to help?" I can't believe that, my boyfriend/husband would drop everything in a second to make sure, blah, blah, blah..." But really? We have jobs, obligations and such and sometimes it IS easier to send it or whatever rather than have you both there. Hope this makes sense. I hope it comes to a resolution that you both agree with. I also just hate it when people who dont' understand anything about it chime in and castigate when they've never been in this situation...	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 12:51:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Hmmmm... yeah.... I think based on some of your previous posts, I may have a good idea as to what that may be... *rocks back and forth in corner* QUOTE (Wyatt's Torch @ Nov 16 2009, 12:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (lgg @ Nov 16 2009, 09:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That would anger beyond normal control if someone did that to me. NOt even joking.... Haha. Yeah. Don't get me wrong -- I love my parents etc., but I never felt I could really be myself when I lived with them. It was only after I moved out that I was really able to thrive. There are other reasons I'm very leery of moving back in with them, even on a temporary basis...but it's not worth getting into on a public forum.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 12:14:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	That would anger beyond normal control if someone did that to me. NOt even joking....	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 12:01:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	I will tell you now, as someone who has already gotten rid of TONS of #######, and I am a bit of a packrat... I don't miss a single thing. In fact? I'm pretty sure that I could toss the 27 boxes I am bringing and probably not miss them too much either. But, it's my book collection and stuff that will make the house, our home and that is pretty important. yeah, Bowflex, I think that's what I'll do... when it gets nearer to the time, just post all the stuff online on Craigslist and sell it all off bit by bit... how bad can it be? Wyatt... does he ask you where you're going and stuff? do you have a curfew??? QUOTE (Wyatt's Torch @ Nov 16 2009, 11:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yeah yeah yeah. I know it's a good thing, else I wouldn't be doing it. It's not without its annoyances though! I love my parents dearly, but they drive me nuts. I think my father forgets that I'm thirty sometimes...so I'm not looking forward to THAT aspect of things. But yes, the big ol' "temporary" stamp on my living there will make it feel a lot better. I also like living where I am, having Skytrain and a major shopping mall within a five minute walk. I'll miss that too. I'm seriously starting to think about NOT taking a trailer with me when I drive down to D.C. That's one of the reasons I'm putting priority codes on all of my boxes...so that I can pare down all of the things I really, really want for the first few months I'm down there. Perhaps I can fit all of it in my car. I can always arrange to have my parents ship other stuff down as needed. It's a shame we don't have transporters a la Star Trek.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 11:34:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Hi Wyatt!!! I actually wish I could just ship all my stuff up NOW... that would be so awesome, but I can't right? Not until I have some sort of official approval? I gotta say, you make moving to your parent's house in the interim sound like a bad thing -- but dude, you are going to save SO Much money and it's only going to be for like 2 or 3 months max. IF I could live with parental type units for 2 or 3 months, I have so much damnmoney saved. Its' a good thing, Wyatt and I will say so every time you bring it up. i have decided all that I want to bring, my only issue now is getting rid of the big furniture that I won't need . The thing is... I need it all now! I need my bed and my couch and stuff, as well as my office desk and chair and computers. I'm not sure how I'll finagle that but... I'm sure I will. We all will, actually. QUOTE (Wyatt's Torch @ Nov 16 2009, 11:12 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'll be moving all by myself too. Actually, I'm moving TWICE all by myself...once as we speak, moving back to my parents' place on a (hopefully very brief) temporary basis...then down to Washington as soon as my passport is returned with that glorious I-551 stamp. I don't mind it though...it's kind of exciting, in a way. The only hard part is having to be really discerning about what I REALLY want to take versus what I'd kinda like to take. I'm prioritizing each box with an A, B or C. Yet I've somehow managed to throw a few B+ in there too.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 11:16:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Ashen... I am SO sorry for this but... you also made me laugh. The phrase punch the retardedness out of him... oh man! If it makes you feel any better at all, I will be moving all by myself too -- though there is no reneging on his part but moving sucks and having to do it alone is a bummer... hopefully you have a ton of friends who can at least help pack the truck... QUOTE (ashenflowers @ Nov 15 2009, 07:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Alright, apparently I'm Venty today, (and I don't mean Venti as in Starbucks, though it is a large amount of venting... har har) FYI to any USCs who have promised their spouses, REPEATEDLY, that you will come up to help them move... don't start discussing options that include you completely reneging on your promise and making them go alone. When moving options are discussed, breaking a promise shouldn't be one of the options.... My fiancé just did that, and he's lucky he's waaaay out of arms length, cause I'm about ready to punch the retardedness out of him. Pardon my non-PC mouth.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-16 09:22:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	@Wyatt... HA!!!! I freaking love my bike to bits. Most useless set of two wheels ever looking at my needs at the moment....	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-14 20:03:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	wow. This all makes me wish I could drive. I would so rent a Uhaul! But,as it is, I think it's one of the rent a Pods for me. It's only like 500miles from where I live to where I need to go -- about a 7 hour drive. Why am I here in the driving home thread, you ask... I dunno... I just wanted to play with the big kids... QUOTE (Wyatt's Torch @ Nov 14 2009, 07:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I've driven from Rancho Cucamonga, California (between L.A. and Riverside) all the way to Olympia, Washington in a day. It took me fourteen hours, I think...even though GoogleMaps suggests over seventeen. I don't think I was doing the speed limit though...it was always hard to keep the speed down in my old Trans Am. I probably could have made it the extra three hours home...but I started getting really aggravated once I was into Washington State. I suppose it was driver fatigue mixed with mild road rage...so I decided to just call it a night at a Motel Six. I think I'll do the same thing when I make the trip to Washington D.C.: drive until I start feeling fatigued and edgy, then either stop for a prolonged meal and continue...or just get a room for the night. Fortunately I love driving in general, or else I doubt I'd even consider making the trip that way.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-14 19:57:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	I LOVE doing laundry. That being said... I am not allowed to do husband's as apparently I don't fold the right way. What is wrong with cramming everything into the drawer? Huh? What? I hang all my nice stuff up but all the t-shirts and stuff. Crammed, basically. Socks always in pairs though. I like to do laundry, only because it motivates me to clean.... the smell of clean laundry makes me think the rest of the place should smell as such...	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-14 09:48:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Geez DPX... Are you drunk or something????? Good god... QUOTE (DeadPoolX @ Nov 13 2009, 01:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (thetreble @ Nov 13 2009, 05:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I ate too much for breakfast and now I have a HUGE stomach ache. Vomit and put it in a doggie bag. Then tell someone you know that you've "saved the big chunks" for them. They'll appreciate it.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-13 13:34:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Hahahahahahahahahaha! This made me feel like a slice O cake! Did you read my rant above? To all this and the Lame-O answering machine messages: STFU.... No seriously... STFU... QUOTE (Sprailenes @ Nov 13 2009, 11:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm doing collections calls at work today - and you wouldn't believe how many of these people let their kids come up with their answering machine banter. I don't find it cute at all, in fact it makes me cringe. We're not just talking: "Sorry we're not home right now.." I'm talking about kids singing terribly, and just being lame. Yes people your kids are LAME. I expect some backlash for this vent but I don't really care. YOU'RE LAME TOO! jk I lurve you all... well most of you... okay just some of you... maybe just two or one of you...	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-13 11:40:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	You ARE optimistic! Okay... new rant for you. ; I work in an office, pretty professional and stuff, but there's this group of people, who for some reason come into our design group area and talk and laugh like freaking idiots. It makes me NUTS. I am no prude my any stretch of the means but oh my god... take it somewhere else. I don't feel like having my workspace filled with the noise of idiots laughing and saying really stupid #######. I actually sent their boss guy, who's actually really nice an email saying can you tell Mr D1ckwad to take his antics somewhere else as tis' really disturbing... I know... I 'm lame but god what a bunch of immature aholes.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-13 11:00:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Oh brother... Never even t hought of that -- how depressing! but #######, it was EXACTLY 3 months yesterday that we got our case complete from the AVR. Well great, Wyatt.. I am now in the post-wine depression... :|	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-13 10:48:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Morning, everyone. I am in a post red-wine haze today and am battling it with boatloads and boatloads of coffee! How'ma doing? Oh right, vent... Um... well, I'm sitting at work on a friday and my boss called in sick again! Is it not suspicious to anyone that she's sick a lot on Fridays and Mondays? Hmmm..... I sure could use a day off... ~cough cough~ PS @ Wyatt... I assumed you were being smart-assy too! And I think the emoticon you're looking for is a winky-face. Edited by lgg, 13 November 2009 - 10:41 AM.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-13 10:40:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	I'll be honest with you all? I don't really know what the Adam Walsh Act is. I am going to go google it now. Ah... I understand now. I knew the story but wasn't sure how the Act fit in and such... . Now I do... Edited by lgg, 12 November 2009 - 04:19 PM.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-12 16:18:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	I remember when I had my first touch by the USCIS... though I was going to stroke right out. QUOTE (bradcanuck @ Nov 12 2009, 11:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I have aphephobia. That being said people have to be told not to get too close to me. I have a LARGE personal space bubble and I like my privacy. I can only be touched when I am in an environment that I KNOW will involve it. So standing in a mall and having a stranger touch my hand will cause a panic attack. The only time I like being touched is when USCIS does it. I love it when they touch me and my files. It's erotic and relaxing at the same time. Why, oh why USCIS do you not touch me more? Please touch me.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-12 12:05:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	OH gah!!!! That made my head hurt. But remember now, remember how confusing it first was when you first started, no? I remember when I first started this whole thing I was beboggled by the deluge of information nad options and really? It took a bit before I thought maybe I'd made the right choice. It is all head exploding though .I had to stop reading that thread. Us Canadians... we are prone to the head explosions! QUOTE (Darnell @ Nov 12 2009, 10:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Is there a new game to make a Canadien's head explode? http://www.visajourn...howtopic=227854 Or is it a reading problem, specific to each human ?	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-12 11:01:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	We will call them the portals of Passive/aggression! QUOTE (bradcanuck @ Nov 11 2009, 12:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> In 3000 years when the next society finds VJ, they are going to wonder why "Canadians" have so many vents. And more importantly what do vents have to do with anger/aggression and pet peeves?	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-11 12:19:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	Oh my GAWD!! I live for it -- nothing like a distraction to keep my simple little mind from combusting from stress and whatnot.... Oh and in regard to being sick? Saline Nasal spray, mouthwash gargle and lots of hand-washing! QUOTE (darkchilde794 @ Nov 11 2009, 10:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> A lot of people are getting sick It looks like its that time of the year. Danu and Peachey -- hope you guys get out of that cold/flu/infection spell soon. Peachey -- it didnt even take for us to meet for you to get the cold virus (Just kidding) Yeah, lots of rest helps. I think Im out of mine now but I did stayed in bed for 4 days. Poprocks! Im so sorry to hear about your back!!! I hope you feel better or find some way to alleviate the pain And I agree with you... now that Im done with school and just waiting for the silly visa thing, the gossip in VJ has been keeping me from going crazy	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-11 10:57:00
Canada	The Vent - Part Trois	~ahem~ I can hear you biotches!!!!!!!	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2009-11-10 14:37:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	May I present to you... Gneal the Gnome! On another note, I picked SO much arugula lettuce today that I think I'm going to make an arugula pesto with it. I think it's gonna rock.  Gneal_the_gnome.jpg   222.92KB   16 downloads	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-06-04 08:53:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	I also need to special mention, as this is very special, but a very sweet and Lovely Sprailenes sent me a garden gnome for my garden! i will be posting a pic of that cheeky little guy in a moment. very sweet and awesome, if i may say. hope you don't mind me mentioning it, Sprails, but it's too late now!	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-06-04 08:25:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Awwwww! hey thanks you guys!!! I turned 40 yesterday! Holy #######! I want to say, I had possibly the best birthday I have ever had. My husband spoiled me like I have never been spoiled. He "left for work" and then showed up about an hour or so after and kidnapped me and took me for pancakes and house hunting and he got all the work on my car done that I needed and got it plated and registered and everything . Seriously? amazing. Then he dropped me off at my sister in law's and we had ice cream and hung out and then I came home and he and my step daughter and I went out for a lovely dinner and came home and opened up the gifts they got me. One of which was a full-sized authentic Canadian flag. Thanks for your well wishes and I had a perfect milestone birthday here in the US of A with my lovely family. BTW Happy Birthday to LGG	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-06-04 08:22:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Sorry to hear that you're still homeless, Krikit... you'll find a place that's for sure. and regarding the packing, can't you just say no? Or are you repaying a debt of kindness or something? IF it were me, and they just asked out of the blue, I think I would be edging toward saying no. I hate packing and moving too. I had about 3 breakdowns moving my stuff here! Good luck to you... So I'm back in Canada to prepare for my daughter's wedding shower and to attend my friend's daughter's wedding. And I'm still homeless. And now my cousin's husband just called to ask if I could come and help him pack up their house. (My cousin.... his wife.... is away on business.) I would just like to mention that I FREAKING HATE ALL THIS HOUSE PACKING!!!!!!! First, I had to pack up my parents' house due to the renovations. Then I had to pack up my house due to the relocation. Now I have to unpack my parents' house (as soon as these freaking renovations are done), and then I have to unpack my house (as soon as I GET a house. ) And just in case I haven't had enough packing and unpacking, I get roped into helping someone else to do it. This is truly the year from hell. Did anyone else just experience a strange "blip" on VJ? Or am I "special"?	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-06-03 08:41:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Oh Huggles, that sounds horrid. i love thse cookies called PIMS. cookie base, jelly on top and then coated in chocolate. and flakies? Yeah, the are awesome. so, so, so fake and stuff but super delicious. My grandma used to make cookies with pieces of fruit in them. Strange, mushy, mystery fruit... It was like fruit cake in cookie form.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-30 08:06:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	HEY... you calling me nutty? Yeah, I dunno, it's super delicious and what are the health risks associated with soy milk? I think I'm done with it now that I've found almond milk but I'm curious. I'm going to Google it too. I know its lower in calories and saturated fat than regular milk, doesnt come with the health risks soy milk does (nor the lingering aftertaste) It tastes pretty darn good, although I dont taste it to be nutty like you do	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-27 14:05:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	you know what's yummy? Freaking almond milk! Oh my god, the nutty goodness. I, for some reason, don't really drink a lot of milk but I do like soy milk and such in my cereal and to make chocolate milk with. I tried almond milk for the first time and holy man, it's good and it makes some wicked good chocolate milk. I wonder if there are any super good health benefits to it? It's yummy though.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-27 10:22:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Wooooo! Happy May 2-4! You know what's funny? Is that for most May 2-4s I'd be taking the Thursday and friday off before and coming to the US to see my husband! Woohooo! now I don't have to bother. it's kinda cool, all the stats coming up and me or him not having to run around trying to book time off work and get plane tickets. rocking. Must have a beer this weekend to celebrate . Oh ya Happy May 2-4!!! I love that no one down here knows what that is.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-21 09:15:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	how about we just call it Bizza? I like the water and swimming but I hate the beach. Lying on the sand tanning with a ton of other people. I'd wanna swim, build sandcastles, beachcomb for treasure and then have pizza. Or... bizza.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-16 20:01:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Oh ew.... just ew. that is one trashy look. Ah, you reminded me of those girls who pull their thongs up really high and wear their pants down really low. We don't want to see your red lace thong hanging out of your pants thanks...	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-15 08:20:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	I buy second hand and from Thrift shops too. I always buy shoes new but i like funky tops and sweaters and you can find some awesome stuff at the thrift store. i never pay full price for clothing. Ever. It feels like a rip off. I pay good money for shoes but I don't have a lot and they get well used so... they gotta be new and well made.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-13 21:03:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	I'm with you. I'd spend my money on antiques, antique books, software and computers and even the high end hair products. Oh and perfume. I love me some expensive perfume. I see your point...we all would spend money on certain things and not others. I don't have the cash to spend on something quite that expensive, but even going from a fake to a real leather handbag is a quality move or from drugstore makeup to department store make-up...there's a quality difference, and that's not to say that the lower cost one doesn't work. Anyhoo - I would spend money on antique books or higher priced computer hardware, my real guilty pleasure is expensive hair products from the salon...they just work better for me	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-13 12:08:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	LV bags have always made me laugh. well, all those bags that ae like 100s and 100s of dollars. Why people, why??? I bought my first nice handbag about 3 years ago, a Roots Leather bag -- it was 200$. I bought it when i was made a permanent employee at the job i was contracting at. It was a welcome to adulthood thing. I bought a new bag yesterday (as I gave all my stuff away moving here) and it was like 30bucks, canvas, totally cute and functional. Even that i was like... hmmmmm.... but that's just me. but yeah, LV bags are also ugly as sin. really ugly.	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-05-13 08:23:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	Once it's all done, you're going to be on cloud nine! Seriously! This is thrilling! *grabs paper bag* We move in next weekend. INSANE!!! *breaths into a paper bag*	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-04-29 12:35:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	lol! You lead an exciting life, Flames! just awesome! Glad you had a good trip, save for the cops coming to haul you away. Well I'm ending my stay here in RI on a less than stellar way,lol So this morning get up, still half asleep, and dog wants out right away, ok no probs, so I open the door! OOPPSSS I forgot to shut off the house alarm!!!! Sirens blare, it starts squawking INTRUDER, The police have been notified and are on their way!!! lol I shut the alarm off. But of course the alarm company immediately calls and aks who i am and for the password--Which I do NOT know!! And of course my in-laws who still reside in Florida this time of yr, are off to the Bahamas!! So alarm co. lady states she has to notify police,lol So few min lat police show up. 1 guy is immediately out of his car, and in the "lets kick butt" mode,lol he is quickly moving down the driveway, hand over his gun in the rdy,lol the other cope just strolls on up when i open the door. They had to phone people onthe "approved" list to see if they knew me, which of course they do. I showed him the engagement photo on the fridge, lol So that was pretty exciting, know the alarm work well and the cops were here in around 5 min. Prob hit the rd back to VA late tonight. Was going to leave tomorrow, but I want to ensure im home for game 7 caps/Mtl!! Halak needs another stellar performance. Time to clean house and vehicles	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-04-27 10:23:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Quatre	you should probably resign. so I finally heard back from the lady I work for today after I sent her the email yesterday.... in the email she seems upset because I didn't give them much notice but in the email she sent me yesterday morning she asked if I thought I would be able to work up until the surgery .. she also said if she thought I would be returning after my surgery... I am not sure if I should or not.. it isn't really fair for them to find temporary care for about 2 months and then have me come back... and I kind of would really would like to find a job that is closer ... I have no freaking idea what to do... I really don't want to deal with this right now though.. I have other stuff on my mind... I do know that the last few months have been challenging for them with me not being very reliable...	lgg	Not Telling	Canada	2010-04-23 17:32:00