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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 23)

At one point, DJ had this little puppy, about 6 weeks old - the man had no food in his house, but would cook cereal each am for the dog - who had a bed in the corner of the bedroom. Yet when I woke up in the middle of the night, I had a foot in my neck cause the puppy was up on DJ's chest, tucked under his chin. Then he got a cat - I found out cause he was laying in bed talking to me on the phone and I could hear purring - the cat was curled up on him. He is the one who feeds all the puppies in his yard -

No worries about the pets being treated like one of our kids.

So you have two dogs now? I thought the one you just got was your only one -


We had Daisy and Bosco.....dog and cat. Daisy went to live with my daughter and my ex when I bought my house. I got Tiger, the dog, whenever that was last year. I just had Daisy over for the entire last week. She's not overly fond of Tiger's youthfulness.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 15:11:00
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have any of you guys ever blasted off your husbands/fiances when they make requests? i'm just wondering
it's based on a request i saw on facebook this weekend and i just thought if i were in that person's shoes i would tell my husband get your a$$ the eff outta here with that $hit (in my best yankee voice of course, lol)
it's a serious question though


Requests? For what? or who?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:49:00
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My husband is the same way. Mich was asking the same question a few weeks ago. I don't know of anyone off hand. All the ones I know have all moved to ATL or FL. That's goood. I did the same to my husband the first time we went to NY -- he asked where we going, I said to the store, den he was like mi look like ediat it no tek dat lang fi reach di store. When we linked up with his friends in Queens they damn near lost their mind. We want to do Atlantic City this summer, if we have time. We have a voucher for Sandals Whitehouse that we need to use before the end of this year.



Whitehouse MoBay or the other?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:47:00
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I don't know if you new VJ ladies know this or not but I was married before...to a Jamaican and yes I went through the entire process before with him. I didn't file the K-1 we were married so we went the other route. After we broke up I said I will NEVER marry again. NO ONE...American, Jamaican, British, Canadian...you get the picture. I continuted to take my daughter to Jamaica to see her grandparents, Aunts, Uncles etc. My husband now was always around because he ran with Marley's family and if I would go out to a club at night he would be the one to take me. Our relationship grew over the years and eventually I gave him a chance and I am very happy I did. So I say to you ladies if it your marriage doesn't work out...NEVER say NEVER! Just my 2 cents because I was one that said NEVER again.



Ahhh.....yes, we discussed this the first day we had lunch together. Didn't I say are you freakin' crazy??????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:46:00
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I don't plan on marrying again if this doesn't work. I believe in "til death do us part" :devil:
I love hubby and I needed to experience marriage just once. I am going to "make it do what it do" as A would say, but if it doesn't work, this is it for me. Not alot of fight left in me.



Ha ha.....who's death?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:36:00
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:hehe:

So I have a serious question for e/one.

As things have moved and stalled and moved again, and thru all the issues, drama, tears, fights, pain and all... Im sure we all have similar stories and trials. Question is.. would you do it all over again? Or, knowing what you know now, would you run like hell.

Im sometimes 50/50 on this. I love my husband, but getting to where we are (and we arent even there yet) has been a ride- and sometimes downright painfull. I dont regret marrying him! Dont regret loving him.. but sometimes I regret meeting him. Is that bad?




I don't regret the experience 100%. I regret parts of it. That being said, the parts I regret are about 85% my fault.

But, knowing what I know now, I would not have gone through the journey. And, regardless of what anyone else says, I know myself.....and I know I will never do it again.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:35:00
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I don't have that worry with DJ - in fact, the opposite - I think he'll be bringing home every stray he can!



Yeah, Andre had 6 dogs in his yard and a couple cats. There is a difference though between running around the yard and actually treating them like one of your kids.

I still have the dog :innocent:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:22:00
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While away from VJ, I managed to select a book @ library while there w/my son. I'm reading Maneater by Mary B Morrison. Very interesting book. I read over 150 pages yesterday. I prbly finish it today. At the end of first half, there were questions. One question was, would you still marry your fiance if you found XXXXrated pics of them?? Cory answered by saying in a relationship everything should be easily revealed to one another espclly if we're speaking about marriage. He also went on to say, that shows the woman had something to hide & maybe hiding more skeletons in closet.I shot back & said maybe she doesn't want her past to interfere w/her present & she prbly felt no need to reveal the pics. Who knows. It's not me but question made me think.
This book at one time was on the essence magazines top book selection.


I think it depends. Everyone is entitled to their privacy. And, that's BS about what else you hiding. You do not have to be an open book to be faithful or honest.

If I had pics in Playboy or something, then, yeah, guess I better spill it. If I took some pics for a realtionship I was in, then NO, none of anyone else's business.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:18:00
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I thought the same thing. So, that's what everyone is talking about this morning. I mean, damn, how much of a rush can you be in and why take the test at work.



....or you don't want your man at home to know! :whistle:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:10:00
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They're trying to get him deported after he serves time for this crime and all the others (he violated his parole) -- I don't know how it works and he's part of a gang which I'm all too famailar with. I sit on a gang task force which I've been on since I left high school and they're bad news. I don't know why the hell they need me there since he had 9 outstanding warrants and jumped bail the list goes on. The guys that helped me that day, said they have no problems testifying.



My cousin had to testify against a guy who tried to car jack her. Turns out they got him cause he car jacked some gal, took her to her house, raped her, and then killed her. Terrifying since who knows what the outcome would've been if my cousin didn't have such a big mouth!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:09:00
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Not a happy camper today looks like I'm going to have to go to court about the guy that tried to rob me last month...



Of course you do.....you have to make sure he doesn't do that to anyone else, Tre.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:07:00
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Try this again!

*doing backflips and cartwheels*......I KNEW IT IRIE!!!! I KNEW IT!!! I prayed SO hard for you! God is Good!!!!



Now that I would like to see. Did you tape it? :devil:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-22 14:06:00
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I'm in a pissy mood. I had a noise fixed in my car and of course, 2 more bigger issues were found. God, how I hate cars!

Should I hang at the fire house? Go to trivia night with that guy I took to Dillon's wedding (smile....that was for Dillon!)? Or meet my friend Rob my favorite bar later?

BINGO tomorrow night maybe!!!!!

Helped my ex move today. I am in love with their new house. I want my daughter's bathroom so bad!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-20 18:05:00
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hey girl we can moble to moble and not use up no credit!!! :dance: (ooops I meant minutes)




Sunray and Jg too....we can all "moble to moble" heeeeeeeeyyyyyy



Ha ha.....didn't even think of that! Yes, we can.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-20 17:59:00
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I make it for Ray sometimes, but I must admit I HATE cutting the toe nails.



OK, that is just disgusting.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:55:00
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sarry, not feeling well running a high temp 102



rubbing alcohol
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:54:00
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Hi, All.



I'm still catching up, but to comment on this....

We saw Air Force One landing! No other flights could take off until that one landed, which caused delays. A lot of people on the flight were upset, but since I was with my love, I didn't mind the delay.... even if we didn't get home until 12:30am.

Also in the Vegas airport yesterday, I saw this one dude & was like, "Steven, is that the Allstate Guy?" He said, "Looks like him." Then the dude talked in that distinctive voice & we knew it was him. He looked smaller (shorter, thinner) than on TV. Dennis Haysbert is his name (just googled).

Lastly, I need for all full-sized people to know certain undocumented etiquette. Steven had the window seat, I was in the middle, and a big-hipped woman sat next to me! :angry: Why????? She should know not to sit next to another big-hipped woman! The undocumented etiquette would've been for her to sit next to a thinner person, and let a thinner person sit next to me. Whatever. I just scooted closer to my husband.

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Question: Would any of you feel uncomfortable asking your mother to call during certain hours (say, not before 9am or after 11pm)?

I'd have NO issue saying "Sandra, how come you've been calling me so early? I'm still sleeping." But I learned this morning that not everyone feels comfortable asking their parents to look at the clock before calling.



Not at all, Nat. I tell EVERYONE to call me after 9 or before 9 7 days a week. I don't care if I'm really sleeping or not. Someone better be dying if they call me besides those times.

And, I have my friends trained to only call me on weekends unless it's an emergency. I only have so many shared plan minutes. Text me. Email me. PM me. Call me at work.

You gotta have your limits and let them know.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:49:00
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I believe Verizon is the best carrier out there. I had the I-phone and AT&T's service sucks big time.



I'm having issues with service unavailable when I send texts on Verizon. Never had any issues with AT&T.

hello, I am currently trying to get my fiance a visiting visa to come the U.S. for my graduation. I was originally consdering a fiance visa but we are waiting to schedule our marriage to when both of our families will be able to attend. I am foreign myself but hold a U.S. passport.

I currently stay at my university. Is this a problem for my invitation letter? I can give them my phone number, but would I need to give a residential address? I have a friend off campus he could stay with for a few nights but is that necessary? he would be here for about one week.

Please help, I graduate this May 2010 and would love for him to be here. I have no idea how to go about this, what I need to do etc.... and I know it's a stretch. Thank you



It's very difficult to get a visitor visa. But, you can always try.

They will need an address.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-19 14:38:00
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Mrs. P -- see - -what did I tell you. My husband had his own routine from the time he got her. He was got to the states on a Friday and Monday he was in the gym. He started class a few weeks later. He found work when he got the WP, but it was mostly part-time here and there. He has his own schedule. Because his GC took so damn rass long he gave up a lot of great work opportunities. One company held the position for 3 months because it was a new conference center. Most days he's too tired, but we find time for each other. Wait 'til Belly goes shopping for the first time on his own -- my husband said that was the best feeling and when he figured out how to pay the utilities online. It's not an EASY road, but when di road get leveled the feeling is GREAT! --

You just have to find what works for you both and try not to stress too much over it cause that will only cause more problems. In the beginning I use to do all the housework and he did all the cooking (NOT) anymore. We do a little bit of everything. Actually, we kind of switched because of his hours and time in school. I so hate cooking, I rather CLEAN and CLEAN and CLEAN....I love doing laundry and ironing. I know something is wrong with me, right?



Nope. I like to clean too. And, laundry is not my least favorite thing either. Ironing..... :angry: I just throw it back in the dryer.

Okay...hightop philly fade guy with the jerry curl is from DETRIOT! I think he'll get the job his resume is the bomb. He acutally put his picture on his resume but his hair was cut out of the photo...oh well, I see y now.



Dillon is not going to like the Detroit reference! :unsure:

bwoy shem.. i gotta make my way up there..ive said it before and i will say it again WIERD!!

roger would rather have one of the many warehouse jobs he applied for, but i told him, they prolly look at him mawga (sp) looking self and think he can't do the work.. lol.. you gotta go in w/ a wife beater so dem can see di
muscles!! LOL



Oh, no you didn't! A wife beater????? :rofl:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 13:36:00
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I hope she is okay too..



Who you telling I almost was in tears when i finished my last bottle..lol



I did the same thing yesterday with my last peanut punch :angry:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:42:00
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A plane has crashed into an alleged federal building in Austin, Tx....not sure what kind of plane...not sure if there are any casualties...there is an alleged FBI headquarters within close proximity...



There is an FBI office in that building.....along with many other businesses. And, it was a small plane. They are calling it just an accident at this time.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:17:00
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Irie was involved in a hit and run last night. Some guy hit her and left the scene and her car was totaled but they are all ok.




Talking about what you said about JQ sneaker boots.



How you know this and why didn't you share?

Hugs, Irie.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:03:00
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We'll get there soon and very soon. lol I have 399hrs of annual leave to use this year and I only have 1 week of vacation scheduled.


So sorry to hear about your dad. I've had to deal with that with a few relatives. My aunt and her husband were both on drugs for years and they have now been clean for over a year.... Hopefully, he will wake up on day and decide it's time to change his life back around to the way it was. I'll be saying a prayer for you.



10 freakin' weeks????? :angry: My co-worker and I are cussing you right now!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 12:00:00
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:angry: now they've moved the meeting. I want this over with. I do not like speaking in front of people. Now, the chick that was suppose to do the presentation wants to make sure I don't "fudge" it up cause her job is on the line...well, guess what -- get your A$$ in here and do it yourself! The nerve of some people.

As Philly would say, "I'm hotter than fish oil (or is it grease)"



We would work well together, Tre. I do those monthly birthday lunches here and whenever people complain.....and someone ALWAYS complains about something....I say, whenever you want to take this part of my job over, you let me know. Otherwise, STHU.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 09:48:00
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Somebody help me I just got laughed at by the peanut gallery for buying these shoes last week



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they were on sale for 30$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$



I can't help you there......you trying out for Star Wars??????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-18 09:41:00
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Thank you!!!! You know what you are talking about! Although hubby teases her all the time about having another one.



I'm thinking horror movies now......like Damien from the Omen.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 16:09:00
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ladies i have more than i can handle as it is now...NO BABY for me.



I was just going to say little princess would have a cow if you got pregnant!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:53:00
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Dat sounds good what's that?



Reminds me of cream soda.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:15:00
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What makes those goat balls rainbow? I mean what is the coating????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:13:00
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Rainbow goat balls
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Yes maam!!!!!!!!!!



I tried frog legs for the first time last year on my birthday. My father practically forced me. It wasn't bad......tastes like chicken.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:11:00
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This will make you not if you do

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Still a little unsure.....is it frog?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:08:00
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well, he don't like them he's a healthy 6 year old. I think the only soda he will drink is ginger ale when we were in Jamaica I gave him some cola champange and he spit it out.



OK, I have my fingers in my ears and am humming loudly........NOT like Cola Champagne?????? :crying:
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:07:00
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What are those JQ? Frog legs?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:02:00
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Yes, they do. The gave me a hard time after he got to 2 months saying I was feeding him too much. All he was getting was breastmilk and a lot of it. They called him the "line backer" -- then he started walking way too early (7months) and was so bowleg -- then he thing out and they told me I wasn't feeding him ENOUGH! :angry: ***kissteet***

He's still thin and he eats alot mostly Jamaican food. I use to think something was wrong with him because he wouldn't eat sweets, but doc says it's fine.



I'm sorry; but something is wrong with ANYONE who doesn't eat sweets!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 15:01:00
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those big babies always end up skin and bones.. you can see my youngest's ribs!!
and the lil babies usually BLOW UP :whistle:



Yep. My son is 6'3" and is lucky he doesn't blow over in the wind!

Ok I be all over mine too, with his sexy self.


LOL AT DW

Posted Image like the rent late huh!! :lol:



I LOVE those shoes.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:54:00
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I just can't see your daughter as being big as a baby. Maybe long but not no 10lbs!



Ha ha......she was.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:53:00
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OMG.....why do I have so many of these?

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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:48:00
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Sorry, Dillon...........I can't resist

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*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:46:00
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And, no, Tre.....they didn't come out walking. I had to haul their big butts and all their ####### all over the place.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:42:00
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dang JG -- 10lbs...my son was only 6lbs and 17inches long and I couldn't push him out.



really good drugs!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-02-17 14:41:00