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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin - Part 26!

Its not always that simple nor that easy... I know, my own was the spawn of satan the child version, now he is the spawn of satan the adult version, so I understand where she is coming from completely and guess what? The schools are only gonna tolerate but so much. They take on the role that they don't have to tolerate the behavior especially if he screams and cries all day long...Not to mention the "labelling" he will receive...I pray for her family, also her daughters are being subjected to things that they may not be use to. Its an adjustment for ALL of them. They are going to have to learn what to do about the behavior he exhibits.

Just my opinion.



He's way behind. He's going to need some special education.

And, you are talking about your US kids. He's been here....what? a week? He needs a whole lot of adjustment time. He's scared. He's away from everything he knows in his daily routine.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-10 12:54:00
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Good Afternoon MrsT, Finesse, JQ and all my other Yardies...wahhhhh gwan?

Well I have an update on my step-son first fews days. Im gonna need you all to pray for me because this will be very hard for me. This little boy is real out of pocket. He knows how to play people but him cant play me. When his daddy is around he acts like a baby and wont do what he is told with out his dad ok. Well that cant fly in my house. Any hooo he is so far behind in education its sad. At 7 he cannot count past 29 when he gets to 29 he jumps to 40 and then jumps around all the numbers. He cannot say his ABCs without help and he cant spell simple site words. I have to put him in sometype of program but if you even mention school work he starts to bawl dat him miss him madda. G is no help because he wants to cover up the fact that he needs help and his behavior is not that of a 7 year old. I could go on and on but my friend that watch him just called to complain about him and it just hit me. Posted Image Posted Image




JQ ah Breed...LAWD im not drinking the VJ wata.....CONGRATS JQ Posted Image


Remember it's new and scary and he's in survival mode at the moment. Give him some time to get used to things.

The education, you can work that out iwith your local school district.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-10 11:44:00
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Hey Yardies I am here with my Dad...he is in the hospital bed and I am in his bed next to him. He is only taking 8 breaths a minute and the hospice nurse thinks he will go today. But as we know the man upstairs is the one in control.



Hugs and prayers, my friend.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 15:23:00
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Nat, Im not knocking you on the coupon thing but just WHO knows this darn much about them? People are worrying about things like, hunger, world peace, Haiti and you thinking about coupons THIS hard.... is it me????Posted Image I use them myself but Posted Image



Well, she's good at using them. And times are hard. I personally aspire to use them more; but am lazy for the most part. I do applaud Nat for really sticking with it and benefitting.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 15:16:00
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we ARE going to make it work!
i love him more than i love chocolate, elephants and red wine!

(L)and ladies- thank you for the sincere love ive felt from yall Posted Image
it really means so much- like ive said to a couple of yall, this is really an awesome lesson in learning how to hand over my sadness to God, i've never felt this much faith..... i don't know how to explain it
i decided i am 100% going to get jaheem here on a k2 before we leave this island on halloween

that being said- who has gone the k2 route?

this is what i have done-
his birth mother signed a quit claim stating she gave up her parental rights and gave her permission for him to travel
he has his passport
he was named on the original k1

now i have to email the embassy?
do either of us have to be there for an interview?



birth certificate?

You might want to get his school records now, too, A.

Vaccination records? Physical?

I don't know anything about the paperwork there, sorry.

Good luck.

And, btw............do not scratch out Damion's eyes. Cut out his tongue, girlfriend!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 15:14:00
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Ok dada I think you hit it right on the money, because some are too perfect but I wouldnt go as far as to say its the newbies but some of the vets.

Then when we tell our stories it seems like we are not telling the truth or something, its true and I wouldnt share it if it was a lie. (Speaking for myself) because I dont need help on lies I need help on my true life drama.

I going to pray right now anyway because my hubby so jealous and controlling that I feel we are not going to work, but Im hanging int here but he is really moody Posted Image



Yeah, well, I'm a mess all the way around....nice to see I'm at---at least one end of the spectrum.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 15:06:00
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Hi All,

I am just dropping in to say hi. I have been looking through the thread and I don't see many people on here that was on VJ approximately 2to 3 years ago when I was on. I wonder what happened to everyone. I am back on regularly now. My husband and I are currently in the process of ROC so we are going for biometrics on May 12. Anyway just wanted to say hi and that I wish you all the best of luck!

Take Care



I remember you.

Good luck.

Yay! Level one is using coupons OR buying things on sale. Level two is combining the two! I don't know how much pampers tend to cost, but CVS has them ths week: 96 for $19.99, plus you get $5 back. Add on your $3 coupon and it's like getting them for $11.99. Next time you go to buy some, check www.coupontom.com to see where more coupons are. Where'd you get the $3 one? CouponTom only found ones for $1 - $2 in Sunday papers.


You & JG do, too, definitely.


Man... if we only hung on to drama, we'd be far from this thread these days. Not much drama to read about.


Walgreens... Posted Image They're not nearly as coupon-friendly as CVS. But there are still some deals. For example, Sure deodorant is on sale for $1.50 this week. Plus there was a $1.50 coupon in Sunday's paper. FREE! That was their best sale this week.

First bit of advice: Know which Sundays to buy multiple papers by seeing how many coupon inserts will be in the paper. According to http://www.coupontom...static/schedule, the best paper to get will be June 6, as there will be FOUR coupon inserts. This Sunday will only have 1 Posted Image

12/11/2006, how exciting to be at the ROC phase! Best wishes.

ShaNette, congratulations on the approval! Will you post deatils of the interview?

LadyC, congratulations to Garfield on getting the job. Do the $$$$ dance!



You can also use Walgreens coupons at CVS....don't forget that, Nat.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 15:03:00
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I thought I was the one to keep things running Posted Image

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Um.....I should've highlighed "crazy" just for YOU in that post!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-05 14:58:00
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Yeah times sure have changed. Memba when you left for a few minutes and came back to 4-5 pages. I think FB has stolen a lot of the ladies away or maybe since there journeys are near completion they don't see the need to come back. They forget the newcomers need there sound advice. A lot of ladies have went MIA. I loved VJ because it was a place to come and be with woman who were dealing and going through the same thing as you. Talking to your friends about this stuff they look at you like your crazy but when you talk to VJ you get ladies like uh huh girl I been there and done that and they support you. I miss the way the board was but so it goes.

Oh and Honey you never stick around long enuff for anyone to say hi Posted Image .



If you stick around long enough you will see it comes and goes. Depending on how crazy the people are in the process, how far along they are, the problems they face, etc., this board is always adjusting to the times. Don't take it so serious or personal when it's slow. It always picks back up again. Newbies are the one's who seem to keep it running.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-04 12:12:00
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Hi ladyc,

I will be glad when i am at the point you two ladies are, you and dens wifey but unfortunately im not, with my SO, i really dont post anything about my journey anymore publicly, but trust me im with yall in spirit with your ups and downs.

I almost dare to say im bored,sitting at home but when i try to get out and shop and do things like normal folks im so tired all i can think of is home so i need to make this last week worth it Posted Image



Bored? I know a few crazy women I can send your way, Honey.

Enjoy your peace for a while. You deserve it.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-04 12:10:00
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dills~ Posted Image(F)Posted Image(F)

hey ladies- just checking in
i am devestated- i went for checkup today and i lost the baby
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i have to have D&C on monday
ive had to hold it together all day so im going to go cry



Oh, girl.....I am so sorry. Hugs to you.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-04 12:06:00
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Good Afternoon Yardies.

Congrats to you and yours KJ..I will have to go check out the pictures on FB.

Nat I think it is great that you are saving all that money.

Good luck at the interview sugar!

LadyC looks like you all are already having a great time together.

Mikel is at another interview right now...hope he gets the job.

We are all heading to Vegas tomorrow afternoon they don't think my Dad will make it another week. I may not have a chance to check in here so good luck to all the ones who need good luck and congrats to all those who need congrats.



Awwwwww, hugs Dillon. Can I do anything for you? So sorry to hear.

Good luck, Mikel. Where this time?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-03 14:03:00
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BF=Baby fadda JG Posted Image



Not in my vocabulary. Glad for the clarification.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-03 13:45:00
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I faxed and mailed 35 pages to the IRS today to get them to release my tax refund. It was a miracle I didn't kill someone at the post office this morning.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-03 13:24:00
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No the person is my baby daddy....And he is not a not a brand new driver he is a hard driver on a car...you give your car in tack and you come back hearing sounds you never heard before...My friend their godmother is leaving I am so lost...

Say a prayer for my car and my baby daddy to drive easy.



Did you call the baby daddy your BF a few posts up? I'm confused now.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-05-03 13:18:00
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Morning!

Took benadryl last night & had WEIRD dreams... including 2 friends and I in a rowboat rowing from the Western Coast of Africa to an island near Jamaica, then walking through that island to row to Jamaica.

Nat. Are u sure it was Benadryl! :rofl:
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-26 20:18:00
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Ohhhh MrsTee make them pay.

Sus I was having a really hard time last weekend and since being back at work I am doing a little better. Dreading this weekend since it is his birthday on Sunday. My Mom is having a hard time too she is picking up his ashes today so it is going to be a very hard day for her.


This might not work for everybody but I lost my younger brother years ago and always get a balloon/balloons on his birthday and write all over it and release it in celebration of his life, something about that just cheers me up for a little bit. You and yours continue to be in my prayers.
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-22 13:56:00
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Congrats to all the 2010 graduates! :star:

Zee’s Boo - congrats on the approval! :dance:

Mrs Palmer - your nephew is in my prayers. (F)


DIDO to all that.
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-22 13:46:00
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Clubwear fail!
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Dang Sus! How many time do we have to tell you to stop dropping it like it is hot!

:rofl:
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-22 13:30:00
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Ya we are back and since I have been back I have been sleeping pretty much all the time. I can't stay awake for nothing. Guess it is because I really never slept much while I was gone. Thanks to everyone for all your support and prayers. Even though I knew it was going to happen and was trying to be prepared this is the hardest thing I have ever had to go through.


(F) Dillon. (L) My love to you and yours. How are the young ones?
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 22:48:00
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How stoked are you??? Posted Image


I look every day... thinking I could go for 4th of July... but damn... $515 for airfare to see him for 3 days?? :hehe:

Posted Image Shaunsgal!

Hi JaP! Right back achya!
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 22:45:00
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so my DILEMMA is should i .......
A: BAX her in her HEAD
B: CUSS HER OUT and cause lifelong tension amongst us
C: :bonk:
D: Or tell her i think she is a SCURVY, BACKSTABBING,H@E, and that is some for real BULLSH*T on her part!!!!

If it's not too late, my answer is ALL OF THE ABOVE! :thumbs:
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 22:36:00
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Me too! I want something good and fried for dinner!

One question, how many of you on here cook every night for your hubby/S.O.? :unsure:


I have only cooked twice for my husband since he moved here. He does all the cooking...My daughter also learned real early in life to cook for herself if she wants to eat...lol.
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 20:36:00
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Oh and just a secret ALL my kids yuh hear me ALL my kids are beautiful but its something about my dark skinned child that is amazing. She is truly and I mean truly beautiful it’s a stunning beauty.

Amen Sistah!
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 18:49:00
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good morning all ... hope everyone has a great day... My week has been trying my daughter cutting up not wanting to do her chores and stuff slamming doors and stuff... so i recall someone suggesting removal of the door so thats what i did... she cryed i want my door ... mind she is 11 and i know she is testing boundaries cause R is here and of course thatnk god her father and step mom are on the same page with us . (my mom another story).. so hopefully she will get i under control then she had the nerve to throw her glasses and break them.. she got her tail torn up for that on top of everything




really nice love it


Ha ha ha, that was me. I figure until you pay rent you WILL NOT slam any doors in my house. I hope it worked!
Tosh LoveFemaleGhana2010-05-14 18:01:00
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He likes making Carrot Juice. I be like damn try another kind Posted Image Man I hate me neighbors too!!!!!They are so daym rude. I asked them nicely to be quiet right after I had the baby and they were like "We have a 6yr old son". ####### does that mean? Beat his a** and tell em to shut the h**l up!!!He runs around the apartment wrestling and boucing his basketball all day! So yea, i feel you noisy neighbors



LOL. Now see I have no reservations about it with Hubby. I figure if he want the goodies then suck up and deal with it. Put a towel down and shower afterwards. Posted Image


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CONGRATS



Hate to tell you girlie. But, controlling a 6 year old energy is a tough one. He is going to be loud.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-31 08:15:00
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Fasting from sweets JG!!! Not food! Like I said I would have lost more if I wasn't eating like a pig.





I would die without daily sweets.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 15:10:00
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so did you?



NO!

JG: Yeah did you get it.

I know someone that got "Slippery when wet" on the inside of her leg near the pums. Posted Image



I climbed a bridge and tore down a street sign that said that once when I was going to see Bon Jovi's Slippery When Wet Tour.

Ya Sunny I have lost about 5lbs...it could have been better if I would not have been eating like a pig lately. I had better results last year.



Were you fasting when you helped me down that whole pizza on St. Patrick's Day???????
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 15:06:00
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Im talking about ####### sex...my computer got stuck!

And also the NYC yardie link up



Finesse and I are talking chocolate!

Funny story....We were working Old Navy very early morning Sunday cleaning crew one day....hopped up on sugar and caffine and always silly. We were talking ####### sex. Actually ####### beads and a really gross yet funny story. I made the comment I would get a tattoo that said "exit only" right over my butt crack. One guy dared me and said he would pay for it if I did.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 14:23:00
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and peanut butter eggs..yeah!!



REESE'S peanut butter eggs, christmas trees, pumpkins.....I don't know what is about those. I try to have at least one a day. YUM!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 14:21:00
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much easier when hubby is here...he helps them get "hooked up"...but i can still do it myself..

and then sometimes i got the pump going...i am a milking machine!!

just think how many calories i'm burning tho....good thing cuz i've been eating cadbury creme eggs like they are going out of style..



OMG, me too. I love Easter Time!!!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 14:13:00
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Hope this is their year JG and yes I am feeling better. Thanx for being there.



IT IS!!!!!!

Want to go out tonight and wreck havoc with me? Posted Image



Finesse......I'm rolling on the litter comment. Boo on the Sox. That is like Chinese water torture for me. I HATE them.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 13:09:00
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Back from lunch. May be quiet though.....my boys are on the radio. We are winning 5 to 1 over the stinkin' Mets, Dillon. 3 home runs......Holliday, Ludwig, and IDK who else. They're back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 12:53:00
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I gotchu on back up, but er umm I just sent my AOS off so there went the bail monies lmao



Posted Image who knew Posted Image



I plead the 5th!

Thanks, Sunny!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 11:02:00
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Ha I remember being told it tickles….

Can't do ####### either and I have enuff rass fi all of us but mi cyan manage…



I am O--U--T of this conversation!Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 10:47:00
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I should say, you be ready to go.....I might need back up soon. or bail!Posted Image
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 10:15:00
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So JG, if I make it to St. Louis...make sure you are on ready set go! please and thank you Posted Image



Of course!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 10:14:00
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Sunny, PM me when you get a sec. I have a question for you. You probably know what it is. I was on FB.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:41:00
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Dayum, yall got a mansion?Posted Image



Ha ha....that's what I was thinking. That's a year or more for me.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:40:00
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Huh? What did I miss???


Yeah, I'm wondering too. WTH are you talking about MrsT?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2010-03-30 09:24:00