ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Asia: East and PacificHow many will live in spouses Foriegn Country
I doubt I would ever even consider that.

There are continuous residence in the US standards that must be met to continue renewing green cards.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-01-25 16:30:00
Asia: East and PacificI129F Filer, Wedding Reception & Pictures Taken Before Interview
How will you prove exactly when the pictures were taken?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-03-19 15:03:00
Asia: East and PacificI129F Filer, Wedding Reception & Pictures Taken Before Interview
QUOTE (Phuong @ Mar 19 2008, 02:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
There's got to be a person, or two, or three, out there that has done something similar to me. I find it hard to believe that I am the first person to have done this. If this is indeed a problem (I still would love to have a person who has done the same thing as I did to reply back to this topic), then which one do your think is a better step to take:

1. Hiding the photos of the wedding reception and wedding picture trip
or
2. Obtaining legal documents proving that you are single - both for my fiancee and myself.

Thanks again for all your feedback.

Phuong



Lots of people have hidden pictures of ceremonies and parties that elude to the fact that they might look like they got married.

The legal document part is not in question whatsoever......We have all had to do that. It's a question of if the embassy sees those pictures and doubts your are telling the truth about being single. It does not matter if you have the legal documents proving you are single at that point. If I were the interviewer and I saw the pictures looking like a wedding, and that legal document was not dated yesterday (as in the day before the interview), I would think you married in between getting that legal document and coming to the interview.

Why would you risk that no matter what? Is it that important to you that you must show those pictures at the embassy?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-03-19 14:58:00
Asia: East and PacificI129F Filer, Wedding Reception & Pictures Taken Before Interview
QUOTE (YuAndDan @ Mar 19 2008, 12:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I would recommend to avoid giving them anything the would make them suspect a marriage has taken place, this can cause them to hold on issuing a K-1 visa until they or you can prove that a marriage has not taken place.

The number of trips to the foreign country is good evidence of relationship.



I agree. If someone sees those pictures, they will halt the processing of the visa right then and there and make you jump through all sorts of hoops to prove you are not married. I don't even think the paperwork proving you are not married will be enough proof. I am betting they will tell you that day to go back and get another one of those forms to prove you didn't do it in the mean time cause the pictures make it look like you did.

Put those pictures in a safe place to bring with you. Show other forms of proof.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-03-19 14:12:00
Asia: East and Pacificfailed interview... application being send back for final decision
It is actually the 2nd time in just a few weeks I have read about e-mails being used against people in interviews.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-05-21 14:05:00
Asia: East and PacificCell Phones And Scum Bags.
I'm so sorry. I hate when I hear of people doing this stuff for a stupid cell phone.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-07-15 07:40:00
Asia: East and PacificAngry at Stereotypes... WHY CAN'T I LOVE AN ASIAN???????
QUOTE (Donna A @ Feb 22 2008, 02:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi linda,

good luck on ur relationship and trust me ur not the only one. it happens alot. i hear all the time how im married to "sadam", a terriost and im being used for a greencard. just ignore them and be happy.



Same here, only Jamaican men are ganga smoking playas.........

There are idiots everywhere. THEY are not living YOUR life. Tell them to go to hell and walk away.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-02-27 13:52:00
Asia: East and PacificHyper Obsessive Question from your crazy VJ Friend...
I think you should pick and choose.

For the interview, I would actually take each and every one in with me. I believe in burying them with information. It's worked for us this far.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-06-24 10:25:00
Asia: East and Pacific4 Years and 3 Weeks.....
Woo hoo......Congrats.

I hope I am writing this same thing in the near future.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-09-26 08:49:00
Asia: East and PacificVisa Denied Also
God, I am so sorry.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-06-25 15:16:00
Asia: East and PacificEngagement Over....
QUOTE (MichelleN @ Sep 28 2008, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
So my fiance came out for a visit last week. This was going to be the first time we'd been together since April and the first time seeing each other on happy terms since last September. We had a huge fight last year and he went back to Japan. During the time, he refused to have anything to do with our daughter who he'd only seen once. About a few weeks after returning to Japan, he contacted me and wanted to try and make things work. I was hesitant at first since we had such a huge falling out the time before. But I decided to give it another try because he was a nice guy and I thought I might still have feelings for him. Most of all though, I wanted our daughter to have a daddy. So we continued our renewed relationship online and started the Visa process. The whole time I was still feeling unsure but was confident it was because we were apart and that as soon as he came out for a visit, everything would blossom.

Unfortunately, that wasn't the case...he came out, was completely excited, happy, in love. And I was....sick because I realized then and there I had no feelings for him. It took a few days but I finally got the courage to sit down with him and tell him how I felt. I was just so guilt ridden, I couldn't believe it. I felt like I was ruining his life and the life of our daughter. But...my family told me it wasn't good for her for me to enter into a marriage with someone I didn't love and would be unhappy with. Of course, he was angry, hurt. What really struck me though was his initial thoughts were about the job opportunities he lost because of this process. I told him he could still be part of the baby's life. That I wouldn't stop him or his family from visiting her or contacting her. But he said no. That there was no way for him to be involved in her life since we weren't married. He kept saying that it was my choice to keep him out of her life (ie not marrying him). He also started talking about how he wanted me to sign something saying I wouldn't go after him for child support. And that hurt. But...it wasn't surprising. He said the exact same response before she was born and we had our big fallout.

So...engagement's over and he has so far refused to be part of her life at all. Which I find just...appalling.. He says it's not normal for a father to be part of a child's life when he's not married to the mother. That in Japan, when a woman gets pregnant, it's the man's duty to propose marriage. If she refused, the child was no longer the responsibility of the man, since he had done his part in offering marriage. I know this wasn't why he wanted marriage, he really did love me a lot. Which made this even more difficult on me. I'm just filled with guilt over hurting him so bad but at the same time, angry at him for denying his own daughter and thinking only about money.

I'll be canceling the application soon. Probably hang out here some more but I don't know.



What a huge load of BS his response to you is. He's trying to force you into something now. That's just not right. And, honestly, it sounds like he now knows what could've been, and not necessarily with the two of you in it, and he wants it. His loss. He does not deserve you or your daughter.

I wish you the best in both of your futures.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-09-29 11:28:00
Asia: East and PacificBiggest F*&C!K* UP EVER in history of VISA JOURNEY. HELP.
All I want to say is good luck to you!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2009-08-04 10:20:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSpeaking with your African family???
I talk to Jomo's mother (in Jamaica) only occassionally. Calls are too expensive for me to be taking up the time anyhow. I don't think she particularly likes me all that much.....she accepts me as his wife....and, of course, when she needs some money, she is more then nice.

I get along and chat with all his sisters and brothers.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-03-27 15:25:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMoving to the US from African/non-western cultures
I absolutely love the honesty of this thread. No, life in the US with your SO is not all romance and roses. It is as hard here as everywhere else. But, in the end, it can all work out. Patience, understanding, communication, trust, and hard work.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-05-22 13:09:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMoving to the US from African/non-western cultures

My husband has been here three years and is still dealing with the stress of sending money home and accmulating debt. He is freaking out about all the debt he has accumulated. We had continuous discussions before he came to the U.S. about how it REALLY is in American plus he knew how hard I was struggling. It's a different story now that he's in it and his family is pressuring him to send money home. He recently changed his cell phone number so they can't call him anymore. Southernchic, I'm feeling you girl.....big time.....


Yep, we are there too........Andre quits answering the phone several times a month.

Hang in there, SC. In the end, it is him you agreed to marry, not his entire family, and no matter how pressured he feels, he has to deal with it in a way that sheds a good light on your marriage. What good is it to anyone if not only can he not send any money, he can't even help with is share in the marriage?

I've also learned the hard way that just cause they are putting the pressure on to send money, doesn't necessarily mean they are not going to survive without it. Sometimes it's more of a game then anything else.

You can PM me anytime you want to chat on this issue.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-05-14 12:59:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMoving to the US from African/non-western cultures

No kidding. People seem to think that America has money trees that are always in season you just go and pluck whenever you want.
My finace already has a brother who moved here a few years ago and so he knows the process is not easy let alone living here. A couple of months ago he made me give him a list of all my monthly expenses and when he finished adding it all up he just went quiet. He couldn't believe it. Of course he was comparing it to how much he spends in Ghana but in America there are so many other things that we pay for that do not even exist in Ghana. The amount of money I pay for one month's rent on my one bedroom apartment could get me a freaking mansion in Ghana for five months.
I am just happy that my finace is willing to learn about these things and understands that my salary, which sounds wonderful in Ghanaian terms, is not all that much when you look at all the endless bills that keep coming. But I don't think the reality will hit him until he is here seeing it for himself.


Absolute truth.

I am going to say it again........NO MATTER WHAT THEY SAY THEY UNDERSTAND, THEY WILL NOT UNTIL THEY EXPERIENCE IT. The first phone bill nearly blew Andre away. For some reason, he thought phone calls to Jamaica were free (even though I openly complained about the bills for months, years.....)
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-05-14 10:58:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanMoving to the US from African/non-western cultures
My husband, his friends, and his family believed all Americans were rich and everything was so easy. His mother still thinks we have a money tree in our back yard. My husband has now been here nearly a year. He has seen the pile of paperwork to get anything done. He has seen the time it takes to get a job. He's seen how hard I really do work and the long hours involved. He's seen how hard he has to work. Most importantly, he's seen the bills before the paychecks even come in. His whole perspective has changed.

No matter what you tell them beforehand or that they tell you they get it, they will not. Coming here will be a huge shock to them.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-05-14 10:18:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanUSC ENGAGED TO NIGERIAN
Good luck to you and best wishes.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-07-05 10:55:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanCultural Dishes You Don't Think You will Ever Get Used To

When I was in Africa, I thought I could never get used to eating any of the stuff down there, but I loved the things my fiance family served, never turned one dish down. However, I never eaten bush meat. I always wondered what type of meat it was. Anyway, I could never eat goat meat or anything wild like that. sorry. Thankfully, my fiance always made sure goat meat wasn't on the menu.:no:


Goat can be really good if prepared properly. Just had it Monday.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-04-25 11:15:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanCultural Dishes You Don't Think You will Ever Get Used To
I'll vote for the fish head and eyes as well. Also, mannish water. UGH!!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-04-23 08:45:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanOne-way tickets
One way flights are done in this situation all that time. That person didn't know what they were talking about.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-08-21 15:12:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSleepless in the Midwest????
QUOTE (discerned1 @ Sep 13 2007, 09:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Is it just me or am I gone stone cuckoo! I guess this interview stage is really getting to me. I have had recent nights of tossing and turning and crying spasms during television shows. Can you believe that I cried during the television show Good Times and during Little House on the prairie! crying.gif Yipes, I never been this before til recently! Here it is close to three weeks til the interview. I am like deadman walking here! ohmy.gif I just pray everything goes well. Just can't wait til it's over! wacko.gif



Well, I'd cry too if all I could get on my TV was Good Times and Little House on the Prairie!!!!!!!!!!!

Kidding.....been there, done that. In the midwest myself.

It does get better. Just hang in there.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-09-14 11:05:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanRemoving from this journey
I'm very sorry.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-10-11 11:22:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanFiance Visa Advice
It is NEVER a good idea to lie or omit information during the visa process. You do realize he will be permanently banned if found out, right?
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-11-07 11:15:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanInternet Connectivity in Africa
QUOTE (Asante Maroon @ Nov 13 2007, 08:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Nov 13 2007, 03:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Nixz_Chi @ Nov 13 2007, 01:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Bassi and Zainab @ Nov 13 2007, 01:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree with what everyone here said and can't help but note that they always give money to "Africa". "Africa" isn't a country. Who takes accountability for how, when and where this money is spent? It seems that throwing money at a problem is pretty useless if the money never makes to to fix the problem.


I know right! I'd like to see the leaders of these african nations sit down and decide who gets what portion of the money....fight might break out. laughing.gif


And the saddest thing about the whole ordeal is that the little people suffer.

People come into government, make false promises and sit there, bank accounts getting bigger by the minute, trips to London, Paris, Rome, with 36 of your closest friends blink.gif . Who wouldn't want a life like that?


Its sad.
One thing I noticed is that African nations are allowing people from outside the country to profit off their own lands. All of the supermarkets in Ghana which are aimed towards "foreigners" (due to the variations of product normally found in developed countries) are not owned by native Ghanaians. I can't even tell you how the workers in those stores are watched by the owners as if they may steal something. It pissed me off so badly when I was there!!! mad.gif How could this be? There has to be a better way.

People of power in Africa often times take bribes and not fulfill promises made and the whole country suffers. Africa has to plan with consideration for the future and NOT just for now. A bandaid is only a temporary cover...it does not heal.

I would not be so upset if Africa did not have soooooo much potential. Africa is a beautiful nation and there is so much that can be done.

My fiance and I talk about this issue all the time and I am glad that he has made a commitment to go back to Ghana after he has settled himself in the US, to continue investments and enter into new ventures...all with the idea of being a part of Ghana's development. I encourage everyone to do the same for their home country good.gif .

Yeah so I went off in a tangent.... Sorry guys....I'm a bit passionate blush.gif



I just wanted to say that almost word for word what you said above, I have said, read, or heard said about Jamaica. Just gave me some deja vu here. Thanks for the insight on another country.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-11-14 16:06:00
Africa: Sub-Saharan***American Fiance with Child that is not African Fiance's???***
I have 2 children that are not my husbands (fiance then). Did not make a bit of difference. The only time it comes into play is on the financial documents and then, they are just a number.

That being said.....make sure he KNOWS all kinds of things about your child. Meeting him/her is a plus. They DID ask Andre the names, ages, and if they had met.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-11-30 13:47:00
Africa: Sub-Saharanentertainment
QUOTE (vee @ Dec 3 2007, 10:16 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi all,


I am leaving for nigeria this evening hopefully someone gets back to me . What forms of entertainment did u use to get you through this long flight this is my 2nd time going, and i need something to keep mind occupied. i know to take mags with me but what else i guess my portable cd player huh?. Why don't some of you tell me what u did to get through i think my flight is almost 24 hrs geeez. I am soooooo happy though hopefully my honey will be joining me soon, everyday he asks me about approval and i can only tell him mayb dec or jan...



I'm not sure I could make it through a 24 hour flight. Geez........

I like to take books as opposed to magazines. If I get into a really good story, the time seems to fly faster. I take my iPod everywhere. A portable DVD player can be a Godsend. My son has that PSP.....I love that it plays movies!!!!! And then, lots of sleeping.

Good luck on your journey.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-03 11:23:00
Africa: Sub-Saharanhow far can you go?
QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Dec 11 2007, 09:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
#######?

That is not a normal relationship by any standard. If the woman wants it that way then she is missing out on a real loving relationship. She obviously has some self esteem issues if she is willing to be treated like that. What woman wants to be told what, when, how, why, where?

Unfortunately I have heard all of this before, not about Nigerian men, but about African men in general and from what I have seen, not only on this board but from my own observations, there are those that would fit this stereotype and those that do not. Why is it the negative stereotype that gets attention?



Yes, I agree with this. Self esteem is always what I look at when I read or see stuff like this. Maybe I'm just too headstrong; but I would never do some of the stuff mentioned. I'm a wife....a partner. Nothing more or less.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-11 12:00:00
Africa: Sub-Saharanhow far can you go?
QUOTE (devils_advocate @ Dec 11 2007, 12:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Really I mean it, I have a Nigerian Husband and I do things for him but I am not going to hold his hand and wipe his ####### he is a grown man. That woman needs help. Poor thing. She needs to put her big girl panties on and stop being so rediculous. Really she acts like he is some kind of GOD. No woman should have to behave like that for any man...king or not. Nigerian Men have BIG egos and like to think they are kings. I am not going to inflate the ego of my husband. Why would someone fan the flames of an already out of control fire???



Right on, girl.

I hear this same kind of ####### about my Jamaican husband all the time. I swear when I read stuff in this forum sometimes, it's like deja vu.

I have been in enough relationships to know mine with my husband is normal. We have very very few of the issues people want to inflate into big deals. I'm his wife, not his mother, nor his maid.

I think what was written above is ####### too.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-11 09:32:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHusband Lost his Passport!
I would say the same thing you did above.

Did he apply for a new one? Since they put the visa in the passport, that may cause a delay till he does.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-13 11:18:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanYAAAYYYY
Wonderful news. Sending you some prayers.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-08 20:39:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanWhat Do You Think
QUOTE (BESANGIN @ Dec 27 2007, 12:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hello All,

I guess its now my turn to get feedback on something I heard today. Its about my EX. I have always had mixed emotions about his true intentions and our marriage. I have gone back and forth about did he really love me and it just went bad or did he do it all for the mighty green card. Well he is currently in Nigeria. I was chatting with my maid of honor for my wedding and I was saying to her that I wished I could be a fly on the wall to hear what he is telling his family about me. He was scared to tell them that we broke up so I did, so he lied and told them that I put him out and that I was the one who wanted a divorce because I was cheating. Anyway, She said that she had heard that he awas saying only good things about me. then she said he gave this reason and I quote, "he didnt wanna be hooked to anybody's string. he wanted to be his own man and do his own things his own way,". So how am I supposed to process this? To me that is saying, I got my green card so now I needed my freedom. Oh, here is the first part of what she had heard from her brother and parents. "Was told he said, he did waht he did for his freedom." I told her If he were a smart and sincere man he would have weighed all of that before he committed to a marriage. He knew that Americans don't shun divorce as much as Nigerians so if he didn't like his situation he could easily get out of it. Otherwise why lie to your family about it? Anyway what do you think?


I have a friend who is married to this Jamaican guy. Same kind of thing, they were married 6 years before it all fell apart. He ended up cheating on her. One day, she found the evidence she was looking for and kicked him out. Long, drawn out story....short.....he wouldn't tell any family or friends what really happened. He told them all she went crazy and just kicked him out for no reason. It's been almost a year of living seperately,and to this day, the only information with any truth to it has been told by my friend.

Some men just can't take the responsibility on themselves, so they lie to everyone around them. Eventually, they talk themselves into believing those lies. Whatever helps them get through it, I guess.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-28 23:00:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanTHIS MAY HELP SOME OF YOU WHO HAVE CHILDREN?
Maybe there have been issues in the past with the foreign SO leaving the US and taking a child(ren) back with them and then LD paternity/maternity issues arising for all that. Maybe they are just trying to get all those kinks worked out from the very begging so if that issue would ever come up, there would be no doubts.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-28 22:41:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSomething I "cased" copied and stole
QUOTE (chispas @ Dec 29 2007, 11:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
LOL. Thanks ladies. Making video clips was a hobby I had during that time. That is one way how I used to spend my waiting time. Sooo ok group, I know you have great video clips of Africa to share. reading.gif reading.gif

QUOTE (Boaz @ Dec 29 2007, 07:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Stop it! I have a knot in my throat. This was beautiful. luv.gif


secret7vf.gif protest6wz.gif



I did the same thing with scrapbooks during our journey. It was the only thing that kept my sanity and used up all that time that I would've probably spent crying.

It was beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-31 00:19:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHow do you buy airline tickets for spouse?
I've had the best luck with calling the airline directly. That way, you can make sure they book the seats together.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-05 13:50:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThe African Culture-What things do you know?
QUOTE (ebonyqueen @ Dec 30 2007, 10:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
laughing.gif ...did he win the tickets?



Sadly, no. He won his first race; but lost the semi-finals and never got to those all-important finals.

Talk about belly laughs.....50 guys in 2+ inch high heels duct taped to their feet. It was about 100 times more comical then you all are picturing in your minds right now.

http://i51.photobuck...621337_0004.jpg

He wanted to camp out overnight a few weeks ago in the 8 inches of snow we had to buy them for her 2nd St. Louis appearance in just a few months. I drew the line on that one. Funny is one thing. Freezing to death is another.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-31 00:02:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThe African Culture-What things do you know?
QUOTE (Omoba @ Dec 30 2007, 10:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jomo @ Dec 31 2007, 12:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Omoba @ Dec 30 2007, 10:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Dec 30 2007, 10:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Here is what I know: my fiance has said that he does not mind doing domestic chores as long as I don't go telling his friends about it jest.gif ph34r.gif whistling.gif laughing.gif devil.gif tongue.gif



A very diplomatic angle laughing.gif



Isn't that men in general? You know they have to uphold that macho image!!!!!!



Oh yeah you know it ! Maybe we can use that as a future bribe.....mop that floor or I will call the guys at the office and tell them you dusted the furniture
with the pink feather duster while you were wearing your apron and I have the picture to prove it..............just being a meanie and don't even care if he does housework, well ok maybe once in a while. Repairs , maintenance and yard work would be great if he would do that.....I despise that.


Pssssstttttt (come closer and swear you won't tell....)

My husband wore 2 inch white platform sandals in a radio contest race against 49 other men in the rain to try and win our daughter front row Hannah Montana tickets & back stage passes. And I DO have pictures already in the scrapbook. He made me swear to never mention it or show the pictures to any friends or family back in Jamaica.

Thanks for reminding me I have blackmail materials!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-30 23:23:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThe African Culture-What things do you know?
QUOTE (Omoba @ Dec 30 2007, 10:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (ZeeNusah @ Dec 30 2007, 10:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Here is what I know: my fiance has said that he does not mind doing domestic chores as long as I don't go telling his friends about it jest.gif ph34r.gif whistling.gif laughing.gif devil.gif tongue.gif



A very diplomatic angle laughing.gif



Isn't that men in general? You know they have to uphold that macho image!!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2007-12-30 23:13:00
Africa: Sub-Saharanphycial and Maleria
Yah, I would imagine you have to be free of it too.
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-01-17 15:08:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanLoving the African male
QUOTE (unononehigher @ Jan 18 2008, 11:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Jomo @ Jan 18 2008, 09:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It's not the disagreeing part, it's the ripping into each other part.

It's such a fine line. I get so caught up in my own thoughts and words sometimes that I come across too strongly. I've eaten more crow then I ever thought possible.
Does crow and kenkey go together? no0pb.gif laughing.gif

So far, this one is pretty tame compared to some things I have read on this board.

Whenever I feel really ready to vent about what someone said, I go to the MENA thread. Those ladies on there teach me patience and holding my tongue all the time. They are incredibly gracious.




You will have to answer that one for ME!

Andre would just serve it with some white rice!!!!!
*JG*FemaleJamaica2008-01-18 12:49:00