ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3
OMGish,

I was so elated when my mouthy teenager left to go and live at the University he's now
attending. Truly I think that's the worst age for parent/kid interaction. These teens
think they know so much. I'm glad that mines can now practice his thought and mouth
thru his grades; away from me at the Univeristy he's now attending.

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idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-01 03:14:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3
Goodevening Everyone,

I hope you all had a good day !!!


idocareFemaleNigeria2009-01-29 21:03:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3
Goodmorning,

Hope you all have a productive day !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-01-23 12:45:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3
Interseting to hear that Barack referred to his fathers interest twice thru-out his
inaugrual speech. I wasen't expecting that. I'm was glad to hear it tho being that
his father was not a part of his moral upbringing, it was his ex-wife parents that instilled
moral and values, and scarificed for him.

His speech was strong and wonderful !!!!! Michelles dress for all the partys was pretty
the train kept getting in the way tho, however I liked the fact that she picked an up
and coming designer to purchase a dress from. He'll be famous because of her and she
knew that.

I'm just taking all this in and enjoying it all, tomorrow comes a new day and time to make move foward on the promises talked about, but for tonite, they both looked
wonderful and ready to tackle the many task at hand.

To me, looked like they both understand it.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-01-21 02:48:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSub-Saharan Cyber Cafe #3
I donated monies towards the cause. How wonderful it would of been if I was one of the few chosen to attend with all expense's paid.

Anyone attending?
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-01-19 04:31:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHE'S HERE, ALHAMDOULILLAH!
Congrats, your wait is over.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-03-26 09:39:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanPurchasing flight ticket for Spouse

Well congrats,

 

    I know your so happy at this point.


idocareFemaleNigeria2014-01-14 03:59:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHappy Endings In Sub Sarahan

How wonderful it is to hear once all this visa journey is over with there is a happy ending,at least for most of us. Thanks for the update. Wishing both of you happiness and success. So glad things are working out for you and your husband. Most of all, I am happy the transition has not been extremely difficult :thumbs:

Best of luck!



Congrats to all that have posted: 4The Love Of Henry So gald to hear of your new edition, by now you have probably had the baby, a big congrats to you !!!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2011-06-12 07:24:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVERY upset and confused
When I was filing a got an RFE and once I sent them what they wanted the case was handled quickly.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-05-24 12:09:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresGiving Up???
I would think that you'd be giving up way too soon. You may want to brain-storm with your husband and then make a decision together.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-05-24 12:01:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresG-325A for K-3
Welcome to the chat boards !!! Congrats on your marriage to an Nigerian man. I bet your husband showed you a really good time while you were there with him for that month. What your about to do for your husband may cost you more then you can imagine.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-12-05 07:22:00
K-3 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresMy Husband got His VISA!
all the best
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-01-11 02:18:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussiona consular officers perspective
typo, my post was suspose to read digest it's content, btw, I don't think you
have too defend this post at all, it's the truth from a creditably source and if
anyone feels a need to vent, then that's what they do.

I for one appreciate this post and can vulge for some of the content as written
by the author, because I lived thru some things he posted and he knows me not.

Edited by idocare, 08 December 2008 - 12:01 AM.

idocareFemaleNigeria2008-12-07 23:59:00
US Embassy and Consulate Discussiona consular officers perspective
Uno,

Thanks for posting that!!! It's truly educational to those that have an open
mind to digust it's content.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-12-07 23:07:00
CanadaK-1 Visa APPROVED!!
Congrats on your approval. the both of you must be excited.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-04-14 01:29:00
Removing Conditions on Residency General DiscussionWhere's everybody at.......
Hello,

I have been a member on this site for a while, and I enjoyed reading posting from everyone that was waiting for their spouse to get approved around the same time I was and I followed everyones posting about their husbands arriving into the U.S. but now I no longer see many posting from people that got married in the middle or later in the year of 2004. If that's you and you read this posting do let us know how you and your husband are doing and what's going on in your life presently Thanks in advance, Karen
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-05-28 23:16:00
PhilippinesLeaving tomorrow July 5, 1055am via China Airlines
Have a safe trip !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-07-04 10:50:00
Middle East and North AfricaThe Seattle meet-up
Thanks all !!! Got it.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-20 19:09:00
Middle East and North AfricaThe Seattle meet-up
Just wondering if the pictures we took last Saturday at the Seattle Meet and Greet are posted
somewhere here or if I could get a picture of the group picture we took before leaving the
resturant.

Thanks in advance
Idocare
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-18 23:35:00
Middle East and North AfricaThursday
It's just starting to get a little chilly here but I haven't used any heat yet
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-10-02 13:23:00
Middle East and North AfricaIt's Caturday, peoplez - where are you?
I'm up but gonna go back to bed and watch Cnn.......YES!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-28 10:35:00
Middle East and North AfricaMENA diet/exercise thread
Drinking water and excercise is the key.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-10-02 13:19:00
Middle East and North AfricaIf you had known then what you know now??
Congrats on your spouse's arrival

First thing I did for him was cook him food the way he enjoyed it . Nigerian style.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-12-27 15:10:00
Middle East and North AfricaToday we lost a MENA jewel
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idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-18 23:28:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisa Fraud
I didn't know that was a new law, how new is it ? My husband has also left our home after putting me thru much stress. After he first left, he sent me e-mail saying that I'm a abrusive person and that it's well documented.

That just let's you know that men also can file the abrusive spouse claim. I don't know if my husband did file or not because he won't talk to me, and he now ignores infant child. I'm not a lawyer but what I did first was call the 1-800 number and spoke with a officer, I also called the ICE division and explained all that was going on and both had some really good advise.

Just as they made that abrusive law for immigrants there also a way for them to determine the truth.

I my oppinion and remember I'm not a lawyer, and not trying to give advise, but I think the best thing she did for you to prove your case was to leave, especially if she doesen't have any police reports stating you hit her, or such. If you look into the I-360 you will see that they have to be able to prove their case, and lip service alone by them won't cut it.

Just thank God that you found out her true colors before it was too late. I hope that you didn't file AOS for her, if so then it may be a little harder for you to send her home where you got her from. I wish you the best and encourage you to fight this and send her happy body back where you got her from.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-02-10 12:17:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisa Denied !!!!
Sorry to hear of your misfortune, I wish you all the best.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-02-14 11:46:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresDivorcing a conditional resident alien
That's a tricky one, I don't know the answer, but I will be looking into that soon as I'm divorcing my husband who's from another country. I do plan on taking my son to his country but I haven't looked into the legal realms of it yet.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-04-14 01:33:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresDoes this email mean I'm approved?
Wow, I don't know what that means either, sorry
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-04-14 01:36:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresDivorce
What people must realize is that some people will do anything to get into America. Her having a baby do not mean that she came here with the intent on staying with her husband for life. In the eyes of Immigration however, it's a sign that she did come into America with good intentions on making the marriage work. That's what was told to me by an fraud investigation officer, so I tend to believe it.

I got pregnant within a week of my husband being in the country, I feel that my husband came here with intentions on getting a green card then getting away from his marriage, but these type people know that they must leave a trail of paperwork showing that they've had a hard time with their american spouse, and that takes to time to achieve.

I you have a moment take a look at the I-360, and what's required to file for it. BTW, both men or women can file for it. An I-360 is the forum you'd fill out when you feel that you've been abused by your american spouse. Some people use the list on their like they do when they follow the instructions on making a cake.
They know that they need police reports, witness's that can write a letter telling of the abuse they've witnessed, medical records if they can get them, etc. Anyhow some people set out to get all required paperwork for securing an I-360 at the USC expense, because they'd be calling you an abrusive spouse in order to secure their greencard.
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-06-08 15:51:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresOMG - Unbelievable -- I130 Approved !!!!
A big congrats to the both of you. !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-09-12 16:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresSad Update
I just want you to know that you are not alone when it comes to being abused by the person that you trust your heart too, you see I too have gone thru some bad changes as a result of trusting the man that I loved and thought he loved me too. Our outcome is similiar, except I had a child and I'm the USC.

I had a baby for my husband and before the child was one month old this man abandoned us, I maxed- out my credit cards getting him the latest medical books, lectures and questions for him to take his step one USMLE test. I went to work pregnant while he stayed at home and studied for his medical test( At his request ) until I started missing too many days and bills were piling up, so I asked him to look for work, which he didn't want to do.


I can go on, but I won't. The long and short of my story is that this man is a doctor in his hometown Nigeria, and he knew that if he could only get to America he could make it on his own, he just needed someone, anyone to help him get by Immigration in his homeland Nigeria ( I also payed for his plane tickett here to the states, as many of us USC do ) and to past his Step 1 for his medical license, and the rest he could get help from Nigerians already here. ( That's what I now think )


Orginally before he came here, he was telling me that he loved me and that we'd work on our problems should any occur and breaking a marriage wasen't in his plans, he told me that in his tribe when men marry they marry for life, however once he got here and we married, things changed and he had a new attitude, he would start arguments and do things to purposely get a negative response from me then he starting moving in and out of the apartment, and eventually left for good, when our son was less then one month old, now during our divorce he's telling the judge lies with nothing to back them up, so now I know this man never wanted me and has nothing to do with his son, but goes to court and say that I won't let him see him.

So you see, I'm also in a messy situation, this man went from a loving caring men to a cut throat type scammer. Fiona, I can identify with your feeling, but now you know that your not alone, and I bet that there are others out there that have been thru this process and landed worse off then the both of us.

I like to think that God put me in this situation because he knows that I can and will handle it well and he will get the glory out of it, no matter what , to God be all the Glory. And to my dear husband, may he gets all that he deserve's, like someone has mentioned, what comes around goes around, so try hard to focus on rebuilding your life and your son, I know it's easier said then done but try, then rejoice in the fact that one day you and your son will remember this experience as a lesson learned.


Karen
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-02-16 17:03:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresINTERVIEW APPROVED !!
Congrats, your one step closer to being together !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2006-04-14 01:39:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedureshelp needed,k1 visa approved,but fiance disapered
A K-1 is a visa that allows you to enter into the US to marry the sponsor who's name is on your visa. Using that visa in any other way could possibly mean trouble.

BTW, you sound more concern with getting to the US, then hurt concerning your fiance running off, now u want to marry someone else,
wow!!!!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-20 17:56:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanThe Africa they never show you
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thanks
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-22 01:41:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanAfrotainment TV
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Thanks for the information. Isn't the internet wonderful ? So much to learn on almost any country now-a-days. Again, thanks!!!

Edited by idocare, 13 September 2008 - 04:09 AM.

idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-13 04:07:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanAnyone with experience with the Nairobi embassy?
Yeah, I don't know anything about Kenyas embassey but good luck !
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-30 03:38:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanJust a clip I ran across
Thanks I'm gonna look for them.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-09-30 03:42:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanJust a clip I ran across
http://www.viewnaija...Makanawana.html
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-08-29 12:45:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanTax Clearance
She might want to ask the man to clarify what the number looks like and where she could find it.
He could mean the number that's on your NOA2, or the number that came with packet 3 and 4.
Which ever way he should be able to direct her as to where to locate the number.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-10-02 12:35:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanSilly Question, but Needing Some West African Etiquette
Maybe some flat puzzles for the kids, battery operated toothbrushes and
candy for the older adults. I bought his mother a big bottle of wine.
I just raped it in my clothes and it was fine. Hope this helps some.
idocareFemaleNigeria2008-10-07 02:38:00