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Africa: Sub-SaharanWhat's love got to do with it.
I encourage all of you that may of found love thru the internet or thru a friend and your spouse is overseas to be very critical of your relationship/fiance/marriage. I personally know of women and men who have married men/women and only seen them in person once for about 2-weeks or less. I can tell you that most of those people aren't married any more to these people.Do some research, spend some time in their culture being with them and their friends/ family before opening the door to citizenship to them in your culture. Take some time and read the old blogs on this site, all of this advice will help u make a sound decision on love and the visa attraction that you will provide them.
idocareFemaleNigeria2012-03-21 12:34:00
Africa: Sub-SaharanHusband denied, pending USCIS decision
I agree that it would be a good thing for u to go into your husbands Country and stay there for a while maybe 2- years, since love is love sometimes you have too give up some things in the name of love. You have to understand that the
Country that your husband lives in , and the big fraud schemes that come from that Country, ( Please do your research ) you will find that many women that have posted on this board many years before you have been manipulated into marriage, we call it a marriage fraud. Me being one of those that was a unknown particapant in marriage fraud would give you this advice.



Go live with your husband in his Courtry, for a couple of years, and let him take care of you until you find work there. Get to know his family, friends and culture. Then if all is still well think about giving him a free visa into America.
idocareFemaleNigeria2012-03-21 12:03:00
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:dance: Congrats!! :dance: :dance:





Congrats on your degree !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2011-06-12 07:27:00
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Great to hear from all who have posted.
idocareFemaleNigeria2011-04-19 18:41:00
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Asante, welcome back, it's been a while since I seen a post from u , I wish Gods strenth your way. I wanted to congradulate UNO on another year of living, too many peeps didn't have the opportunity of living another year.

To charles, I'm just wondering if your child is beating you at some pc games now? My son is a pro @ super Mario and he's only 5-years old, how old is your son now?
idocareFemaleNigeria2011-02-15 23:57:00
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Hey Subbies,

Hope everyone is doing well, just dropped in to read up...it's been a while. I am simply marvelous as always!!!! :)





Nice to read from some of the old hats that pop in to say hello. I'd like to say congrats to all that have removed conditions and are thru with the process for a while. And to Charles, just wait, pretty soon your son will be signing on to PBS kids or whatever else you have saved in your favorites......lol My Victor is now 5-years old and he uses the computer almost as good as I do. He has his favorite wed sites saved in my favorites and he can turn on the pc and click on his sites and play.

Now-a-days they have alot of educational sites that the kids can learn on.
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-09-04 01:20:00
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Goodmorning all!!!


I hope you all have a wonderful weekend.
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-01-15 07:33:00
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I always enjoyed being pregnant. Feeling the baby move inside and the glow that the skin takes on, it was all wonderful once I got passed the morning sickness.


Hey what colors did you all pick out for the babies room ? Do you have a theme yet?
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-01-12 17:20:00
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Jodi,


A big congrats to you and your hubbie on passing the citizenship test !!! How's your son doing? Victor is getting big !!! Very nice indeed to hear from you.
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-01-11 23:26:00
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Goodmorning all!!!

I hope that everyone had a nice weekend !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-01-11 04:31:00
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Happy New Year to you all!!!

I hope that 2010 is much better for us all.......
idocareFemaleNigeria2010-01-02 00:35:00
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Hello everyone!

Just taking a break from wrapping presents! This has got too be my least favorite thing about x-mas (smilin). Hope everyone's well!!!

Happyshoppin
Happy Haunaka
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-12-14 15:42:00
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Hello All,

It's been a while since I've been on here. I tried to catch up on some reading but it's been so much reading that I'm just not gonna catch up. I rejoice with those who have their loved ones with them and I cry with those who are hurting from becoming a victim of the people they loved abrusing and leaving them.

Just recently a man gunned down 4 policemen close to where I live; I didn't know the gunmen but some of the other men that have been arrested look familiar to me, it has to be devasting to all envolved; I feel sorrow for everyone that's griefing from that event. Alot of lives have been effected.

We have all these wars going on where some of our soldiers are losing their lives; and too many soldiers are coming home with life changing injuries; missing leggs, and arms or in body bags.

There are approx. over 16 million people unemployed in our Country. There's truly just so much going on!!! Some of us are locked into a good situation where we don't have to worry about losing our jobs but them again, I'm sure there are some that have been effected by this sluggish economy, but who's too blame?

I'm awaiting the jury decision on Amanda Knox back in Italy; I'm hoping that the jury decide to send this child home; I can't imagine being locked up in another Country I'm admiring her display of strenth everytime I see her on the TV. I couldn't even imagine how it feels to be her parents. My prayers go out to them.

Bad things happen to good people also. It's how we deal with our situation that leads to an eventual outcome. I know we ALL will have some kind of tribulation throughout our lives, please; when it's your turn of tribulation; take some time and think long and hard.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-12-04 07:53:00
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Hey yah'll

Just wanted to stop in a minute and give a holla !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-11-04 05:01:00
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Goodmorning Subbies,

Too much on here too read everything. I hope all is well with everyone!!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-09-21 03:56:00
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I'm home !!!! LOL Yah'll knocking at peoples door a little late aren't you. I'll let yah'll in but I'm going to bed....... LOL
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-08-24 00:59:00
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I'm here for roll call !!! Goodmorning all.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-07-31 09:23:00
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Congrats to you Zariagirl.

Your Noa2 means that you've been clear to sponsor your fiance. Congrats on being approved. I can still remember the feeling of finally being approved. Although my ex-husband turned out to be an greencard opportunist I hope that you did find " a diamond amongst the many ( I'm gonna get to America however I can )scammers.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-06-26 10:28:00
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Goodmorning all, it's gonna be a hot day here in the Seattle area. Congrats to both Boaz and Ms J !!! Now I have to read back and see why I'm typing congrats. blink.gif

Hope you all have a wonderful day.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-06-04 10:34:00
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Good early morning all; I'm also awake....................
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-26 04:46:00
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Why is it that the days I don't have to work pass by soooooooooo fast? I do thank God almost each day for having a job to go to.

WG. Condolescenes to your loss. Let's hope that Saturday is as pretty as it was on Friday in the Great Northwest!!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-23 01:49:00
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Goodmorning All,

I hope the sun is shining in your part of the woods !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-20 05:06:00
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I'm also in the northwest. Please feel free to contact me.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-19 02:21:00
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This is what happens when you only read one page of this forum.....LOL I read a few post and thought you were currently here in Seattle. Well, glad to hear that you'll let me know when your coming; if you ever come again, It won't be any trouble for me too meet you there.

I want to extend the invitation to all VJ members coming my way. If ever your in Seattle please PM me if you'd like to meet for dinner, coffee, or just site seeing. I'm game !!!







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QUOTE (idocare @ May 7 2009, 04:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Zee,&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Are you in Seattle still ? I don't live far from there let's meet; are you up too it ? PM me if you'd like to get together while your here; it's a wonderful place full of things to do. I hope you pm me we can at least have coffee, tea, rum and coke; you name it. ..........LOL&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Morning everyone, it's rainy and cold here......lol my ex-husband ranks top amongst the coldest men I ever met. Evil, vindictive barely rubs a way too describe his wickedness. Anyhoo; hope you all are having a good nite rest !!!
<br /><br />I wish! Its been a long time since I have been but hubby and I are planning on taking a trip. I'll let you know when we do <img src="style_emoticons/default/smile.gif" style="vertical-align:middle" emoid=":)" border="0" alt="smile.gif" /><br /><br />
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idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-08 02:25:00
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Hey Zee,<br /><br /><br /> Are you in Seattle still ? I don't live far from there let's meet; are you up too it ? PM me if you'd like to get together while your here; it's a wonderful place full of things to do. I hope you pm me we can at least have coffee, tea, rum and coke; you name it. ..........LOL<br /><br /><br /> Morning everyone, it's rainy and cold here......lol my ex-husband ranks top amongst the coldest men I ever met. Evil, vindictive barely rubs a way too describe his wickedness. Anyhoo; hope you all are having a good nite rest !!!

Edited by idocare, 07 May 2009 - 03:34 AM.

idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-07 03:31:00
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Goodmorning All,

Another day of all our personal issues !!! Hehehe
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-05-01 05:37:00
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S-T-R-E-T-C-H Good Morning All !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-04-27 04:22:00
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Bensangin,


Good Luck with what ever it is that your persuing!!! The child and you are wonderful. Do what you have to do to get the results you want !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-04-25 02:19:00
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Goodnite VJers...........
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-04-20 02:32:00
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Alas: it's Friday !!!! Anybody doing anything fun this weekend?
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-04-03 02:54:00
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Glad to be able to type that today is my Friday !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-03-31 04:23:00
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'Sleepy Time is some good Tea, it's sold in all the major supermarkets here in Washington State. Goodnite all I'm also going to bed.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-03-02 05:20:00
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Good Morning All.


Mrs J congrats to you and your hubby !!!
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-28 08:39:00
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Goodnite Subbies, sleep tight and don't let the bed bug bite. Hehehe
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-21 01:35:00
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Imagine singing that version of I will survive at a live karoke place.

LOL.......you'd surely come in first place if there were a contest.....LOL
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-15 13:35:00
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Well,

Okay boss lady, what would you susgest? Since your in charge at work I thought I seek your advice here. Should we start an excercise thread (in which people can post how much they did) or should we keep it in here?


Uno would be good on posting; (she does one situp a day ) we may even motivate her to do a little more.
Boaz and her hubbie does the excercise thing.
MrsJibowu is getting started and you perserverance have your bike in the basement; (could you excercise there)

I'm almost sure I can talk Chipas into at least 5-minutes......... and maybe more peeps will join in once we get it started.

Waiting on you Boss Lady. IN CHARGE

Edited by idocare, 14 February 2009 - 03:02 AM.

idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-14 02:59:00
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Happy Birthday Chipas and Won Ton.

I took my little shorty to the gym today (he's 3 1/2 years old) to shoot hoops. They interrupted his hoopfest for a scheduled kickboxing class so I decided to join in; I think I may of lasted 3-minutes.......LOL. usually that class would of barely made me sweat.

But hey that beats my usual of turning my cable T.V. on to the excercise channel and watching it as if I were looking at a movie......hehehehe. (The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak)

Meanwhile I barely able to fit into a size 12. Who's on board to committing to excercise at least 20-minutes a day (for starts ) you know we have to start somewhere.
Right now I'm so out of shape; is anyone interseted in starting a online excercise program for the Sub Saharan ?

Edited by idocare, 12 February 2009 - 01:35 AM.

idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-12 01:32:00
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Lol ,

That was a good one UNO ! It's sunny here, I haven't been outside yet, however snow is still on the ground from where it snowed yesterday.

It's a nice day to get my little shorty out; were going to feed the ducks today and then off to the gym. Can't believe this little boy already knows who Michael Jordan is.
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-11 15:17:00
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Just think that each and everyday your one day closer to being with the one you love.
I know; Easy for me to say..........
idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-06 01:54:00
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OMGish,

I was so elated when my mouthy teenager left to go and live at the University he's now
attending. Truly I think that's the worst age for parent/kid interaction. These teens
think they know so much. I'm glad that mines can now practice his thought and mouth
thru his grades; away from me at the Univeristy he's now attending.

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idocareFemaleNigeria2009-02-01 03:14:00