ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
PhilippinesAnnulment of Previous Marriage Was Not Brought Up at SLEC Medical Exam
I've read several accounts here on VJ of Filipinas who were questioned, during the medical exam at SLEC, about the annulment of their previous marriages. Some even had to undergo psychiatric evaluation. I had my medical today and was ready to answer anything about my previous marriage, but the topic never came up. I even brought my annulment papers with me. But at no point was I asked about the existence of a previous marriage. So I didn't say anything. That's the rule, isn't it? One should never volunteer anything. Or should I have? The way I saw it, since the doctor didn't ask, I had no obligation to tell her. The only point where I could have said something about my annulment was when she asked if I had ever been charged in court. And the absolute truth is that I have never been charged with anything in court because I was the one who filed for annulment, not my ex. So I said no.

Did I do ok? I believe I did and that I didn't have to volunteer any information, but I'm here for reassurance, I guess. Heh. :blush:
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-04 06:35:00
PhilippinesNeeds advice about wiring money to the Philippines

Really?! Wow!I see there's Wells Fargo in Cleveland. This could work. Thanks...


No problem! :) We do this regularly. We transfer money from a Wells Fargo account directly to a BDO account, and the transaction fee is always $5, whether we're transferring a few hundreds or more than $1000. There's a minimum amount you can transfer, and I could be mistaken, but I think it's $25.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-09 00:35:00
PhilippinesNeeds advice about wiring money to the Philippines
You can open a BDO account for your brother here and then open a Wells Fargo account when you get to the US. You can transfer directly from a Wells Fargo account to a BDO account. The fee is $5 per transaction, whether you're transferring $100 or $1000.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-08 23:47:00
PhilippinesNeed Help in Iloilo.

Hello teapot, apparently its one of the requirements now for wives of foreigners whose intention is to migrate, just learned that too a few months ago.


I know you need to attend CFO seminar no matter what..but another seminar for getting a passport alone? Wow..So that means another fee for CR-1 applicant? I just got my passport last month. Nothing was mentioned to me. Maybe because It stated that I am single, I dunno.


It's not applicable to fiancees. It's only for Filipina wives who want to use the last names of their foreign spouses. I had to do attend the seminar and get the certificate before I could change my name on my passport from maiden to married. If you're married but still want to use your maiden name, then you don't have to attend the seminar before applying for a passport. FYI, it's not an additional expense for CR1/IR1 applicants because it's the same CFO seminar that all K1, CR1, and IR1 visa holders are required to attend before leaving for the U.S. The only difference for me and other spouses who want to use their husbands' names is that we have to attend it before passport application/renewal and visa issuance.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-20 17:51:00
PhilippinesGoing for medical in the afternoon?
Yes, it's possible. Going to St. Luke's in the afternoon definitely worked for me. Two people - a fellow CR1/IR1 applicant and a nurse who used to work at SLEC - told me that I could avoid a long wait by going in the afternoon. And they were right! I got in at 1:30 and finished at 3:00.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-25 15:22:00
PhilippinesMy Fiancee Passed Her Interview Today
Congratulations! :thumbs:
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-25 19:15:00
PhilippinesThings You Hate & Love About The Philippines
LIKES:
>I like the breathtaking beauty of many places here, the majority of which are not in Manila.
>I love the beaches! Oh, I'm going to miss the beaches of Cebu, Boracay, Camiguin, Calaguas, Coron, and Puerto Galera!
>I appreciate the fact that I can always rely on my family as a support system. This is true for most Filipino families. Sure, a lot of people in my family are nosy! :whistle: But they're always there to take care of us.

NUMBER ONE DISLIKE:
>How the State, the Church, the culture, and almost all Filipinos shove Christianity down people's throats. I'm atheist (yes, a rarity in the Philippines), and part of the reason I became one was that I figured that a belief that had to be constantly shoved down my throat had to be a bogus one. Don't get me wrong. I have nothing against people having a religion or believing in a deity. What I take issue with is a whole society that's always all up in my face about it.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-12 05:57:00
PhilippinesSt. Luke 1 week wait?

I like scandals! :secret: :o :whistle:


So do I! :innocent: :yes:
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-30 03:51:00
PhilippinesSt. Luke 1 week wait?

They are also looking into the injection scars. Possible drug abuse history. Tattoo can be a problem too. I heard someone before that got denied because of tattoo, maybe her blood got infected or something.


I don't think tattoos are an issue. I have 6 tattoos, one of them sexual and arguably scandalous, and the only question that the St. Luke's physician asked me was what my body art meant. I wasn't required to undergo psychological evaluation or additional blood tests.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-29 22:40:00
PhilippinesFilipino Attitudes
All my relatives, friends, and even former teachers who live or have lived abroad say the same thing. Filipinos, who are already quite superficial and arrogant when they're here, become even more superficial and arrogant when they step on foreign soil. My friends, whether they're in Australia, Holland, the UAE, or the US, tell me one of the things they've observed is that the reason Filipinos invite other Filipinos to gatherings is so they can show off. Fellow Filipino immigrants have asked them questions along the lines of, "I've bought this and this. What about you? What have you bought?" I'm proud of my friends because they seem pretty grounded. They now refuse to attend events hosted by Filipinos because they refuse to compete.

I see evidence of this need to show off on Facebook. An acquaintance goes to a Western country, buys a Louis Vuitton or an Hermes soon after he/she starts working, and posts pictures of the acquisition on FB. My Holland-based friend tells me about a Filipina acquaintance in Amsterdam who cleans floors for the purpose of acquiring enough money to buy an Hermes bag. I find it both interesting and embarrassing. But to each her own, right? If one's sole purpose in life is to buy an Hermes, then let her buy her Hermes, I guess. This need doesn't appear to be exclusive to Filipinos, though. It seems common among people from third-world countries that were colonized by Spain.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-12-02 21:49:00
PhilippinesMarriage in the Phils
My husband and I got married in Quezon City, but that was in 2010, so they accepted our Affidavit in Lieu of Certificate of Legal Capacity to Marry. I advise you to call the city hall where you wish to get married and ask them about the requirements for getting a marriage license. If they tell you that they no longer accept the affidavit mentioned above, ask them what they would need instead. I called Quezon City Hall last year when I was confused about the requirements. They were (surprisingly) not rude, and I was able to find their number by Googling their name.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-12-15 20:25:00
Philippinessending money to the family back in the phils

is this like a typical thing?! i do not know, hence me asking..

marrying a fillipino, and then you have some kind of "understood" obligation to care for extended family back on the islands?!


I'm not an anthropologist, and I haven't made any scientific study about the Filipino culture, but I can answer that based on observations I've made from living here. And I've lived here my entire life. The answer is that it depends on the Filipino family's economic status. If the Filipino parents are poor, and they have to borrow money to send their kids to college, then after those kids have graduated and gotten jobs, they are expected to give back and help the family rise from poverty. I have actually heard Filipino parents say those exact words (in Tagalog); the reason they are sending their children - especially the older ones - to school is so their children can solve the family's financial problems. If you were the Filipino kid who saw the sacrifices your parents made to get you that precious degree, you would feel the need to "reimburse" your parents for all their troubles. You would probably feel it was mandatory on your part. Now, if you happened to go abroad, especially to a Western country, either to work or get married, your parents would naturally expect you to send more money than you could if you only had a local, rank-and-file job.

If the family's middle class, the situation may be different. Some middle class parents expect some kind of financial help when they get old, and they see this as a "thank you" for all the hard work they put into raising their children. Some don't. My family's middle class, and my parents have never asked me for a single peso. They've always told me that I can thank them for all their hard work - and the hell ;) I put them through when I was younger - by making something of myself.

If you're the eldest child, then you'll often have more responsibilities than your younger siblings. Your younger siblings may not be expected to help out financially at all. My best friend's family is upper middle class, and her parents have their own business, but she still gives money to her parents because she's the oldest. From what I understand, her parents have never obligated her to give them money. She just feels the need to do it out of a sense of gratitude and responsibility.

We Filipinos never want to be called an "ingrate" by our parents. That's one of the most hurtful things your family can say to you. If you have parents who are expecting some kind of remittance after you leave to live and work in a first-world country, and you don't give them what they want, then they will definitely see you as an ingrate. It's not that they're evil or mean. It's just that in this culture, it's important to "look back at where you came from." If you don't, you'll be seen as an arrogant, selfish person who doesn't appreciate his or her roots.

If you're the USC, and your fiancée or wife has been helping out her parents financially her entire life, you'll probably cause a rift if the family dynamics change after she leaves for the US to marry you. To save yourself a lot of grief, you should tell your Filipina and her family from the get-go what you are and aren't willing to do.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-06 22:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsApril Filer: After 156 days we finally received our NOA2!
Congratulations! :dance: I absolutely know how you feel! My husband and I filed in March and had to wait 167 days (!!!) for an approval! It was all he and I could do not to go crazy waiting. It was painful to see April, May, June, July and August filers getting approved ahead of us! But we sat tight and waited, and NOA2 finally came.

Edited by The Humanists, 29 September 2011 - 08:50 PM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-09-29 20:47:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsHelping the fiancee wait

Aside from keeping in constant touch with her, ask her to engage in an activity (or activities) she's passionate about. What I did was drastic; I quit my 9-5 job because my boredom at work was making the wait even more depressing. I was complaining and feeling restless and impatient everyday, until I finally took the plunge and wrote full time. Writing has always been my passion, but before June 2011, I wasn't doing it full time. Now I am, and let me tell you, after I started "indulging" my passion, I actually forgot to check the USCIS website regularly. I found out about our NOA2 during a writing break. I wasn't even thinking about NOA2 when it finally came. My husband said there was a remarkable difference between my attitude when I was just trying to stick to the routine I was used to and my attitude after I did the very thing I wanted to do, and the difference was beneficial to both of us. So what is your fiancée genuinely interested in? Sports? Travel? Social work? Whatever it is, if she concentrates on it while you two are playing the same waiting game most of us here are playing, it should be able to provide a good distraction for her (and for you).


Oh, by the way, I'm not in any way suggesting that your fiancée quit her job. I merely used my story as an example of how spending your time doing what you're passionate about can help you keep your sanity while you're waiting to be reunited with your loved one.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-19 21:53:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsHelping the fiancee wait
Aside from keeping in constant touch with her, ask her to engage in an activity (or activities) she's passionate about. What I did was drastic; I quit my 9-5 job because my boredom at work was making the wait even more depressing. I was complaining and feeling restless and impatient everyday, until I finally took the plunge and wrote full time. Writing has always been my passion, but before June 2011, I wasn't doing it full time. Now I am, and let me tell you, after I started "indulging" my passion, I actually forgot to check the USCIS website regularly. I found out about our NOA2 during a writing break. I wasn't even thinking about NOA2 when it finally came. My husband said there was a remarkable difference between my attitude when I was just trying to stick to the routine I was used to and my attitude after I did the very thing I wanted to do, and the difference was beneficial to both of us. So what is your fiancée genuinely interested in? Sports? Travel? Social work? Whatever it is, if she concentrates on it while you two are playing the same waiting game most of us here are playing, it should be able to provide a good distraction for her (and for you).
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-19 21:46:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reportsvaccination requirements
The vaccines are TDP (tetanus, diphtheria, pertussis), MMR (measles, mumps, rubella), and varicella (chicken pox). But like Gary9891 and Leatherneck said, it wouldn't make sense to get the vaccines before the exam since they're included in the medical fee anyway.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-09 21:14:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresLong Birth Certificate at NVC Stage?
Thanks for the responses! It's good to know my husband doesn't have to fly to the East Coast to get his birth certificate.

they need the long birth certificate it shows more information, where you were born, the time date, the doctors name, the mothers name the fathers name the father work, etc. if you don't have the long birth certificate you can order one at your state vital records department with a fee through the mail.and make more copies,


Thanks! You're referring to the beneficiary's birth certificate, right? It won't be a problem then, since my birth certificate is detailed.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-09-12 20:43:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresLong Birth Certificate at NVC Stage?
Hi! Whose birth certificate is needed at the NVC stage? Is it just the beneficiary's, or does the petitioner need to send his, too? I've been reading the guides, and based on what they say, it seems only I (the beneficiary) need to send my birth certificate to NVC. But I remember reading some threads that talked about the need for the USC's "long" birth certificate. Well, we don't have that. What we sent to the USCIS was my husband's "short" birth certificate because he would have had to fly all the way to his hometown in NY to get the more detailed version. Of course, he'll fly to get it if we need it at this stage. But because of work constraints, we're hoping he doesn't have to.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-09-12 09:17:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresWhat are the restrictions on the petitioner.......

With all this said I ask of anyone here for some advice: how bad will my background prohibit my petition from being granted? My convictions are more than 15 years old and I am studying all I can about this. There are no IMBRA waivers needed... as the restrictions there do not apply to CR-1 petitions, only the Adam Walsh Act correct?


I'm not an expert either, but I think I can answer your questions based on our own experience with USCIS. My husband had 4 criminal convictions in his past, and they were much more recent than yours: 3 DUIs and 1 drug possession. Since there was no question in the I-130 about the petitioner's criminal background, we didn't submit any waiver, police records, certificate of good moral character, proof of rehabilitation, or anything of the sort. Our petition got approved after 167 days. We received no RFEs. So I guess the IMBRA does not apply to CR1/IR1 petitions. If it did, we wouldn't have gotten through USCIS. As long as your convictions don't fall under the AWA, and there are no other issues, your petition will probably be approved. We are now at the NVC stage where NVC is just waiting for us to submit the AOS and DS-230 packages. I still don't know if I'll have any issues at the interview. But from what I understand, the consulate will care more about the beneficiary's criminal background, and I have none. I reckon they'll just ask me if I'm aware of my husband's past. Also, I remember reading a post here from 2010, written by a beneficiary whose fiancé had multiple drug convictions and DUIs, too, and she was approved at the interview. She said she was just asked if she aware of his past. She said yes, and that was it.

Hope I was able to help. I remember that after my husband and I sent our petition, we had the same questions and no definite answers. Don't expect NOA2 to come soon, though. Our approval took longer than those of other petitioners who filed on the same month. Theirs took around 2-3 months; ours took a little over 5 months.

Good luck!
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-05 09:51:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAny Sep NOA2 approvals gotten their case numbers from NVC yet?

Hello, wondering if anyone who has gotten approved in sept already in NVC or still waiting for case number yet? I'm going on 8 days of calling NVC to yet see if they've appointed my case number.


Yes, we got our NOA2 on 9/8, NVC received our case on 9/12, and we got our case number on 9/29.

Edited by The Humanists, 09 October 2011 - 04:55 AM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-09 04:54:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresemailed DS3032. What now?
Nope. No RFEs whatsoever.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-09 04:31:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresemailed DS3032. What now?
I got a reply from NVC just one day after I emailed the DS-3032. Then we got billed for the IV fee the following day. It seems that once you have a case number, NVC moves fast.

Edited by The Humanists, 08 October 2011 - 09:47 PM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-08 21:44:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresNOA2 Approvel!!!
Congrats! :)
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-13 18:49:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedurescr1 visa (wife maiden name)
Hi! It's not required to use one's married name. But if your wife chooses to use it, all documents that she submits should be under that name. That means the passport has to reflect the married name, too. It doesn't complicate the visa process; what name she chooses to use wouldn't affect petition approval or visa approval, except maybe in certain countries (but not in the Philippines). If she decides to keep her maiden name, she can leave her passport unchanged. Keep in mind, though, that the name on her passport will be the name on her visa and, subsequently, the name on her green card. So if she wants to use her married name when she relocates to the US, it's advisable to file the petition for her under her married name.

In case you and she decide to change her name on her passport, the DFA requires that she attend CFO guidance and counseling, after which she will get a certificate that she needs to present, together with your marriage certificate, when she applies for a new passport. My husband and I are also doing a CR1, and last week, I went through CFO guidance and counseling and had my passport changed to reflect my current name and status. I guess this was what was meant when you were told more paperwork would be required. It's not really a complication, though, but just a matter that needs a little more time and effort.

Here's the link to CFO's website: Fiancees, Spouses and Other Partners of Foreign Nationals.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-16 21:58:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresAny last tips?
It seems you're very well-prepared and good to go! I wish you all the luck and feel congratulations will be in order soon! :)
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-17 23:53:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresVisa Approved! :)
Congratulations! :dance:
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-10-19 16:53:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresSmooth as silk
Congratulations!!! :dance:
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-06 21:20:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresHow much is to much

I say send what you have. For the NVC process, I sent in 500 pages of chat, 100 photos, 5 phone bills, letters of testimony from my family, ect. My case was closed in 3 weeks. The interview, IMHO, is no time to be presenting new evidence to them. I think that especially when dealing with countries that have higher denial rates (my husband is in Casablanca) that establish an ongoing relationship is important. I don't think sending in too much can hurt you...I think sending it too little can. Send it.


Sending more than what was requested will most probably slow down the process. What NVC asks for are only the cover sheet, civil documents, and pictures. I didn't send anything more than those, and our case was closed within 4 business days from the time NVC received my packet.

Edited by The Humanists, 15 November 2011 - 05:06 PM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-15 17:01:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresnot able to pay IV fee

Yes...there is a browser issue for this part at times. I suggest you use Internet Explorer.

There have been reports of Google Chrome, Mozilla Firefox and Opera having issues with the sign-in-page.


For those who use a Mac, Safari works, too!
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-18 22:35:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresnot able to pay IV fee
It could be the browser you're using. The same thing happened to me when I used Chrome to try to pay the IV fee. Many here have suggested Internet Explorer. I don't have (or like) IE, though, so I tried Safari, which worked.

Edited by The Humanists, 18 November 2011 - 07:39 AM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-18 07:38:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresDS-230 and I-864 packages checklist from NVC
Oh, don't wait for checklists. Waiting could delay you for months. My husband and I sent our DS-230 and I-864 packets on the first week of November, had our case completed after a few business days, and we have yet to receive the checklists via email. Here is the link for the supporting documents for the DS-230: http://travel.state..../info_3195.html. For the I-864, my husband submitted the last 3 years' tax transcripts, pay stubs from the last 6 months, and a certificate of employment from the company he works for. Here is the link for the I-864 supporting documents: http://travel.state..../info_3200.html.

Edited by The Humanists, 27 November 2011 - 07:48 PM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-27 19:47:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresWhats next???help plsss...
For me, it took 4 business days from the time the NVC received the I-864 and DS-230 packets to case completion. But I have yet to receive an interview date. The NVC operators say the interview should be scheduled within 20 business days from case completion.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-29 18:46:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresvisa interview

mine is few hrs later..but its okay at least its first week of jan..hehe..do we still need to bring the recent fed income tax to the interview??


I'm not sure if the tax transcripts are still needed at the interview, since we already submitted them to NVC. But I'm going to bring copies, just in case the C.O. asks for them.

And yup, it's great that our schedule is on the first week of January! :D

Edited by The Humanists, 30 November 2011 - 04:17 AM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-30 04:14:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresvisa interview
I'm also super happy! I've been bugging the NVC almost everyday since November 10, hehe. My interview's at 6:30 am. What time is yours?
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-30 03:48:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresvisa interview

omg...i just receivd an email from nvc just few minutes ago..interview date is jan 3, 2011..suuuuuupeeerrr happy


Hey! We have the same case completion date of November 10, right? I also just got an email from NVC, with the same interview date of January 3! Congratulations! :)
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-30 03:25:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresany cr1 here waiting for interview date

NEVER go for your medicals without an appointment letter in your mail.Never,never do it. REASON! 1.Your local consulate hav a list of affilated clinics they hav authorised to do medicals exams for them. And hav special forms given to such clinics. If u do it any where besides where they want,you would be delayed by the CO or ask to do a different one. 2. it takes 6months for the medical exams to expire and if for example you medicals is ready 25th Nov frm a different clinic and you interview happens to be in Feb 14,that only means your medical exams is now only 4months old and even if the CO accepts your advance medicals from a different clinic and he issues you a visa, which in the case of CR1 it expires in 6months then it means you would need to do another medicals sooner than expected


FYI, the Philippines has only one embassy-approved clinic, and that is SLEC. I know of applicants who have successfully, without a hitch, been able to accomplish their medicals at SLEC before being assigned an interview date.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-25 15:26:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresany cr1 here waiting for interview date

yup even me and my husband aiming for dec but i guess not...oh wells, wat does he need to bring for the interview do you know??since I already sent everything to nvc..and he can just go for medical even though no further notice yet from the nvc??


I'm still researching everything that should be brought to the interview, but it seems advisable to bring copies of what we sent to NVC, as well as more proof of a bona fide relationship. Take newer pictures, chat logs, call logs, email printouts, etc. At least, that's what I'm planning to bring. And yes, your husband can go for his medical even without an appointment letter from NVC. Tell him to print any of the emails that were sent to him by NVC. Make sure it shows the MNL case number. He should also bring his passport, a photocopy of his passport, and 3 2"x2" pictures.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-24 22:30:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Proceduresany cr1 here waiting for interview date

arghh..case completed nov 10, 11..but no interview date yet...


Same here! Case completed Nov 10, no interview date yet, and 3 NVC operators already told me that December is full. That's a real letdown because my husband and I really want a December date!
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-11-23 19:07:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & ProceduresHow long did you wait to file for the IR-1/CR-1 after getting married?
We filed almost 4 months after we got married. We would have filed sooner, but we were both busy with work. I agree with those who've said that filing soon after the wedding wouldn't be a problem if you had enough evidence of a bona fide relationship.
The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-12-06 17:19:00
IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedureshelp

please help me for this i am confuse..i got my interview today,by the way i am on cr1 category,they have asked that my husband has 2 case in the past,,,that was his dwi last 2006 and a case with the former gf whish already resolved 3 years ago.now they are asking me to ask my husband to send me the court docs order from the case he had with former g f...my husband called the nvc about this they have proven that these case are resolved already...can anyone tells me that this thing will makes me delay to be with my husband..they have asked me the question about this and i just remember that my husband has told me aboutt his story with former g f...but not a case with previous wife...please help me for nthis i am real confuse now...


Oh, now I'm nervous! Both of us have husbands with DUI cases in the past. Were you grilled about your husband's DUI? Were you also asked to submit his DUI court records? Are they asking for original court records, or did they say that copies would suffice?

Edited by The Humanists, 07 December 2011 - 06:42 PM.

The HumanistsFemalePhilippines2011-12-07 18:41:00