Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 26 2008, 05:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 26 2008, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 26 2008, 06:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 25 2008, 10:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 24 2008, 01:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Gill, I just realize that you and I have a date in common. Ken dropped off his DS-230 at the embassy on 1/15/08 and Mike's DS-230 was received at NVC on that same day. Coincidence? mmmmmm It's ALLLLLL good Clairey!! Does Mike have to be scheduled for an interview? Maybe we will link em hup at deh embassy...dat's if I ever git an INTERVIEW!!!! C'Mon KINGSTON...give mi a date arready!!!! Him a wait pon NVC fe mek de intaview date. Dem claim seh it a go tek dem 6-8 wks feh review deh paapa dem. Chu.. Nuh Worry yuhself yah Clariey...hit isn't any better pon dis end!!! Hevery rahtid day mi checke deh website yuh give mi...plus call deh 202#! All I hear is "He is eligible for an interview since 1/15/08...but hasn't been given one yet!!!" C'MON KINGSTON!!!! Although Ken did git his Packet #3 in the mail yesterday! I think that's good considering they mailed it on 1/10/08 han we ALL knoa how deh Yard Mail system stay!! Nuh worry yah Sweets...it soon come!! Bless, Gill Girl, sorry to tell you I found out that website is for people from the USEM. Ja does not seem to be that kind. Oh Rassssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!! I knew hit was too good tuh be true!! Is arright Chica...back tuh harassing deh 202# pon Monday mawning bright han hearly!! Mi NEED MI HINTERVIEW DATE!!! Easter 2008 is fas approaching han me ave people ah come from hall ova fi meet mi Ken!! Suh...Jah knoa mi better git mi hinterview date SOMETIME SOON!!!!! I know nuh count deh hegg dem before raytaytay... too rahtid late fuh dat!! Mi set mi sights pon Easter...suh mi jus haffi pray ponni! Bless, Gill Me de deh right alang wid yuh a pray, dat Mike get fi him soon to.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-26 17:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 26 2008, 06:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 25 2008, 10:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 24 2008, 01:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jan 24 2008, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hello all.... havent posted in a few but I have been reading up on everything. :-) 1st of all Classy I think you must be a pretty smart lady for recognizing the loser in this guy before you went too far. My best friend came to visit me while I was living in St Lucia and fell for a guy - unfortunetly I don't think he is up to par and he is showing all the signs of a bad egg but she ingores them. I can only hope she comes to her senses..... 2nd ......... I got my NOA1 today and I am so #%@&^*% HAPPY! I know it is just the beginning but at least it has officially begun! Woohoo! Now I have a very good reason to go out with the girls this weekend and celebrate! That and its pay day!! :-) Have a great day all!!! Cat WOOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOO GWAAN THROUGH CAT!!!!!!! MMMMMM-EEEEEEEE-OOOOOOO-WWWWWW!!!!! :luv: YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I remember just how you felt...like it's official...I HAVE STARTED THIS PROCESS!!!! I remember the first time I saw Ken's name and mine on the official NOA1...I started crying (I am such a Baby...probably PMSing that day too ) It's a GREAT FEELING!!! Bless-ed, Gill GO IRIE...IT'S YOUR NOA1 DAY...GO IRIE!! Gill, I just realize that you and I have a date in common. Ken dropped off his DS-230 at the embassy on 1/15/08 and Mike's DS-230 was received at NVC on that same day. Coincidence? mmmmmm It's ALLLLLL good Clairey!! Does Mike have to be scheduled for an interview? Maybe we will link em hup at deh embassy...dat's if I ever git an INTERVIEW!!!! C'Mon KINGSTON...give mi a date arready!!!! Him a wait pon NVC fe mek de intaview date. Dem claim seh it a go tek dem 6-8 wks feh review deh paapa dem. Chu.. Nuh Worry yuhself yah Clariey...hit isn't any better pon dis end!!! Hevery rahtid day mi checke deh website yuh give mi...plus call deh 202#! All I hear is "He is eligible for an interview since 1/15/08...but hasn't been given one yet!!!" C'MON KINGSTON!!!! Although Ken did git his Packet #3 in the mail yesterday! I think that's good considering they mailed it on 1/10/08 han we ALL knoa how deh Yard Mail system stay!! Nuh worry yah Sweets...it soon come!! Bless, Gill Girl, sorry to tell you I found out that website is for people from the USEM. Ja does not seem to be that kind.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-26 14:17:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 24 2008, 01:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 12:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (IrieCat @ Jan 24 2008, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hello all.... havent posted in a few but I have been reading up on everything. :-) 1st of all Classy I think you must be a pretty smart lady for recognizing the loser in this guy before you went too far. My best friend came to visit me while I was living in St Lucia and fell for a guy - unfortunetly I don't think he is up to par and he is showing all the signs of a bad egg but she ingores them. I can only hope she comes to her senses..... 2nd ......... I got my NOA1 today and I am so #%@&^*% HAPPY! I know it is just the beginning but at least it has officially begun! Woohoo! Now I have a very good reason to go out with the girls this weekend and celebrate! That and its pay day!! :-) Have a great day all!!! Cat WOOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOO GWAAN THROUGH CAT!!!!!!! MMMMMM-EEEEEEEE-OOOOOOO-WWWWWW!!!!! :luv: YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I remember just how you felt...like it's official...I HAVE STARTED THIS PROCESS!!!! I remember the first time I saw Ken's name and mine on the official NOA1...I started crying (I am such a Baby...probably PMSing that day too ) It's a GREAT FEELING!!! Bless-ed, Gill GO IRIE...IT'S YOUR NOA1 DAY...GO IRIE!! Gill, I just realize that you and I have a date in common. Ken dropped off his DS-230 at the embassy on 1/15/08 and Mike's DS-230 was received at NVC on that same day. Coincidence? mmmmmm It's ALLLLLL good Clairey!! Does Mike have to be scheduled for an interview? Maybe we will link em hup at deh embassy...dat's if I ever git an INTERVIEW!!!! C'Mon KINGSTON...give mi a date arready!!!! Him a wait pon NVC fe mek de intaview date. Dem claim seh it a go tek dem 6-8 wks feh review deh paapa dem. Chu..	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-25 22:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Jan 24 2008, 02:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks guys...Jengs made me take the test ..and di 2 a dem was postive..so mi a go a di doctor Monday Dis a de dream yuh MIL had. Memba weh she did a sey? She intrepret hit rang. Ah hope yuh trow dis inna har face. Dam trouble mekka.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-25 22:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Jan 24 2008, 02:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> **********ATTENTION EVERYONE....MID-DAY NEWS*********** I AM PROUD TO REPORT THAT THE VJ WATA HAS GOTTEN TO YET ANOTHER ONE OF OUR FAMILY MEMBERS!!! OUR SISTREN, KIMMYKASHI IS EXPECTING A BAMBINO(A) IN THE FALL 2008!!!! PLEASE EVERYONE HELP ME OUT IN CONGRATULATING KIMMY & KASHI ON THEIR UPCOMING BLESSING!! MANY MANY BLESSINGS FOR THE KIMMYKASHI FAMILY!!! WE LOVE YOU GURL!! , Gill Lawd Gad Kimmie!!!! Ah dis did a bodda yuh?? Yuh preggo my gyal. Me so happy fe you and Kashi. Me was so tiyad lass night, me neva check pon de yardie tread. A wha inna deh wata? Gilll, watch out me gyal	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-25 22:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Jan 24 2008, 01:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jan 24 2008, 01:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Jan 24 2008, 01:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> EVERYBODY A MAD TIDEh...r a just me !!!! Whey yuh a talk bout Kimmy??? it's everything that is going on...mi a git up 3 a clack a mawnin Classy mad EX Yardie stalker, dis madness ..it's going to be a full moon ? Weh Gill deh maybe she can tell mi wah wrong wid mi It is a full moon I saw last night mi chile. Hush yah Ah tyiad yuh tiyad. Love you han yuh madness same way Another heart for you	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-24 13:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Jan 24 2008, 01:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> EVERYBODY A MAD TIDEh...r a just me !!!! Whey yuh a talk bout Kimmy???	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-01-24 13:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 25 2008, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yo, JG sent me this article...Ya'll haffi read it!! I can't believe this ooman...yuh see ow dem really feel about immigrated Jamaicans!! Mi seh mi wouldda love fi meet dis ooman face to face and really tell har a ting or two!!!! Her facts are ALL WRONG!! Makes for an interesting read!! http://http://www.ja.../cleisure3.html For those of your that can't link here is the actual article: Fricking Nut job!! ...not b/c her opinion varies from mine...but because she didn't even research her facts before she typed them! *************************************************** Unspeakable treachery published: Sunday | February 24, 2008 Dawn Ritch, Columnist Jamericans are up in arms. They're sending a firestorm of emails to the Editor, because I pointed out that Barack Obama was an impostor, and Hillary Clinton a victim. Are these incensed letter-writers born and bred black Americans, or even brown ones? They are most likely the ones, or the descendants of those, who fled the island because of Michael Manley in the early l970s. They are Jamericans, the ones we all can't stand even when they're relatives, or perhaps because they are relatives. They try to rule us with money, either the actual thing or talk of it. Yet, when they die, they all want to be buried here. Ungrateful people I don't care much for black Americans either. They are the most ungrateful people on the face of the Earth. Abraham Lincoln, a Republican, set them free. They repaid his party by becoming life-long Democrats. This is an unspeakable historical treachery. So you can keep them, for all I care. President Bill Clinton, a Democrat, didn't feel that way. Indeed, black Americans themselves used to call him the first black American president. But all of that has been instantly forgotten. Black Americans and young, unemployed intellectuals believe they have a black presidential candidate, and so have been turning up in droves for caucuses which favour Obama. These are usually held for a specific, limited time. The working class who usually support Hillary do not have the time to spare to attend to vote for her. Nobody said a word about John F. Kennedy's White House affaires, nor Lyndon Johnson's. Nobody breathed a word of Franklin Delano Roosevelt's mistress, and she lived in the White House along with Eleanor, and at the family home. So, why this obsession with Bill Clinton and his intern? The answer is simple. Because Bill Clinton was lower class. His mother was an alcoholic, and his father died before he was born. She was forced to leave him with his grandparents where he was brought up among poor blacks, while she trained as a nurse. Let the record show that he is the only United States president, who, upon retirement, put his office in a black neighbourhood, specifically Harlem. I would have thought that this entitled him to some respect among black people. The foundation he set up concentrates its efforts on charitable work in poorer countries, mainly in Africa. He has already done a great deal to increase the availability of treatment and drugs for the sufferers of HIV/AIDS, particularly in Africa and the Caribbean. That, too, ought to entitle him to some respect from Americans, and indeed, all black and brown people everywhere. 'Fairy tale' Alas, this was not to be! Even such a person was told to shut his mouth, and sit facing the corner because he called Obama's position on the war in Iraq a "fairy tale". Obama wasn't for it, but tells no one that after getting to Washington he voted heavily in support of it. Bill and Hillary Clinton could write a big, fat book on Obama's fairy tales, but it would make them look dirty and racist. Yet, all is fair in love and war and particularly politics, except it seems, when a supposedly black person is involved. Land values in Harlem have shot through the roof since Bill Clinton put his office down there. Black property owners have become rich, Macy's moved in as well as other department stores, and the place is becoming gentrified. That's what he did for the seat of blackness in America. Now he and his wife are being vilified by elements in their own political party and the length and breath of the press. They just don't want Hillary Clinton to win the Democratic nomination to represent her party in the US presidential elections later this year. Emailing this newspaper from New York, Ian Christie responded to my column last week by saying, "It was Barack Obama, not Hillary Clinton, who after graduating from a prestigious university, chose to work on the streets of Chicago's South Side as a community organiser. Clinton, for her part, became a corporate lawyer for Wal-Mart." This is a complete falsehood about Hillary Clinton. After graduation from Yale, she went straight to Washington to work in the child advocacy programme, which she continued to do for years until she married Bill Clinton and eventually went to Arkansas. It was long after that Hillary went to work for a law firm. Somebody had to bring home the bacon, since all Bill has ever done is work for the government, which doesn't pay well. But even then, she continued to work for children's health care in Arkansas. She was on scholarship at Yale. I don't know what Obama was on at Harvard. She has spent her life working for children and healthcare. The irony is that both are senators, and that any examination of their voting records will show that they have voted equally for almost everything. Their votes are almost parallel, which is why Bill said he was a "fairy tale". Obama worse than Bruce I underrated Barack Obama in only one respect last week, when I compared him to Bruce Golding. He is much worse than that. He is like Michael Manley. Golding can talk the hind leg off a donkey, but he does not have charisma. Obama can talk and do so like Martin Luther King. But the latter was responsible only for a civil rights movement, not a country. This is what makes Obama so potentially dangerous. When Michael Manley took over the government of Jamaica in l972, Jamaica's economy was one of the fastest growing in the world, and Lee Kuan Yew's Singapore was adopting our programmes. Now we're killing each other and selling cigarettes by the side of the road, while Singapore has become a First World country. If Americans want a future like ours, they can vote for Obama. Certainly, Jamericans should remember that is why they emigrated from Jamaica in the first place. Roy Wilson's email from a local address tests the outer limits of irrelevance. In a letter to the editor he writes: "Dawn, in America you are either white or you are black; there is no in between foolishness about brown. The only exceptions are the Mexicans, who are referred to as brown." In the first place, Mexicans are a particular type of Indian, not brown. I am unimpressed by American typology on race, considering that the country isn't even civilised yet, not in the way of the French or English. If, as America says, one drop of black blood makes you black, then a prominent white American banking family is black, which would surprise the current members. European royalty would also be black, which would come as a surprise too. Then, everybody would be busily trying to prove to me that because the late great Jamaican statesman and politician, Robert Lightbourne, was an ebony black man, he was really not as white as driven snow. Race is at the bottom a very fluid thing. Above all, it's a state of mind, assuming there is any mind there at all in which one could feign an interest. The probable Republican nominee, John McCain, has pointed out that since Obama has no policies of his own, he has pilfered Hillary's economic plan and is presenting it as his. It is a painful irony, therefore, that the only justice Hillary can get is from the man her party must defeat for the presidency of the United States She is a real idiot. Not a good journalist if you can't research your facts. This is the sh!t they feed to the JA people about americans and us jamericans. (lang dutty kissssss teeth). I don't bother to read the gleaner, me caan bodda.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-25 20:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Tonya @ Feb 25 2008, 10:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 24 2008, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 23 2008, 07:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Eve'nin ladies.....ever have one of those days when you just don't feel like doing anything? Hope ya'll had a good night. Gurl..that was my whole weekend!! I finally jumped up this morning and got to work!! So my house is clean...FOR A DAY!!!! Whatever! The closer my interview date gets...the more crazy I feel...almost paralyzed in a way! Like when I think about the Interview I just want to THROW-UP!!! Unfortunately it is not having the desired outcome...I just end up stuffing more in my mouth!... 'This too shall pass!' day Bless, Gill Gill, I am the same way......As soon as I found out the interview date......I got sick to my stomach.....My nerves are wrecking my digestive system......Just so many things to do before April 15th........The 14yo son keeps his room a disaster area......I have a tremendous job on my hands preparing him for Andrew........This disorder will drive Andrew crazy....... Peace & Love, Tonya Hey Tonya; What are you doing to prepare? I am so excited for you. Are you going to the interview? Maybe we can hook this w/e when I come to Charleston to see my dad? Claire	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-25 20:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	again. Did you ladies shop for clothes for your SO before they got here? I went to Khol's yesterday and couldn't resist. They had a boss of a sale. I got name-brand sweaters and shirts for $10 and less. When I got home and unpaked the bags, I just laughed at myself. Do you think I'm weird?	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-24 22:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 24 2008, 02:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 23 2008, 07:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Eve'nin ladies.....ever have one of those days when you just don't feel like doing anything? Hope ya'll had a good night. Gurl..that was my whole weekend!! I finally jumped up this morning and got to work!! So my house is clean...FOR A DAY!!!! Whatever! The closer my interview date gets...the more crazy I feel...almost paralyzed in a way! Like when I think about the Interview I just want to THROW-UP!!! Unfortunately it is not having the desired outcome...I just end up stuffing more in my mouth!... 'This too shall pass!' day Bless, Gill Gill, a wha yuh a duh? Yuh done clean out deh draw dem and move yuh clothes dem over feh mek space inna the claset fe Ken? Yuh betta start cause time soon come and yuh a wanda weh yuh did a duh.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-24 22:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Feb 24 2008, 11:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ahhahaaa...Thanks Lawny I needed that..she is mine ..sorry fi buss di bubble...a di death a mi dat u a look pon .. Lawd Kimmie, me luv luv luv deh likkle girl. Beg yuh fe har nuh? Me we bath har wash har hair, comb hit and dress har up pretty, pretty. Whoai, me mad yah. Fe real doah, she nice nuh rass, bout she a pose fe picha. Claire	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-24 22:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (nannygirl82 @ Feb 23 2008, 03:45 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> don't need to be a downer....but i need to vent....i have talked to mike and he has just made me physically sick....i feel so drained and just sick to my stomach....everything is about him....he is stressed cause he has to pay rent and can't save....hello get another job he won't for whatever reason....we still have a family phone plan and well he went over on the minutes and then procedes to tell me oh ya i also called Canada and i didn't time myself but i talked for like 25 mins. so that is extra money on the bill for next month as well...and why can't i get over everything...he thought this was a new year and i should just get over it all...and i said what get over everything that you have said and done to me over the past year and not be angry or upset about anything....and he thinks yes i should be able to get over everything....also when is he going to get his green card...i meaning me needs to fill out the 1-90 to send in...yet i called the senator and i am waiting to here back...well that isn't good enough....blah blah blah blah.....30 mins of how he is so stressed and how can i do this to him bring him here and then do this.... you know am i crazy....i would think that i am not...but maybe i am....i don't know anymore.... Oh Nans, no mine yah..like Gill would say, :this too shall pass.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-23 16:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Morning Yardies!!!	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-23 11:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Sonshyne @ Feb 22 2008, 10:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good mawning Fam Happy Friday Welcome back Lita and Sunny. All this chat bout yaard has me ready to go right now... April cyaan come fast enuf fi mi yuh knoa I have a big surprise fe mi husband... It will be one year fram 'im left 'im yaard to come 'ere and his birthday is in April also. He nuh knoa ei yet but... He will celerate inna yaard Since 'im nuh have vacation time until de summa time, I was going to go by myself in April, then we would go back together in August. What 'im doan knoa is mi haffi wan big secret Mi gwaan fe chat wit 'im boss dem han beg dem let 'im haffi likkle vacation. Mi ago buy deh tickets dem and nuh tell mi husband hanything huntil 2-3 days before ie time fi go He gwan have a 1 year reunion wit 'im pickney dem and a b-day celebration all inna one. Bwoy 'im gwan be surprised fe tru!! Nuh mi must tell yuh.... Mi nuh good at keeping suprise fe tuh lang Dis 'ere gwan kill mi dead Mi ask 'im dis mawning fi buy mi wan ticket tuh yaard fe next month, 'im ask mi seh when yuh ago?? Mi seh April 15... 'im seh wha?? Yuh gwan pon mi B-day and lef mi ere alone?? Yuh Mad!!?? Sunny, April 15 is Mike's birthday too. What a coincidence!!!	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-22 15:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (classychic77 @ Feb 21 2008, 09:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (ChristineJames @ Feb 21 2008, 02:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi Gang I just wanted to pop in and report to you all that I'm the one who knows the infamous..."Mr Green Shirt". I've known him for a while now. I am NOT in any kind of a relationship with him. We are good friends. I think any of us would report back to any of our friends if you saw a picture of her/him on a website. Keep in mind that his pic was posted on 2 websites. I don't think this makes me a lurker. I think it makes me a friend. I don't mean to stir any thing up here. I just wanted to let you know that some people are not lurking. Some folks are no longer on the VJ journey. But they made friends along the way. I occasionally pop in from time to time to see how some of the OLD vets are doing. One Love Well I just came in from work and I'm trying to catch up with all this. ChristineJames, I would like to say thank you for saying who you were. I can respect your decision to tell your friend about seeing his pic on here. But on the other hand please understand where I was coming from. I did not post his pic to be a malicious b!tch. This is my safe haven to speak about this situation. These woman here have been a great support system and I thank them. I won't lie I truely loved him and was deeply hurt by his actions. And I am not speaking about seeing a picture of him with other people. Who knows when that pic was taken, it may as well be a completely innocent picture. And was probably from before I even knew him. Our relationship fell apart for many, many other reasons. I posted that pic because I couldn't believe what a small world it was and how I just happened upon his picture. Just a lil release so I could find some humor in a hurtful situation. The pics that were posted on yahoo were just so my friends that I have spoken to about my relationship could see who I had spoken about. I thought it was a semi-private page. Our relationship may have aleady been over but I still loved him and I guess somewhere inside me hoped things would change. Out of this whole situation I just hope he learns to not hurt the next woman who truely loves him with all her heart. I know I have taken it for what it was and learned my lessons. Thanks for listening. Classy Hey Classy, how are you? I see you are living up to your name.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 21:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 21 2008, 09:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Feb 21 2008, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am feeling okay. Thanks for asking. Sore and a little loopy from the Tylenol #3. Sore as hell. I've only been able to sit here for short periods of time. Andre,(God help us all) has been trying to "help" me. I am missing you girls. You want to tell him to leave u alone, don't u?? but if he wasn't trying to help u would be mad at him for that so leff him alone. So right Jengs	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 21:24:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jomo @ Feb 21 2008, 09:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am feeling okay. Thanks for asking. Sore and a little loopy from the Tylenol #3. Sore as hell. I've only been able to sit here for short periods of time. Andre,(God help us all) has been trying to "help" me. I am missing you girls. We miss you too. Just delegate and make sure you give specific instructions about how you want things done, or when you get better you have to do it all over	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 21:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 08:47 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 21 2008, 08:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 08:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 09:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 21 2008, 06:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> wow it got quiet in here all of a sudden I went to yoga, then step but it was canceled, so now I'm bord and hubby won't get off work for another two hours. Brownie, You a look fuh a next kindda wukhout! ...no joke rooksing does burn hoff some MAD calories! Keep hup deh good work Chica!! Gill I know He won't come close to mi right now tho I'm tellin you I like to rooks just like de next, but mi luv mi breaks too I was in the same place yo u were a few years ago thought I was never going to get enough..and as much as I luv it my man neva gets tyred Me luv rooksing but not all the time. I like to wait, it sweeter suh I like to wait too Clariey...a couple of hours to relax, eat and git back to WUK!!!! Bless,Gill Yuh too dyam bad QUOTE (Jomo @ Feb 21 2008, 08:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 21 2008, 07:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Sunny, where in Raleigh do you live? Are you the one who lives close to North Hills Mall? I get everybody mixed up so much these days. Mi brain bad yuh see. LOL I live off Capital Blvd near to Buffaloe road. Claire She's not in Raleigh. Maryland, I think. Or D.C. Hey JG, how are you doing? I hope you are feeling much better. (Well you are online, so I guess you are )	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 20:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 08:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 09:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (brownnskinn @ Feb 21 2008, 08:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Feb 21 2008, 06:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> wow it got quiet in here all of a sudden I went to yoga, then step but it was canceled, so now I'm bord and hubby won't get off work for another two hours. Brownie, You a look fuh a next kindda wukhout! ...no joke rooksing does burn hoff some MAD calories! Keep hup deh good work Chica!! Gill I know He won't come close to mi right now tho I'm tellin you I like to rooks just like de next, but mi luv mi breaks too I was in the same place yo u were a few years ago thought I was never going to get enough..and as much as I luv it my man neva gets tyred Me luv rooksing but not all the time. I like to wait, it sweeter suh	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 20:40:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Sunny, where in Raleigh do you live? Are you the one who lives close to North Hills Mall? I get everybody mixed up so much these days. Mi brain bad yuh see. LOL I live off Capital Blvd near to Buffaloe road. Claire Edited by clairern, 21 February 2008 - 08:35 PM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 20:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (sunnyja21 @ Feb 21 2008, 07:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hello All, Just getting back from JA seeing Ray and I'll be filing within the next couple of weeks. Had the time of my life. I hope you guy's are up for questions.... lol Congrats to all who have advanced in anyway. Welcome to the new baby/babies...... Hey Sunny; How was sunny Jamdown? I am happy you had a great time and have decided to go ahead with your process. Your questions will surely be welcommed and answered. (Yuh done knoa Gill and Kimmie a lead de pak ) We will join them along the way. Good luck my dear girl and all the best Claire	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 20:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 21 2008, 07:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 21 2008, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Guys just checking in to say hello. Just wanted to give you guys an update. I received Mike's corrected DS-230 and pics and sent them off yesterday express mail with guaranteed delivery for today. I hope everthing is alright and soon I will hear case completed. Yeaaaa!!!!!! That's great news!! Everything crossed that you will be back on track soon! Bless, Gill Thanks Gill, I surely do hope so and hope to be in your shoes soon (if dem can fit me size 10W)	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 19:12:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Hey Guys just checking in to say hello. Just wanted to give you guys an update. I received Mike's corrected DS-230 and pics and sent them off yesterday express mail with guaranteed delivery for today. I hope everthing is alright and soon I will hear case completed.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 18:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 21 2008, 11:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> TOTALLY off topic...my brains are fried now.......I have a question. For those of you who CREAM/PERM/RELAXER unu head...how long do you wait before getting a touch-up. 6-8 weeks depending on your hair texture. Personally, I do mine every three months or so.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-21 12:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Hello all, I know I am late and just catching up. There is so many bad things happening to us yardies these past couple of days. We need to join hands and hearts and get down on our knees and pray to our heavenly father for some strength to be able to deal with all the strife that the devil is trying to inject in our lives. My heart goes out to each and everyone who are experiencing grief, heartache and disappointment this week. I hope we all will be getting good news soon. We have been very happy on her for a while and the devil does not like that so he comes in like a thief in the night and is disrupting our lives. I feel so much distress when I read all the trials that our "sisters" are going trhu. We all don't know each other persoanlly, but have bonded like a family and have been there for each other no matter what. We have to join together and show the devil that we will get through these bad times. We will always be there for each other, giving good advice and a listening ear. And for those like me who is clueless at times and do not have much to say, I feel the same rage and anger you all express. I don't want to re-invent tne wheel, so I just read and nod my head. I hope that this week will end with some positive new..not that I am minimizing the trauma that has transpired, but I hope that things will get better for all of us. I love you all	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 18:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 03:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 20 2008, 03:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 02:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 20 2008, 01:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Feb 20 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Ladies... Sorry had to get some people to go calm my cousin's mom down. She wanted to get on a flight to Jamaica this afternoon. My cousin didn't have to go to the consulate in Montego Bay, she spoke to someone at the embassy in Kingston. The same councilman from her district helped her out. She was on the phone for 20 mins. She told the person about the situation without making it too personal. The appointment for the interview was cancelled immediately. She has to called USCIS for them to do something with the record and she has to call another place (can't remember where it is). My cousin was only planning to be in Jamaica for 2 days, but now she'll be there until next Friday. She has to secure the house, since he threatened to burn it down. She has to get a no trespass order in place (not sure what good that will do in Jamaica). She has to change all the locks on the doors. She went down to the Court house to look about the arrest, but was direct back to the police station at Carol Gardens. I told her not to do that. She was release and not charged with anything. As far as I'm concerened it was over and done with. If they wanted to lock her up they would have done so this morning when they came out to the house or when she dropped of the clothing at the police sation. My fiance helped her to pack her ex's things up in a boxes and brought them to the police station as instructed. The sargent told her that this guy is going to be a problem and she needs to get someone to look after the house. One of the officers also heard him say he was going to burn down the house. What a mess. Thanks for the support. The only thing that was concerning to my cousin was him being able to get through with the interview, getting the visa and flying to the states. I guess he's A$$ out now. Dirty #######. I'm so sick to my stomach I can't eat lunch. This is just too much for one person to deal with. She says it has not hit her yet. And she could have brought a new car with the money she spent on the DA.... I'm hoping he shows up for the interview and dem dash im rass outdah di door. A dem time deh im ago mad fi real. Dutty bc no ave no weh fi live now...mek im galang back a dutty FLANKERS weh im come fram. One more thing she should do is file a police report that he said he was going to burn the house down, JUST IN CASE!! Sweet mi suh til seh di dutty bwaay sheg up himself BEFORE him get weh him did a look......mussi did all tell pregnant gyal how di two a dem did a guh a fariegn..... But my question is, HOW OOMAN SUH DUTYY??????? Imagine a) yuh know yuh man have ooman yuh mek dat pass yuh c) yuh breed fi a man wid NINE pickney d) YUH GUH HITCH UP INNA DI OOMAN YAWD????????????????????? har shame tree DEAD man English, I said the same thing...she don't have no shame. I told my cousin to let him go when he lied the first time about how many kids he had, but she said she forgave him. But when he moved his family up in that house...that would have been the last straw for me. If she didn't cuss and carry on they would have still been hitched up in the house. Imagine you build you nice house and people just wah tek liberty pon u. Then this pu##*$ ago bring his woman in the house. And yes, pregnant girlfriend knew my cousin existed, but she didn't care (and with her brite self bout...im can use another co-sponsor)...im no need fi ar help no more... Weh Gill deh...I have to tell you what he look like. I want to know if he will show up for the interview (can't miss this MF....he's a pretty boy with long hair). He looks Puerto Rican. I think his mom is Brazalian and his dad Jamaican. and im MOUT loud. I think the interview was scheduled for 8:30 on 3/11/08. Bway mi no know...she a handle it well, but I would have been facing a charge. That is just too painful...next ooman a ansah u'r door...rahtid smadi avi dead and get bruck up. And of course...ex fiance had nothing to say (he was just standing there like a frighten PUSS!) Chica..yuh doan knoa mi arready!! Mi a guh be WATCHING fuh henny pretty bwoy!! Mi a guh LAFF LOUD WHEN DEM kick his RASS HOUT!!!!!!! YEAHHHHH ... ican tell em mi 'Funny smell' story miself!!! I'll be like "KENNY DHHHARLING...YUH SMELL SITTIN?????" ...When we standing on line for the interview...@ 8:30!!!!!! Kenny will whisper...."Ooman Duh...nuh boddah fi start wid yuh madness rightta now...jus' low hit!" I'll Laugh... HAN seh 'KENNY DHHHHARLING...Mi waan wan COOK GOOSE fi dinner...yuh 'ear!!" Han look pretty Bwoy dead inna em pretty yeye dem!! Ken will just look pon mi han laugh at dat point!! (Thank G-d mi ave a man dat see wid mi han mi madness ) Watch mi if yuh nuh tink a suh hit a guh go!! Nuh suh...madicks Pretty bwoy couldda never come Embassy pon MY day!!! Beg yuh WARN Em fi mi Lawny...WARN EM!!!!! Bless, Gill Lawd mi a dead. Mi glad seh mi a nu di only mad one... Okay time for me to VENT....I CAN'T STAND AIR JAMAICA...just booked 4 tickets for April dem have special...FOR THE SAME bc dates...and when I get the confirmation dem ago charge mi $325/each for 2 of the tickets and then charge me $445/each for the other two...a wah di rass dat. WE ALL TRAVELING THE SAME DAY AND TIME... So, I called and politely asked what's going on. Same dates, same time and guess wah di damn ooman ago tell me (all the $325 FARES) have been sold out for that day miss. Miss mi rass... Damn rass lie...the travel agent that work in this building just checked it and there's 26 seats left on that flight. I told them eeedah fi gimme mi money back ar cancel di whola it. I'm fuming mad...mi still deh pon hold...mi wah hear wah dem ago tell mi....MI ALREADI FIRED UP some dem bettah no chat no way to mi... Mi dear; me undastan. Last year me waan fe go Ja fe see Mike and me watch AJ website like I was possessed. I got a fare for $88 roundtrip fram Ft. Lauderdale and everything was fine till the night before me haffo lef. Dem call me and tel me say dat dem cancel de retunr flight and dem waan fe put me pon the 1200pm flight that reach a Ft. L. 230pm. Me was originallyt supposed to cum pon the 0930 am flight fe catch me 230pm flight back home. Me wudda haffi change me odda flight and dem wouln't pay fe it ($75). Me haffi end up taking de 0630am flight thru Mobay to Miami and get ground transportation to fort Lauderdale to catch me flight back home. 5 airport inna a one day. Wen mi get home, me call Mike and tell him neva again. Me nah cum back a Ja, suh him betta hurry up han cum. Me nah go back down deh. De flight dem too expensive and the customer service people dem too facesty	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-20 17:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Morning all; Just finishing up the last of my 3-night weekend shift. I am so tired. I won't do this stint again. Anyway, you guys have a great day and I will catch you guys later. JG--There are no words to express how I feel about what happened to your SIL's. Her experience has hit really close to home and I am stunned that this does continue to happen. I hope she recovers from this ordeal soon and I am sure you all will give her all the support she needs.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-19 06:02:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Hey y'all A very early good morning to my VJ family..Just here trying to catch up on whatever I missed the pass couple of days in between tasks here at work. When I go home I am like a zombie (duppy TAM you knoa). I hope that you all had a wonderful and productive weekend and look forward to spending this shortened week in your company. Love always Claire	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-18 03:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Mrs. Scott @ Feb 16 2008, 10:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Feb 16 2008, 03:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Can you guys add one more person to your prayer chain? We woke up to the phone ringing off the hook this morning. Andre's 16 year old sister was attacked at knifepoint last night by a taxi driver on her way home from school. Not sure we are getting all the details right now cause everyone is pretty much hysterical. It's not good. I will definitely keep your sis-in-law in my prayers. Ditto	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-17 02:46:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Jengles @ Feb 16 2008, 01:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok ladies...bad news....I had a miscarriage...I just came back from the hospital....then too top it off i sent mr jengles the nastiest text from the hospital...i think i need to take some me time and stop trying to fix things around me. now i'm going off on tangents....later ladiesl OMG!!!! Jengs I am so sorry to hear. I hope you feel better soon	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-16 10:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (Marlita @ Feb 15 2008, 01:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok Ladies, I am gearing up to get outta here and head to see the Mister. I am sooooo looking forward to going out and dancing this time around and have been told about a few places in the Kingston area to check out. I wanted to ask you all if you've been to any of these places and what you think QUAD ASYLUM These are sister clubs and Quad actually sounds really cool. What do you guys think? Ever been to these or know of some spots I should definitley check out while in Kingston....day or night spots. Lita; I hope you have a good time in Ja. (I wish I was going ). I have no idea about day or night spots to have fun, seeing that I have not been to Ja in 15 years before last year and spent most of the time relaxing with Mike at home. Have fun though for all of us stuck here without our man	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-15 13:22:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	Morning Yardies, happy Friday to you all. Hope you all have a wonderful and productive weekend. I know most of you will have a 3-day w/e. I will be working night shift this weekend. I worked the last two nights, Wednesday night till midnight and last night till 3am for $10 more per hour. I trying to make some more bucks to save up for when Mike gets here. I also signed a contract to do an extra 72 hours btwn now and May 2, that will also pay me $10 more per hour and $600 after the contract is completed. I also need a TV for my bedroom and am working on that. I know that when he comes my expenses are going increase till he gets a job, so herego. Wish me luck. Well...boring life.. but that what my plans are.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-15 13:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Feb 14 2008, 08:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks JAE and same to you and all the Yardies VJers. JAE your son is a natural, I don't care what you say. He is so precious And you are so talented Edited by clairern, 14 February 2008 - 10:21 AM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-14 10:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JA Tam @ Feb 13 2008, 09:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 13 2008, 08:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JA Tam @ Feb 13 2008, 08:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Gill - mi did ah try fin' di pictah from yessideh Gleaner, weh di man ah walk inna one store wid one big V-day sign an him ah tell Cupid seh if 'im eva shoot 'im wid di arrow, "Mi an yuh ah go fight". Mi nearly drop affa mi chair ah wuk yessideh. ...DATS HEXACTLY OW MI FEEL!!! Thanks for the chuckle Tam-Tam! Love ya always!! Hennytime!!!! Hey Claire, how tings? Hey Tam Tam; Tonks for the shout out. I am here at work till 11pm (call in to work 4 hrs for an extra $10/hr and couldn't resist). Just catching up on the reading. I am still waiting for that snail mail from JA with Mike's corrected DS-230. He claims it was mailed out last week Tuesday. Getting mail from Ja is some he!!. When he used to work in Kingston, he would go to the General PO and mail it. He now works a little outside Spanish Town (near to Dovecot Cemetary) and asked his cousin to mail it from Old Harbour. He leaves for work at 0600 and gets home at 2000, so he couldn't get to the PO. I am just tired of waiting. I check my mailbox everyday with such anticipation, that my heart sinks when I don't see a letter from Ja. But, girl, I am still hanging in. Every disappointment is for a good. They would have sent the RFE for the passport pictures anyway. I am just taking it easy and hoping for an April/May interview. I miss him so much and I am tired of calling him and telling how much I miss him. Like he says to me most of the time "I feel the same way, but there is nothing you or I can do about it right now, so just hang in there and remember our love is everlasting and will edure this trial that we are going through."	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-13 22:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JA Tam @ Feb 12 2008, 07:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 12 2008, 07:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I want to ask a quick question. Why is it so difficult to get a visa interview in Kingston? How many visa interviews are going on monthly? I have been in the Phillipines thread and they give out interviews a whole lot faster and more frequently than JA. The Phillipines is way bigger that Ja and is a high fraud country too. They even have an appointment website where you can look up your interview and medical appointment. Why does Ja have to make it so difficult? What is so special about them? I see people here who have had their case completed 2 months ago and still have not gotten an interview date. Are they purposefully trying to torture people and keep loved ones apart? (sighs and exhales) I am so disgusted. protest: :protest I fell off the podium. I am getting up and brushing myself off My dear, they have not a care in the world. I was wondering why the H-E-double hockey sticks, they were closed for on Feb. 8th; Ash Wednesday was Feb. 6th!!! I just think that they don't care...the way how them so laid back at the embassy, mi jus waan slap dem into shape. We can only hope and pray that they get their act together or that we find an outlet to voice our complaints and concerns about what is going on in Kingston. The other question I have is...Who are the employees there? Are they Jamaicans or Americans or a mixture of both. I had my K-1 interview way back in 1986, so that is a distant memory. It was so different waaay back then. Claire Lata y'all, I going across the street to my sister to watch American Idol.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-12 19:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (JA Tam @ Feb 12 2008, 07:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> First and foremost - mi ah put it out deh...mi is asways one ah di duppy dem...unnu nuh hav nuh love fi mi mi ongle come out at night (like the freaks...) Claire you're correct. When NVC scheduled my interview (God answered my prayer because it was on a Friday), nyseness sound the alarm and point out seh interviews were usually only tues/thurs. When I called NVC, dem put mi inna mi place an' seh ah dem schedule di interview so mi nuh fi follow wah embassy have pon dem website. Gill - mi dear, mi sarry fi si wah di crosses ooman ah put yuh tru...nuttin caan 'top yuh blessings, suh mek she gwaani gwaani, she caan 'top dis. what is fi yuh, caan be un-fi yuh! Mi neva know seh fadda caan pick up birth certificate; ah mussi one new rule or something because my fadda always go pick up mi BC dem. Right before Aaron and I got married, he got ah bag a copy ah mi BC fi mi - mi nuh knoa if ah because mi madda did live yah and him was mi primary caregiver. Kimmy - hush yah mi dear; before yuh know it, it ova...mi sistah ah have a warm time wid fi har pregnancy too. sometime she caan keep nuttin down and she ah 8 months. Nuh mind, it soon done. Shrewdie - you are going to have to talk to your husband about this one. As claire said, don't go in an accusing manner, but you definitely need to address this, because it is truly troubling. She is trying to make trouble, but your instincts are telling you something... Tam Tam duppy we luv you same way	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-12 19:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Feb 12 2008, 07:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 12 2008, 07:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Feb 12 2008, 07:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> is this certificate for KEN or for his child? marsh has a "baby" that isnt really his but his name is on the certificate. we have no plans to bring her here, will we still need to do anything with her birthcertificate?? Along those lines this baby momma is pregnant again and texted me and said the baby is his. He has practically no contact with this woman. I dont think he is cheating on me. but here is the question. How did this woman get my number? and she "marsh has a new baby on the way he will never love you how he loves me" now, let it be known she is very loose. I do not think he has cheated on me. BUT..how did she get my number?? AND she made reference to something personal he and I did..how could she possibly know that? Guys, I dont know what to do! The best person to ask those questions of is your husband. He is the only one who can answer these questions. Do not be accusatory, just ask him how she knows about that very personal thing you both did. Let him explain it to you. Just my $0.2 QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 12 2008, 11:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 12 2008, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> BAD NEWS I just spoke with Ken and he told me that KJ's mother lost the receipt to go pick up his Birth Certificate!!! It took us TWO dyam months to get that frigging birth certificate!!! The worst part is the bloody certificate won't even be valid in the eyes of th US gov't because it was issued too late AFTER the birth of the child! However, the 202# advised me NOT to go without it! Both visas could be denied...K1 & K2! Are any of you that filed a K-1 familiar with how to reschedule an interview appointment? I know I probably won't get anything else in March...but hopefully April! I am so LIVID right now I just can't speak! The Jamaican system is so F-ed up...only the mother can pick up the birth certificate! Although Ken is the one that filed all the papers and paid all the fees to get it! Mi seh deh bloodcl**t ooman is suh dyam careless!! She lose hevery claating ting!. SURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRPS *lang dutty disgusted kissteet* Thanks for whatever info you can give. Oh Gill, I am so sorry to hear. I hope everything works out for you guys. The devil is rampant in these parts Do not let him dissuade you. God is on your side and remember your VJ yardie family is always here to support you Shrewdgal The best person to ask those questions of is your husband. He is the only one who can answer these questions. Do not be accusatory, just ask him how she knows about that very personal thing you both did. Let him explain it to you. Just my $0.2 Good luck and all the best. Oh, I totally agree. I plan on doing just that. At the moment I cannot reach him. This happened at about 4 pm today and his phone goes straight to voicemail. If he is out running taxi he doesnt have a charger. I made a commitment to him and to GOd that this is thruough thick and thin. Because of my beliefs I will not break a marriage unless there is infidelity. I have prayed and prayed and I feel the spirit say to me "you must choose to trust your husband while you are apart. you must" but at the same time I dont want to be missing something if it is there to see. This is so frustrating. Take your time and think about what you want to say to him. Do not rush to judgement. You can even write down what you want to say. Please, please do not call him when you are angry. This will make things seem worse and you both will start fighting. Remember "a soft answer turneth away wrath." Pray about it and let God be your guide. The devil is rampant in these parts and will try to destroy families. That is his goal Remember what God has joined together let no man nor the devil tear apart. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and hope everthing works out for the best.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-12 19:49:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	I want to ask a quick question. Why is it so difficult to get a visa interview in Kingston? How many visa interviews are going on monthly? I have been in the Phillipines thread and they give out interviews a whole lot faster and more frequently than JA. The Phillipines is way bigger that Ja and is a high fraud country too. They even have an appointment website where you can look up your interview and medical appointment. Why does Ja have to make it so difficult? What is so special about them? I see people here who have had their case completed 2 months ago and still have not gotten an interview date. Are they purposefully trying to torture people and keep loved ones apart? (sighs and exhales) I am so disgusted. protest: :protest I fell off the podium. I am getting up and brushing myself off	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-12 19:43:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 5)	QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Feb 12 2008, 07:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> is this certificate for KEN or for his child? marsh has a "baby" that isnt really his but his name is on the certificate. we have no plans to bring her here, will we still need to do anything with her birthcertificate?? Along those lines this baby momma is pregnant again and texted me and said the baby is his. He has practically no contact with this woman. I dont think he is cheating on me. but here is the question. How did this woman get my number? and she "marsh has a new baby on the way he will never love you how he loves me" now, let it be known she is very loose. I do not think he has cheated on me. BUT..how did she get my number?? AND she made reference to something personal he and I did..how could she possibly know that? Guys, I dont know what to do! The best person to ask those questions of is your husband. He is the only one who can answer these questions. Do not be accusatory, just ask him how she knows about that very personal thing you both did. Let him explain it to you. Just my $0.2 QUOTE (clairern @ Feb 12 2008, 11:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Feb 12 2008, 10:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> BAD NEWS I just spoke with Ken and he told me that KJ's mother lost the receipt to go pick up his Birth Certificate!!! It took us TWO dyam months to get that frigging birth certificate!!! The worst part is the bloody certificate won't even be valid in the eyes of th US gov't because it was issued too late AFTER the birth of the child! However, the 202# advised me NOT to go without it! Both visas could be denied...K1 & K2! Are any of you that filed a K-1 familiar with how to reschedule an interview appointment? I know I probably won't get anything else in March...but hopefully April! I am so LIVID right now I just can't speak! The Jamaican system is so F-ed up...only the mother can pick up the birth certificate! Although Ken is the one that filed all the papers and paid all the fees to get it! Mi seh deh bloodcl**t ooman is suh dyam careless!! She lose hevery claating ting!. SURRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRPS *lang dutty disgusted kissteet* Thanks for whatever info you can give. Oh Gill, I am so sorry to hear. I hope everything works out for you guys. The devil is rampant in these parts Do not let him dissuade you. God is on your side and remember your VJ yardie family is always here to support you Shrewdgal The best person to ask those questions of is your husband. He is the only one who can answer these questions. Do not be accusatory, just ask him how she knows about that very personal thing you both did. Let him explain it to you. Just my $0.2 Good luck and all the best. Edited by clairern, 12 February 2008 - 07:31 PM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-02-12 19:30:00