Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	I thought I bump this up so Jawi won't have to look too far to find it. LOL	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-08-11 14:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 08:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Royce stared into her big sapphire blue eyes as he slowly walked her to a deserted corner of the club. Keisha unzipped his pants inconspicuously as she continued to utter words of passion to him. When they reached the corner of the room, Keisha slid her hand inside of Royce's jeans and boxers. She stroked him cautiously, and Royce's breath caught in the back of his throat. Keisha ran her hot tongue up the length of his neck before she softly bit down on his jaw line. Royce picked her up, and wrapped her legs around his waist. He used the fullness of her dress to conceal his hands moving to place the condom on his #######, and his unsteady aim into her center. The couple stood frozen for a few seconds as wave after wave of ecstasy crashed over them. Slowly, Keisha began using her legs and waist to create friction between their joined bodies. Royce grabbed her waist, and used his forearms to steady and guide her already expert movements. His knees buckled from the sheer pleasure she evoked in his body. As Keisha reached orgasm, she buried her head into his shoulder and sobbed openly. Her body shuddered and convulsed involuntarily, which sent Royce over the edge. Neither of them cared if they got caught. Neither cared if security decided to escort them out. Keisha pulled a Kleenex from her purse, slid her legs down from Royce's waist and discreetly deposited the used condom into the confines of the Kleenex. "I need to use the ladies room baby. I'll be right back. Are you okay Daddy?" "Every ting criss puttus." Royce smiled. dem adventurous fe real...dis hat hat hat Edited by clairern, 04 June 2008 - 07:31 PM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 19:30:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 08:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Royce and Keisha garnered the attention of the entire club. Keisha followed Royce's lead and led a few of the dances herself. She knew all of the latest dancehall moves, and a lot of the older ones. The crowd whispered excitedly about her moves, and Royce was prouder than a peacock with new feathers. When the music slowed, Royce pulled Keisha backwards into his arms and kissed her slightly damp and salty neck. He loved how the lights in the club reflected off the contrast of their skin tones. Her blonde hair glowed like the white letters in his shirt because of the black lights. Keisha wrapped her own arms around Royce's arms on her waist, and stroked his forearms. She whined her ### into his crotch, loving the feeling of his ####### jumping to attention with each pass. She yearned to free him of his jeans and boxers, and she ran her hands up the length of her high ponytail. Keisha turned around, and wrapped her hands around Royce's waist. Then, she whispered in his ear "I want to make love to you Royce. Now." "Let's go baby. I want to make love you all night and all day." "No. You don't understand Royce. I want to make love to you right now…right here. I don't care if we stand or sit at this point. Just don't make me wait. Not tonight." Keisha moaned. Juicyyyyyyy	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 19:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 4 2008, 08:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jun 4 2008, 08:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 08:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jun 4 2008, 07:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> was wondering cause we were not at the meeting btwn Keisha and Royce. oonu tuh rass craven... are you implying we should use our imagination.... Eeeehhhnnn. Mek mi stop post nuh. fagive me, a joke me a mek. Me nuh waan de yardie women fe kill me and run oe affa de tread. Sen me to de corner please but no tap post.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 19:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 4 2008, 08:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> she a let wi out early .. ow tony full a words sooo.. Good fi yuh my girl.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 19:06:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 08:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Jun 4 2008, 07:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> was wondering cause we were not at the meeting btwn Keisha and Royce. oonu tuh rass craven... are you implying we should use our imagination....	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 19:03:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 07:54 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Jun 4 2008, 07:20 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> and then.... hey Jawi babylove Hi Sis! Whaa appenin? Yuh good babes? QUOTE (Marlita @ Jun 4 2008, 07:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> woo hoo! Ok who is keisha. I need to go back and read. I cant remember where we left off. Hey Shrewdie, you about to be on your way outta here soon right? Keisha is a new character in the story. was wondering cause we were not at the meeting btwn Keisha and Royce.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 18:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	QUOTE (shrewdgal @ Jun 4 2008, 07:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (jawi876 @ Jun 4 2008, 06:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> "Royce? Can you hear me? "Keisha questioned. "Eh? Whaa? Oh! Yeah man. Yeah. I guess I will see you some other time then. Have a good…" "Royce, listen to me. I asked if you could come by and pick me up. I'm bored and lonely. Honestly, I'll take you any way I can have you at this point. Did I tell you how sexy you sound with your husky Jamaican accent? I can wait to tast…errr see you. How soon can you get here?" "Eeeehhhnnn. Mek mi come fe yuh now. Mi soon come. Get sexy fe mi nuh. I want to take you out." Royce grumbled harshly. He could feel his nature rising and his blood boiling from the small compliment. He tossed the phone on his small bed, and went to find his best outfit. Royce grabbed a washcloth, soap and clean boxers and headed for the pipe behind his house. When he re-entered his house, his phone let him know that he had missed a call. Royce looked at the missed call display, and sighed. His heart raced, fearing the worse, as he redialed Keisha's number. "Royce, are you on the way? I'm sorry if I sound too anxious…it's just…*clears her throat and laughs nervously*…just that I uh…I." "What's wrong Keisha? I was heading out of the door just now. Did you change your mind? "Change my mind? Hell no! I-I-I mean no…not at all. I've been waiting for you to call me, and I can't wait to see you. I was beginning to think that you had changed your mind about me." "No baby. Mi soon come. I can't wait to see you too. I will ring you when I reach so you can meet me outside." "Okay baby. Royce? Please hurry." Keisha responded. its baaaaackk yesssssss (clapping hands in excitement) QUOTE (Marlita @ Jun 4 2008, 07:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> woo hoo! Ok who is keisha. I need to go back and read. I cant remember where we left off. Hey Shrewdie, you about to be on your way outta here soon right? me eida but me can use me imagination. this story sweet nuh rass	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-04 18:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	Soon forward, she should say	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-06-02 21:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Existing in Shades of Blue	bump	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-05-31 18:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Touch Base with everyone and updates	Yeah Bailey, I hope you hear something soon.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-08-02 12:25:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Immunizations!	QUOTE (bailey402 @ Aug 26 2008, 11:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hi Fam, As you know we have been blessed with a interview next month. We puting all are stuff together and I have a question about the immunizations. My husband called to set a appt with the doctors and they told him to have $100 to $300 dollars. I guess the $300 is if he needs shots. He got a number of shots because of his job. To his job concern he is up to date on his shots. Do any one know what immunizations he need? Thank You Fam, Bailey402 Hey girl, so glad to hear that you have gotten an interview date. All the best of luck to you both	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-08-27 07:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Awaiting Immigrant visa Appointment	QUOTE (sunshine08 @ Jul 19 2008, 07:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks for the info but they did not ask for passport size pictures they ask for visa pictures. I will certainly check out that forum. GBU Whatever pic they ask for..as long as it was sent in. You should hear a cased complete in the next couple of weeks.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-07-19 21:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Awaiting Immigrant visa Appointment	QUOTE (sunshine08 @ Jul 19 2008, 08:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> ty guys. I am not married and I am over 21years old and my mom is a US citizen. She send of the DS-230 package last Friday 11th of July, 08. Sunshine, welcome to VJ. The DS-230 goes to the NVC not USCIS. All that info about your age and marital status does not matter at this time. Once the DS-230 is requested and sent to the NVC, it is processed like any other. IT means that a visa number is available for you and they are ready to process it. The next step is for you to hear a case complete and get an interview date if there was no problems with the DS-230. Did your mom send 2 passport pics with the DS-230? If all is well you should hear a case complete soon and then wait for an interview date to be assigned. I think you will have a long wait for an interview date as there are people on here in the yardie thread who are waiting since March to get an interview date. Come join us in the yardie thread in the regional forums and you will get great advice and support. I wish you all the best and good luck with getting an early interview date.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-07-19 09:44:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Seriously...I can't access the Yaardie Thread!	QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Sep 14 2008, 09:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (RoxcieJoe @ Sep 14 2008, 09:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Sep 14 2008, 09:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Somebody PLEASE help me get back to the Yaardie thread! I don't know what happened or what I did! Mrs. P on the top right side it says option click there, and then click on standard . okay Thanks Roxcie! That did it! It's like my life flashed before my eyes! Now how do I get the page numbers to come back at the top. Can't see what page I'm on This happed to me today and I felt the same way	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-09-15 16:50:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	police reports	QUOTE (acrow @ Sep 11 2008, 12:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks. We will plan to take a trip down there. Another quick question: It has ben a month now since the NVC has sent our case down to Kingston, but the embassy is still reporting that it has not yet received it. Should I be alarmed that the case has been lost in the mail? No worries about it getting lost in the mail as it is sent to the embassy by DHL which is like UPS or Fedex. It takes some time for them to have it entered into their system. It also depends on which section of the embassy you contacted because one handles non-immigrant visas and one handles immigrant visas. Hopefully you will hear something soon	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-09-12 06:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Anxiously a waiting airpak delivery	QUOTE (Gooden @ Oct 6 2008, 12:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Oct 6 2008, 09:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Same thing with us. Andre got the call on the Friday after the interview; but didn't hear the message till Monday. While 2 weeks is not out of the norm yet, I would call if I were you. You don't want them to return it to the embassy cause they weren't able to deliver. Thanks, he called Airpak. They said they received it and it will be delivered later in this week, great. You should have asked the to have him come pick it up from them and then he would not have had to wait for them to deliver it.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-06 15:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Custody	QUOTE (payxibka @ Oct 9 2008, 04:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (PortlandAngel @ Oct 9 2008, 03:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> After everything he told me about their relationship, I told him to get a DNA test once the baby was born. He still has not, everyone that has seen the baby said she looks like him personally I don't think she looks like him. When they do the medical will they do a DNA test? His name is on the birth certificate. In his heart he is convince she is his, I have told him that if I (not to be selfish) have to deal with all this baby-mama stuff I need to 100% convince she is his daughter. I love kids, and I would not have a problem helping him raised her. But he doesn't understand fully the expense of kids here, neither one of us have family in NYC so there is no free baby sitting. She would need to be on my health insurance and all the other stuff. I think he is starting to understand, if her mother agrees to let him take her, I would lean more towards bringing her the closer to end of the time limit that we do have, just to get ourselves better organized. AFAIK, unless there is a question as to paternity there is typically no reason to do a DNA test.... A DNA test is only required if the father's name was added a few years after the child was born and close to filing the petition and this is done to avoid false immigration benefits.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-10 09:37:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Do I have everything?	I am so excited for you guys...Finally all the pain and heartake of dealing with the embassy and immigration is coming to an end. I am so happy that you all will soon be reunited with your spouses....I wish you all good luck with the rest of your journey.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-13 21:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	JA-OCTOBER 21, INTERVIEWS	Good luck to all the ladies with October interview dates. May your day be successful and may your journey together be prosperous and filled with all you expect it to be.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-18 10:25:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	We got approved also :)	JSKI37, just wanted to send my congrats to you and yours on your approval and may God contunie to bless, guide and protect you as you venture on this life long journey together.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-25 07:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (Unruly Gal @ Oct 30 2008, 10:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> K1 vets -- I need your help. I just submitted the initial packet earlier this month, so it will probably be a few more months before NOA2. But I'm going to JA in two weeks -- is there anything I could be doing while in JA to prepare for the next step? Are there documents that I should bring down for my SO to have in advance of sending in the second packet? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks. DS-230; 156; 157 etc to get his siggy on.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-31 11:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (justucia @ Oct 30 2008, 10:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> wah gwan ladies! just want to introduce myself~ jomo told me about this place- and now dropping in to check it all out i can tell you have a pretty awesome community here- its been fun reading all your stories i'm in a relationship with an amazing guy from jamaica- 1 1/2 years going strong im trying to figure out the best situation for our future, (k-1 or CR-1) im finding this board an awesome resource. anyways, thanks for having me look forward to sharing this experience, jomo has been more than awesome with providing info already Welcome to the yardie thread, Justucia	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-31 11:47:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	Good afternoon ladies; Been loggedon all morning but have two very critically ill patients and have been busy all morning and just now sitting down to catch up with you all. Sunnnnnnnyyyyyyy. Today is D-day!!!!!!! I am excited and it is not even me...lol I hope everyone else have a wonderful and productive day.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-31 11:36:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	Hey ladies; I am pooped and gonna call it a night because I have to work again tomorrow and my feet and legs hurt like crazy. GOOD NIGHT ALL. Catch you in the morrows (waving)	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 22:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Oct 30 2008, 04:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Claire, you still relaxing? Okay. I'm going home...I'm in HEAT Watch the one YARDS.... Girl that only lasted until 2 pm. I transferred one patient to hospice and one the Chapel Hill to get a heart transplant. That took up the whole afternoon getting all the paperwork and logistics about transferring straight. Ane before he left I got to admit an 82 yo who they are testing for meningitis. I am tired to the bone and feet hurt, but the struggle must go on. I can't sleep though, so here I am on VJ catching up Edited by clairern, 30 October 2008 - 09:39 PM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 21:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (jakeswife @ Oct 30 2008, 02:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> let me say this again. THEY ARE ASSIGNING DATES FOR DECEMBER. MINE IS DECEMBER 11, AT 9AM This must be real exciting for you.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 15:33:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	shrewdy i was told by jgay80 that you were the one that gave her the idea to check with nvc. i was thanking her because if i didn't see that she got an interview date i wouldn't have called nvc and found out about my date as well. good looking out girl. [/quote] Hey Jakeswife. Congrats on getting your interview date	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 13:10:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Oct 30 2008, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> How come on the days I have nothing to do at work it is quiet here Where is everyone? Don't make me dig up some controversial subject to get people all heated I fefel the same way Yards, here with nothing to do and no one on here talking	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 13:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Oct 30 2008, 11:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 08:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> HEY BABY GIRL..HOW DID IT GO QUOTE (Islandwoman @ Oct 30 2008, 08:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Morning Yards - how did you make out yesterday? QUOTE (clairern @ Oct 30 2008, 08:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Thanks Yards. How did the oral surgeon visit go yesterday??? Thanks y'all for asking It didn't go very well. They say that they could do this surgery thing for $950 (insurance doesn't cover any of it) to try to save the tooth and put on a crown but there is no guarantee it will work and based on everything it will most likely fail in the next couple months or years. Just no way of knowing. Or they can take out the tooth and call it a loss. So that is what I decided - just have them take it out. I don't have $950 to spend on something that is going to fail down the road anyways. So I go in on Tuesday (election day) and they will take out the tooth and do some sort of clean out thing to the roots cause there is infection and leave it at that. Can you believe the oral surgeon wouldn't just take the tooth out yesterday?! "sorry but we only do root canal procedures not extractions" - so back to the other dentist I go This whole thing is ridiculous. I can opt to get an implant down the line if I want but those are mass expensive as well Luckily it is way in the back so it won't be anything visible. I can't wait for this all to be over. If I didn't like going to the dentist before I sure hate it now. Girl, I am sorry to hear this but you should get an implant because your other teeth are going to space out trying to fill up the spce that is there. I hoep you can get some solace out of all this	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 13:05:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (Yardiewife @ Oct 30 2008, 11:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Oct 30 2008, 05:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 08:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good morning Clairey....ur right..i was surprised to see no one I don't know what happened because some of us are usually up at the crack of dawn and on VJ touching base. I know Lawny is usually really early. I wonder if she is ok... QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 08:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I'm here Clairey...u get a break huh...mek di newbie do di wuk She very independent too, so I will be here on Vj all day....lol Hi Claire Glad you will have an easy day today. Enjoy! Thanks Yards. How did the oral surgeon visit go yesterday??? QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 11:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Oct 30 2008, 11:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> WAIT DEH WAIT DEH..CLAIREY..WAPEN TO MI..MI A CHOP UP LIVA...TUH BAXIDE...GILL A COME A MI YAAD FI THANKSGIVING.. Afta me nuh knoa wey yuh live??? Me ongly knoa sey Gill live a Long Island and me a go a Rosedale and that nuh too far away. Me a go falla har to see the kids dem.. and me a go bring yuh VJ cussing buddy wid me... Yuh knoa who me a talk right????	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 10:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin (part 8)	QUOTE (Hotlegz @ Oct 30 2008, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> WAIT DEH WAIT DEH..CLAIREY..WAPEN TO MI..MI A CHOP UP LIVA...TUH BAXIDE...GILL A COME A MI YAAD FI THANKSGIVING.. Afta me nuh knoa wey yuh live??? Me ongly knoa sey Gill live a Long Island and me a go a Rosedale and that nuh too far away. Me a go falla har to see the kids dem.. and me a go bring yuh VJ cussing buddy wid me...	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-10-30 10:28:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 8 2008, 06:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 7 2008, 09:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Jomo @ Mar 7 2008, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Claire...... Has he voiced any objections before? About moving to the US, I mean? Do you think he had an argument or something with his father that could make him hesitant to move? He could just be scared. It is a big step for anyone. I think at the very least, you need to have some good sit down, heart to hearts with him to find out what the problem is. I absolutely think you are in the most perfect situation. With those of us on K-1's & K-3's we are given little time to live together and make that smooth transition from living apart to marrying and being together almost all the time at first. Someone I know was saying she wished they gave us 4 months before the K-1 expired. I said 6 would be even better. The transition is just so sudden and difficult to work with. Anyhow, I think you are the luckiest girl I have heard of in a long time. Yes, use the time to see how it all flows. That is a brilliant thing to do. And, no, since his father is directly involved in this one, I think it was appropriate to discuss with him. I am almost thinking you should've said all that to Mike first though. I think I would definately discuss it before he finds out from his father. JG, thank you for your openmindednes and great advice. I am happy that you have not voiced what I was thinking. That he might have someone there with him at nights why it's been difficult for him to talk to me. Initially, when we talked about him coming and the progress of the visa petitoni, I got so excited, but he was like nonchalant and stated that he is not in a hurry to leave JA. He also said that he had a good job and lives in a good home and is among his family that he grew up with. The only good thing that he said was that he wanted to be with me and that makes hime want to move. He wanted to drag thing out a bit longer so maybe he is apprehensive about leaving, uprooting the life that he is used to,to try to adapt to a whole new country, lifestyle and living with a womna after not having done so in years. Whenever I try to talk to him about the changes that are about to happen, he clams up. His step-mom suggested the same thing that you did. when he comes to Florida, I should come visit him and sit down and talk about the changes and how it is going to affect him and hoe it is making him feel. Thank you also for saying I am fortunate to be in this situation, cause I feel the same. I want to take that time to get to know him at a closer distance before I make the big step to live with him. Thank you once again, you smart woman you. Claire Stress of this whole process has a funny way of making you doubt yourself all the time. If you really do think like that, you need to talk to him about it. Only he can help you get over that feeling. If you really belive in your relationship and this man, you will know that you are being foolish for doubting him. If you still doubt, you need to work through all those feelings as to why you feel like that, what you are seeing and feeling to make yourself feel like that, and if you need to worry about it and eventually do something about it. I don't belive in putting up with a bunch a ####### for a man who is not worth it. But, I also don't believe in needlessly punishing a good man for my own insecurities. You seem like a beautiful person, Claire, and I believe that entitles you to everything you ever dreamed of. Do what you need to do to achieve that. QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 7 2008, 09:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Mar 7 2008, 04:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 7 2008, 03:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Well guys; I have been logged on all morning but have not been able to catch up with the goings on (I will later). Here is my issue---- Bear with me, this is gonna be long.....sigh Mike and I were introduced back in March 8 2007 by my sis-in-law. I went to Ja to meet him in April and then again in October. After we met for the first time, it was an instant connection and we found that we had a lot in common in regards to what our expectations are in a relationship. We grew up a couple of miles apart from each other, we are the same age--he is older by 2 months. He is a Seventh-Day Adventist. I was born one. We were both married and are now divorced. We are both educated and have great conversations. When I visited him, I did what anyone in a relationship would do, brought him gifts (it was around his birthday) and when I got back home and he lost his job after hurricaine Dean, I helped him out financially. After I met him I found that he was everything I wanted in a life partner. I started to look into this VJ and found this site that offered a wealth of information. As we continued to get to know each other, I told him that I wanted us to be together for the rest of our lives and he told me he wanted the same thing. When I mentioned to him about the ways we could go about achieving that in regards to the fiance visa, he told me that his father had filed a petition for him way back in 2000 and he has not heard anything about it. He went as far as to give me copies of his petition and his father's number and asked that I followup on it for him. That made me really happy because the process was already in place. After I contacted his father and got his info I called USCIS got his NVC case number, I started to followup and was asked by him after explanation from me, to be his agent. Since then I have taken care of all correspondence to and from NVC and all fees have been paid by me. I do not know if you all remember how stressed out I was earlier this year, about the DS-230 and police report? Well, we have finally gotten over the hurdle of having case complete. Well, I called him last night to tell him the good news and he was all nonchalant and not too responsive to me. I asked him if everthing was alright and he said everthing was. I then said what was the matter then and he said "I want to go to sleep". I was very perturbed and pissed off because I find that very unusual a reaction for a situation like this. Lately, as I stated in some post before, we have not been talking that much. He is hot and cold towards me. when I call him during the day at work, everything is alright and we have a graet conversation. When I call him at night (I try not to call him after 9:30pm--he goes to bed then) he is not too eager to talk to me and I find that disturbing. I know what all has been said here on VJ and in the past few pages of posts--but I am here wondering what the heck is going on. I called his father and step-mom last night and told them how I felt and told them that if and when he get the visa, I do not want him to come to my home. They should have him come to Florida and stay a while with them and I will see how things are and waht happens then. I want to wait to see if this behavior is just out of fraustration or what and will things change after he is here. What do you all think about this and am I wrong in telling his father what I did? Your thoughts and reaction to this would be really appreciated. Sorry for the long post, I have no-one else to share things like this with and I am counting on my VJ sistas to give a listening ear and shoulder to lean on Well, I feel like there could be several things going on here. I know he hasn't said anything yet...but is it possible that he could be going through some family issue or something at work? I know when my husband begins to feel really burdened with frustrations with his family or work, then he can be a bit ornery. And unfortunately, he doesn't let me know right away. I've learned to ask what is wrong, and he will say "everyting's alright", even though I know it's not. But I've learned that he will come to me in his own time, when he's able to talk about what's going on with him. I allow him to have his "man period" every now and then, because I know that I am not always the kindest or best to him when I'm having a hard time, and he gives me the time and space that I need when I need it. We've really gotten good at knowing "when to push and when not to push". If you have a gut instinct that something else may be going on, then by all means...GO WITH YOUR GUT!! I think it's good that he actually has somewhere else to go when he gets here instead of coming directly to your home, but my question is, how far are you from Florida? If/when he does come, do you think that you not allowing him to come to your home will create even more stress and tension? In the end though I think you should do what you feel is best for you and your relationship. And remember that it will all work out the way it is supposed to. I do believe that you should have this conversation with him though and let him know your intentions so there will be NO SURPRISES...and who knows...maybe that will open the door to conversation regarding the difficulties that you have been experiencing lately. Good luck. And I'm here for you!! Thank you Mrs. Palmer. I sometimes think he is fraustrated and also scared. He got married to this women 10 years ago and she moved to Canada with all promises to file for him and till today, he is still in JA and divirced. I sometimes think he is apprehensive about starting life with someone new not knowing what to expect. His father lives in Daytona Beach and I live in North Carolina. Couple hours by plane and as I have stated before, they have invited me to come and vist when he gets there so we can have a sit down, whether with him alone or with them in attendance. A couple hours by plane for you or him and FREE NATION-WIDE LONG DISTANCE telephone! That, in itself is a thing of beauty! It sure is	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-09 10:31:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 20 2008, 09:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (clairern @ Mar 20 2008, 09:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 20 2008, 06:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Guys, I need your prayers once again! Ok, so I am one my way to drop off the $$ for Ken's room!! I decide to check Craigslist one more time... Guys, I found an 2 bedroom apartment RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MY KIDS SCHOOL, right around the corner from my Dad's house for...$1200 (utilities INCLUUDED)!!! Guys, it is like G-d sent this just for me!! My biggest struggle is finding a place that I can afford and still keep my kids in a good school district! Unfortunately on LI, where your kids go to school depends on where you live! Guys, I AM BEGGING YOU PRAY FOR US...PLEASE!!! Instead of Ken moving to a room all by himself 10-15 minutes away...WE could move into our OWN place APRIL 1st!!! And start living as a family! Please pray that G-d touches the landlord's heart and chooses us to be his new tenants!!! My boys would NOT be uprooted from their current school and we would be able to save for a house and I would be around the corner from my Dad (he's getting older...and you never know)! Thanks Guys...love you! Gill Gill, that is such good news. I really hope and pray that this works out for you. I did not like the idea of hime living apart from you and he is new to this. Good luck, I know you will get it QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 20 2008, 08:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 20 2008, 06:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Guys, I need your prayers once again! Ok, so I am one my way to drop off the $$ for Ken's room!! I decide to check Craigslist one more time... Guys, I found an 2 bedroom apartment RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MY KIDS SCHOOL, right around the corner from my Dad's house for...$1200 (utilities INCLUUDED)!!! Guys, it is like G-d sent this just for me!! My biggest struggle is finding a place that I can afford and still keep my kids in a good school district! Unfortunately on LI, where your kids go to school depends on where you live! Guys, I AM BEGGING YOU PRAY FOR US...PLEASE!!! Instead of Ken moving to a room all by himself 10-15 minutes away...WE could move into our OWN place APRIL 1st!!! And start living as a family! Please pray that G-d touches the landlord's heart and chooses us to be his new tenants!!! My boys would NOT be uprooted from their current school and we would be able to save for a house and I would be around the corner from my Dad (he's getting older...and you never know)! Thanks Guys...love you! Gill Gill, I'm in the same boat a you baby girl. I go to sign my lease next month. For my SANITY I had to get out of that house. The house I was going to purchase the people changed their mind. I'll pray that things work out for you and Ken. I had a bit of a struggle to get my apartment, they were going back and forth on whether they should approve me or not, because I own a house (I didn't understand that). Girl, I just started to cry. Went home got on my knees an prayed. That's all I could do. I have so much going on right now in my life with the K-1 process, finiding a place to live, finding renters, packing, moving, finding a before and after care for my son, getting him registered for school and dealing with my VERY disrepectful EX -- I feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown. Many times I feel like running away, just to take a break from the stressors in my life, but I sit back and reflect and look at what God has blessed me with. I'm healthy I have a healthy and loving son I can wake up every morning and get out of bed and stand on my 2 feet I have a great job with excellent benefits (so that I can provide for myself and my son) I have roof over my head I have family and friends that love me and want the best for me in life In a few months or so I'll marry the person I want to share the rest of my life with. Gill, I as I ask God to order my steps, I ask him to order you steps as well. So, to my VJ sisters God has a plan for each of us. He wants us to fulfill and he'll provide the STRENGTH we need to carry out his will. Okay. Now, mi hungri Lawny, mi woulda tink by now you woulda already eat yu three course breakfast Claire, I'm so damn hungry I'm about the ROAST one of the birds that's on the balcony at my job. No!!!!No!!! Dem full a disease. Marcel woulda dead if anyting happen to yuh I am still in bed.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-20 08:48:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 20 2008, 06:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Guys, I need your prayers once again! Ok, so I am one my way to drop off the $$ for Ken's room!! I decide to check Craigslist one more time... Guys, I found an 2 bedroom apartment RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MY KIDS SCHOOL, right around the corner from my Dad's house for...$1200 (utilities INCLUUDED)!!! Guys, it is like G-d sent this just for me!! My biggest struggle is finding a place that I can afford and still keep my kids in a good school district! Unfortunately on LI, where your kids go to school depends on where you live! Guys, I AM BEGGING YOU PRAY FOR US...PLEASE!!! Instead of Ken moving to a room all by himself 10-15 minutes away...WE could move into our OWN place APRIL 1st!!! And start living as a family! Please pray that G-d touches the landlord's heart and chooses us to be his new tenants!!! My boys would NOT be uprooted from their current school and we would be able to save for a house and I would be around the corner from my Dad (he's getting older...and you never know)! Thanks Guys...love you! Gill Gill, that is such good news. I really hope and pray that this works out for you. I did not like the idea of hime living apart from you and he is new to this. Good luck, I know you will get it QUOTE (Trelawny20853 @ Mar 20 2008, 08:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 20 2008, 06:01 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Guys, I need your prayers once again! Ok, so I am one my way to drop off the $$ for Ken's room!! I decide to check Craigslist one more time... Guys, I found an 2 bedroom apartment RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET FROM MY KIDS SCHOOL, right around the corner from my Dad's house for...$1200 (utilities INCLUUDED)!!! Guys, it is like G-d sent this just for me!! My biggest struggle is finding a place that I can afford and still keep my kids in a good school district! Unfortunately on LI, where your kids go to school depends on where you live! Guys, I AM BEGGING YOU PRAY FOR US...PLEASE!!! Instead of Ken moving to a room all by himself 10-15 minutes away...WE could move into our OWN place APRIL 1st!!! And start living as a family! Please pray that G-d touches the landlord's heart and chooses us to be his new tenants!!! My boys would NOT be uprooted from their current school and we would be able to save for a house and I would be around the corner from my Dad (he's getting older...and you never know)! Thanks Guys...love you! Gill Gill, I'm in the same boat a you baby girl. I go to sign my lease next month. For my SANITY I had to get out of that house. The house I was going to purchase the people changed their mind. I'll pray that things work out for you and Ken. I had a bit of a struggle to get my apartment, they were going back and forth on whether they should approve me or not, because I own a house (I didn't understand that). Girl, I just started to cry. Went home got on my knees an prayed. That's all I could do. I have so much going on right now in my life with the K-1 process, finiding a place to live, finding renters, packing, moving, finding a before and after care for my son, getting him registered for school and dealing with my VERY disrepectful EX -- I feel like I'm going to have a nervous breakdown. Many times I feel like running away, just to take a break from the stressors in my life, but I sit back and reflect and look at what God has blessed me with. I'm healthy I have a healthy and loving son I can wake up every morning and get out of bed and stand on my 2 feet I have a great job with excellent benefits (so that I can provide for myself and my son) I have roof over my head I have family and friends that love me and want the best for me in life In a few months or so I'll marry the person I want to share the rest of my life with. Gill, I as I ask God to order my steps, I ask him to order you steps as well. So, to my VJ sisters God has a plan for each of us. He wants us to fulfill and he'll provide the STRENGTH we need to carry out his will. Okay. Now, mi hungri Lawny, mi woulda tink by now you woulda already eat yu three course breakfast	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-20 08:08:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (JaEnglishGirl @ Mar 19 2008, 09:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> PRAISE BE TO GOD!!!!!!!!! Application Type: I485, APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS Current Status: Case Transfered to Another Office for Processing On March 19, 2008, we transferred this case I485 APPLICATION TO REGISTER PERMANENT RESIDENCE OR TO ADJUST STATUS to our CALIFORNIA SERVICE CENTER location for processing and sent you a notice explaining this action. Please follow the instructions provided on the notice. We will notify you by mail when a decision is made. If you move while this case is pending, call customer service at 1-800-375-5283 to update your address. You can use our processing dates to estimate when your case may be processed by following the link below. You can also receive automatic e-mail updates as we process your case by registering in the link below. Congrats on your approval English. Looks like you will be approved without an interview!!!	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-20 08:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	VJ seems to be acting up--all of us are double posting!!!! Edited by clairern, 19 March 2008 - 08:00 PM.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-19 19:59:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 19 2008, 07:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> GOOD NEWS GUYS.... AIRPACK CALLED KEN TODAY!!!!! HE CAN PICK UP HIS VISA TOMORROW!!!! Although, he will not becoming until April 2nd! ...because he needs to get KJ's Birth Certificate and HIS BLASTED Driver's License!!! Well, at least he got it...so I can go ahead and book the ticket! Bless, Gill YEAH!!!!!! QUOTE (Deyoungting @ Mar 19 2008, 07:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> GOOD NEWS GUYS.... AIRPACK CALLED KEN TODAY!!!!! HE CAN PICK UP HIS VISA TOMORROW!!!! Although, he will not becoming until April 2nd! ...because he needs to get KJ's Birth Certificate and HIS BLASTED Driver's License!!! Well, at least he got it...so I can go ahead and book the ticket! Bless, Gill	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-19 19:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	Aussie hair products are good!!!	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-19 17:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies, at home and a farrin' (Part 6)	QUOTE (kimmykashi @ Mar 19 2008, 04:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> mi gone a di ppl dem class..wid all this this blasted rain Girl don't complain about the rain, we are in a drought in NC right now and everytime a little sprinkle falls, everybody jump for joy. We can't wash our cars, are being advised to not flush when it's yellow, only when it's brown (if it's yellow let it mellow, if it's brown flush it down) The ppl are mad.	clairern	Female	Jamaica	2008-03-19 17:50:00