ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
Asia: East and PacificJoint sponsor for K1. Acceptable?

Yeah, of course. And, also try a co-sponsor, it can't hurt. What I also did was I wrote out a page long letter explaining how my fiancee would be supported after her arrival into the States. Try to find someone who will offer her a job, have him/her write out a prospective employment letter for her. Make sure the notorize it.


Good point on "job offering". However, keep in mind, that offer should state its intention for future available openning. Reason: Your K-1 will not be able to work until she obtains her EAD or Green Card, whichever comes first :) Typically, will take 4-6 months for one to start working with the proper ID's.

randh and all,

Think like a CO as much as you can, in the end, most of them are pretty reasonable! Ask the question: how can I show them I can support and take care of my new wife :) If she is approved to come to America???? We both know you won't have your parents supporting YOU and your K-1 once she arrives, so tell them how you would!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-05 07:09:00
Asia: East and PacificJoint sponsor for K1. Acceptable?
Asset will not guarantee for approval but will help. Welcome to VJ!
Would you mind to share a little more about your case. They delay your case because of your level of income, meaning you make less than the poverty guideline last year and the coming years? You have child support, alimony payment? How many people will come with her? HCMC takes into consideration of your total gross income and how would that match up to your number of dependences. What did you show them as your proof of income? Tax transcripts? W-2? ITR?

Bottom line is: HCMC wants to see how you will be able to support your new wife once she is here in America. If you can work your story to answer that question, most likely they will approve. Co-sponsor is still accepted and will always be accepted by LAWS. The only tricky part is the C.O. will have total power to accept it or not based strictly on the individual case. For example: Medical student, no incomes but will make 100's thousand dollars a year when they graduate, will need and will be accepted if they use a co-sponsor! As oppose to one who works at a nailsalon, no health insurance, making $60K/yrs cash, but only claim $10K in ITR, then decide to use Co-sponsor who is the uncle of the cousin's mother-in-law. That could bring great suspision to the C.O. during the interview. All of these examples to show you each case has its own soul, the is no silver bullet to solve this puzzle.

Again, the big question here to you from the C.O. is: "Can you show any evidence of how you will be able to support her on your own if I approve her Visa and she will come to America, and guarantee that she will not get on welfare? Make me feel warm and fuzzy inside with your proven plan to support her when she comes to America."

That is when you show them your tax returns, your 1099, your bank statements, your co-sponsor etc. And how you start your 2nd job last weekend to up your income blah blah blah... you see where I'm going with this? Tell a convincing story with good plan to back it up!

Good luck and again, welcome!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-02 07:47:00
Asia: East and PacificCan someone please post the link to check interviews in VIETNAM?
The rude caller who calls 1000 times would cause the employee at the consulate turns into a rude responder soon enough! I know I would be! Personally, I found the email communication channel is the most affective way of obtaining information and correspondence with HCMC. Plus, it leaves an audit-trail for future reference. Phone call is too easy for the workers at HCMC to tell you whatever they want to get you off the phone and plus it costs money for those long distance on-hold calls. I don't waste my resource on thing like that... Wait... what am I doing here... :innocent: :innocent: :innocent:

Emailing HCMC has my vote!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-06 06:47:00
Asia: East and PacificInterview Date
Anhmap and mtdtd

Good luck and stay laser sharp focus on the details but never lose sight of the "Big Picture" :D It's good to here from you guys....
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-02-27 06:44:00
Asia: East and PacificVietnam Passport City of Issuance

For the new electronic DS-156 the notes from the HCMC Consulate are very specific about only listing the city of issuance. My fiance tells me that is not shown on her passport. Is this shown on some, but not others?

Any guidance here? I don't want this to be the snafu on Interview day!!

Thanks!!



The city of issuance should be on the passport, right under the "Authority". Mine says "Passport Agency San Francisco". This should also be the same on your Naturalization Certificate.


tway22,

I think what AnhMap's asking is his wife's passport.

Anh Map,

Your wife's passport should say something like: N?i C?p/Place of Issue: C?c Qu?n Lý Xu?t Nh?p C?nh
Crossed breed between Immigration and Foreigner Management Office, under the State Department but has something to do with the Interior Department, all comes down to "The POLICE" :)
Your wife can put down the place where she picks up her Passport, most likely HCMC itself. Unless she is from the North, then Ha Noi.
We put down: HCM City for place of issue, no trouble! The consulate knows there are only a few places where you can have your vietnamese passport issued.
Good luck!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-07 07:37:00
Asia: East and PacificWe got approved!!!
The day that USCIS puts on the email/letter of approval. That's your date to use for Timeline :) :thumbs:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-09 07:17:00
Asia: East and PacificWe got approved!!!
Amen and Amen!!!!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-08 07:58:00
Asia: East and PacificGetting her nails done
YEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!

You make my day!!!!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-12 06:21:00
Asia: East and PacificI-134 notarizations?
I'd have my I-134 done and ready a month before the interview date. Must understand "notary" is nothing but: I notarized this document WAS SIGNED by this person XYZ upon checking for the proper and matching ID's". nothing more than that, it doesn't make the document you sign OFFICIAL. No big fuzz over it really!
Again, you can have anything notarized by a public notary. He/she just states: i see with my own eyes the person who signs this document is who he claims he is via his id card. :)
Keep in mind, 401K is not liquid asset, stock are not either. Borrowing and selling your 401k/stock are big deal, it might help a little bit in your case but it only shows how financially desparate you are if you have to resort to your retirement fund. Just show your annual income (salary/paystub) that would do. IMO. Keep in mind, the CO wants to see how you will take care of your new spouse, it's another expense and liability added to your existing ones. Prove it and you're a step closer to the next PINK slip baby! :D
Good luck!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-12 07:36:00
Asia: East and PacificInterview Rally For tway22
Second lurker... what chagot? :lol:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-02-13 06:48:00
Asia: East and PacificThe changing of ward's name where i am situated will affect my paper work?
Correct, including the letter from your local official stating that they change Ward 12 to 9.
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-14 08:01:00
Asia: East and PacificThe changing of ward's name where i am situated will affect my paper work?
What you should do, IMO, is to have the letter/notice/announcement from the local official in regarding of the change in WARD included in your file. But from now, on going, any paperwork you will fill out with Ward 9 as your ward. If the consulate wonders why, they can see the letter/notice/annoucement from the local officials. Personally, I don't believe they will make you to refile the whole thing with the new ward. Addendum document would be ok.

Note: your NOA2 will have Ward 12, but when you file for your P3 and P4, make sure you put down as ward 9 and included the announcement of change letter, hope you have that letter. To make sure the C.O. won't miss it, you should also write a letter to explain why Ward 9 now, but not 12. I am pretty sure the Consulate is also fully aware of the change in the local, especially in Saigon.

Good luck and I don't see why you should lose any sleep over it.

chuck and kim :thumbs:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-12 07:24:00
Asia: East and PacificDropping off Packet 3 at Consulate
Date stamp is for the receiving date/time. Base on that date, they will schedule your fiance's interview.
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-10 09:36:00
Asia: East and PacificDropping off Packet 3 at Consulate
Frontdesk is where you get your bag checked out. Security desk rather.
Then you can proceed to the non-air-conditioner (super hot) area where you will be directed to a window/booth where they will ask what the heck are you here for blah blah blah then you tell them to return P3. Then they may or may not yell at your fiance "why didn't you mail it in like everyone else" (uncalled for, but they just want to flex their tiny power) hahahaha. No big deal is what i'm trying to say, just brush it off and get your P3 in, ask for a reciept if possible, check if they stamp the DATE on the envelop, that will determine when your interview date gets scheduled, that how it was done in the old days.

good luck and relax.. you're moving right along the common path. :thumbs:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-09 07:12:00
Asia: East and PacificAOS Approved!
Congrats, this is awesome news! Funny, your wife was approved the same day mine did last year 3/8!!!! Kim and I had very good memories of March 8: 2005 - Visa approval, 2006 - GC approval.

Time to get her a job!!!:)
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-16 06:39:00
Asia: East and PacificForgot to send one document
HCMC did ask for it in my case and others who filed 2-3 years back.
HCMC may no longer ask for one, but does not mean they won't.
If you can get one easily, get it. Or else, just wait until they delay your case and then go get one.
It's up to you really, I learned I have no control over a lot of issue in this process. It is recommended to cover all the basis and matters that are in your control. Sure, I would be doing EXTRA evidence and support documents, but what else could I do to make sure all T's are crossed and I's are dotted. The answer is: documents that were requested in the past by HCMC, may not be the case nowadays, I will have them TOO!
That's just me brother :) Rather be safe than sorry, I'm sure where AnhMap questioned it, he thought about it too and couldn't sleep :) So, again, if's easy to get one, get it! IMHO!

Chuck and Kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-16 11:13:00
Asia: East and PacificForgot to send one document
Anh Map,

Most important thing to remember: There is NO one single piece of paper will make or break your case, it is the totality of your evidence package that will.

HCMC will catch you missing the "unspoken" requirement document.
HCMC will ask for your Single Status Certificate.
HCMC will not interview your wife until she gets what they ask for.

Divorce Decreed does not prove you are single and available to be married. It shows that you were divorced to whomever you previously married, named listed on the Decreed. How do we know you are NOT currently married to someone else?

Single Status Certificate: both, USC and VNC must have.

s2convt: I think Anh Map is talking about the VISA approval, not just a petition approval of I-129F.
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-16 06:47:00
Asia: East and PacificInterview rally for Anh Map.
That right Anh Map,

Think big picture brother.... :thumbs:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-21 06:39:00
Asia: East and PacificInterview rally for Andrew & Thuy
My prayer is with you Andrew!!!!

About "pay to play" theory:
1. Vietnamese staff at HCMC is paid too much money and benefits to risk their job for any K-1 Visa seeker (thousands of them each year)
2. Vietnamese staff do not have the ability to impact the C.O.'s decision on the beneficary's visa approval
3. There is no "easy" C.O., or tougher ones. Just C.O. who will approve qualified and met all requirement case.
4. Money will not buy you a Visa to america via K-1, via HCMC, via Vietnamese staff.
5. Getting ahead of the line by paying $$$ to the Vietnamese staff, just to find out your beneficary/fiance will get a blue slip or green one. Do not believe this myth! Or you can pay me $500 and i'll get you in on the secret how to beat the C.O. at their own game. Joking... don't you start PM-ing me!!! hahaha
6. Feeling sorry for your fiance because she has to wait all day for her interview inside HCMC? Don't be, that should be the least of your worry, don't get caught paying some vietnamese staff to skip the long line, your fiance may be kicked out all together buddy. Plus, having her waiting long at the interview, would be the time for her to prepare, repeat her interview, mentally ready for the big moment of your future, or a long wait in AR.

The wait will do her some good, make her appreciate this whole journey even more, if not less.

just my thought!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-20 06:51:00
Asia: East and PacificBirth Certificate required for petitioner?
Here is what I understand about BC and various forms of a BC.

Original Birth Certificate is required for ALL parties when you deal with USCIS. Simple reason: you need to let them know who you are and actually proof of your origin. That's all the Birth Certificate does! Am I wrong?

Certified Copy of your BC: When you lost your original BC, the Court where you were born can issue a CERTIFIED second copy of your BC, as good as the first original one.

Notarized Photocopy of your BC: Take your original or certifed BC, make photocopy of it, bring the original/certified with you to a Public Notary Agent, he/she will look at both documents then stamp/seal/sign. Now you have a Notarized Photocopy of your BC, and all that means is: "I have seen the Original copy of this piece of paper, it is an idential copied document"

Since you ARE in Saigon right now, you can take your passport, go to HCMC, through the USC Service desk, ask for a Certified Copy Of Birth Certificate from the Consular himself. Cost me $50.00, 3 years ago! Make sure to bring your wife with you as well. They will ask if you obtain this Certifed copy of BC for marriage purpose, where is your wife, etc. They may even interview both of you right then and there, before issuing the BC.

Good luck,

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-23 06:25:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
Cool! :thumbs:
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-23 12:28:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
That's a $200 USD you'll never see again!
Coaching? Have these coaches been through the interview themselves? If they did, obviously they failed that's why the are still here in Vietnam. Listen to your brothers and sisters here on VJ who actually went through the interview and pass! Seem to me your fiance tries to run the show here, where you are the petitioner for her Visa. You would rather coaching her yourself, given the vast and up to date information you may find on VJ than having some "service" in VN telling your wife what to say and what to do. Note, what I say here come with a huge assumption toward you and your wife here. I don't know your background.

Another scenario where I see the service would be great: your wife is NOT living in Saigon, your wife can't read/write/understand English too well, you do not have time to work on the case with her, she doesn't have the time to fill and apply forms in VN also.

Which one is it?

Either way, good luck. If you need evidence where the Service would screw up your file by leaving vital and important document off your Package in preparation of the interview. Ask someone named mike72e on this board, he'll tell you a real story that happened to him. He did use the service!

Chuck and Kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-23 06:07:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
I would try to fill out the form as much as I could, if i'm stuck, VJ is always there for me to ask my question. For the most part, look at the Example Forms, that should give you some idea how and what to fill in the blanks.

Thanks,

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-07 07:40:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
For the record, Thai Pham never contacted me and was given wrong information!!! HAHAHAHA
Just kidding Thai Pham... where are you in Philly? I'm in Philly!
What people in Philly recommended you to hire a lawyer? Not me for sure!!!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-05 13:02:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
I would walk away, in fact, run as fast as I can if ANYONE who is not the C.O. interviews my wife, guarantee her visa approval. Those are liars and con-man who wants to take you for a fool. Sorry for the harsh word but, if your parents in law want their daughter to come to america, it's best that they listen to you, the american! This process is 100% up to the american petitioner (i.e. you) and the Consulate (again, american). There isn't much that anyone in VN can help or influent the consulate to give your wife her visa approval. Tell them what if the "Professional Service" "fork-up", then it will become so "PH?C T?P" ( meaning: complicated! this does sound like what it sounds in English). Again, nobody in vietnam outside or inside the consulate can give you 100% approval result BUT the consulate officer who interviews your wife at her interview. Even that won't guarantee the Visa. Nothing is certain until your wife has her Visa in her passport, on the plane flight back to your hometown in the US :) That's the 100% guarantee approval. There are cases where the wife got the pink slip, returned the next day to pick up her visa, got a Green slip instead. There are cases where the wife arrives at POE, got turned away and send her back home. I am not trying to scare you, but giving the worse case scenarios, and mentally prepare you for the process. More information is good and bad at the sametimes, how you use it is the key!

Good luck and again, P3 is pretty simple to fill out and return to HCMC asap!

Chuck and Kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-02-27 06:56:00
Asia: East and PacificVietamese Professional Service for Packet 3
Shhhhhh.... TONY.... keep it down, I want that $400.... :D

s2convt,

I'll take $300, to fill out the P3 for your fiance. Do we have a deal? Just PM me and i'll take care of it...

Ok... all jokes aside, the P3 is the shortest and easiest of all the forms you've been fililng out. Ask her to scan the form, all the pages and email to you. You can guide her through via Skype or telephone. Someone who offers the service for $400, that's a good price for people who don't have the VJ power packing them up :) You've got your VJ VN brother and sister here who have been through this P3 phase already. I'm pretty sure we can fill out the P3 for you without charging $400...

Just ask her to scan the P3 form and come back on VJ with questions, if you need... I doubt it! Good luck
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-02-26 08:14:00
Asia: East and PacificNeed help on a few things
You filed your I-129F? You have received your NOA2? Good, now you are preparing for her interview, aren't you?

Here is what I see:

- No, you do not need Single Status Certificate for neither you and her. It is required if you are K-3 petitioner for spousal visa.
- W-2: yes, they may ask for them. Call the IRS and obtain the transcript of your tax return for the last 3 years. It seems that HCMC no longer accepts TurboTax print-out. They want the real ITR from the IRS.
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-26 06:56:00
Asia: East and PacificTAX
No :) sorry, that's an expression we use here in America = I don't know if we have the same expression in Vietnamese to say: that's COOL!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-28 06:22:00
Asia: East and PacificTAX
Just checked out your website... Xanga... old school man!!!!
Btw, how many fruit cakes you have sent to her??? :thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs: Love your site, love the photos...

Be well!

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-27 06:52:00
Asia: East and PacificTAX
I would inform his boss that I will talk with the VP of HR for a major IRS violation and rights. ALL employers in the US are required by laws to issue W-2 to its employees by the end of the first day of February. This company drops the ball and need to correct it at the earliest possible date, no excuse! By the end of this week, it should give your husband a new W-2. He then file it by Monday morning. FEDEX next day to VN. You will still can have his 2006 ITR by your interview date. Think: you still have 3 more weeks.

Your husband needs to tell the employer the END Date to resolve the matter. If they tell him: uh, we are working in correcting the issue. Ask them: When can I expect a new W-2? By Close of Business today? Tomorrow? By Friday? If NOT, then what is the next plan? This is when your husband will ask for the company's letter of employment stating his annual salary, some company will not issue this type of letter for legal complication (people take these type of letters to borrow loans/buying cars and never pay back the bank, company gets in trouble).

I wouldn't be panic just yet, but after this week, I would! Tell your husband to stay on top of his HR and Payroll department.

Good luck and your last resort would what Greentran said: last paystub of 2006 and company's letter of explaination. I don't know what HR and Legal Department will be willing to write in this type of letter, keep in mind, the letter will show no note of their fault or admit any wrong doing for not having your husband's W-2 ready by now. So I would say: get the W-2 corrected by THIS FRIDAY or you will be in a world of worry!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-26 07:09:00
Asia: East and PacificInterview Rally for tlovep
tlovep,

God be with you and yours! The outcome is not in your control, it's up to the C.O., prepare and prepare and do it all again. Relax, get your mind set for the interview. Go to bed early the night before. No talking late at night! :D

Robert&Van,

It's a beautiful prayer for tlovep. We know it's in His hand.

love,

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-21 06:44:00
Asia: East and PacificI'm missing my girl in Vietnam so much

yeah, I was back to the states on Sunday too (via Korean Air) . I can not do anything but talk to her on the phone , chat via yahoo IM, video chat on SKYPE. We have our web cam on like 24/7 . Here is the deal. When I get home from work, I turn my laptop on and cam on, she then can view it. I also have access to her PC, so I can view her wc too, even she's still sleeping. I just lay on bed and watch her until I fall asleep. when she wakes up, she starts watching me sleeping plus some chinese movie sometimes. when I wake up, talk to her for about 30 minutes or an hour. then i turn off my laptop and go to work. when I get to work, turn my laptop back on and start viewing her web cam and chatting via Yahoo IM . so spritually we are in touch 24/7 ...... I dont want to mention here about the XXX stuffs .


Imagine the couples many years ago that were apart and had NO visual communication. You can even take it further back and imagine when phone calls were SUPER expensive and email did not exist.

The internet and general communication today has improved to the point where we are virtually close to one another. Just imagine not having any of these and we had to resort to writing love letters again that required overseas delivery. I just keep these thoughts in my mind when I miss her physical presence.


Totally agree with you! Our generation is spoiled with the greatest and latest consumer technology advance. I could not imagine what you said how older couples went through their long distance relationship where the only mean of communication was mail carrier that took months to get there. That could explain why most folks in the old days marry people within their own village :) Too much effort for travelling and stuff! Not us, the broadband-hifi-wifi-hidef-decaf-late-terrabite-live-streaming-satellite-ipod-double-shots-hybrid-blackberry-typer-multitasker-instant-messenger-blogger-forum-chatter-global-cyber-sex-partner-and-lovers, we want all and get it rightway or 6-Hour-Clock-Action-News is old news! We want instant and constantly hooked up to the internet and in the know! I can't imagine! BUT thank God for the internet! What would we do with ourselves, I don't know!

For now, for the distance global lovers, who recently returned from the land of love, just take sometimes to refocus and readjust to the reality! I went through this whole thing and I was the wore of all, took me 2 months or more to realize that I was no longer in VN, get my mind of it and focus on the job. Reality check: no job - no sponsor, no sponsor - no Visa, no visa - no travel, no travel - no reunited, in the end only me who is the loser out of this deal if I don't get back in focus ASAP. I did after 2 months. Internet Phones and Yahoo daily! Then got really angry at the wait and frustrated. You will go throu the motion of ups and downs during this whole process. The one thing that helps me get through it was this VJ family! The outpour support was never forgoten. There are some crazy lovers on this forums baby! They'll feel you and teach you how to deal with your emotion and how to deal with being apart.

For example, people told me about Skype, I didn't know about it until Kim came here, wish I did know about it long before. But do like what you guys have been doing, Asking questions, there are no stupid questions, only stupid answers. I do give stupid answer sometimes... Note to self: stop it Chuck! HAHAHA :D

Bottomline is, what doesn't kill you, will eventually makes you want to kill it! Focus and keep yourself busy, someone mentions: the GYM. You should join the gym or you'd be sitting on your computer 24hrs over the weekend just to watch her, and stopping her from going and doing her daily chores. Helps her out too! She's going through the samething you are....

Good luck and lot of love from Chuck and Kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-02 07:30:00
Asia: East and PacificCan i ask you guys question?
Or not!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-29 12:51:00
Asia: East and PacificCan i ask you guys question?
This theory of HCMC previewed your case and already made up their mind prior to the actual interview is more and more popular these days. I hope this true but then I don't believe it!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-26 06:50:00
Asia: East and PacificCan i ask you guys question?
Yes, yes and yes! Including the envelopes that have the postage stamp and post-marks.

Edited by chuckandkim, 22 March 2007 - 07:29 AM.

chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-22 07:27:00
Asia: East and PacificThis is a sad sad day!!!!
tway22,

this would be the second time and my last in mentioning a VERY good lawyer who actually LIVING in Saigon and working on cases like yours, espeically yours! Please by all mean contact him before going K-3 route! Ask Kevin and Loan! They know what they're talking about.

Totally agree with Kevin on "what make you think they will approve your k3". Exhault your options with K-1 before go K3 route. That's the last thing to do if all else fails, unless you are ready to move to VN and live there with her then all bets are off!

Good luck and please, do yourself a favor, contact Marc Ellis.

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-29 12:57:00
Asia: East and PacificThis is a sad sad day!!!!
I don't know if you have pm'ed Mike E for a good lawyer whom many of us on this board have used his service with excellent results. Marc Ellis is his name... run a search!
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-26 11:24:00
Asia: East and PacificThis is a sad sad day!!!!
Our thoughts and prayers are with you tway22! Listen and pay attention to Kevin&Loan, they def. know what they are talking about this matter.

Stay on top of this, and show your support, show her that you're stronger than anything your honey has seen and heard about you. You are her life-line. Tell her everything will be A-OK which you and I both know it will be, as you say: your relationship is real! They may delay, even deny but can not destroy a true love.

Stay strong, call her and tell her that EVERYTHING is going to be alright. You have to say it, I know it is so easy to get down with her and cry and depress about the whole thing. Don't!

Take a break and breath a little... you've been through a lot, your honey has been wired for days now upto the interview. REST, clear your mind and think up new plan! I know it's all a bunch of talk here, but that's what we can offer to you at this point. Be focus more than ever, if you think this is hard, this is only the first part of the journey brother. It's a test of will!

Feel so bad but please, stay focus!

love

chuck and kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-23 19:59:00
Asia: East and PacificThis is a sad sad day!!!!
Uhhhh what the PH?!!!!!
When did this happen? How? Reason? There are major steps you MUST take right now before they actually send the package back to the US. Tell us...
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-23 06:15:00
Asia: East and PacificProof Of Former Spouse Address
Know anyone in Florida? in her town? close to it? Ask them to just seating outside her place, take a few roll of films or even video taping her enter and leaving her apartment with visually clear House address and location. Mail the photos and tapes from Florida. You can even hire a PI to do a quick run on her Credit History for you as well, you'll be surprised how much of your suposed private information is publically available to anyone who willing to pay for the dirt.

Good luck

have an awesome strip brother!

Chuck and Kim
chuckandkimMaleVietnam2007-03-27 06:57:00