Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Jamerican Queen @ Dec 1 2009, 02:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lady C that is so good that you are making your headpiece. I had rented my dress and it was beautiful but the headpiece the wanted me to wear with it was horrible. I was yellowish and not white and had masking tape on it did I say it was yellow. It looked so horrible that my bestfriend and my sisters was like heck no My friend from my job made my jewelry. Earing necklace and a 2 bracelets. I wore all but the ankle bracelet and my best fried put it in my hair for the head piece. What do you think That day is suppose to be the best. i wish I would have known I should have made mine. Congrats girl. Dec 15th is my late grandmas b-day so that is a very special date. You look beautiful JQ~ QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 1 2009, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> If you love someone, I believe in telling them every chance you feel like it. Life is way to short! Right on JG I do too! I tell my Hubby I love him sooooo much I know he is like sometimes haaaaa. Funny thing last night he gripped me up and kissed me all over and I couldn't move he was hugging me so tight. I bust out laughing I said that is me He said YUP! We laughed for 5 minutes he admitted he can't get enough of my harassment I luv that Man! QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 1 2009, 03:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi everyone! my day is going horrible. i'm feeling totally overwhelmed. i feel like i'm gonna explode. not sure if i wanna cry or murder someone... who has good news? someone tell me something nice... Awwe sweetie it's the hormones, quitting time soon come! QUOTE (LadyC @ Dec 1 2009, 03:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I missed my calling I love to design and decorate. I used to make give aways for baby showers, weddings, 50th B'days. You name it I can do it. But I got lazy. Girl get back to it, life is too short! QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 1 2009, 03:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You look very nice finesse wid your preggie belly Where is the picha? QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 03:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i saw a man in the grocery the other day.. him sit at the cashier while him ooman bag up and put all the bags in the cart.. then she push di buggy w/ their child by her side while he walk 5 paces in front of her.. but me sure he love her... but dyam man.. wha mek ya act so??? Oh Hell to the naw he need to be slapped! QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 1 2009, 03:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 1 2009, 02:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> If you love someone, I believe in telling them every chance you feel like it. Life is way to short! You know what I have a problem with that. I can text you and write it in a letter but when it comes to saying it its so hard for me to say it. I think that is something I have to work on I’m not good at communicating my emotions at all. You know another thing I need to work on? Accepting a how I say this an emotional compliment from the opposite sex (not sure if that is what I wanted to say) Like if you tell me you love me, or your thinking of me or something sweet of that nature I have a tendency to be like shut up no you don't. So many people have told me that when I say that its like a smack in the face to them so they no longer express it and then I'm like you never tell me how you feel. I know I got issues. awwe girl and I am the opposite I chat too much LOL we all got our quirks I wouldn't call it issues. You have a natural knack for writing trust me (where is my latest installment wink wink?)	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 15:50:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (LadyC @ Dec 1 2009, 02:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Yea yea My dress will be delivered tomorrow I have my shoes and jewelry now all I need is my headpiece. Wow Lady C I know you are excited, it's countdown time! QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 1 2009, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I think it is very pretty, JQ. You look beautiful. I made my own everything. My flowers were beautiful. Sadly, didn't get to use most of it. I loved making my own stuff. But, I'm all about crafts and that's not for everyone. JG you and I are alike in that aspect I design and create clothing pieces I'm and big on crafts too. I bet your creations look better than what you can purchase int eh store and it's 100% original! By the way there was a casualty the 1st day of Hunting season here in PA.... QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 1 2009, 03:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Girl my kids will be graduating from high school by the time Philly responds. I thought Newly was bad but Philly has her BEAT!!!! Haaaaaaa Dada I am almost there..... QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 1 2009, 03:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Girl I wish an interviewer would ask my hubby what size panties me where. I swear I would barge in that room and knock her dead. And then I would have to kiss my hubby as they deport him back because you know we would get DENIED and me locked up!!!! HUSH you are so crazy haaaaaa but yup the next thing you would hear is SECURITY!!!!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 15:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 02:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> thank you soly! imma keep on trekking even tho LORD KNOW there are obstacles.. its hard for a woman like me, cuz i have left EVERYTHING to be happy and i don't mind doing it again LOL.. i have to keep myself grounded and say, quit expecting everyday to be a perfect.. (well its not my fault, Roger spoiled me LOL) this weekend at my sisters wedding.. he guh get mad chat bout him ready fi go all of a sudden.. now YES he has been running round since 1pm that afternoon and now its 1am (african wedding), but ITS MY SISTER... i wish i would be leaving.. he gonna sulk and look all mad chat bout he gonna stay in the car and wait then,(IMMATURE) i said FINE, i'll see you later.. of course he did but only for 5 min b4 he came back in,i ignored his rass.. WE had had such a good time earlier, why he have to spoil it now.. everybody kept saying they thought it was our wedding the way we were on the dancefloor.. so anyway.. he eventually apologized.. Awwe girl don't hold it against him I know once he hit the dance floor all was right with the world, I saw those pics on FB LOL	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 14:55:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (jamerican @ Dec 1 2009, 01:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 1 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 1 2009, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> At least you got the freakin' e-mails. I'm still waiting on Ms. Philly! OK JG and Dillon, I'm sending you the back-story now look for it. I have to get out the hot seat Dada, Lawny, and Quanna the latest from the past 2 weeks and Thanksgiving Phockery are coming shortly.....nuh kill me please I feel like the red headed step chile........What you sendin to people Philly???? LOL Jamerican I am so slow you aint missed nothing yet I'm just sending stuff from months ago so dem won't ban me LOL .... JQ and Dillon check yuh box Ok soon come the latest.....	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 13:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 1 2009, 01:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> At least you got the freakin' e-mails. I'm still waiting on Ms. Philly! OK JG and Dillon, I'm sending you the back-story now look for it. I have to get out the hot seat Dada, Lawny, and Quanna the latest from the past 2 weeks and Thanksgiving Phockery are coming shortly.....nuh kill me please	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 12:29:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 01:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 1 2009, 10:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> [Wow Quanna, Thanks for that detailed review it really gives us insight as to what they are looking for @ the AOS. It's really deep she targeted him for fraud because of his nervousness and body language, although those are signs to look for, but is obviously displayed in these types of cases. This whole process and interview was sanctioned by the Creator to come through without a hitch so you know there was no reason to worry at all and just to go with the flow. I am so proud of you Quanna, you told the truth and the truth and your love of Roger prevailed. Bless the both of you I am so happy girl your journey is so amazing! thank you sister!!! roger seh.. she approve you baby, not me!!!.. LOL we laughed and sighed and then laughed and sighed some more all day.. it was mixed emotions all around.. he wanted her to ask him more questions he was ready after his timeout LOL LOL @ his timeout QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 1 2009, 01:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> they can't hide it...they always mess with people with dates -- they made my girlfriend cry at her interview and she was adjusting from a B-2; the worse questions was "DID YOU GET PREGNANT just to get a GREEN CARD"...she said she lost it. OMG that is horrible but I guess that is their jobs to rattle people. I wonder what type of training they go through for these positions, now I am curious! QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 1 2009, 01:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Philly mi jus a chobble u... LadyC --- time a draw near. uh oh soon come......	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 12:27:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 12:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> what tre.. my wedding pics??? okay, i should have told ya'll so i could hve gotten help.. i don't know what kind of camera roger but we could NEVER get anybody's usb to fit it.. it wasn't till SUNDAY tht roger said.. baby, why don't we just put the memory card in your camera and put then online that way???? yes, my name is quana and i am a technical and electronic DUNCE! LOL hush, if you can send me a pic of the port I can find you the right USB connector QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 1 2009, 12:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> PHILLY Uh oh, I saw you pon IM but we were out and I am always logged on the PC sorry. Soon come I am working on them now I know I know I am a hot mess.... QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 12:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (dillon @ Dec 1 2009, 10:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow Quana I think my heart would have stopped beating if that was me in that interview room. You handled it girl! dillon.. i was so taken back.. i was like..look at all our pictures?? look at the love??? roger couldn't help that he was nervous, he is always a one answer man too, he doesn't ramble like me LOL.. i thought it would be okay cuz i heard so many reviews where the ppl say "don't give too much information, only address whats being asked at that time." in our case, it was the MORE said the better.. esp the fact that he has such young children.. she need to hear how head over heels he was which he tells me everyday.. this whole immigration stuff is such a dog show.. i mean its the most unnatural thing.. you have to think about everything.. am i being affectionate enough?? am i doing too much??? we held hands in the waiting room, he had his arm around me.. in the interviewing room, i didn't feel it was the time for that.. i should have sat in his lap and he should have gave me a french kiss right in front of her.. dang tre..u mad at everybody tideh! we still love you pics soon come.. PROMISE.. LMAO!!! LOL I know girl its so dang nerve wracking and you never know what is too much and not enough, but you got it just be yourselves and like he said you won the race!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 11:58:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 12:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> so she sat down and goes into her speel about her job to protect the us citizen (here we go) she explained 2 kinds of fraud... one where the person knowingly usually for money enters into a marriage to assist the foreigner and another, not so recognizable when the us citizen is tricked.. she said this is the worst cuz blah blah blah.. we have ALL heard this before.. i sat quietly as if she was a friend telling me about her job, smiling, even commenting WOW sometimes.. she tells me that either way the punishment is severe and is only on the us citizen which she wishes there were more penalties on the foreigner. she explained penalites saying something about losing benefits and your children losing benefits (????) she said after it passes her desk, there is no going back that a person who has ANY thoughts that there marriage may not be real has a chance to turn back w/ her without any fear of retaliation from the foreign spouse.. i thanked her for sharing that information and explained that i have seen that fraud first hand which is why it took me so long to accept roger into my life, that i did not want to show my children another messed up relationship and as their example i wanted to show them a marriage they would want to pattern their own after.. so she tells me that many times that is the case, but she has seen it over and over again. and she believes that HE is out to have his family come after he has been married to me for 2 years.. my mouth dropped, all this time she was speaking generally altho i knew what was implied, but now she has called my husband out.. i said, "ROGER??????" yes.. i believe if they are not already here, they are coming and that is the plan, the childrens mother may already be here married to someone else and when they finish their 2 years married to you and her petitioner, then they will marry each other.. if they are not already married.. i laughed and told her that the only phone we have is mine and i answer it, they are calling from Jamaica.. 876 area code.. their relationship is a rocky one and has been since i met him 2 years ago, but they get along for their children she said, does he speak another language while on the phone.. i told her not normally, but yes he does speak patois and i am very knowledgeable about the language, enough to understand the jist of a conversation, i told her i know i sound like all the other women that come thru her office and are mistaken about their husbands intentions but i have not gone into this blindly.. she said it is her job to watch body language, thats why the seats are so far away.. she said roger was very nervous.. i said, most ppl are in this situation.. she said he was shaking as he gave her documents, even demonstated LOL (roger still says he wasn't and i dont' recall that) he was unusually anxious she said she is only saying all this cuz its her job and i have children and sometimes the children are overshawdowed .. i told her again, that i thank her for her words.. she said she will let him sit out there and sweat a lil more and started to ask me ssa questions.. i gave her better answers that i give the ppl i deal w/ everyday LOL she gave some advice about the kids getting along w/ roger and i talked w/ her about my kids and their bipolar dad LOL.. and she said she guess she have let him sweat enough.. she said she would scare him and say, she asking are u cooking dinner tonight.. i told her.. oh he cooks everyday so thats not a good one.. she said oh he does.. so she brought him in and said... so ur wife says ur a good cook.. he said, EXCELLENT lol.. i said tell her bout thanksgiving baby.. so he told her that he made curry chicken and rice and peas, and it was all gone before all the rest of the food.. she said curry chicken was her favorite dont' get her started.. she said she loves ELAINES..this jamaican food restaurant.. it was such a coincedence cuz we were going there right after the interview!!! and told her and that we could bring her a plate.. she laughed and hit our paperwork and said APPROVED LOL.. we talked bout the restaurant a bit moren and then she said that she was approving our i130 and our i485 and that we had to file for LOC in 2 yrs.. we shook her hand and left roger said that he wished she would have asked him stuff after he sat out, cuz all the stuff came flooding to him, i told him don't worry about it.. we will get them at LOC. i am happy, but i wanted her to walk away believing in us, in our marriage.. i wanted to convince her and we didn't she tacked us as another fraud case.. if she approved us, dyam who do they deny???? LOL roger said if she had denied us, it would have been like going to jail and you know you didnt do the crime.. their goes that eloquence?? where was it 10 min ago??? LOL oh well, Praise the Lord anyhow!!! Wow Quanna, Thanks for that detailed review it really gives us insight as to what they are looking for @ the AOS. It's really deep she targeted him for fraud because of his nervousness and body language, although those are signs to look for, but is obviously displayed in these types of cases. This whole process and interview was sanctioned by the Creator to come through without a hitch so you know there was no reason to worry at all and just to go with the flow. I am so proud of you Quanna, you told the truth and the truth and your love of Roger prevailed. Bless the both of you I am so happy girl your journey is so amazing!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 11:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	THE BURNMASTER IS BACK LOL R KELLY( CURRENTLY UNTITLED) I'm gonna listen now	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 11:15:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Dec 1 2009, 11:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> lol philly! my favorite smiley!!! dats why mi haffi love yuh so LOL @ Bunz Here is yuh FEVA! RIHANNA RATED R Hurry before the link is dead again..... Lady Gaga soon come I'm trying to get the latest edition for ya QUOTE (MsSheka @ Dec 1 2009, 11:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Mawning Yardies Q your story is just touching congrats again love will always win Happy B-Day to Fat he is so happy about his bike he is walking around in his helmet good to see Mrs Thompson on another note 3 MONTHS!! well at least i get to see my hubby next month come on January Awwe you have to take some pics I hope he has a wonderfully fun day! Edited by phillyfashionista, 01 December 2009 - 11:12 AM.	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 11:09:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yes, that is what i said also,, all that matter is we were approved, but when roger said that he felt a lil like we won a race and we ran the worst. we just got a medal for showing up... i was like YESSSS... i really feel the same.. but girl we are HAPPY guess what.. he got a job offer RIGHT as we left the interview!!! the voicemail said the found his resume on Careerbuilder and for him to come in for a typing test.. roger said.. uh.. typing.. cyaan do dat LOL.. aww dang.. we got to get you some typing tutorials LOL That is wonderful Quanna, you can work on hims with the typing tutorial that is a small thing to a giant! QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Dec 1 2009, 11:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> lol philly! my favorite smiley!!! dats why mi haffi love yuh so QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> so she asks roger what did about me did he fall in love with? roger said, she is caring and loving, sweet, and i just love her.. she says, so when you met her, what about her personality did you like so much? he said that we had so much in common, she is very big on family , she is very good w/ kids, she fit like a glove (fit like a glove LOL) the lady asked the THIRD TIME.. what about her PERSONALITY.. besides she is good w/ kids and she fit like a glove.. i am looking at him just smiling sweetly, but thinking.. Weh deh all di bumbaclaat Jamaican love talk ya always spitting dangit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol this is not the time to be to the point and private.. spill ya guts man! LOL he was nervous and understandably the whole process is nerve wracking! QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 11:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> i think he said caring and loving again.. (my poor baby.. his tongue was on LOCK) so she turns to me and asks me what about him do i love.. i break it down how God sent me the characteristics i had been missing in past relationships and had prayed for.. it was a waiting to exhale moment OKAY lol.. i told her he was quick to recognize his faults and apologize w/out prompting, sensitive to my feelings, enjoyed talking, she interuppted and said HE DOES?????? dyam lol i told her well, i mean, he likes talking about problems and not letting them stew.. she said that was nice, most men don't do that. then my baby comes in.. yes.. i don't like to go to sleep angry or let her go to work in a bad mood, we should resolve any problems right away.. You go baby!!!!! so she asked roger again when we met... he said it,, and she said and your parents live in FL.. he sat there confused.. i was like SAY NO!!!! he finally was like no ma'am the are in JA.. she said oh i thought you said you were visiting your parents in FL.. last year.. WE BOTH had said visiting family, but she was talking to roger i waited for him to explain and then i chimed in w/ him and said.. no we said FAMILY so she asked him about his kids, there ages, did he talk to them, did he send them money.. she asked me was i aware at the time his baby mama became pregnant w/ the youngest child.. UH OH.. i told her not at first but of course we were not talking during that time.. we had "broken up" when we did reconnect, he did tell me reluctantly, but of course i had my own skeletons in the closet so i chose to continue the relationshop.. so then she asked roger to step outside to talk to me.. i assumed she is gonna do a stokes interview where she sees if both of us come up w/ same answers separately.. his toothbrush color, what side of bed he sleeps on .. come on.. IM READY!!! but as she comes back in from showing roger to the door, she says she wants to talk to me.. and i feel like this is something VERY different. Uh oh I am on the edge of my seat......	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 10:53:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 1 2009, 08:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Congrats Bunz! That is awesome news!!! Pretty sure you are just going to get a physical. They check for lung issues (chest x-ray), communicable (sp??) diseises (all words I cannot spell). You pee in a cup for a drug test. Louis had to get nekked... not sure about you. Wear your good undies that day. LOL @ Irie that is too funny QUOTE (LadyC @ Dec 1 2009, 09:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (*SunRay* @ Nov 30 2009, 09:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Congrats Bunz, Quana, HeartinJamaica and Jessica..... I always love logging in to hear good news..... LadyC----I few more days girl and G will be in the place. Can't wait to hear what he thinks of NY. Sunny he will love NYC its just like Jamaica. We will be in Queens and my home town BROOKLYN so he will feel at home. Congrats Pam/Heart in Jamaica... LMAO @ Lady C QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 10:44 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> good morning everybody! well our approval was quite bittersweet both roger and I agree.. we feel happy that we got approved, but kind of not happy because we feel the interview could have went a little better. We prepared for a onslaught of questions, had quizzed each other quite often, but our interviewer only asked a few questions to open up a dialogue.. I, making a living talking to people plus im a bit longwinded anyway, picked up on tha cue, I talked and talked and gave exampes... but Roger being so nervous and he's not much of a talker anyway, the words would not just come out! LOL i saw hum struggling and i wanted to help so bad but i didn't know if that would make things worse. i didnt want to look like i was coaching him.. will give more details in a bit.. Thanks be to God who has our end prepared for us despite our lack of wisdom, strength, charm or intellect.. I know for sure what he had put together no man shall separate. Praise God Quanna QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 1 2009, 10:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> GOOD MORNING YARDIES!!!!!!!! At work with nothing to do. Packing up my office. This location is closing and I will have a hour and 1/2 commute each way every day. I am hating the sound of that. But it is still a good day. Yes you still have employment so Thank GOD. I worked in DE for 3 years so I feel your pain........ QUOTE (dancehallquana @ Dec 1 2009, 11:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> okay so we arrive at the place 30 min early for 11:30 appt. we had skimmed the dallas uscis reviews and felt we were very prepared.. all knowledge about each other families, our children, our journey had been rehearsed and re rehearsed.. we both were confident.. i was just a lil on edge cuz i hate the NOT KNOWING factor.. will it be a nice person, a mean person, will they try to trick us.. i told roger to stick to his answers cuz ive read where they try to trick you.. We prayed that God would bless our nerves cuz the approval was definate in our eyes so we just wanted to be stress free while we wait on it. we go thru the security checks, go upstairs to the receptionist and she gives us a restaurant style buzzer.. there are about 6 couples and/or families waiting. I read where sometimes u wait 45 min AFTER your designated time so i tried to relax.. i could tell roger was a lil anxious.. he kept looking at his watch as it got closer to the time.. he said everytime an interviewer came to pick up someone "maybe its our time" i said baby??? all this ppl been waiting and we gonna get called b4 them??? he laughed and said, maybe they are here real early (???) LOL.. so anyway more ppl got called and looked like the appt were going real fast..ppl would be out in a matter of min, MOST ppl had lawyers, i was like. PSHHH we got VJ!!!! so our time came, the interviewer was an older caucasion woman, she smiled which alot of them did not, so i felt good. I noticed the chairs were VERY far from her desk. not very inviting, but hey this is an interview right. i didn't sweat it.. she swore us in, asked us for our id's and passports, asked for original divorce decree, marriage license and our birth certificates. asked us did we have children, asked roger for his children's bc's which he told her he didn't have, asked him where and with whom do they live. she turned to me and asked how we met.. i beamed and gave her my account..she asked how did we keep in contact all this time, i told her she turned to roger and asked how does he get along w/ children.. he said, Good, we get along.. she tried to goad him a bit to say more, but he said again, we are good, everythings good i braved butting in when he didn't say much and said that roger cooks for them and is always trying to play good cop when i want to punish them.. that there has been obstacels of course being a step family but things are progressing well. roger says, yes, we are doing alot better now.. (go baby) she mentioned to roger that this will require alot more effort on his part than the kids (WOW, just what i told him a mnth ago, but moving on) She asked for proof of joint residency WHAT???? i was ready to give proof of RELATIONSHIP but i explained to her that w/out his ssn which we just got last week, i could not put him on my lease or bank account, the only utility i have (water is paid w/ rent) is electric and they would not put 2 names on it. i don't have cable or internet. switch to positives... i told her I do have a insurance record showing that he is my spouse (get up, hoping she doesn't tell me to sit back down, and hand her the proofs) that i have cards and emails from family and friends, and pictures of course from our long 2 year courtship and marriage. she looks thru it and asks roger when did we meet again? he tells her, and how did we keep in contact.. she said so ya'll talked continually all that time.. i told her bout the stint in which we did not talk and were "broken up" i wanted to put everything out there and im glad i did, cuz this is where it all went downhill... Oh boy Quanna.....now this is suspense fi real what happened !	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 10:42:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 30 2009, 06:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> January 22 Ok so the ppl in the know SERIOUSLY need to tell me what exactly is involved in the medical! i hate doctors, i hate ppl poking me!!! wha mi fi expek what dem going to test for? @ MsSheka, if i have made it this far Sheka, you will, hang in there! YAY I had to whip out your favorite smiley for this FEVA soon come QUOTE (Shaunsgal @ Nov 30 2009, 06:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am flattered but, I am from Ghana (W. Africa) LOL @ Shaun hey are you a Nollywood addict like me? I have 7 new movies coming this week me and Mrs Bootsy can't get enough QUOTE (Thompson2B @ Nov 30 2009, 09:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Everyone! After forgetting my password I gave in and re-set it, so I'm back. First of all CONGRATS to MY2, Quana, and Bunz. Also I know some new ladies recently got approvals, so congrats to them too. Sorry I don't know all of your names yet. Oh and also Congrats to Nat on her wedding. I loved the coordinated outfts in JA colors. As for me.. I had a nice wedding and am so happy to be married. Heavensent came and she is such a sweetie. I waited too long on getting Vaughn his SS so now we have to wait for his work permit. I'm working on getting his AOS package out but I'm not as motivated with him by my side plus the $1,010 fee. Of course I want/need him to stay so I'll get it together this week. I look forward to getting back into the mix. Oh, and how could I forget. Finesse- Congats on the IDENTICAL twin girls!! I would love to have that. What names are you thinking? I know you had a boy/girl twin names, but what about for two divas?? Hey Brook I loved your pics girl but where are the wedding pics, I am salivating waiting for the fabulousness	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-01 10:18:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 30 2009, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Nov 30 2009, 02:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lady C She ain't right! I am so glad that this madness is soon coming to an end.It hurts my heart when the children have to suffer at the hand of the unfit Mothers, dropping her off when she is sick to party ####### SMH . Your Mother in Law recognized the foolishness and put a stop to it with the quickness! All will work out for your family and she will be with you soon Philly... sweetie its Smiley's Madooman (JQ) this is happening to not Lady C... LAWD QUOTE (Jamerican Queen @ Nov 30 2009, 04:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Nov 30 2009, 11:52 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Lady C She ain't right! I am so glad that this madness is soon coming to an end.It hurts my heart when the children have to suffer at the hand of the unfit Mothers, dropping her off when she is sick to party ####### SMH . Your Mother in Law recognized the foolishness and put a stop to it with the quickness! All will work out for your family and she will be with you soon Philly dat a me not Lady C JQ I am sorry I am a hot mess over here with these projects in 4 different systems 7 spreadsheets and I am starving LOL. I just need a vacation...... QUOTE (MsSheka @ Nov 30 2009, 05:05 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> CONGRATS MY2 & Q BTW Hey Yardies hope everyone had a good thanksgiving.....i still have work Fat's birthday is tomorrow and Shemmy's was the day before thanksgiving and i have a couple more birthdays coming this month (three of my sisters and my neice and grand neice ) and next month Shea and my hubby so busy busy busy..thank god for my family though i am so blessed Hey Sheka Happy Bday Fat!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 16:13:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (IrieCat @ Nov 30 2009, 02:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Brooke just posted on FB that My2 was APPROVED! yAY! congrats MY:dance: QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 30 2009, 03:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Quana just text me and told me that she was Approved!!!!! I am so happy for Quanna I have such a Koolaid smile on my face right now	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 14:58:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (LadyC @ Nov 30 2009, 01:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Rant: So my husbands daughters mom, is so weird that she has dropped my step daughter off with my mother in law. While the baby has the flu when it was raining Friday because she wanted to party this weekend. So to her surprise when she went to pick up the baby this morning (ok she has to be at school so she picked her up at 9am)((what is she thinking)) She was told that the daughter will not be going back to her house. She was screaming and acting a fool. This is the same girl that still has no job and looks for my husbands paycheck for life So if the daughter is not with her she cant get paid. Not to mention she is sick and skinny as heck. I am so glad that the case is going to be complete soon. We got her passport and my brother in law is sending it. My baby needs to be with me I will show her love Rant over Lady C She ain't right! I am so glad that this madness is soon coming to an end.It hurts my heart when the children have to suffer at the hand of the unfit Mothers, dropping her off when she is sick to party ####### SMH . Your Mother in Law recognized the foolishness and put a stop to it with the quickness! All will work out for your family and she will be with you soon	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 14:52:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 30 2009, 12:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> oh i forgot today is quana's day too nuff love and blessings going out to q and my2!!!! can't wait to hear the good news philly, looking forward to seeing you in january too! I forgot too, Good Luck Quanna!!!! QUOTE (*JG* @ Nov 30 2009, 12:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Not a big boxing fan; but I do appreciate the athletic-ness of it. Glad a fellow sports fanatic is on here. Millions.....in Missouri they use it for education, preservation, and conservation. LOL yup I am so into Boxing I love to see the knockout and the fighter falls down in slow motion that is the best! QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 30 2009, 12:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Nov 30 2009, 10:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 29 2009, 06:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow no post all weekend?? Sigh I guess I'm the only one with no life.... LOL Dada you so crazy, I tried to catch up and of course got sidetracked by the foolishness! I got your email lady I am responding and trying to finish the other one from last week but of course have to add the latest pickney phockery! girllllll hot mess! Happy Monday Ladies! So if your working on my e-mail that means I should have it by next week... LOL LOL @ Dada ok ok I'm trying in between all my projects! I so wish I could have my weekend back	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 12:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Nov 30 2009, 11:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good morning, everyone! Eagerly awaiting good news from My2. Does she have anyone's contact info? good morning Mrs Brooks Wishing My2 positive vibes today! JG I was reading back and you commented we ladies are lame when it comes to sports haaaaa. Well I don't think I ever mentioned that I am a Boxing buff I watch all the matches and my nickname is the Fight Dr. LOL. Oh and it was just announced today is the 1st day of deer hunting season in Pennsylvania and that made me think of you They said the hunting season normally generates millions in revenue for our state, I found that fascinating.....	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 10:57:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*JG* @ Nov 30 2009, 11:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Nov 30 2009, 09:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 29 2009, 06:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow no post all weekend?? Sigh I guess I'm the only one with no life.... LOL Dada you so crazy, I tried to catch up and of course got sidetracked by the foolishness! I got your email lady I am responding and trying to finish the other one from last week but of course have to add the latest pickney phockery! girllllll hot mess! Happy Monday Ladies! I don't think I ever got mine JG you are a part of the VJ distro list I haven't sent yet soon come promise ( I am so slow I have 6 projects LOL) QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 30 2009, 11:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hi yardies long, good weekend nyam nuff pan chicken yesterday at the pan chicken festival it was gooooooooood OOOH that sounds sooo good! Bunz congrats on your case being complete Yuh soon come to shop wid me	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 10:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 29 2009, 06:52 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wow no post all weekend?? Sigh I guess I'm the only one with no life.... LOL Dada you so crazy, I tried to catch up and of course got sidetracked by the foolishness! I got your email lady I am responding and trying to finish the other one from last week but of course have to add the latest pickney phockery! girllllll hot mess! Happy Monday Ladies!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-30 10:00:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	Mawning Ladies , just come back from Black Friday shopping. We were at Target 4:45 am to get the 40 inch flat screen TV and WE GOT IT YAY! Then Hubby was in Game stop to buy the Wii he has been wanting since forever. I am glad he got everything he wanted he has been working so hard, he is boxing now LMAO I hear a million backsides and Bombaclaats and mi a Badman a whole a lot noise him a mek. The only thing mi really defend today is my new Louis bag oooh I am so excited going to pick it up later on I am too tired to do anything else now......I am so tired from all the cooking yesterday and the phockery my oldest son acted a damn fool like he didn't want to eat any food we cooked. Mi cyaa bodda puhlease he must be really hungry I know LMAO!!! I am so thankful this year for employment when so many people seek work, my health, my family even though dem pickney a pain in mi raas I love them and they will one day see the light and realize family is most important. Of course I am so very thankful my Husband is here by my side to share our lives together under one roof! Last year I was so miserable wishing he was here and counting down the days till the next day I was able to see him now he is here Praise GOD! To all the Ladies that are still waiting just stay in prayer the wait is not easy but it is surely worth it, this time during the process is nothing in comparison to the lifetime you will have together. Ok going to do some laundry and go jog some of this turkey off mi raas LOL and get back in gear with my healthy eating today which is not easy after that fabulous meal yesterday and all the leftovers staring me in the face , but I have a goal to reach so I must stay focused! chat to yall later and I guess will try and catch up, and to those expecting an email from me soon come I promise	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-27 09:19:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Haymsmorgan @ Nov 25 2009, 11:40 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> the thing went by quickly and like Nat said they didnt take any pics from us......I will write my review as soon as I get back.....rite now im gonna enjoy the time with my man....Love u guys and thanx to all the prayers and support! I know that's right Sis have a ball say hi to Kingston fi mi QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 25 2009, 11:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Ok the vibes roun here dead and since philly isn't here i shall be giving you all some FEVA LOL mi deh ya FEVA soon come. QUOTE (*JG* @ Nov 25 2009, 12:23 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Shemmy @ Nov 25 2009, 10:17 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 25 2009, 11:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> U too why are you leaving us??? O.k. if all the oldie but goodies leave who will be around to help with the newbies?? Probably my hormones speaking but if I posted something negative...everyone would have responded. Not that we need a standing ovation but lasting 5 years is great in my opinion. These marriges could be very challenging. It seems newbies are only worried about the visa not what happens after. They don't want advise from the vets. Getting the visa is the easy part. Back in the day, we would share the good, bad and the ugly. We fought, made up and kept it moving. Now people are afraid to share because of other people feelings. We all supported each other. It seems newbies only support other newbies. I have not been on here much lately but I try to support everyone. Off my soapbox. Amen, sister. But, in defense, newbies think the visa is the challenging part cause they don't know better yet. It's all good. Be happy while you can and fight the challenges when you have to. No one wants their relationship not to work so they are on the love high. It's ok. We have all been there. I always hope no one has to go through the bad and ugly. But, if they do, they know the vets are here to say we've seen it all before and we've seen people survive it all. This is what they did............ Shemmy, I know how you feel. Having been through the good, the bad, and the downright nasty, I get discouraged on here sometimes. But, I keep my optimism. Not everyone is me. I still believe in love and LDRs that can work out. That's why I'm still here. Not that I would ever do it again; but I want to watch the happenings and congratulate people on their good fortune. I can't live in a world of negatives. I echo JG's sentiments as well but each individual has their own journey and will learn from their own trials tribulations and mistakes. I have seen alot of discouraging things happen on this board from arguments between members, backbiting and plain old ignorance but there is always some positivity from our thread let alone the many friendships that we have formed along the way. All we can do is be there to share and learn about this journey from each other, you can never control others actions just see it as it is. Don't leave because you have so much to offer us, you have journeyed and are a testament that there is calm after the storm. 5 years is a splendid achievement and I am so envious thank you for sharing how you feel today but I hope that like you say it is just hormones and you plan to bestow more of your knowledge on us VJers so we can see how its done correctly! Happy Holiday everyone I am outta here Be good Ladies	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-25 14:39:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Dan-Dan @ Nov 25 2009, 01:30 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good Evening All, I am a newbie to the VJ site and still trying to figure out how to jump into the posts! !! Im loving reading all of your post, it is so encouraging to see ALL of the approval that are going on... I cant wait to start the K-1 process... But I need your help!?!?! Where do I begin, Should I hire an Attorney or go it alone? THIS ALL SEEMS SOOO intimdating! Hey Dan Dan, ((((waving)))) VJ is a great place to educated yourself on the process and learn of others experiences. IMO you do not need an attorney and I know the other members agree as well. All the tools you need are right here, and of course we are here to assist in any way we can as well. don't be intimidated we have your back QUOTE (mstee @ Nov 25 2009, 10:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I made it through the storm with my Kindergarten class yesterday lol They showed me mercy! Just made me think of my 7 year old nephew, he refuses to call Steve.. "uncle Steve" I don't even think he really addresses him. Just talks to him. Kids are so peculiar at times... You girl I know that was a good feeling! girl yes kids sure can be, no worries he will get used to "uncle Steve" he is just feeling him out I'm sure. QUOTE (my2rmylife @ Nov 25 2009, 10:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> just reconfimed my flight im getting so excited and nervous at the same time... I know it girl, the countdown is on QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Nov 25 2009, 10:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good morning, everyone! I woke up about every 30 minutes since 4am. Usually, I only do that on days I'm going to Jamaica. But today is even better than that! Yes it is Nat I am so happy for you, this has been a wonderful journey for you and its just beginning have a fabulous day sweetie QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 25 2009, 11:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (thisislove @ Nov 25 2009, 10:27 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> welcome dan dan.. no lawyer needed.. YOU GOT THIS! Wishing you the best today nat and steve! bunz.. ALL we have are pics lol i agree w/ jg.. we have to just go w/ what we got and pray God's will be done.. Roger is not worried at all , and i am just a little, i mean, there's not much we could bring when he doesn't have a ssn.. you guys will be just fine, is he coming to the interview? that's me and hubby too he says we are in love and we have nothing to worry about i'm sure roger feels the same this year is really ending on a high note for alot of us i hope this carries over into the 2010 It will Bunz nuh worry yuhself, we will be shpping in NYC sooner than you think Canal st here we come! QUOTE (Haymsmorgan @ Nov 25 2009, 11:36 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Hey Yardies......just got back to the hotel. Just letting you know that we were approved! I saw Pam there but I left before her so I am not sure of her outcome.......im sooooo happy rite now! CONGRATS, FEVA soon come QUOTE (Shemmy @ Nov 25 2009, 11:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> My yardie threads days are coming to an end. I wish everyone luck with approvals, marriages, babies, etc. Whats wrong Shem? Is everything ok?	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-25 12:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Shemmy @ Nov 24 2009, 06:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Oh yeah....tomorrow will be Damien's 5th year in the States . We will celebrate all weekend Congrats Shem that is wonderful, did the years seem to fly by for you? for me it seems like I'm an old married lady LOL but of course a happy one QUOTE (Shemmy @ Nov 24 2009, 08:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We "celebrate" everything...well at least acknowledge milestones. Marriage is hard enough when you weigh in adjusting from a long distance relationship to marriage, one adjusting to a new country, blending families, dealing with cultural and age differences, etc....makes it more challenging. It's not easy. I know that's right Shem marriage is a challenge on all fronts but its worth it. QUOTE (BunzTheMagicSnail @ Nov 24 2009, 10:06 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> yardies are pics really that important? i'm starting to look through our evidence and we have cards and letters and envelopes and reciepts and phone records but we don't have alot of pics together are they really that important? Girl I took a whole photo album of pics and evidence and he didn't ask to see anything at all only asked my Hubby questions. Take what you can, always better to be safe than sorry	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-25 12:34:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 24 2009, 05:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Nov 24 2009, 03:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That's nice it's not too far from you...at least within a 1/2 day's drive! Southern Cal is as bad as SF when it comes to housing prices! I bet there's no place else she'd rather be though, right? That's how I am with SF...both hubby & I love it here....we just may not be able to afford to live here forever. When that trip happens, I'll definitely let you know. I didn't get to reply the other day to everyone but I liked seeing the pics of the Peppermill. I remember a very hungover morning there once! LOL! I'm not a gambler but it sure is fun doing everything else! My only unrealistic wish is that casinos would go smoke-free! YEAH RIGHT! I'm hoping we can get there after the spring semester is over....and if not, maybe we'll go around the same time my Aunt & Mom make their yearly pilgrimage together in the late summer. Late summer in Vegas?? Neva eva again. I went in June and I swore I was walking right next to the devil himself. Matter of fact he told me hi. You know its hot when you have on tennis shoes and the heat still burns your feet. So many nights I thought I was going home to glory and I’m a fluffy gyal too!!!! Sheeze me couldn’t manage. Of course I made it work but I wrote that down in my history books to only go to Vegas between Sept-May…… Hush you are killing me! I love the heat I want to move to Arizona!!!!! In Haiti the daily temperature is 95 and above to 112 degrees and I love it the hotter the better for me!!! I know you think I 'm nuts haaaa	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-24 17:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Nov 24 2009, 04:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Congrats My2 on mister getting the medical picked up! Congrats MY2 QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Nov 24 2009, 05:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Awwwe, that's great! I know Lehi is real excited too....he's been dreaming of turkey & he won't have to cook a thing. We'll be doing a purely traditional meal this time...maybe next year we can throw in some Jamaican dishes but for now, it's turkey, stuffing, mashed taters & gravy, buns, cranberries & all that! I also told him he's NOT ALLOWED to put ketchup on the turkey!! I said, this time, he has to do it how we do....maybe another time I'll let him sully the turkey with ketchup! I can't wait to see the pics of Lehi his smile is infectious! LOL he is like me all I can think about is that BIRD haaaa those dishes got me hungry again, the squash did nothing for me LOL. We are doing the traditional meal but we always have rice and peas, goat and fried fish too. I am sooooo excited Haaaaaa Damian loves ketchup on everything too we will have to see if he drenches the BIRD QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 24 2009, 05:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> That was LoveSponge.... OOPs congrats Lovesponge better late than never QUOTE (DaDa @ Nov 24 2009, 05:35 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You put corn in your corn bread?? Hey Dada oh yeah and not from no can either! I shuck and cut! I just ordered my dress for Mrs Tee's wedding I am gonna send you the pic and run it by you since you are the bridezillaista	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-24 16:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (*JG* @ Nov 24 2009, 04:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Nov 24 2009, 01:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I have to finish shopping today for Thankgiving. I got my free turkey last week I still had one in the freezer from earlier in the year so that will be for Kwanzaa. I have to get goat and coconut milk, corn for my cornbread and some more spices Ughh I though I was finished. My Mother is so excited for Damian she wants this day to be so special for him, and she is worried I will ruin it because I am not speaking to the hellians, oops I mean my children! Puhlease I have been on this grueling diet since 11/9 I am dreaming about stuffing at this point LOL. I told her nuh worry arself I will be there @ 5:00 am with a bundle of African flicks ready to cook dem facety pickney ain't taking my one day of turkey and thanks away from me! Ok Rant over Awwwwwww, sweetie. I know exactly what you mean. What I talked to you about...I always repeat the mantra "she is not going to ruin today"...um, not in such kind words though....it makes me feel better; but she manages to ruin them all pretty much. I really wish you luck in having a peaceful Thanksgiving. Thanks JG I really appreciate it ((( hugs)))	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-11-24 16:32:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 4 2009, 04:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> You can tell you all are slackers. Everyone keeps pushing the updates on me. Who says I want to update Mrs Palmer she has been at home getting her rooks off and she just left us VJ woman all alone….. You should see her post on FB chat bout how she is getting her groove on. Cha!!! Me so vexed wit her!!!! (and jealous too but don’t tell her) This isn’t for Mrs Palmer but I will recap. Can someone tell her that she might want to go back and read because Quana posted her interview story and its good. Her interviewer kicked her man out the room to tell Quana that she might be making a mistake but Q know her man lub her so screw the interviewer. Lady C and Char have been missing today because there men soon to arrive. Nat is over the hill in love and she sent Steven out to play in the snow today. Spangles is going to JA and she anent coming back without her man. Philly’s son was on the porch making it rain on some young stripper chic. Well that was until Philly went and broke up the party. MsTee’s class ended up not rolling her in the Thanksgiving quilt but MsTee still has not showed us any pics. Me tink she busy putting moves on her sweetie instead of sewing the quilt. Finese is having double trouble girls and she got pissed because I told her no one is going to get anything off her registry. Dillon’s baby daddy called her on the phone chat bout how em pickney dat’s almost a teenager now. She put her hubby on the phone to knock his steam out his sail. Tre was eating lunch yesterday and got sick when JQ posted pics of Lil Wane and a big girl with a bucket of chicken. Oh JQ told us about the time her GF tried to ruin her wedding and she made her own head piece because the one she was going to wear was all yellow and torn. JG was at the firehouse waiting on her man in his uniform shirt with nothing underneath and she had two poles in front of her but she was afraid to do a striper dance for him. Dens is sad her boo might not get an interview till next month but we told her to calm dung he soon come. Bunz finally got a interview date for Jan Thank You Jah and Heavesent‘s man is here too. Oh JAP is back form JA but she hasn’t given us an update or showed us any pics. M (sorry can't remember the rest of the letters) Now has an 1 1/2 commute to work and her man is coming Wed. She has a lot to do this weekend but I told her to whooooo sawwwww Alright me miss anything? Dada yuh knoa yuh deh VJ Scribe stop fighting it ooman that;s yuh job	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 16:04:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 4 2009, 03:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 02:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 4 2009, 02:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I just recvd a terrible call my best girlfriend in JA's Grandfather died suddenly of a stroke and her cousin's girlfriend was shot 3 times. Oh this is so sad I feel so sorry I can't be there for her now, he says she is a wreck and is calling for me........ I wish I could drop everything and go to be there for her now. I'm truly sorry to hear that. That is really bad news. How is your cousin's girlfriend doing??? Girl she died instantly so sad....... Oh nooooooo! That is very sad. I'm sorry to hear both of those incidents are bad news. My Grandmother has this saying "When it rains it pours!" Lord have mercy! Girl tell me about it! QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 4 2009, 04:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 02:21 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Dada did you get the R Kelly CD I posted earlier this week? Yeah its ok not the same RKelly 12 play sexiness! ok I am back to working on my responses so I don't catch a 2 piece and a biscuit from you LOL No I'm not able to download it. Once I get my new computer I'll be back in business so I had to go buy it for 9.99 Oh Man really dang! nuh worry yuhself I got them fi yuh!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 15:54:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 4 2009, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I just recvd a terrible call my best girlfriend in JA's Grandfather died suddenly of a stroke and her cousin's girlfriend was shot 3 times. Oh this is so sad I feel so sorry I can't be there for her now, he says she is a wreck and is calling for me........ I wish I could drop everything and go to be there for her now. Ahhh Philly (((hugs)) I feel fi yuh an her..I wish you could drop everything and go too but I’m sure your on the phone with her giving her your support. I pray for her to have strength so she can be strong through all of this. Nothing like a double whammy…. Girl tell me about it! I'm at work so we couldn't chat long I will link her as soon as I hit mi yaard I 'm about to post Alicia Keys' new CD in a minute stay tuned QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 4 2009, 03:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> is this day over yet???? hell no!!! QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Dec 4 2009, 03:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Wagwan Ladies! It has been a LONG time since I've been able to read and post. So, who can catch me up on what's been going on! I'm sure I've missed a plenty! Hey Mrs P, Dada the Scribe has taken over the job as updater LOL QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 4 2009, 03:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> *sings* YOU MAKE ME FEEL LIKE A NATURALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL WOMANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN LMAO Bad gyal dat!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 15:11:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 4 2009, 03:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Isn't it just a wonderfu feeling! Bout to get off the computer and have a quick sexy party while my son is getting my daughter from school! haahahahaa LMAO @ Ms Tee! QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 4 2009, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 4 2009, 11:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I am going to the R.Kelly concert at the Richmond Collisum. Maybe he will drop his pants again I just won the tickets on the radio. Just like that. I was calling to try and order a house music mix and won 2 tickets. That never happens to me. Must be a sign. Hey I wanted to go to that so bad it’s this weekend right?? I told my cousin who lives in Richmond let’s go but she was like noooo. I got his new CD its just o.k. I got Mario’s too but I can’t get past song number 2 Thinking of you to hear the rest. I love that song. I also got K-Jon but I haven’t even opened the case yet. Dada did you get the R Kelly CD I posted earlier this week? Yeah its ok not the same RKelly 12 play sexiness! ok I am back to working on my responses so I don't catch a 2 piece and a biscuit from you LOL	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 14:21:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 4 2009, 02:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> I just recvd a terrible call my best girlfriend in JA's Grandfather died suddenly of a stroke and her cousin's girlfriend was shot 3 times. Oh this is so sad I feel so sorry I can't be there for her now, he says she is a wreck and is calling for me........ I wish I could drop everything and go to be there for her now. I'm truly sorry to hear that. That is really bad news. How is your cousin's girlfriend doing??? Girl she died instantly so sad.......	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 14:07:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 4 2009, 02:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (JAPrincess @ Dec 3 2009, 03:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> finesse I seeeeeeee you where the hell have you been? how di belly? how tings? yuh back from ja? Where she go??? QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 4 2009, 02:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> hubby had the grill fired up last night too.....cept he was out there in the snow and the dark LOL in the snow and the dark! haaaaa	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 14:01:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 4 2009, 02:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Where is everybody at????? LOL mi deh ya of course I am doing a million things and it didn't help my laptop went wacky for a minute. QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 4 2009, 02:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 4 2009, 10:56 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 4 2009, 10:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's snowing in Houston! I woke Steven up so that he could see his first live snowflake... before it hit the ground & melted. I was just on a conference call with my fellow engineer and he is so excited about snow! I HATE SNOW!!!!! I will be working from home when it snows yuck! That's what I'm doing. Steven just went for a walk in the snow. I had a feeling he'd be more excited when he woke up more. I know Damian is looking forward to the snow he can't wait. This man is always outta door with no shirt on and girl its 50 here today and I have on Ugg boots, hat and scarf. I'm going to get some kerosene this weekend to break out the heaters he was like Whatever I added additional comforters to the bed this week and he said I'm trying to cook him! haaaaaa I can't stand to be cold at all.	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 13:45:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	I just recvd a terrible call my best girlfriend in JA's Grandfather died suddenly of a stroke and her cousin's girlfriend was shot 3 times. Oh this is so sad I feel so sorry I can't be there for her now, he says she is a wreck and is calling for me........ I wish I could drop everything and go to be there for her now.	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 13:38:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 4 2009, 11:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Cause he was at work and texting me to check on DHL tracking. Then he comes up with the idea of emailing the embassy. So of course he throws in there, since you are good at all that admin kinda stuff can you send the email. When I was just like be patient babe. Then he got on vj and saw that CharandIvan picked up there visa. So then, patients had left out the door. and so on. LOL Mamma J he is ready to leave Yard and be with his ooman! Chile please be glad he is taking matters into his own hands! Keep checking DHL for the status to change, we were checking ever hour LOL and waiting at the gate when dude rode up to our house QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 4 2009, 11:45 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Okay guys, I'm officially so sad right now. I just got an e-mail from the Embassy this morning!!! Dear Madam: An appointment will be scheduled within six weeks for his interview. Regards, Immigrant Visa Unit This email is UNCLASSIFIED. Yall I want to cry so bad right now.... All I can do is just hope that maybe we will get a date some time soon...maybe its a blessing. If we get a date in January, I can stay until he has Visa in his hand and bring my man on back with me!!! Just sad right now! Don't be sad Sis, when I kept calling the NVC and there was no interview scheduled I was upset and they would say call back next month! Nuh Suh I kept calling them every other day haaaa and the interview was scheduled quicker than they projected. Have faith hun you are almost there!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 13:14:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 4 2009, 10:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> It's snowing in Houston! I woke Steven up so that he could see his first live snowflake... before it hit the ground & melted. I was just on a conference call with my fellow engineer and he is so excited about snow! I HATE SNOW!!!!! I will be working from home when it snows yuck! QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 4 2009, 11:06 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good Morning Yardies. Well Eric picked his visa up yesterday. Thank you Lord, cause he was getting on my last nerve, about that thing. He bought his ticket and he will be here Wednesday. Couldn't come at a better time. I just signed my keys back in to my old office. Tuesday my commute starts. Gonna be hating life. Congrats Mama that is so exciting Wednesday will be here before you know it! LOL @ the Visa you have to understand that this is a huge achievement and step in his life from not being able to travel beyond the island to coming to the US I would be buggin too haaa. Are you planning anything special for his arrival?	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 11:56:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 4 2009, 10:09 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> GM ladies!!!! Well I’m sure there are two ladies who feet are barely hitting the pavement today. I know they are light as a feather!!! LOL I hope this day will fly. I have to run around like a chicken with my head cut off because I just learned a week ago that my daughter is in a wedding as a flower girl 2morrow. Good thing they bought the dress but hell what about the shoes, stockings, hair and accessories. They told her father months ago that they wanted her in it but when we never heard back from them so we thought they moved on. Turns on they didn’t. I mean darn we couldn’t at least get a months notice? Well the Xmas songs are starting to play I see. Bahumbugh!!! Lawd Dada that was no notice at all, but you know us Mothers we can be Superwoman when we need to! I know you will get everything she needs so she can be in the fabulous affair! Take some pics!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 11:23:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 4 2009, 09:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good morning, everyone! LadyC, I'm excited for you. Take pictures of his first impressions. Last night I didn't fall asleep until after 3am, so I finally posted pics of Steven's first few days on FB. Then I just lay there thanking God for bringing us together. It's SO AWESOME getting to spend so much time with the love of my life. Mawnin Nat, I am looking at your pics now! You two look so cut together makes me start humming that song perfect combination by Johnny Gill and Stacy Lattisaw from back in the day! I feel FEVA coming on! I Know Sis there is no feeling like true unconditional love! I LOVE MY HUSBAND!!!	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 09:51:00
Mexico, Latin & South America	Yardies a home and a farrin (Part 20)	QUOTE (LadyC @ Dec 4 2009, 06:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Good Morning Yardies.....Today is the day I pick up my man..YAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY Lady C I'm doing a lil dance fi yuh! I know you are so excited. Do you have any special plans, and not just the sessi party	phillyfashionista	Female	Jamaica	2009-12-04 09:47:00