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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 21)
Mawning Ladies,

Can't wait to catch up LMAO

DaDa whagwaan sistren?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-11 09:04:00
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Sus her is a pic fi yuh LMAO this Walmart site is killing me softly


Bunz I see you joined the group to on FB and why is yuh pic on the front page as one of the folks following them. That darn pic cracks me up!


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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 17:50:00
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what up woman?
i'm learning how to jerk chicken wings today (im a wreck in the kitchen)
i am so excited to eat them tonight- hubby is now eating meat because, i quote "i'm sick of being hungry"
lmao-



LMAO Just you are too funny that is too cute. If you can believe it I have my Hubby using a crock pot now when he swore by the pressure cooker. But I had an accident and almost killed the cat when the top popped off so never again :whistle: I can send yuh some good recipes for chicken and goat in the crockpot and you will be cooking up a storm in no time. Set it and forget it you can't beat that with a bat haaaa.

You should take a piccha of your meal and post deh pon FB :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 17:46:00
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1luv Thank you!....for keeping me company...you're wonderful can't wait for the link up...mi gaane go cook ackee.


Lawny yuh tease mi so :crying:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 17:36:00
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sho do!
i love it *giggle*


if you feel the need to let it out, ill be here listening
glad your granny is doing a bit better lawny- i bet she loves having you 'round

JQ~ ooooooooooh i would be so mad
ive got a temper like *whoah*
how much was his ticket? was it more b/c he has a temp permit- will it affect getting his DL?

roxie~ congrats on the two years! stay blessed


Hey Jus (((( waving)))) you always crack me up :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 17:08:00
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Lawd mi need a stronger prescription inna mi glasses mi neva see dat part! :reading: :dead:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 16:42:00
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Bunz seet deh! unu Jamaicans need fi tan aff di road cause unu no know of fi drive...but kiss mi neck...mi nevah know...Bunz u did know...


:rofl:

wha mineral oil good fah?


Constipation Grammy swore by it :yes:

Philly, we will be in Kingston, for 2/10 thru the 27th.

I feel Good MaryJ.B

i feel good, like the moon is shinin just for me
tonight i'm fly as i can be, though
don't u try to bring me down
it's not like you could
i feel too damn good!~ say oooh
i feel too damn good!~ say oooh


Me too, we should link up. I will be back and forth between country and town but I'll be around :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 16:36:00
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talking about ackee; I'm about the cook what I had from August-- hubby will bring home more when he goes down next week.


Yum I'm coming over LOL, Hubby say I kill him wid deh sorrel though and if you can believe I have always been allergic but drink it everyday and my lips turn red ha ha I'm such a hot mess

To everyone: don't let your SO male or female come here and drive your vehicle! They drive like cold hearted idiots there and ACTUALLY think they can drive better than us! Get they a** a hooptie, putt putt or whatever you call really old cars and let them ruin their own license. I love my boo but he will not drive my car when he comes. I mean when I fix it, crashed it 2 days before I left.
About the HIV testing, Obama did pass a law that HIV + persons can enter the US. He said that banning them doesn't show a good example of being a good american! Heard it on the radio a week ago when I was there.


I'm rolling Kjenkins cause I feel yuh, my Hubby is a mechanic and drive anything from Motorcycle to a Mac truck but Lawd he almost gave me a heart attack when mi let him drive my truck around the block from Mom's crib for the 1st time :blink: Just like it took me time to get used to driving pon deh left not to mention a right hand drive when I was a teen it takes time for them as well. Can't just jump in and think it's all good no matter how much training you have cause yuh have to be able to judge accurately. Needless to say I only let my Hubby drive around the corner till he got the hang of it :lol:

Lawd clutch deh pearls at the ediot comment :blink:

Edited by phillyfashionista, 08 January 2010 - 04:21 PM.

phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 16:20:00
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Thats why I really like you JG because thats what I told myself when he called like a sad puppy dog to get picked up.




I kept telling him Yeah the police almost hadshackles on yo feet

He dont play with me getting crazy with him or talking crazy at all so I had to keep it like a joke with the I told you so game :bonk:

But I let him know that he gotta pay that on his own and this will teach hima lesson about the US


Talking about if he was in Jamaica he would just have to give the officer $1000 dollars and it will be done HUH

Or he would just have to give it to his brother or his best friend and they would take care of it for him.

But I told him you not in Kansas any more Dorothy :rofl: they will take you azz to jail for a bribe here.


So I dont know yall its still got me mad :angry: , but what can I do


Yeah tings nuh guh so wid Babylon pod dis side , he will str8 be inna deh carcel. Girl stay strong, just like we have to learn life lessons so do our SO's....
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:43:00
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This was last night Philly :rofl: about 8:30pm


LOL :bonk: for me LOL

Some movie bout one african ooman who married 3 brothers...mi no know di name it was a comedy


Oooh sounds interesting mek mi guh find ie :yes:

Lawny we used the last bit of ackee we had stocked up in the freezer from Yard for our anniversary dinner. Now mi wan cry cause I am craving it soooo bad! I just got some soursop though I'm gonna surprise him tonight he will be thrilled but I will prolly drink it all haaa mi greedy he he
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:36:00
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yea, had to do that ####### three times too


Oh lawd, and yuh felt nauseous too?

Obama recently passed something to say the US won't bar HIV positive ppl from entering the US
so i think that may be the reason they don't test for it anymore


aaaah ok mi neva know, how I miss dat one, interesting.....but I still think they need to give the test and document the results :star:

Bunz; she a gwaane good fi right now....

Ladies; when ya'll returning to the states, please pack as little in your travel-on as possible and pack your patience...cause dem a dig through every likkle ting as well as full body pat dung...traveling is not fun anymore.


that great about Granny Lawny!

Are you serious, well we knew it was coming, just the state of madness we live in now.....

Ladies when your men went for their medical what did they get tested for?

mi tell mi fren seh is only a matter of time before dog start sniff out all yuh crotches


Girl they do that now when you coming off the plane actually been doing that for years......

Tanks Philly -- my mom brought over about 2 dozen African movies...mi only watch 2---den mi drap asleep


Really ooooohhhh I have a big smile on my face which ones you watch before you drap?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:26:00
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Happy New Years ladies;

Bunz, si mi yah...mi still deh bout mi no dead jus a rally back n a tek in di vibes -- snuck away for a few days in ja to tek care a grannie -- going again in 2 weeks...if mi ave time will try to link if u no reach up yah yet...

Thanks for all the prayers, not 100% yet, but mi soon reach deh



miss u too...guess mi know mi real friend dem...when mi sick dem still deh boutn a check pon mi...mi no even feel like fi catch up pon di gwaanins innah di room. Mi learn on ting since being on sick leave "DAY TIME TV" no ave no rass ting pon eeh...mi caan believe seh show like Jerry and Maury and nutin but rass "court show" deh pon tv...mi jus tun it off -- read through 5 books in 3 weeks, mi caan believe....



Tre yuh knoa mi did miss yuh :luv: mi sen yuh some African movies fi watch to pass deh time :yes:

Finesse
Girl, hubby wanted to go finish the tattooPosted ImagePosted ImagePosted Image :rofl: he got a few weeks ago. I said to him just wait and go on the weekend. He tells me
"Ya got shackles on my feet" Ya no let me go nowhere"Posted Image
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I dont hold him down to go anywhere he go out with his friends all 2 of them :rofl:

But serious he dont have no firendsPosted Image to even really go out with but I was so hurt Posted Imagewhen he said that.

He wanted to take my car. Hemember he only got a permit, said his friend around the corner has a license and he will be the other licensed driver. I was so hurt from his comment I let him go.


Well 15 min later Im callingPosted Image the friend and he still wasnt there ok. its 3 minutes away so I get worriedPosted Image

I walked for 1 hour looking for him finally he calls me and says he got a ticket and the Posted Image told him the licensed owner had to drive the car home. So it was another 30 minute walk. I am getting my exercise and diet in so I wasnt that mad.

But when I got to him I wanted to





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Oh to the NAW I would be hotter than fish grease too, wha deh raas gwaan wid deh foolnish? Are the cops still there wid him?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:15:00
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Yeah chile the Partner that I work for use to play football- linebacker and chile his neck gets swole all up when he mad...he been on a 2 hour conference call all morning about this one case. Lawd have mercy he mad as the devil...lol I'm hoping I hear something soon cause I dang sho don't want to have to roll up in this piece tomorrow... :unsure:


Lef mi alone with dudes neck haaaaaa you are killing me softly today, I still wan see a picha of the gold suit :devil:

That will be ALOT of driving around - from Ochi to Negril will take you about 4 hours at least, with the road construction right now -


What construction is going on Sus?

MI TIYAD!


me too Sis mi ready to drap, went to the market on my lunch and I had so much cat food and litter I could barely push the cart :blink: It was deh pon sale had to stock up!

Dammit....could you bear any more bad news today????? :angry:

Yuh see it :no: No more Sus please :no: how bout a funny piccha?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:08:00
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:dance: :dance: Garfield's Social just came in the Mail :dance: :dance:


congrats Lady C :thumbs:

Nat--Hope you feel better soon. Be careful with all that medicine.

Finesse--Hate to brag, but Papa Jew is putting something tough on me since I have been MIA due to work and the commute. But I ain't complaining I am loving it. Make up baby, for all that time.

My friend used to eat something spicey when her son used to kick her all the time. She said it made him stop and think. LOL!!! I don't know.

Dens--Make sure you take pen to interview. Also have some fun in the sun for me. It snowed last night in Richmond, VA. Not a lot, but enough to drop the temp. I know you got this so I will just say go get it!!! drinks up high!!!!!

MrsTee-- I put some stuff up here for Eric to see. I know he is going to get on here and read it. Keeps me from always nagging. Hope he folds those clothes..HA HA :jest:


Philly--Girl you gotta jump on that ticket. A price like that will be hard to beat.


LOL @ putting it on ya and Eric folding the clothes :rofl:

Yup tickets will be bought today :yes:

lmao @ JQ, you are a trip
i remember other yardies saying they took alot of blood from their SO's, i asked the guy what they were testing for and he said just syphilis
i thought that strange but i was like ugh, ok

What happened to HIV?

i always always say cancer is worse than aids
it is THE epidemic to end all epidemics

and what is so scary is that there are sooooooooooo many factors which affect it
i used to take comfort in the fact that i don't have a family history
but that doesn;t even matter anymore

Tell me about it I am scared to death of it with my family history I just have faith.... My Mother's friend has lung cancer and has never smoked a day in her life and no family history. Damm shame....
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 15:03:00
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Good afternoon ladies:


Mrs. Palmer: I am sorry to hear you'll are having such a time with getting the GC, but in the end it will all work out.

Remember everything happens for a reason, so it just gave you'll more time to look at job alternatives.
As far as the adjustments, they are just the norm. It's when you are no longer having fun, that would be a cause for concern. But knowing you, the fun is only getting better.

Joel and I are loving and living life together. We will be taking a trip back home in Feb, for 2 to 3 weeks, to celebrate his B-day and our 2ndyear wedding anniversary. I am so looking forward to going to Ja, where there will be some heat, it's very cold here.


Philly: Good luck on the re-newal of vows ceremony.

Dillon and IrieCat: Hello and I hope life is treating you all fine.

Have anyone heard from Marie, she was with our group of old timmer who were going thru the CR1 at the same time.


Hey Roxcie glad to hear you are doing well, we will be there in Feb what dates are you going?

it name seasoning, lol


:rofl:

Thanks - Unfortunately, it's a position I have been in two many times - I lost my dad to cancer a few years ago, a cousin, another good friend, and currently have two friends dealing with it - it just plain sucks, there is no other words for how bad this disease is.



ok so i just got back from my medical
needed 2 shots, total cost of the medical ended up being about 14 gran
uum, they only drew one blood sample testing for syphilis
the nurse says i need glasses :( but i'm not going back to them


I'm glad you are complete :thumbs: , did they take chest Xrays too?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 14:56:00
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Hey my2rmylife, IrieCat, jamerican, RoxcieJoe, dillon, smileypaige ((( waving)))

Jamerican I am placing an order for the latest Nollywood movies LOL if you can believe it my Husband put in a request this time haaaaa.
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 12:39:00
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Alright Yardies, likkle more! I need to find out what is the deal at my job with this case that may or not go forward on Tuesday. I pray not...its a pain in my back side! Even worst since I will not be here and I hate being out when stuff going forward...folks want to blame you for everything! :angry:

Have a great day!



Good luck I know how it is to fret over things you normally handle when you are out ( biting nails) LOL
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 12:36:00
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(Breathing hard)
I made it!!! I've been sitting here reading all the posts from last night and it took me ages to read 'em onn my phone. masa unuh caan chat!!
But I'm enjoying the chats though. Dens, can't wait for you to go & give us an update.
As for myself, they finally accepted the ds-230 via email after 2 days of back and forth that they don't open attachments. So now we wait for the interview date. I'm already packed to go again and I just got back 3 days ago!


Hey Kjenkins that is great news you are on your way!

I was thinking of that too... sigh.. i also need to get our copies of the marriage license uggh this mess is killing me


Girl, I had so much drama in JA with our Marriage certificate they originally jacked it all up with wrong info ( the reason my case took forever cause it was all Bandulo trying to get it corrected :blink: ) When we finally got it corrected we had a bunch of them, go figure LOL
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 12:20:00
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Philly, that's a great price!



Who you tellin'!!

I did the license, SSN, most bank accounts, most credit cards, car insurance, health/dental insurance, electricity. Still need to finish a bank account/credit card (Discover wants you to fax them your marriage license), several online investment accounts, and various membership cards (grocery stores, drug store).

Someone reminded us on another thread about car title, too.


See why I procrastinated so long :yes: :wacko: :blink: But I'm on it now....... hmm question for filing taxes all my W2's will be in my old name but SSN will be changed to reflect the new name I wonder will this be an issue.
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 12:08:00
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JG, I think they are making you get a whole new one because of the chip that is in it now. It didn't used to be like that...there was no fee period whether it was less than a year or not.


The will send back the old one which is a good thing, that happened when they wouldn't renew my one from a child any more and made me get a whole new one. I was using it forever and they would never have known but I filed for new pages in the book and they were like NUH SUH you need a new one and not with a pickney pic LOL I have it but they just punch a whole in it......


who has something tasty for lunch?


not me I have salad! Blaaaah

Im glad you guys are letting me know all this stuff, ive done my voter registration and license so far...working on my ss, passport, bank account etc... this mess is a pain in the rass....


Yall better than me been married to this man for 2 years and still have the same last name, just a hassle!

great price Philly! better go buy it!


I'm on it Dillon :dance:

jump on that sis, glad things are coming together for you!


thanks Tee finally cause I was getting frightened the prices weren't budging!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 11:59:00
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Praise God there is a flight to Kingston for 198 RT I'm all up on that now! Calling my cousin so he can hurry and book too but looks like we will have to go down the date of the wedding to get this price but that will work we can do it in the evening even more fabulous! :star:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 11:45:00
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I feel ya! :rofl: I would feel horrible if Den ever knew how bad I clowned him about that gold suit!!! :rofl:


You have me rolling bout that suit!

Note, though, that there is only no fee if your passport was issued less than 1 year ago. If you've had it for longer, there is a fee (I believe $75, as if you're getting a new one).


####### hot mess at least I get a new pic LOL

My doctor visit lasted less than 25 minutes, probably a record.

She gave to me or prescribed Advair, nasal spray, an inhaler, an antibiotic, AND she encouraged me to continue taking Mucinex and Nyquil. So if I start talking crazy....


Thats way too much med Good Lawd mi cyaa manage dat!

I think I heard 15-20 below zero wind chill temps here. Below zero temp. And, tomorrow the high is supposed to be something like 9.

God, I ache already :angry:


Whaaaaa? Note to self move to Arizona STAT!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 11:34:00
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these babies are kickin the ####### out of me....they are going on so hard it almost hurts...must be that coffee i drank...


Oh wow Finesse I remember that feeling I am living vicariously through your pregnancy :yes:

You see tonights forecasted temps?


yes we are gonna be 19 in Philly Yikes!

Sorry dem babies gettting crunk in there, poe thang!


Yeah soon its gon be off the hook! I'm singing..."All the way turned up...all the way turned up...." :whistle:



LOL @ Dens wit the babies getting crunk haaaaaa
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 11:27:00
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Hey Philly,
The big day is next week Saturday. We are flying out on Thursday night. For entertainment we are gambling, going to "V" the Variety Show, the Mentalist show and La Reve. We are getting massages the morning of our wedding and trying to squeeze in a Grand Canyon tour.


Aaah I gotcha I am slow sometimes LOL That sounds so fabulous, are you on FB? I can't wait to see your pics I am so happy for you :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 11:10:00
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OK, I'm confused....

What I am looking at, in that page is that IF YOUR PASSPORT WAS ISSUED LESS THEN A YEAR AGO, there is no charge.

But, down in the important notes of if your passport was issued more then a year ago, there is a fee for a new one.

Are we not looking at the same thing?



I just got confused too I'll call them when I get a chance today to clarify the fees
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 10:52:00
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Good morning all!!! Hope all is some what well on this Friday. Presently, I'm pampering myself. I'm @ beauty parlor. Must have my hair right.
Dens, best of luck @ interview next week. Enjoy some of the JA SUN for me.
Sus, sorry to hear about your friend/coworker. I will pray for her as well.
As usual, I will check back in throughout the day.
Blessed


Mawning Moacory, das right got to keep it tight and exact!

Happy Friday!! Posted Image

who's having hot sexy parties lately?


LOL me of course as always :devil: How deh belly today?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 10:43:00
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Yeah, Dillon mentioned that. Tell me how you change the name on the passport and if there is a form, a link please.



Hey JG yup here you go Passport Name change
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 10:34:00
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Dang Philly yuh have a lot of things on that list...


Hey Dada yes Mam I have alot on my list girl I am working it all out my new motto is Seize the Day! Not only now is it just me and the boys its Hubby too so he even has a little list he is working on as well :luv:

That reminds me I need to call my oldest son's school! The report card mysteriously did not arrive in the mail :angry: I feel someone is gonna get bounxed when I get home! :bonk:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 10:16:00
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yaadies wah oonuh a gwaan wid..jus a pass tru wid a quick link


Chiney (((waving))) I was on last night and just missed you, mi kna yuh live pon FB LOL

The wedding is on Saturday. I still have a couple of things to do so I am in panic-mode. I bought the outfit for my wedding night sexy party today :devil: , bought my jewelry and the remaining items for his outfit. Now I just need to find a salon to do my hair and makeup, figure out where we are having dinner and find a tiara/veil or some type of headpiece. Its funny how I still have all of this left to do, but I have all of our entertainment plans figured out!


Congrats Char tomorrow is the big day are you nervous! what are your entertainment plans?:luv:

Morning all!

TGIF, but I woke up to SNOW this am :cry:

It's been a harder than normal adjustment back - One of my co-workers (we also worked together at a previous job, so we have been friends for over 10 years) has cancer and has been battling for a long time now - While I was away, she started a new type of chemo. Apparently, it didn't go well, and she has been very sick since - Her lungs are filling with fluid, and she has had to have them drained (2 liters of fluid at a time, she weighs all of 90 lbs). I spoke with her yesterday, and she said she doesn't think she is coming back to work again - and that she is stopping chemo.

My heart is breaking - no matter what, it's like she can't catch a break - Within a 6 month window, she lost her mom, her ex-husband, and was diagnosed - now she is dealing with the stress of being ill and a single parent - she's from France so she has no other family here.

Please say prayers for her -


Oh Sus this is so sad, you are breaking my heart this morning I know the perils of cancer all to well..... I am saying a prayer for your friend right now I pray for her strength and clarity to move forward and deal with this and most of all that her health improves for a full recovery. (F)

Morning People! Happy Friday!
Louis and I went to breakfast this morning before I had to get started on work. I AM SO SLEEPY!
1 huge coffee from starbucks and then 2 more cups at breakfast... I need to start mainlining the caffeine!


Hey Irie Happy Friday right back at ya!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 10:05:00
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I'm going to wait on the interview, my hubby wants to come home with me he said if i leave him one more time he is going to fall in depression :unsure: :blush:


Awee sweetie this hurts my heart , you are almost at the finish line :luv:

Hey Yardies! Just passing through before I head to bed and wanted to give you a quick update! Gregory and I are doing fine. Still adjusting to each other's ways/habits on a day-to-day basis. I swear we adjust to something different EVERYDAY! :lol: But I love having him here. We're making small progress here and there. We STILL haven't gotten the greencard, but they re-issued it after it came back to them that no one lived at that address (Oh yeah--how the hell did I get all of your other freakin mail? :wacko: ) We should expect it early next week. His social security card arrived in the mail Christmas Eve (YAY!) and his state i.d. arrived yesterday! So we have been putting in applications and I'm trying to put together a resume for him. He will also be able to begin the orientation classes for the GED program at the Community College on Monday, and we are BOTH happy about that! :thumbs: He's so ready to get out the house it ain't even funny. He HATES the cold weather and I tell him that it could be MUCH worse, but he can't even fathom anything being worse than what we're experiencing! :lol: He's bundled up all the time and I try not to laugh ALL THE TIME--but he's SOOO cute and funny. We definitely have our days when we're both like "I don't wanna talk to u right now", but we get over it, talk when we're ready, and tell each other that we love each other regardless. Sooo....long story short, we've had some ups and downs, but we're learning and pushing through. I feel like things are definitely starting to look up for us though, and I just think he'll be a lot less anxious when he "feels" like he is actually doing something productive (even though I tell him how much I appreciate his help around the house all the time). I can't imagine not being without this man ever. I love him so much, and I would go through wars as long as I'm going through them with him. Everything that we have ever been through has been all worth it, and I'm only expecting bigger and better things in 2010! Good luck to all the yardies in their relationships/marriages (L)

Tamisha


Tam girl why were you on my mind yesterday I am so happy they are reissuing the GC and the adjustment is going good! I knew it would all work out for you :yes: 2010 is going to be a great year for all Yardies!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-08 09:13:00
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JAP ((waving)) how are you and the beautiful Lilla?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 21:13:00
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time really flies, can;t believe you looking to start the process of removing conditions already girl


Yeah girl I am trying to be proactive about this :thumbs:

I need mittens!

mi hand dem a freeze!


mine too LOL

I'm surprised about that. I just did a lot of research and found this:
Choosing Resident Alien Status
Nonresident Spouse Treated as a Resident

Well, that wasn't entirely conclusive, so I called the IRS International Tax Law hotline (215-516-2000) to ask. Joseph told me that
If I file a joint return: (so I know I can file one)
1) He'd be considered a resident alien for tax purposes
2) He needs to report world-wide income, converted to USD
3) We need to attach a statement signed by both of us containing two things: a declaration that he chooses ot be treated as a US resident for the entire tax year and our contact/ID information.
The details are in that second link, or on page 10 of Publication 519.


Hey Nat,

Yes I found that info last year as well and spoke to the folks at the IRS and was told similar info as well, however my Husband was gainfully employed but did not recv any type of statements all under table income. I didn't see the benefit in going through all of that drama anyway if we decided to pursue it. I recv 2 dependent deductions and filing jointly was not going to change my return so I followed her instructions to change my status to married but still file head of household and that was copacetic for me. The good this is we have choices its just about what works best for you.
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 19:50:00
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hey philly!!!!
*waves
is when yuh coming ja again?



Hey Bunzy! Next month and my cousin is coming down from Canada I am so excited. Hubby is like meh LOL He is in no hurry to go back a yard ( shrugs shoulders)
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 17:49:00
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Now I am starting my research for the I-751 to remove conditions woooh its only 485.00 and I hope that doesn't go up any time school but I won't count on it. Making my cover sheets now, I want to be well prepared and gather evidence along the way. I was getting nervous all you guys doing AOS and having medical issues just wanted to make sure we are ok there. The other day I was cleaning out the hall closet and found my Husbands chest Xrays from the medical LOL we lugged those all the way to the States trying not to bend them and they didn't want them at the POE :no: .

One good thing now fee to change the name on the passport :dancing:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 17:47:00
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For those who got married in 2009 and are wondering about how to file taxes, here's a thread worth reading:

http://www.visajourn...howtopic=235365



I am gonna claim my Husband this year, although I was married in 2008 I called the IRS and was told to file head of household married but could not claim him since he did not reside in my household for 6 mos or greater. So this year I can't wait to claim him $$$$$ I need to change my name tomorrow @ SSN I dread this because its so much involved in changing of the last name, but Hubby is not happy bout me not taking care of it so that's on my priority list!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 17:25:00
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Dang, they like that!!! I've heard stories but luckily never had an encounter...yall know I got a smart rass mouf on me...

Oh Yeah Babylon no joke all about $$$$


I feel the same way about MoBay. I visit Negril almost every trip and still have a love/hate relationship with it. Negril can be a little quiet sometimes.


I love Negril, well I haven't really been to the tourist spots but we have a special spot ( our secluded spot) on the beach where the locals hang and we go to the Jungle when we guh country. After the beach we head back home to Grange Hill :)

Philly - I hope I get the email before the baby comes lol. No belly picha yet. I'll get JAEnglish (the best photographer) to do some belly shots in a few months.


Shemmy one of my NY resolutions I am trying to respond to emails, FB and PM's in a timely manner I really am trying. :yes: LOL @ before the baby comes.

Yes JAEng is the best, I am gonna commission her to take my pics too when I lose this weight :thumbs:

hey yardies
cat how does he crack up in his sleep without waking himself up?
congrats on your anniversary shemmy!!, i am :rofl: @ the thought of a cheetah print jacket, laaaaaaaawd chile
congrats as well sheka! that is nothing short of a miracle that it happened in a day, you will be interviewing by march the latest!

:rofl: @ the pic of the lizard in the suit
JQ it had to be you!



Hey Bunz ((( Waving))))
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 16:16:00
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The entire church probably is still praying for me. Not to mention it was the first time I met his mother :blink:

I'm far from a hoochie momma but I felt like the one the entire trip. I packed halter tops and capris and got stared at teh entire trip.

She gave me theat cheeta print jacket on purpose....to be funny. I'm sure she had a black or white one. Damien thought I was going to flip but I wore it away. Oh...she said it's the one I can fit. Mind you, she's a turkey sandwhich away from my weight. My boobs are just bigger.


Shemmy why you got me LOLing at my desk HUSH haaaaa

I am making thousands of jello shots at Church tomorrow night and working trivia night there on Saturday night. Nothing else going on I can think of. Going to be really cold. May just hibernate!


JG Wait I had to make sure I read this right, jello shots at Church :devil: ?

Hi everyone....I don't want you guys to think I am rude since it shows I am on but never commenting. I got a new phone with internet so I have been laying in bed (falling asleep) while catching up on VJ...it is a touch screen and I am having the hardest time using the keyboard....I hope it will come in time. Anyway....Philly, in answer to your question...no, I haven't bought any nollywood movies yet....although I did enjoy watching the last one you posted.


Hey Jamerican (((waving)))

You will get the hang of the new phone :thumbs: Well if you PM me your address I will burn you some Nollywood flicks and mail them you ( belated Kwanzaa present ) :yes:

That's why I didn't get a touch screen - I wanted the new Droid, but then I was playing with it and could not type for ish..........


I want the Droid too, so it was hard to type on it? Doesn't it have a QWERTY Keyboard? I'm gonna check it out this weekend that's my B-day present to me B)
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 14:05:00
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Can I tell you how Damien set me up???? We visited his mother in Aruba a years ago. She demanded we go to church with her. Damien was raised Seventh Day Adventist so I asked him what should I wear. He said wear whatever I wear here. My church here is pretty causal. Well, I should have known better but decided to wear a long sun dress...mind it was 90+ degrees. My dress was black and white. I forgot my blazer so I told her I didn't feel comfortable going so she bought him a cheeteh print jacket to wear over my dress :blink: Plus I didn't realize how the dress had a keyhole so a little cleavage was showing.

I had no idea you were suppose to wear stockings (not panty hose) or jewerly. So here I am sitting in church with a black and white sundress with a cheeteh print jacket with high heel strapping sandals with my hot pink toe nails showing. Plus my big silver earrings and bracelts and my hair was cornrowed up in a genie looking pontytail to the side :wacko: Boy - those women gave me the most evils looks because their men kept staring at me. And the little girls wanted to sit by me..it's funny now but not at the time :unsure:


LOL Shemmy @ the set up and the cheetah print jacket :lol:

Thanks Den's Wifey and Philly. My belly is fine. We are so happy :dance:

Awwe Shemmy I am soooo happy for you, now Im smiling too. mi wan see a pic of deh belly :yes: I owe you and update too, email soon come :)

Posted Image :rofl:


Good morning ladies


Hey DW!!!


LMAO @ JQ and that dang Geicko!

Hey Philly - sun and sugarcane was good - weather was good, although cooler than usual - the surf was ROUGH and the cops were corrupt - but he quickly found out he was dealing with the wrong one, lol - Other than that, a pretty good trip.


Sus we need picchas LOL Lawd yuh knoa Babylon guh hard, just have to knoa how to deal wid dem and I know they come across the wrong one when they met you!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 13:59:00
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thanks Philly you so claimed it for me I am trying to focus but i am so happy and shocked and just ready to see my hubby :crying: :crying: :crying: :luv: :luv: :luv: :luv: :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:



Awwwe Sheka it's all gonna work out Sis this phase of the process will fly by. Yes I know it seems like it was forever but when you are finally together it will seem like nothing it's funny that way and it's so worth it! YUH MAN SOON COME! :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 13:18:00
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Philly that sounds like some fun to get it in for this weekend!

LOL@ your story bout shorty doo-whoop at your job... :rofl: I have one of them over here that I support...he's younger than me and just passed the bar last year...good on passing the bar and all but stop walking around quoting the laws and you don't know how to apply them... :angry:

Then one day, he had me go accept some of his dry cleaning from his tailor...how is that even in my job description and the little blue suit looked like it belong to the gekco with the accent from that insurance commerical :rofl:


Den's you made my day with Shorty-doo wop girl you know that's what I will be calling him from now on LMAO :rofl: :rofl: Good thing he is on the West Coast and not in my office cause he would be getting the evil eye all day long!

NO dude didn't have you accept his dry cleaning wha deh raas?? LOL @ the gecko suit I can only imagine. I guess we all have 1 person who is off the chain at the gig huh, actually prolly a few LOL

Welcome back Sus.

I almost forgot..today is our 5th wedding anniversary :wub:



Shemmy (((waving) that is so fabulous Congrats 5 years you are my hero!

How deh belly?
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-01-07 13:03:00