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Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:26:00
Mexico, Latin & South AmericaYardies a home and a farrin (Part 22)
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:22:00
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:18:00
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Hey Tee and Philly! Nat was here but I don't see her any more. LOL too about shutting down so Steven doesn't feel attacked again.

I don't know how to quote multiple people. So I'm just rambling.

Oh yea Philly it was just 1 damn valium and I was asking for more saying I was still scared, but they said I was talking different so they knew I was feeling the affects and would be OK. I was really scared and kept waiting for the bad part but it never came and was over in a flash. I agree though anything with the eyes is hard because if you don't like something, like a shot, you just look the other way. Can't do that when the eye is the issue. Also, LOL @ Philly saying she can only handle the lashes near her eyes. I wore them for my wedding and I noticed in my wedding video I did a lot of blinking, so I don't know how you manage them.



Hey Brooke Night Owl :lol:

LOL @ you asking for more Valium haaaa I know thats right girl I would be the same way. WOW so it really wasn't that bad huh it was over before you knew it?

Yes see you know what I mean its like you can't look away you're looking at the laser coming right at you ( oh the horror) LOL

Yes girl the only thing I can stand are the lashes and this week I have extra long LOL my lashtician ordering them just for me that's my girl Sue ~

When Hubby saw them he was like :blink: :thumbs: :blink: Haaaa I am so extra!

If it was the 1st time having the lashes yes it takes some adjusting but the next time you get them girl you will be a pro!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:13:00
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:05:00
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 22:01:00
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:55:00
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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:52:00
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Ghanaian movie starring Majid Michel, Nadia Buari, Jackie Appiah, Yvonne Nelson, Nana Amah Brown and many others.

Story: Jessy (Majid Michel)happens to be the hottest guy in town yet very promiscuous and a very beautiful liar. He has all the cute and rich ladies wrap around his finger. He plays them like pawns on his chess board and rolls them like dice in a gambling game. In turn he proposed to Natasha and Wendy in a very romantic mood, But, do they know what is in stock for them? Find out through this elusive trip with them.


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phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:48:00
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Lol yes Majid is good but Vicker is hellasexy!!!! :devil: I had to let him down easy and tell him Im married :yes:


LMAO yuh so crazy

:rofl: I'm sure you won't.

I wish I'd started using it in August instead of September, to truly get a feel for how much was spent before & after my family increased. Steven came in mid-September.

One category went from <$20 spent in September to over $300 spent in January

Groceries ....... PAUSE Steven just came in so I closed mint.com. I don't want him to feel attacked again.

To be continued...


LOL @ pause you just made me LOL Nat :lol:

There is one called guilty pleasures... hmmm


Yup me see that long time, that was one thats on my list to post, it was in the 2009 top 10.

Ok mi post one now stand by




Hey Brooke (((waving)))
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:41:00
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I text all day and night. Hate actually talking on the phone.

You have to be awake for Lasix. It's so quick you will be like, that was it? I swear the entire procedure took like 15 mins.


See thats the part, I have a thing about my eyes that's why the contacts are sitting in the case and i wear the glasses at the pc or when reading. The only thing I can manage near my eyes are the lashes, other than that I get all squirmy and rub. I would be the Dr's worst patient :help: I really would love to get it if they come up with a way to let me sleep or sedate me real good :yes:


JG yuh must have the unlimited text plan! :star:


LOL That is only $120/month. And trust me, he would rather her clean than to do it himself, especially since the dishwasher is broken. (Don't get me started on the maintenance men!)

I wish I could get a video tape of the experience, from the point of view of my eye. I am not into blood or guts AT ALL, but I loved seeing the tiny spatulas moving the flap out of the way, then bringing it back & smoothing it across the eye. It was a great experience.



Shhhhiiiitttttt I would think that would be an area you would want to save :yes: 120 X 12 = 1440 inna me pocket or contributed to my 401K :yes:

oh hell to the no I jus threw up in my mouth thinking about that!!!! :o :help: :rofl:

*shiver* *squirm* :blink:


Ditto!!

OMG, I went to youtube and watched a lasik surgery and I highly doubt I'd want to do it, it seemed painless but very uncomfortable. I went :girlwerewolf2xn: when the flap was lifted off the eye then put back! Amazing I'm telling you...


I'm gonna look now!

Good evening yardies!!

Just wanted to comment on the lasik. My doctor gave me a valium first so maybe for those that are really nervous you could look into that. I agree with everyone else..it was soooo quick and I didn't feel a thing. The whole idea freaks me out so before I did it I didn't want to know any details of how it was actually done. Had I watched the video first I don't think I would have done it either. I'm soo glad I did though. I thini the worst part is paying for it.


Just 1 Valium :rofl:

hey philly

Hey Mamma WhaGwaan

Or they can get it the hard honest way... work for it! So they learn to be independent, reliable and dedicated!


I knew yuh was gonna say something that effect :yes:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:38:00
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Hello ladies.


I am here at work tired as I don't know what. I am so ready for this break from school that it isn't even funny. Lots on my plate. Wedding planning, work (with a two hour drive each direction), school, Eric, and trying to fit friends and family in all of that..

Oh well somebody got to do it right.

How is everyone doing? I tried to catch up, but my eyes went crossed. So I will have to just check in every now and then.


Hey Jew I know girl it gets overwhelming sometimes but make sure you are taking time for yourself too :yes:
:dance: YAY what date have you set for the wedding?

wedding planning is fun and crazy and like you all have told me minor details are not a reason to stress...thanks everyone for all your support i cant believe we are 23 days away from our day ....

That;s what's up girl, 23 days the countdown is on!

I'm not even tempted to spend $$. Last night, when I went to Mint.com to view our spending trends in various categories over the past 5 months.... Side note: Would you believe Steven wasn't impressed (or captivated) by this feature! .... Well, I reviewed with him the spending trends and talked about areas where "we" could cut back. He didn't say it, but I think he felt like I was picking on him, because those were all areas where he spends.

But truly, there aren't areas where I could cut back much because I don't even have the desire to spend $$ in the first place.


Wow girl well I guess thats reason # 769309 cause when yuh breed that will change :yes:

Just curious what are the areas with the highest spending trends.

I'm gonna go on the now and check it out :thumbs: I'll prolly break it :unsure:

Nat I wish I didn't have the desire to spend...I have my money spent before I even get it.

Ditto Dills

All right, Nat, I have to ask...........Stephen wants the housekeeper?


Clutch the pearls I was waiting for the question to be posed somehow I knew it would be u LOL

I guess it takes discipline something I don't have. Steve is better than me. Shooooo when I die, I can't take it with me :no:

yuh see it :lol:

:rofl: @ goat balls comment


Did someone say goat balls YUMMY :yes:

Likkle more family... I need to watch some Nollywood tonight with that beautiful man Van Vicker :thumbs: Yeah mon


Tee Hopefully I will get to post the good one we watch this weekend!
LOL u an Van Vicker we clown him bad round here he too cry cry fi us LOL
Michael Majid is the truth!!!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:24:00
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IR/CR folks, what does it mean to be finished at NVC?


Case complete ready to be sent to the foreign embassy for scheduling.

Thank you, I'm extremely happy. Well Denton has never been to the movies so I'm planning for us to get dressed and go for a romantic dinner and a movie!


Have fun I hope you're gonna see something scary so can hold on tight to him :devil:

So, who here has filed their first joint tax return already?? Anyone do it electronically? I filed yesterday but received a rejection notice because of 2008 prior year information for spouse did not match their records. I finally set everything to zero (like AGI - adj gross inc) & left the rest blank. Going to see what happens now. I'd sure like some money back ASAP! :yes:


Hey Ells Yes we filed over the weekend electronically and it was accepted as well. For the digital siggy I created a new pin for him and applied AGI as 0. You will get it girl nuh worry yuh self :yes:

Yes Ells I did it on Monday and they accepted it. I didn't enter anything for Hubby so hopefully everything is going to be A-OK

:thumbs:

Thanks Philly. I'm taking it easy right now :yes: but I know come Monday I'll be suffering from insomnia. :yes:


Tamh please dun stress, the morning of Hubby practically pushed me out the bed run mi innah deh shower and we in there together like sardines cause it was so small :blink:
He was so nervous LOL but when we get deh and waited to be interviewed the nervousness subsided. I know you been waiting a long time for this moment so turn that nervousness into nervousness girl you got this! :star:

I really like this My2 he lyrics were beautiful

my dad and i listened to it today .... and thats the one we decided on,..


I knew it , when i heard it I said that's the one! :thumbs:

I could use it in a bad way right now! I'm really looking forward to paying off my credit card & putting money back in my savings accounts. I'm trying to be super disciplined with $$ this month but the temptation is always there. Next week, Michael Rose is playing at a venue near our house & I haven't seen him in years. I might even go alone since hubby doesn't care for 'roots' music. That'll be one less ticket to buy. Then we also have the Bob Marley b-day celebration concert here & Gregory Isaacs, Barrington Levy, Capleton, Cocoa Tea, Tarrus Riley & Sister I-Live are playing. I don't think I can resist that show. And finally, the Chinese New Year parade is at the end of the month & I know we'll make a day of it hanging out in Chinatown & all that's going to cost $$. Why does there always have to be stuff I want to do??

girl why you got me rolling chat bout one less ticket to buy :rofl:
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 21:07:00
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:angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: PHILLY :bonk: :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:


soon come was at a lunch meeting that lasted forever

Good morning Ladies (myjawifey too):

Philly Mi ago pm ya.. answer whenever you can no rush


Tee responding now

Feeling good today. I saw the Diva Thursdays. I keep hearing Beyonce is pregnant maybe she'll come out with a maternity line :yes:


LOL Shemmy yuh see it!, I'll check them out a likkle latah to see if there is anything hot for my trip

Geez....400 texts would last me less then 2 days.

Lasix was one of the best things I've ever done. I'm going on 7 years now with no issues. and NO glasses or contacts!


400 texts in 2 days really WOW?
You ladies have me interested in the lasix but I am scared to death to do it awake

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LOL this is too funny

yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay sheka!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :dance: :dance: :dance: :dance:
and yes philly your resources were very helpful, i used that as a guide to compile evidence
the main thing i would make sure i have is pics, phone records, and txt messages/cards
but you would be surprised that there are ppl who get through with little or no evidence
when i went to my medical and struck up convos with some of the other ppl there, they intended to go with nada as evidence :unsure:
yet another reason i thank God up above for you ladies and the wider vj community for schooling me


Awwe Sweetie I am am glad it was helpful, Nat with the spreadsheets and me with the Word Docs LOL You are right I would be lost without my VJ Fam!!!!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2010-02-04 16:20:00
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QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 9 2009, 05:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thank you! I talked to my sweetie this morning and he so crunk. He ready to see his Shawty, I got him trying to learn this southern slang. no0pb.gif Poe thang, he better stick to J'can patois! yes.gif


LOL my Hubby is always trying to speak Ebonics and he sounds all kids of crazy. blink.gif

QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 9 2009, 05:01 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly I think its our sons "Philly - I need to act gansta(hard azz)mentality" sometimes. Why can't our children see that our hubbies make us happy, we will be more happy with our children in return. We will have balance.... We as mothers already realize how we have to spread ourselves with not just them but with people we work with, friends and other extended family members. Things would flow so much smoother.

My ol iggnant azz children was like "Mom since Steve is here you are acting a lot calmer, he should have came a long time ago! " rofl.gif


Girl tell me about it. I need to stick this on my FRIDGE!!!!!

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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 9 2009, 04:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I got my 3 email messages & 3 text messages from USCIS acknowledging receipt of our cases.


I never ever ever got a text or email message from them! mad.gif had me calling and checking the site everyday like a stalker!


There's some new(ish) form you attach to the front of your application with your email address & phone number. I think it just came out a few months ago.



The email messaged were on my application and you could add it online as well. I never had the option for the text messages I don't recall. Anyhoo they never sent me #######, I get a twitch thinking about the USCIS. I'm so glad I dont' have to deal with them for another 2 years when we remove conditions. star_smile.gif
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 16:16:00
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QUOTE (MsSheka @ Dec 9 2009, 04:58 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
man i am here trying to catch up and fat comes up to me and says "moodie" and hands me the remote whistling.gif


LOL Hey Sheka ((((( waving))))


QUOTE (Jo & Danny @ Dec 9 2009, 05:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi Yardies,
hello to everyone, I am still in JA, Danny and I picked up his visa today, we will be home on the 15th, will let you know when we set wedding date. Good Luck to everyone with upcoming interview.



Congrats Jo and Danny bring that man home and don't be a stranger on the thread! yes.gif


QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 9 2009, 05:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
That's precious. We have some JA flags... I may put one in the car to see if it generates feedback.



I have a JA plate on the front and Haiti flag on the mirror and frame on the rear plate so people are confused LOL
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 16:04:00
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QUOTE (MsSheka @ Dec 9 2009, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey Yardies! star_smile.gif

I am dying from this "be nice for the rest of the year" ####### helpsmilie.gif i am just a mess i made my sister laugh so hard she was coughing for 30 minutes when i politely told her how i was doing, on another note i am so sick of people who does nothing for anyone but have your number on speed dial every time their heart beat mad.gif


LMAO yuh see it!

QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 9 2009, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Okay I am about to get ready and go to the airport. Might have to take my dog with me so he can keep me company. LOL!!!


kicking.gif Have a safe journey and don't hurt nobody @ the Sessi Partay LOL

QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 9 2009, 04:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I got my 3 email messages & 3 text messages from USCIS acknowledging receipt of our cases.


I never ever ever got a text or email message from them! mad.gif had me calling and checking the site everyday like a stalker!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 16:01:00
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QUOTE (jamerican @ Dec 9 2009, 04:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly..in answer to your question... The last 4 month Avery (my son) has seen a different way of life....he always complained about stuff here at home but living with his auntie and uncle he has been made to see that home life is wonderful in comparison...so, I am hoping that with his gratefulness of being able to return...he will have less of an attitude in regards to my relationship status. Ultimately he has always wanted me to be happy....I guess he just needs to see that Michael does this for me.



HI Jamerican,

I thought my response got lost in the shuffle. I truly hope that your son sees that you are happy because ultimately is most important and welcomes Hubby with open arms into the family.

I thought this would have been the case with me and it was anything but, don't want to be a Debbie downer but just being realistic about the situation. Ideally you want it to be positive for the family but just prepare yourself for the negative I wish I did......
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 15:54:00
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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 9 2009, 11:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well I broke down today from the stress and went to Panera bread and got a soup bread bowl. I feel soooooo guilty why why why did I do it! dead.gif


But it was so good eb0dfafc.gif helpsmilie.gif



awww philly was like




Girl now I feel like wanga gut yes.gif I have to go home and drink slimfast for dinner and wii boxing for desert rofl.gif
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 15:05:00
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Well I broke down today from the stress and went to Panera bread and got a soup bread bowl. I feel soooooo guilty why why why did I do it! dead.gif


But it was so good eb0dfafc.gif helpsmilie.gif
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 14:55:00
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QUOTE (Jamerican Queen @ Dec 9 2009, 03:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Congratulations to me



Happy Birthday to my son heart.gif


Timberland 12 years old today. Wow that is crazy Im not even 30 yet and my oldest is not a baby any more.

He came into the world 12 years ago today at 30 weeks pregnant. he was 3lbs 11 oz. Now he is 120lbs and 5ft 4in dangggggggggg


Here is a pic of him. He used to have long hair but I got tired of braiding it so we cut it 4 months ago.




my boys this is my screen saver at work rofl.gif


Happy Bday Timberland~


QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 9 2009, 03:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You are correct philly... smile.gif

Oh and that wine bottle... that actually a light. It is full of white lights. smile.gif The wine in that has been gone for a while! LOL



LOL Irie, I knew it I have 3 dreads in my family so I'm used to the Rastasocks star_smile.gif

phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 14:30:00
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QUOTE (Shemmy @ Dec 9 2009, 02:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
We have so much to celebrate the next month.

Damien's birthday is this Friday...mine is the 21st...Christmas....Kwaanza...New Years...then our Anniversary 1/7 dead.gif


Hey shemmy, how are you feeling?

Happy Bday Damien & Shem! Thats a fun holiday lots to celebrate this year yes.gif

QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 9 2009, 02:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh my gosh.. I just remebered a funny story. Yesterday Louis and I went to the PO. We were at a light and the car next to us beeped their horn. So we look over and the driver has a big cheesy grin and starts holding up all his reggae CDS! LOL. He was all "thumbs up"...
Louis is like #######?? Our licsence plate says "RSTAFRI" ... the guy got all happy about it guess! hahah


rofl.gif that is too funny some people get hype over the craziest things.

QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 9 2009, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Turn on some heat for the poor man.....hood up in the house, for God's sake!



LOL I think its a Rastasock
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 14:21:00
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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 9 2009, 01:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Tierra all bundled up for the SNOW!




Tierra eating the snow... hope its not YELLOW!



She is so cute oh to be a kid again!

QUOTE (Always Blessed @ Dec 9 2009, 01:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good Afternoon Everyone,

Just wanted to say a quick hello.


(((Waving Always blessed))))
QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 9 2009, 02:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Look at this... what a life... I even made them both hot cocoa in their Santa Mugs!!!! LOL





You would think they never had any issues! Go figure...



Haaaa I luv it!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 14:16:00
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LOL this is funny I am so addicted to this site!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 13:57:00
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QUOTE (1luv @ Dec 9 2009, 12:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Why u Americans have to send the snow up here. We finally got it this morning. I HATE it! sad.gif


LMAO my cousin in Toronto told me it was 0 degrees yesterday he was born in JA so he is MISERABLE LOL

QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 9 2009, 12:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
*Taking snow back*

rofl.gif

QUOTE (dillon @ Dec 9 2009, 12:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DaDa yes I am very worried and on top of that not sure what to do. My Aunt said she would buy me a ticket to be there but I am really torn. Yes if he does pass I will probably regret it that I wasn't there but at the same time I don't want to go without my family. The reason is, if he gets worse I don't know when I would be back. If he gets better than I want to stay for Christmas because who knows how long he will be around. I am thinking of packing the family up and driving out there. They live in Vegas so it would be some trek! Flying would be way to much for 4 people especially at this time of year. This is one of the times it would be nice to work for an airline so you could just go stand-by. LOL

Yes Dens prayer is very powerful!



OH Dillon,

I know this is a hard decision but I would go to your Dad only because I have been in your very same situation and regretted it afterward. Unfortunately I wish I could go back and change the way I handled it but we know we can't. I hope this helps.... rose.gif
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 12:41:00
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QUOTE (dillon @ Dec 9 2009, 12:25 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good Morning Yardies...
I am asking for your prayers for my Dad. He is in ICU for internal bleeding. He has sorosis of the liver and is actually on the transplant list (not from drinking) and one of the side effects of the disease is that they viens in the esophagus can bust or seep blood. This has happened to him in the past and they were able to stop it by putting bands around them. Well yesterday when he got up he was very light headed and thought he was going to pass out. He went to the restroom and threw up blood and it came out the other way too. They have not been able to stop the bleeding and even put a scope down his throat and could not determine where it is coming from or how to stop it. They cannot stablize his blood pressure either and it was very low like in the 30's.

I know you guys are powerful with your prayers so if you could send some up for my Dad I would appreciate it.


Dillon,

I am praying for your Dad that he recovers quickly I am so sorry to hear this. WE also need you to stay strong as well for the family in the time of crisis. Have faith that he will overcome this.
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 11:37:00
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 9 2009, 12:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 9 2009, 11:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 9 2009, 10:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
want to know if I can take 1/2 of this vicodin



They make me incredibly sleepy, Tre.



I know I took one last night...but mi back n batti a kill mi


OH No Lawny, you need to soak in a hot tub as hot as you can stand it!
phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 11:21:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 9 2009, 11:55 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
O.k. ladies help me whose Tracey Ann? I see pon FB her man comes this week but I'm not sure what VJ sistern that is?

I think she is Hays Morgan am I right ?


QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 9 2009, 12:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
How about Abdominal snow man????? rofl.gif

rofl.gif rofl.gif JG Hush haaaaa

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QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 9 2009, 11:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
rofl.gif Did you get my PM Lady?



Yes I got it. It was so short I almost missed it....


girl I wanted to make sure you knew what was going on.....

QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 9 2009, 12:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly--It is better for me this way. I can try and keep my mind off of that for a little while. We PASSED the inspection (1st part) so our Boss Major Williams is taking us to lunch. Then I should be on my way home after that. So I can take a nap then get ready to pick up my baby.


That's good keep busy and focused on other things, and yes you will need a nap before picking him up tonight LOL devil.gif

phillyfashionistaFemaleJamaica2009-12-09 11:20:00
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 9 2009, 11:21 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Isn’t that just ridiculous?? My son told me the same thing he doesn’t want me to date anyone he just wants it to be the two of us. Umm excuse me honey but you will be dating in about three years and then two more years after that off to college and you think I’m supposed to sit here an be lonely all that time?? I told him I think that is very selfish of you. He told me not to worry once he graduates he‘s buying a big house so we can live in it together. I told him buy the big house but make no plans of me moving in it unless I’m sick. As soon as all my kids are old enuff to fend for themselves mommas on the first thing smoking.


this is the issue I have with my oldest son, it would be cute if he was under 10 but come on you are 16 UGHHHH. I think its very selfish as well, I know its normal but do we have to go to these extremes..... I had to say an extra long prayer this morning to keep me steady!


LOL @ you being on the 1st thing smoking you are so crazy haaaa



QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 9 2009, 11:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
MsTee that's so sweet. You professing that love for your man! I think that's awesome!! This process can take so much focus and energy that sometimes I have to step back and just enjoy being in love with this amazing man!
I'm with you on not being excited about the whole wedding thing. I think I'm more excited about the marriage part but not the whole planning and all of that...lol! We will figure it all out in the end cause at the end of the day, the only thing that matters is that you will be united with the man you love as one!!! heart.gif


Den's you are so right the process is stressful, but you can't let it distract you from relishing in the love your share along the way.... luv.gif


QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 9 2009, 11:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i'm cool. thanks for asking. took a few days off work. monday was my anniversary (2 years) so we had to have an extra special sexy party. and been trying to get some ####### done around the house before i get too big too move....


Happy Anniversay Lady LOL do tell what is involved in the extra special Sessi Party LOL

QUOTE (Mrs. Palmer @ Dec 9 2009, 11:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
New thread--man yall talk alot! laughing.gif Good mawnin yardies! I'm supposed to be catching up on paperwork whistling.gif whistling.gif whistling.gif


Hey Mrs P ((( Waving))) how are you doing on the diet?
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QUOTE (finesse @ Dec 9 2009, 11:05 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning to all my beautiful ladies!!


Hey Finesse ((( Waving)) how is the belly?

QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 9 2009, 11:13 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I hope you do decide to pop in a little more and chat with us and we just call her Philly her name is too dang long!!!


rofl.gif Did you get my PM Lady?

QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 9 2009, 11:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Just wanted to say I love my soon-to-be hubby. He is crazy... Im so in love with him and respect him. Now if I can only get more excited about the wedding, I'd be okay *sigh*

Philly I said an extra prayer for you sis good.gif

Awee this is so sweet! LOL yes get excited its your big day yes.gif
Thanks Sis I need all the prayers I can get!

Edited by phillyfashionista, 09 December 2009 - 11:03 AM.

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QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 9 2009, 09:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Happy Hump Day Ladies....

Its a SNOW DAY here in Maine.Tierra is home and I am so glad Louis doesn't have to work tonight... we can stay in and batten down the hatches.... hmmmm its a COCOA day.


Hey Irie Happy Hump Day back at ya! Snow day oooohhhhhh I need one of those LOL

QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 9 2009, 09:50 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mawnin Ladies;

Last night I fell in my driveway and slammed into my gargage door...dis mawnin mi go look pon di garage door and it bend...cho I'm okay do...thank God fi mi extra blessings (FAT)

Hey Tre I hope you feel better, last year I slid down every one of my Mothers front step and good thing I had the extra cushioning or it would have been bad LOL so I know what you mean.

QUOTE (mamajew @ Dec 9 2009, 10:25 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes it is and I have a two hour drive to go and get hubby. Can't get around all of this commuting!!!LOL..but I would do this trip anytime. Can't wait to go and get my man.


kicking.gif Woohoo how you can you even stand being at work LOL I would be going crazy waiting for my Man! I hope you are leaving early star_smile.gif

QUOTE (Dens Wifey @ Dec 9 2009, 10:39 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Great news kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif
I called the DOS...we got our interview for January 13, 2010!! kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif



Congrats Den's that is wonderful I am so happy for you! Yuh man soon come!
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QUOTE (shermike @ Dec 8 2009, 09:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi all:

I started visiting the website a couple of years ago (2007 sometime). My story may be a little different from most of yours. I came on a student visa from Jamaica back in 2000. Met my husband in 2003 and got married in 2006 and did AOS in 2007. I am now filing for my citizenship which should be completed Feb/March 2010.

I seem to always come by when a new set of ladies are posting. I got in trouble with some of the earlier ladies because I chose to defend my Jamaican brothers from some derogatory comments made by a spurned SO. Long story short, I decided not to come back if that was all that was being posted. I am glad I did take a quick peek a couple of weeks ago because the stories are much more pleasant and happy.


By the way, good morning PhillyFashionista! Hope I got that right.


HI Shermike,

Glad to see you back on the board chime in anytime please. I understand how you may feel in regards to previous comments when you were giving your opinions but that's what this forum is for to share opinions about the journey to help others. WE all agree to disagree at some point and we can definitely learn from you journey which is different form mos on this thread. I hope you choose to come back and become part of our daily banter. Yes we get into some heated and wild discussions but at the end of the day someone has benefited. good.gif


Congrats on your soon to be citizenship kicking.gif that's a fabulous milestone! You can truly assist us when we are at that stage in our journey too star_smile.gif

QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Dec 8 2009, 10:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly, NOOOO don't feel like your life is falling apart because of the kids....things WILL come together...it's just gonna take time & giving it up to God.


We've just been on the move non-stop today....hubby is at his tutoring right now & I hope he's not in too much pain from his root canal today. I'm going to run to the Chinese store to pick up some callaloo before they close & see if I can go pick up hubby before he has to wait out in the cold for the bus. Will post interview story tomorrow morning!


thanks Ellis yes giving to God!

Hope Lehi is ok from his root canal yesterday.

QUOTE (jamerican @ Dec 9 2009, 03:31 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well......he has never warmed up to any of my previous relationships (not that there was ever a revolving door or anything like that blush.gif ).... he would rather I not be in a relationship with anyone. He has spoken to Michael on the phone but hasn't met him. He doesn't even know we are married. My son was going through so many issues with school and smellin himself that he would have just used the marriage as an excuse for his behavior so I haven't told him.....but I have to tell him when he returns because my daughter can't hold water---even with a bucket!!! And she loves to announce to everyone that she has TWO daddy's!!


Hi Jamaerican,

How do you think he will handle the news about your marriage when he arrives. Do you think this will cause more problems in the home?



QUOTE (jamerican @ Dec 9 2009, 04:02 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Thanks philly for the suggestions on the movies....will go on and order a few...


I will send you a list too there are a lot of new releases I just recvd but haven't watched yet...

QUOTE (my2rmylife @ Dec 9 2009, 06:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good mroning everyone ... i have so much to be thankful for... however i do know that obstacles always arise.. hope everyone has a blessed dya.. got to make it till friday to se the ortho and i swear it seems like friday is taking forever lol...


Morning MY 2 Yes God is Good! Hope all is well in your neck of the woods....
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QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 8 2009, 07:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Has anyone heard Busy Signal's "Night Shift (Sweet Love)"? I heard it for the first time at the reggae club Saturday and it's my new* favorite.

*new to me, as it's several months old


Hey Nat, yes that is my song LOL yes it is an oldie but goodie. You know I love BUSY!!!!

QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 8 2009, 08:30 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (NatPatBen @ Dec 8 2009, 05:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
My opinion is: It depends on the aunt/uncle. Some may not mind being called by their first names. I've been calling my mother by her first name since junior high/high school.


Wow.... blink.gif


LOL Dada I always found that strange with some families calling the parents by the first names, but hey that's what makes them all unique.....
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QUOTE (thisislove @ Dec 8 2009, 06:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
but then isn't she the same grandma that couldn't handle him over there full time CHO!!!!


YESS This is why I'm like just BACK off Mom cause you chat chat chat but when it comes time to do they are MY kids. Girl she keeps emailing me I am ignoring her cause I dont' want to be disrespectful but she is really working my last nerve....

OK mi gawn I sent you a Pm....


Hey Ms Nelly she live pon FB LOL I love it too good.gif
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 8 2009, 06:00 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (phillyfashionista @ Dec 8 2009, 04:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Dada I think we touched on a whole other issue, Grandparent involvement. Girl these issues with my Mom are gonna rip the family apart seriously. I jut hate the everyone see's Damian as the cause of the problems. Why can't the boys be help responsible for their actions they are not babies and I'm not raising babies either. Why are they not being held to the same standards as I was. I am just mad at everyone right now blink.gif



Exactly!!!! The things my son say and do my mom nor dad would neva allow. My son complains about cleaning the kitchen. He tells me its too much. Cha!!! At your age I was damn near cleaning the whole house including washing the windows and blinds and you complain about doing the kitchen and you have a dishwasher to help you? At your age I was the freaking dishwasher!!!! And my mom asks me do I do the dishes sometimes to try and help him out? Hell no. Me buying the dish washing liquid is helping him out. He made me so mad I have band him from using the dishwasher since it’s so hard with it lets see how it is without.



Girl your situation is the same as mine so trust me you know, i need to know why it changes for the next generation. Of course I asked her and gave her examples but she couldn't give me none!

Did you get my PM?
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QUOTE (thisislove @ Dec 8 2009, 05:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
irie... yunno we have good days and bad days my gyal..im glad today is turning out to be a good one..its gonna be a process.. you already know.. i know ur just venting..im glad vj is around so we can vent.. nobody take stuff personal, we're just using this as a sounding board and maybe gain some good info while we're at it!



philly, im bout to go warm my bread and put some butter on it LOL

dara and philly.. my mama learned when taylor was a newborn and i was only 18.. I AM THE MAMA.. i think i hurt her feelings a bit, but we have been good ever since.. she prolly harbors a lil resentment, but whats right is right..
i will need her help, but she can't dictate me and my family..good luck you guys!!!!..


welcome blessmeindeed..



Q that's what I feel I am the Mother but she calls them her kids LAWD! It causes so many conflicts I can say back off but she nuh listen, I pull back from ar and she makes sure she steps in. Even Damian is tired of it and sees the involvement so plainly but because we are such a small family here in the states its so hard...
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QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Dec 8 2009, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>

by the way which other language mi a talk?



Apparently Chineyish or something!


rofl.gif JG you made me laugh out loud haaaa

QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 8 2009, 05:13 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You can't really get a true view on anything until you experience it yourself. People say they love kids......yeah, until it turns out you are living with Chucky or Dennis the Menace every single day of your life. You don't know till you live it.


haaaa JG hush now that has me rolling even though its not funny but so true Lawd knows I know!


QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 8 2009, 05:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi BlessmeIndeed...lawd we need fi shaten dat deh name welcome to di board mi no know if u knew, but welcome same way



LOL @ Lawny Hello BlessmeIndeed
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QUOTE (DaDa @ Dec 8 2009, 04:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Philly I have the same problem. My oldest calls my mom every time we get into it and then my parents call me and want me to explain. Thy shall respect thy mother and thy father but I’m telling you I have had it with the questioning from my parents. I could see if I was beating the kids like I really want to well I did kind of take off my earrings and fought my oldest like he was a chic in the street but still besides that one time its not like I’m beating him to death. I had to finally stand up to my parents (shaking legs and all ) and tell them that he is MY son and I will punish him way I see fit. Then I turned to my son and told him he can call my parents the Pope and even the president. If you live in my house you will follow my rules!!!!

He is really challenging me lately. He turned 13 and now thinks he has a mortgage with a job.


Dada I think we touched on a whole other issue, Grandparent involvement. Girl these issues with my Mom are gonna rip the family apart seriously. I jut hate the everyone see's Damian as the cause of the problems. Why can't the boys be help responsible for their actions they are not babies and I'm not raising babies either. Why are they not being held to the same standards as I was. I am just mad at everyone right now blink.gif

I'm getting stressed and I want to eat! I feel like I need to call one of those hotlines haaaa

QUOTE (IrieCat @ Dec 8 2009, 04:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Tierra and I spent over 5 months with Louis getting to know each other. And I still didn't see this coming.

Now I say all this and Tierra just got home from school... Louis was hiding on her... scared her and the 2 of them got to chasing each other...laughing and playing and all is dandy.... JEESH! So it goes......



Irie that put a smile on my face good.gif

QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 8 2009, 04:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I was feeling very angry today and this whole topic of children help me to release and feel better. It also made me realize that we are not alone in this.. This is the MOST crowded I have seen this forum in a LONG time. At the end of the day, I will keep all of us parents in prayer. That God helps us to raise our children to the best of our abilities good.gif


Thamks Sis!



QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 8 2009, 04:59 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (thisislove @ Dec 8 2009, 03:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
chiney for aftanoon snack mi ave pumpkin bread from the box...


Quanna u eat bluedraws? I'm having some now, my aunt brought them up lastnight...she can't wait to leave for TX...she say it's too cold up here...don't look like she going anywhere if we get bad weather tomorrow.


Hush mi dead fi hungry Tre and Q! HUbby chat bout he cooking curry shrimp dis and dat. Cho lef mi and my veggies to starve crying.gif
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QUOTE (TRELAWNY PARISH @ Dec 8 2009, 03:43 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Mrs.Phillyfashionista mi seh -- -mi musah afi wait 'til watti kill phillip before mi get a e-mail fram oddah day mi perch like one pigeon n all now nutin naw reach mi mailbax it nearli reach one month


LMAO mi just sen yuh a link and mi see yuh response Drama as always.....

QUOTE (*JG* @ Dec 8 2009, 03:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think kids are the devil! Just kidding.

Raising kids is hard and there is no right or wrong way to do it. Everyone has different styles.

I have been criticized for how I have raised my kids by some people. They say I am too lenient on them. Why, I ask? Cause my kids (17 year old boy, 14 year old girl) make straight A's? Cause my son is taking his first year of college courses FREE in high school? Cause my son got a job the very day he turned 16? Cause they take/have taken care of their elderly great-grandmother, aunts, grandparents, my little nephew? Cause they show respect to everyone.....even if I have to remind them sometimes? Cause they actually talk to me and ask my opinion on important issues effecting them?

My kids are good kids. How we got here was a struggle sometimes. I didn't want little robots (although they are surprisingly like me in many ways!). I wanted them to have interests and minds and whatever else all their own. I just wanted them respectful, hard working, and loving children. I wanted them safe and secure. I say I have done a fine job.

But, as long as you know YOUR rules and somehow get them to obey them, you can take a different path to get there. You will all find your way.



Thanks JG, luv.gif
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QUOTE (thisislove @ Dec 8 2009, 03:27 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
aftanoon massive!

when ppl have 2 different ideas about raising children, im not sure what can be done besides trying to find some middleground..

i had this problem even w/ my kids biological dad, he stayed on them, sometimes unnecessarily in my eyes, and my idea was that "they are good kids overall, you don't have to be so strict"

we fought sometimes about it, but not enough to cause a major rift.. well not that issue anyway lol

roger believes i should punish my youngest more than i do, he has mentioned it a few times, "steph needs a whooping" . and in those instances he was right, i don't notice until she is out w/ others.. becuz she is such a smart and mature child, i try to give her the benefit of the doubt, but in the end she is still a child and i can't let her act so dyam grown.. i may not put my hands on her as much as roger would on his kids (HE SAYS) but i am gnna start laying the smack down more often..

good luck finding ur middle ground irie



Quanna you are always the voice of clarity! I love you Sis!

QUOTE (mstee @ Dec 8 2009, 03:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
lol well thank you, i will have to let him know.. He mustve been reading what I was saying today because he just called me and enrolled himself into a medical assistant program at Lincoln Tech... GLORY BE TO GOD!!!!


Yes that is great news!!!

QUOTE (Ellsinlove @ Dec 8 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Morning/Afternoon Yardies!

Just in & out real quick....we are back from the AOS interview & we are approved! God truly blessed us even with a really nice officer....Officer Thomas who just so happens to be married to a Grenadan man. She's also a Florida gal so she understands how it is to be from a warm place. We seemed to chat more about food, weather & what not more than interview questions. Lehi ended up answering the bulk of questions & the lady was really understanding of his lack of knowledge of details on things like dates. I'll tell the full story & review this evening when we get home. We are back out to have some lunch before poor honey has to have a root canal at 1:00. Thanks Yardies for all your encouragement! You all are the best!


Ells God is good Sis I knew you would get through!

QUOTE (Chiney*Eyes @ Dec 8 2009, 03:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i'm not a professional in any kind of therapy..i'm talking about kids and behavior..based on my experience with my child and my husband her bilogical dad..i recognized alot of my faults..and he did what he felt was the best thing then and that was to allow me to parent her thinking that would take care of the issue..of course it did not..i'm just saying we cannot dismiss the step parents parenting..we should always give the backing..no one is perfect...and alot of us spoil out kids and we feel no one else has the right to speak to them any kind of way..and that affects a step parent



I totally agree Chiney , its important for us to recognize our faults and individual parent, communicate and stay consistent together.
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