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Hi Kayla! I don't have a lot of advice to offer aside from what you've already been told, but I wanted to say welcome to VJ! The process is stressful and expensive, but it is definitely worth it in the end! I moved from Ontario to Denver, so I know what its like to be a young Canadian girl in the wild west! laughing.gif

My husband and I visited each other several times during the process (every 6 weeks or so) and we never encountered a problem. You are allowed to visit, but make sure you bring prof of ties to Canada with you (ie prof of a mortgage/lease, a letter from your employer saying you are returning etc.) Anything that demonstrates you have strong ties to home and would want/need to return. Since you are an intending immigrant, the officer at the POE may be suspicious you intend on staying illegally. Don't worry, many of us were never asked for any prof aside from a return place ticket or a verbal declaration. However, it is always smart to be prepared for any scenario!


thank you! i am so glad to be part of this welcoming community. last night i was having a stress attack and today i am calm and realizing that i'm not the only one doing this! none of my family supports my decision to do this so it's been very hard on me without any support for what i'm doing but since ive been here and seen all of you are doing the same thing as me gives me a little comfort in believing that this all can work out. smile.gif when visiting each other how long was your stay usually?


I can imagine its difficult without family support. My family wasn't very happy with the idea at first either, but in time they came to accept my decision and became supportive. Hopefully that happens for you! The first stage seems to be anger, than denial, then eventually they realize that if they want to maintain a relationship with you they need to accept your decisions. But at no time during the process did they really bother to ask me how it was going, or what stage I was on, mainly because they just didn't want to face the reality of the situation!

When we were dating long distance I was a full time student with a part-time job, and he was working full time, so our visits normally weren't very long. During holidays like Christmas or spring break, we could spent a week or two together, but on a normal visit it would usually only last 3-5 days. I would need to get back to school and he would need to get back to work! It was a long way to travel and a lot of money to spend for a few days, but It was always worth it for us. Its nice not having to be constantly traveling after doing it for the last 4 years.

As Bern said, you can usually get your vaccination records from a couple different places. If you have a normal family doctor, or did in the past, he/she should have a record. If not, the Ontario Health board keeps a record, you can call their hotline and request access. Schools generally keep records of required vaccinations as well. If you're feeling ambitious, maybe try to get your records from all of these places. I got one from my doctor and one from the health board and things were missing on both of them. Together they made a complete record!



thank you for the reply i really appreciate it smile.gif as i said in another post, the checklist here http://www.visajourn...mp;page=k1guide

is that completely accurate on what we need to have/complete when he files for the I-129F? smile.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 13:07:00
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QUOTE (minnew @ Oct 2 2009, 11:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Welcome to VJ kayla!! Just wanted to say take a deep breath and relax! It will all work out fine! It's alot of paperwork and information to digest all at once, but it will get easier! Just take a look at the guides and always go to USCIS.gov for forms because sometimes the links on the guides can be the outdated forms. You definitely do not need a lawyer for this process!


thank you so much!! im so glad to be here, i feel like if any problems arise i have a lot of support smile.gif so i was reading the checklisthttp://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?autocom=custom&page=k1guide

thats everything that we need to have? it's not missing anything?



kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 12:52:00
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i found this on a website:

Q: What documents must you bring to the American Consulate?

A: After the consular officer notifies you of approval, your fiancé(e) will be required to bring his or her:

* Valid passport
* Original/official copy of birth certificate
* If previously married, any divorce or annulment decrees, death certificates
* Police record/certificate from places lived since age 16
* Medical examination papers
* Evidence showing financial support by your fiancé(e)
* Proof of a valid and bona-fide relationship with your fiancé(e)
* Two square passport size color photographs (1.5 x 1.5 inches or 37mm x 37), must show full face and light/white background


di you guys bring all of the above things?because ive moved a million times since i was 16 how does that work?
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 01:00:00
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$455 USD



can you give me a link of to where it says that please? Thanks.

http://www.uscis.gov...00045f3d6a1RCRD

There ya go biggrin.gif



thank you very much! biggrin.gif

Your welcome. Good luck with everything dear, and don't be afraid to ask more questions!!



trust me, you'll all be getting sick of me after a couple days haha

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 00:37:00
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$455 USD



can you give me a link of to where it says that please? Thanks.

http://www.uscis.gov...00045f3d6a1RCRD

There ya go biggrin.gif



thank you very much! biggrin.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 00:33:00
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QUOTE (Bern. @ Oct 2 2009, 01:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
$455 USD



can you give me a link of to where it says that please? Thanks.
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 00:28:00
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so me and my boyfriend are going to begin the I-129F process in about a week so as i was reading the guide some questions arose smile.gif

1. Do you need to call them and tell somebody your shipping it? or..Do you just go ahead full out everything, get the documents and just ship it wheres its supposed to go?

2. you send it away, to them (paying shipping of course) and the USCIS sends it back eventually with how much money you pay them? not really sure about that process there. that's all the questions at the moment thanks!


No, you can just send your package away. Triple check it and make sure everything that's supposed to be there, is there. And you send payment with the original package. You can use a check or money order to do so.


where is the cost listed though on how much it is going to cost? i dont see that anywhere

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 00:23:00
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so me and my boyfriend are going to begin the I-129F process in about a week so as i was reading the guide some questions arose smile.gif

1. Do you need to call them and tell somebody your shipping it? or..Do you just go ahead full out everything, get the documents and just ship it wheres its supposed to go?

2. you send it away, to them (paying shipping of course) and the USCIS sends it back eventually with how much money you pay them? not really sure about that process there. that's all the questions at the moment thanks!
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-02 00:18:00
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QUOTE (Peachey @ Oct 1 2009, 11:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No, but you both have to fill out forms in the package. This link will help you:

http://www.visajourn...mp;page=k1guide



yep! i was just looking at that and i understand how it works now hehe, i don't really start paperwork until the second NOA but for the I-129F we both fill out the G-325fA to send with it? (plus all required documents of course)

Edited by kaylamarie, 01 October 2009 - 11:19 PM.

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 23:16:00
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It will be more than $2K, since that's about a minimum... but yeah, the good thing is that it's NOT all at once. smile.gif

And yes, Peterborough is closer than many places. I'd love to have a few hours head start on my drive. laughing.gif



it's so inspiring reading everybody's stories. have you guys been visiting eachother a lot while it's still processing?


My fiancé is out in California, so it's pretty far (as is Oregon). We can't afford to visit each other as often as we would like, due to the time required away from work, and the distance and expense of travel... so we probably won't see each other again until the interview/move. It seems to have worked out that we see each other every 2-4 months though. We take turns. He's dual citizen, which makes it easier in some ways, since he has no worries about getting into Canada or anything. It really sucks though... I hope we can all be with our loved ones soon.


Mine is out in CA too, we usually manage every 4-5 months but with things the way they are right now we're hold off on a visit until the move so that wes has all his vacation time for helping move and getting me settled. I can't go visit him due to lack of money and ties to canada ><. Hopefully soon we will all be with the ones we love!



you much sooner then I that's for sure!

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 23:13:00
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QUOTE (Peachey @ Oct 1 2009, 11:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Yes, you both have to fill out forms, but he sends the petition in and he pays (well the money has to come from a US bank account)



we both fill out the I 129 F?
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 22:29:00
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so my boyfriend needs to start this process right? he has to file for the I 129F there?
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 22:06:00
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its so hard not having any support from my family..sad.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 21:24:00
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It will be more than $2K, since that's about a minimum... but yeah, the good thing is that it's NOT all at once. smile.gif

And yes, Peterborough is closer than many places. I'd love to have a few hours head start on my drive. laughing.gif



it's so inspiring reading everybody's stories. have you guys been visiting eachother a lot while it's still processing?


My fiancé is out in California, so it's pretty far (as is Oregon). We can't afford to visit each other as often as we would like, due to the time required away from work, and the distance and expense of travel... so we probably won't see each other again until the interview/move. It seems to have worked out that we see each other every 2-4 months though. We take turns. He's dual citizen, which makes it easier in some ways, since he has no worries about getting into Canada or anything. It really sucks though... I hope we can all be with our loved ones soon.



you must be so excited with how far you are in this process! i haven't even started yet i am very envious of you!
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 21:18:00
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QUOTE (Hugglebuggles @ Oct 1 2009, 10:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi Kayla! I don't have a lot of advice to offer aside from what you've already been told, but I wanted to say welcome to VJ! The process is stressful and expensive, but it is definitely worth it in the end! I moved from Ontario to Denver, so I know what its like to be a young Canadian girl in the wild west! laughing.gif

My husband and I visited each other several times during the process (every 6 weeks or so) and we never encountered a problem. You are allowed to visit, but make sure you bring prof of ties to Canada with you (ie prof of a mortgage/lease, a letter from your employer saying you are returning etc.) Anything that demonstrates you have strong ties to home and would want/need to return. Since you are an intending immigrant, the officer at the POE may be suspicious you intend on staying illegally. Don't worry, many of us were never asked for any prof aside from a return place ticket or a verbal declaration. However, it is always smart to be prepared for any scenario!


thank you! i am so glad to be part of this welcoming community. last night i was having a stress attack and today i am calm and realizing that i'm not the only one doing this! none of my family supports my decision to do this so it's been very hard on me without any support for what i'm doing but since ive been here and seen all of you are doing the same thing as me gives me a little comfort in believing that this all can work out. smile.gif when visiting each other how long was your stay usually?

Edited by kaylamarie, 01 October 2009 - 09:17 PM.

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 21:15:00
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QUOTE (ashenflowers @ Oct 1 2009, 09:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
It will be more than $2K, since that's about a minimum... but yeah, the good thing is that it's NOT all at once. smile.gif

And yes, Peterborough is closer than many places. I'd love to have a few hours head start on my drive. laughing.gif



it's so inspiring reading everybody's stories. have you guys been visiting eachother a lot while it's still processing?
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 20:58:00
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QUOTE (Peachey @ Oct 1 2009, 08:46 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Your first petition (I 129F) is 455$
Then you'll have various expenses for birth certificates, expresspost envelopes, police certificates
Your medical will range from 275-350$
Hotel expense for your interview.
The fee for the interview is 131$ (I know, weird eh? 131!)
Then you'll have your moving expenses, and the 6$ fee at the border.
Depending on what kind of wedding you're going to have you'll have stuff to pay for (pastor/JoP, marriage liscence, marriage certificate)
Adjustment of Status is 1010$

Then you're done for a couple years, until you apply to remove your conditions!


well its good to know its not 2k all at once. now i can prove to my boyfriend that he was wrong and tel him i was right. but we all like being right dont we? hehe. thank's so much for posting that, it gives me a rough estimate on what i should be expecting. so it took you 10 months from filing to be able to enter the US together? Were going to be filing I 129F within a couple weeks.Finally we're doing the first step and i'm very excited to finally get this long process going. I'm not a very patient person though unsure.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 19:53:00
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Oh Peterborough to Montreal is only about 5, 6 hours tops by car!!



really? on a bus trip i took there once i swore it took 8 hours!


Oh I'm sure it did on a bus, they stop so many times!! But if you drove straight there, it would only be 5-6 hours



oh well thats not too bad then. too bad there wasn't an office in Toronto ive been there many times, but i guess things arent that easy. do you know where i can find the cost of each step? my boyfriend said he thought the $2,000 had to be paid all at once but i thought thats just how much the whole process will add up to after paying all the fees. i know i've said this many times but i appreciate so much how helpful you guys are, i dont even know how i found this website but im sure happy i did
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 19:31:00
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No, if you are in Ontario, you will need to get to Montreal for the interview


yeah thats what i meant was montreal. thats 9 hours away i dont even know how i'd get there!



Are you in the Sault.... hmm, maybe Windsor.

But welcome to VJ! The no lawyer thing is good advice. I asked the same question when my fiance and I first started the process and we're doing just fine smile.gif Almost at the interview stage.

Things go slow, but you learn much patience in this process.

This community helps support each other, and I don't know what I would do without VJ!



yeah i actually talked to a friend and she said she would go with me, my mom unfortunately wouldn't do it with me im sure of, she is definitely the one person i'd want by my side though (not saying i depend on my mother) but shes my mom right? smile.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 19:29:00
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QUOTE (JillA @ Oct 1 2009, 08:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh Peterborough to Montreal is only about 5, 6 hours tops by car!!



really? on a bus trip i took there once i swore it took 8 hours!
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 19:25:00
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No, if you are in Ontario, you will need to get to Montreal for the interview


yeah thats what i meant was montreal. thats 9 hours away i dont even know how i'd get there!


Train, car, plane, bus, etc. Immigration is very expensive sad.gif



where do i find the cost of each thing? that woudl reallly help by the way, i just want to say thank you to everybody here you guys are so amazing smile.gif

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No, if you are in Ontario, you will need to get to Montreal for the interview


yeah thats what i meant was montreal. thats 9 hours away i dont even know how i'd get there!



Are you in the Sault.... hmm, maybe Windsor.

But welcome to VJ! The no lawyer thing is good advice. I asked the same question when my fiance and I first started the process and we're doing just fine smile.gif Almost at the interview stage.

Things go slow, but you learn much patience in this process.

This community helps support each other, and I don't know what I would do without VJ!


yep im aware i wont be able to work for that 5 months and i def. won't do it unless i know i can afford but luckily it wont be just me me and my boyfriend will be splitting everything


and i live in Peterborough Ontario sorry for late responses work work work!
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 19:17:00
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QUOTE (JillA @ Oct 1 2009, 01:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No, if you are in Ontario, you will need to get to Montreal for the interview


yeah thats what i meant was montreal. thats 9 hours away i dont even know how i'd get there!

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 12:05:00
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QUOTE (trailmix @ Oct 1 2009, 12:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi and welcome,

Basically immigration is filling out a bunch of paperwork. As Jill mentioned, many here have done it without the help of a lawyer. Now i'm not trying to discourage you from getting one if that's your choice, but as Jill also said, they don't care about your paperwork as much as you do! (generally). It is no faster, everyone, lawyer or not, has to fill out the same forms and submit them to the same address.

To start, a good place to look at an overview of the K1 process is here: K1 Flowchart

Once you have reviewed that you will want to look at the guides (just click on the guides tab at the top of the page).

Also - where do you live? Where you live will dictate where you have your interview. There are only 2 U.S. consulates in Canada that do interviews, Vancouver and Montreal. Where your file will be sent, eventually, depends on which province you live in.

Oh and you aren't being a bother, so after you read the guides and you have questions, please come back and ask!



does that mean i have to go all the way to montreal for my interview??? isn't that the slowest place too (for what i've read)

Edited by kaylamarie, 01 October 2009 - 12:04 PM.

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No you're not annoying, I was just as confused and overwhelmed to the immigration process when I started as well. If you and your BF both do some research here on VJ, read the guides, sample forms, timelines, etc. you can surely do this yourself with no lawyer. That's a fact, because many of us VJ did it with no lawyer. There is no reason why you can't too.

It's really up to the discretion of the BG to decide if you'll be let in... A return ticket is good, but not exactly proof enough you are coming back. After all, you could cancel the ticket or choose to skip the flight back. This is just my own opinion, and how I felt but don't you want to spend your last few months/year in Canada with family and friends who you'll be leaving? The transition of moving to a new country away from everything/everyone you know is incredibly hard. You won't know how hard it is until you do it, you cannot fully prepare yourself for the adjustment life will bring you.

How would you get mail from USCIS if you are in the US? Would your parents collect it for you?



Yeah my parents would collect all that information for me but i'm starting to think now me doing that would make things a bit more complicated in the end? What's the BG? im not quite familiar with that term yet. I think we'll probably skip the lawyer. I just dont want to go another 8 months on top of the 7 months that i haven't seen him and i thought that would be a good way to do it is to just go there for 5 or so months and maybe come back for the last of it? I know it will be a huuuge life changing thing, and im very ready for it the original plan was for him to come and live here but i had wanted to live in the US with him ..crazy eh?


Sorry, BG = border guard.

Yup, it's pretty crazy what we do for love laughing.gif

Just out of curiosity, what province are you in and where would you be moving to in the US?



I live in Ontario, and his state is Oregon
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 11:57:00
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QUOTE (JillA @ Oct 1 2009, 12:33 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
No you're not annoying, I was just as confused and overwhelmed to the immigration process when I started as well. If you and your BF both do some research here on VJ, read the guides, sample forms, timelines, etc. you can surely do this yourself with no lawyer. That's a fact, because many of us VJ did it with no lawyer. There is no reason why you can't too.

It's really up to the discretion of the BG to decide if you'll be let in... A return ticket is good, but not exactly proof enough you are coming back. After all, you could cancel the ticket or choose to skip the flight back. This is just my own opinion, and how I felt but don't you want to spend your last few months/year in Canada with family and friends who you'll be leaving? The transition of moving to a new country away from everything/everyone you know is incredibly hard. You won't know how hard it is until you do it, you cannot fully prepare yourself for the adjustment life will bring you.

How would you get mail from USCIS if you are in the US? Would your parents collect it for you?



Yeah my parents would collect all that information for me but i'm starting to think now me doing that would make things a bit more complicated in the end? What's the BG? im not quite familiar with that term yet. I think we'll probably skip the lawyer. I just dont want to go another 8 months on top of the 7 months that i haven't seen him and i thought that would be a good way to do it is to just go there for 5 or so months and maybe come back for the last of it? I know it will be a huuuge life changing thing, and im very ready for it the original plan was for him to come and live here but i had wanted to live in the US with him ..crazy eh?
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 11:48:00
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QUOTE (Krikit @ Oct 1 2009, 12:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi kaylamarie. Jill was kind enough to inform me about your posts so I have split them from the EI thread into your own topic.

You'll find tons of good information here, and some really lovely people. Welcome to VJ. smile.gif



thank you so much:)
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Kayla,

Maybe a mod can open a new discussion for you, as this is in the wrong area. Anyway, take a deep breath and relax. First of all, have you applied for a Visa yet? If so, what kind of Visa? Regardless, 5 months is too soon, you won't get approved that quickly. From start to finish, it can take from 8-12 months.


He was supposed to of started it last week he had a consult with a lawyer but everything got postponed so i had decided to come on here and look for information. sorry i forgot to mention that we'd be applying for the K1-visa. 8-12 months? that's horrible...and yeah i know i posted in the wrong area and im sorry but i just didn't know where to post. for the medical exam is it a complete physical?

thank you so much for responding your help it so appreciated.


Don't worry. First of all, you came to the right place. VJ is an excellent source of information, and many of us (myself included) did this entire Visa process from start to finish with NO LAWYER. Take some time, read the guides (above) and learn about the process. Yes, from the very beginning of the K-1 to the end takes longer than 5 months right now I'm afraid, it's not a quick nor easy process. Immigration isn't meant to be simple, I'm afraid. But try and be patient, and the time will come!

Well it is a physical, but they don't do an internal exam or anything if that's what you mean... they take a quick "peek" under your gown to ensure your female. They also do a breast exam. Since you are 19, you will be required to get the gardisil vaccination.




You have no idea how much i appreciate your help your pretty much my savior at this point thank you so much..i really didn't think it would take longer then that i was expecting 4-5 months thats a reallllly big letdown i'm so sick of waiting. If a lawyer is used doesn't that mean the process would be speeded up a bit? so another question, could i visit for six months while the process is happening? Six months is the time your allowed to visit right? 6 months of the calendar year or something like that? So could we file for the k1 and then i go visit him for six months while it happens?


No problem, that's what we are all here for. VJ will be a huge source of help to you.

Now, first of all - NO, a lawyer will NOT speed up your process. In fact, people who have used a lawyer have sometimes reported longer waits then those who do it themselves. Why? Because a lawyer doesn't pay as much detail in filling out the forms as you will, you can't control when the lawyer sends in the package, etc. Plus immigration is costly enough as it is, you really don't want to have to spend thousands more on a lawyer, do you? But of course, that is entirely up to you and your boyfriend.

It is a letdown, but the honest truth. It is hard to wait to be with the one you love, but think of the big picture. What's another 3-4 months in the long term? Really nothing, and that's just how it is right now.

Yes, you are technically allowed to visit for 6 months as a Canadian in the US. HOWEVER, when you enter the US you need to prove ties to Canada. The border guard will be very suspicious if you say you are going to visit for 5-6 months. How will they know you will return to Canada? What proof will you have? At your age (assumption here) you probably live with your parents? So you don't have a lease agreement, etc. Do you work? Would an employer be willing to give you a letter to state you are coming back to work? These are all things you need to think about. Also, you need to be present in Canada to do your medical, get the package from Montreal stating when your interview is, etc.

Bottom line is, you can definitely visit the US while your K-1 file is processing. However, you need to be prepared to answer some tough questions at the border (will you have a return ticket)? You don't want to get turned away, and you also don't want to risk an overstay. They WILL ask you at the interview what the longest is you've spent in the US



Well ill be sure to pass on that information about the lawyer to my boyfriend. considering you've been through all of this i'll take your word on it. i'm actually living on my own right now but moving back in with my parents at the end of October so i guess the lease wont work. I do have a job but, if i left for 6 months im not sure i'd still have a job lol but its worth asking i guess! so if i dont have a lease or a statement from my employer is that pretty much out of the question? what if i buy a return ticket, can't i just use that? I really hope you dont mind all my questions if i get annoying be free to tell me. Would you say it could work? or would you recommend not even doing that

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 11:24:00
CanadaNew Member - Need Help
QUOTE (JillA @ Oct 1 2009, 11:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (kaylamarie @ Oct 1 2009, 11:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
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Kayla,

Maybe a mod can open a new discussion for you, as this is in the wrong area. Anyway, take a deep breath and relax. First of all, have you applied for a Visa yet? If so, what kind of Visa? Regardless, 5 months is too soon, you won't get approved that quickly. From start to finish, it can take from 8-12 months.


He was supposed to of started it last week he had a consult with a lawyer but everything got postponed so i had decided to come on here and look for information. sorry i forgot to mention that we'd be applying for the K1-visa. 8-12 months? that's horrible...and yeah i know i posted in the wrong area and im sorry but i just didn't know where to post. for the medical exam is it a complete physical?

thank you so much for responding your help it so appreciated.


Don't worry. First of all, you came to the right place. VJ is an excellent source of information, and many of us (myself included) did this entire Visa process from start to finish with NO LAWYER. Take some time, read the guides (above) and learn about the process. Yes, from the very beginning of the K-1 to the end takes longer than 5 months right now I'm afraid, it's not a quick nor easy process. Immigration isn't meant to be simple, I'm afraid. But try and be patient, and the time will come!

Well it is a physical, but they don't do an internal exam or anything if that's what you mean... they take a quick "peek" under your gown to ensure your female. They also do a breast exam. Since you are 19, you will be required to get the gardisil vaccination.




You have no idea how much i appreciate your help your pretty much my savior at this point thank you so much..i really didn't think it would take longer then that i was expecting 4-5 months thats a reallllly big letdown i'm so sick of waiting. If a lawyer is used doesn't that mean the process would be speeded up a bit? so another question, could i visit for six months while the process is happening? Six months is the time your allowed to visit right? 6 months of the calendar year or something like that? So could we file for the k1 and then i go visit him for six months while it happens?

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 10:55:00
CanadaNew Member - Need Help
QUOTE
Kayla,

Maybe a mod can open a new discussion for you, as this is in the wrong area. Anyway, take a deep breath and relax. First of all, have you applied for a Visa yet? If so, what kind of Visa? Regardless, 5 months is too soon, you won't get approved that quickly. From start to finish, it can take from 8-12 months.


He was supposed to of started it last week he had a consult with a lawyer but everything got postponed so i had decided to come on here and look for information. sorry i forgot to mention that we'd be applying for the K1-visa. 8-12 months? that's horrible...and yeah i know i posted in the wrong area and im sorry but i just didn't know where to post. for the medical exam is it a complete physical?

thank you so much for responding your help it so appreciated.


Edited by kaylamarie, 01 October 2009 - 10:22 AM.

kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 10:18:00
CanadaNew Member - Need Help
hi guys...sorry if you get mad at me for posting in the wrong area..i'm sooo new to this but im about ready to pull my hair out and cry. my boyfriend and i have been dating for..2 years feb.24th but we've known each other longer. I'm moving there to the United States in Oregon (I'm a Canadian citizen he's American) I'm also 19, hes turning 21. please no comments about age . anyways how long estimate should this take? Just an estimation i would really love, from reading everyone's stories here my guess was about 5 months for everything to be done? does that seem right. anyways he's visited here twice once for two weeks, and again for 3 weeks. and being apart is just too hard (we've been apart for about 7 months) I was calm about all this before, but then reading things is really stressing me out. Anyways so my questions are.

1. what happens during the medical exam
2. estimate time of how long it takes

those questions are pretty different from each other but..those are just the little things i have to ask before i start hyperventilating lol.

Thanks.

-Kayla blush.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 00:50:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsOh Happy Day
congrats smile.gif hope everything else runs great smile.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 23:22:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresUnemployed and wanting to apply K-1 for my fiancee
QUOTE (MrShifter @ Oct 3 2009, 07:55 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hi, I'm new to this.
Both my fiancee and I are recent graduates and currently unemployed.
We met during grad school in the UK and I'm interested in applying for the K-1 visa to get him to the US.

I'm currently actively looking for work and hope to be employed soon, but of course with the current economy I am not very confident of when this will happen.

If I am unable to to find a co-sponsor, have no current income or income from the past three years (since I've been a student) that can show I'm 125% above the poverty level, is it advisable to begin the petition process? Is even considering a K-1 recommended at all because looks like I'm not going to meet the financial requirement at the moment or anytime soon?

Please advise, thank you!


unless you are 125% over the poverty line then there really is no point of filing for the k-1 because you wont even be able to fill out your I-134 form.
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-03 19:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresUnemployed and wanting to apply K-1 for my fiancee
i actually asked this same question pretty much, my boyfriend has a job he just doesn't make enough a year, but he has somebody who can sponsor him. if you don't make the required amount a year and don't find a sponsor unfortunately you won't be able to bring her to the US sad.gif . You can pretty much get anybody to sponsor you (as i was told) whether it be a friend, mother, father, cousin etc etc. smile.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-03 19:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresCase Specific Information Requests
hi guys...sorry if you get mad at me for posting in the wrong area..i'm sooo new to this but im about ready to pull my hair out and cry. my boyfriend and i have been dating for..2 years feb.24th but we've known each other longer. I'm moving there to the United States in Oregon (I'm a Canadian citizen he's American) I'm also 19, hes turning 21. please no comments about age . anyways how long estimate should this take? Just an estimation i would really love, from reading everyone's stories here my guess was about 5 months for everything to be done? does that seem right. anyways he's visited here twice once for two weeks, and again for 3 weeks. and being apart is just too hard (we've been apart for about 7 months) I was calm about all this before, but then reading things is really stressing me out. Anyways so my questions are.

1. what happens during the medical exam
2. estimate time of how long it takes

those questions are pretty different from each other but..those are just the little things i have to ask before i start hyperventilating lol.

Thanks.

-Kayla blush.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 00:53:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & ProceduresGeneral K1 Guides and Info
hi guys...sorry if you get mad at me for posting in the wrong area..i'm sooo new to this but im about ready to pull my hair out and cry. my boyfriend and i have been dating for..2 years feb.24th but we've known each other longer. I'm moving there to the United States in Oregon (I'm a Canadian citizen he's American) I'm also 19, hes turning 21. please no comments about age . anyways how long estimate should this take? Just an estimation i would really love, from reading everyone's stories here my guess was about 5 months for everything to be done? does that seem right. anyways he's visited here twice once for two weeks, and again for 3 weeks. and being apart is just too hard (we've been apart for about 7 months) I was calm about all this before, but then reading things is really stressing me out. Anyways so my questions are.

1. what happens during the medical exam
2. estimate time of how long it takes

those questions are pretty different from each other but..those are just the little things i have to ask before i start hyperventilating lol.

Thanks.

-Kayla blush.gif
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-01 00:48:00
CanadaNew Member - Need Help
QUOTE (Danu @ Oct 16 2009, 10:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
no problem biggrin.gif it basically just needs to be a letter stating that they expect you back at some point, to show that you have a tie.



okay well that should be nooo problem at all smile.gif especially since my sister is shift manager, and my boss loves me haha

QUOTE (kaylamarie @ Oct 16 2009, 10:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Danu @ Oct 16 2009, 10:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
no problem biggrin.gif it basically just needs to be a letter stating that they expect you back at some point, to show that you have a tie.



okay well that should be nooo problem at all smile.gif especially since my sister is shift manager, and my boss loves me haha



i wish i could find an example of one though but i can't find one anywhere
kaylamarieFemale02009-10-16 21:37:00