ForumTitleContentMemberSexCountryDate/Time
CanadaI am SO upset!
When I had mine done by the RCMP it listed the wait time as 2 to 4 months,as this last date was beyond the expiration of my NOA2 I called the consulate and advised them of the possible problem and was told by the consulte not to worry as the expiration date would be extended as they were told it could take up to 7 months by the RCMP to get the certificate, the consulate said I should have it by August, I recieved it in March 70 days after applying for it and 3 days after talking with the consulate. I was quite surprised to get it but also very happy that it didn't take as long as I was told. Be prepared for a surprise because I for one think the timelines given are for their benefit more often than not but there is the odd one that does take the entire amount of time they state and for those I have no clue as to why.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-15 06:37:00
CanadaI got my drivers license today!!:)
Congratulations on getting the licence,
I tried to get mine in Kansas a few years ago but they said not until I move there and become a resident, wouldn't even give me a learners permit, just wanting to move there doesn't count. So for now Sharon is driving both vehicles.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-14 13:03:00
CanadaMontreal Interview Experience - 10/9/07
Congratulations, I'm glad that another couple leaves Montreal with joy in their hearts and grins on the faces.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-12 12:07:00
CanadaAPPROVED
Told ya yesterday, I said I would be back to congratulate you, well here I am and there you are, CONGRATULATIONS
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 13:22:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (Len_and_Bren @ Oct 18 2007, 03:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Now we're talking..... good.gif because believe me, no one wants to experience the wrath of this Mexican. mad.gif

Or this Fench Canadian, as I told the security guard last night as I was leaving, "I may be old but I can still raise my foot to reach your as$"
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 14:22:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
Sorry for the confussion! it was a few people here at work that needed my help and jokingly said I spend to much time here an not enough at working. The truth is that I can be here as long and anytime I want, I was moved to this job last December because we were in the process for getting the visa. The boss decided that I would have an easier time if I had less to do. Basically I'm trully not needed in this position because it was created just for me until I leave or their doing this is questioned from above. Working for a Deputy Minister in the Federal Government does have its perks nad this by no means, means all I do is be on VJ, I just have more freedom than other.

Lenina and Trailmix, what you just experienced was what happens when my fingers on the keyboard are slow than my mind.
Thanks
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 14:15:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
My time here is being questioned right now so to evryone thank you all very much for the thought, comments and prayers, as you can see you are together working wonders for us, and can never tell how much having such friends really helps us.
Ron
P.S.
Sonoransongbird, I hope you didn't ruin and of your paperwork
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 13:00:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (kimmbo @ Oct 18 2007, 01:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Continuing to send good thoughts for you both... so happy that Sharon got some good news about her job...hopefully thats just the beginning of the good news for you two!

What has happened just proves that good thoughts and prayers work, and we are very thankful to you and everyone else for everything they are doing on our behalf, knowing that we aren't alone helps us sleep better and get the rest for tomorrows battle. We are both happy about the change at work, and will wowrk on changing other things in our lives
Thanks on
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 12:52:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (lynamon @ Oct 17 2007, 11:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh dear Ron .. it's a never ending battle for the both of you ... but your love for one another endures and your fight continues. It is truly admirable and you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Hi Lynette, I hope everything is going well for you and your family, I guess Ed is happy now that you can drive yourself around, a little independence doesn't hurt does it.
Ours is a battle that is shared by many more in other forums, they aslo are going through things and I hope they have the same support that Sharon and I are getting. The battle with the USCIS is that will be for a while longer and we are ready for that, it is the other things that life throws our way that we are concentrating on now as we wait for news from the others. Nothing is affecting the love we have just our patience as for the battle with USCIS I am making a list of those able to help and those that need to be told that thing are not right under their watch. Thank you for te prayer
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 10:41:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (Len_and_Bren @ Oct 17 2007, 08:32 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Ron/Sharon @ Oct 17 2007, 05:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
The good news is that Sharon spent three hours with her boss and came home with something she can deal with that will benefit many others 4 days on and 3 off for a 40 hour week instead of the 65 to 70 hours she was working and by getting this she has also affected the hours other managers will be working. She also got a 48 hour week for the day managers instead of a 56 hour week. The managers are all salaried people not hourly which add to everyone's bottom line.
Sharon wants me to say hello to everyone and thank you for the support you have given us and the support given as she made this decision.


The meeting was productive, then!! Good for her -- tell that girl that we love her a bunch... or that the crazy bunch loves her!!!! wink.gif

The meeting was productive for all the managers, for Sharon and the other manager that works with her they will get more time off and work 25 to 30 less hours every week. the other managers will aslo work 11 less hours per week. Sharon did ring up a lot of things that she saw was wrong and she was listened to and further changes will come but a bit slower. I will tell her but I'm trying to get her to do some of her own talking (typing) here she has a voice and should be heard and the support here would do her wonders.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 10:05:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
The good news is that Sharon spent three hours with her boss and came home with something she can deal with that will benefit many others 4 days on and 3 off for a 40 hour week instead of the 65 to 70 hours she was working and by getting this she has also affected the hours other managers will be working. She also got a 48 hour week for the day managers instead of a 56 hour week. The managers are all salaried people not hourly which add to everyone’s bottom line.

Sharon wants me to say hello to everyone and thank you for the support you have given us and the support given as she made this decision.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 19:07:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (Mephys @ Oct 17 2007, 04:41 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
On my end I don't write a lot on your posts, but I do read them all and I feel very sorry for what is happening to you two. Everything is so unfair givne the fact that you were the most honest person in the world, and they had no reasons to deny everything like this. I hope someone is gonna give you a hand and make the right decision.

I admire your strenght and all I hope is for one day read that they finally gasve you the Visa. You deserve it so much, and it's not fair that you cannot be with Sharon while she is going through hard times.

I hope that everything is going to turn good for you rose.gif


Thank you for taking the time to write and for reading what I write it is appreciated even if you don’t answer everything. Montreal can’t continue to tell their boss we passed everyone because they would be told they aren’t doing their job right, we just happened to be there on a bad day at the consulate since Sharon and I were not the only ones refused the visa that day. We gave them what they asked for and the truth is that if they wanted the waiver for the criminal offence and asked for I would have done what they asked without as peep but having written in my file that I smelt of alcohol and it was thought that I was drinking before the interview also noted in the file that was the thing that really bugged me to no end because I am sure those two notations were the only reason the visa was refused. I am hoping that someone in Washington will view what was sent to them and call for the files from Montreal to see what is written in there and question the reasoning for it and correct it
It is more determination to clear myself of the accusation than strength that keeps me going and I also hope that the visa will be our soon. Being apart from Sharon right now is a difficult time since she needs more than words heard over a telephone which is al she is getting right now. The only good thing that has happened for us came by way of her father passing away and that was getting permission at a POE to go to the States for the funeral even if it was just for 7 days of which 4 were travelling time we still had 3 busy days together, our only days together in over a year.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 18:59:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (Len_and_Bren @ Oct 17 2007, 04:14 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Here goes my piece:

First, we are both devastated that amazing people like you have to go through all this shite because of Debbie's idiocy and MTL's stupidity and lack of common sense. It is unacceptable and that witch just gets off humiliating people (probably the only way she gets off) - but that's another story. Karma is a boomerang, I tell you.

Now, with all this that is going on, I am very impressed (and my man, I don't get impressed that easy) with your decency, your determination, inner strength and most of all, the unbreakable bond that Sharon and you have --- THAT is priceless and it will carry you guys further than you think or can comprehend. I hope the job thing gets solved (someone like Sharon should not have a prob getting a new gig), and that Washington gets cracking.

Now comes my usual bad advise: make noise my friend, make a lot of freaking noise ----- including the media, your government officials, God, etc.

And remember, this too shall pass.

Your friends, Lenina & Bren.

Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 17:23:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (Caladan @ Oct 16 2007, 09:49 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh, Ron. I wish I could buy you two some ice cream.

I sure hope the consulate doesn't ask what kind Sharon like, I would be denied, but I will have some Heavenly Hash, and I think Sharon would love some French Vanilla.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 16:35:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (SonoranSongbird @ Oct 17 2007, 04:31 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I can't really add anything to what other people have said. Could you use one more virtual *hug*?

Each reply is taken in thee same manner that the first was, it isn't what is said even though every word is read and appreciated, no one is thought less of because what they write because just having written fills the heart of an equal amount. Virtual hugs are as good as the real thing when they come from people such as yourself and the other wonderful people here with us.
Thank you very much
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 16:31:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (BH45 @ Oct 16 2007, 08:17 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
As you say, things happen for a reason. When I find things happening, without any real rhyme to them, I turn it over to God and let him carry it. He has strong shoulders and tender loving hands to hold both of you while you travel this path filled with obstacles. Trust in Him to guide you through. I'll keep you in my prayers.

God works in mysterious ways, don't you think. there is a reason unknown to us but still one that will be clear or leave us scratching our head. The Visa Journey we can deal with as so far it went quickly without RFEs or other problems, what is getting to us is what has nothing to do with the journey but the stresses of life in general and we will get through those one at a time and survive.
Thanks for the reminder though it is always good to remember that we are watched over and taken care of.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 16:25:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (~Laura and Nick~ @ Oct 16 2007, 08:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Ron/Sharon @ Oct 16 2007, 07:56 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (~Laura and Nick~ @ Oct 16 2007, 05:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm so sorry Ron...you are in my thoughts. rose.gif

Thank you for being with us we do appreciate having friends like you here, I hope that I will be able to enjoy your good news soon.


Thank you Ron.
I can honestly say that since I came to these boards and read your story, I have thought of you and Sharon often. Even though I don't know you both, I think of how hard it must be to be apart. I think of what I would do if I was in your situation and it reminds me of how precious and unpredictable life and love is, especially from a distance.

Keep being strong, for both yours and Sharon's sake. Everything will work out the way it's suppose to be.

smile.gif


The hardest part is having Sharon going through so many things that are coming her way bringing a lot of stress trying to sort everything outwhen it all seems to be interconnected in one way or another. Right now as I write this she is with the assistant manager at work discussing her decission to leave, which I think is the right thing for her but they may find a way to keep her there and work out better working conditions for her. No matter the outcome I hope the decission she makes is the one that is to her benefit.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 15:58:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (~Laura and Nick~ @ Oct 16 2007, 05:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm so sorry Ron...you are in my thoughts. rose.gif

Thank you for being with us we do appreciate having friends like you here, I hope that I will be able to enjoy your good news soon.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 18:56:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (bowflex @ Oct 16 2007, 03:51 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (brnidokiegurl @ Oct 16 2007, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
stay strong, together you will make it rose.gif thats all any of us have...


Perhaps you could try contacting a state senator immediately? When my wife was initially denied in Montreal, we called our lawyer and got them in touch with my senator within a few hours. We didn't agree with the Consulate's findings that my wife would require the I-601 waiver, and we managed to get the senator's office to seriously lean on the Consulate. It still ended up taking another 2 months from the time of her interview to her arrival in the States, but it helped knowing that we had some help from higher ups. Again I wish you two nothing but the best, I know how hard this process is, especially when there are extra hardships placed in your way.


You have the right idea and one it is one that we will defintely put into action shortly, there is no limit on the number of people that can help us so we will be asking Sam Brownback for his assistance since he is the senator under which Sharon falls. Thanks for everything you have suggested it will all help us out.

QUOTE (Krikit @ Oct 16 2007, 05:40 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Wow. I am so sorry, Ron. (((hugs)))


Thanks Krikit, everything will work out well
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 18:52:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (cartoboy123 @ Oct 16 2007, 03:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Oh Ron...I'm so sorry to hear this, but SO glad that Sharon is going to give notice if this has been too much for her. I know she's gone through a lot (as have you) and if she's that emotionally and physically wiped, she needs to give notice. Sharon's work does not define her. She needs to take care of herself in whatever way she can. Even if that means leaving her employ.

I always read your posts, and place my hands together in prayer, and squeeze my eyes shut REALLLLLLL tight and say a prayer for both of you. Oft times with tears in my eyes.

Sending you postive and strengthing thoughts!

Carla rose.gif

Carla you are and have always been an Angel to us, thank you very much. This is just another hiccup in the univers that may or may not affect our process only time will tell. Sharon really needs to get out of her present situation. I have been trying to convince her of the benefits of leaving but still she doubts that I am serious about what I say, she thinks I am saying things that she wants to hear and I keep telling her that that is not so. I told her not to worry about the process we are going through because we have presented the required documentation and a change in her situation makes no difference at all.
I think you need to stop reading what I write here because you much to tendered hearted for the emotional stuff I seem to be writing lately, and with that said Sharon and I are more grateful that you can know for all the prayer and good thoughts. I am sorry that we are causing you so much distress, maybe a few happy faces could lighten the atmosphere.
You take care of yourself and don't let what I write be such that it bothers you.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 18:33:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (PfcsBaby @ Oct 16 2007, 02:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm so sorry you've had to go through all this. I hope things start getting better for you soon. Remember we're all here for you.

It is good to be able to come here and say whatevr and be treated like a friend and better by people from everywhere. I do take responsibility for my actions but not for the actions of the person that has placed us in this situation. Things will get better for us we won't it not to and Sharon is taking actions that will better her situation which will help her heal/mend and get a better control of her life. It would have been better if I were there with her but for now that is not in the cards but we as you are hoping that soon we will be together and this will all be a dream. If it were not for everyone here it would be much harder to deal with thank you and everyone else for the suport it is appreciated.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 17:46:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (jasman0717 @ Oct 16 2007, 01:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I am saddened by this news. I pray that something will help you.

Thank you, it had to be done for health reasons, Sharon has done wonders for her parents and family. It took a while but I managed to convince her she needed to take care of herself for me. W will deal with the rest when the time comes.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 12:48:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (brnidokiegurl @ Oct 16 2007, 11:24 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
stay strong, together you will make it rose.gif thats all any of us have...

Strong and together is what we are in our hearts and conversations but being to many miles apart makes being supportive in a way that counts very difficult, we are not giving up just re-organizing to make life easier and better.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 12:43:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (vnoe @ Oct 16 2007, 11:18 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You know things will work out. Together you guys will get through this. God does not give anyone more than they can handle. Some people just get more than they should.......

Positive thoughts your way!!!

I love what you wrote and you are right, there is nothing given to us that is too much if we shre but it is not easy for Sharon as everything there just seems to be more than it is here. If we were together we would breeze through the whole thing smiling every day as we take everything one at a time.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 12:39:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (liz_legend @ Oct 16 2007, 11:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good Luck guys..

I'm sorry this whole thing has been so extra hard and stressful on you guys..

Nothing happens without a reason, I just wish things were easier on Sharon she is the one suffering. For me this is a damned good way of losing weight as if I needed to, in 9 wekes I have gone from 162 to 139 pound. But the good thing is we shall survive and continue loving each other.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 12:35:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
QUOTE (bowflex @ Oct 16 2007, 09:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I'm very sorry to hear about this very stressful time. I would give Washington a few weeks, then go with a state senator and see if they can speed it along, as that did wonders for our case as well. I wish you two nothing but the best, good luck!

Washington has only had the docs for a week, if they don't reply by Friday thing will change for us as Sharon is giving the dcission to leave to them then immediately or two weeks after that we will no longer have the income required to qualify for the visa if the question arises before I can get there. Once the job is gone there will be no reason to pursue through a government official (Senator) to get the visa quicker we would not qualify. You must remember that it is a I-601, (a 221(g) and a 212(a) that is holding us up, if it were the interview Sharon would stay where she is as we would know the end was near. Everything will work out a it should it always does.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 12:28:00
CanadaStress taking its toll
Due to mounting stress and so many other things life has thrown her way my sweetheart needs a change right now. Sharon has been going through quite a bit of the past few years with her elderly parents and in the past three or so years their health problems increased. As some of you know her father passed away last month, what you didn't know is that her employer a few months ago moved her from a job she as done for over seven years to another position that she didn't like but tolerated last month they moved her to the overnight shift working from 8 p.m. to 9 a.m. or until the work is completed. On the 4th of October she gave two weeks notice that she would be leaving and was told to take 2 weeks off to think about her leaving well on Friday she is advising them that she is not returning to work there after 11 years with the company the past 7 as a manager.

This is definitely going to prolong our journey through the immigration process drastically since we are still waiting for something/anything from Washington. Having been approved at the interview things would have been so much different since I would have been in a position to go there and help and support her the way she should be rather than be here trying to figure out what will tomorrow bring us. Having sent in the forms for the waiver when I got them would not have made a difference at all since there would still be 10 to 16 months waiting for the decision.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-16 08:52:00
CanadaInterview Fun in Montreal
I’m glad that things worked out with your job and with your fiancé getting ready for your arrival even though I’m not too sure he will be watch football alone very often, he will have to teach you about the game as you will have to teach him about some of your interest also.

Take care and let time fly.

Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 17:15:00
CanadaInterview Fun in Montreal
I'm sorry it happened, knowing the feelings you had, but now you can use the time remaining just a few weeks to prepare for the get gone move to your new home, this also gives your fiancée time to clean the house and wash the windows. The other good thing is that you know you will be there well before the end of November.
Take care and use the time to make sure you are ready materially for the move.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-18 12:16:00
CanadaMontreal Review!
That was quite the read, I'm sure you're glad it is all over with, it seems like you had a good time there even though it was short. I am glad and happy for you and I am very happy that Debbie the first blond you met was having a good day.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-17 14:55:00
CanadaQuick Question!
QUOTE (liz_legend @ Oct 20 2007, 04:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
99% it's ONE YEAR


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Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-20 15:16:00
CanadaLocal Police Certificate or RCMP?
I got my NOA-2 on December 8 and I'm looking at hopefully October the month you are planning for your wedding as the time for my interview. You would have better luck going through Vancouver
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-07-12 16:03:00
CanadaLocal Police Certificate or RCMP?
I had the web cam picture :jest: taken also, and even thought the RCMP said it would be at the time I think 140 days :( as of January ?? I called the Consulate March and told them that my NOA 2 would expire before the RCMP were done, the Consulate said no problem as the RCMP told them it would be further 6 months :o and the consulate said I should be getting mine in August :wacko: I did receive the certificate about three days after speaking to the Consulate and on the 79th day after it was mailed in. Just remember that all dates given are exaggerated for their benefit.
I forgot to add that I did the full fingerprint thingy they do

Edited by Ron/Sharon, 12 July 2007 - 07:38 AM.

Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-07-12 07:36:00
CanadaMade it...
Congratulation on the wedding Melyssa it has been a long time coming, I'm sure you will have a long and wonderful life together. Congratulation on crossing the border also it is nice to see another couple united.
Ron
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-24 11:34:00
CanadaYet Another Police Check Question
QUOTE (IR5FORMUMSIE @ Oct 24 2007, 02:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
You need a minimum of six months to establish legal residence in one country. That's why us Canucks can stay in the US for up to six months without a problem. Provided they let us in. crying.gif


you mean they let Canadian in? what am I swiss cheese? tongue.gif
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-25 18:36:00
CanadaI heart the Canada Board
My comment was just to pull your leg a bit, most of the time when I come here I actually feel worse leaving because of all the stress and disapointments others are feeling and there I nothing I can do for them and if I try and say sorry to them I know it will come out as uncaring. I do hope no-one takes what I wrote seriously but I can see how it would be, it was a poor attempt at throwing in something unexpected.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-24 06:45:00
CanadaI heart the Canada Board
Nothing makes my day better than coming here and seeing you are having a worse one. tongue.gif jest.gif
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Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-23 20:56:00
CanadaCourt & Prison Records?!
Jan Cleary
Clemency and Pardons Division
National Parole Board
410 Laurier Avenue West
Ottawa, Ontario K1A 0R1
1-800-874-2652

She or the receptionist should be able to direct you the proper people. He should call as they will need some information from him.
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-08 19:51:00
CanadaLiz's list of stuff for the Mtl Interview
Drinks, chips, chocolate bars, pillow, cookies, book, blanket, puzzles and that is just for getting there since everyone else has everything else covered pretty much.
Have a safe trip and bring back a wonderful tale of Montreal
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-31 08:39:00
CanadaU Haul
QUOTE (DeadPoolX @ Oct 15 2007, 01:16 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Ron/Sharon @ Oct 15 2007, 12:04 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
U-Hauls in the States are better maintained according to W5, the ones in Canada for the most part are junk.

Any idea why that'd be? For the most, I've noticed that things are usually pretty well kept in Canada. It depends on the person or business, of course, but in general, it seems that way.

W5 or WFive on CTV has an article called "Danger on the road", it is about U-Haul. The reason why they are worse here in Canada is that they are an Arizona based company and all their truck in Canada carry Arizona licence plates making it difficult for the provincial governments to regulate them. Hence low or no maintenance and as such a danger to the operator ad the publc in general. Not all are bad but I would say the majority are to some extent.
http://www.ctv.ca/se...61021?hub=WFive
Ron/SharonMaleCanada2007-10-15 14:02:00