Forum	Title	Content	Member	Sex	Country	Date/Time
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	attaya... no news, and there won't be for a while. i'm getting discouraged every time I read things in the Canada forum about it... there haven't been many interviews booked lately in Montreal, though tons of people are waiting. I probably won't be able to have my wedding date of January 10th like I really wanted. It's going to be SO close, that I'm very uncertain, but a 4 month wait for an interview is not uncommon when dealing with Montreal apparently. So, that's quite frustrating. Thanks for asking though hon. I hope Lamine is feeling better!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-09-17 19:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	Wow.. speedy! Congrats!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-09-15 17:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	QUOTE (Allie and Nigel @ Sep 14 2009, 07:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> We just got released from the NVC and they sent it off today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!WAHHHHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! FIIIIIIINALLY!!!! I'm SO glad!!!! I hope you get an interview quickly!!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-09-14 19:17:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	I'm not sure, cause when I called them I was on the West coast, so 3 hours different than normal, so I was all thrown off time.. lol but I hear the afternoon is good... like around 3-4 pm EST. That always seemed to be around when I called I think, and I usually didn't have a problem.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-09-14 17:59:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress Reports	April 2009 K-1 Filers	attaya - I'm SSOOOOO happy to hear that!! So excited!! Can't wait to hear the stories and hear more about your wedding plans! Congrats! And enjoy your time together SS - no news, thank you for asking! I just sent back packet 3 Wednesday morning. From what I've seen from others dealing with the Montreal embassy, it's taking 2-3+ months just to hear back from them with an interview date, THEN another month + on top of that. So, I'll be SHOCKED to have an interview date before Christmas... It's really frustrating... I'm worried that my January wedding date is out the window, which makes me sad... cause I really wanted it on 1-10-10 (for like three different reasons). Oh well, it's too soon to loose hope now, but thinking that it's less than 4 months until then makes it seem unlikely. I envision waiting for my interview to be as long as I waited for NOA2.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-09-12 13:19:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	I think daycare is ok for a child over the age of 2, or maybe even 1-2, but that first year, no... SO many changes happening with the baby, and so much bonding that needs to happen... Not to mention if you choose to breastfeed... I just couldn't imagine not being there with my baby. 8, or even 12 weeks, goes by SO FAST. Also, here in the U.S. we ONLY have my husband's parents nearby us... everyone else in his family I haven't even met, and are all scattered around (and frankly, old). But in Canada, I have a large family, and 90% within an hour or two drive of each other. We're not looking to have kids for 3-5 years though, so I figure that's perfect to get citizenship in time and be able to be back in Canada for baby time. lol Who knows though. Things could change. Also, I'm nearly certain I heard that the hours you work in the U.S. can also count towards your EI eligibility. (but maternity could be different) Edited by ashenflowers, 17 August 2010 - 11:44 PM.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-17 23:43:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Speaking of babysitting, how do people here manage a career and babies at the same time? Here in CO you get a whole 8 weeks of maternity leave. Unpaid. How do you go back to work and leave a 2 month old baby? Who would you trust to watch a baby that young? You'd think there would be a demanding market for babysitters. I certainly wouldn't be dropping my newborn off at a daycare center. That is exactly why I want to move back to Canada once I get to a point where I want to have babies.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-16 20:17:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Oh dear, that's terrible! I went to the state fair Friday and forgot to put sunscreen on my face and wear a hat, so my face was pretty red, but not like that! BTW I know this is random, but I'm just trying to get started on the Canada boards and was wondering if anyone on here is on twitter. I'd like to follow some people in the same US/Canada boat as Kyle and I are. If that's not to weird. My updates are sporadic, but I am on Twitter. @FromDaph	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-09 00:39:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Uh, actually no... I don't want this as a tan. I'm sure you can understand LOL!! Normally I don't like tanning either and prefer natural skin, as I have seen some pretty disgusting tans out there (and had a really dark tan a few years ago that I didn't like.. lol). I've been doing ok down here in California keeping a regular subtle tan just from exposure outside. It's not that hot where I am, but the sun is bright, constant and harsh. It's deceiving! I'm surprised because I rarely burn, but I guess looking up in the sky for a few hours didn't help. hah! I did some Googling and found that I should indeed be able to find noxzema here, but haven't been looking in the right places. Oh, how I miss my Shoppers Drug Mart. CVS is ok, but meh! We're going to bravely venture outside today and find some btw, my husband's face is just as bad as mine, but he doesn't have the raccoon eyes. haha He also has some wrinkles/creases on his forehead (just naturally), and those crinkly laugh lines (it makes him sound like he's 60, but he's in his 30s..lol)... so he looks kinda funny and leathery... haha. He keeps looking at me and breaking out in laughter though. Ah Ashen, that looks painful! Yesterday the hubby and I went to Rocky Mountain National Park and had some fun animal encounters! Usually you don't see much wildlife during the day this time of year, but I guess the weather conditions were right. We had a close encounter with a moose and her baby. We were driving down the roadway and there were people stopped on the side of the road taking pictures of them. We stopped the car so we didn't kill anyone or anything, when the moose suddenly got really upset as people were getting to close, and ran out onto the street and came within inches of our car. We thought she was going to hit it at first but she walked around us and then ran off into the trees. Thankfully it wasn't a male, I wouldn't want to come that close to a pair of big antlers awwww moose baby!!! Did you get any pictures?	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-08 15:24:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	SupportGeek: Would you have driven 2 hours to go to it? If so, I will let you know the next time something like that is going on. It was an hour's drive past us (southwest of Camarillo/Oxnard at Point Mugu)... Actually, it's also going on today, if you want something to do today! Google NBVC Air Show. The Ventura County Fair is also going on this week and weekend, as is Santa Barbara's Fiesta celebration, though most of the Fiesta is done already. Still fun though! Tick Tock: Thanks I haven't seen Noxema in stores here at all. I miss it. But we do have some after sun lotion which I've been lathering on every since we got home yesterday. lol It is helping a little bit And yes.. yay on the I-693! Now it's back to just sitting and waiting! Edited by ashenflowers, 08 August 2010 - 12:00 PM.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-08 12:00:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Yay Kimbear!!! Speaking of facebook... I just changed my profile pic. I spent ALL DAY today out in the sun at an air show, and a good chunk of yesterday afternoon in the sun as well. I am paying for it (and yes I wore sunscreen today!). I know we don't usually post pics of ourselves on here, but I can not stop laughing at this even though it's super un-flattering. So here you go; the aftermath of my weekend thus far.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-07 23:57:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	!!! OMG Kimbear, that's amazing! That's totally a local news-worthy story. You should contact someone about it, if you do end up going to meet them. People love long-lost relative reunion stories. I am sorry your aunt passed away, but what a great road trip it would be to find all this family!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-06 14:48:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Joyce, you should try to get him neutered now anyways, especially when he's outside! That's when he's at his most... uh... well, you know. 'available'. LOL I hope you get permission to bring him in. Grey cats are so adorable. Ontarkie, there's got to be something that can be done. This cat is seriously spooked by something. Do you have more than one cat? If so, what is the other cat like? What are the interactions like between the cats? What food are you feeding them? Do you know of anything that happened in the past with him that might've made him that way? Cats definitely do have different personalities (I know my two cats are very different.. lol), but I hope this guy can be calmed down. I've been told that touching or rubbing a cat's ears can be very soothing to them, so if you touch him there first it might help (and also hold the back of your hand out to him before touching him and let him smell it). I'm sure after 4 years you know some of those tips already, but I just don't want to see this little guy put down. You should look into those Softpaws that Danu mentioned. They look super cute on cats actually... lol http://www.softpaws.com	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-05 23:39:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	omg Kathryn, that is wonderful! I am so glad to hear that Smokey is back!! My mother in law is an animal communicator. It's really interesting. I guess you could call it a pet psychic in a way. Just from the description of the animal, she can pick up vibes from them (without even being in the same room or house as the animal) and you can ask questions to the animal through her. She can pick up on unknown illnesses and energy fields around the animals as well. It's neat. And like Kathryn said, sometimes the animal can give very specific descriptions of things. I asked her to help me with introducing my two cats, and some of the things she said about my cat Kitty were very accurate (and she'd only met Kitty once before, for maybe 5 mins). Ontarkie, my personal beliefs here, but PLEASE try EVERYTHING other means possible before you even consider declawing a cat. PLEASE. You should try to consider reasons why the cat might be lashing out like that. There's something going on that makes him react in that way. Declawing won't make him any happier.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-05 19:27:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	I wasn't sure if this was a vent or not. My grandmother has alzheimers and severe dementia. She is 97 and has had it for the last 7-8 years. it's taken me most of that time to really come to grips with it and desensitize myself to the utter madness that is living with that. Then, on Friday, while I was moving some stuff into her basement, I came in the house to just say high and give her a kiss. She remembered me. At first, I was so overwhealmingly happy that she did. But then I was on the verge of tears because it just reinforced the idea of the torutured madness that alzheimers patients go through. aww... *hugs*	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-02 17:08:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	ooo National Night Out... that sounds interesting. lol Funny cake story though. lol That'll learn 'em.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-08-02 12:40:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	My birthday is October 20th, and I'll be turning the big 3-0 this year. Just putting that out there for anyone who might like to bake a cake. Less than 3 months away! *cough*	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-07-30 17:37:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Wow, some interesting updates here. First, I've also been to Pismo Beach, Joyce, and I love it there! It's such a fun beach to hang out on. Haven't done the dune buggies yet. I have a hard time convincing hubby to do it. lol Sprail, congrats!! That is awesome news. I'm glad hard work pays off. And Huggles... #######. They are just stupid. I hope she feels like an idiot. seriously... LOL	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-07-21 13:33:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	The fireworks in Santa Barbara were fantastic! I got some great pics and video. lol I fireworks.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-07-05 12:04:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	so I have decided to clean the whole place form top to bottom, in all the cupboards etc... not sure why I decided to do this... it would be so much easier if I was more of a clean freak... my parents are coming in a few weeks and my mom is a clean freak so I want the place to be somewhat presentable when they are here I think you answered why you did it LOL	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-18 19:32:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	I'm so tired today! I stayed up until like 12:30 watching the lakers game with my son, who is a HUGE lakers fan. We both woke up this morning super groggy, but it's a once a year thing and yes I let my 11 year old stay up that late on a school night.... got something to say? Keep to yourself mmkay. I don't really watch basketball but I figured why not just sit with him... he enjoyed it. HAH Speaking of the Lakers, I don't watch basketball at all... but my neighbours sure do. They were yelling and screaming at the TV. I'm in an apartment complex, where the buildings face all sorts of directions... so we had a neighbour behind us yelling, and a neighbour kind of in front of us. And we could hear them both (southern california has not heard of double-paned windows apparently, so noise pollution is fierce). I turned on the TV briefly and that's when I discovered it was game 7 of the finals, so I pretended it was the Stanley Cup and then understood the excitement so I let it slide. I didn't have to turn the TV back on the find out the Lakers won though. On the plus side, it was only 9:30 at the end here.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-18 13:17:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Thanks lgg. It is nice knowing that in a short-ish period of time things will be less... stupid... around here. LOL The first day to myself was interesting, but also boring. lol I went back to bed after my husband left for work, and ended up sleeping til noon (ugh). He called and gave me an update on his lunch break... then I spent some time doing nothing, lol and turned up the music while I did dishes, made dinner and baked brownies. It was funny because I was timing dinner to be ready about when I expected him home, and I was pretty right on. Except that he wasn't home at the 'expected time' because he worked about 15 mins late, then had a meeting with his new boss for another 20 mins. D'oh so food got a little cold, but he still liked it. lol Today it would appear that I am up at 7am and not able to go back to sleep. We're still working on adjusting the hubby's sleep schedule too. lol He's more perky than I at the moment, but probably still excited. Today is 'Bagel' Day, and also the annual Luau at lunch time.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-17 09:19:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	That's good to know that the timeframe isn't too bad. Unfortunately, we've got some logistical issues and loose ends that need to be taken care of. So, that means time apart. It really is kind of depressing looking at real estate sites and rental websites for London, ON. For what we are paying in rent here for a tiny apartment west of PCH, we could practically get a 4 bedroom condo with a backyard in London. I'm looking forward to it all. You're from London originally, aren't you? I miss it so... I grew up near Kathryn's mentioned area of Chatham, but was in London off and on (mostly on) for the last 10 years. It's a lovely city. It has it's negatives too, but what doesn't.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-16 20:45:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	I spent a week in So Cal back in 2008 and there's no way this small town Canadian could live there. It's just insane. Tons of people, everything costs a fortune, you can't get anywhere without getting caught in a traffic jam, it's stupid hot... I could keep going! I can imagine it would be a really hard adjustment to make. That's probably why I don't like it. The food? Sure, that's nice, but we can't afford to eat out much anyways, and there was variety back home. And I'm sick of Mexican food, and that still seems pretty abundant here. The beach? Sure that's ok, but meh? I'm not a beach-bum. I like it for walking on and being by the ocean and what not, but I'm not the type to lounge on the beach for hours on end. I don't like being in a bathing suit, and I don't surf. We also don't have $ to go out and enjoy many of the things to do around here. We do what we can, but those things are all things that can be done on yearly visits to my husband's parents anyway. Not for sustaining day-to-day living. The EXPENSE of being here is just ridiculous and unjustified. Everyone here has this air of entitlement and are all raising spoiled kids. Yes, that's a generalization, but I don't like it. There aren't really tons of people in the city I live in, but we still get horrible traffic jams due to only two (kinda three, but one is slightly out of town) main arteries for crossing a very rectangularly-shaped town. I like their policy of no high-rise buildings, so it's a different atmosphere than the L.A. metropolis, but still. And don't get me started on the employment thing (or lack thereof). Meh, I say. MEH. I'll stop complaining now. I might change my mind once paychecks are rolling in. Or if I like.. get some friends.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-16 20:41:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	No, I'm ok with L.A., but my wife hates it and never really got used to it here, so we're looking at moving to Canada. Aww, sorry to hear that, but I totally understand. I feel the same way your wife does. I still think we might move back some day, but who knows. btw... are you interested in attending the NHL draft at the Staples Centre? I can tell you how to get free tickets. That sound sleezy. But really! Anyways, there's the infamous roadtocanada website, which finally seems up and running again! That should be helpful	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-16 16:36:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	I'm not watching the World Cup. Wouldn't know who to cheer for. Maybe England? I dunno. Anyhoo, I woke up to send the hubby OFF TO WORK TODAY!!! Then was up for an hour, and said 'screw this' and went back to bed. hah! He called me on his lunch break... apparently he works with all women, except for one other guy. They're in a different room, but still his department. They have 'cake' day every Wednesday or something, and bagel day every Tuesday? Something like that. And tomorrow they're all going to the beach at lunch time for a luau. ####### I told him to make sure he wears his wedding ring to work every day. LOL	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-16 15:14:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Ugh, I hate when people say things like that Marilyn. I have a friend complaining about immigration processes (she wants to move to New Zealand), and updating every stage of it on FB getting all these comments and attention (she's one of those LOOK AT MEEEE) people, and gets upset if someone diverts attention away from her. lol Oh, if only people really knew what we went through. But Udella is right, that's a good opportunity to put things in perspective for her. lol Edited by ashenflowers, 14 June 2010 - 07:05 PM.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-14 19:05:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	OMG what an adventure Kritkit... glad everyone was ok in that case. So very sorry about your SIL though. That's heartbreaking... I hope she's able to pull through and eventually try for a baby again. Though, it will definitely never be the same. I can only imagine...	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-11 21:42:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	So... believe it or not, the 4th of July is fast approaching. If you haven't already, you better start thinking about a 4th of July present for your USC spouse/SO! LOL http://www.toptenz.n...-everything.php And you thought it was just another non-commercialized holiday... PFFT!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-10 00:59:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Every now and then my dad will send me an envelope filled with clippings from the newspaper back home that he thinks I will enjoy - often a lot of comics, political commentary (from the Canadian viewpoint) and such. Every now and then he will put in something special - like a letter I wrote home when I was away working for the summer in Saskatchewan or a birthday card I made for my Mom when I was 5 years old . Today I received another envelope stuffed with interesting cartoons and clippings - and a listing of auctions back home. That was fun but it made me realize how much I miss auctions - they don't have them here . The thing that got me both laughing and crying at the same time is he also put in a Tim Horton's donut bag! Heheheheh - yep a donut bag (sorry Charles, it was empty!), but all the same it was such a fun surprise. !! Omg Kathryn, that is too cute. And gave me a wonderful idea for a package I need to send to my parents. I have 2 jars of jam that my husband's mom made and I'm sending to them, but the box we happen to have to ship them is too big. I didn't want to send them a mostly empty box so was trying to think of some other things I could send to fill it up and make it a little nicer to receive. lol Thanks Edited by ashenflowers, 09 June 2010 - 08:15 PM.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-09 20:14:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Ooo yay! Have a fun trip Joyce!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-09 11:37:00
Canada	Off Topic Part Cinq	Actually they try to bite me, hence the 3rd picture The trick with turtles is to treat them like raw chicken. You wash your hands after touching them and you don't put them in your mouth !!!!!!!! OMFG I thought you said 'eat them like raw chicken'... I almost had a hernia. I love those pics though... they are too cute. I really want to get a turtle!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2010-06-08 23:02:00
Canada	CONGRATS L.A. KIIIIIINGS	Someone had to say it. Guys, this is the CANADA forum. So disappointed in lack of nhl discussion LOL Unless I just missed it. Anyways, being a LEAFS fan, and being in California, this was pretty epic. I couldn't help but cheer for this adorable little SoCal team who barely even made the playoffs, and hadn't won the Cup since they were established in 1967. Yes... 1967, the year the Leafs last won the Cup! Sad. Also the year Fanshawe College (my former school) was established, so natch I wore my Fanshawe hoodie tonight with 1967 blazed on the front Point being, I really missed watching hockey, so I'm glad it was won here so that I could feel that hockey-loving energy around me again. edited to add that literally 1/2 of the Kings are from Canada. A fact that I generously pointed out to an American classmate who's a Kings fan. Edited by ashenflowers, 12 June 2012 - 12:06 AM.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2012-06-12 00:05:00
Canada	How have you changed?	I miss my family an insane amount, especially my young nieces. They're 10, 7, and 4 and I feel like I'm missing out on so much. I talk to them on the phone once a week, but it's just not the same. That's the hardest part, in my opinion. Not the adjusting to new surroundings or new people, but missing the ones you left behind. Agreed! My niece is 3, and my nephew 5. Such a great age for kids (anything under 10 really, like your nieces), and I'm missing it. My niece barely knows me at all, and has never even met my husband. :'( It definitely is the hardest part. Phone, skype, facebook pics, or mailing packages really is not the same as hugs, and doing activities together, and all that.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2012-06-01 14:28:00
Canada	How have you changed?	I think a lot of the changes depend on where you moved from and where you moved to. I moved to a beach town in California and I've definitely become more Californian. I spend quite a bit of time walking on the beach these days. I don't really lounge on the beach, but occasionally I'll sit for some reading time, but I usually walk. I've lost 40 lbs since I moved here too, cause I went on a crazy diet. I still need to lose another 40, but I'm kinda stuck. Hoping increased beach walking will help. I walked a lot back home too, but usually just around the neighbourhood or parks. I don't know that I've really changed all that much in general. I have many of the same interests, but now I'm just surrounded by a few more people who share those same interests, and I have the ability to achieve things that I couldn't back home. Like returning to college, which was a big deal. It was something I'd wanted to do for a long time. It's hard though, because my classmates and new friends are like 10 years younger than me, which is fine for the most part, but that alone makes things a little 'off'. In the long run, I think returning to school has affected me more than moving here did. Also, cruise ships stop in the harbour of our town, which really trips me out. I can't believe I went from a small town gravel road living country girl, to a beach bum living in a tourist hot spot where celebrities sometimes come up for day trips from LA. whaaaat!? lol I really, really miss my friends and my family though. It's hard to break in to the bubble of this town, and it's hard not being with my niece and nephew as they grow up. I said 'soda' the other day. It's the beginning of the end for me. The first time I spelled colour without the 'u' and didn't think twice about it I almost cried... I say soda, but usually say pop first then correct myself.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2012-06-01 13:23:00
Canada	Where are the Canaliens?	I have too many combative skillz to go into OT.	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-12-03 21:14:00
Canada	Where are the Canaliens?	QUOTE (Dan and Ali @ Dec 3 2009, 03:39 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> QUOTE (ashenflowers @ Dec 3 2009, 01:38 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Did you guys put it right at your address (or your street at least), or did you just put a vague reference to your city? Icons placed mid-ocean notwithstanding... I really want to sign up for this even though I haven't moved yet ... I know where I'll be living, though! I haven't moved yet either! So I put myself at my Canadian address now, and the US one where I'm moving to	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-12-03 15:40:00
Canada	Where are the Canaliens?	Did you guys put it right at your address (or your street at least), or did you just put a vague reference to your city? Icons placed mid-ocean notwithstanding...	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-12-03 15:38:00
Canada	Where are the Canaliens?	Ok! I added meh! Both to my current locale in London, and my SoCal soon-to-be residence in the U.S.! YAY!!! I Google!!	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-12-03 14:25:00
Canada	Where are the Canaliens?	QUOTE (Sam and Ben @ Dec 3 2009, 11:26 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}> All solutions would require logging in of sorts, as I lack the skills to code something from scratch. But with google maps, users could edit without giving them access to all of the main page details. And we could embed it into a nice looking layout, too. I have to laugh, though. I added my location here about three times and kept wondering why it wouldn't save it. ...I didn't press "Save It!". Oi. I Google. I'd totally be willing to set up a google map for us if the other one isn't working. I just have to wait til I get home this evening	ashenflowers	Female	Canada	2009-12-03 12:06:00