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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
QUOTE (gatoula_tou @ Jun 8 2009, 05:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
HOLY #######!!

I just came home from some shopping and found my NOA2 in the mail!!! (third check is the charm!)

My jaw dropped and instantly texted my honey, I'm in shock!!

It's dated June 3rd, 2009 and we have till October 3rd, 2009 to get it going, so I doubt any worries about this 6 months I was so fretful of..!

You all will get yours very soon, I can feel it.



WOOHOO! Congrats!
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-08 16:46:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
Well I guess Richard and I are gonna have to move over to the March board soon ......all you guys are gonna be walking on clouds and we aren't gonna see you till the interview stage tongue.gif

Better warm up my fingers I'm thinking there is gonna be a LOT of congrats posts here in the next 3 weeks!
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-07 16:02:00
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QUOTE (minimule @ Jun 6 2009, 07:42 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i got my noa2 (dated may29)
omg
im crying non stop


OMG! I am SO happy for you! Hell I'm all teary! CONGRATS! *HUGZ*

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-06 20:15:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jun 4 2009, 02:53 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
DID U GUYS DO THIS ON PURPOSE TO PISS ME OFF??????? mad.gif


Did I miss something??? What are we talking about here?????


Everyone talked too much and poor Maire has to read and catch up. No worries...Its all Richard's fault.

Edited by LiLMermaid, 04 June 2009 - 02:13 PM.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 14:13:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 4 2009, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sheesh, how long is this freakin' meeting anyways! smile.gif

Lil' One, you can come too!


Well I'll be seeing mine in July.....thank gawd! I'm starting to go nuts. wacko.gif
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 12:31:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 4 2009, 01:10 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
18 days, 7 hours, 12 minutes and 22 seconds and mine will be here

Come On... FREE shoes! that was funny



oh nm...you were talking about your vacation....blah. I'm jealous! lol

Edited by LiLMermaid, 04 June 2009 - 12:22 PM.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 12:21:00
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hmmmm....

Richard yells FREE PANTIES and all the men are voting him president.......typical men

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LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 11:53:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 4 2009, 11:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
FREE PANTIES

I posted the sign to stir up trouble! isn't that enough?



I just don't think they'd look that good on me Richard.

Yes, Lee, but we are our own worst critic... I think 'others' will have a different opinion smile.gif


Thats true I have been told that I was quite scrumptious. I was in Vegas at the time and the hooker said that I was special.


Well it must be true...them hookers would NEVER lie!

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LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 11:01:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 4 2009, 11:23 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Im going into a meeting.....dont go crazy with the posts now please...




who? Macaroni? or was it Macerana?

Edited by LiLMermaid, 04 June 2009 - 10:35 AM.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 10:35:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsFebruary 09 - VSC
We both only speak English
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 10:01:00
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QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jun 4 2009, 10:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Maire i love 69 that is almost as good as whipping it out..



wow


wow bad boy!got to the cornerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr



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LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 10:01:00
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QUOTE (LiLMermaid @ Jun 4 2009, 10:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I gotta go back a few pages here ......whippin it out on camera? I gotta see how this started! LOL


Yep!!!!!!!!!!! The February squad is not playing around here. The first opportunity we get, we are whipping it out. devil.gif



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LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 09:44:00
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QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jun 4 2009, 10:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
why has she waited so long? i was trying to figure that one out but stopped reading it after a while but i think that natpatben is very nice and i can't blame them for being upset. i been reading all they right and i think i would have gone crazy.


Its hard to say why anyone waits so long....they never really tell you...just give you excuses. Another one is Chris and Mara. They filed for the SECOND time this April. Their first one they were finally told was LOST and they were told it would be faster if they refiled and they would be expedited. Yeah right....they haven't even received their NOA1 this time around and at this point no one can even figure out where their file is.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 09:42:00
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I gotta go back a few pages here ......whippin it out on camera? I gotta see how this started! LOL
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 09:37:00
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QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jun 4 2009, 10:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i would like to see natpatben who is a december filer. they have tried so hard to get their visa. very patient.


me too and that Sara I can't remember her nick who has been waiting 1 year and 8 months.....she deserves a friggin metal I'd have snapped by now...

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 09:35:00
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QUOTE (lizandpat @ Jun 4 2009, 08:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Rich and Bey @ Jun 4 2009, 07:04 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
oops liz didn't read the green print. lol. need sometimes for people to explain things. hate to read.lol to strenuous on the eyes. lol.



liz i am praying for you. i feel by next week we should have ours. i hope... go vsc. go richard. go everyone... go me...
i am just being a little cheerleader this morning. i am so excited they r in february.



ROFL...no worries, Rich! I just wasn't sure which date you meant..LOL! I thought I had everything in my signature except for our wedding date. And we hope THAT is in November sometime!!


You make a great cheerleader!!! kicking.gif

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QUOTE (Roman&Marina @ Jun 4 2009, 06:28 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good Morning my VJ family!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What is this I am hearing????? Two more approvals???? I like it, I like it a lot.


Morning Roman!! YEP!! When I checked last night there was just one...there are THREE this morning!! WOOOHOO!! COME ON VSC!!!! Keep going....lol!


In honor of Rich's birthday, they decided to actually get their act together yesterday and approve some February cases. LOL!!!!!!! I am giddy with excitement. kicking.gif



Giddy, huh? hehe! Don't hear many men use that term... whistling.gif


I know not many men use this word, but with this whole K-1 process all rules are out the door. Plus I am special!!!!! ROFL!!!!

Hi Rich!!!! How was your birthday???? I hope you didn't spend it in the corner with a dunce hat. LOL!!!!!!!!


rofl.gif Special, huh? LOL! Your too funny, Roman!


Sooooo...other than Maire and Rich who just saw their SO's....anyone have plans to see their SO this summer?


ME! ME! ME! lol

We are heading to Florida after my niece gets married July 18th. At this point we are considering me just staying there till we get the NOA2 and then coming back for the medical and interview. This being apart ####### is for the birds! Its been hard on the kids ....we've been apart since October 1st and I'm OVER it! I guess I should give a little history here...

-we met online June 2004
-multiple visits back and forth
-he moved here feb 2006 on a temp work visa
-we lived together until oct 1,2009
-we didn't just get married and apply from here because I was still fighting ex in court, divorce was finally final as of April 27, 2009. As part of our divorce I was granted permission to relocate to Florida with the children. We filed April 30th.


LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-04 07:27:00
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We got another february approval folks.....yours is coming soon you lucky buggers! lol




LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 18:32:00
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offtopic45vn.gif Where the heck is that Richard today? He musta took the day off work today.....hope you are enjoying your day. kicking.gif
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 12:47:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jun 3 2009, 01:18 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I just meditate and occupy my time with something constructive. It is impossible to change anything that is going on with VSC or the process. The choice is clear. Relax and find the positive side of this. Deep breaths and remove the stress. You will get a tight knot in the back of your shoulders that will hurt if you stay tense. Be positive.... talk about something that is distant from the discomfort you have.


Hi you must be new here....D_n_M meet Maire, Maire meet D_n_M..... rofl.gif rofl.gif

Maire.....calm? relaxed?

Seriously though...I agree with you. I'm figuring on 4 months and then after that I'll probably start getting a bit freaked out but till then....I'm just keeping an eye on things and making sure that 4 months is still a reasonable timeline. I pray that it will be shorter and it seriously annoys me to see people going through csc and having their visas in hand in 4 months but I just try to avoid reading those threads if I can. headbonk.gif headbonk.gif

This is the 4 month mark for you guys this month so I expect you'll be getting them soon.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 12:31:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jun 3 2009, 10:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree...and that town consits of around 150 people imagine!

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Well my take on it....first yeah I'd be seriously annoyed. Your SO should have told you about it and not hear it from someone else. As for the mother in law....well she's in a difficult position as well. Its her best friend's daughter...really what is she supposed to do? Tell her best friend..."I'm sorry but since your daughter slept with my son X number of years ago and he's now getting married she can't come over to my house anymore"

As for the person who "HAD" to tell you....seriously...####### is their problem? Like your SO said...its the past...why bring it up and toss it in your face like that.

Your mother in law probably assumed that it was the past and that you'd never know so it would never hurt you.


well our town in Cuba is so small...that everyone knows everyone...and I guess they told me since this girl is going over there this summer and there were rumors that she is going to see him...
I just pray for this process to be over...cus the drama is putting so much pressure on me..I had to set aside that incident on my first day in Cuba and try to take advantage of my time with him as much as possible....and this is tough...cus in one side is the pain of this and on the other 10days to try to be happy....I had to forget it and pretend like I didnt care cus I had missed him so much...


rumors that she's going to see him? Yeah that needs to be nipped in the bud. You don't need that kind of ####### right now. I still stand by the person that told you is an idiot. What you said is exactly what I was thinking...you go all the way there to see your man and have to deal with that BS? GRRRRRRRRRR that makes me so mad. You need to step back and take a look at the whole picture though. Do you feel she is a threat in anyway? Do you feel your mother in law is deliberately trying to be disrespectful? Do you feel your SO was trying to hide this from you or do you believe he figured it was insignificant and didn't tell you as it would just upset you for no reason. If you feel she isn't a threat, your mother in law was just pretending it never happened and your SO felt it was insignificant.....then I'd just let it go. Unless of course she's hitting on your man then its time to kick some a$$


i wouldnt say it better myself...he didnt tell me cus he thought I knew and because it was before "us", my mother in law didnt tell me because she didnt want to worry me with something that was insignificant (according to her), the chick is not a threat to me. She is a 20year old that doesnt work ,doesnt drive, doesnt do anything because her parents have lots of money. However, she is a female and very pretty unsure.gif and I still cant believe my SO went to low grrrrrrrrrrr.....I trust him..but I donttt trust women...I just hope I get my NO2 before she goes there(she is going for a 1month apparently) and knowing myself I would go nuts here knowing she is there....


I call for an emergency meeting in Havana to discuss this situation aaaand of course MOJITOOOOOS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LMAO may be this situation is a reason for an expedited visa???? *wishful thinking*


Yeah I lived in a small town at one time. You couldn't fart without the men having a meeting over it at the local choke and puke and the women all gossiping over it at the grocery store or the local coffeeshop.

I moved.


LMAO thats hilarious my town is EXACTLY like that I wish u could see when I was there..we would walk holding hands on the streets and everyone had to get out of their houses to look at us...funny thing nobody says "look they are in love" if not..."look he is working for his Visa".....I WANT THIS TO BE OVERRRR



Man thats tough sad.gif That's one thing us Canadians don't have to deal with. Nobody ever thinks we are marrying just for a visa. Ugh...small towns....everyone is so gossipy and cynical.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 10:12:00
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QUOTE (Maire @ Jun 3 2009, 10:58 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I agree...and that town consits of around 150 people imagine!

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QUOTE (LiLMermaid @ Jun 3 2009, 10:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well my take on it....first yeah I'd be seriously annoyed. Your SO should have told you about it and not hear it from someone else. As for the mother in law....well she's in a difficult position as well. Its her best friend's daughter...really what is she supposed to do? Tell her best friend..."I'm sorry but since your daughter slept with my son X number of years ago and he's now getting married she can't come over to my house anymore"

As for the person who "HAD" to tell you....seriously...####### is their problem? Like your SO said...its the past...why bring it up and toss it in your face like that.

Your mother in law probably assumed that it was the past and that you'd never know so it would never hurt you.


well our town in Cuba is so small...that everyone knows everyone...and I guess they told me since this girl is going over there this summer and there were rumors that she is going to see him...
I just pray for this process to be over...cus the drama is putting so much pressure on me..I had to set aside that incident on my first day in Cuba and try to take advantage of my time with him as much as possible....and this is tough...cus in one side is the pain of this and on the other 10days to try to be happy....I had to forget it and pretend like I didnt care cus I had missed him so much...


rumors that she's going to see him? Yeah that needs to be nipped in the bud. You don't need that kind of ####### right now. I still stand by the person that told you is an idiot. What you said is exactly what I was thinking...you go all the way there to see your man and have to deal with that BS? GRRRRRRRRRR that makes me so mad. You need to step back and take a look at the whole picture though. Do you feel she is a threat in anyway? Do you feel your mother in law is deliberately trying to be disrespectful? Do you feel your SO was trying to hide this from you or do you believe he figured it was insignificant and didn't tell you as it would just upset you for no reason. If you feel she isn't a threat, your mother in law was just pretending it never happened and your SO felt it was insignificant.....then I'd just let it go. Unless of course she's hitting on your man then its time to kick some a$$


i wouldnt say it better myself...he didnt tell me cus he thought I knew and because it was before "us", my mother in law didnt tell me because she didnt want to worry me with something that was insignificant (according to her), the chick is not a threat to me. She is a 20year old that doesnt work ,doesnt drive, doesnt do anything because her parents have lots of money. However, she is a female and very pretty unsure.gif and I still cant believe my SO went to low grrrrrrrrrrr.....I trust him..but I donttt trust women...I just hope I get my NO2 before she goes there(she is going for a 1month apparently) and knowing myself I would go nuts here knowing she is there....


I call for an emergency meeting in Havana to discuss this situation aaaand of course MOJITOOOOOS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


LMAO may be this situation is a reason for an expedited visa???? *wishful thinking*


Yeah I lived in a small town at one time. You couldn't fart without the men having a meeting over it at the local choke and puke and the women all gossiping over it at the grocery store or the local coffeeshop.

I moved.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 10:01:00
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QUOTE (LiLMermaid @ Jun 3 2009, 10:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well my take on it....first yeah I'd be seriously annoyed. Your SO should have told you about it and not hear it from someone else. As for the mother in law....well she's in a difficult position as well. Its her best friend's daughter...really what is she supposed to do? Tell her best friend..."I'm sorry but since your daughter slept with my son X number of years ago and he's now getting married she can't come over to my house anymore"

As for the person who "HAD" to tell you....seriously...####### is their problem? Like your SO said...its the past...why bring it up and toss it in your face like that.

Your mother in law probably assumed that it was the past and that you'd never know so it would never hurt you.


well our town in Cuba is so small...that everyone knows everyone...and I guess they told me since this girl is going over there this summer and there were rumors that she is going to see him...
I just pray for this process to be over...cus the drama is putting so much pressure on me..I had to set aside that incident on my first day in Cuba and try to take advantage of my time with him as much as possible....and this is tough...cus in one side is the pain of this and on the other 10days to try to be happy....I had to forget it and pretend like I didnt care cus I had missed him so much...


rumors that she's going to see him? Yeah that needs to be nipped in the bud. You don't need that kind of ####### right now. I still stand by the person that told you is an idiot. What you said is exactly what I was thinking...you go all the way there to see your man and have to deal with that BS? GRRRRRRRRRR that makes me so mad. You need to step back and take a look at the whole picture though. Do you feel she is a threat in anyway? Do you feel your mother in law is deliberately trying to be disrespectful? Do you feel your SO was trying to hide this from you or do you believe he figured it was insignificant and didn't tell you as it would just upset you for no reason. If you feel she isn't a threat, your mother in law was just pretending it never happened and your SO felt it was insignificant.....then I'd just let it go. Unless of course she's hitting on your man then its time to kick some a$$


i wouldnt say it better myself...he didnt tell me cus he thought I knew and because it was before "us", my mother in law didnt tell me because she didnt want to worry me with something that was insignificant (according to her), the chick is not a threat to me. She is a 20year old that doesnt work ,doesnt drive, doesnt do anything because her parents have lots of money. However, she is a female and very pretty unsure.gif and I still cant believe my SO went to low grrrrrrrrrrr.....I trust him..but I donttt trust women...I just hope I get my NO2 before she goes there(she is going for a 1month apparently) and knowing myself I would go nuts here knowing she is there....


Yeah I wouldn't want her there when you aren't either. That would drive me nuts too...this process is hard enough without dealing with the rumor mill.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:56:00
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QUOTE (LiLMermaid @ Jun 3 2009, 10:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Well my take on it....first yeah I'd be seriously annoyed. Your SO should have told you about it and not hear it from someone else. As for the mother in law....well she's in a difficult position as well. Its her best friend's daughter...really what is she supposed to do? Tell her best friend..."I'm sorry but since your daughter slept with my son X number of years ago and he's now getting married she can't come over to my house anymore"

As for the person who "HAD" to tell you....seriously...####### is their problem? Like your SO said...its the past...why bring it up and toss it in your face like that.

Your mother in law probably assumed that it was the past and that you'd never know so it would never hurt you.


well our town in Cuba is so small...that everyone knows everyone...and I guess they told me since this girl is going over there this summer and there were rumors that she is going to see him...
I just pray for this process to be over...cus the drama is putting so much pressure on me..I had to set aside that incident on my first day in Cuba and try to take advantage of my time with him as much as possible....and this is tough...cus in one side is the pain of this and on the other 10days to try to be happy....I had to forget it and pretend like I didnt care cus I had missed him so much...


rumors that she's going to see him? Yeah that needs to be nipped in the bud. You don't need that kind of ####### right now. I still stand by the person that told you is an idiot. What you said is exactly what I was thinking...you go all the way there to see your man and have to deal with that BS? GRRRRRRRRRR that makes me so mad. You need to step back and take a look at the whole picture though. Do you feel she is a threat in anyway? Do you feel your mother in law is deliberately trying to be disrespectful? Do you feel your SO was trying to hide this from you or do you believe he figured it was insignificant and didn't tell you as it would just upset you for no reason. If you feel she isn't a threat, your mother in law was just pretending it never happened and your SO felt it was insignificant.....then I'd just let it go. Unless of course she's hitting on your man then its time to kick some a$$

Edited by LiLMermaid, 03 June 2009 - 09:44 AM.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:43:00
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I think she would since your SO has already confirmed it and you confronted the girl. Who knows people choose to lie about the strangest things sometimes.


i confronted my mother-in-law not the girl....but since I did Iam sure she will tell the girl pretty soon if she didnt last night already...and Iam sure the girl will think she is a threat to me cus Iam upset..but w.e Im just upset that if we are engaged she has no business in my in-laws house..but that boundary should be set by my in-laws themselves out of respect for me...at least thats my thought...but again iam very old fashion when it comes to respect and relationships....


So are you saying that for our VJ reunion, I should be packing???? Myself and the 2 Richards will take care of the situation. devil.gif We will not let this chick mess with our Maire!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


glad to know u got my back!!!!!


Of course!!!!! Plus I love MOJITOS!!!!!!!!! And I will not let some random chick, spoil my trip to Miami and February VJ reunion. protest6wz.gif


mmmmmmm mojitos.......better make that a late reunion....I don't get my visa till way after you guys! lol Then again....I'll be in Tampa and you're in NY..I still may beat you to Miami. lol
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:32:00
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Happy Birthday Richard! Wherever you are..... biggrin.gif
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:29:00
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On another note..........guess who has a birthday today..... kicking.gif kicking.gif
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:28:00
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Well my take on it....first yeah I'd be seriously annoyed. Your SO should have told you about it and not hear it from someone else. As for the mother in law....well she's in a difficult position as well. Its her best friend's daughter...really what is she supposed to do? Tell her best friend..."I'm sorry but since your daughter slept with my son X number of years ago and he's now getting married she can't come over to my house anymore"

As for the person who "HAD" to tell you....seriously...####### is their problem? Like your SO said...its the past...why bring it up and toss it in your face like that.

Your mother in law probably assumed that it was the past and that you'd never know so it would never hurt you.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 09:14:00
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You guys will all be getting your NOA2's in the next couple weeks and it'll just be me and Richard left.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-03 07:20:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jun 2 2009, 01:28 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Sure... but you have to wear the hat for the rest of the day.



Rest of the week.

Screw that, I'll just go back to the corner tongue.gif


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SNIFF




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LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 13:12:00
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anybody notice the ads at the top of this page? One is for K-1 visa info and the other is a link for depressing poems...... A hint we need to cheer up, no? lol


QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 2 2009, 11:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I remember... I remember... it was the Virgin Maire!



She just got home from visiting her SO.....yeah I can't even comment on that one! rofl.gif

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 10:36:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 2 2009, 09:37 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Marika... let's go smoke!

Dang, Marika isn't it either!



hehe..no, that's not it either...but that's a pretty name..LOL!


Macarena?
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 09:59:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jun 2 2009, 09:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I think Maire is pretty sad. I can imagine how depressing it is. When I left my SO the last time it was very heartbreaking.

Maire, I hope you feel better soon. If anyone understands it's your extended family here on VJ

Yes, I think so as well, despite our valiant efforts in dazzling her with humor.



Yeah ...the kids and I went to visit my SO in March for 2 weeks. Leaving was brutal for all of us. I don't know who felt worse...him having to drive off and leave me standing there with 3 crying kids or me standing there with 3 crying kids. Maybe it was the poor guy that had to deal with us and take our luggage.....

Anyways...you guys are almost done the longest part of your wait. NOA2's should start coming in now and then Richard and I will have to move over to the March board and torment them for a month.

Get your a$$ back here Maire....we know exactly how you feel.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 08:59:00
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QUOTE (D_n_M @ Jun 2 2009, 09:42 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
YES...Get the original. The Lawyer doesn't need to have any of that. You should get all the Originals and keep them in your filing cabinet at home. Lawyer gets only copies of everything, no originals.



Yeah what is the deal with lawyers always keeping the originals?? Even my court documents that outlined child support etc. They got the original with the court seal and gave me a friggin photo copy and then I had to go to the court to get it certified....How does that make any sense?? What do they need it for??
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 08:46:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jun 2 2009, 09:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Lil' One!

Liz, sit still! You are making me dizzy!

I am eating my lunch now... I am actually late, I normally eat it around 8:30! Can you tell I am half Polish? smile.gif



lunch at 8:30 ...good lord! Apparently I know little to none about half Polish people cause I don't get it. Although if you have lunch at that time no wonder your always sneaking off from work early tongue.gif
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 08:24:00
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QUOTE (Nana119 @ Jun 2 2009, 09:03 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i've noticed some people get their NOA2 sent to their mailbox rather than their lawyer's. How is that possible? My NOA1 came to my lawyer and she made a copy for us.


Are you sure they had a lawyer? A lot of people on here didn't use one.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 08:09:00
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ut oh! Liz is bouncy....Macaroni is home...everybody is sounding cheerful. Should be an interesting day. Morning everyone!
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-02 07:31:00
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Heya Macaroni! Glad you're back...I know you're sad now but you'll be getting that NOA2 soon now and that should cheer you up!
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-06-01 16:36:00
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Nice job on getting such a good deal Richard. I am a little jealous that you may get to get married on the ship though. I don't think my SO would go for it. I would love it personally. Anything to make life easier.


We are planning on beach wedding....cheap, simple, painless. lol We've both been married before and we are planning on minimal guests. I just don't want to get married in a courthouse. We thought about the ship thing but I dunno.....the few people that we will be inviting might not be impressed.


I don't really want to get married at the courthouse... the chapels here are either TOO big or not very nice... I am not sure how many people would actually come to our wedding since we don't even know when it will be... So I figure we can take the kids, have a nice small wedding at sea... and vacation at the same time... then in the future, we can have a ceremony for others... or NOT smile.gif



Thats why I was thinking beach....doesn't matter how many show up! lol They have beach wedding companies in Florida, not really expensive unless of course you add in every option. We aren't going to be having too many people. The kids, his Mother, sister a few friends and my brother and his wife are hoping to attend. I think the kids would be disappointed if we did it on a ship and everyone wasn't there. They've been planning our wedding for over 4 years. lol
So I can go on the Hawaiian cruise after the wedding and not be leaving the country right? hmmmm......I thought I couldn't so we dismissed the idea of a cruise. I wonder if one leaves out of Tampa.
LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-05-29 07:48:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ May 29 2009, 08:10 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Nice job on getting such a good deal Richard. I am a little jealous that you may get to get married on the ship though. I don't think my SO would go for it. I would love it personally. Anything to make life easier.


We are planning on beach wedding....cheap, simple, painless. lol We've both been married before and we are planning on minimal guests. I just don't want to get married in a courthouse. We thought about the ship thing but I dunno.....the few people that we will be inviting might not be impressed.

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-05-29 07:20:00
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QUOTE (lee b @ May 28 2009, 12:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Richard I forgot you are a dirty stinky March filer. Your word means nothing in this forum. J/K. With the way things are I am sure you got your cruise done properly cruises are cheap right now. Some of my friends just booked one and my jaw dropped when they told me how cheap it was.

We are all playing the waiting game and I am glad that we all have each other to get it out of our system.



I followed him...I filed in April rofl.gif

Cruises....I wanted to go on a cruise for our honeymoon but since we can't leave till we get advance parole.... no cruise for us sad.gif I told the kids maybe next year instead we'd go on one.


You can do an Alaska or a Hawaiian cruise... they don't leave the country smile.gif



Well....last I looked there was a BIG chunk of Canada between Alaska and the rest of the states....they don't consider that 'leaving'? Really? Well I wouldn't pick Alaska cruise anyways...I'm leaving Canada for goodness sake....NO MORE COLD! lol Hawaiian though....yeah I could deal with that one. Where are you going on your cruise?

LiLMermaidFemaleCanada2009-05-28 18:20:00