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K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
hi guys! I havent been on here for ages hehe..how are is everyone? I just wanted to share with all of you my great news.. I just passed my medical last thursday afternoon and friday.. got my shots already too happy.gif Let us all keep praying for one another..God bless guys! and thanks for teh support too when I was still waiting.. God bless
newlywedsMale02009-09-05 01:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
congratulations to those who got approved smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-08-14 20:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (indopie @ Aug 12 2009, 02:08 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hello marchers who got NOA 2 and havent gotten yet which i believe very soon

how long usually to get NOA 2 hard copy after approval notice? ( in USCIS website said On August 6, 2009, we mailed you a notice that we have approved this I129F PETITION FOR FIANCE(E)
you think it will take until 2 weeks? what service the use to deliver it, US Post Office or Lost Office he he he sorry i am kidding biggrin.gif
thanks at advance for reply

give it a max of 2 weeks but mostly it comes after a week of getting the approval smile.gif 


I think they send it thru regular mail smile.gif


newlywedsMale02009-08-12 02:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (strega @ Aug 11 2009, 10:11 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dgard,,, tell the truth..your file is BIG also because you come from the state of BIG,,am i right rofl.gif

hi strega, how are you? so did you fill out the DSC forms yet? i practiced on them but I dont havemy passport so I had to skip that part smile.gif i had my passport renewed before anything else smile.gif

QUOTE (Dgard @ Aug 11 2009, 10:15 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (strega @ Aug 10 2009, 09:11 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
dgard,,, tell the truth..your file is BIG also because you come from the state of BIG,,am i right rofl.gif


That's it...time to move to rhode island...

QUOTE (Michey and Odessa @ Aug 10 2009, 09:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Stephen + Elisha @ Aug 11 2009, 09:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (strega @ Aug 10 2009, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ciao dgard,,,,,,,i cant beleive you are not approved yet......this is crazy the way they do things

Latest NOA2 from VSC had a NOA1 date of 5/1... now that's crazy! blink.gif





wow that is seriously unfair! 


August is coming up next diablo.gif headbonk.gif

Nah tons more march coming this week. Going to be a great week! Gotta be whistling.gif


yes yes they should otherwise their in for angry petitioners and benificiaries lol



newlywedsMale02009-08-10 21:18:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Stephen + Elisha @ Aug 11 2009, 09:49 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (strega @ Aug 10 2009, 09:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ciao dgard,,,,,,,i cant beleive you are not approved yet......this is crazy the way they do things

Latest NOA2 from VSC had a NOA1 date of 5/1... now that's crazy! blink.gif





wow that is seriously unfair! 


newlywedsMale02009-08-10 21:12:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Stephen + Elisha @ Aug 7 2009, 07:48 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Michey and Odessa @ Aug 6 2009, 07:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
so which site can we get the DS-156 AND the DS-156K? are those the only docs to send in for packet 3? we havent received the letter from the embassy though, ill prolly try calling them on monday as i looked up on DHL and they just received the package yesterday;


Sorry for all the unnecessary confusion.

First of all, the current versions of all visa forms can be obtained from the Department of State website at http://travel.state....forms_1342.html

From there, you must follow the link to http://evisaforms.state.gov to fill out the DS-156. You must fill out the form on the web page?when you click Continue, the web application will generate a prefilled PDF version of the form including a unique bar code containing all the information on the form. You can then print and/or save the PDF generated by the web application.

The other forms (DS-156K and DS-230) can be downloaded and filled out on your own computer. The problem with the Department of State versions, as you discovered, is that they don't allow you to save the entries. I downloaded each of these forms and enabled saving. These forms?current versions, exactly the same as the DoS site except that saving is enabled?are available at the following URLs:

DS-156K: http://tinyurl.com/l...ave-enabled.pdf
DS-230: http://tinyurl.com/l...ave-enabled.pdf

Different consulates have different requirements for Packet 3, so you'll need to check the individual consulate's website for the correct and up-to-date information that applies to you.




thanks a lot ! smile.gif hopefully i wont get confused again later on with other stuff lol and yes, you do seem like you know all about this stuff smile.gif 


btw, i dont know if ive already asked this but are these forms to be sent in, or more like are there any documents to be sent in during the packet 3 or will i just wait for the interview for these documents to be shown to them?

im sorry but honestly i get confused about packets3 and 4, if i need to send anything to the embassy or somewhat coz i keep reading off from people's timelines about them receiving and sending the packet 3. so i i just want to prepare the possible documents i may need to send in as to avoid any more delays smile.gif


newlywedsMale02009-08-07 21:57:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Farmer&JAO @ Aug 7 2009, 03:51 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Stephen + Elisha @ Aug 6 2009, 03:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Farmer&JAO @ Aug 6 2009, 03:09 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I've noticed that there is a more current DS-156 on the DOS website. The link below indicates the DS-156 is new and the expiration date is is 5/31/2011 as opposed to the 2010 form that Stephen sent out. Just trying to keep everyone current.
Okay, Great. Just a minor oversight.




http://evisaforms.state.gov/


I didn't upload the DS-156 at all. It must be filled out at the link above, as the web form generates a printout with a unique barcode when submitted.

I uploaded the DS-156K, which is the Nonimmigant Fiance Visa Application. The version I posted is the most recent version as downloaded directly from the Department of State. Per the DS-156K instructions, K-1 visa applicants must complete the DS-156 AND the DS-156K: "This form, together with Form DS-156, Nonimmigrant Visa Application, completed in duplicate, constitutes the complete application for a "K" Fiancé(e) Nonimmigrant Visa authorized under Section 222© of the Immigration and Nationality Act."

I also uploaded the DS-230 Immigrant Visa Application, which some consulates require as part of the Packet 3 information. Once again, the version uploaded is the current version from the Department of State website.



Okay great


so which site can we get the DS-156 AND the DS-156K? are those the only docs to send in for packet 3? we havent received the letter from the embassy though, ill prolly try calling them on monday as i looked up on DHL and they just received the package yesterday; 



newlywedsMale02009-08-06 18:07:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
congrats XR600SM & appledrop smile.gif God bless!
newlywedsMale02009-08-06 18:04:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Dgard @ Aug 6 2009, 08:47 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Aug 5 2009, 07:24 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (mari joe @ Aug 5 2009, 08:03 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
aaahh, your right, but arent those added today even though their approval was a day or two ago. maybe im just looking at it wrong.

I think they were added today, since my number in Igors changed...


Yeah same here. I've moved up a spot or two as well. Just don't think any have updated if they've been approved today yet.


 

it is vital to update the timelines right away, and it's one of things i hate; because this honestly helps out a lot; when i got the email from CRIS, after i settled down from all the excitement the first thing i did next was update my timeline lol my fiance would always remind me too, he would ask me to update any progress so that it can help others; 



newlywedsMale02009-08-05 20:11:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
hi guys, i see the approvals are still on their way smile.gif i called NVC today i felt stupid i told them on the last phone call if they have the visa number haha no wonder the woman said they dont i kept getting worried; i was supposed to say case number not visa number; anyway, im just sharing my confusion so none will end up making my mistake lol i thought they were the same thing hehehe biggrin.gif

oh yeah btw, i looked at the whole processing from NVC to the interview time, ive noticed that the VSC filers from my country have actually gotten interview dates faster than those from CSC so i guess it's not all unfair, we all have to wait
but yes, hang in there guys, i will keep praying for my march family's approvals and for our friends who had been denied, let's pray for strength and answers
newlywedsMale02009-08-05 19:11:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Aug 3 2009, 09:22 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Michey and Odessa @ Aug 3 2009, 09:14 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hello my march vsc family smile.gif i havent logged back on as much having to attend a training and seminar so, how is everyone doing? more approvals i guess smile.gif this forum has most definitely been very supportive and im thankful for having you guys around smile.gif

How is packet 3 coming? Are you ready for the interview? Medical and things all lined up?

well i've already prepared the files, but i still need to print off some more stuff like pictures and emails. i actually just got off the phone with NVC and they told me to call the consulate by the end of the week as they had mailed it last friday, so hopefully we cn hear more news by then hehe..ill do the medical a week prior to the interview; i actually expected NVC to say they haven't recieved it yet or more like "opened" our file but to my surprise they already mailed so the excitement is buiding up more lol  kicking.gif so, i will work on my dress by next week;

i still need to renew my passport though as ive just found out my passport wont be accepted by 2010 although it's still vaild til 2012; they want the machine readable so im doing that by tomorrow since it's still night time here  blush.gif



newlywedsMale02009-08-03 08:38:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
hello my march vsc family smile.gif i havent logged back on as much having to attend a training and seminar so, how is everyone doing? more approvals i guess smile.gif this forum has most definitely been very supportive and im thankful for having you guys around smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-08-03 08:14:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (rockhouse @ Jul 28 2009, 09:50 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Michey and Odessa @ Jul 28 2009, 08:33 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
thanks guys, you know what; ive been able to be a little bit stronger with the whole waiting because of all of you.. and i think who better to celebrate this good news other than my VJ march family hehehe.. and yes, pretty soon guys you can have yours.. just when i prayed this afternoon and finally acknowledged that it is in God's hands and to my surprise there was the email.. im just really very very thankful right now smile.gif
thanks Victor&Cory, mari joe, Farmer&JAO, R&AINC and rockhouse

im just very happy lol smile.gif


Hey Odessa, do you remember what number yall's case was on Igor's list before your approval? I'm just curious as where yall were sitting on that list compared to where we are now on it.........thanks!



we were at 152 last week.. made me sad when i kept lookin lol heheh biggrin.gif



newlywedsMale02009-07-28 15:45:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
thanks guys, you know what; ive been able to be a little bit stronger with the whole waiting because of all of you.. and i think who better to celebrate this good news other than my VJ march family hehehe.. and yes, pretty soon guys you can have yours.. just when i prayed this afternoon and finally acknowledged that it is in God's hands and to my surprise there was the email.. im just really very very thankful right now smile.gif
thanks Victor&Cory, mari joe, Farmer&JAO, R&AINC and rockhouse

im just very happy lol smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-28 08:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
tnx missy smile.gif looked it they sent it 12h ago lol.. it's night time here, and they sent me the email this morning at 7; i should've checked my email lol but it doesn't matter now.. now, i can finally tell my fiance we have been officially approved.. next stop NVC lol..well prolly call tomorrow morning
newlywedsMale02009-07-28 06:33:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (DeniseBill @ Jul 28 2009, 07:15 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Also Congratz ^^


i literally screamed when i logged in .. i saw CRIS.. i was very very excited LOL.. im still very surprised lol.. too bad ill have to wait til later to tell my fiance the great news biggrin.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-28 06:19:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
turned out i was checking the wrong email address! lol i kept checkin my fiance's when i registered my email address lol.. i can't wait to tell my boo the good news smile.gif i can't wait for him to land in hawaii..wow after his mission in laos, we finally have our wonderful wonderful surprise smile.gif
your nOA2s are coming too guys smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-28 06:16:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
OMG we have the NOA2 i am just so so so super duper excited lol and yes, the waiting pays off lol..
it was dated July 27, 2009 and our NOA1 was march 2, 2009 God is so good!
newlywedsMale02009-07-28 06:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
still no news on the NOA2 sad.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-27 19:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jul 23 2009, 10:12 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
I thought I might pass something on to my March family... Just now, since I am bored as can be, I decided to read the July 09 thread. I started from the beginning since there were only 3 pages. It was full of people posting they just sent in the 129f, check was cashed, NOA1 received etc. Any way, reading this, for me, brought back some of the enthusiasm I had when I first filed and took away some of the anxiety I currently feel.. at least for the time being... Maybe reading other Newbies posts will also inspire some of you?

Just a thought

haha i remember how we were too.. all we talked about was all that stuff; and our plans and everything! haha that was fun, VSC ddnt kill it but VSC sucks still for makin us take forever to be with the love of our life  mad.gif


but but they say everything happens for a reason.. maybe ours is that reason.. maybe we werent supposed to do the K-1 who knows hehehe  blush.gif


newlywedsMale02009-07-23 10:13:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
well my fiance and i are talking about keeping our options open; maybe ill just fly to Okinawa and get married there then when it comes for that time when we'll leave for US then, we'll just do DCF in okinawa; but it's still just an option for now

im gonna ask for Vjers advise and all plus he will talk to their admin about how that will be for us, me changing my status when i get to japan; coz im most likely flying their on a visitor visa and for me to legally stay more than 90 days he;ll have me get a SOFA status so he'll talk to a bunch of people first; coz from this timeline who knows plus maybe we can just get married here in my country;

so if the K-1 wont work out we'll do that instead smile.gif or file for a K-3 by then i can just wait with him

but learning of this option though made me excited lol
saves us time and money lol
all those air fares for both me and him flying to the US then to okinawa.. and the aos
at least if we'll do the DCF we'll just file for the CR-1/IR-1 and DCF takes lesser time too..

when he and i planned on the K-1 we were so clueless and thought this was the best option..
and when he talked to someone from their admin someone told him we should just do the visitor visa in japan then get married there..but this was a few months after we filed for the K-1 though
so for now we're still trying to figure that one out and of course pray for God's guidance about what to do but we wont scratch the K-1 yet
newlywedsMale02009-07-23 10:08:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
hello guys, i see there's no new update still sad.gif VSC sucks headbonk.gif !
newlywedsMale02009-07-23 06:48:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 23 2009, 04:22 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (AmyStan @ Jul 22 2009, 12:48 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 22 2009, 12:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey everyone!! What have I missed???? I realized yesterday that I might be a little addicted to you guys and checking in here all of the time! Arrived safely and having a wonderful time so far. I can't describe how wonderful and reassuring it was to see Lars again and be back in his arms. Hope the March approvals start arriving soon! Love to all!!!

Thanks for the update, Missy. You haven't missed any news on here - things are at a standstill for the most part. They must know you're out of the country and so are goofing off. Tell Lars he has a lot of friends here that he might not have known about. Enjoy your visit!!!



QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jul 22 2009, 01:57 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 22 2009, 01:37 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Hey everyone!! What have I missed???? I realized yesterday that I might be a little addicted to you guys and checking in here all of the time! Arrived safely and having a wonderful time so far. I can't describe how wonderful and reassuring it was to see Lars again and be back in his arms. Hope the March approvals start arriving soon! Love to all!!!

Missy, thanks for checking and letting us know you arrived safely....

I concur with Stan... tell Lars hello from all his friends he doesn't know he has smile.gif

He says hello back to everyone! I can see that nothing has happened in the day and a half that I have been away! Oh well....I feel that the first March approvals are just around the corner, but I can also feel the March natives getting restless over there!!




yes yes i for one am restless lol; ive been love sickthat's all   blush.gif


heheh jk, i have a few bouts of fever but the doc said it's not h1n1 so glad thats not it; but made me miss michey so much; yesterday was really one of those days when you really really want the NOA2 already, i got so depressed  crying.gif crying.gif


but iknow, i have to make that push a little bit longer.. im really really just trying so bad for this not to drive me insane lol  whistling.gif


newlywedsMale02009-07-22 17:25:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
no good news for me.. i dont know if we will ever.. and the sad thing is that we dont even have the NOA1.. we kept telling the military hotline they said they wont send us any other copy; this is really depressing; i cant stand it anymore, my whole life is tied to this, i thought a 5-month wait would be way too long but to my dismay look's like we're goin in that direction.. i dont know if ill ever get there..
thanks VSC, i completely feel hopeless now
newlywedsMale02009-07-21 18:26:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
still nothing on our NOA2.... i dont know when it will be.. i just keep praying that it ddnt get lost in all those files... sad.gif maybe, just maybe they will finally see it
newlywedsMale02009-07-20 23:43:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (jenny.h @ Jul 20 2009, 04:44 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
OK...now I´ll open my mouth finally..... been waiting and waiting and guess what?
I want my visa now!!!!!!!!! It´s sooooooo frustrating to wait..... blink.gif wacko.gif mad.gif
Things could really start rolling in Vermont.... blaaaah!
I´m just so afraid that I´m the one who´s papers are going to be under the pile that´s not checked at all for months and months.... unsure.gif
But hey.... I´m not the only one in this situation.... hugs to you all!
Lets keep hoping whistling.gif


-Jenny


i know how you feel.. im on march 2 and i dont know why we're still not hearing anything sad.gif


and im scared what if ours got dumped somewhere under other files  crying.gif crying.gif

it's been ages already we neeeeeedddddd the NOA2


newlywedsMale02009-07-20 08:50:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 20 2009, 05:26 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good morning everyone! I guess ya'll all know what today is, right??? kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif kicking.gif




ooohh even i am excited for you smile.gif i bet you were too excited and got up early too smile.gif


i know i wish too see my boo  crying.gif  






newlywedsMale02009-07-20 08:46:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 20 2009, 09:35 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
this post might get me hung but......



if you go to iraq ( not all cases but) you wait like 30 days maybe....

i sometimes wish i joined the military bc my princesa would be here already!
blush.gif


yes, they may get their expedites but they wont be there with their spouses for long; id rather wait a few more weeks than have my fiance deployed anywhere lol he had been deployed n afghanistan back then and said he doesnt wanna do that ever again; well neither do i smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-20 01:30:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 19 2009, 10:02 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Michey and Odessa @ Jul 19 2009, 09:54 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 19 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
have a safe trip missy! kicking.gif


and about the tourist and K-1 visa; she can only have one so she CAN'T hold on to the K-1 for later use and then get a tourist visa;

so she can get her K1 and hold on to it for the 6 months before she has to enter the usa and in that 6 months she can get a tourist visa? kicking.gif

I-129F Sent : 2009-04-22
I-129F NOA1 : 2009-05-05
I-129F RFE(s) :
RFE Reply(s) :
I-129F NOA2 : 2009-07-17


this is #######! mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif mad.gif
crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif

sorry, typo error lol blush.gif ..

ive got those darn headaches again  crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif


so had to quote myself again smile.gif look at the bold part though  blush.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-19 11:52:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 19 2009, 10:29 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
have a safe trip missy! kicking.gif


and about the tourist and K-1 visa; she can only have one so she can hold on to the K-1 and it later then use a tourist visa;





newlywedsMale02009-07-19 08:54:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 19 2009, 08:07 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (sensetarget @ Jul 19 2009, 06:38 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (missmissy @ Jul 18 2009, 10:36 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 18 2009, 09:29 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
have a safe trip missy! kicking.gif

Thanks, I will. And, I have about 14 hours flying ahead of me, I'll figure out all of your problems while I'm flying and then post the solutions here!!

Seriously, take it one bite at a time for a while, I have a good feeling about you two.

have a safe trip missy!




have fun on your trip.
ANd I might have been a bit too harsh. Something just doesn't addup but, again we should let him decide his relationship.

Thanks!

I am notorious for shooting from the lip and sounding harsh myself. I have to tell ya....I am sick of my visa journey right now! In my opinion - if we survive this, we can survive ANYTHING! If it wasn't for this group and a place to just vent or get some love, I don't know what I would do.

i know exactly how that feels like.. and i still think though i still want to get me some girl time lol get pampered so i can at least get rid of this stress lol




have a safe trip missy! smile.gif

havent visited here for a lil lol
still dont have any news yet on the NOA2
and ive been busy reading on about stuff like the AOS
i wanna start gathering those papers already smile.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-19 08:49:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 17 2009, 10:32 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
ok everyone !
ready?
i havent talked to rebeca since saturday but today she had emailed me and i figured we could talk.
i think im going there july 31- aug 5!
she was like you can come anytime
so i think i will go to try to reassure her of our love for eachother.
she is just so over this waiting #######!
i wish she would go on this site and read all the people that have to deal with
this waiting ####### too!!!
she thinks its just her or something!

well good luck everyone
unsure.gif

ive never had so many things in my brain at the same time!
i swear i ahve been supporting tylenol for the past 3 weeks!

have a nice day!


first of all, easy on the tylenol there  unsure.gif




and hey, her offering that you can come anytime seems hopeful  good.gif

i think she just misses you badly and just wants to be with you; sounds like a temper tantrum was her way of making you go visit her  blink.gif

but hey, glad to hear she still wants you to go  kicking.gif

definitely sounds good; and yes, that IS SO TRUE! have her come to the site and let her come to our forum where pretty much most of the people are venting and ranting about the wait lol; i do that when i feel like #######, then i get back toreality that life's not unfair everyone is waiting just like us lol blush.gif


newlywedsMale02009-07-17 00:41:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
aww im so envious of you missy! and cdn_gewels too..u get to see ur loved ones.. ive started reading on the stuff that needs to be done after the K-1 and so far, im still confused about some stuff lol; it needs a lot of reading and some threads are actually confusing and some info are ambiguous!
newlywedsMale02009-07-16 20:31:00
K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Case Filing and Progress ReportsMarch 2009 k-1 people
QUOTE (strega @ Jul 16 2009, 11:08 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
i just think that this RIGHT way of bringing your SO to america, is so ridiculas!!! we have to wait so long for it and we are not getting any younger........makes me understand why people just come over on a travel visa and get married and stay...........why not?? its too long of a wait and to me its just a money making scheme...........money for this, money for that////////its like, OK, you can pay us and you can come to america, but when you get here, you still will pay us more..until you get it....omg, im am so getting tired.....pretty soon im opting for plan B


lol we actually planned on getting a tourist visa for me to go to okinawa but then we thought it would be better to see each other in the states rather than there, saves money too lol there's a recession so we'll just wait and it's annoying..i havent seen him since forever! crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-16 01:17:00
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QUOTE (R&AINC @ Jul 16 2009, 04:57 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 15 2009, 10:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jul 15 2009, 08:00 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 14 2009, 09:34 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi everyone!
its been a long time since ive came on.
update on my fiance is ex fiance.
sunday she had told me she had gotten a really good
translation job in fortaleza,brazil and she
didnt want to move to the usa and leave everything and everyone.
mad.gif

i did all i could to make it work but she wasnt helping out any.
she chose money and work over her "soulmate" and person she cant live without.
HA

im not going to cancel it bc i wanna know how long it wouldve took for the NOA2
but she will get it in her mail and probably throw it out.

thanks to everyone, your advise helped me alot ,
AT LEAST I CANT SAY I DIDNT TRY!!

Carpe Diem

seize the day becuase you never know when your life will be flip flopped!


tchau!

david wilkerson ( no more Rebeca cavalcante barbosa)


it must not of meant to be unsure.gif

David,

First let me say how sorry I am that this has happened... truly I am.

Being older than the average bear here... and... well.... frankly almost as old as dirt itself... Let me also say... give it some time. Obviously we are not privy to all that has transpired for her and with the two of you and maybe there is even things happening that you are unaware of. All that aside, give it some time and try not to burn any bridges.

I remember talking with my SO early on about how brave she was for thinking about leaving everything and everyone behind to start a new life. To be honest, I am not sure I could do it. In fact, I am sure I couldn't do it. Maybe time will help things to work out between you... so I wouldn't cancel the application either. Maybe it will not work out, but you have nothing to lose by keeping the file active.

Keep the communication between you two open, honest and sincere. Try to be understanding (I know, easier said than done), try to be reassuring as well.

I truly wish you the best of luck in what ever you decide is best for you.

Richard

its been since saturday that i havent talked to her.
i just got a Carpe Diem / Dei Gratio latin anigram tattoo yesterday.

"by the graces of god, seize the day"

i prayed with all my heart and soul for him to not take my rebeca away from me and to help her be strong and he took her from me.

live each day to the fulliest becuase your under his graces!
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Think this for a second. Would you leave everything to go to Brazil?Be honest to yourself. You do not need to write the answer here.Just answer to yourself. Would you leave everything to go to Brazil? Maybe the answer will make you feel better.

Take away the prejudice that US is better than Brazil if you have it.

You would be leaving your family, your friends, your job, what made you what you are.

and if she has doubts now, imagine what can happen if she does come. She will miss home she will be sad, and she will make you sad.

If she decided not to come now, respect her decision. Once i heard:

let the cage open and let the bird free, if she comes back ... biggrin.gif ...if not... biggrin.gif


 
Richard, you're not as old as dirt lol; but definitely more mature and wiser than most; it's always good to hear about what someone that has more experience in life say 




and i agree with that quote "let the cage open and let the bird free, if she comes back ... biggrin.gif ...if not... biggrin.gif  " 

it you are both for each other, then she will come back; and at the same time just as it was said in another post, be reassuring still; and give her time

but don't lose faith, sometimes we may question God about what has happened, but know this: for everything, Give thanks for it is the will of God

for now, we may never know, you may never know and neither will she, but there is a great reason as to how this could happen;

always remember that when you gain something you lose something and when you lose something you will gain something else too;

if this is God's will for you, then truly He has other plans for you, He doesn't let us experience something that He knows we cannot surpass but He lets things happen because He knows we will be stronger so just keep praying and we will also pray for you; just offer everything to God and acknowledge His will because everything lies in His hands and not just solely from us.






newlywedsMale02009-07-15 18:56:00
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QUOTE (Richard-Joanna @ Jul 15 2009, 02:43 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
QUOTE (R&AINC @ Jul 14 2009, 02:19 PM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
well the good thing, is that we can associate with people that are going through the same journey. I now understand more the website name.

I can vent outside of this forum, but outsiders do not even know what this journey is....

Let's see if we can get our first march approval, since the one we got was february one...

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Then
USCIS devil.gif

Then
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Then
kicking.gif


here use this and clobber the VSC smile.gif




i will glady use that lol along with all the pans and pots i can find..c'mon you guys let's go to VSC and make all the noise we can til they pop out our approvals 



newlywedsMale02009-07-14 22:08:00
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QUOTE (faith0131 @ Jul 15 2009, 09:34 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
hi everyone!
its been a long time since ive came on.
update on my fiance is ex fiance.
sunday she had told me she had gotten a really good
translation job in fortaleza,brazil and she
didnt want to move to the usa and leave everything and everyone.
mad.gif

i did all i could to make it work but she wasnt helping out any.
she chose money and work over her "soulmate" and person she cant live without.
HA

im not going to cancel it bc i wanna know how long it wouldve took for the NOA2
but she will get it in her mail and probably throw it out.

thanks to everyone, your advise helped me alot ,
AT LEAST I CANT SAY I DIDNT TRY!!

Carpe Diem

seize the day becuase you never know when your life will be flip flopped!


tchau!

david wilkerson ( no more Rebeca cavalcante barbosa)


it must not of meant to be unsure.gif



oh no..really? wow.gif sheesh.. she doesnt know what she gave up on then.. i hate it when people do something like that, not fight for their love and all.



this whole waiting is getting more and more frustrating each day; i kept praying that maybe we would've been approved since june and up until now, nothing..



uscis should be happy and give themselves a pat on their backs coz they are a big factor aS to how some relationship get ruined! 



they need a kick on the butt more like it.. it's really so frustrating having to wait more and more days til any approval. and the thing is, i cant just see my fiance anytime coz we are really saving up on leave days so we can have a lot of time during the wedding and everyday that i keep hoping that maybe soon enough id get to see him, i just get even more and more disappointed; everyone tells me there's a reason behind everything and im sorry but i cant help it i don't want any reasons  crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif crying.gif i just want to see my fiance and yes a lot of people do not understand what this journey is mad.gif mad.gif



it makes me wanna pull my  hair out! im just absolutely very very upset at how SLOW they work!


newlywedsMale02009-07-14 22:05:00
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QUOTE (appledrop @ Jul 13 2009, 10:41 AM) <{POST_SNAPBACK}>
Good grief what a long wait this has been.

How is everyone hanging in? Any news?

We're still waiting to hear something. :/ It feels as if we've been forgotten about. The USCIS website says they haven't even checked out our file since March. What's up with that? :/

My fiance has been staying with me for the past two months but he will be leaving to go back to the UK in two days. It's tearing my heart out. This entire process is just wrong, you know? People should be able to be together and that's that. sad.gif

Warm wishes to everyone.


you're lucky you got to have your fiance for that long ; but the longer he had stayed with the harder it is when he leaves, so toughen up a little smile.gif my fiance was only here for only 2 weeks inclusive of travel times and it felt like nothing ive ever felt before; i couldnt understand how it was  crying.gif crying.gif even after a week or a month i still would end up crying so much because i missed our QTs.. 


hopefully you two wont have to wait for so long to be together again smile.gif 

this whole waiting and the beautiful outcome is the only thing that keeps me going; even though it's hard, at least we have something to look forward to plus it just proves how great our love is for our SOs..& it definitely makes our love stories so much more unique than others  blush.gif blush.gif


newlywedsMale02009-07-12 21:54:00
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yep they need to.. but it's good to see though that those who have been waiting since december are finally getting NOA2s, i cant imagine how that feels to have waited for so long
newlywedsMale02009-07-12 07:57:00
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why is the adjudication timeline moving the opposite direction? sad.gif at the moment it says we'd be adjudicated july 15-august sad.gif
newlywedsMale02009-07-11 11:01:00